A White Woman Explains Why She Prefers Black Men

[ALBballer]

http://www.nypress.com/18/49/news&columns/SusanCrainBakos.cfm

[kingpala]

wtf kind of white men was she going out with? Combover and viagra? Obviously this b!tch is ugly as hell. People tend to make up sh!t when they start to get rejected by the opposite sex so they can feel better about themselves.

She's lying about the black men too. She probably got it once and has been hooked ever since but black men don't give her the time of day either. 2 black men does not count as the whole ****ing race.

The slut has probably ****ed the whole village; gay or not.

[gb8]

lol cracked me up. Each to their own, but she does go a bit OTT with the feel of the skin stuff.Having been with my fair share of black asian and white women I havent noticed any difference in the touch of the skin.

[gb8]

wtf kind of white men was she going out with? Combover and viagra? Obviously this b!tch is ugly as hell. People tend to make up sh!t when they start to get rejected by the opposite sex so they can feel better about themselves.

She's lying about the black men too. She probably got it once and has been hooked ever since but black men don't give her the time of day either. 2 black men does not count as the whole ****ing race.

The slut has probably ****ed the whole village; gay or not.

Lol why u gettin so mad?

[rufuspaul]

Anyone got a pic of her?

[loot]

that broad is 50 years old!

anyway:

[QUOTE]White Sex
"White sex,'' I repeated, for the third time. Not right sex or wide sex or a new drug to do it to— which is what everyone imagined when I announced the subject— everyone being white, of course.

So let me spell it out for you: White sex, as in white people, and how they ****, and is there anything to it?

(I am reprinting this story here, by popular demand and provocation!)

White sex is commonly referred to as simply "sex." Whenever we hear the results of a new survey about how many males over 45 watch porn videos, or the number of women under 30 who have performed fellatio, we can picture the people behind the statistics clearly enough: white men and women responding to each inquiry, scratching their heads and pressing down hard with their Number-2 pencils.

Perhaps that is our first definition; that white sex is about white people being the erotic yardstick, the arbiters of public taste, the bearers of a terribly self-conscious, but largely unspoken, standard. White sex at its most transparent is the product of white Protestant or Catholic middle/working/no-class, absolutely assimilated, English-first Americans.

Now that we're alone, let's let our hair down, even though as white people that's exactly the thing we find so hard to do. The essence of white sex is sexual blandness and rigidity. Straight white male sexuality in particular is an endless source of folk humor as the bastion of **** retention. An anonymous social critic put it perfectly in the 1960s: "You're nothing but an uptight white *******.''

But why would anyone be a tightass, especially a white American male? Perhaps, as we've seen in so many tales about unsatisfied rich (white) Americans, there is something about the work ethic and the American Dream that entails paying an erotic and intimate price for material success. "He who has the most toys wins," reads a popular bumper sticker, but the winner may find he can't get it up anymore. Or he comes too soon. In either case, the winner, the man in charge, cannot relax. And if you can't relax, you can't get ****ed and enjoy it.

What makes white sexuality so dynamic is that, having been strung up as tight as a racket, white lovers are sensitive to the least little provocation. The high watermark of white sex is the white person who loses his or her head, and becomes a bona-fide sex maniac. As the late cookbook author Ernest Matthew Mickler put it, "I can just hear Raenelle and Betty Sue at every Tupperware party in Rolling Fork saying, `Ernie went from white trash to WHITE TRASH overnight.'''

Yes, the path from repressed nerd to bohemian libertine is one bright white circle, and it can lead from the first persona to the second as quickly as a whirl of J. Edgar Hoover's slip. Let's look at a gallery of some of our most stirring White Sex stereotypes:

YANKEE WHORE: The first time I visited Central America, I had a Spanish instructor who was eager to teach me card games and talk about sex. He told me his last Americana student kept a pet boa constrictor that she used as a dildo. He'd heard this was common. He laughed at my protests, knowing I was the voice of reason, but delighting more in the titillation of the rumor.

The white woman abroad is the symbol of feminine amorality. She's like that little kid who'll eat anything— except she'll **** anything. She has no shame, she's sexually voracious, and kinky is her middle name.

GWM: Weak, effete, and elite: that's the old-fashioned caricature of well-to-do whiteness as metaphor for male homosexuality. The recipe for being thin, rich, and lily white seems to have a narcissistic button just waiting to be pushed. It's the "white man gone wrong,'' which he accomplishes by ditching his family's expectations, though not necessarily his social privilege.

Unlike the straight white male version, who can't seem to unclench his jaw or his butt, the out-of-the-closet GWM is pegged as too blatant, too promiscuous, and a blabbermouth besides. The closeted version is just plain scary.

"****ing white ******'' is one of the most pervasive catcalls of the street, but it is also one of the most outdated. Gay fashion has steadily imitated hyper-butchness, rather than yearning for it, ever since Stonewall. Gender****, and consequently gay life, is also getting very unwhite lately, with publicity to boot. The gay diva of the decade is a black snap queen, not a limp (white) wrist.

THE STEPFORD WIFE WHO STEPS OUT: If you read your Winnie the Pooh books carefully, you remember that "James James Morrison Morrison Weatherby George Dupree" had a notorious mother who declared that she was going down to the Edge of the Town for a couple of things— and never returned. In the old days she probably stopped at a dark lounge where a woman in white bucks offered her a drink.

In the modern version, Ms. Morrison is so bored in the suburbs that she enrolls in a women's studies class. In the third week, her teacher addresses the Case of the Married Lesbian. Now Jimmy's mom is at the Dinah Shore golf tournament weekend in Palm Springs (does it get any whiter than this?) eating ***** and ecstasy. Her husband and children say they "will never understand what happened.''

ONCE YOU GO BLACK, YOU NEVER GO BACK: There are two classic ways for the white girl to lose her snowy facade: lesbianism and sleeping with black men. I remember in the 11th grade my friend Carol had been going steady with the same white teenage Marxist Leninist for six years, and she was in despair. She told me she would be happier with a woman, and confided her lesbian intentions, which was a popular pronouncement in Los Angeles circa 1975. But the next night she wound up in South Central with a black Marxist Leninist man, and she never mentioned the "L-word'' again.

Of course the most porno-typed notion about white women's (and the white homosexual's) attraction to black men is His Enormous Black ****, the body part she worships like a totem, the one thing that could "fill her up" after years of lackluster intercourse.

But ****-worshiping by itself is no more significant to the ******-loving white girl's wantonness, than her lesbian counterpart's purported lust for muff-diving. Miss Anne wants off her pedestal because she can't get off as long as she's stuck there. She wants to be treated like a Real Woman (say this with an ethnic accent); she wants to submit to "perverts" and "savages," and if it all goes according to clich

[Tarik One]

It's obvious that this woman is way past her prime with a lot of miles on her. It's no telling how many people have been inside that Stinkbox.

[sick_brah07]

obviously she jus likes the big COK

[playtetris]

generalising is fun!

women over 40 =

http://share.triangle.com/files/images/Raleigh,Lake%20Lynn,CrackedLakeBed,Aug%2017,2007,2 000w.preview.jpg

double meaning

[playtetris]

i have to admit, though, the writer of the article in the OP is pretty hot:

http://images.picturequest.com/common/detail/49/21/22652149.jpg

[ALBballer]

i have to admit, though, the writer of the article in the OP is pretty hot:

http://images.picturequest.com/common/detail/49/21/22652149.jpg

She can't be 50 years old......

[Rasheed1]

its tough when we dont know who this woman is.... people sometimes get upset when they hear that stuff..

If she likes black dudes, thats cool but there is no need to ridicule white guys... that makes for hard feelings and hate

[playtetris]

She can't be 50 years old......

:confusedshrug:

it may or may not be her... only pic i could pull up, though

http://thestateofblog.wordpress.com/2005/12/15/susan-crain-bakos-why-white-women-like-black-men/

[ForceOfNature]

i have to admit, though, the writer of the article in the OP is pretty hot:

http://images.picturequest.com/common/detail/49/21/22652149.jpg

That may just be a sample woman that they use for illustration in her books.

[picc84]

who gives a **** why you like black men. attention ho.

[ALBballer]

who gives a **** why you like black men. attention ho.

It's just her opinion, relax.

[InspiredLebowski]

http://i111.photobucket.com/albums/n155/Nappilocs/SBakos.jpg

think that's her

[Rasheed1]

after reading the whole thing, there is some truth to her article tho :oldlol: especially the part about how black guys in general approach women in a different way than most white guys.....

you could flirt with a white woman (nothing serious) and come to find out later that it really affected her in a positive way (sexual)... you got her attention and she is open...



but its a tough subject... people catch feelings when they hear this stuff

[Kebab Stall]

It's just her opinion, relax.
We know it's her opinion, but she didn't need to go so over the top with it. She sounded on the brink of obsession with black guys and basically insulting white guys.

[ALBballer]

We know it's her opinion, but she didn't need to go so over the top with it. She sounded on the brink of obsession with black guys and basically insulting white guys.

She was insulting white guys. From what I got from the article we're boring, lackluster in bed and have terrible skin. Except if your a dark Italian, maybe then you'll be good enough for her.

I think if I read this same article when i was younger, say 16-18, I probably would of been pissed and would be calling her a ***** and what not. But now, it has little effect on me. She likes black men fine, that's her opinion and I'll find someone else.

I hate to be so cliche but "Opinions are like *******s, everyone has them."

I wasn't to shocked when I saw the responses from some of you ishers.

[playtetris]

http://i111.photobucket.com/albums/n155/Nappilocs/SBakos.jpg

think that's her

wow, i couldn't have been more wrong. :roll:


They want me. We look at one another and exchange a visible frisson of sexual energy in the lingering glances.

am i the only one who thinks her florid prose is more than a little self-congratulatory? i mean, she looks like the anti-medusa (i.e. a look from her makes hard things soft). how is she supposedly scoring so much?

[loot]

I'll find someone else.


pics or...

[rufuspaul]

how is she supposedly scoring so much?

must take it in the a**

[Jimmy2k8]

[URL="http://www.nypress.com/21/31/news&columns/feature.cfm"]After years of living in the neighborhood, SUSAN CRAIN BAKOS

[InspiredLebowski]

This lady seems to look at black America as if it's some sort of alternate reality. It's members, the society as a whole, strictly exist for her enjoyment.

[ForceOfNature]

[QUOTE=Jimmy2k8][URL="http://www.nypress.com/21/31/news&columns/feature.cfm"]After years of living in the neighborhood, SUSAN CRAIN BAKOS

[Randy]

Q. Why do they say once you go black, you never go back?


























A. Because after they rape you they kill you.

[i seen hippos]

I'm going to **** black women with downy skin to spite her.

I'm sooooo chill like that.

[Action-Jackson]

Q. Why do they say once you go black, you never go back?

A. Because after they rape you they kill you.

idiot.

[i seen hippos]

idiot.

Black men rape white women at a very high ratio. facts are facts. You think we linched all those sugar lips for nothing? DO YOU? If you do you be calling us racist. Are you calling all of white America racist?

Cause I am.:banana:

**** America.:banana:

[JayGuevara]

This is ridiculous. I like to present myself as an equal opportunity pipe layer, and I adhere to the philosophy "It's all pink on the inside", or "We're all the same color with the lights off"

Regardless of your preferences in a partner, it's your own personal opinion, you shouldn't need to write novels to justify yourself for picking someone outside your own race. This woman seems like she just wants to stir the pot and justify herself to criticisms leveled at her for her preference, and feeding her own ego to explain why others may reject her. Just do what/who makes you happy, and **** the rest, or don't **** them, depending on your perspective.

[Phar]

NYT posted an article about mixed race people today...which was a bunch of crap. I don't want to hijack this thread though.

As far as this goes, fine if she likes one race over another (uhh...); but the "this race is better over this one" is her own opinion. Why she needs to announce this to the world has flown over my head. And yes, I kinda skimmed over the "article".

[i seen hippos]

Yeah because white men tend to molest little boys more.


See how that works?


Moron

Little boyz deserve to be molested. White women deserve to be bathed in a butter substitute.

Now what? You wanna mess with me? Does that seem like a ridiculously smart thing to do? Let me tell you that it wouldn't even be a 50% unridiculously smart thing to do.

What now, holmes?:confusedshrug:

[final.wrath]

to each his/her own.

one theory i've heard is that "big girls" are more attractive in black culture, and latino sometimes, than in white culture.

when i was in DC some black hobo saw me walking by and was like hey, hey man you see all these black dudes with these white women whats up with that huh? i'm white and just laughed at him like do I give a **** man?

its a matter of personal taste. these sociologists can come up with as many theories as they want but in the end its about the individual. i'm not attracted to 90% of black women. thats just me. i don't like the face mostly. and who actually prefers these huge photoshopped asses that just look deformed compared to a normal female ass?
and thats okay. especially people who are very ethnically african and not as mixed IDK man, some luol deng lookin women aint my thing. to each his own.

[Rasheed1]

stop provoking people hippos

[picc84]

I dont have a problem with IR dating. At all. What I do have a problem with is when people have to broadcast how much they love [insert race] and how much they despise [insert race]. Its absolutely nobody's business but your own, and it doesn't enrich anyone's life to know why you love black men or asian women or white men or whoever. In fact no one gives a ****.

[final.wrath]

the media is mind****ing all of us this article is an example

[i seen hippos]

stop provoking people hippos

The guy is a dumbass. He thought I was being serious.:oldlol:

[kingpala]

Lol why u gettin so mad?

'Cause I got 5 hours of sleep and I woke up to this bullsh!t. She's an attention whore, and now that I'm more relaxed, I can say that she can do whatever she wants. However, I don't like her generalizing whole races just because of some flings that she has had.

[Sharas]

This is ridiculous. I like to present myself as an equal opportunity pipe layer, and I adhere to the philosophy "It's all pink on the inside", or "We're all the same color with the lights off"

Regardless of your preferences in a partner, it's your own personal opinion, you shouldn't need to write novels to justify yourself for picking someone outside your own race. This woman seems like she just wants to stir the pot and justify herself to criticisms leveled at her for her preference, and feeding her own ego to explain why others may reject her. Just do what/who makes you happy, and **** the rest, or don't **** them, depending on your perspective.

about sums it up.

if she was really comfortable with the fact, she probably wouldn't feel the need to write the article which basically dismisses the possibility that woman can have good sex with a white man. granted, she's a columnist, she wants attention, but people who are really comfortable with themselves (and their sexuality) generally don't write and think in swooping generalizations.

and she never stops to think: "hey, what if for some reason i don't meet the right white men?" or god forbid, "what if right white men aren't interested in what i have to offer?" (which, judging by both the picture and the article, doesn't seem to be exactly appealing)

(another sidenote: from now on, whenever a chick says that men treat women as sexual objects, i'll send her link to the article:oldlol: )

[Laker4Lyfe]

The guy is a dumbass. He thought I was being serious.:oldlol:

Well seeing how I'm not a guy... you ARE a dumbass.

[picc84]

She's angry at white men (for some reason) and wants them to know that she's rejecting them. Thats all it comes down to. No other reason to whore her personal vices with them and preferences out.

[final.wrath]

Well seeing how I'm not a guy... you ARE a dumbass.

you're no more a guy than that pregnant "man" was

[i seen hippos]

Well seeing how I'm not a guy... you ARE a dumbass.

I'd probably think you were a guy if a saw you too.

[ElPigto]

**** America.:banana:

Viva Mexico puto!

[i seen hippos]

Viva Mexico puto!

Vivent longtemps le p

[ElPigto]

[QUOTE=i seen hippos]Vivent longtemps le p

[i seen hippos]

Live the Canadian fisherman a long time!

WHY?!?!

I enjoy eating fish.

[ElPigto]

I enjoy eating fish.

Oh okay, I don't even know why I asked.

:bowdown: Hippos (I hope your ego has grown since I know I've contributed)

[Rameek]

posting an article like this and anything that regards different ethnicities in this forum will not meet an objective, experienced mind nor a mature response. :cheers:

[i seen hippos]

Oh okay, I don't even know why I asked.

:bowdown: Hippos (I hope your ego has grown since I know I've contributed)

I have no ceiling like Kwame Milicic.

[ElPigto]

I have no ceiling like Kwame Milicic.

My ego has now grown a little. Thank you.

[Killer_Instinct]

:oldlol: Lot of angry folks in here.

[i seen hippos]

:oldlol: Lot of angry folks in here.

We hate black people and are proud of it.

[Dasher]

[quote=ALBballer]http://www.nypress.com/18/49/news&columns/SusanCrainBakos.cfm

[Killer_Instinct]

We hate black people and are proud of it.


I have always enjoyed the company of white people, except, of course, when it comes sports. I usually pick the white guy last. :oldlol: I'm not proud of doing it, though.

[i seen hippos]

I have always enjoyed the company of white people, except, of course, when it comes sports. I usually pick the white guy last. :oldlol: I'm not proud of doing it, though.

OMG I was just kidding. You are actually racist! Oh my.

J/K I pick the white dude last too. They are the worst.

[Killer_Instinct]

OMG I was just kidding. You are actually racist! Oh my.

J/K I pick the white dude last too. They are the worst.


:oldlol: I apologize man. To make up for it, I'll rep you. Just because you're white, of course.

[i seen hippos]

:oldlol: I apologize man. To make up for it, I'll rep you. Just because you're white, of course.

Not according to the KKK. We're like brothers.

[Killer_Instinct]

Not according to the KKK. We're like brothers.


That's all well and fine, B, but if you don't rep back, I'm reporting you as a racist. You really want Jesse Jackson & Al Sharpton to frequent ISH because of this? All it takes is a phone call.

[i seen hippos]

That's all well and fine, B, but if you don't rep back, I'm reporting you as a racist. You really want Jesse Jackson to frequent ISH because of this? All it takes is a phone call.

I will rep you but just know I'd piss on Jesse Jackson's face if I ever came across him.

And I bet my rep is 17 or so more points than yours.:oldlol:

[Killer_Instinct]

I will rep you but just know I'd piss on Jesse Jackson's face if I ever came across him.

And I bet my rep is 17 or so more points than yours.:oldlol:


Racist. Your kind owes me anyway.

[i seen hippos]

Racist. Your kind owes me anyway.

While your ancestors were getting whipped, my ancestors were serfs and being starved to death.

If I was British I would feel sorry for you.:)

I know I know, because I'm white it doesn't matter where I'm from. Somehow my ancestors used telepathy to suggest to the British to **** you guys over. lol

[Laker4Lyfe]

I'd probably think you were a guy if a saw you too.


:roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll:

[Dasher]

So many hurt feelings in this thread.










http://www.wsd1.org/greenway/feelings/119/hurt.jpg

[rufuspaul]

:oldlol: ^^

[kingpala]

Doesn't concern you as you **** doe's.

[rufuspaul]

Seriously, I don't know why any self respecting black man would f*** that skank ho. Especially in NYC where there's fine azz aplenty.

[Dasher]

Seriously, I don't know why any self respecting black man would f*** that skank ho. Especially in NYC where there's fine azz aplenty.Older white women in heat are the craziest cuts known to man. Try it out once.

[PistolPete]

Where does that leave the latino male?

[sunsfan1357]

Older white women in heat are the craziest cuts known to man. Try it out once.
Cougar status?

[Eldrunko247]

definitely a fat bytch. something like lisa lisa lampanelli
http://www2.pictures.gi.zimbio.com/8th+Annual+Trevor+Project+Benefit+Gala+5h4s-ic_f3Ml.jpg

[RoseCity07]

Someone has to love fat white women, if black men are up for the job then more power to them.:oldlol:

In all seriousness. People can't help if they have a preference. I'm mexican/white. I love black girls, they are so fine to me. I love latina. I went through an Asian stage. I'm not really attracted to any white girls.

This woman likes black dudes, good for her.

[Bigg]

as a black man, i have a 7.4 incher, but glutteusmaximus adipose levels take precedence over melanin levels.

[DirtBag]

as a black man, i have a 7.4 incher, but glutteusmaximus adipose levels take precedence over melanin levels.

and you call yourself bigg :lol

[embersyc]

I used to live with this white girl (roomates only, ugly face, definetely not my type) who claimed to only date black men.

When I first moved in she didn't have a boyfriend, but she was always taking to this dude on the phone. Well, I'm sitting in the living room overhearing her conversation because she always used the speakerphone and it turns out she is talking to some dude who is getting released from prison and is about to become her new boyfriend.

Well I didn't really care who she dated, but I certainly didn't want some dude fresh from prison coming and living there, and I made that clear. She started balling and begged me not to tell her mom, and said he wasn't going to be living there.

Still I didn't really want to be in the situation, especially cause the guy thought we had something going on. I kept trying to hook her up with black dudes I knew, but they all kept blowing her off, and pretty quick, this guy fresh from prison did the same thing.

It was funny because she bought him a phone and was always calling and screaming at him to come over. All this dude wanted was to make sure he had some ***** lined-up when he got out of prison. Once he was a free man he didn't need her anymore.

Me personally I enjoy all the fine colors of the flesh rainbow, I'm all for interracial sex and dating, but when a white woman says she only dates black men, I have to wonder if it isn't a self esteem issue.

[LebrickJames84']

Yeah, I think this goes both ways usually it is the black guy who gets bashed for going with the white chick, but the white chick is the one who is choosing to suck his D!ck.

[ALBballer]

Call me a racist, but I refuse to **** purple chicks.

[Chalkmaze]

Call me a racist, but I refuse to **** purple chicks.

You're nuts.

http://www.cyberpunkreview.com/news/Mystique.jpg

[phoenix18]

:wtf: Someone ban this guy.

[kentatm]

what a dumb ***** and a waste of internet space.

that read like note post on facebook.

[Kumo]

Why ban him? :P

[Splitz77]

good for her.lol..

Why the **** did i read that...

[Quizno]

my ex-girlfriend is half white/half black. she was very, very pretty. she looked mostly white but had a more mocha skin color.

anyway, nice article?

[White Chocolate]

A white woman past forty is often passed over by her white-male contemporaries.


But other races are quick to jump on it?



Black men are happy to get the babe they couldn't have when she was twentysomething and fertile.


If they couldn't have her when she was 25, why would they want her at 45?



We look at one another and exchange a visible frisson of sexual energy in the lingering glances.


Sounds like something out of a romance novel. :oldlol:



Black men have something white guys don't have anymore: confidence in their masculinity, their sexuality.


Really?



Yet black men are gentlemen, something else white men no longer are.


:roll:


This woman has put down her entire race and is blaming all her problems on the white man.

[SCREWstonRockets]

This woman has put down her entire race and is blaming all her problems on the white man.
Damn, she doesn't just like black men, but she must be one herself. :lol

[White Chocolate]

Damn, she doesn't just like black men, but she must be one herself. :lol


I know, right? :oldlol: I know there are some white women that prefer black men, but I have never seen any white woman put down the entire Caucasian race.

[plowking]

Wow, a lot of the white guys getting very defensive in here.

It's quite funny to see. lol.

[Bush4Ever]

Who cares?

Take care of your own business instead of worrying what some ancient white harpies are saying about white cocks.

[thejumpa]

White girls love us because they love black dick and want some black lovin....White guys can't do it like us! Lmao this topic always gets peopole going...

[CasterL]

haha this woman must have been seriously ****ed over numerous times by white dudes in her life. article tastes bitter.

[White Chocolate]

haha this woman must have been seriously ****ed over numerous times by white dudes in her life. article tastes bitter.


I don't think it could have been any more obvious. :oldlol: It's the same thing when guys get f*cked over by women time and time again. You pick the wrong men/women time and time again, you need to stop blaming them and take a look at which people you're choosing.

[plowking]

White girls love us because they love black dick and want some black lovin....White guys can't do it like us! Lmao this topic always gets peopole going...

You're white.

[Bush4Ever]

White girls love us because they love black dick and want some black lovin....White guys can't do it like us! Lmao this topic always gets peopole going...

lol omg then da white homegirls grow up an want someone who isn't in jail for slingin rock, so they go back 2 da white guy lol olololololollol


Stereotypes and false internet facades are funny!

Tee hee!

[Fallguy20]

You're white.

You're black.

:cheers:


I admit, as a white male that almost made me feel bad for a few seconds, then I realized that my boyish good looks and unrequited charm overcompensate for any deficiencies in skin color (no matter what they may be, depending on the female at hand, of course). My enormous genitals overcompensate as is, but whos counting?

[spree43]

Is this a sex and the city type author, I haven't clicked on the link and wil assume so

They are writing to an audience, single and married middle aged white women

And this is what they want to hear, don't go nuts over this stuff, of course she is exaggerating and lying in parts, but they want to read her life stories an ddream that they were her

that is also why they don't include her real picture, because people don't care what she looks like, it only matter what they can imagine