View Full Version : Asked a girl out, she said "maybe"
No.45
07-27-2009, 01:00 AM
I volunteer with her at a local hospital and i asked her out for some ice cream. She said maybe, then she walked away.
what should i do, ask her again? or does it mean no?
ugh.
MarloStanfield
07-27-2009, 01:00 AM
usually maybe means no unless she is playing hard to get.
B-Low
07-27-2009, 01:01 AM
Pretty sure that's a no. Especially since she said it then just walked away
i seen hippos
07-27-2009, 01:03 AM
She's a b!tch you want nothing to do with if she straight up walked away from you right after saying "maybe."
iggy>
07-27-2009, 01:03 AM
and your posting this because?
Clifton
07-27-2009, 01:04 AM
They have no idea how they torture us. If they did, they would know what kind of denial we want to hear: "NO." But we never ever get, "NO." We get a million different things, but if we want the word "no" we have to dig it out of them. they're trying to be nice, and nice has its place, but dammit, in the end we just want to know where we stand, it's that's so had to do with all these "nice" people around. With nice people you're forever in a gray area. You're never sure if they really like you and you're never really sure if they don't. Which is fine in most cases, but not with a girl you have feelings toward.
TMAC-RAPTORS
07-27-2009, 01:04 AM
How did she say it? Was she blushing?
Brujesino
07-27-2009, 01:04 AM
its a no
oh well dude pick yourself up and go for another girl
L.Kizzle
07-27-2009, 01:05 AM
It depends, did she say "maybe" and give you a little smile as she walked away?
iggy>
07-27-2009, 01:06 AM
It depends, did she say "maybe" and give you a little smile as she walked away?
wat would it mean if she was fingering her anus as she walked away?
lakers_forever
07-27-2009, 01:07 AM
wat would it mean if she was fingering her anus as she walked away?
He's right. If she smiled, she's just playing hard to get.
Killer_Instinct
07-27-2009, 01:07 AM
She may be playing hard to get. Usually though, 'maybe' is the nice way of saying 'no'.
IInvented
07-27-2009, 01:08 AM
that's a more of a no than a yes.. a girl doesn't say maybe and walks a way.. when she does, it's a no.. stop talking to her cuz of what she did.. it wasn't nice..
this is worthless without hearing the tone and seeing manuerisms. if you're not able to read the situation, then you might as well just move on
U got Served
07-27-2009, 01:08 AM
wat would it mean if she was fingering her anus as she walked away?
:oldlol:
If she said maybe while smiling, she's playing hard to get. If she said maybe with a serious face is a no.
iggy>
07-27-2009, 01:09 AM
this is worthless without hearing the tone and seeing manuerisms. if you're not able to read the situation, then you might as well just move on
/thread:applause:
Killer_Instinct
07-27-2009, 01:09 AM
Also, how the hell do you 'Maybe' ice cream? Bich, either you want an ice cream sandwhich, or you don't.
U got Served
07-27-2009, 01:11 AM
Also, how the hell do you 'Maybe' ice cream? Bich, either you want an ice cream sandwhich, or you don't.
is not about the ice cream
Hotlantadude81
07-27-2009, 01:11 AM
Sounds like you struck out.
maybe shes allergic to ice cream. ask her if she wants to go out for some waffles w/ chicken
Killer_Instinct
07-27-2009, 01:15 AM
is not about the ice cream
That's my point. She shot the man down in the nicest way possible. Keep it moving brah. The rejections get worse everytime.
No.45
07-27-2009, 01:15 AM
it happens to the best of us. She should've just said no!
B-Low
07-27-2009, 01:16 AM
maybe shes allergic to ice cream. ask her if she wants to go out for some waffles w/ chicken
this is true. If she turns down waffles and chicken she's just not interested. If Ghengis Khan himself invited me to waffles and chicken I'd go.
Killer_Instinct
07-27-2009, 01:19 AM
it happens to the best of us. She should've just said no!
She proably wants to keep you as a friend, and didn't want to make you feel like ****. You actually lucked out.
lakers_forever
07-27-2009, 01:23 AM
She proably wants to keep you as a friend, and didn't want to make you feel like ****. You actually lucked out.
If she wanted to keep him as a friend, she would have at least made a good excuse for not not accepting. She would serioulsy say maybe and walk away.
sixerfan82
07-27-2009, 01:23 AM
Grab her in the crotch area, that's how you find out if she digs you.
Killer_Instinct
07-27-2009, 01:32 AM
If she wanted to keep him as a friend, she would have at least made a good excuse for not not accepting. She would serioulsy say maybe and walk away.
Or she could tell him that if being ugly was an STD, he'd have full blown AIDS. I personally think Maybe is better.
globarticles
07-27-2009, 01:50 AM
a maybe isnt a no brah. a maybe means lemme see if i have better option than you.
hwliuLAP
07-27-2009, 02:17 AM
it's a not this time no.
don't ask her about it again, until a good opportunity comes by, and by good opportunities, I mean if accidentally you started talking to her for some random ****, than ease into it.
If you don't ever get that opportunity, yes, you just got rejected.
dashoebox
07-27-2009, 02:18 AM
donno buddy "no" is a tricky word in the world of girls. it can mean literally no, as in i'm not interested or "no" as in i'm just testing you to see what you will do afterwards, which usually translates to she will be a bitach. so just ask her again and if she says no then itz over, but if shez smiles or gives any positive sign then you can still talk to her. good luck!
IcanzIIravor
07-27-2009, 02:21 AM
I volunteer with her at a local hospital and i asked her out for some ice cream. She said maybe, then she walked away.
what should i do, ask her again? or does it mean no?
ugh.
Bet any ego you had went the way of the dinosaur.:lol
I definitely wouldn't ask her again unless you're desperate and don't mind looking a fool. I'd move on and do your thing. She knows if she snaps her fingers you'll come running.
lil_miketaylor
07-27-2009, 02:27 AM
nah she didnt say no u still got a chance with her, u just gotta make her feel comfortable be like yo ma whats poppin and shell be like nuttin nuttin and u be like so whats good for tonight and then before she can answer say lemme take you out for some ice cream cuz i think you sweet and i wanna git to kno u
if that dont work tell her to go smoke some dro w you in da back and once shes faded you be in there like swimwear
LA_Showtime
07-27-2009, 02:30 AM
You could...
A) Ask her what the hell "maybe" means
or...
B) Stalk her on facebook
oh the horror
07-27-2009, 06:50 AM
I volunteer with her at a local hospital and i asked her out for some ice cream. She said maybe, then she walked away.
what should i do, ask her again? or does it mean no?
ugh.
Go flirt with the next b*tch. Seriously bro, think about that answer. "Maybe?"
That sh*t seems kind of a condescending answer to me. She aint Queen Sheeba of the Nile. You asked her out, being nice, wanting to see whats up with ol' girl and shes going to hit you back with MAYBE?
Move on.
Im sorry bro, but females like that get NO play in my world. There are too many OTHER fishes in the sea for that nonsense.
By the time she figures out her answer, you should have already moved on mentally.
Batman
07-27-2009, 09:49 AM
I volunteer with her at a local hospital and i asked her out for some ice cream. She said maybe, then she walked away.
what should i do, ask her again? or does it mean no?
ugh.
Dammit Jeff banned fools like this please who make threads like these w/o any pics it is getting annoying fast. This thread has so much potential if and if only pictures were shown.
Batman
07-27-2009, 09:52 AM
To the OP its a no. When girls ask me out face to face and i don't want any part of them more that an a friend on the lower end of the friend spectrum i say " Maybe" text me in a few hours then i straight up tell them no in the text message. Then they curse me out the story of my life. :lol
snipes12
07-27-2009, 09:54 AM
its a no trust me
supersmashbros
07-27-2009, 09:55 AM
I volunteer with her at a local hospital and i asked her out for some ice cream. She said maybe, then she walked away.
what should i do, ask her again? or does it mean no?
ugh.
Maybe you just got rejected. There's nothing wrong with getting rejected when looking for a date. It's a long process of mostly failures for most ppl. Unless you have a specific target and you've been with her a long time, dating anyone you find on the street is very difficult. It's like finding a low-paying job as a student...it'll probably take several resumes and lots of failed attempts before you find what your looking for.
Raps4Life
07-27-2009, 09:58 AM
Dammit Jeff banned fools like this please who make threads like these w/o any pics it is getting annoying fast. This thread has so much potential if and if only pictures were shown.
:roll: "Maybe? Maybe? Come back here, I need a picture of you to show the guys at ISH. Only then can they figure out what your maybe means."
snipes12
07-27-2009, 10:00 AM
I volunteer with her at a local hospital and i asked her out for some ice cream. She said maybe, then she walked away.
what should i do, ask her again? or does it mean no?
ugh.
because your too nice by doing her a favor , that doesnt work ,treat her like ****
Batman
07-27-2009, 10:01 AM
You could...
A) Ask her what the hell "maybe" means
or...
B) Stalk her on facebook
this
supersmashbros
07-27-2009, 10:02 AM
:roll: "Maybe? Maybe? Come back here, I need a picture of you to show the guys at ISH. Only then can they figure out what your maybe means."
I guess ppl have no become afraid of reading text because it's too time consuming...afterall a pic can be worth a 1000 words. Yeah, I think any thread should have some pics...
shawbryant
07-27-2009, 10:06 AM
Try it again, maybe you have chance.
supersmashbros
07-27-2009, 10:26 AM
You could...
A) Ask her what the hell "maybe" means
or...
B) Stalk her on facebook
Option b is what I did and I am still doing...:bowdown: to facebook...it's the only reason I am still on there...
goldenryan
07-27-2009, 10:51 AM
the next thread should be i asked a girl out she said no. do i still have a chance?:roll:
Rocker09
07-27-2009, 10:54 AM
maybe usually means no if it came from a girl...
supersmashbros
07-27-2009, 11:00 AM
maybe usually means no if it came from a girl...
That's exactly what I was getting at. Maybe is more or less a eupheism is for no. It sounds more polite and is less heart breaking...I get that all the time...one of the last times was from that chick I use to post...
FIXED
07-27-2009, 12:02 PM
in the words of lilojmayo:
Attenshun ISHiots it means this and only this.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAZfuitWK2s
Automajic23
07-27-2009, 12:53 PM
somebody link that facepalm site for this guy
HisJoeness
07-27-2009, 12:56 PM
What's with the scarcity mentality? You obviously did not get the answer you were looking for. Move on she is not the only chick on Earth.
BlazersDozen
07-27-2009, 01:45 PM
maybe shes allergic to ice cream. ask her if she wants to go out for some waffles w/ chicken
If a girl asked me to waffles & chicken and was the ugliest chick on the face of the Earth...I'd go for the waffles & chicken.
HONESTLY though...
If she said maybe, no matter what, leave it alone.
If she meant a straight up no and you keep pursuing, then you become looked at as one of those stalkerish weird guys and it'll be hard for you to get another girl because all girls gossip about that ****.
If it's her playing hard to get then definitly leave it alone because you do NOT wanna become Captain Save-A-Hoe. You'll blow loads of cash and get nothing but your feelings hurt and get to maybe 2nd base with her after a month of diva bull****.
rufuspaul
07-27-2009, 01:54 PM
Find out who her favorite band is and get front row seats when they come to town. Tell her you have an extra ticket you don't know what to do with and when she asks if she can go say "maybe." Watch the look on her face. Then laugh it off and say you were just joking and that you'll pick her up at her place before the show. Then blow her off and take someone else.
Automajic23
07-27-2009, 01:59 PM
If a girl asked me to waffles & chicken and was the ugliest chick on the face of the Earth...I'd go for the waffles & chicken.
HONESTLY though...
If she said maybe, no matter what, leave it alone.
If she meant a straight up no and you keep pursuing, then you become looked at as one of those stalkerish weird guys and it'll be hard for you to get another girl because all girls gossip about that ****.
If it's her playing hard to get then definitly leave it alone because you do NOT wanna become Captain Save-A-Hoe. You'll blow loads of cash and get nothing but your feelings hurt and get to maybe 2nd base with her after a month of diva bull****.
Dem birdz dat be tryna pull dat diva **** need to get the P hands down mans down :pimp:
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