Found Out My Girl is Pregnant :(

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Okay, first of all, let me say that I'm 22 years old, and for many, that's a perfectly acceptable age to have children, but not for me. Not for me man! I'm way too young, a child having a child. That's how I feel right now. I mean, since 16 or so, I've felt like a man, but this experience is eating me up, I feel like a kid. I can't explain it! :mad: I can't deal with this right now. I can't cope with the thought of my world being turned upside down.

[Reef]

Name it after me.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Name it after me.
I don't even wanna have the thing.

I wish I could grow a pair like Doomsday and abort the SOB.

[L.Kizzle]

Okay, first of all, let me say that I'm 22 years old, and for many, that's a perfectly acceptable age to have children, but not for me. Not for me man! I'm way too young, a child having a child. That's how I feel right now. I mean, since 16 or so, I've felt like a man, but this experience is eating me up, I feel like a kid. I can't explain it! :mad: I can't deal with this right now. I can't cope with the thought of my world being turned upside down.
Use condoms ... and it's not the end of the world, unless you're not with the lady you had the baby for.

[Trademan]

I smell abortion.

Congratulations :cheers:

[Reef]

I don't even wanna have the thing.

I wish I could grow a pair like Doomsday and abort the SOB.

Sorry man, just joking.

What does your girl wanna do? Is she set on keeping it?

[L.Kizzle]

I don't even wanna have the thing.

I wish I could grow a pair like Doomsday and abort the SOB.
You got her pregnant, deal with it like a man.

[Reef]

http://images.asia.ru/img/alibaba/photo/50471635/Wire_Hanger.jpg

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Sorry man, just joking.

What does your girl wanna do? Is she set on keeping it?
Yeah.. I feel like I should take it into my own hands though if you know what I mean. I mean it sounds sick and all.. but in the long run it might be a blessing for us both if I did..

[DeuceWallaces]

Ouch, and why did it happen. It's not that hard to take birth control or wear a condom or both.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

You got her pregnant, deal with it like a man.
Uh... I am? I'm posting here for advice aren't I????

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Ouch, and why did it happen. It's not that hard to take birth control or wear a condom or both.
You can't feel shit with condoms... And i dunno why she didn't take the pill. She says she was ready for one. i was duped boys...

[L.Kizzle]

Uh... I am? I'm posting here for advice aren't I????
You just said you don't wanna have it. This should be a happy day for you, you're bringing a child in to the world, with your girl.

I can see if you had a life and you got a phone call from some one night stand chick and said she's pregnant and it's yours.

[Jailblazers7]

sucks man...birth control and condoms.

[Quata]

http://cdn2.knowyourmeme.com/i/1900/original/Falcon_Punch.jpg

[Chuck Thou NBA]

You just said you don't wanna have it. This should be a happy day for you, you're bringing a child in to the world, with your girl.

I can see if you had a life and you got a phone call from some one night stand chick and said she's pregnant and it's yours.
BRO.

You do not understand how it feels til the ball is in YOUR court.

I gotta step back and look at this as a whole. I mean ask my boy Dooms, now is NOT the time to bring a baby into THIS world. The end is near.

[Scoooter]

"Take it into your own hands"? As a euphemism for abortion, I'm envisioning that as you literally strangling her uterus...and I giggled. Also, the picture of the wire coat hanger made me laugh. Which is awful.

Man, none of this is funny.












lol

[Chuck Thou NBA]

http://cdn2.knowyourmeme.com/i/1900/original/Falcon_Punch.jpg
I wish we skated. :cry:

[Chuck Thou NBA]

We have steep stairs...............

[L.Kizzle]

BRO.

You do not understand how it feels til the ball is in YOUR court.

I gotta step back and look at this as a whole. I mean ask my boy Dooms, now is NOT the time to bring a baby into THIS world. The end is near.
Well, it won't be in my court. I don't whine about "I can't feel nothin' with this rubber on." Welcome to the real world, you don't use condoms, she's not on the pill, this was bound to happen.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

listen to the song, it'll relax you
No

[Juges8932]

Man, that sucks bro. Tough luck.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Well, it won't be in my court. I don't whine about "I can't feel nothin' with this rubber on." Welcome to the real world, you don't use condoms, she's not on the pill, this was bound to happen.
I will come to Houston and kick that ass.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

I'm taking this ***** to the Maury show to get a paternity test if I decide to let her have it. I think she may have been ****ing this old guy... Can't say who he is for legal reasons, but it's straight CREEPY!

[L.Kizzle]

I will come to Houston and kick that ass.
Hey, I'm bein real dude. I have friends who don't use condoms or not on the pill and they have kids. And they all were shocked when they got the news.

[GollyImSoGully]

We have steep stairs...............

I LOL'd.

[Wreck Shop]

I will come to Houston and kick that ass.

you can't take the time off. you have a kid to feed. you'll be free again when you're 40 (41 I guess)

[Reef]

I wish we skated. :cry:

It's never too late to learn...well maybe 9 months is too late.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Hey, I'm bein real dude. I have friends who don't use condoms or not on the pill and they have kids. And they all were shocked when they got the news.
You make me sick. You're gonna harp at me for this when your own "friends" have struggling with this mind crippling news before?? I'm literally sick to my stomach right now.

[L.Kizzle]

You make me sick. You're gonna harp at me for this when your own "friends" have struggling with this mind crippling news before?? I'm literally sick to my stomach right now.
I'm not gettin at you bro, you're the one saying your world was over and you didn't want to have. One of my first post was that you should be happy about this.

[Reef]

I hope you got a good job man. Diapers, food, clothes are expensive. A wire hanger on the other hand costs a few cents lol.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

I'm not gettin at you bro, you're the one saying your world was over and you didn't want to have. One of my first post was that you should be happy about this.
Easy for you to be an optimist. You have to ability to grow an afro. :(

[asd]

have a baby by me, baby

be a millionaire

[v-unit]

Morning after pill?

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Hold on, she's calling right now......

[Reef]

Morning after pill?

Too late.

[Reef]

Hold on, she's calling right now......

Maybe she found out she's having twins.

[Doomsday Dallas]

I don't even wanna have the thing.

I wish I could grow a pair like Doomsday and abort the SOB.


whoa whaoa whaoa....

what?

I have two children.


I don't feel like even talking about this subject because... because...:oldlol:

I was 22 when I found out the bad news also. (8-9 years ago)


Good Luck is all I can say... and say a prayer while your at it.

[Meticode]

Okay, first of all, let me say that I'm 22 years old, and for many, that's a perfectly acceptable age to have children, but not for me. Not for me man! I'm way too young, a child having a child. That's how I feel right now. I mean, since 16 or so, I've felt like a man, but this experience is eating me up, I feel like a kid. I can't explain it! :mad: I can't deal with this right now. I can't cope with the thought of my world being turned upside down.
You're not a man if you're complaining about it ****ing up your life. Man-up, accept the responsibility and make the best out it. If you're positive about it and invest your life in it you'll surprised how much your kid makes you happy once they're born.

The same thing basically happened to me and I'm pretty sure if you decided to have the baby you're going to be stressed from here on out up until after a month or two after they're born. It's normal.

Good luck. I hope you make the right choice.

[Bosnian Sajo]

Bro, don't abort. If you guys don't want it, put it up for adoption after birth. But don't abort, thats just wrong :ohwell:

[L.Kizzle]

Maybe she found out she's having twins.
Or she's octo mom part II.

[Geandily]

Think about it this way guys:

He's dumb enough to think that he will find any useful advice on a BASKETBALL FORUM.

He's dumb enough to not use condoms with a girl he thinks is screwing around on him.

He's enough of a dick to think that he can force the girl to get an abortion.



His life wasn't going anywhere anyways, the only sad thing about this is that this baby will get half of its genes from him and another ****tard will be born.

[Doomsday Dallas]

I'm way too young, a child having a child. That's how I feel right now. I mean, since 16 or so, I've felt like a man, but this experience is eating me up, I feel like a kid.

Oh man... you are gonna need some serious support.

I hope your parents want grandchildren.

[Meticode]

Tell me what you hear, something that'll light those ears, something that's so insincere, so I'm gonna give all my secrets away, this time you're not going to live another perfect lie, don't care if critics say I jumped in life, I'm gonna give all my secrets away.

[Doomsday Dallas]

Think about it this way guys:

He's dumb enough to think that he will find any useful advice on a BASKETBALL FORUM.

He's dumb enough to not use condoms with a girl he thinks is screwing around on him.

He's enough of a dick to think that he can force the girl to get an abortion.



His life wasn't going anywhere anyways, the only sad thing about this is that this baby will get half of its genes from him and another ****tard will be born.


that wasn't very nice.

who are you? Jesus Christ?

[LA_Showtime]

Adoption or abortion. I would choose the latter, but that's just me. Be honest with her. Tell her you aren't ready and that you don't think either of you could support a family at this point in your lives.

[Meticode]

Tell her you'll be a man and not a coward. You'll do everything to make the life inside her succeed and have her be happy.

[Geandily]

that wasn't very nice.

who are you? Jesus Christ?

Obviously not.

Why the random comparison to Jesus Christ though? In no way was I acting Christlike.



OP: You aren't going to go very far in life, but at least make your life respectable eh? Do the right thing man.

[Meticode]

Obviously not.

Why the random comparison to Jesus Christ though? In no way was I acting Christlike.
You must believe everything the media tells you about Mr. Christ.

[Doomsday Dallas]

Adoption or abortion. I would choose the latter, but that's just me. Be honest with her. Tell her you aren't ready and that you don't think either of you could support a family at this point in your lives.

At this point... it's no longer your choice... it's the woman's choice.

[Geandily]

At this point... it's no longer your choice... it's the woman's choice.

Yup, his time for decision making was over looooong ago.

[Doomsday Dallas]

Obviously not.

Why the random comparison to Jesus Christ though? In no way was I acting Christlike.


Because you must be perfect?

People don't talk about bull $hit problems they encounter in their lives on this forum anymore because there is always somebody to talk $hit.

yea... maybe the internet isn't the best place to talk about personal $hit, but sometimes I like to vent about my problems here.

Here you are already calling his baby a retard... Thanks... you are great man.

[JayGuevara]

It's a reality of life. But we're all aware of the consequences of our actions, and as such, have to deal with them if they do in fact arise.

I know that its hard to go back to condoms after going without, that's something I have to retrain myself in, but it's damn near a must these days with the staggering statistics for STD's, and of course your scenario. Also, I've decided that I will no longer believe a girl is on birth control unless I see her take that pill with regularity. Too many stories of lying who-ores. And last but not least, pulling out. If she swallows the payload its harder to get pregnant. :oldlol:

[Meticode]

If women swallow, they'll get pregnant then the baby will explode from their stomach after 3 months.

[Bobcat4Ever]

I hope you got a good job man. Diapers, food, clothes are expensive. A wire hanger on the other hand costs a few cents lol.

:oldlol:

[DeuceWallaces]

I would definitely suggest an abortion at 22, but it's her choice.

[simcjt]

thanks for the support dooms..

and the fact is.. i may not have to worry for long. she's 50/50 on an abortion she says. i mean, with her genes being the same as mine... our child may have deficiencies...
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: Next your going to say the old man she is sleeping with is your pops right

[Chuck Thou NBA]

I would definitely suggest an abortion at 22, but it's her choice.
:cheers:

[Reef]

thanks for the support dooms..

and the fact is.. i may not have to worry for long. she's 50/50 on an abortion she says. i mean, with her genes being the same as mine... our child may have deficiencies...

:ohwell:

[Bobcat4Ever]

You are a sick f*ck for wanting an abortion. How selfish can you be? Man the f*ck up and take this child. Make it a growing experience for yourself.

[simcjt]

I didn't mean to say that... delete your post plz.
:oldlol: Theirs no way this is true but Its funny as hell.

Chuck Thou NBA " come on sis, you don't make dad wear them why do I have to"

[Meticode]

Dang, I got fooled by a bait thread. No one's pregnant at all.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Dang, I got fooled by a bait thread. No one's pregnant at all.
:no:

My girl really is pregnant.

[Bosnian Sajo]

Same Genes...:lol

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Same Genes...:wtf:
I meant cuz we're both of German/Irish decent..

[pete's montreux]

Obvious troll be trollin'. You seriously believe this guys?

[DeuceWallaces]

:no:

My girl really is pregnant.

Pics or it didn't happen.

[Bosnian Sajo]

I meant cuz we're both of German/Irish decent..


I know that you didn't mean you ****ed your sister, no one in this forum is THAT crazy (Cept for maybe J$ :lol).

But as I said, don't abort, put the booger up for adoption.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Obvious troll be trollin'. You seriously believe this guys?
**** you, you're not in my shoes!

[Bosnian Sajo]

Obvious troll be trollin'. You seriously believe this guys?


I don't see why not to believe it, shit like this happens every day.

[pete's montreux]

**** you, you're not in my shoes!

You're right. If I was, I'd be on ISH trollin' right now.

[Jailblazers7]

Obvious troll be trollin'. You seriously believe this guys?

I thought he even gave away his acccount to someone so we dont even know if this is a total troll account now.

[pete's montreux]

It's almost as believable as the /\bstrax HIV thread, in which I was the first and only person to call bullshit and I was right.

[simcjt]

Obvious troll be trollin'. You seriously believe this guys?
Someone probably believed him in the first 2 pages before he just got lazy and said f it. I think it could have really gone somewhere but he is ready to wrap it up.

[Bosnian Sajo]

I thought he even gave away his acccount to someone so we dont even know if this is a total troll account now.


Oh yeaaaa he did...**** you troll!!! :oldlol:

[Chuck Thou NBA]

You're right. If I was, I'd be on ISH trollin' right now.
Maybe it's because you have no life.. And since you're addicted to this website, I assume you would become paranoid after a bit. ISH is a drug to you isn't it? You know they make 12 step programs for a reason, right?

[pete's montreux]

This guy didn't post for months and months and all of a sudden he starts posting this week, even got banned for a few days. Obvious troll be obviously trollin'.

[sixerfan82]

I don't get it...

You were man enough to **** the girl

You were man enough to probably brag about it to your boys

but you aren't man enough to take responsibility for your actions.

I hope the kid kung fu's your ass on it's way out of it's mother.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

:rolleyes:

I have my account back you guys.

[Bosnian Sajo]

This guy didn't post for months and months and all of a sudden he starts posting this week, even got banned for a few days. Obvious troll be obviously trollin'.


Yup, I fell for it bad.

[pete's montreux]

Check and mate. See you later fella's. Work here is done.

[Styles p]

i was 18 when my girl got pregnant. its not the end of the world.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Check and mate. See you later fella's. Work here is done.
Why don't you address me yourself? You keep talking about me "trollin", but you have no proof. I came on here to talk about this to some men who might've had a similar experience, but somehow I get the biggest virgin on the board "calling me out" for trolling. :applause:

Check and mate? You take this site toooooo seriously, amiga.

[Reef]

I feel so used.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

I feel so used.
Don't I'm not lying!! :mad:

[Showtime]

Thanks for polluting the planet because you can't pull out.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Thanks for polluting the planet because you can't pull out.
Precum still gets a girl pregnant, you fool.

Nice avy though. :cheers:

[dnyk1337]

I thought you were a middle-aged high school basketball coach? Or does your age/profession change yearly? gtfo

[pete's montreux]

I thought you were a middle-aged high school basketball coach? Or does your age/profession change yearly? gtfo

Exposing this guy was so easy.

[Bosnian Sajo]

Hey, at least you can now wear this shirt since you were lying:


http://www.crazydogtshirts.com/catalog/i%20pull%20out.jpg

[Chuck Thou NBA]

I thought you were a middle-aged high school basketball coach? Or does your age/profession change yearly? gtfo
Middle aged? :no:

never did I say that. And yessir, I used to help coach my nephew's team. He's 9 now.

[Doomsday Dallas]

You are a sick f*ck for wanting an abortion. How selfish can you be?

It's not sick.

it's damn near a natural feeling.



My stance on abortion is... neutral... I don't support abortion... but at the same time,.... people have the right to make a choice.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

It's not sick.

it's damn near a natural feeling.



My stance on abortion is... neutral... I don't support abortion... but at the same time,.... people have the right to make a choice.
Thanks for being the only real mo****a in this thread Dooms. At least someone listens to fact.

[catzhernandez]

Maybe he is telling the truth?

[~primetime~]

**** bitches...

































































get money...

[~primetime~]

It's not sick.

it's damn near a natural feeling.



My stance on abortion is... neutral... I don't support abortion... but at the same time,.... people have the right to make a choice.
there are plenty of legit reasons to get an abortion...

just "being 22" isn't one of them though...

[Doomsday Dallas]

**** bitches...

































































get money...


what the f*ck did you do tonight?

[catzhernandez]

**** bitches...

































































get money...
:oldlol:

Primetime made a funny.

[~primetime~]

what the f*ck did you do tonight?
I'm not drunk if that is what you are thinking...

not off that wagon yet...

[shadow]

Having a kid is a big responsibility and also very expensive. On top of that you have to deal with a ton of crap as your chick goes through a hormonal roller coaster during the 9 months and also after delivery. It also changes your life completely in terms of hanging out with friends, going out etc. Don't get me wrong, there is a ton of emotional reward for having a kid, the feeling is hard to describe but it comes with a lot baggage. You both really need to want the kid and also make sure you can afford the kid. It's a life long commitment.

And one last thing...I hope all the guys reading this took note of the fact he trusted his girl to be on the pill and ditched the rubber. You never do that, ever unless you're OK with having kids with her.

[Showtime]

**** bitches...
get money...
http://img.moronail.net/img/6/5/1465.jpg

[~primetime~]

http://img.moronail.net/img/6/5/1465.jpg
:roll:

that is fantastic...

[Doomsday Dallas]

I'm not drunk if that is what you are thinking...

not off that wagon yet...

yea but did you go to the club?

[catzhernandez]

http://img.moronail.net/img/6/5/1465.jpg
:roll:

I love those.

[~primetime~]

yea but did you go to the club?
no I did not...

tomorrow night...

you down to go?


OR DO YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH SOME B*TCH ASS CHILDREN!!!

:lol

[Doomsday Dallas]

no I did not...

tomorrow night...

you down to go?


OR DO YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH SOME B*TCH ASS CHILDREN!!!

:lol

you did something tonight.

crack?

[~primetime~]

you did something tonight.

crack?
yeah just a little...

I wonder if the OP was reffering to me with the abortion thing...hmm

[Jailblazers7]

Doomsday with a straight interogation of primetime lol

[Andrei89]

Abortion? No Sir.

When you have kids later you will always think of the first one you killed. And i am not talking religion here . Just think about it if you don't abort him h will have a life just like you.

Say your mom aborted you?

I have no idea why you talking about growing a pair of balls for abortion when actually deciding to have the kid requires the biggest balls. When you abort him you don't have balls you a ***** ass f@g

[Abd El-Krim]

MAZEL TOV!

I slipped my first one past the goalie at 22 as well. Luckily the girl wasn't down and we pressed the delete key.

[Take Your Lumps]

I don't even wanna have the thing.

I wish I could grow a pair like Doomsday and abort the SOB.

Sack up, dude.

Are you living in poverty? Are you physically incapable of taking care of a child?

You know what to do.

[Jasi]

Instead of aborting, why don't you just wait until the baby's out and then smash his head with a hammer?
The result is the same, no?


PS I know, troll be trollin'...

[catzhernandez]

Stairs sounded like a neat idea.

[Hawker]

You are a sick f*ck for wanting an abortion. How selfish can you be? Man the f*ck up and take this child. Make it a growing experience for yourself.

It's more than an experience dude. It's not something he experiences and then that's it...it's for 18-25 years of his life. Probably more.

[ukplayer4]

http://img.moronail.net/img/6/5/1465.jpg


:roll: :roll:





seriously chuck, ignore what people are telling you about manning up and all of that, i feel really bad for you man. you have to try and convince her to abort it- there are alot of backward people over there- many of them residing in this thread it seems. if shes your age and you both dont have great careers already its arguable that you are doing more harm then good by bringing a child into the world. tell her you are not even close to ready, try and make her see reason, you can always have a child later in life no need to throw both your lives away. i hope for your sake she is a reasonable person and listens to your point of view. if this fails- threaten to leave the country, whatever it takes. if she agrees and aborts and then you break up because you didnt stand by her thats an acceptable loss, anything to prevent the impending doom. you are 22 years old for christs sake, having a kid means your life is over for 20 years, no time, no money, no sleep for a couple of years, rediculous expense etc etc etc.

[Jasi]

:roll: :roll:





seriously chuck, ignore what people are telling you about manning up and all of that, i feel really bad for you man. you have to try and convince her to abort it- there are alot of backward people over there- many of them residing in this thread it seems. if shes your age and you both dont have great careers already its arguable that you are doing more harm then good by bringing a child into the world. tell her you are not even close to ready, try and make her see reason, you can always have a child later in life no need to throw both your lives away. i hope for your sake she is a reasonable person and listens to your point of view. if this fails- threaten to leave the country, whatever it takes. if she agrees and aborts and then you break up because you didnt stand by her thats an acceptable loss, anything to prevent the impending doom. you are 22 years old for christs sake, having a kid means your life is over for 20 years, no time, no money, no sleep for a couple of years, rediculous expense etc etc etc.

Yeah, and you killed a baby in the process.
I guess that's an acceptable loss as well.

[ukplayer4]

Yeah, and you killed a baby in the process.
I guess that's an acceptable loss as well.




that is more than an acceptable loss, i feel.

[Jasi]

that is more than an acceptable loss, i feel.

So I ask again, why don't you just wait that the baby is out and smash his head with a hammer?
What's the difference?
That should be acceptable too I guess...

[vapid]

So I ask again, why don't you just wait that the baby is out and smash his head with a hammer?
What's the difference?
That should be acceptable too I guess...
Difference is one is socially acceptable (in some places) and the other is not.

[RaininThrees]

You got her pregnant, deal with it like a man.

There you go. I'm not about to get all preachy, bcs I'm sure no saint, but if you're man enough to do the deed, you'd better be man enough to deal with the consequences.

[Qwyjibo]

Abortion would be the best option for you. It's a shame that she seems like she wants to have it. Your life as you know it will probably end once you have a kid to take care of. Think of all the things that you want to do in life that will be so much harder because you will now be working all week for the additional support then probably have to spend time with the family/kid on weekends. The good part of your life is over.

Option #2 in my case would be moving to Europe and starting a new life while still sending money over to avoid any legal complications.

Yes, I am VERY against having children and don't have much of a conscience when it comes to this.

[Jasi]

Difference is one is socially acceptable (in some places) and the other is not.

Sure, but that's kind of preposterous, don't you think? Because the outcome is the same.

[EroticVanilla]

Dude would you rather the baby not exist and and have no concept of it's life, or raised by someone who openly admits he's not ready to raise the child? He's only 22 so he probably has some shit Wal-mart job and won't be able to support it financially, and I get the feeling from his post he won't look after it emotionally either. So it's either no child or a potentially poor neglected child, personally I'd choose the former.

[rezznor]

say goodbye to the best years of your life
say goodbye to having a care free 20's full of irresponsibility spontaneity
say goodbye to having no one else to answer to or worry about except yourself
say goodbye to a good chunk of your income for the next 18 years.

say hello to not getting enough sleep
say hello to dirty diapers
say hello to child support
say hello to responsibility

[Jasi]

Dude would you rather the baby not exist and and have no concept of it's life, or raised by someone who openly admits he's not ready to raise the child? He's only 22 so he probably has some shit Wal-mart job and won't be able to support it financially, and I get the feeling from his post he won't look after it emotionally either. So it's either no child or a potentially poor neglected child, personally I'd choose the former.

Go ask that poor neglected child if he is ok with being killed.
'Cause you know, he's poor and neglected, so you can kill him.
You can kill all the poor and neglected in this world, actually.

[LongBeachLakers]

Well abortion really isn't murder, because the sperm is not fully developed yet. It's just a bunch of cells at that stage of development. If abortion is murder, so is master bating.

[EroticVanilla]

Dude they wouldn't want to be killed now because there conscience and actually have a concept of life and death, but I guarantee most of those kids would much rather have been born into better situations if they could have. Anyways it seems you would rather put someone through a shitty life (I'll admit I'm assuming, but going off how the potential dad is posting in this thread I don't think he'll do to well) or have them just never exist and not have neither a positive or negative existence. From my point of view it's actually better to abort then let them grow up with no love, financial security etc.

[rezznor]

Well abortion really isn't murder, because the sperm is not fully developed yet. It's just a bunch of cells at that stage of development. If abortion is murder, so is master bating.
if you have no idea of what you are talking about then you should probably just not say anything.

[LongBeachLakers]

a high probability of your child beign a criminal or murderer if you dont raise it properly. So abort it to avoid the burden society will have.

[DukeDelonte13]

Do what's best for the kid. If you can get at least one of your guys' families to help you guys out in caring for the baby it won't be so bad. If the world is against you, and you don't got a job, you don't got money, you aren't in a stable relationship, its probably not right to bring the baby into the world. Unless you put it up for adoption.

[~primetime~]

Sure, but that's kind of preposterous, don't you think? Because the outcome is the same.
well let's just wait until it turns 10 to see if we want it arond, and if not just shoot it in the head...

outcome is the same...:confusedshrug:

EXACT same terminating microscopic sperm in an egg I would say...:ohwell:

[Marv_Albert]

Deal with it bro.

[Jasi]

well let's just wait until it turns 10 to see if we want it arond, and if not just shoot it in the head...

outcome is the same...:confusedshrug:

EXACT same terminating microscopic sperm in an egg I would say...:ohwell:

Yes, it's the same, when the egg is fecundated, it's a human life.

This is a human embryo at 8 weeks (http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/0b/Human_Embryo_-_Approximately_8_weeks_estimated_gestational_age.j pg)

Would you feel comfortable with cutting into pieces?

[~primetime~]

Yes, it's the same, when the egg is fecundated, it's a human life.

This is a human embryo at 8 weeks (http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/0b/Human_Embryo_-_Approximately_8_weeks_estimated_gestational_age.j pg)

Would you feel comfortable with cutting into pieces?
semantical arguement of when exactly a human life is "human life"...

that isn't a "life" IMO...but if it is your opinion then fine...we disagree

[Abd El-Krim]

Sure, but that's kind of preposterous, don't you think? Because the outcome is the same.

It's going to grow old and die anyway, might as well kill it early. Outcome is the same. :confusedshrug:

[Jasi]

It's going to grow old and die anyway, might as well kill it early. Outcome is the same. :confusedshrug:

No it's not, the outcome I'm talking about is "you killed him".
Which isn't the case if you let a man grow old

[Dasher]

http://cdn2.knowyourmeme.com/i/1900/original/Falcon_Punch.jpg :roll:
As for your problem, it is your fault. Deal with the consequences. If you loved yourself, you would have worn a condom, or you would have dropped the chick who could use birth control.

[Abd El-Krim]

No it's not, the outcome I'm talking about is "you killed him".
Which isn't the case if you let a man grow old

Causality is a little antiquated, don't you think?

[Jasi]

Causality is a little antiquated, don't you think?

:)

[Bandito]

Yes, it's the same, when the egg is fecundated, it's a human life.

This is a human embryo at 8 weeks (http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/0b/Human_Embryo_-_Approximately_8_weeks_estimated_gestational_age.j pg)

Would you feel comfortable with cutting into pieces?
I would.

[Jasi]

I would.

You're Bandito for a reason :D

[Bigsmoke]

Okay, first of all, let me say that I'm 22 years old, and for many, that's a perfectly acceptable age to have children, but not for me. Not for me man! I'm way too young, a child having a child. That's how I feel right now. I mean, since 16 or so, I've felt like a man, but this experience is eating me up, I feel like a kid. I can't explain it! :mad: I can't deal with this right now. I can't cope with the thought of my world being turned upside down.

hell yea n*igga name that kid after my username. On the real.

[mattevans11]

chuck if you are trollin you are a dLck.

if not, you are a poor excuse for a human being..... if you want nohting to do with the child and the mother does, then man up and leave her and pay her monthly. i certainly think you are smart enough to know that having unprotected sex could result in this. you dont have to be the father in this child's life, but you really need to step up and give the kid a chance. that would start with child support and possibly talking your girl into giving the baby up for adoption. there are couples all over the country that can not have kids. give them the blessing to have one rather than to go the abortion route.

if you would have gotten an STD would you kill yourself...beacause that is what you are essentially doing to this child........

there are things that are affected by aborting as well, might make it difficult for your girl to have a baby later in life.

but for the record i think you are trollin........

if not, ISH is the last place you should come to for advice...... think about it....some people opinions on a bigtime decesion in your life was to post a picture of a wire hanger....... think about that for a minute

[shadow]

You guys do remember that the real Chuck sold his account on ebay or something during the summer... It's not him.

As for whether it's fake or not, very possible that it's fake.

what kind of an idiot buys an account for a free message board?

[shadow]

One that makes this thread. I'm not positive if he sold it or just gave it away... Either way, take his posts with a grain of salt.
Weird the stuff people will do to get some laughs. Thanks for the heads up.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Yes, I gave my account to playtetris several months ago, and he gave me the PW to his account. We had our laughs, but this is still my account.

Believe me or don't, I don't really care. If I don't care about the potential baby growing in my girl's belly, you really think I give a flying v-neck if you guys think I'm trolling??

I came here to see if anyone's ever taken matters into their own hands. Or what kind of option C or D's there are.

It sounds sick, but is their a food-poisoning I can give her??

[Chuck Thou NBA]

DISCLAIMER:

I'm not a murderer, I just wanna fix my problem as well as my girl's. She's seriously out of her mind and doesn't know what's best for me AND her.

[IcanzIIravor]

Yes, I gave my account to playtetris several months ago, and he gave me the PW to his account. We had our laughs, but this is still my account.

Believe me or don't, I don't really care. If I don't care about the potential baby growing in my girl's belly, you really think I give a flying v-neck if you guys think I'm trolling??

I came here to see if anyone's ever taken matters into their own hands. Or what kind of option C or D's there are.

It sounds sick, but is their a food-poisoning I can give her??

Bout to get your Rae Carruth on aren't you?

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Bout to get your Rae Carruth on aren't you?
That's sick, man. That guy was a murderer, and his girl was like 8 months pregnant right? I wouldn't kill the baby past month 1 or 2.

[~primetime~]

Yes, I gave my account to playtetris several months ago, and he gave me the PW to his account. We had our laughs, but this is still my account.

Believe me or don't, I don't really care. If I don't care about the potential baby growing in my girl's belly, you really think I give a flying v-neck if you guys think I'm trolling??

I came here to see if anyone's ever taken matters into their own hands. Or what kind of option C or D's there are.

It sounds sick, but is their a food-poisoning I can give her??
I don't believe you anymore...

why lie about this?

makes no sense...:ohwell:

[IcanzIIravor]

That's sick, man. That guy was a murderer, and his girl was like 8 months pregnant right? I wouldn't kill the baby past month 1 or 2.

Have you seen what you've wrote on this thread? Now you want to call something sick? :roll: :roll:

[AtomSmasher]

ever see juno? very scary movie.

[Meticode]

ever see juno? very scary movie.

I liked it a lot.

[AtomSmasher]

I liked it a lot.
yeah it's a good horror movie bro. teen pregnancy isn't funny to me.

[Meticode]

yeah it's a good horror movie bro. teen pregnancy isn't funny to me.

It wasn't a horror movie to me. I liked the comedy-drama aspect of it. When she said meat swords I shook my head smiling.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Have you seen what you've wrote on this thread? Now you want to call something sick? :roll: :roll:
:wtf:

I'm talking from the heart bro.

[AtomSmasher]

It wasn't a horror movie to me. I liked the comedy-drama aspect of it. When she said meat swords I shook my head smiling.
yeah im just messing around. it's definitely funny and well written.

[Meticode]

yeah im just messing around. it's definitely funny and well written.
I know. I'm coming off super-serious right now. Like usual I suppose.

[catzhernandez]

Juno was gay.

[IcanzIIravor]

:wtf:

I'm talking from the heart bro.

Yes I am aware thoughts of food poisoning your girl and pushing her down the stairs is from the heart. I'm waiting for you to include a third party so we can get a full blown conspiracy and potential hit going.:cheers:

[Meticode]

Juno was gay.
I don't think they ever referenced her in the movie as being a lesbian.

[IcanzIIravor]

I don't think they ever referenced her in the movie as being a lesbian.

It's in the credits I'd bet.

[catzhernandez]

I don't think they ever referenced her in the movie as being a lesbian.
"Juno" was gay.

Better?

[Meticode]

"Juno" was gay.

Better?

I don't think the movie at all is on the premise of homosexuality. I think it's about teen pregnancy. At least that's what I thought when I watched it.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Yes I am aware thoughts of food poisoning your girl and pushing her down the stairs is from the heart. I'm waiting for you to include a third party so we can get a full blown conspiracy and potential hit going.:cheers:
Listen:

I AM NOT A MURDERER!!

I just want to save me AND my girl. I'm saving two lives, while probably saving three, because my girl won't do ADOPTION. She wants the kid to suffer. I have emotional issues... ADHD.. Outbursts. I mean it's hard to control myself when SHE'S crying for 20 minutes. Let alone a baby for 20 hours!!!

[catzhernandez]

I don't think the movie at all is on the premise of homosexuality. I think it's about teen pregnancy. At least that's what I thought when I watched it.
http://img28.imageshack.us/img28/168/batmanfirstiwasliker.jpg

[Meticode]

http://img28.imageshack.us/img28/168/batmanfirstiwasliker.jpg
So at first you were Batman then you were Batman still. Okay...

[catzhernandez]

So at first you were Batman then you were Batman still. Okay...
At first I popped a boner for your wife. And then it went away. It's hard to see in that pic. But that's what i was conveying.

[Meticode]

At first I popped a boner for your wife. And then it went away. It's hard to see in that pic. But that's what i was conveying.
I don't have a wife, don't you know this? You're behind on the times my friend.

[catzhernandez]

I don't have a wife, don't you know this? You're behind on the times my friend.
Wanna be MySpace friends? :cheers:

[Meticode]

Wanna be MySpace friends? :cheers:
I haven't MySpace'd in almost 2 years.

[catzhernandez]

I haven't MySpace'd in almost 2 years.
Oh so you were merely a 48 year old creeper when you decided to call it a myspace career, huh? Well better than being 50..

[Meticode]

Oh so you were merely a 48 year old creeper when you decided to call it a myspace career, huh? Well better than being 50..

Yes.

[HitandRun Reggie]

http://www.thecomedynet.com/wp-content/gallery/inspirational-poster/childsupport%20payments.jpg

http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/alien.gif

[IcanzIIravor]

Listen:

I AM NOT A MURDERER!!

I just want to save me AND my girl. I'm saving two lives, while probably saving three, because my girl won't do ADOPTION. She wants the kid to suffer. I have emotional issues... ADHD.. Outbursts. I mean it's hard to control myself when SHE'S crying for 20 minutes. Let alone a baby for 20 hours!!!

Well this is a hallmark moment. You just opened up to me like I am Barbara Walters. You knew all of this about yourself before you started banging her raw right? I would think pushing her down the stairs could lead to a host of issues if done wrong, so I'd practice if I were you. Food poisoning probably won't get the job done. Do you have a buddy skilled at hitting women? A few punches and kicks to the stomach could do it. You need a third party because I don't think your girl will hug you if you do it.

Too bad the A-Team isn't real.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Well this is a hallmark moment. You just opened up to me like I am Barbara Walters. You knew all of this about yourself before you started banging her raw right? I would think pushing her down the stairs could lead to a host of issues if done wrong, so I'd practice if I were you. Food poisoning probably won't get the job done. Do you have a buddy skilled at hitting women? A few punches and kicks to the stomach could do it. You need a third party because I don't think your girl will hug you if you do it.

Too bad the A-Team isn't real.
Hey Bawbwa. :cheers:

But in all seriousness, it should be obvious that I love my girl more than anyone could humanly fathom. I can't live when I'm without her. I can't sleep. I'm addicted to her. We've been together for as long as I remember, so we should be tight.

but the fact is, we're both not ready for this darned kid. It's going to be embarrassing if anyone knows I got her pregnant. Beyond embarrassing. This child cannot happen.

I hear vodka, orange juice, and babies don't mix.

[catzhernandez]

Deep.

[Meticode]

-est, bluest!, my hand is like a shark's fin!

[IcanzIIravor]

Hey Bawbwa. :cheers:

But in all seriousness, it should be obvious that I love my girl more than anyone could humanly fathom. I can't live when I'm without her. I can't sleep. I'm addicted to her. We've been together for as long as I remember, so we should be tight.

but the fact is, we're both not ready for this darned kid. It's going to be embarrassing if anyone knows I got her pregnant. Beyond embarrassing. This child cannot happen.

I hear vodka, orange juice, and babies don't mix.

It's up to her at this point. If she keeps the baby you're just going to have to grow up. You can pressure and pressure but if she wants to keep it you can step up, go on Maury saying it isn't yours, vanish and dodge child support, or put on a ski mask, disguise your voice to sound like Mike Tyson and yell out 'Sonic Boom' as you Terry Tate her.

[AtomSmasher]

when there's no one watching

[Chuck Thou NBA]

when there's no one watching
what the **** is that supposed to mean??

I've been getting so sick of your remarks.

[IcanzIIravor]

what the **** is that supposed to mean??

I've been getting so sick of your remarks.

Well you're going to have to do it when you are alone. Can you really hurt the girl you love though? I mean for one thing she isn't very far along right? So to induce a miscarriage you'll have to wait a bit or literally poison her to induce vomiting. Presents an interesting conundrum. Hurting her to help her. That is deep.

[Jackass18]

Listen:

I AM NOT A MURDERER!!

I just want to save me AND my girl. I'm saving two lives, while probably saving three, because my girl won't do ADOPTION. She wants the kid to suffer. I have emotional issues... ADHD.. Outbursts. I mean it's hard to control myself when SHE'S crying for 20 minutes. Let alone a baby for 20 hours!!!

Your parents should have aborted you.

[AtomSmasher]

post a pic of your girl?

[HitandRun Reggie]

post a pic of your girl?

http://img21.imageshack.us/img21/3579/blowuppreggers.jpg

http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/alien.gif

[AtomSmasher]

http://img714.imageshack.us/img714/3286/ash9.jpg
nice work son.

sweet necklace, lol - you buy that for her?

[catzhernandez]

http://img21.imageshack.us/img21/3579/blowuppreggers.jpg

http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/alien.gif
You're the last of a dying breed.

[Reef]

nice work son.

sweet necklace, lol - you buy that for her?


I think he made it for her in arts and craft.

[rezznor]

Yes, I gave my account to playtetris several months ago, and he gave me the PW to his account. We had our laughs, but this is still my account.

Believe me or don't, I don't really care. If I don't care about the potential baby growing in my girl's belly, you really think I give a flying v-neck if you guys think I'm trolling??

I came here to see if anyone's ever taken matters into their own hands. Or what kind of option C or D's there are.

It sounds sick, but is their a food-poisoning I can give her??
is this u>?

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/b/ba/Spetersonmug1.jpg/150px-Spetersonmug1.jpg

[RedBlackAttack]

She's arts and crafts-inclined. That's why I love her.
Do you get down on Chopin's Waltz in A minor for her?

[AtomSmasher]

Do you get down on Chopin's Waltz in A minor for her?
off topic - but tv on the radio is a great, great band.

do you listen to them at all?

dear science is an excellent album - reminds me a lot of bowie.

[Chuck Thou NBA]

Do you get down on Chopin's Waltz in A minor for her?
More of a Beethoven's 4th Symphony kind of man. It gives me longer time to work. :D

[IcanzIIravor]

http://img21.imageshack.us/img21/3579/blowuppreggers.jpg

http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/alien.gif

:oldlol:

[RedBlackAttack]

off topic - but tv on the radio is a great, great band.

do you listen to them at all?

dear science is an excellent album - reminds me a lot of bowie.
My bro in Portland passed Return to Cookie Mountain on to me a couple of years ago. I dug it, for sure. I haven't delved any deeper than that, however. I'll give Dear Science a listen.

[Hawker]

I think he made it for her in arts and craft.
:oldlol:

[Hawker]

Do you get down on Chopin's Waltz in A minor for her?

I remember this dude posted a video of him to songbird.

[goldenryan]

Okay, first of all, let me say that I'm 22 years old, and for many, that's a perfectly acceptable age to have children, but not for me. Not for me man! I'm way too young, a child having a child. That's how I feel right now. I mean, since 16 or so, I've felt like a man, but this experience is eating me up, I feel like a kid. I can't explain it! :mad: I can't deal with this right now. I can't cope with the thought of my world being turned upside down.
http://i29.tinypic.com/34ss8ow.jpg

[Hawker]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=at-4NoIqbVs

Chuck thou posted this video and said it was him lol

[Younggrease]

Ouch, and why did it happen. It's not that hard to take birth control or wear a condom or both.

it almost happened to me a couple months ago, it least it could have and i was scared. My chick was on birth control but was taking antibiotics and the condom broke. But we got the day after pill to make sure and it worked. But honestly there was a chance it wouldnt even using both forms of protection.

[rufuspaul]

it almost happened to me a couple months ago, it least it could have and i was scared. My chick was on birth control but was taking antibiotics and the condom broke. But we got the day after pill to make sure and it worked. But honestly there was a chance it wouldnt even using both forms of protection.

Yeah there's always that chance however slight. That's why it's best to pull out early, take the condom off and blast in her face. She'll know you did it for her protection.

[Jasi]

Yeah there's always that chance however slight. That's why it's best to pull out early, take the condom off and blast in her face. She'll know you did it for her protection.

:oldlol: :roll:

[niko]

Reccomend she get an abortion. If she doesn't want to, take her to a family planning to talk (not a church) so they can give you a realistic opinion.

Other than that plan on getting a job and getting money. Be honest with people, if you need your, her mom's help let them know. If she is young it's hard to stay home with a kid, very very hard.

And learn who gives you free things in your city when you have kinds and need money. Stay in school if you can (at least one of you) as you work so you can try to move up. I'd reccomend a city job, better benefits. And things like hobbies, etc. - drop them as much as possible because you won't be doing them with the baby comes and you'll be better off psychologically knowing that before it comes.

That's about it.

[TheTruthTeller]

Take her iceskating. You'll save money on skates(for her)

http://www.freeimagehosting.net/uploads/4280adf604.gif (http://www.freeimagehosting.net/)

[SmackOrH.A.K]

This seems like a job for abortion man.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tmna97xDma0

[Bosnian Sajo]

Juno was gay.


Your gay *****. Fight back.

[bballer]

name him bballer

[L.Kizzle]

Hey Bawbwa. :cheers:

But in all seriousness, it should be obvious that I love my girl more than anyone could humanly fathom. I can't live when I'm without her. I can't sleep. I'm addicted to her. We've been together for as long as I remember, so we should be tight.

but the fact is, we're both not ready for this darned kid. It's going to be embarrassing if anyone knows I got her pregnant. Beyond embarrassing. This child cannot happen.

I hear vodka, orange juice, and babies don't mix.
If y'all love each other so much, have a kid and give that kid the same love you give your girl.

[Jasper]

Hey Bawbwa. :cheers:

But in all seriousness, it should be obvious that I love my girl more than anyone could humanly fathom. I can't live when I'm without her. I can't sleep. I'm addicted to her. We've been together for as long as I remember, so we should be tight.

but the fact is, we're both not ready for this darned kid. It's going to be embarrassing if anyone knows I got her pregnant. Beyond embarrassing. This child cannot happen.

I hear vodka, orange juice, and babies don't mix.

You have come to the right place for advise.... ISH has many knowledgable people that are acute about sex , drugs , booz , music , cars , bball , marriage , woman and babies :rockon:
If haven't started looking for a 2nd job to support your knew family I'll suggest the Golden arch's is always looking for night help...
And if you don't go that way , how bout sitting down and talking to both of your parents and get their opinions.
Hope it works out for both of you.

[Bosnian Sajo]

name him bballer

big baller > bballer

FACT

[catzhernandez]

big baller > bballer

FACT
this

[AtomSmasher]

this
get a taste.

[G-train]

Accept that it happened, and start wisely preparing for its birth.

Party time is over my friend, time to raise something as good as possible.

[L.Kizzle]

So, what's goin' on with the unborn kid?

[AirGauge23]

There

[DirtBag]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cSTDQalDRRY

[L.Kizzle]

We need an update dad?

[O.J A 6'4Mamba]

she should have used birth control, she wanted a kid. She a gold digger now you got to pay child support for the next 18 years

[IcanzIIravor]

she should have used birth control, she wanted a kid. She a gold digger now you got to pay child support for the next 18 years

Doesn't sound like he has too great a job so I think that eliminates the gold digger aspect.