What is the most important personality trait to you?

[Rendezvous32]

Just out of curiosity, since I want to know everyone's opinion on this. But when you are looking for a friend or a girlfriend or a soul mate, etc. What is the most important personality trait to you?

[Eggy]

Integrity.

[Lebron23]

Good Sense of Humor.

[DinoRadja40]

Intelligence, this single factor can determine tons of personality defects, including self esteem, self awareness, and how one interacts with people and the world around them.

[Captain Kirk]

nice tits and nice ass

:oldlol:

[BRabbiT]

patience

[KOBEMAMBA24]

Being trustworthy,affectionate,and intelligent.

[JEFFERSON MONEY]

- Loyalty
- Open-Mindedness
- Sense of Humour

[SinJackal]

Intelligence and courage most of all. Honesty and loyalty are important too.

[CasterL]

Intelligence, this single factor can determine tons of personality defects, including self esteem, self awareness, and how one interacts with people and the world around them.

This, although it is hard to say what intelligence really is. Basically stupid women annoy me alot. Women are naturally irrational erratic and too emotionally involved in their behaviour. but an 'intelligent' woman manages to mostly steer clear of these pitfalls. not talking about bookworm intelligence

[branslowski]

Dumb
Wild

Pretty much it actually.

[tpols]

This is ok with me...
Dumb
Wild

Pretty much it actually.
because it usually implies this

nice tits and nice ass
:cheers:

[hateraid]

Loyalty. Most marital problems are a cause of not being faithful
Close second, if I can put it into a trait is communicator (would that be right?)
No communication, no love, trust, humor, or happiness.

[Timmy D for MVP]

Sense of humor.

It's my defining trait, and I cannot be with anyone who doesn't have a great one and can find the funny in things.

[glideblaze002]

Respectful, I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who is a total jerk to everyone.

[Se]

Loyalty.

It's the most important trait to me.

[airchibundo507]

Intelligence, this single factor can determine tons of personality defects, including self esteem, self awareness, and how one interacts with people and the world around them.

Intelligence doesn't correlate with most of those qualities. For every confident, charismatic genius there is an aloof and insecure nerd.

[DirkNowitzki41]

Good Sense of Humor.

Definitely this.

[branslowski]

Definitely this.

LeBron23...Dirk41

This is definitly your girl then..

http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/famecrawler/2008/09/23-End/Sarah-Silverman_schlep-video-vote-florida.jpg

Sarah Silverman...Hot and funny.


http://mikedoe.net/storage/celebrites/Sarah_Silverman_Has_A_Great_Rack.jpg


Edit: Dirk41...The chick in your avy can get it too...Is she 18 yet?

[Rendezvous32]

Intelligence doesn't correlate with most of those qualities. For every confident, charismatic genius there is an aloof and insecure nerd.
Then why don't you share your answer?

[airchibundo507]

congenial humor and intelligence to a lesser degree

[airchibundo507]

Then why don't you share your answer?

5 rep bars in 200 posts?? :eek:

[rufuspaul]

A ******.

:lol We can say shit and asshole but we can't say ******?:facepalm

[DirkNowitzki41]

Dirk41...The chick in your avy can get it too...Is she 18 yet?

Yep

[boozehound]

a tight ***** and hot ass

[Disaprine]

nice tits and nice ass
this

[PistolPete]

I've got 3

Sense of humor - BIG
Intelligence -someone witty and can outsmart me
Loyalty - As loyal to me as I am with her

[SEEBASS1234]

if she thinks Yao>Dwight

[Meticode]

Honesty

[Jasper]

^---- what he said

1.b needs to have intelligent conversations with me ,, to keep me on my toes...

[Maga_1]

I've got 3

Sense of humor - BIG
Intelligence -someone witty and can outsmart me
Loyalty - As loyal to me as I am with her

this, perfect

[Colin Cowherd]

money

[JerrySteakhouse]

Intelligence
Honesty
Sense of humor

Can't deal with dumb broads.

[shawbryant]

Optimistic

[zabuza666]

Integrity.

This, because it encompasses traits like honesty etc.

[glideblaze002]

Respectful, I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who is a total jerk to everyone.
are you serious, someone neg repped me for this? :rolleyes:

[JEFFERSON MONEY]

Rabb

[Jailblazers7]

After putting some thought into it I'd probably go with Empathy. I think empathy is a trait that is a precursor for a lot of other things.

Sense of Humor - a lot of observational humor and wit is being able to understand how people feel in different situations
Kindness - a lot easier to follow the golden rule when you can empathize well
Honesty
Loyalty
etc.

Basically, I thing the odds are a lot higher of some being an all-around great person if they have a strong instinct for empathy.

[JEFFERSON MONEY]

After putting some thought into it I'd probably go with Empathy. I think empathy is a trait that is a precursor for a lot of other things.

Sense of Humor - a lot of observational humor and wit is being able to understand how people feel in different situations
Kindness - a lot easier to follow the golden rule when you can empathize well
Honesty
Loyalty
etc.

Basically, I thing the odds are a lot higher of some being an all-around great person if they have a strong instinct for empathy.

Funny you mentioned that. Just recently in Ethics class we were discussing the merits of virtue and as we were casually strolling along the Christian version, then the Benjamin Franklin set (industriousness, patience etc).. my friend interjected. Said that Osho guy only said you need one thing. Consciousness. Now I know a bit about dude's life story and how one can rightfully label him a charlatan guru, but after a brief retrospection, I realized that one teaching could be the key. As a person expands their mind's capacity to be CONSCIOUS of one's surrounding, isn't it natural that their attention would focus on another human's feelings/sensations etc. And wouldn't they simply stumble across by the other virtues by sheer happenchance.

Anyways pardon me for the rant, but the feeling of vibing.. naturally seeing someone immediately clicking with them and leading them down a conversational adventure. Truly an easily accessible pleasure life has to offer and verily a joy to give people at least the --- temporarily-- feeling of them being understood, listened to, appreciated, recognized, important etc.

[hateraid]

Loyalty. Most marital problems are a cause of not being faithful
Close second, if I can put it into a trait is communicator (would that be right?)
No communication, no love, trust, humor, or happiness.

I'm going to change my answer to accountability.
The ability to accept one's own faults and share in 50% of the responsibility of the relationship.
I find that where there is moments of challenges, instead of working on the relationship women tend to look elsewhere for comfort and sympathy. this generally is the beginning of the end of pretty much all relationships

[warriorfan]

Just out of curiosity, since I want to know everyone's opinion on this. But when you are looking for a friend or a girlfriend or a soul mate, etc. What is the most important personality trait to you?


Loyalty

[RightToCensor]

Sense of humor, I need for a girl to understand that I jokingly like to be aggressive to people. I can't hang with females that think you're some kind of asshole when you're just ****ing around with people.

[The Iron Sheik]

any guy in here who thinks that "personality" determines whether or not they are attracted to a woman is kidding themselves.

[RightToCensor]

Loyalty is overrated. I don't mind having a sidepiece next to my girl. I don't say I would allow her to have a sidepiece of her own, but would at the slightest of slights I would understand. I'd beat the dude's ass who was cheating with my girl, then just go on with my life.

[warriorfan]

Loyalty is overrated. I don't mind having a sidepiece next to my girl. I don't say I would allow her to have a sidepiece of her own, but would at the slightest of slights I would understand. I'd beat the dude's ass who was cheating with my girl, then just go on with my life.


you watch wwf you dont even have a girlfriend you dont gotta lie to kick it

[hateraid]

any guy in here who thinks that "personality" determines whether or not they are attracted to a woman is kidding themselves.
Being attracted is one thing, who you spend your life with is another thing

[The Iron Sheik]

Being attracted is one thing, who you spend your life with is another thing

marriage sucks regardless of anyone's personality