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28renyoy
10-31-2011, 01:47 AM
I've been talking to this girl for around 2 months and we've been dating sparsely. Last date I told her that I had to write a paper on photosynthesis and requested her favorite flower. I owed her a rose from previously and I gave her one when I walked to her room. I also had a bouquet of her favorite flowers waiting in the front seat of the car. I then took her ice-skating in a hotel where we would have the ice to ourselves. However first I insisted that we go to a thrift store and pick out ridiculous outfits for each other to wear. Obviously, she loved it.

Now this will be our 5th date and I'm going to basically draw the entire city of Paris, France on the walls of an open bedroom in the fraternity house. It will probably take me a week or so but it will be completely legit. I plan on drawing Paris and then placing a candle lit table in the middle of the room and cooking her dinner, which will be served by my little who is fluent in french. I made a deal with the guys to get them out of the house for the night.

Too much effort?

PistonsFan#21
10-31-2011, 01:53 AM
You should cook her one of your lunchables for dinner

28renyoy
10-31-2011, 01:55 AM
You should cook her one of your lunchables for dinner

bet was cancelled 2nd week on friday. he realized i was going to make it and i wanted no part continuing. i was constantly pissed off and felt like shit.

we decided to void the no buy out


How does one owe someone a rose?

Had to bail on her one night to go to a ceremony which involved giving a Rose to a girl. We agreed that I owed her one in return

Dizzle-2k7
10-31-2011, 01:57 AM
arent you the dude who could make "any girl fall in love with him " ?

28renyoy
10-31-2011, 02:00 AM
arent you the dude who could make "any girl fall in love with him " ?

and just what the hell do you think i am doing?

Nick Young
10-31-2011, 02:03 AM
bet was cancelled 2nd week on friday. he realized i was going to make it and i wanted no part continuing. i was constantly pissed off and felt like shit.

we decided to void the no buy out



Had to bail on her one night to go to a ceremony which involved giving a Rose to a girl. We agreed that I owed her one in return
I knew that frat boy ****** would ***** out. Why did you let him off so easy? You suffered two weeks of poor nutrition and misery, you should atleast get half the money.

Also if you actually are doing all this shit about drawing paris and joking around it's way too much. Did you even boink her yet? Dont you have other stuff you'd rather do in your days then draw paris?

chazzy
10-31-2011, 02:07 AM
http://i.imgur.com/71ia9.jpg

28renyoy
10-31-2011, 02:10 AM
I knew that frat boy ****** would ***** out. Why did you let him off so easy? You suffered two weeks of poor nutrition and misery, you should atleast get half the money.

Also if you actually are doing all this shit about drawing paris and joking around it's way too much. Did you even boink her yet? Dont you have other stuff you'd rather do in your days then draw paris?

It was mutual. I constantly felt like shit and it would have been miserable for another 2 weeks. He would have continued with the bet if I hadn't pulled out.

and yes i've "boinked" her. as for drawing paris, it will be something to remember and its actually fairly entertaining.

Reef
10-31-2011, 02:12 AM
You've been watching too many romantic comedies. You're trying way too hard.

macmac
10-31-2011, 02:16 AM
Thats trying way too hard. You do that for a girl you love, not some chick you're still testing the waters with. Shiit doesn't work out, you're gonna feel like a real schmuck.

28renyoy
10-31-2011, 02:19 AM
Thats trying way too hard. You do that for a girl you love, not some chick you're still testing the waters with. Shiit doesn't work out, you're gonna feel like a real schmuck.

I disagree. I think it's mostly fun/amusing and not anything too serious, it just takes a lot of time.

Lebron23
10-31-2011, 02:20 AM
You've been watching too many romantic comedies. You're trying way too hard.

:lol :lol :lol

donald_trump
10-31-2011, 02:30 AM
are you going to pick her up in that ferrari that you were going to buy? is that chick your little bro had a crush on that you started texting coming too? are you playing hoops with durant later?

lol, no one believes you kid.

macmac
10-31-2011, 02:32 AM
I disagree. I think it's mostly fun/amusing and not anything too serious, it just takes a lot of time.

A date usually takes me about 20 minutes to prepare for. Maybe 40 mins if I haven't showered that day yet....

If a date takes you a whole week to prepare for, i'd say thats trying prretttty damn hard....

SuperPippen
10-31-2011, 02:38 AM
I have a difficult time believing any of this is true.

Maybe in your dreams, where Kevin Durant probably takes the place of the girl.

macmac
10-31-2011, 02:50 AM
I have a difficult time believing any of this is true.

Maybe in your dreams, where Kevin Durant probably takes the place of the girl.

What do u mean? it is true...and if things dont work out, he can always go to the doctor's and get all his memories of her erased

sick_brah07
10-31-2011, 02:51 AM
A date usually takes me about 20 minutes to prepare for. Maybe 40 mins if I haven't showered that day yet....

If a date takes you a whole week to prepare for, i'd say thats trying prretttty damn hard....

+1

the more you dont give a crap the better it will go

L8k3r5
10-31-2011, 02:54 AM
http://i.imgur.com/71ia9.jpg
:roll: :roll: :roll:

Nanners
10-31-2011, 02:57 AM
i am a little confused why you would waste so much energy chasing some woman when you are obviously a complete homosexual.

28renyoy
10-31-2011, 02:59 AM
i am a little confused why you would waste so much energy chasing some woman when you are obviously a complete homosexual.


:lol

and here we go. im a *** because i dress extremely well and do romantic things

Nanners
10-31-2011, 03:13 AM
:lol

and here we go. im a *** because i dress extremely well and do romantic things

no you are a *** because you want to draw paris on the wall for a date. thats the gayest thing i have ever heard.

LebronairJAMES
10-31-2011, 03:17 AM
I've been talking to this girl for around 2 months and we've been dating sparsely. Last date I told her that I had to write a paper on photosynthesis and requested her favorite flower. I owed her a rose from previously and I gave her one when I walked to her room. I also had a bouquet of her favorite flowers waiting in the front seat of the car. I then took her ice-skating in a hotel where we would have the ice to ourselves. However first I insisted that we go to a thrift store and pick out ridiculous outfits for each other to wear. Obviously, she loved it.

Now this will be our 5th date and I'm going to basically draw the entire city of Paris, France on the walls of an open bedroom in the fraternity house. It will probably take me a week or so but it will be completely legit. I plan on drawing Paris and then placing a candle lit table in the middle of the room and cooking her dinner, which will be served by my little who is fluent in french. I made a deal with the guys to get them out of the house for the night.

Too much effort?
:rolleyes:

28renyoy
10-31-2011, 03:18 AM
no you are a *** because you want to draw paris on the wall for a date. thats the gayest thing i have ever heard.

im doing it for her. girls absolutely adore something like this

Meticode
10-31-2011, 03:20 AM
There's never too much effort in the name of love. Some guys take a girl to a bar, have a good time, get little buzzed, have some McDonald's drive-thru afterwards. You cook dinner, draw Paris on walls and woo women a different way. No big deal.

LebronairJAMES
10-31-2011, 03:22 AM
There's never too much effort in the name of love. Some guys take a girl to a bar, have a good time, get little buzzed, have some McDonald's drive-thru afterwards. You cook dinner, draw Paris on walls and woo women a different way. No big deal.
then after the date get on ish and tell everyone about....
get a life you faggets

Go Getter
10-31-2011, 03:23 AM
You're going to spoil her/make her jaded. Ease up and do that kinda stuff for birthdays and anniversaries only.

Go Getter
10-31-2011, 03:24 AM
i am a little confused why you would waste so much energy chasing some woman when you are obviously a complete homosexual.
:oldlol: :oldlol: :oldlol:

Meticode
10-31-2011, 03:26 AM
then after the date get on ish and tell everyone about....
get a life you faggets
People have lives. Otherwise they wouldn't exist. Some seemingly less meaningful than others, but a life nonetheless. Ironically anyone who has high number of posts on here, me included, could be doing something much more valuable with our lives considering one day all of what we post on here will be gone forever and the only reminisce left of it will be what grains of posts we made stuck in people's head's for the rest of their lives.

Meticode
10-31-2011, 03:27 AM
You're going to spoil her/make her jaded. Ease up and do that kinda stuff for birthdays and anniversaries only.
Screw that. Do all the over-the-top stuff in the beginning of the relationship. That way twice a year (anniversaries and birthdays) all you have to do is buy her something cheesy like a snow globe or something.

joe
10-31-2011, 03:28 AM
Are you one of those autistic kids who can draw cities from memory?

28renyoy
10-31-2011, 03:30 AM
Are you one of those autistic kids who can draw cities from memory?

no i'll be drawing it based off of pictures

Go Getter
10-31-2011, 03:32 AM
Screw that. Do all the over-the-top stuff in the beginning of the relationship. That way twice a year (anniversaries and birthdays) all you have to do is buy her something cheesy like a snow globe or something.


Naw.

If you do over-the-top stuff in the beginning of the relationship she'll expect that stuff all the time.

You don't tell her or give her a taste of your skills all at once you surprise her with it/them periodically.

Who wants high expectations from a woman they are dating from day one?

Fatal9
10-31-2011, 04:55 AM
l-o-fukkin-l

if you need to do all this to make her fall in love with you, you're doing it wrong. she's gonna smell the desperation a mile away and possibly be a little creeped out (if she's actually good looking, average looking/ugly girls dig this type of stuff more). and you're making it "too serious, too fast". meanwhile the guy who doesn't give her all this pathetic attention will continue smashing her. she may see that you can be used and exploit that however.

this is the type of shyt you reserve for a long time girlfriend or your wife, to give her one of those special dates to blow her away, not a girl you're not even in a relationship with. seriously, do you need to do this because you can't make her laugh or something?


lmao @ OP thinking he's don juan over here. i've seen enough *******s like you. i'm laughing, i'm cringing...what the *** is this shyt.

hammer2010
10-31-2011, 05:15 AM
http://i.imgur.com/71ia9.jpg

The funny thing is that she'll probably put aside an hour tops to get a free meal from this dumbshlt. In between leaving some other dude's dorm and then leaving to hit up some party without him. Meanwhile, this Nicca's taking a week to draw Paris on his wall. You're trying too hard son, it's college :facepalm

Go Getter
10-31-2011, 05:27 AM
l-o-fukkin-l

if you need to do all this to make her fall in love with you, you're doing it wrong. she's gonna smell the desperation a mile away and possibly be a little creeped out (if she's actually good looking, average looking/ugly girls dig this type of stuff more). and you're making it "too serious, too fast". meanwhile the guy who doesn't give her all this pathetic attention will continue smashing her. she may see that you can be used and exploit that however.

this is the type of shyt you reserve for a long time girlfriend or your wife, to give her one of those special dates to blow her away, not a girl you're not even in a relationship with. seriously, do you need to do this because you can't make her laugh or something?


lmao @ OP thinking he's don juan over here. i've seen enough *******s like you. i'm laughing, i'm cringing...what the *** is this shyt.

I agree with most of what you typed but the bolded.

Women have different personalities not ALL good looking gals act one way and not all average/bad looking chicks either. There are plenty of stuck up ugly chicks for example.

Kebab Stall
10-31-2011, 07:01 AM
i am a little confused why you would waste so much energy chasing some woman when you are obviously a complete homosexual.
:oldlol:

As for OP, do as you please. The first few dates sounded great. The ice skating thing with costumes, girls love that quirky shit that make you stand out. On one of my first dates, with my current gf, I took her rock climbing and she ****ing loved it, since it was unique and fun.

What you're doing now though sounds like what someone would do a few years down the line, just my opinion. It does seem like a bit too much effort and you're setting the bar way too high for future dates/events/whatever.

raiderfan19
10-31-2011, 09:05 AM
If you were proposing this would make total sense.... For a random date? Too much

HylianNightmare
10-31-2011, 09:59 AM
S long as you get your dick wet

c3z4r
10-31-2011, 12:23 PM
So you picked her up with your brand new Ferrari and went on a date that you were planning for a week. You also drew Paris on walls with your Picasso like talent all while getting A+ in all of your classes and maintaining your 4.0 average in Med school.

A very riveting tale chap

Dizzle-2k7
10-31-2011, 12:27 PM
sorry bud but unless youre about to propose to her, all this is over the top and just proof that you have no game.

very virginistic

lilbill
10-31-2011, 12:40 PM
So you picked her up with your brand new Ferrari and went on a date that you were planning for a week. You also drew Paris on walls with your Picasso like talent all while getting A+ in all of your classes and maintaining your 4.0 average in Med school.

A very riveting tale chap

You forgot to mention that she's a 10 and he's been fukking her on the regular.

AS85
10-31-2011, 03:00 PM
I've been talking to this girl for around 2 months and we've been dating sparsely. Last date I told her that I had to write a paper on photosynthesis and requested her favorite flower. I owed her a rose from previously and I gave her one when I walked to her room. I also had a bouquet of her favorite flowers waiting in the front seat of the car. I then took her ice-skating in a hotel where we would have the ice to ourselves. However first I insisted that we go to a thrift store and pick out ridiculous outfits for each other to wear. Obviously, she loved it.

Now this will be our 5th date and I'm going to basically draw the entire city of Paris, France on the walls of an open bedroom in the fraternity house. It will probably take me a week or so but it will be completely legit. I plan on drawing Paris and then placing a candle lit table in the middle of the room and cooking her dinner, which will be served by my little who is fluent in french. I made a deal with the guys to get them out of the house for the night.

Too much effort?

All this is quite romantic of you.
Sounds damn sweet. :rockon:

mr beast
10-31-2011, 03:24 PM
personally, i think you are overdoing it

if this is the girl you want to be with in the long run, imagine the amount of shiet and time you have to put in to prep for the special moments like anniversaries...etc

anyways best of luck, im sure she would be swept off her feet

verylegit
10-31-2011, 03:27 PM
http://i.imgur.com/71ia9.jpg
:roll:

LBJMVP
10-31-2011, 03:31 PM
I've been talking to this girl for around 2 months and we've been dating sparsely. Last date I told her that I had to write a paper on photosynthesis and requested her favorite flower. I owed her a rose from previously and I gave her one when I walked to her room. I also had a bouquet of her favorite flowers waiting in the front seat of the car. I then took her ice-skating in a hotel where we would have the ice to ourselves. However first I insisted that we go to a thrift store and pick out ridiculous outfits for each other to wear. Obviously, she loved it.

Now this will be our 5th date and I'm going to basically draw the entire city of Paris, France on the walls of an open bedroom in the fraternity house. It will probably take me a week or so but it will be completely legit. I plan on drawing Paris and then placing a candle lit table in the middle of the room and cooking her dinner, which will be served by my little who is fluent in french. I made a deal with the guys to get them out of the house for the night.

Too much effort?


those are some pretty good date ideas. seems like it would take alot to draw paris on a a wall, but if that bitch doesnt like you after that then i dont know what say.

Jailblazers7
10-31-2011, 03:35 PM
That plan would even be too much work if you were planning a marriage proposal.

NuggetsFan
10-31-2011, 03:42 PM
Date? Just bring her with you when you get drunk with your friends.

LA_Showtime
10-31-2011, 06:30 PM
Jesus Jones what the hell is wrong with you? Yes, that is way over the top. Just play it cool and get to know the girl. You don't need elaborate tricks to win her heart... you need money, power, and swag. :oldlol:

Jasper
10-31-2011, 06:33 PM
By gauging the OP first 4 dates ... by 12 date her as$ will be licked after a poop and by the time he marrys her , he will have to claim the world hers...

Sometimes fast and fearious is ONLY good if your getting some serious lay.

OP imagination for dates is great ,, as long as you remember them 10 years after your married and hav a couple kids :rockon:

EnoughSaid
10-31-2011, 06:38 PM
Gotta <3 ISH!! :roll:

PowerGlove
10-31-2011, 06:42 PM
..............srsly?

Cant believe OP is doing some make a wish foundation shit for a date.

AirTupac
10-31-2011, 06:48 PM
i am a little confused why you would waste so much energy chasing some woman when you are obviously a complete homosexual.


http://i.imgur.com/71ia9.jpg

I must rep you guys asap. I had tears in my eyes. :oldlol: :oldlol: :oldlol: :applause:

thatoneblackguy
10-31-2011, 06:51 PM
Paris sucks.

Stuckey
10-31-2011, 06:55 PM
virgin?

Positive
10-31-2011, 07:13 PM
I've been talking to this girl for around 2 months and we've been dating sparsely. Last date I told her that I had to write a paper on photosynthesis and requested her favorite flower. I owed her a rose from previously and I gave her one when I walked to her room. I also had a bouquet of her favorite flowers waiting in the front seat of the car. I then took her ice-skating in a hotel where we would have the ice to ourselves. However first I insisted that we go to a thrift store and pick out ridiculous outfits for each other to wear. Obviously, she loved it.

Now this will be our 5th date and I'm going to basically draw the entire city of Paris, France on the walls of an open bedroom in the fraternity house. It will probably take me a week or so but it will be completely legit. I plan on drawing Paris and then placing a candle lit table in the middle of the room and cooking her dinner, which will be served by my little who is fluent in french. I made a deal with the guys to get them out of the house for the night.

Too much effort?
http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/2/50smh.gif (http://www.threadbombing.com/details.php?image_id=5018)

B-Low
10-31-2011, 07:17 PM
http://i.imgur.com/71ia9.jpg

:roll: :roll:

hooooooly shit

ElPigto
10-31-2011, 07:42 PM
http://i.imgur.com/71ia9.jpg

I can't stop laughing at this shit.

:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

AirTupac
11-01-2011, 12:57 AM
Bump, needs to be on the first page, so funny.

kingofhandles
11-01-2011, 12:46 PM
LMAO x2 @ owing a rose :no:

Go Getter
11-01-2011, 01:06 PM
that pic is epic.

leopoldstotch
12-29-2011, 11:32 AM
bump

:applause:

chains5000
12-29-2011, 11:45 AM
Did she already run away?

RidonKs
12-29-2011, 11:55 AM
can't believe i missed this on the first go round

that pic... :roll:

Done_And_Done
12-29-2011, 01:38 PM
So much fail I don't even know what to do with myself here...

You mentioned that she already let you feed her the bone right? Well her vajeen must smell like baked heaven because these over the top mushy efforts are all things you do when love is present and a relationship has been established.

From the sounds of it, you don't even seem entirely sure about the degree of how much you actually like her. With that said, do you even realize what you're getting yourself into?

If this girl is really into you, bombing the illuminating skyline of Paris on a f*ucking wall in her name is sending one message and one message only and that's "I love you"....

If you go this far to have her smitten by you and then in a few months time decide she's not the one you wanna be with (which will more then likely be the case) not only are you gunna shatter the poor kids heart like a broken vase (which is foul) but you're gunna have to look over your shoulder for a little while because Suzie with the home baked cookie cutter va*gina will have mistaken you to be her romantical prince when in all reality you'd be nothing more then an Eiffle Tower sketching d*ouche bag....

And if the above proves to be incorrect and you in turn actually do have genuine emotion for the girl then you're doing yourself a major disservice here dog. I mean could you possibly set the bar any higher? Why put so much unneeded future expectation + pressure on your shoulders.

I can already hear out the convo Suzie cooke vag and her homegirls will be having in a years time...

"Oh he was just so immaculate and charming when we first met. He used to send me hand carved molds of Micahelangelo's weiner via snail mail made out of vanilla snack pack and now all he wants to do is stay in and watch disturbing movies like the Human Centipede on Netflix"

Gimmie an effn break playboy...

rufuspaul
12-29-2011, 02:07 PM
when in all reality you'd be nothing more then an Eiffle Tower sketching d*ouche bag....


:roll:

dunksby
12-29-2011, 02:49 PM
Joyner did you decide on the car yet?

BaņkShot
12-29-2011, 06:02 PM
This thread is full of lulz

BoogieWoogieMan
12-29-2011, 06:11 PM
This thread is full of lulz

http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c58/dhaddad1/27ybswk.gif

KnowledgeWithin
12-29-2011, 06:16 PM
Does the b#tch have cancer bro if not, you're probably a lunatic. Lmao at the nigg#z in Paris pic.

nash4eva!gosuns
12-30-2011, 12:19 AM
http://i.imgur.com/71ia9.jpg

:oldlol: :oldlol: :oldlol: :oldlol: :oldlol:

bump.

OP. that's kind of creepy though. Like straight up. that is WAY too much effort.

nash4eva!gosuns
12-30-2011, 12:48 AM
So much fail I don't even know what to do with myself here...

You mentioned that she already let you feed her the bone right? Well her vajeen must smell like baked heaven because these over the top mushy efforts are all things you do when love is present and a relationship has been established.

From the sounds of it, you don't even seem entirely sure about the degree of how much you actually like her. With that said, do you even realize what you're getting yourself into?

If this girl is really into you, bombing the illuminating skyline of Paris on a f*ucking wall in her name is sending one message and one message only and that's "I love you"....

If you go this far to have her smitten by you and then in a few months time decide she's not the one you wanna be with (which will more then likely be the case) not only are you gunna shatter the poor kids heart like a broken vase (which is foul) but you're gunna have to look over your shoulder for a little while because Suzie with the home baked cookie cutter va*gina will have mistaken you to be her romantical prince when in all reality you'd be nothing more then an Eiffle Tower sketching d*ouche bag....

And if the above proves to be incorrect and you in turn actually do have genuine emotion for the girl then you're doing yourself a major disservice here dog. I mean could you possibly set the bar any higher? Why put so much unneeded future expectation + pressure on your shoulders.

I can already hear out the convo Suzie cooke vag and her homegirls will be having in a years time...

"Oh he was just so immaculate and charming when we first met. He used to send me hand carved molds of Micahelangelo's weiner via snail mail made out of vanilla snack pack and now all he wants to do is stay in and watch disturbing movies like the Human Centipede on Netflix"

Gimmie an effn break playboy...

:applause:

So you d*ouchebags really DO know what you're doing. Playing dumb doesnt work anymore. I'm going get this into every women's magazine ever published.

busted!

Done_And_Done
12-30-2011, 01:17 AM
http://i1189.photobucket.com/albums/z422/clueless_love/24207544372689d7fe68.jpg

No_Control
12-30-2011, 01:24 AM
http://i.imgur.com/71ia9.jpg


lmfao

No_Control
12-30-2011, 01:25 AM
http://i1189.photobucket.com/albums/z422/clueless_love/24207544372689d7fe68.jpg

lmfao

Done_And_Done
12-30-2011, 01:34 AM
:applause:

So you d*ouchebags really DO know what you're doing. Playing dumb doesnt work anymore. I'm going get this into every women's magazine ever published.

busted!

Well it's all subjective really. Every d*ouchebag operates with different procedure lol

Quickening
01-04-2012, 06:40 PM
are you going to pick her up in that ferrari that you were going to buy? is that chick your little bro had a crush on that you started texting coming too? are you playing hoops with durant later?

lol, no one believes you kid.

this.

AirTupac
01-04-2012, 06:45 PM
chazzy's picture still makes me laugh.

dee-rose
01-04-2012, 06:50 PM
What if she doesn't even like Paris?:oldlol:

Done_And_Done
01-04-2012, 06:55 PM
The complete absurdity of this thread still makes me laugh....

Oh and Chazzys picture...

Done_And_Done
01-04-2012, 07:11 PM
Yo Renyoy, when you're done painting Paris I've got a side job for you. I want you to paint a mural of this on the ceiling directly above my bed.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_HRsq7UO-sBw/Se7VL2zSdzI/AAAAAAAAAkc/hl2OGs-4hGA/s400/81b.jpg

Andrei89
01-04-2012, 07:31 PM
:lol :lol :lol

leopoldstotch
09-02-2012, 11:21 AM
so what happened? Did she like your picture of Paris?

scandisk_
09-02-2012, 12:13 PM
Excessive and Obsessive daydreaming right there brah :oldlol:

JaggerCommaMick
09-02-2012, 02:08 PM
and yes i've "boinked" her.

No ya havent, mate.

Nobody draws Paris for a broad hes already sleeping with.



Wait a minute what the hell am I sayin mate! Nobody draws Paris at all, are you off your bloody rocker??

T-Time3
09-02-2012, 10:20 PM
Hey, people who fell in love does crazy shit.
But painting frggin paris on a wall is WAY too serious if the girl's not even your wife yet.
Anyway,best of luck dude.
And make sure you got some boink to do with that girl.

lilojmayo
09-03-2012, 12:10 AM
http://i.imgur.com/71ia9.jpg

:lol

zoom17
04-08-2015, 11:40 PM
http://i.imgur.com/71ia9.jpg

:roll: