How to effortlessly approach a women

[SacJB Shady]

This guy is good, got to learn from him


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mMojAfzzAUY&feature=relmfu

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[Nick Young]

I have met some of the big pickup artists as the UK, not personally, but just through a friend who is a trainer in one of the companies. They all told me that every single chick teaching pickup always is majorly f*cked up with huge daddy issues, and massive manipulators.

[RoseCity07]

Act like a drunk idiot. Seems legit.

[Ketchup]

I have met some of the big pickup artists as the UK, not personally, but just through a friend who is a trainer in one of the companies. They all told me that every single chick teaching pickup always is majorly f*cked up with huge daddy issues, and massive manipulators.

The thing I've always found hilarious about a lot of these pick up artists and their techniques is that it's all pre-rehearsed nonsense that almost tricks the women into getting the reply you want.
What happened to being charming and natural?

[Nick Young]

The thing I've always found hilarious about a lot of these pick up artists and their techniques is that it's all pre-rehearsed nonsense that almost tricks the women into getting the reply you want.
What happened to being charming and natural?
THey dont do pre-rehearsed stuff, but they teach that stuff to the very beginners, just so they have something to talk about and dont get stuck for words in the beginning.

The pros are legit.

Like insane.

As in a 5-4 fat guy walks into a club points to two of the hottest women in there, they just come walking up to him, he is making out with the hotter one after 5 minutes (no, they didnt know eachother before, he did that in two other clubs later in the night)

As in tiny ass 49 year old malaysian doctor who is able to makeout with any girl, even ones a foot taller, after like 20 minutes.

They don't trick women, they are just really direct and really funny and it works-really proved to me its not about looks at all because some of these dudes were ugly as hell and were surrounded by dimes all night long, dimes as in pro-model looking dimes, not Nebraska dive-bar she only looks like a dime because all the other chicks are fat trailer trash.

I only went out with those guys one night. It was the most insane night ever.

Also I have personally seen my buddy who hangs out with them in the course of the year going from really shy having hardly any girls, to trying prerehearsed routines that usually didnt work, to now being a complete player life of the party, and now he is getting paid good money to go out and hit on chicks and train newbies. THAT WAS IN JUST ONE YEAR.

If you actually follow that stuff, it works, but you gotta be dedicated.
and its not prerehearsed shit, mostly just being confident and direct.

There are some little tricks, but mostly just basic things everyone decent with girls know anyway

[Rnbizzle]

The socially awkward don't have the privilege of being normal and having those traits.
Realistically, the socially awkward are never really going to approach women effortlessly.

[nathanjizzle]

This guy is good, got to learn from him


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mMojAfzzAUY&feature=relmfu

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op failed thinking he could embed videos on this poor forum.

[chips93]

Realistically, the socially awkward are never really going to approach women effortlessly.


i know some weirdos who have found a way to hide it, and make it work. not like they are prolific, but they do better than you would think.

[Ketchup]

The socially awkward don't have the privilege of being normal and having those traits.

I just don't see how you can mess up "I think you're cute and I wanted to talk to you"... :oldlol:
I've heard a lot of the pick up artists say you're not meant to show interest like that in a club, but it honestly is the best way to go about it. You're in a club, what other reasons are you going to talk to girls for? They know the deal, and they know what you're trying to do anyway.

[Nick Young]

I just don't see how you can mess up "I think you're cute and I wanted to talk to you"... :oldlol:
I've heard a lot of the pick up artists say you're not meant to show interest like that in a club, but it honestly is the best way to go about it. You're in a club, what other reasons are you going to talk to girls for? They know the deal, and they know what you're trying to do anyway.
average girls, that works on.

dimes and nines who hear that 24/7 from everyone around them and used to getting slaved over and surrounded by drooling dudes in every club they go into, you need game.

[JohnnySic]

Pick up artists are full of shit. All they basically say, once you cut through the BS, is talk to every girl and and you'll score with some. No shit.

[Ketchup]

average girls, that works on.

dimes and nines who hear that 24/7 from everyone around them and used to getting slaved over and surrounded by drooling dudes in every club they go into, you need game.

Here comes me validating myself on the internet and looking like a tool, but whatever, here it goes... :oldlol:

That line worked on my last GF, and from what I heard from 3 or 4 of my mates that actually got to meet her, she was a "9 or 9.5". That coming from one of my friends who actually doesn't believe there is such thing as perfect 10's (which I tell him is stupid, beside the point).

I dunno. I just find some of the stuff those guys do as tacky. Not going to lie, I have taken some stuff away from it, but I find being direct and honest, while maintaining strong positive body language works the best.

[Nick Young]

Here comes me validating myself on the internet and looking like a tool, but whatever, here it goes... :oldlol:

That line worked on my last GF, and from what I heard from 3 or 4 of my mates that actually got to meet her, she was a "9 or 9.5". That coming from one of my friends who actually doesn't believe there is such thing as perfect 10's (which I tell him is stupid, beside the point).

I dunno. I just find some of the stuff those guys do as tacky. Not going to lie, I have taken some stuff away from it, but I find being direct and honest, while maintaining strong positive body language works the best.
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[Ketchup]

post pix

I'm not the type to post pictures of others apart from myself without permission. I know that's a cop out, but it's just the way it is. I'd feel somewhat guilty throwing her pictures out there without her knowing. Even in the post a picture of yourself thing I cutout the faces of my mates in the pictures of me...

[RaininTwos]

Here comes me validating myself on the internet and looking like a tool, but whatever, here it goes... :oldlol:

That line worked on my last GF, and from what I heard from 3 or 4 of my mates that actually got to meet her, she was a "9 or 9.5". That coming from one of my friends who actually doesn't believe there is such thing as perfect 10's (which I tell him is stupid, beside the point).

I dunno. I just find some of the stuff those guys do as tacky. Not going to lie, I have taken some stuff away from it, but I find being direct and honest, while maintaining strong positive body language works the best.


According to the scale, your ex is a 100 out of ten. She aint my type doe like.:pimp: :pimp:

She got too much hair on her head and not enough tats and piercing.

[Ketchup]

According to the scale, your ex is a 100 out of ten. She aint my type doe like.:pimp: :pimp:

She got too much hair on her head and not enough tats and piercing.

Well here is one poster who can verify for me seeing as he's seen pictures... :oldlol:

[Ketchup]

I'm charming as shit, bitches are just too dumb to realize it.

Bitches?...





That's a very sexist way to talk about these hoes.

[ace23]

Is that really how you guys flirt? That video was so corny, dude was lame as hell. :lol

He's getting ass though right? That's the goal.

[RaininTwos]

Pick up artists are full of shit. All they basically say, once you cut through the BS, is talk to every girl and and you'll score with some. No shit.
I definitely disagree with some of that shit, stop being foolish. There are certain nuances to the game that can increase your chances.

[RidonKs]

"and its just such a great question, every guy should incorporate this question into their pick-up repertoire. plus with the whole tiger woods thing, its also super topical!"

:roll:



this guy is awful, i can't believe this is all it takes lol

i admit to being pretty gun shy actually targeting and approaching women but that's just out of lack of experience... i've only ever hooked up with friends/acquaintances i've already known. but it's videos like this that fill me with confidence for the future because really, if shit like that can get you an in, nobody has any business breaking into sweats and getting overwhelmed by nerves.

[Nick Young]

"and its just such a great question, every guy should incorporate this question into their pick-up repertoire. plus with the whole tiger woods thing, its also super topical!"

:roll:



this guy is awful, i can't believe this is all it takes lol

i admit to being pretty gun shy actually targeting and approaching women but that's just out of lack of experience... i've only ever hooked up with friends/acquaintances i've already known. but it's videos like this that fill me with confidence for the future because really, if shit like that can get you an in, nobody has any business breaking into sweats and getting overwhelmed by nerves.
Face reality sport, you're the one who endlessly writes on here about your inability to get laid, and your weakness in picking up girls. You dont have alot of know how when it comes to getting laid.

I have seen my friend go from using these cheeseball lines (which worked nearly every time btw, sometimes when we're chilling somewhere he'd just ask me to point for a girl for him to talk to and he'd just instant approach and 99% of the time get the number) to his current status as a trainer getting paid thousands a night by the best pickup company in the UK (gamblers if that means anything to you)

Yeh is it cheesy? Does it feel cheesy doing it? Us looking in does the guy look like a spazz? Probably. But did it get girls interested and get him laid by a ton of hot chicks? Yep.

So instead of mocking what works, when you clearly are lacking in this field, why not try some of the things yourself?:confusedshrug:

[RidonKs]

Face reality sport, you're the one who endlessly writes on here about your inability to get laid, and your weakness in picking up girls. You dont have alot of know how when it comes to getting laid.

I have seen my friend go from using these cheeseball lines (which worked nearly every time btw, sometimes when we're chilling somewhere he'd just ask me to point for a girl for him to talk to and he'd just instant approach and 99% of the time get the number) to his current status as a trainer getting paid thousands a night by the best pickup company in the UK (gamblers if that means anything to you)

Yeh is it cheesy? Does it feel cheesy doing it? Us looking in does the guy look like a spazz? Probably. But did it get girls interested and get him laid by a ton of hot chicks? Yep.

So instead of mocking what works, when you clearly are lacking in this field, why not try some of the things yourself?:confusedshrug:
lol i should face the reality... of what i've already admitted to be the reality?

you're right for the most part. i know full well it doesn't take much to pick up, at the end of the day everybody's looking to get laid and standards tend to be pretty low all things considered. i've seen it first hand and, well f*ck, the video in the op is just further proof.

my issue is just getting over the initial hump which is that approach, and it's hard to describe why it's so difficult once you know everything each of us just just said above... but i find it unbelievably overwhelming and for that reason i have a hard time acting like my usual good natured intelligent charming self.

i've got no doubt i'll get over it once i find myself in the right circumstances, and to you that probably just comes across as a blatant cop-out (why not just gtfo and do it already?!?) but the point is not everybody finds it that easy to just ______. all it really takes is putting yourself in a situation where you're forced to come through and that first success paves the road for all the others in the future.

trust me tho, clown him though i may and will because he deserves it because even cheesy doesn't quite underline just how dumb he sounded... i'm still mad envious


Because while he may be shy and kind of awkward and sometimes his dick doesn't work, he has too much self respect to be a really wack dude just to get laid.
lol... this is only half true.

[Nick Young]

lol i should face the reality... of what i've already admitted to be the reality?

you're right for the most part. i know full well it doesn't take much to pick up, at the end of the day everybody's looking to get laid and standards tend to be pretty low all things considered. i've seen it first hand and, well f*ck, the video in the op is just further proof.

my issue is just getting over the initial hump which is that approach, and it's hard to describe why it's so difficult once you know everything each of us just just said above... but i find it unbelievably overwhelming and for that reason i have a hard time acting like my usual good natured intelligent charming self.

i've got no doubt i'll get over it once i find myself in the right circumstances, and to you that probably just comes across as a blatant cop-out (why not just gtfo and do it already?!?) but the point is not everybody finds it that easy to just ______. all it really takes is putting yourself in a situation where you're forced to come through and that first success paves the road for all the others in the future.

trust me tho, clown him though i may and will because he deserves it because even cheesy doesn't quite underline just how dumb he sounded... i'm still mad envious


lol... this is only half true.

thats why in the beginning they teach the canned routines, do like 1000 approaches, and its less hard if you have canned routine to fall back on. After enough approaches, you wont have that anxiety and have to do the stupid routine.

My friend said you think of the routines as something to fall back on when you're a newbie.

Im not mocking you because I used to be similar, good at everything EXCEPT INITIAL APPROACH so I only hooked up with friends of friends or people in parties.

Only I got over it just from growing up and getting more confidence doing shitload of gym and yoga and just getting happier in life, but the pickup artist training way is a good alternative way, I've seen it happen before my eyes from my good friend who does that stuff.

But literally first of all this guy is one of the most self motivated people I know and it was all he would focus on for like a year, so it works but you have to be dedicated as shit to it,

[RidonKs]

i can't knock the hitch routine if thats what it takes. whatever allows you to do your thing naturally, even if it only comes along slowly and eventually, go for it because life's too short not to f*ck. for most guys thats a tremendous mountain to climb so if throwing on a fully rehearsed performance gets you in the zone, w/e.

to toot my own horn i've had enough experience successfully chatting up girls (not approaching blindly in bars but in the right contexts, parties, etc) to the point there's no doubt in my mind, in hindsight anyway, that i could have scored. then it was just a matter of failing to go for the kill, make a move.

all that said, the guy in the vid was still a total buffoon to saunter up with "who cheats more, men or women?" and then put on that semi-incredulous half hearted chuckle when he gets the obvious response. he didn't even have a good follow up, if he did i might have a bit more respect for the guy but all he had was "ha really wow yea i dunno...". number obtained or not, he's a tard regardless.

so yeah, i guess macho man is probably right. much as my d*ck may resent me for it, i've got too much integrity to march in with bullshit like that. i'll stoop certainly, just not that low, hence the condescension.



Only I got over it just from growing up and getting more confidence doing shitload of gym and yoga and just getting happier in life
there you go. im 100% confidant i'll get to where you've gotten in the next 6 months, year or so. its all circumstances atm.

[Dolphin]

i can't knock the hitch routine if thats what it takes. whatever allows you to do your thing naturally, even if it only comes along slowly and eventually, go for it because life's too short not to f*ck. for most guys thats a tremendous mountain to climb so if throwing on a fully rehearsed performance gets you in the zone, w/e.

to toot my own horn i've had enough experience successfully chatting up girls (not approaching blindly in bars but in the right contexts, parties, etc) to the point there's no doubt in my mind, in hindsight anyway, that i could have scored. then it was just a matter of failing to go for the kill, make a move.

all that said, the guy in the vid was still a total buffoon to saunter up with "who cheats more, men or women?" and then put on that semi-incredulous half hearted chuckle when he gets the obvious response. he didn't even have a good follow up, if he did i might have a bit more respect for the guy but all he had was "ha really wow yea i dunno...". number obtained or not, he's a tard regardless.

so yeah, i guess macho man is probably right. much as my d*ck may resent me for it, i've got too much integrity to march in with bullshit like that. i'll stoop certainly, just not that low, hence the condescension.



there you go. im 100% confidant i'll get to where you've gotten in the next 6 months, year or so. its all circumstances atm.

I've never approached a girl using a pick up line. Looking confident, smiling and a good eye **** usually does the trick. Sure, you're gonna need to say something once they approach, but what I say is something more natural than a pick up line. Something that actually relates to them or the night. I can see why a routine would help someone like you who can't think of anything to say off the cuff....but I think that's more because you're reserved than because you really can't think of something.

[Nick Young]

the amazing pro ones, the fat guy and the short malaysian doctor, told me it doesnt matter what you say or how you open, just do it. its like 5% what you say 95% body language and confidence. sometimes they'd just say random stupid shit and it always worked

[Dolphin]

the amazing pro ones, the fat guy and the short malaysian doctor, told me it doesnt matter what you say or how you open, just do it. its like 5% what you say 95% body language and confidence. sometimes they'd just say random stupid shit and it always worked

Exactly. Lots of guys tend to over filter. Think too much before talking.

[LA_Showtime]

Those pick up artist conventions are nothing more than a glorified cognitive behavioral therapy class catered to socially awkward guys who want to get women.

[RidonKs]

but I think that's more because you're reserved than because you really can't think of something.
no its literally anxiety riddled nerves turning every thought in my brain into "holy fk i've gotta think of something to say... shit that's no good... what about... no, that sucks too.......... SWEET GOD I STILL HAVENT SAID ANYTHING!!"


truth be told my persona on here is pretty different from how i act among friends. when i'm drunk i become the loudest asshole in the room to the point of being painfully obnoxious, or so i've been told the morning after lol. anybody who knows me would laugh at the idea of me being 'reserved'... mind you i guess i'm more of an introvert who in social settings flicks the switch and throws on a routine because its the easiest way for me to have a good time, so i am kinda reserved. that's just not why i fizzle out in the moment lol

the eye fk is the real trick though, if you can master that and hold the stare, i think there's an instant boost of confidence in and of that allowing whatever comes to your mind to flow right off your tongue. its hard as shit holding the gaze though, i've been trying more and more recently but every i get any lasting return, i pull the fking instant look away like i was just admiring architecture or some shit :lol 3-4 seconds is still prolly my personal best lol

[Nick Young]

80% of what pickup artists teach the noobs is how to get over approach anxiety.

Being afraid to look cheesy and corny is what's holding 99.9% of the population from getting laid as much as they'd ideally want.

[kNIOKAS]

I cannot believe you guys talking about some kind of routine while having a conversation with another person. It signals you are treating the other person like some kind of machine, which, having put the right code will work on your will. We are talking about live human being, come on... How a scheme of prepared lines could really work? It doesn't open up your or the other person. The conversation becomes simply meaningless... Tells a lot about the guy practising such a "routine".

[RidonKs]

I cannot believe you guys talking about some kind of routine while having a conversation with another person. It signals you are treating the other person like some kind of machine, which, having put the right code will work on your will. We are talking about live human being, come on... How a scheme of prepared lines could really work? It doesn't open up your or the other person. The conversation becomes simply meaningless... Tells a lot about the guy practising such a "routine".
i dunno... i doubt most guys would have much problem admitting that honestly, deep down, the reason they go up and hit on any girl is because she might turn into a free flesh light with tits

of course real relationships with meaning and love and values and junk might result, but in its initial stages, most flirting is essentially mechanical

[Balla_Status]

I cannot believe you guys talking about some kind of routine while having a conversation with another person. It signals you are treating the other person like some kind of machine, which, having put the right code will work on your will. We are talking about live human being, come on... How a scheme of prepared lines could really work? It doesn't open up your or the other person. The conversation becomes simply meaningless... Tells a lot about the guy practising such a "routine".

Says more about the girl falling for it than the guy.

Men KNOW it's a routine but if it works (usually works with the average girl at a bar), why wouldn't you keep doing it?

This line has never failed for me: "If your best friend were to introduce you to a guy and the only thing you knew about him was that he was an engineer, would you go out with him?" Answer: Yes, 100% of the time I've used it and then I say I'm an engineer.

It sounds like a massive cheesedick thing to say but hell, it works.

Something like, "What's your passion?" works as well (again cheesy as hell but it's a better line than "What do you do for a living?".) That opens up into interests and other topics which if you have any kind of personality, shouldn't be hard to jump onto.

Not any kind of ladies man by any means but if I end up talking to a girl I usually try and use something that gets women thinking and get away from the boring, "What do you do for a living?", "Where are you from?" etc. lines.

[Dolphin]

I don't think asking "where are you from?" or "what do you do for a living?" kills a conversation with a girl. Not being able to surround those questions with something interesting and/or funny is what kills a conversation.

In other words, the uninteresting talking points don't kill you, the lack of interesting ones do.

I'm sure you understood this, but just making it clear, don't be afraid to ask where a girl is from or what she does or where she went to school.....she won't mind answering those questions if you've engaged her already.

[d.bball.guy]

Step 1: Go near woman
Step 2: Show *****

[Myth]

I don't care if I don't get the girl, I just don't want to be a douchebag like the guy in the OP's video.

[Myth]

Step 1: Go near woman
Step 2: Show *****

Step 3: ??????
Step 4: Profit

[d.bball.guy]

Step 3: ??????
Step 4: Profit
Yea

[DonDadda59]

jesus christ are people really that desperate for p*ssy that they would hire a 'life coach' with a PHD in picking up skeezers at bars? :oldlol:

If you're really that desperate just go to a club/bar where there's dancing, go up to a drunk chick, dance with her, if your moves are right in no time you'll be making out. I try to avoid that scene nowadays because the older I get, the more obnoxious I find it- hate the douchebags and loose b*tches, hate the music, just a hassle. But last time I really went out with a goal in mind was New Year's and the ole formula worked.

That'll be $29.99 for my 'life coaching' services :pimp:

[enayes]

I would rather kill myself than act like a douche at a club trying to pick up girls. Then again I've been in love for 4 years, so it's hard to say what I would do if I were alone.

BUT IT WOULDN'T BE THAT.

[MetsPackers]

Was it just me, or did the dude in the video have no game whatsoever? That HAS to be staged. With the corny shyt he was saying real girls would have been like :wtf:

"Oh, you guys are locals? Interestingggggg. And roomates? Interestinggg"

WHat a creep, any chick with a brain would laugh at how fake he's acting. And lol at those sleezy questions. "Who thinks about sex more, girls or guys", after just meeting them and not knowing their names. They'd be like :biggums:

[ace23]

can u guys PLEASE help me pick up this girl named wendy?
Switchblade is more effective, tbh.

[Balla_Status]

Was it just me, or did the dude in the video have no game whatsoever? That HAS to be staged. With the corny shyt he was saying real girls would have been like :wtf:

"Oh, you guys are locals? Interestingggggg. And roomates? Interestinggg"

WHat a creep, any chick with a brain would laugh at how fake he's acting. And lol at those sleezy questions. "Who thinks about sex more, girls or guys", after just meeting them and not knowing their names. They'd be like :biggums:

That's the thing dude. They don't have one.

[d.bball.guy]

That's the thing dude. They don't have one.
:roll: :roll:

[SacJB Shady]

I just called the number in that youtube video. I asked if that was her in the video and she hung up. Sounded kind of like her.

[Balla_Status]

I just called the number in that youtube video. I asked if that was her in the video and she hung up. Sounded kind of like her.

Take those kind of balls it took to call that # and apply that to random women.

[SacJB Shady]

Take those kind of balls it took to call that # and apply that to random women.


all i did was call though to see if the number was real

[Scholar]

all i did was call though to see if the number was real

I bet your voice cracked as soon as you heard a female answer.

[IcanzIIravor]

all i did was call though to see if the number was real

Take that same kind of reckless abandon and apply that to actual girls near you that you can actually reach out and touch.

[kNIOKAS]

i dunno... i doubt most guys would have much problem admitting that honestly, deep down, the reason they go up and hit on any girl is because she might turn into a free flesh light with tits

of course real relationships with meaning and love and values and junk might result, but in its initial stages, most flirting is essentially mechanical

I disagree... I think flirting is mainly done and already decided on the first stares you exchange. You can see in her eyes if a girl likes you, and she can too. What is worth to list the usual jokes and socialise by it? I'd rather have open and honest unique shyness or restraint instead of fast-factoried lines.


I don't think asking "where are you from?" or "what do you do for a living?" kills a conversation with a girl. Not being able to surround those questions with something interesting and/or funny is what kills a conversation.

In other words, the uninteresting talking points don't kill you, the lack of interesting ones do.

I'm sure you understood this, but just making it clear, don't be afraid to ask where a girl is from or what she does or where she went to school.....she won't mind answering those questions if you've engaged her already.
This is absolutely true... I once started convo with a girl but she first asked my bio, and I didn't really know what to say to her next time we met. You have to talk about current affairs or things that she is concerned at the moment first, and wait til bio stuff comes out naturally. Although you don't want to find she's underage after the third date, you want that on a first and last date.

Says more about the girl falling for it than the guy.

Right... If she falls for the "did it rain from the sky because you an angel" stuff directly, then yes. Ofcourse it could be you not afraid to be absolutely wack and her liking you having balls to be stupid. But non-ironically? Who in the hell could fall for that.

And covering the possible cross interest topics is a sure thing to do, but I was thinking just keep spitting out those pick up lines and have a "smart" answer for whatever comes up in the convo. That's just silly...


And for the enimen guy here: just drop it, everybody knows you trolling. sheesh

[Nick Young]

Was it just me, or did the dude in the video have no game whatsoever? That HAS to be staged. With the corny shyt he was saying real girls would have been like :wtf:

"Oh, you guys are locals? Interestingggggg. And roomates? Interestinggg"

WHat a creep, any chick with a brain would laugh at how fake he's acting. And lol at those sleezy questions. "Who thinks about sex more, girls or guys", after just meeting them and not knowing their names. They'd be like :biggums:
nope.

he was dressed nice and introduced himself confidently with good body language, that's how he was able to say stupid corny things and the girls ate it up anyways

[Rnbizzle]

Was it just me, or did the dude in the video have no game whatsoever? That HAS to be staged. With the corny shyt he was saying real girls would have been like :wtf:

"Oh, you guys are locals? Interestingggggg. And roomates? Interestinggg"

WHat a creep, any chick with a brain would laugh at how fake he's acting. And lol at those sleezy questions. "Who thinks about sex more, girls or guys", after just meeting them and not knowing their names. They'd be like :biggums:
Agreed.

[RaininTwos]

nope.

he was dressed nice and introduced himself confidently with good body language, that's how he was able to say stupid corny things and the girls ate it up anyways

Very true, there are limits to every topic or behavior but confidence lets you get away with a lot more than guys think so.

[Mach_3]

average girls, that works on.

dimes and nines who hear that 24/7 from everyone around them and used to getting slaved over and surrounded by drooling dudes in every club they go into, you need game.

This right here.

And all conversation with a women is you asking her the correct questions that allows her to run her fcukin mouth, and as soon as shes comfortable with you, get the number :confusedshrug:

[chosen_one6]

There's some gems in this thread guys...just gotta figure out which posts are the good ones and which ones aren't.

[JustinJDW]

When it comes to women, its not what you're saying, its what you're not saying. Its all in the body language and the confidence. What you actually say matters very little. They've heard it all. Its how you say it, but let her do the talking. The more she talks, the better for you. Women love to talk. Just be completely comfortable and confident with whatever it is you're saying, whether its cheesy, cliche, chill or whatever. You have to want to say what you're saying. But you can't fake confidence. That comes from yourself. Self-discipline. But I'm not saying anything that isn't obvious.

Truth is, you can say whatever the hell you want to women, as long as you own what you're saying. That's why you see douchebags pick up women, because they own being a douchebag. They're fine with that. And women will take the douchebag who wants to be a douchebag, over the nice guy who's unsure if being a nice guy works, every time.

[Myth]

I don't know if I have ever read a post by Shady that consisted of common sense.

[blacknapalm]

maybe. But i think Im gonna take a different approach. Just get yacked. I feel more confident now when i spend lots of time in the gym. Plus it gives you more sexual energy. I think the reason that some guys pick up women is that they are horny. When you're not horny, you're timid. But when you're confident and horny, you do whatever it takes to get in them sugar walls. That is what I'm starting to think. So I'm gonna spend a lot of time getting erections in the gym like TMW does.

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[raprap]

It depends on the environment really. When you approach a girl in the club, you want to be charismatic and fast. Go straight to the point, you only got a max of 5 mins to talk. And if your looking for a relationship, dont look in a club. Do some charity work in your community or visit the museum:lol etc.