My Bestfriend just passed away last night.

[$LakerGold]

I don't know what to do anymore... I miss her so much.. she was like my mom....she was always there when I needed someone...

38 years old... too young, way too young..... T_T

She was in a coma for about 2 weeks.. woke up for a day..and ever since, she never woke up but her heart kept beating..... til last night.

I feel like, there's no point of living this life anymore...


Hayze, my bestfriend... my mom... I miss you so much... I love you...

[iamgine]

Don't worry, you got ISH. We be replacing your bestfriend/mom.

[B]

Sorry to hear that. Take strength in your family and friends

[ROCSteady]

Condolences. That's terrible. I hope your healing process gives u a new light and u come to peace with her death.


The Good Die Young, remember that.

[oh the horror]

If it's any comfort man, in the past month...My aunt died, my girl of a year and a half broke up with me, and then just today my uncle had a heart attack (he's currently in the ICU)

So yeah...


Life is rough, but you'll find a way to endure.

[InLebronWeTrust]

Don't worry, you got ISH. We be replacing your bestfriend/mom.

No ban for a comment like that is pretty confusing.

Let her passing motivate you to do the things you'd know she would want of you. Make her proud. We're all here if you need to vent about anything man, take care.

[-p.tiddy-]

Sorry brother...

[D-Rose]

Sorry to hear that man, my condolences. In times of losing a loved one, remember them who they were during life, not death.

[Lebron23]

My condolences.

[DaHeezy]

That's pretty tough bro. I'm not going to use cliches like too young to go or things like that, because what you need right now is to live her memoriies with the other people in her life.

Celebrate her life, remember she loved you, it's good to grieve and let it out.

My condolences

[$LakerGold]

Thank you for the kind words everyone...

It really feels like it's the end of the world.

[franchise#3]

My condolences man. Try to stay strong.

[FatComputerNerd]

Very sorry, and I know the feeling.

A close friend of 15+ years took his own life a few months back, the day prior to what would have been his 32nd birthday.

His family found him hanging from a tree the day after he did it, on his actual birthday.

[RoseCity07]

Shit is real sad but life goes on. We only get a little bit of time on this planet and it can be over at any one moment. Hopefully she had a mostly happy life while she was here. Hang in there.

[MJ(Mean John)]

Thank you for the kind words everyone...

It really feels like it's the end of the world.


How old are you?

I'm sorry to hear that man. I've lost a lot of my family when they were young.
Nothing like losing my gramps tho. He died at 60 and he was in a way my best friend. I'm still not right. I still cry when I hit up the cemetery.

I feel you my boy. Stay up.

[jbot]

sorry to hear of your loss.

[Raz]

Try to stay positive man - celebrate her life.

I'm sorry to hear of her passing.

[rufuspaul]

My sympathies. We enter and exit this world alone but we profoundly touch people along the way. Spend your life passing on to others the gift of love your friend gave to you.

[niko]

Just hang in there and whatever helps you cope, do it. A few weeks of indulgence to get past things won't kill you. Sleep a lot too. It does get better.

It always hurts when people are gone but the alternative would have been never to have known them.

[DeuceWallaces]

It's rough stuff man. My boy died last September from brain cancer; he was a PhD student at Stanford and only 30.

[Draz]

Sorry bro /:

[brantonli]

I hope you stay strong man. Don't let it overwhelm you, but remember her in your own way. My most sincere condolences and sympathies.

[Bucket_Nakedz]

that's very brave of you to share something so personal, yet so tragic.

this past december, i saw my grandfather pass away right before my very eyes. it is something my uncle and i will never forget as we saw him on his last breathe.

i hardly posted on ish during that time, but i still lurked because it gave me familiarity and of course the lulz to keep my mind off of grief.

but even in sadness, there is always something positive. since my grandfather passed, my moms side of the family has gotten a lot more closer then ever before. she always had a dysfunctional relationship with her siblings, but now, they've all made up and have been working together to take care of my grandmother (who's living with my mom now).

it's such a beautiful thing to see, and i know my grandfather is really proud and happy they're finally getting along.

i am deeply sorry for your loss, but i hope you can find strength. it will get better and life will return. i still tear up here and there, but you will get through it.

may she rest with love...

[Remix]

Sorry to hear that.

Last summer, one of my close friends got in a car accident and wasn't wearing her seatbelt and got ejected. Still a teenager. Now her parents are getting a divorce and the while thing is just a mess.

In October, my brother got in a serious ATV accident and was in a coma for about three weeks. He's not the same anymore. A lot slower in the head and you can tell somethings wrong with him by just talking to him. People don't hang with him as much anymore cause they are weirded out by him. Pisses me off.

And just today my Dad said his gf's daughter is back in the hospital with kidney problems again. We thought she'd be ok, but now its getting serious again and she needs a transplant.

Keep your head up man.

[Swaggin916]

Time will heal all wounds man. It seems really hard now but in time the intense feelings will go away and you will be able to remember them without feeling sad.

[nightprowler10]

Sorry about your loss.

[$LakerGold]

Thanks guys... Ima get a tattoo of her name and everything on my forearm.

[d.bball.guy]

Sorry to hear that man :(

ISH is here for you

[RaininTwos]

It's rough stuff man. My boy died last September from brain cancer; he was a PhD student at Stanford and only 30.
:eek:

He accomplished a lot but that's still sad. I know a Stanford Alum headed to NASA that died in a car crash a couple years ago. You just never know which day is your last.

[Legend of Josh]

It's rough stuff man. My boy died last September from brain cancer; he was a PhD student at Stanford and only 30.

Damn dude... you must have been what - 5 or 6 at the time you had him, no? How is that even possible?

[GOBB]

Sorry to hear bro. :(


Damn dude... you must have been what - 5 or 6 at the time you had him, no? How is that even possible?

Weak joke, in a serious thread. Good job dbag. No really, awesome. :rolleyes:

[RaininTwos]

Damn dude... you must have been what - 5 or 6 at the time you had him, no? How is that even possible?
0/10, you suck at life

[Freedom Kid7]

Sorry about your loss and you have my condolences. Stay strong man.

[TheMan]

Death sucks, I've lost both my parents. It's hard but you'll pull through, just remember the good times.

[TheMan]

Damn dude... you must have been what - 5 or 6 at the time you had him, no? How is that even possible?
You are a horrible person making fun of someone else's tragedy. Really really weak.

[arkain]

Condolences bro. Just remember life goes on and don't do anything that she wouldn't want you to do. I know people who really screwed up their own life grieving about loved ones.

[step_back]

Keep your head up mate. It won't be easy but you will learn to cope. Best wishes and stay strong.

[mr beast]

RIP and stay strong for your loved ones that passed away already

they would want to see you move forward with your head held up high and live the best you can. they will be forever in your heart

[Legend of Josh]

I wasn't even joking. He said his boy died, so I just figured he meant his son. It wasn't until I went back and reread DW's ENTIRE post and seen he was referring to a friend who's a student. I thought the post didn't make sense and that DW was just being a pissed off hermit like he normally is, and that HE was making a joke in an obviously serious thread.

I'm sorry to hear about your loss OP.

[RaininTwos]

I wasn't even joking. He said his boy died, so I just figured he meant his son. It wasn't until I went back and reread DW's ENTIRE post and seen he was referring to a friend who's a student. I thought the post didn't make sense and that DW was just being a pissed off hermit like he normally is, and that HE was making a joke in an obviously serious thread.

I'm sorry to hear about your loss OP.
:coleman:

[macmac]

I wasn't even joking. He said his boy died, so I just figured he meant his son. It wasn't until I went back and reread DW's ENTIRE post and seen he was referring to a friend who's a student. I thought the post didn't make sense and that DW was just being a pissed off hermit like he normally is, and that HE was making a joke in an obviously serious thread.

I'm sorry to hear about your loss OP.

So you think 5 year olds are able to have sex and impregnate women?

Edit: Anyways, i just reread your post, it's a pretty stupid explanation, might as well just troll than try to justify it

[Legend of Josh]

So you think 5 year olds are able to have sex and impregnate women?

Edit: Anyways, i just reread your post, it's a pretty stupid explanation, might as well just troll than try to justify it

LOL, I'm being the D word serious. I just skimmed DW's post and made a premature commment. Nothing more, nothing less.

[$LakerGold]

Thank you guys...

I keep wakin up in the middle of the night and start to bust out cryin... I hope i'll be better soon... I try to have fun and everything but, at the end of th night.. I go back and think bout her..

....I miss her :(

anyways, she's goin to be cremated..

[artex]

stay up yo .

[KDTrey5]

head up man, my condolences

[ClutchOver9000]

my deepest condolences go out to you and everyone affected...stay strong my man...

[SourPatchKids]

This ISH Camaraderie..:applause:

[bokes15]

I don't think dealing with death (especially in tragic fashion) ever really gets easier, but it does get more manageable with time.

[$LakerGold]

?

But that's not the one you posted a pic in the BTE, right?

get well soon sir

Nope.. that's my other bestfriend.
Damn, it's been more than a month since she passed away..

And don't worry, I will. Thanks.

[$LakerGold]

I don't think dealing with death (especially in tragic fashion) ever really gets easier, but it does get more manageable with time.
Thank you for letting us know... I think im kinda better now...
But I mean, I'm just basically training now for her.

[$LakerGold]

my deepest condolences go out to you and everyone affected...stay strong my man...
Thank you, I will.

[L.Kizzle]

Sorry to hear that man.

Stay strong and always keep her in your memory.

[ganja0710]

condolences and stay strong brother...

[East_Stone_Ya]

i hope this helps :cheers:


We each have our own way of surviving losses. Some of us will seek solitude and find that the
well-intentioned inquiries and expressions of sympathy from others only revive the pain. However, as in
recovering from any trauma, physical or mental, a progressive return to our usual life of work, family, and
friends is most important. The longer we put it off, the slower our recovery will be. We can begin to help
ourselves by thinking through the challenges of starting to live without the deceased person. Perhaps outlining a
schedule of the day-to-day tasks can help us to structure our day and get us moving back into a normal routine.
Reconnecting with friends, going back to work or school, and beginning to pick up the threads of our lives can
help us to deal with feelings of numbness, lethargy, and paralysis.
Attending to our physical needs is essential during this time. Get enough sleep. Go to bed a bit earlier and sleep a
bit later. Plan your meals so that you are eating properly. Work some exercise into your daily routine. Remember
just as our emotional self is affected by the loss of a loved one, so is our physical self. Even having a physical
exam by a physician can help us to take care of ourselves as we continue to heal.

[JMT]

Life is short and fleeting, and we are guaranteed nothing beyond this moment.

Perhaps you can use this passing as a reminder to cherish every day, everyone and thing that you love. Don't ever take it for granted that someone knows that you love them.

I wish you peace in this very difficult time.