What's your longest drought?

[Just2McFly]

I'm curious.

Right now I have been without the box for three days, but my longest time boxless after losing my virginity was probably a month. I waited a long time to have sex, but since then I've been sort of addicted. People posting porn here doesn't help either.

I want to hear the funny desperation stories that seems to occur when you've gone without it for so long you can't stand it. Plowking, correct me if I'm wrong on anything and feel free to share most of what I've told you because I can't remember shit right now.

[SevereUpInHere]

I'm curious.

Right now I have been without the box for three days, but my longest time boxless after losing my virginity was probably a month. I waited a long time to have sex, but since then I've been sort of addicted. People posting porn here doesn't help either.

I want to hear the funny desperation stories that seems to occur when you've gone without it for so long you can't stand it. Plowking, correct me if I'm wrong on anything and feel free to share most of what I've told you because I can't remember shit right now.


I'm about 2 months in right now, longest since I've lost my virginity is probably 4? months. Sometimes I'll get 3 new girls over 2 weeks, sometimes I'll get nothing for a few months. I wish I knew what I was doing when I was having success, but after I've been around for 30 years it still feels like dumb luck any time i get laid :oldlol:

The only drought story I can remember was after a long ass drought I met this girl and after catching up a couple of times, she said she'd drop over to mine after she went out. So that was pretty much green light, I passed out on the couch waiting for her to come round, missed all her calls and didn't hear her knocking on my door. She was furious and had to get a cab home. :oldlol: It took some work to come back from that, but in the end managed to break the drought!


Oh one more thing about the current drought, most of my friends think it's up around 5 months, since I've slept with one of the girls in our group we've both had to pretend it never happened.

[MetsPackers]

Right now like 10 days, but went probably 8-9 months during high school at one point, but I don't really fiend to get my number up; i'd rather just have one girl

[kNIOKAS]

So you made this thread to brag.

[ILLsmak]

I haven't had sex in years. haha.

Seems like, where I am in life right now, that having sex would have social consequences that would not be worth busting a nut.

-Smak

[HylianNightmare]

6 months, my homeboy is up to 2 years right now doe :wtf:

[Bucket_Nakedz]

almost a year, around 9 -10 months. wasn't really thinking about getting off for about a 3 month span. then i met my fiance, and she made me wait about 6-7 months. me and her had gone through a lot of experiences. she had only been with 2 guys in her entire dating life and i was the exact opposite. she was worth it, tho.

[L.Kizzle]

Currently since July. Don't know my longest.
Of what year?

[Nick Young]

almost a year, around 9 -10 months. wasn't really thinking about getting off for about a 3 month span. then i met my fiance, and she made me wait about 6-7 months. me and her had gone through a lot of experiences. she had only been with 2 guys in her entire dating life and i was the exact opposite. she was worth it, tho.
what the shit no p*ssy is worth waiting 7 months for WTF:lol

[Toizumi]

The **** did you two do for 6 months?

Can't speak for him, but my current girl made me wait 3 months. For her I would've waited a year. There's so much more you can do than "it", so I don't know if you can really call it a drought though :D

[Toizumi]

what the shit no p*ssy is worth waiting 7 months for WTF:lol

but the girl can be :cheers:

[ihoopallday]

Too many std's going around on campus. :lol I'll wait till I graduate in 2 years..............

Not kidding either

[FatComputerNerd]

I had no sex for 6-7 years or so in my late 20's-early 30's.

Was going through some issues including depression and anxiety, rarely left the house other than work, and had a hard time meeting anyone, let alone finding women.

Thankfully things have changed for me since then.

[ihoopallday]

I had no sex for 6-7 years or so in my late 20's-early 30's.

Was going through some issues including depression and anxiety, and had a hard time meeting anyone, let alone finding women.

Thankfully things have changed for me since then.

Good for you. Wish more people could understand how tough anxiety can be to deal with. :cheers:

[millwad]

For a couple of years now I've been with the same girl so I have had no major breaks but now I study abroad so I haven't gotten some for almost 3 months now.

No plans to cheat on my love so I'll be without it for 3 more months, as for now we're having cam "sex" alot, not the same thing... :(

[millwad]

I had no sex for 6-7 years or so in my late 20's-early 30's.

Was going through some issues including depression and anxiety, rarely left the house other than work, and had a hard time meeting anyone, let alone finding women.

Thankfully things have changed for me since then.


How did it go for you, dude?

Are you with the new female you met or with your old crush?

[nathanjizzle]

Two months ago would have been close to three years. But I've been bangin this girl to get over my ex and got her pregnant

[FatComputerNerd]

How did it go for you, dude?

Are you with the new female you met or with your old crush?


New female.

Drought ended some time ago before that though, but yeah...

[SevereUpInHere]

I had no sex for 6-7 years or so in my late 20's-early 30's.

Was going through some issues including depression and anxiety, rarely left the house other than work, and had a hard time meeting anyone, let alone finding women.

Thankfully things have changed for me since then.


I feel terrible but I read the first sentance, then saw your username and burst out laughing.

Glad you've got your shit sorted now though :cheers:

[FatComputerNerd]

I feel terrible but I read the first sentance, then saw your username and burst out laughing.

Glad you've got your shit sorted now though :cheers:

Happy to have provided some lulz!

:cheers:

[ace23]

15 minutes on a bad day

[senelcoolidge]

I have constant droughts because I have long periods of time away from my wife. Last time was in March. I won't see my wife again until probably late 2013 or early 2014. But after that we'll be together all the time finally. I'm faithful to her so I have no choice but to wait. I've had droughts of 3-4 years before I met my wife. I'm a one woman type guy.

[TheeBeast]

7 months

[plowking]

I'm curious.

Right now I have been without the box for three days, but my longest time boxless after losing my virginity was probably a month. I waited a long time to have sex, but since then I've been sort of addicted. People posting porn here doesn't help either.

I want to hear the funny desperation stories that seems to occur when you've gone without it for so long you can't stand it. Plowking, correct me if I'm wrong on anything and feel free to share most of what I've told you because I can't remember shit right now.

LOL... just seeing this thread now.

Maaaaan, you tell me shit, but you hardly ever show me the girls. Funny shit is most of my dry spells were happening when you were dabbling with 2 or 3 girls, and your dry spells were when I was fooling around with 2 or 3. Glad there is some continuity and that you're not the actual karmic/butterfly effect reason for my dry spells, since we both getting some regularly now.

I dunno, I can't remember how long the longest is. Maybe 1 or 2 months. After that drought was possibly the hottest chick I've ever bedded, so it was worth the wait.

[Just2McFly]

I had no sex for 6-7 years or so in my late 20's-early 30's.

Was going through some issues including depression and anxiety, rarely left the house other than work, and had a hard time meeting anyone, let alone finding women.

Thankfully things have changed for me since then.
I'm glad that you worked your way through those issues man, depression and anxiety really detract from the quality of our lives.

During my senior of HS and first year or so of college, I didn't do shit other than work, play basketball and school. I was depressed, and partly suicidal.

I had extremely low self-esteem, I was delusional and made ever small issue humongous. At this point, I started listening to music more than ever, delving into new genres, learning about different sounds and loving it. I don't necessarily know how that correlates to me being better socially and going out more, but for me it helped during the dark times and I still love music to this day.

I still have some of my irrational insecurities, but we are all a work in progress. :cheers:

Oh and bump.


LOL... just seeing this thread now.

Maaaaan, you tell me shit, but you hardly ever show me the girls. Funny shit is most of my dry spells were happening when you were dabbling with 2 or 3 girls, and your dry spells were when I was fooling around with 2 or 3. Glad there is some continuity and that you're not the actual karmic/butterfly effect reason for my dry spells, since we both getting some regularly now.

I dunno, I can't remember how long the longest is. Maybe 1 or 2 months. After that drought was possibly the hottest chick I've ever bedded, so it was worth the wait.
You always say the girls I f*ck are weird or ugly, so I stopped sharing :oldlol:

Our tastes are worlds apart and it's been that way for as long as I can remember, but next time you are online I'll find some tumblr users I have given the D to and link you.

[Draz]

I've done it probably every day except weekends and maybe miss a day in the week for 7-8 months now straight, with the current girl. I want to STOP. I'm literally LIMP. Lol. My bestfriend said I will lose my sex drive soon which is bad.

[Draz]

I had no sex for 6-7 years or so in my late 20's-early 30's.

Was going through some issues including depression and anxiety, rarely left the house other than work, and had a hard time meeting anyone, let alone finding women.

Thankfully things have changed for me since then.

Congratulations man. I'm happy for you. Everyone needs to experience. Sex is apart of life. Something we sometimes do to release stress.

[Just2McFly]

I've done it probably every day except weekends and maybe miss a day in the week for 7-8 months now straight, with the current girl. I want to STOP. I'm literally LIMP. Lol. My bestfriend said I will lose my sex drive soon which is bad.
I'm weird when it comes to sex. I enjoy it thoroughly, but I can't do that shit every day for extended periods of time.

F*ck that.

I'm good with every two days though.

[Draz]

I'm weird when it comes to sex. I enjoy it thoroughly, but I can't do that shit every day for extended periods of time.

F*ck that.

I'm good with every two days though.

Maybe because I'm 20, lost it at early 18. I was with the same girl for 2 years 9 months, didn't do much sexually probably had quickies and sex 7-10 times excluding oral. Wasn't truly interested in sex with her.. Turned 20, met this girl, currently with her for almost 8 months. Been very, very, sexually active. My attraction to her is huge, so I guess whenever I get turned on, to the point where I can't control it, we just do it. It's been like this since the first month we've started.

For example, one week for me would be monday, tuesday (if horny), wednesday, thursday, skip friday, saturday & sunday because we rarely see each other on weekends. Which is why monday is a definite. On those days, when we DON'T have sex, we do oral. So I'm continuously doing something and staying active, too active.

She's gotten so fcking loose it's not even funny, lucky for me we do oral or **** (RARELY) she hates that shit. She's currently on her period too, so she'll come back a bit tighter. I'm trying to control myself not just for me but for her, to get back tighter. The problem with my girl is that she gets very very wet. If you've ever fcked a girl who doesn't get like a runny river, you'll notice the difference. So especially since we're too active, the wetness of her makes it even MORE loose. It's a lose lose situation.

Honestly, I'm doing it so much my comfort zone has gotten me even more attracted to her. I don't want to even do any other girl. If someone in my shoes ever feel this way, you'll agree.

[Just2McFly]

I've had those super wet girls before, after a while you just wonder when that shit will stop running. Seems like she has pandora's box over there or something, you dont ever want to do another girl? Gotdamn:biggums:

I prefer someone with just enough natural lubrication to get the job done, but anything is better than desert dry vag

[Draz]

I've had those super wet girls before, after a while you just wonder when that shit will stop running. Seems like she has pandora's box over there or something, you dont ever want to do another girl? Gotdamn:biggums:

I prefer someone with just enough natural lubrication to get the job done, but anything is better than desert dry vag

Well I've never had desert dry ******. That's a bad sign if she's that dry in part of the guys fault. But, as far as never wanting to try another girl, I may have over exhaggerated. I'm not saying I wouldn't, but I'm saying I'm just satisfied with my sex life with her. My sex drive dropped in terms of another girl being able to turn me on.

[HardwoodLegend]

Not gonna even say... I may as well become a Buddhist monk at this point.

But whackin it and exercise actually satisfy me enough though. I don't get too stressed bout it.

[fiddy]

Current, about a year. Nearly ****ed a friend of mine couple of months ago. Turned out she had a boyfriend.

[Draz]

I remember when I fcked the 2nd girl of my life. I told my bestfriend that I rather jerk off because it feels better, he agreed. Obviously, at that stage and point, I wasn't gaining pleasure through just doing it. I believe when you love someone and have a strong bond / relationship it builds your sex life by a wide margin. It increases your emotions and feelings while doing it, gaining extreme pleasure or more successful happiness towards doing it and expecting to do it again. I remember not feeling anything when I finally hit the 3rd girl of my life. It started off with just "doing it, to do it" to, I really can't wait to make love.

If anyone here can agree to me, do quote.

[HardwoodLegend]

I remember when I fcked the 2nd girl of my life. I told my bestfriend that I rather jerk off because it feels better, he agreed. Obviously, at that stage and point, I wasn't gaining pleasure through just doing it. I believe when you love someone and have a strong bond / relationship it builds your sex life by a wide margin.

I imagine so. Perhaps I'll experience that one day.

But as for now, the few girls I did do had no skills, and I get more pleasure just watching a porn chick who knows what she's doing and live vicariously through the horse stud on the screen.

[Draz]

I imagine so. Perhaps I'll experience that one day.

But as for now, the few girls I did do had no skills, and I get more pleasure just watching a porn chick who knows what she's doing and live vicariously through the horse stud on the screen.

If I love a girl I'm with, the "no skills" part actually turns me on more. It gives me more control and power over her. But, of course, with every girl that doesn't have skills, there's one in her that will. You need to bring that out, the same way the guy before you did to the girl you found skills in.

The girl I'm with now, she used to just lay there and take it, now she's riding me like a cowgirl doing things pornstars don't even do. Gotta bring that devil out the angel, bring the bad side out.

[Just2McFly]

Current, about a year. Nearly ****ed a friend of mine couple of months ago. Turned out she had a boyfriend.
bro, you went from first gear to 4th, your post is stalling. where are the deets? sounds interesting.

[Bandito]

Currently since July last year. I had my chances but I didn't capitalize for some reason...

[Draz]

I actually can't live without sex now. I feel like I have to have a girlfriend to be "there", my minds just throttled to think that way now.

[Myth]

Longest drought was college of all places. I went about two and a half years without sex. Most of that was because I went that long without a committed relationship, and back then it was important to me to be in a committed relationship to have sex, because I had several opportunities that were pretty explicit.

[Draz]

Longest drought was college of all places. I went about two and a half years without sex. Most of that was because I went that long without a committed relationship, and back then it was important to me to be in a committed relationship to have sex, because I had several opportunities that were pretty explicit.

Same. I guess we all have weird times in losing it. I think I lost it pretty late (18) but then again, it made me who I am today.

[fiddy]

bro, you went from first gear to 4th, your post is stalling. where are the deets? sounds interesting.
She was over at my place, talking listening to some music and drinking. After we finished a bottle of rum + cola she said, she said she was too lazy too to walk home or call a cab, so she decided to stay. Thats when i tought hell yeah. So she was in my bed and i decided to make a move and 2 minutes later my hand was in her panties. She got wet, two fingers in the juice, now she started twearking and moaning just a bit, a kiss, 1 minute after she just erupted "i cant, i hava a boyfriend". And that was it. Two ****ing horrible hours followed i had to reasure her nothing really happened and so on. Never heard from her after that. :oldlol:

[Draz]

She was over at my place, talking listening to some music and drinking. After we finished a bottle of rum + cola she said, she said she was too lazy too to walk home or call a cab, so she decided to stay. Thats when i tought hell yeah. So she was in my bed and i decided to make a move and 2 minutes later my hand was in her panties. She got wet, two fingers in the juice, now she started twearking and moaning just a bit, a kiss, 1 minute after she just erupted "i cant, i hava a boyfriend". And that was it. Two ****ing horrible hours followed i had to reasure her nothing really happened and so on. Never heard from her after that. :oldlol:

Don't feel bad. She should. She's drinking and she allowed herself, to allow someone to put her hands where only her boyfriend should be. Now if she's still with him, she's probably dealing with that situation in the back of her head every so often depending on the type of person she is, or she could of simply rubbed it off like it were nothing. It could of also led to her breaking up with him because she knew what she did was wrong. Chain of events.

[Myth]

Same. I guess we all have weird times in losing it. I think I lost it pretty late (18) but then again, it made me who I am today.

Just to be clear, are you talking about losing that mindset of wanting it to be in a committed relationship whenever you have sex, or losing your virginity? Because I don't think 18 is necessarily late for either category.

[Draz]

Just to be clear, are you talking about losing that mindset of wanting it to be in a committed relationship whenever you have sex, or losing your virginity? Because I don't think 18 is necessarily late for either category.

I meant to say virginity, didn't make it clear enough sorry. I lost it pretty late.. but I mean, I wanted to lose it to the person I loved and would be there for me. I thought that meant a lot, especially for the female partner. Happened that she wanted to be the one to finally lose it.

[blablabla]

The streak is still alive:cheers:
Like the Heat

[Myth]

So she was in my bed and i decided to make a move and 2 minutes later my hand was in her panties. She got wet, two fingers in the juice, now she started twearking and moaning just a bit, a kiss..... i had to reasure her nothing really happened and so on.

It sounds like something happened :lol

But as Draz said, know need for you to feel bad about that (at least assuming you didn't know about the bf until after she said it).

[Draz]

I don't get the reference.

:roll:

[Myth]

I meant to say virginity, didn't make it clear enough sorry. I lost it pretty late.. but I mean, I wanted to lose it to the person I loved and would be there for me. I thought that meant a lot, especially for the female partner. Happened that she wanted to be the one to finally lose it.

Ok, wasn't sure since I wasn't talking about virginity. I lost that mindset way after losing my virginity in a more committed relationship. Although, I think part of that mindset stuck with me. I only had sex with one girl I wasn't in a committed relationship with, but it eventually turned into more of a commitment, and I am turned off by girls who really whore it up on me at parties. I like more down to earth girls, and they usually don't rush too much.

[sick_brah07]

in the last 3 years after i broke up with my nut case ex

i swore i would screw as much i could, so probably about 5 to 7 days would have been my longest time without ****ing for about a year an half now that i'm in a relationship probably about 3 weeks or so i have no idea how this works lol

[PHX_Phan]

Went without it for a few years after high school. I had a busy schedule with full time work and school and didn't get out much. Since 22 I'd say the longest was 4-5 weeks when my ex-girl gave birth.

[maybeshewill13]

Longest since losing my virginity 5 years ago is probably 3-4 weeks. Just ****ed 5 minutes ago, now laying in bed naked on ISH :lol She's not into cuddling after sex :rockon:

[knickballer]

I probably haven't gone without water for a couple of hours the most. Usually try to stay hydrated though.

[Just2McFly]

been too long fam...im stressed...