i am getting drink with a girl 4 inches taller than me tom night...does she care?

[therammingman]

met from online dating site.....she is 4 inches taller. pretty hot.

it says your height in your profile....so i can assume she saw my height yes? and she doesnt care?

i am not gonna ask her b/c i will look insecure and *****. but i also dont want her to show up and be surprised (if she in fact did not look at my height)

help?

[Balla_Status]

She agreed to a date with you. End of story.

[QUIZZLE]

met from online dating site.....she is 4 inches taller. pretty hot.

it says your height in your profile....so i can assume she saw my height yes? and she doesnt care?

i am not gonna ask her b/c i will look insecure and *****. but i also dont want her to show up and be surprised (if she in fact did not look at my height)

help?

She may have a wang unless you're Verne Troyer

[BGriffin's Dad]

4 inches taller? is she 6 ft+?

[therammingman]

she just checked out my profile again right now...we talked on phone for 30 min about hour ago.

[therammingman]

4 inches taller? is she 6 ft+?

6"0

[therammingman]

Even the suicidal dude gettin pvssy

God hate my dick

thats not funny

and no, i'm not...i am meeting her there....nothing happening

[L.Kizzle]

With heels, she's be 6'6

[therammingman]

What dating site you use?

POF

[ShaqAttack3234]

Just wear big-heeled boots, and wear inserts in them if you're concerned. Hell, I walk around like that so as far as anyone knows, I'm 5'11"+ not 5'8". No shame in that, women spend a lot of time on their appearance. Who cares if a man wants to appear taller than they are?

[Scoooter]

I'm just about 6'1", and super insecure about my height. Medical science needs to get to work on this. I want height pills.

[bmulls]

6"0

If this chick is really 6'4" I guarantee you she is a million times more insecure about her own beastly height than your (relative) lack thereof.

[therammingman]

Just wear big-heeled boots, and wear inserts in them if you're concerned. Hell, I walk around like that so as far as anyone knows, I'm 5'11"+ not 5'8". No shame in that, women spend a lot of time on their appearance. Who cares if a man wants to appear taller than they are?

i disagree with that much of a difference....what happens later? same reason i would never wear a hairpiece or something (shave my head)

[therammingman]

If this chick is really 6'4" I guarantee you she is a million times more insecure about her own beastly height than your (relative) lack thereof.

no. she is 6"0.

i'm 5"8.

[therammingman]

Just wear big-heeled boots, and wear inserts in them if you're concerned. Hell, I walk around like that so as far as anyone knows, I'm 5'11"+ not 5'8". No shame in that, women spend a lot of time on their appearance. Who cares if a man wants to appear taller than they are?

i'll wear my shoes/boots that have a 1 inch heel

[bmulls]

Found a pic of the OP and his date

http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6103/6237623340_7cc2108e80.jpg

[ShaqAttack3234]

i disagree with that much of a difference....what happens later? same reason i would never wear a hairpiece or something (shave my head)

Just don't take off your shoes unless your sitting down. Hell, I've been doing this shit for years, and nobody except for family and close friends knows I'm more than 3 inches shorter than I claim. If you **** her, then just put your shoes back on as soon as you get up, and put your clothes back on at the same time to not make it obvious.

But if you're 5'8" like me as it sounds then you may not need to worry anyway, it may be all in your head, just like it is with me. You're still essentially average, while she's EXTREMELY tall. It just depends on your own mindset. If you're bothered by it, make a conscious effort to appear taller than you are. If not, then no problem.


i'll wear my shoes/boots that have a 1 inch heel

1 inch heel won't do much. I wear 2 1/2 inch heels with 1" or 1 1/4" inserts inside, and that makes a difference. You get use to them too. They're my regular shoes, except when I'm working or playing basketball.

[chazzy]

She's probably used to being taller than guys. It's not like you're 5'4

[ShaqAttack3234]

:oldlol: Even after you fvck a girl you aren't comfortable enough around her to let her see you're slightly below average height?

Everyone has their own insecurities and vanities. Girls in my experience make height important. They often think any guy who doesn't tower over them is their height or shorter than them, which is usually wrong. Women do in fact judge men on their height quite frequently, it doesn't mean you can't overcome it, but it is something many factor in, along with your income. :facepalm

[Scoooter]

Even the suicidal dude gettin pvssy

God hate my dick
God loves all penises.

[ShaqAttack3234]

She's probably used to being taller than guys. It's not like you're 5'4

That reminds me of a story I was told by someone who is barely taller than me. It was a 6'2" woman and she turned down the person because he was supposedly too short, and he said well, if you're waiting for a guy your height, you'll be waiting a long time(or something, I'm paraphrasing.) Point is, that persuaded her.

[therammingman]

She's probably used to being taller than guys. It's not like you're 5'4

thanks!

[lilojmayo]

Everyone has their own insecurities and vanities. Girls in my experience make height important. They often think any guy who doesn't tower over them is their height or shorter than them, which is usually wrong. Women do in fact judge men on their height quite frequently, it doesn't mean you can't overcome it, but it is something many factor in, along with your income. :facepalm


http://www.tallerheels.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/s/h/shoe-inserts-height.jpg


Wait so you were shoes with 2+inch heels, like boots. Then have shoe insert like this ?

[Scoooter]

5'8" isn't really that short. Almost average.

[therammingman]

5'8" isn't really that short. Almost average.

thanks guys. not so worried anymore.

one of the few times you get legit responses and not people ripping on you.

appreciate it.

[n00bie]

You shouldn't drink too much anyway. You might get carried away & get alcohol poisoning.. maybe even die.

We should ban the use of alcohol in America. It'll save hundreds of lives.

[LJJ]

But if you're 5'8" like me as it sounds then you may not need to worry anyway, it may be all in your head, just like it is with me. You're still essentially average, while she's EXTREMELY tall. It just depends on your own mindset. If you're bothered by it, make a conscious effort to appear taller than you are. If not, then no problem.

Woah, 6'0 is not EXTREMELY tall.

[Velocirap31]

Woah, 6'0 is not EXTREMELY tall.

For a girl, it's definitely a high percentile.

[TylerOO]

Dude don't sweat it. Its not like your 5'4 or 5'5 like some of my friends. Now thats kinda embarrassing.

[Smoke117]

I hope she wore heels to make the difference even bigger.

[millwad]

Stupid to wear some shoes that makes you seem taller.
In the end of the day she's going to see how tall you really are and you won't wear shoes if you take her home. Height is just not something you'll be able to hide and it will only make you look stupid if you try to do so.

I'm 6'7 being too tall is not great all the time either, I tower over all the females I've been with and I rather not hook up with females shorter than 5'8.

[dunksby]

no. she is 6"0.

i'm 5"8.
I aint trying to nitpick here but don't worry you are not 4 inches shorter than her, only two. On another note as a 6' girl she must be over the whole height issue by now, unless you are dating an 18 year old or something.

[CeltsGarlic]

Stupid to wear some shoes that makes you seem taller.
In the end of the day she's going to see how tall you really are and you won't wear shoes if you take her home. Height is just not something you'll be able to hide and it will only make you look stupid if you try to do so.

I'm 6'7 being too tall is not great all the time either, I tower over all the females I've been with and I rather not hook up with females shorter than 5'8.

Something about you screams insecurity.. Why would you everywhere post your height or other physical attributes? Youre obsessed with yourself.

[KevinNYC]

thanks guys. not so worried anymore.

one of the few times you get legit responses and not people ripping on you.

appreciate it.

The more you act like it's not an issue at all, the less likely it will be an issue for her. Tell her she looks good, but don't mention her height or tell she's tall.

Some tall women are insecure about their height. A good friend of mine is tall and blonde and looks like Laura Dern and she is super-insecure about her height and looks.

[Burgz V2]

I aint trying to nitpick here but don't worry you are not 4 inches shorter than her, only two. On another note as a 6' girl she must be over the whole height issue by now, unless you are dating an 18 year old or something.

...there are 12 inches in a foot...

anyways, to the OP, if she's agreed to have a drink with you she has probably already crossed that bridge.

[millwad]

Something about you screams insecurity.. Why would you everywhere post your height or other physical attributes? Youre obsessed with yourself.

Only an insecure person would come up with such conclusion. When have I spammed about my height or other attributes? The times I've mentioned my height have been in basketball discussions or threads like this when people like OP make too big deal of not being tall. Hell, I even wrote that being tall isn't even a hit when meeting females.

[JerryWest]

Only an insecure person would come up with such conclusion. When have I spammed about my height or other attributes? The times I've mentioned my height have been in basketball discussions or threads like this when people like OP make too big deal of not being tall. Hell, I even wrote that being tall isn't even a hit when meeting females.
Don't mind him millwad, celt's being a bitch cause his favorite team is losing all the time. Awwww!

[Clifton]

Women don't care how tall you are; they care about how you "carry" yourself. Height happens to be the biggest aspect of how you carry yourself, and the one part of it you have no control over. But there is a lot you do have control over, like how you dress, your hair, your gait, your demeanor, etc.

On the whole, you want to be taller than the woman you're with. It's almost always a compatibility stretch if you're not. But this doesn't apply in all cases. I've seen great matched couples with inverted heights. The important thing is to "act tall." If you're some huge tall dude but you just act awkward and lanky, that's not attractive either.

[DirkNowitzki41]

Even the suicidal dude gettin pvssy

God hate my dick

i thought you got ***** on the reg? cmon son

[shlver]

This thread makes me sad.:cry:

[SCREWstonRockets]

That reminds me of a story I was told by someone who is barely taller than me. It was a 6'2" woman and she turned down the person because he was supposedly too short, and he said well, if you're waiting for a guy your height, you'll be waiting a long time(or something, I'm paraphrasing.) Point is, that persuaded her.
Was he 5'4?

[rufuspaul]

I'm so bad with chicks I had two prostitutes walk out on me mid blowjob.

I wish this were a joke.


:lol

[goldenryan]

This thread is unintentional comedic Gold. I never saw the appeal of girls over 5'10. I like a 5'3-5'8 range.

[rufuspaul]

i disagree with that much of a difference....what happens later? same reason i would never wear a hairpiece or something (shave my head)


So you honestly think she's not gonna notice you're a bald dwarf?

[KevinNYC]

I'm so bad with chicks I had two prostitutes walk out on me mid blowjob.

I wish this were a joke.

Did you keep saying "Oooooh Yeeeaaaah" in a Randy Savage voice?

Seriously, I would love to hear more details about this. PM, if you don't want them public.

I also worked with this woman who was probably 6'4" or 6'5". My desk used to be right next the staircase from downstairs and I first saw her coming up the stairs. She just kept coming and coming. It felt like it when on for 15 or 20 seconds. Near the end, I thought "Get the livestock into the barn and bar the doors."

I once had to install some software on her computer and I needed to reboot it. She had her IM software set to load and login upon reboot. It opened as soon as I got to windows. So I got to see who she had in her friends list and who she banned. She banned the lesbian who sat next to her. :lol

[alenleomessi]

why cant you just find a normal sized woman
where do you people even find those 6+feet women?
there are like 2-3 girls that tall in my city and im pretty sure the average height here is higher than usa
maybe she measured herself at home and forgot to take off her heels :confusedshrug: :oldlol:

[-p.tiddy-]

I was told by more than one female that the first two things that women look at on dating sites is height and hair...and I believe it.

If those two things check out then they will go on to read whatever you had to write...see if you are employed, etc


short bald men have it really rough

[ace23]

Yeah, models, gross.
:oldlol:


...there are 12 inches in a foot...
Yeah, I was wondering what the **** he was talking about. :oldlol:

[Skywalker]

find some stilts or go on Maury

[Scoooter]

I was told by more than one female that the first two things that women look at on dating sites is height and hair...and I believe it.

If those two things check out then they will go on to read whatever you had to write...see if you are employed, etc


short bald men have it really rough
Not as rough as short bald women, I'd imagine.

[-p.tiddy-]

Not as rough as short bald women, I'd imagine.
http://i50.tinypic.com/1zdra8m.gif

[d.bball.guy]

As long as she doesn't have a 4 inch or longer(possibly longer than yours), you'll be fine.

Seriously, though, she's 6 ft so I'm pretty sure she wouldn't care if you're smaller than her, unless you are 5'4 or whatever, just like the other posters said.

[KevinNYC]

:oldlol:

It's pretty stupid, I wish it were a funnier story.

they were giving me head and after a little while one of them gets up and goes to the bathroom. I jokingly said "where the fvck does she think she's going" (in my head I sounded like Sam Neill in Jurassic Park) She comes out of the bathroom and tells the other girl to get dressed and that they were leaving. I was like:biggums:

She was all pissed off, I guess my tone was more asshole and less Sam Neill. She said it would have been fine if I hadn't used the word "fvck" Who knew prostitutes were so sensitive about profanity.

A. I actually thought it happened two separate times.

B. Did Sam Neill in Jurassic Park talk that way?

C. I'm pretty sure it wasn't the tone of your voice or what you said. I'm pretty sure she saw something in your bathroom that made her think if her and her friend stayed any longer, they wouldn't be getting out alive.

[KevinNYC]

You know when the T-rex break out and the lawyer gets out of the truck and runs to the bathroom he says "Where does he think he's going?" "When you gotta go, you gotta go"

I knew he didn't share your potty mouth.

[BrooklynZoo]

I'm just about 6'1", and super insecure about my height. Medical science needs to get to work on this. I want height pills.


in what setting (besides the NBA) would 6'1 be considered short?

[BrooklynZoo]

met from online dating site.....she is 4 inches taller. pretty hot.

it says your height in your profile....so i can assume she saw my height yes? and she doesnt care?

i am not gonna ask her b/c i will look insecure and *****. but i also dont want her to show up and be surprised (if she in fact did not look at my height)

help?

if your height is listed she probably doesnt mind. She is 6 ft tall afterall. Im sure her height has been a factor in the past and she isnt oblivious to the fact that shes going to be taller than a lot/most guys.

anyway let us know how it goes if you meet up

[Scoooter]

in what setting (besides the NBA) would 6'1 be considered short?
A) I said almost 6'1", and B) in my own neurotic, insecure mind. I didn't say it was rational.

I have cousins who are 6'6" plus, and they don't even care about basketball. ****ers.

[Lebron23]

Wonder how his date went

Bet it was weird


Therammingham probably hired this guy to make his legs grow longer.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s4NEgRgd1HI

[Dragonyeuw]

I dated a 6 foot chick once, had a big ass and 40DDs. Fun times...

[rufuspaul]

Wonder how his date went

Bet it was weird


It was a 1-on-1 situation. She went 14-15 from the floor and literally T-bagged him 4 times. Humiliating.

[CarlosBoozer]

I dated a 6 foot chick once, had a big ass and 40DDs. Fun times...
You lucky mofo :mad:

[MichaelCheazley]

As long as shes not 4 inches taller elsewhere....You never know with them amazon chicks..

[TheMan]

I have a solution to your problem, my man...

http://images.fashionforfun.com.au/catalog/product/cache/10/image/5e06319eda06f020e43594a9c230972d/7/0/70451a_2/KISS-Deluxe-Demon-Adult-Boots--Rubies-Costumes-BSRU-70451-32.jpg
This takes care of your "height problem" and you'll be swaggin' in style...

You're welcome

[ShaqAttack3234]

http://www.tallerheels.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/s/h/shoe-inserts-height.jpg


Wait so you were shoes with 2+inch heels, like boots. Then have shoe insert like this ?

Yeah, obviously boots, I don't know of another type of men's shoes with heels 2+". Though sometimes I just wear work boots or motorcycle boots which are close enough, and probably less obvious.

And yeah, inserts like that, in fact, they may be the ones I bought. Can't remember.


Woah, 6'0 is not EXTREMELY tall.

It's about 8 inches over average. It's roughly the equivalent of 6'5"-6'6" man. I'd call that extremely tall.


Was he 5'4?

Nope, about 5'10"

[Timmy D for MVP]

I am 6 flat and I admit to sometimes feeling short even though I'm not.

But my girl is apporx. 37 1/2 inches so...

Naw but she's about 5' 3" or so so... I feel tall with her. :banana:

I never felt that she'd have to be shorter than me though, but 4 full inches taller? Ehh....

[Derka]

Hopefully she didn't have a ****. That's about the only thing I'd be worried about.