Should i talk to my EX after 3 years?

[nathanjizzle]

there was really no closure, she just dissappeared. about a year after that she instant messaged med on aim asking me how i was doing, i didnt reply, mainly because i still was not ready to talk to her. now 3 years later im thinking about messaging her maybe getting some things off my chest or maybe just have a mutual talk so we dont hold on to any animosity. should i IM her or no?

[magic chiongson]

lol thanks for reminding me

*removes ex from ignore/block*

must not have talked for around 3 years also..i blocked here number/put her on ignore bout 2 years ago after she tried to contact me :D

[nathanjizzle]

lol thanks for reminding me

*removes ex from ignore/block*

must not have talked for around 3 years also..i blocked here number/put her on ignore bout 2 years ago after she tried to contact me :D

so you gonna talk to her or no?

[L.Kizzle]

Depends on why she's your ex.

[magic chiongson]

i would if the oppurtunity presents itself..but i wont be the one reaching out lol. i just checked her fb page, looks like she has a cute kid :D i was wrong i think it was like 4 or 5 years ago since we broke up lol


oh btw, dont talk to her if you think your life sucks more right now compared to when you were with her

[nathanjizzle]

i would if the oppurtunity presents itself..but i wont be the one reaching out lol. i just checked her fb page, looks like she has a cute kid :D i was wrong i think it was like 4 or 5 years ago since we broke up lol


oh btw, dont talk to her if you think your life sucks more right now compared to when you were with her

nah, my life is alot better than what it was when i was with her. thats why i can think about initiating contact with her at this point. but maybe she still thinks im a loser.

[nathanjizzle]

Depends on why she's your ex.

for another guy at college.

[Balla_Status]

Do you seriously still use AIM?

[nathanjizzle]

Do you seriously still use AIM?

i dont, thats the only avenue i have to speak with her. so ill sign on to see if she is on. not sure why she is on anymore. Shes online right now, tonight is probably the only time i would consider speaking to her online.

[L.Kizzle]

for another guy at college.
And she's done with the other guy, and now is tryin to get back into it with you?

[Rake2204]

Do you seriously still use AIM?I still occasionally use AIM. I actually kind of wish more people still used it. I very much prefer it to Facebook Chat and their messages telling folks when messages were seen by the other person, the disconnections, and auto-store of everything said all the time.

[SevereUpInHere]

there was really no closure, she just dissappeared. about a year after that she instant messaged med on aim asking me how i was doing, i didnt reply, mainly because i still was not ready to talk to her. now 3 years later im thinking about messaging her maybe getting some things off my chest or maybe just have a mutual talk so we dont hold on to any animosity. should i IM her or no?


Depends if you're happy with where your life is at the moment. Do you really gain anything from talking to her? Sometimes these things can stir up old feelings and leave you wanting to get back with her when that ship has well and truly sailed.

On the other hand, you might talk to her and realize you're well and truly over her.

I'd leave it if it was me.

[code green]

My ex called me Saturday telling me the guy she cheated on the guy she cheated on me with was abusive and she was leaving the relationship and wants to talk. Always knew she'd come back (we were engaged), and knew telling her to kick rocks would be the hardest thing to do (it was), but you gotta have some self pride and stay away.

[red1]

My ex called me Saturday telling me the guy she cheated on the guy she cheated on me with was abusive and she was leaving the relationship and wants to talk. Always knew she'd come back (we were engaged), and knew telling her to kick rocks would be the hardest thing to do (it was), but you gotta have some self pride and stay away.
:oldlol:

[imdaman99]

My ex called me Saturday telling me the guy she cheated on the guy she cheated on me with was abusive and she was leaving the relationship and wants to talk. Always knew she'd come back (we were engaged), and knew telling her to kick rocks would be the hardest thing to do (it was), but you gotta have some self pride and stay away.
thats horrible dude. never take someone like that back. you did the right thing. hopefully it felt good to tell her that too.

[HylianNightmare]

Hell no, she had her chance at getting with a stud like yourself, if she ever reaches out to you and you know you wanna talk go for it. But don't give her the satisfaction of knowing you were the one that hit her up after everything, bitches remember that shit

[red1]

there was really no closure, she just dissappeared. about a year after that she instant messaged med on aim asking me how i was doing, i didnt reply, mainly because i still was not ready to talk to her. now 3 years later im thinking about messaging her maybe getting some things off my chest or maybe just have a mutual talk so we dont hold on to any animosity. should i IM her or no?
seriously though dont do it. take that hoe off your mind

[LEFT4DEAD]

Depends, if you wanna just a friendship with her, than yeah. Why not.

[code green]

Depends, if you wanna just a friendship with her, than yeah. Why not.

Except he doesn't. He clearly still has feelings for her, which I'm not knocking. Love sucks that way. He's saying he wants to "get things off of his chest," which is exactly why I was considering seeing my ex too. But bringing all this shit up 3 years later is a clear indication you haven't moved on, which in a sick way is exactly what she wants to hear.

"There's no greater revenge than a life well lived."

That was my mantra, I recommend you at least consider it.

[Bandito]

Sure why not." What won't kill you make you stronger." I live by that quote!

[rufuspaul]

Depends, if you wanna just a friendship with her, than yeah. Why not.


OP does not need to be friends with a bittch that dropped him for another dude. I've been there: you start thinking back and wondering if things would've turned out different if only you knew the things you know now. You think that maybe now that there's water under the bridge things might work out this time.

Don't do it! There are plenty of girls out there. Move on.

[nathanjizzle]

i didnt talk to her yesterday, but for somereason i still want to. maybe i need to find another bitch pay attention to.