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L.Kizzle
03-20-2013, 07:34 PM
My co-worker invited me to her wedding which is this weekend and I am not sure what to pick up for her? Any suggestions.

nathanjizzle
03-20-2013, 07:46 PM
advice? dont be the only black person at an asian wedding or you will get stared at all night

edit: nvm i remembered u are not black.

niko
03-20-2013, 08:04 PM
advice? dont be the only black person at an asian wedding or you will get stared at all night

edit: nvm i remembered u are not black.
I've been to weddings where the groom was the only black person at the wedding and they didn't get stared at all night. :facepalm You people worry me. Black people are not uncommon. Are you talking about a wedding in thailand or something?

LKizzle, is it important they are asian? What kind of asian? Are you trying for something culturally appropriate?

boozehound
03-20-2013, 08:06 PM
I've been to weddings where the groom was the only black person at the wedding and they didn't get stared at all night. :facepalm You people worry me. Black people are not uncommon. Are you talking about a wedding in thailand or something?

LKizzle, is it important they are asian? What kind of asian? Are you trying for something culturally appropriate?
do they have a registry somewhere? That would be the way to go for any wedding. Other than that, I find a Morris Day and the Time CD is always appreciated. Definitely dont get them something too asiiany

Derka
03-20-2013, 08:11 PM
You buy craaaaazy smirey face mirrion dorrah!

But seriously, a toaster? Rice cooker? Maybe a good, solid cutting board? Shit married couples will need.

L.Kizzle
03-20-2013, 08:12 PM
The groom is a very traditional Asian man, according to her. She's not but her family really is.

If they were both Americanized Asians, I'd possibly have an idea. Also, she doesn't know who Morris Day is, her lose.

DuMa
03-20-2013, 08:12 PM
use their registry. duh.

L.Kizzle
03-20-2013, 08:14 PM
use their registry. duh.
Not trying to go to Bed Bath and Beyond.

lefthook00
03-20-2013, 08:21 PM
Are you close with them? Money would be the best bet.

Bucket_Nakedz
03-20-2013, 08:32 PM
i just picked up mulan on blu ray 2 days ago. seriously, but don't get that as a gift. its obvious that she invited u for a reason. she wants you to object her marriage and inject your dingaling in her pum pum.

but if u don't wanna go that route. get her a gift certificate at payless. women love shoes.

CelticBaller
03-20-2013, 08:48 PM
a cat

IamRAMBO24
03-20-2013, 08:51 PM
Asians don't do gifts; you got to get a red envelope and put some money in it. And seriously, if you don't want to give money, you don't have to; only family members ane close friends are expected to give money, not random guests.

Bandito
03-20-2013, 09:06 PM
Give her the D!

Balla_Status
03-20-2013, 09:11 PM
inb4abigblackdildobecauseitsanasiancouple

G-Funk
03-20-2013, 09:20 PM
http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view5/2369999/lucky-cat-o.gif (http://gifsoup.com/view/2369999/lucky-cat.html)

outbreak
03-20-2013, 11:00 PM
some wedding photos. they don't age well so by the time shes 30ish she'll look 50. dude needs to remember the wedding day

rezznor
03-20-2013, 11:15 PM
My co-worker invited me to her wedding which is this weekend and I am not sure what to pick up for her? Any suggestions.
for asian weddings you give cash

n00bie
03-21-2013, 12:12 AM
My co-worker invited me to her wedding which is this weekend and I am not sure what to pick up for her? Any suggestions.

Asians get red pockets with cash. Don't give them a gift, they'll be pissed. :oldlol:

JtotheIzzo
03-21-2013, 02:06 AM
Red envelope with $60 in it (if you go by yourself) or $120 in it (if you bring a date).

Cali Syndicate
03-21-2013, 03:02 AM
A nice sake set? Even if their not Japanese, everyone like sake. I think. Except for people who don't drink I guess.

And a sake set not in the sense of the glass/ceramic flask and cups but rather a combination of like 3-5 different sakes. Well, I just looked and doesn't look like these exist :lol however you could be creative and buy different kinds on your own and put it together in a wodden box or something. Make it look classy like those liquor sets they sell. Probably can order everything through amazon. Guessing like $50 for everything. Also by different, I don't mean just brand. Look into the types of sake.

Orrrrrr......just do the flask and cups sake set. More conventional a gift I suppose.

bdreason
03-21-2013, 03:23 AM
Buy them a couple wax warmers + wax, maybe something like this;

http://www.walmart.com/ip/ScentSationals-Mini-Warmer-Tree-Of-Life/19887696?findingMethod=rr
http://www.walmart.com/ip/ScentSationals-Wax-Melter-Bronze-Tree/17654699?findingMethod=rr
http://www.walmart.com/ip/ScentSationals-Wax-Cubes-Backyard-Fresh-10pk/21173309?findingMethod=rr



Cheap, yet thoughtful and useful.

No_Look604
03-21-2013, 05:50 AM
Just be yourself...scream out randomly like James Brown...act crazy and funny like Bernie Mac and that should be enough!

East_Stone_Ya
03-21-2013, 06:05 AM
you can buy them a small statue of ''laughing Buddha'' it is a sign for wealth and good luck

http://www.worldplayground.co.uk/thumbnails/wgb013_-_laughing_buddha_30cm_watermark_3.jpg

n00bie
03-21-2013, 07:43 AM
Asians expect you to pay them to come to their wedding? How shitty.

Not a bad concept imo. Why go buy something that someone might not need, when everyone needs cash?

Jasi
03-21-2013, 07:44 AM
I swear I read "Want to buy an Asian couple as a wedding gift?" and I thought wtf

rufuspaul
03-21-2013, 08:44 AM
advice? dont be the only black person at an asian wedding or you will get stared at all night

edit: nvm i remembered u are not black.


:oldlol:


Or you could give them your camera, in it's original pristine unused condition.

NotYetGreat
03-21-2013, 08:45 AM
I'm disappointed no one's mentioned pair of calculators yet.

niko
03-21-2013, 08:51 AM
Asians expect you to pay them to come to their wedding? How shitty.
Everyone expects you to pay them to come to their wedding. White people take money too.

Cash is a good gift if you don't know the people well anyway.

Levity
03-21-2013, 02:54 PM
Some hello kitty shit. Maybe DDR if they have a home console.

rezznor
03-21-2013, 03:35 PM
Asians expect you to pay them to come to their wedding? How shitty.
no, it's practical. it helps them pay off wedding expenses and start off their new lives not in debt. wtf would we want a bunch of junk we most likely already have anyways?

$LakerGold
03-21-2013, 03:40 PM
Backscratchers. Nuff' Said. I Ain't Yo Bitch.

$LakerGold
03-21-2013, 03:40 PM
Backscratchers. Nuff' Said. I Ain't Yo Bitch.

JEFFERSON MONEY
03-21-2013, 04:22 PM
some wedding photos. they don't age well so by the time shes 30ish she'll look 50. dude needs to remember the wedding day

LOL if azns don't age well then who da hell does

GOBB_Junior
03-21-2013, 04:24 PM
Just ask ripthekik.

http://i49.tinypic.com/30kwuc9.jpg

rufuspaul
03-21-2013, 04:25 PM
no, it's practical. it helps them pay off wedding expenses and start off their new lives not in debt. wtf would we want a bunch of junk we most likely already have anyways?


Then I want my blender back you ungrateful asshole.

Bucket_Nakedz
03-21-2013, 04:26 PM
wtf would we want a bunch of junk we most likely already have anyways?
welp, i guess i'll just bring my appetite when i go to a asian function

GOBB_Junior
03-21-2013, 04:28 PM
http://myluxbaby.com/images/bratt%20cradle.jpg

rezznor
03-21-2013, 05:07 PM
LOL if azns don't age well then who da hell does
black ppl and asians age the best lol

rezznor
03-21-2013, 05:08 PM
welp, i guess i'll just bring my appetite when i go to a asian function
you should, if it's a traditional wedding then there will be a 8-9 course meal and a bottle of liquor or two on the table.

Just2McFly
03-21-2013, 06:24 PM
Not trying to go to Bed Bath and Beyond.
:biggums:

because that's asking too much

Just2McFly
03-21-2013, 06:26 PM
no, it's practical. it helps them pay off wedding expenses and start off their new lives not in debt. wtf would we want a bunch of junk we most likely already have anyways?
Asians do shit right for real. My friend who's Korean, got married last year and one family bought a house, the other bought a car and furnished it top to bottom.:eek:

Man that is what I call a wedding gift. F*ck a honeymoon, a car and a house>>>>>>>

daily
03-21-2013, 07:00 PM
Asians do shit right for real. My friend who's Korean, got married last year and one family bought a house, the other bought a car and furnished it top to bottom.:eek:

Man that is what I call a wedding gift. F*ck a honeymoon, a car and a house>>>>>>>


How do you furnish a car? :lol


The answers in this thread have me cracking up. Sitting here in the office laughing

Just2McFly
03-21-2013, 07:01 PM
How do you furnish a car? :lol


The answers in this thread have me cracking up.
:roll: :roll: omg what i am even typing?:facepalm

daily
03-21-2013, 07:03 PM
:roll: :roll: omg what i am even typing?:facepalm

Maybe it was a motorhome?? :roll: :roll:

L.Kizzle
03-21-2013, 07:31 PM
:biggums:

because that's asking too much
Also, I don't even know where one is.

:biggums:

SyRyanYang
03-21-2013, 07:48 PM
Asia is huge and has lots of countries and they are all different, not that anyone cares.

L.Kizzle
03-21-2013, 07:54 PM
Asia is huge and has lots of countries and they are all different, not that anyone cares.
Korean.

CarlosBoozer
03-21-2013, 08:06 PM
http://i.yai.bz/Assets/49/858/l_p0011485849.jpg
:confusedshrug: :confusedshrug: :confusedshrug:

G-train
03-21-2013, 11:13 PM
Giver her nothing. It's just a work mate.

hateraid
03-21-2013, 11:30 PM
:oldlol: @ the rice cooker comment. Name me an asian who didn't get one the moment they moved away from the household?

I'm filipino, my wifey is filipina. Our weddings aren't any different from any traditional wedding. Except for maybe the fact we play alot of line dance music like the Electric Slide and the Bird Dance

But as for the present, it is customary to give cash. The only gifts I got were from the non-asians. :lol

SCREWstonRockets
03-21-2013, 11:48 PM
Lol get them what any you would get any other American couple. They're just Asian, not aliens. :lol

L.Kizzle
03-21-2013, 11:53 PM
Lol get them what any you would get any other American couple. They're just Asian, not aliens. :lol
They are not Americanized Asians, I stated that already. They are very traditional. She doesn't drink or curse and I'm pretty sure he doesn't either. I've only met him once and he is real quiet.

I will give them some moneys.

eriX
03-22-2013, 12:02 AM
Korean.

i know korean is heavy on traditions so something that represents good luck. Something small that they can put on shelves or what not. And if they are korean they dont really take red pockets, thats a chinese thing so... maybe a bracelet for them both?

xfactor99
03-22-2013, 02:15 AM
Eh...I think if I was them I would be weirded out if a black guy got 'em Asian gifts. Either way it's hard to answer this question without knowing what he or she likes? Do you know? What does she like on Facebook. Something of interest here.

A safe choice is money or scotch/wine :cheers: Koreans love the scotch.

LJJ
03-22-2013, 02:19 AM
http://i.imgur.com/gpN9psP.png

Baller1986
03-22-2013, 02:25 AM
http://www.extremetech.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/ps3-repair-san-diego.jpeg

bmulls
03-22-2013, 02:38 AM
Serious answer tho most weddings I've been to the couple getting married sets up an online wedding registry thing with their wish list of crap and you can just pick something off the list. Then you check it off the list so nobody else buys it.

IamRAMBO24
03-22-2013, 03:13 AM
I'm sorry but a Playstation 3 for a wedding? This is not a gift for some 8 year old on his birthday; this is a wedding. Kudos to the OP for actually caring enough about different cultures to find out what is an appropriate gift. Some of you guys are coming up with some lame a*s ideas. But seriously OP, you prob don't have to give out any money unless if you are a really close friend of her's. Usually aquaintances aren't expected to give money as a gift. If you want to do it the American way and get a gift, then a nice bottle of liquor should do it.

niko
03-22-2013, 08:49 AM
I'm sorry but a Playstation 3 for a wedding? This is not a gift for some 8 year old on his birthday; this is a wedding. Kudos to the OP for actually caring enough about different cultures to find out what is an appropriate gift. Some of you guys are coming up with some lame a*s ideas. But seriously OP, you prob don't have to give out any money unless if you are a really close friend of her's. Usually aquaintances aren't expected to give money as a gift. If you want to do it the American way and get a gift, then a nice bottle of liquor should do it.
If you go to a wedding and can afford it you bring a gift. He is in america. Not a bottle of liquour. Something off the registry or an envelope with cash.

SCREWstonRockets
03-22-2013, 01:20 PM
They are not Americanized Asians, I stated that already. They are very traditional. She doesn't drink or curse and I'm pretty sure he doesn't either. I've only met him once and he is real quiet.

I will give them some moneys.
Lol you're still making this harder than it is. Ok so they're not Americanized but they live in America and I assume one of them speaks English and are a human couple. So you can't buy them a bottle or a Bill Bellamy stand up DVD, but everything else is fair game.

You don't need to get all gimmicky because they're Asian :lol . Actually it'll be pretty funny if you came with a gag gift like a fancy set of chopsticks or driving for dummies book or something offensive.

But money is always a good choice. Every culture likes money.

L.Kizzle
03-22-2013, 07:35 PM
Lol you're still making this harder than it is. Ok so they're not Americanized but they live in America and I assume one of them speaks English and are a human couple. So you can't buy them a bottle or a Bill Bellamy stand up DVD, but everything else is fair game.

You don't need to get all gimmicky because they're Asian :lol . Actually it'll be pretty funny if you came with a gag gift like a fancy set of chopsticks or driving for dummies book or something offensive.

But money is always a good choice. Every culture likes money.
I don't think they know who Bill Bellamy is. She didn't know who Lil Wayne was until a few years ago when I told her I don't like him. :lol

A gag gif, at an Asian wedding. I'll be one of 3 black folks there, I'll probably get mean looks and maybe even a karate chop.

Rubio2Gasol
03-22-2013, 08:00 PM
L.Kizzle is not actually black :biggums: :wtf:

Anyway...Disposable camera :rockon:

flipogb
03-23-2013, 02:15 PM
advice? dont be the only black person at an asian wedding or you will get stared at all night

edit: nvm i remembered u are not black.
every ethnicity has its negatives , one of the big ones with Asians and as a Filipino I know we do this too is staring. dont be upset becuz Asians will stare at anything

Stuckey
03-23-2013, 02:38 PM
money is fine

L.Kizzle
03-23-2013, 11:38 PM
Just came from the wedding.

There wasn't a lot of gifts. I seen maybe 2 boxes and 2 gift bags.

Jello
03-23-2013, 11:46 PM
Did you buy a red envelope?

L.Kizzle
03-23-2013, 11:50 PM
Did you buy a red envelope?
No, just put 80 bucks in a regular envelope with a wedding card.

Jello
03-23-2013, 11:51 PM
No, just put 80 bucks in a regular envelope with a wedding card.
Now they'll talk shit about you their whole life.

L.Kizzle
03-23-2013, 11:52 PM
Now they'll talk shit about you their whole life.
I'll just take my 80 bucks back.