View Full Version : How 2 patch up a broken relationship?
Bladers
03-26-2013, 12:48 PM
Do u text 30 paragraphs a day, call 5 times a day like i'm doing.
Or do you take a sabbatical.
What IF while taking a sabbatical, you come back to a niggah pushing up on it?
and the end is worse than the beginning?
What then?
B-Low
03-26-2013, 01:00 PM
Step 1: Don't be Bladers
Bladers
03-26-2013, 01:04 PM
^ Well seeing that's not possible for me.
What's step 2?
Budadiiii
03-26-2013, 01:06 PM
Keep doing what you're doing. You're showing her that you care.
Give it time, all good things take time. You're re-solidifying a melted relationship.
bmulls
03-26-2013, 01:54 PM
Keep doing what you're doing. You're showing her that you care.
Give it time, all good things take time. You're re-solidifying a melted relationship.
:roll:
She dumped Bladers because he's a clingy weirdo and now he's just proving her right.
Bladers best thing you can do is walk away completely. Just let it go. That is the most attractive thing you can do at this point. Most likely you've already blown any shot of getting back together by being weird and obsessive, but who knows. Have a little dignity bro.
rufuspaul
03-26-2013, 02:01 PM
draw her p _ _ i s
This
nathanjizzle
03-26-2013, 02:22 PM
you text her 30 paragraphs and call 5 times a day and your relationship is broken? the girl has you on a leash, your her bitch. man up and leave her alone.
boozehound
03-26-2013, 02:25 PM
Do u text 30 paragraphs a day, call 5 times a day like i'm doing.
Or do you take a sabbatical.
What IF while taking a sabbatical, you come back to a niggah pushing up on it?
and the end is worse than the beginning?
What then?
you know, there is a middle ground between stalker and detached
Maniak
03-26-2013, 02:56 PM
text, call, facebook, twitter, whatever you can do! talk to her! she just doesnt realize what she's missing out on. let her know you truly love her. you need to be on her like Jesus on the cross.
buy her flowers, show up at her house spontaneously, anything you've seen in a romantic comedy really.
remember that until she files for a restraining order she still wants the D.
you know, there is a middle ground between stalker and detached
http://www.heyheyhoneybee.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/dont-be-a-stalker.jpg
HardwoodLegend
03-26-2013, 03:25 PM
There's no way you are as desperate as you let on.
You do it for self-deprecation purposes and to be tongue-in-cheek, right?
GreatGreg
03-26-2013, 03:30 PM
Jesus, you're beyond pitiful
I keep the sweet, longer, text messages for good morning texts when I'm on the train and I have no service underground, I type something up, click send, whenever signal hits she gets it. No love lost, nothing to lose, all to gain. I do it often. I remind her that she has my attention by responding back not to long, and talking to her throughout the day to a limit.
Considering she's on a family plan and sharing minutes, after school at around 3 in the afternoon she sees me everyday, meeting up at my house. Whenever you see someone often, you need to limit them on some shit, like texting or calling. Things need to be unbalanced, to a point.
However, if you keep on bugging the girl, bugging out on her if she doesn't respond or accusing her for not giving you the attention, she's going to dislike that. Keep your distance, but know your boundaries on how far off you go, and how close you come.
You won't learn all of this unless you date several girls, or you have a good feel on what to do in the beginning. You don't start strong by texting, calling, dates, and slowly fade. Keep a LIMIT.
nathanjizzle
03-26-2013, 04:22 PM
everyman will learn in his life that women are cold hearted she devils, bladers u are living this lesson as we speak. she will **** another guy if she isnt already, and you will know about it, and your heart will bleed and your soul will turn black.
GL
everyman will learn in his life that women are cold hearted she devils, bladers u are living this lesson as we speak. she will **** another guy if she isnt already, and you will know about it, and your heart will bleed and your soul will turn black.
GL
He also will have a bigger d1ck & penetrate her like her first time losing her virginity all over again.
OhNoTimNoSho
03-26-2013, 05:45 PM
Do u text 30 paragraphs a day, call 5 times a day like i'm doing.
Or do you take a sabbatical.
What IF while taking a sabbatical, you come back to a niggah pushing up on it?
and the end is worse than the beginning?
What then?
Only 30 texts and 5 calls? Damn dude she probably thinks you're some player just trying to get a nut. You need to really kick it up a notch and text 60 times call 10 times and leave voicemails everytime too. You have to CONVINCE her you like her for real. Let her know you care about her for real.
Only 30 texts and 5 calls? Damn dude she probably thinks you're some player just trying to get a nut. You need to really kick it up a notch and text 60 times call 10 times and leave voicemails everytime too. You have to CONVINCE her you like her for real. Let her know you care about her for real.
And if you really care, at least half of those have to take place between 1am and 6am. Otherwise she'll think you sleep soundly without her being on your mind. She'll think you aren't really committed.
When my life is not going right i sit and think AT LEAST IM NOT BLADERS...
When my life is not going right i sit and think AT LEAST IM NOT BLADERS...
:roll: :roll:
JEFFERSON MONEY
03-26-2013, 07:40 PM
Only way you can heal this is by showing more and more attention you selfish conceited prick.
When in doubt, keep PLEASING your woman (after all she's in charge and she made you the man you were today) and GIVE MORE GIFTS and PAY MORE ATTENTION TO HER and less of yourself and your priorities.
You need to go ABOVE and BEYOND with your devotion. You think simply giving compliments cuts it. NO. NO. NO.
Now you go to the store, get the MOST EXPENSIVE BOUQUET you possibly can, get an engagement ring, and I want you to hire one of those homeless black guys with a missing tooth and a nice guitar and you better pay him HANDSOMELY to play "Grenade" in front of your girl in public. Scratch that. That new Bruno Mars song.. the one where the guys apologizing profusely.
Then you can post another thread on your progress. And then we will give you better advice (i.e. Buy her a one way ticket to Jamaica and let her get some "release" before returning home)
And if that doesn't work out, you better sell everything you have and pocket your cash into getting her a car and some heels damnit. Otherwise you're a lousy boyfriend and you really don't care.
OhNoTimNoSho
03-26-2013, 09:39 PM
Only way you can heal this is by showing more and more attention you selfish conceited prick.
When in doubt, keep PLEASING your woman (after all she's in charge and she made you the man you were today) and GIVE MORE GIFTS and PAY MORE ATTENTION TO HER and less of yourself and your priorities.
You need to go ABOVE and BEYOND with your devotion. You think simply giving compliments cuts it. NO. NO. NO.
Now you go to the store, get the MOST EXPENSIVE BOUQUET you possibly can, get an engagement ring, and I want you to hire one of those homeless black guys with a missing tooth and a nice guitar and you better pay him HANDSOMELY to play "Grenade" in front of your girl in public. Scratch that. That new Bruno Mars song.. the one where the guys apologizing profusely.
Then you can post another thread on your progress. And then we will give you better advice (i.e. Buy her a one way ticket to Jamaica and let her get some "release" before returning home)
And if that doesn't work out, you better sell everything you have and pocket your cash into getting her a car and some heels damnit. Otherwise you're a lousy boyfriend and you really don't care.
This man knows whats up.
Also if you are friends on facebook, a good way to show her that you really like her is by making your feelings public. Do it now and do it often.
Show her you want to hit it without protection, man up. Put the condoms away, hit it like you've never hit it before. Show her that commitment and let us know if she misses her period.
Go to her place of work and sing to her. That goes over big.
Let another man bang her in front of you, let her experience then come back to you.
I'm sure he'll come around. Just give him time.
I'm sure he'll come around. Just give him time.
:roll: :roll:
Bladers
03-27-2013, 02:40 AM
:roll:
She dumped Bladers because he's a clingy weirdo and now he's just proving her right.
Bladers best thing you can do is walk away completely. Just let it go. That is the most attractive thing you can do at this point. Most likely you've already blown any shot of getting back together by being weird and obsessive, but who knows. Have a little dignity bro.
Thanks,
Just found out something hours ago and this is the route I "should" have taken. Damn. But it's not too too late.
Doing just this now.
IcanzIIravor
03-27-2013, 05:43 AM
Thanks,
Just found out something hours ago and this is the route I "should" have taken. Damn. But it's not too too late.
Doing just this now.
You have some extreme highs and lows. Have you tried self-medication?
Bladers
03-27-2013, 12:53 PM
I think I'm in love cause I can't stay away.
I'm telling myself this just a withdraw
Bandito
03-27-2013, 03:54 PM
I think I'm in love cause I can't stay away.
I'm telling myself this just a withdraw
thats not love but obssession. I am pretty sure I told to stay away for awhile but you fu k it up already. Just let her go and cry yourself to sleep until you get over her and find another girl to stalk.
KingBeasley08
03-27-2013, 04:19 PM
30 paragraphs a day, 5 calls a day :facepalm
if you wanna show this girl you love her, you send at least 50 paragraphs a day. essays with couple thousand words, try asking pauk for help. call at least 10 times, that's how you get her back
not srs, op is ph*ggot
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