So my ex-gf that im still deeply in love with texted me again

[Flagrant 2]

Just bullshit about what's going on in her life yet she has a boyfriend. Still don't respond yet, right? I can't handle this. Someone please end this, why are women not aware of their actions?

[1987_Lakers]

Don't respond. It will only make things worse.

[nightprowler10]

Block her mayn.

[Flagrant 2]

Don't respond. It will only make things worse.
I know. You're right. I just want to ask her why, why she is putting me through this. I want to let her know my feelings but I know it's pointless because she has a boyfriend. It just doesn't make sense to me. Appreciate all the advice.

[L.Kizzle]

Just ask her "why are you texting me?"

I chick I was with for a while, we broke up and she got married. She texted me a few months saying her little brother still ask about me and wants to see me. I just texted back "Tell him I am doin good" and that was the end of that. Fck you and yo lil brother.

[L.Kizzle]

I know. You're right. I just want to ask her why, why she is putting me through this. I want to let her know my feelings but I know it's pointless because she has a boyfriend. It just doesn't make sense to me. Appreciate all the advice.
Maybe she has a boyfriend because you never showed your feeling when y'all were together?

[Canelo_Griffin]

http://i.imgur.com/kvJYa.gif

[Jello]

Texted you what? Give us some context you stupid pos.

[Bladers]

Whats the point in texting if its just more bullshit?

Tell her your fillings bro.

I would say "that ****** don't know how special u are. you deserve better!"

promise u she gonna come crawling!

[Flagrant 2]

Maybe she has a boyfriend because you never showed your feeling when y'all were together?
We were together for 2 years. I haven't been with another person since we broke up and she had no problem finding someone else. I've just been suffering yet she's been having a blast with a significant other. I think I'm justified in not responding, it just bothers me so ****ing much she's doing this.

[Flagrant 2]

Whats the point in texting if its just more bullshit?

Tell her your fillings bro.

I would say "these niggazz don't know how special u are. you deserve better!"

promise u she gonna come crawling!
I embarrassingly asked her out when we were texting and she broke the news to me that she has a boyfriend and I got super pissed because she was leading me on the whole time. She was talking to her ex-bf when we were together too, I don't want to be like him.

[BrooklynZoo]

Just bullshit about what's going on in her life yet she has a boyfriend. Still don't respond yet, right? I can't handle this. Someone please end this, why are women not aware of their actions?


she is aware... ignore her or be her sucker. if nothing else itll probably make her want u more. if she keeps trying then...

[1987_Lakers]

Whats the point in texting if its just more bullshit?

Tell her your fillings bro.

I would say "these niggazz don't know how special u are. you deserve better!"

promise u she gonna come crawling!

lol, don't give her the satisfaction OP. She will still be with her BF & you will give her the upper hand.

[Flagrant 2]

she is aware... ignore her or be her sucker. if nothing else itll probably make her want u more. if she keeps trying then...
That's the thing, I've ignored one of her texts already. This is the 2nd text with some more context about what's going on in her life (jobs, etc) where my response would be something along the lines of "cool". If she texts me again after this I might bite and ask her why but for now I guess I'll just ignore. ****ing annoying as shit though because I just want to ****ing move on since she obviously has.

[BrooklynZoo]

I embarrassingly asked her out when we were texting and she broke the news to me that she has a boyfriend and I got super pissed because she was leading me on the whole time. She was talking to her ex-bf when we were together too, I don't want to be like him.

well she sounds like bad news. is she hot? i mean if she was hot and you couldnt do better then i might be able to understand it. otherwise do what u do, just dont take her seriously

how did u 2 break up in the first place?

[Flagrant 2]

lol, don't give her the satisfaction OP. She will still be with her BF & you will give her the upper hand.
True. I'm alone as is, and she already has someone. Me not responding is the only thing I can hold onto at this point, I just want her so bad man.

[nightprowler10]

I had a chick do this to me once. I asked her why she was texting me and she went all "omg I'm sorry I thought we could be friendz!!11!!".

My take? Most women are psychotic in nature.

[Flagrant 2]

well she sounds like bad news. is she hot? i mean if she was hot and you couldnt do better then i might be able to understand it. otherwise do what u do, just dont take her seriously

how did u 2 break up in the first place?
She's attractive. Not sure if I can do better. Haven't really tried to be honest. High school sweetheart. She broke up with me when she went to college and told me she still had feelings for her ex-bf after I sent her an e-mail and her ex-bf read it (guess he had access to her e-mail at the time and reads it?) and just ended it there. We hung out a couple times after that but she ended up just telling me it's over. Yet she keeps ****ing talking to me.

[L.Kizzle]

True. I'm alone as is, and she already has someone. Me not responding is the only thing I can hold onto at this point, I just want her so bad man.
She misses you man.

She text you on purpose to tell you she has a boyfriend. She doesn't really like him, he's just someone to keep her company.

She really wants you to make a move on her.

It's up to you man ...

[Flagrant 2]

I had a chick do this to me once. I asked her why she was texting me and she went all "omg I'm sorry I thought we could be friendz!!11!!".

My take? Most women are psychotic in nature.
I agree. I legitimately believe she doesn't get it.

[Flagrant 2]

She misses you man.

She text you on purpose to tell you she has a boyfriend. She doesn't really like him, he's just someone to keep her company.

She really wants you to make a move on her.

It's up to you man ...
That's the thing. I asked her out when she didn't have a boyfriend and she told me to move on. I repeat, she told me to move on.

[L.Kizzle]

That's the thing. I asked her out when she didn't have a boyfriend and she told me to move on. I repeat, she told me to move on.
But, did you just ask her out, your spill your feeling to her?

It's a big difference on how you do things.

[Flagrant 2]

But, did you just ask her out, your spill your feeling to her?

It's a big difference on how you do things.
Yeah I told her how I missed her and still think about her etc etc. Just told me "sorry, you need to move on".

And now that I have moved on the texts start ****ing pouring in. What the ****.

[shlver]

But, did you just ask her out, your spill your feeling to her?

It's a big difference on how you do things.
Did you do this yet?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNYevY7cvRo

[Flagrant 2]

Just looked at her Facebook with her and her boyfriend. **** this shit, I 'aint responding.

[Bladers]

lol, don't give her the satisfaction OP. She will still be with her BF & you will give her the upper hand.

true. but sometimes, u got to lose to win. this might be that sometime for the op. If he really wants her. he got one shot, ignore her and give her lil attention and hope for the best or reveal his kryptonite.

[1987_Lakers]

True. I'm alone as is, and she already has someone. Me not responding is the only thing I can hold onto at this point, I just want her so bad man.

I don't know the situation you are in 100%, just keep in mind that she might be using you to make her feel better about herself. It hurts, but sometimes you got to put your feeling aside and move on. Time heals all wounds.

[L.Kizzle]

Just looked at her Facebook with her and her boyfriend. **** this shit, I 'aint responding.
Tell her you got a girlfriend and she what she says?

[TheReal Kendall]

We were together for 2 years. I haven't been with another person since we broke up and she had no problem finding someone else. I've just been suffering yet she's been having a blast with a significant other. I think I'm justified in not responding, it just bothers me so ****ing much she's doing this.

Let her go bruh. You gotta move on trust me. I was in the same situation. Just don't text back it's gonna make things worse for you

[Myth]

Honesty could be your best best here. I see a couple possible scenarios depending on what you may want:

1. If you want her but are willing to stay friends in the future: Tell her that. So what that means is that you tell her that you need time and space to move on and any conversation she wants prior to you being ready to be friends has to involve the possibility of getting back together with her.

2. If you want her but are willing to be friends immediately: Tell her that there are certain subjects that she just simply shouldn't breach as you are trying to get over her (sex with her bf would be an obvious one) if that is what she wants you to do.

3. If you want her but aren't willing to be friends: Tell her that you want to be with her and if she is not willing to consider being back with you, she should stop messaging you unless that is what she later determines she wants.

[BrooklynZoo]

Honesty could be your best best here. I see a couple possible scenarios depending on what you may want:

1. If you want her but are willing to stay friends in the future: Tell her that. So what that means is that you tell her that you need time and space to move on and any conversation she wants prior to you being ready to be friends has to involve the possibility of getting back together with her.

2. If you want her but are willing to be friends immediately: Tell her that there are certain subjects that she just simply shouldn't breach as you are trying to get over her (sex with her bf would be an obvious one) if that is what she wants you to do.

3. If you want her but aren't willing to be friends: Tell her that you want to be with her and if she is not willing to consider being back with you, she should stop messaging you unless that is what she later determines she wants.

fail :facepalm

[Myth]

I want you but I'm not willing to be friends.

Then stay the f*ck out of my life.

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See how it is done OP?

[Myth]

fail :facepalm

Yeah, what am I thinking? OP, just continue avoiding and always questioning shit rather than seeking straight up answers and responding appropriately to those answers. :facepalm

[L.Kizzle]

Play this song very loud.

My Ex-Girlfriend (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o-J8C0EFyq8)

[Flagrant 2]

Yeah, what am I thinking? OP, just continue avoiding and always questioning shit rather than seeking straight up answers and responding appropriately to those answers. :facepalm
I think the answer was clear when she told me to move on and then ended up getting a boyfriend. It's just the confusion factor of her messaging me after she's done all that that is bothering me. I think I just won't respond and just let it be because if I tell her again I know what she's going to say and I don't want to go through that shit again. I appreciate all the advice though.

[Balla_Status]

Man, what's up with all these threads about these teenagers with women problems?

I guess sometimes I forget how everything seems bigger than it actually is back when you're a teenager.

Don't text her dude.

[Balla_Status]

That's the thing, I've ignored one of her texts already. This is the 2nd text with some more context about what's going on in her life (jobs, etc) where my response would be something along the lines of "cool". If she texts me again after this I might bite and ask her why but for now I guess I'll just ignore. ****ing annoying as shit though because I just want to ****ing move on since she obviously has.

Text back

"k"

and that's it.

[Bladers]

I think the answer was clear when she told me to move on and then ended up getting a boyfriend. It's just the confusion factor of her messaging me after she's done all that that is bothering me. I think I just won't respond and just let it be because if I tell her again I know what she's going to say and I don't want to go through that shit again. I appreciate all the advice though.

You are stronger than me. I know the feeling. I once had a girl. my great love. she was taken from me. like u i was supposed to learn that there are things u must let go.
i'm sure your love for her is precious. but if u let it, it can either define or destroy you. like it almost did me.

[LEFT4DEAD]

Yes, they like doing it to us. I had the same situation. We were in a relationship for 16 months. We broke up and she instantly found herself a new guy, who was friends with me. I mean, who can be with a girl of his friend??? And how a girl can be with a friend of her ex???
But Im not a stupid guy like the op. I had 40 naked pictures of her, and I sent all of them on email of that guy. They broke up right after that, and she came begging me to delete them. I threatened her that I will post them all on internet. And what happened? She had to ask me if Im ok with her being in a relationship with some guy next time. That was 2 years ago, but whatever girl Im in a long relationship with, I take naked pictures of her, because I know she will try to stab the knife in my back as soon as we broke up. At least I know I have my insurance. Maybe its not right, but I dont give a F.

And no, I will not post those pics on ISH, and I have them A LOT :D !

[Myth]

I think the answer was clear when she told me to move on and then ended up getting a boyfriend. It's just the confusion factor of her messaging me after she's done all that that is bothering me. I think I just won't respond and just let it be because if I tell her again I know what she's going to say and I don't want to go through that shit again. I appreciate all the advice though.

It was clear that she doesn't want to be with you, but it isn't clear if she wants to be friends or not, or if she is just keeping you in her back pocket. That is where it seems there is a clarity problem.

[Flagrant 2]

It was clear that she doesn't want to be with you, but it isn't clear if she wants to be friends or not, or if she is just keeping you in her back pocket. That is where it seems there is a clarity problem.
If that's the case then I don't want any of that. So I'm assuming ignoring is the best bet in that situation.

[Myth]

Yes, they like doing it to us. I had the same situation. We were in a relationship for 16 months. We broke up and she instantly found herself a new guy, who was friends with me. I mean, who can be with a girl of his friend??? And how a girl can be with a friend of her ex???
But Im not a stupid guy like the op. I had 40 naked pictures of her, and I sent all of them on email of that guy. They broke up right after that, and she came begging me to delete them. I threatened her that I will post them all on internet. And what happened? She had to ask me if Im ok with her being in a relationship with some guy next time. That was 2 years ago, but whatever girl Im in a long relationship with, I take naked pictures of her, because I know she will try to stab the knife in my back as soon as we broke up. At least I know I have my insurance. Maybe its not right, but I dont give a F.

And no, I will not post those pics on ISH, and I have them A LOT :D !

lol, glad your morals stop you somewhere.

[Balla_Status]

Yes, they like doing it to us. I had the same situation. We were in a relationship for 16 months. We broke up and she instantly found herself a new guy, who was friends with me. I mean, who can be with a girl of his friend??? And how a girl can be with a friend of her ex???
But Im not a stupid guy like the op. I had 40 naked pictures of her, and I sent all of them on email of that guy. They broke up right after that, and she came begging me to delete them. I threatened her that I will post them all on internet. And what happened? She had to ask me if Im ok with her being in a relationship with some guy next time. That was 2 years ago, but whatever girl Im in a long relationship with, I take naked pictures of her, because I know she will try to stab the knife in my back as soon as we broke up. At least I know I have my insurance. Maybe its not right, but I dont give a F.

And no, I will not post those pics on ISH, and I have them A LOT :D !

You're as crazy as your ex-gf.

[Draz]

Your deeply in love with a girl who still contacts her exs and lives in the past? What makes you so special if she's done it to you with her exs? Hate to say it but you can do better, done be in love with someone like that. There's people out there who can treat your relationship with respect.

[nathanjizzle]

pls bro, i hope you ignore her and move on. its okay to be lonely you grow stronger for that.

[glidedrxlr22]

Just tell her, "You told me to move on. You should do the same."

[Draz]

Better yet show her bf and do the right thing.

[Big_Dogg]

Nothing helps you get over old pu$$y like some new pu$$y, that's about the best advice that can be given.