Saved a girl from getting raped almost... need advice (thorpesourus length)

[unbreakable]

Ok.. try to make this short as possible..

-meet girl from okc
-shes cool as ****. 20 yrs old, same uni as me
-hangout for a month
-get close, smash
-she goes to an apt party one night with her roommates
-party in same complex where she lives
-im hanging with my boys that night
-she texts me at 130 am "im so drunk i wanna see you lol"
-i say ill hit u up when my boys leave she says ok

-i txt her at 3am,,, 30 min later she says "comeeeee"
-i drive over, call, txt etc she doesnt answer and im not gonna knock on her door at 3am
-**** it, go get some food
-3:50 am she texts "david a guy is here with me, please comee"... "i say "what do you mean" she says "im too drunkkk"

-at this point im trippin out.. so i rush over there. .call her tell her to open door

-she answers door in a shirt ONLY (no panties, no pants, shirt ONLY)
-she can barely talk/walk.. so drunk
-dude walks out of her room and to the door
-i stop him from leaving

BEFORE I BEAT HIS ASS i wanna make sure hes guilty.. i still only known this girl for about a month.. for all I know she was down for him or whatever (i hope this makes sense)

-i ask her about 5 times " Did he hurt you? Did he hurt you?" she keeps saying no no

-so whatever i let him leave because for all i know she invited him over or whatever

-im mad as fukk. i liked her and kept saying "what the fuq " she was like nothing happened nothing happened.. he was trying to take off my pants and i kept saying no

-at this point im even madder.. im like "WTF i asked you!!!" if she had told me when i first asked her i wouldve beat his ass serious I CANT STAND NI66AZ WHO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF DRUNK GIRLS!!

so heres the story : she goes to a party with her roommates.. gets way drunk.. her roommate leaves with her boyfriend (bitch).. shes alone at party.. dude walks her home (they live in same apt complex).. shes fukkin wasted.. passed out in her room .. he takes off her clothes.. she wouldnt let him fukk..


and just so you know i kept asking "how do you know nothing happened if you were so drunk" she said "cuz i remember..he took off my pants and i wouldnt let him and he went to the restroom but nothing happened" she was crying etc mad i didnt believe her

also. she only had sex 1 time before me.. i believe her because i could barely fit half my finger up there before we had sex.. im assuming if she was passed out and he had sex with her there woulda been blood or smell of sex in the room? anyone agree? when i went to her room to help her get dressed etc everything smelled/looked normal.

WTF did anyone read this?? will rep in real life for advice/input especially on whether or not you think she had sex

[jcsrplumply]

Did you do her?

[B-Easy8]

I like the dot points. Much better to read than those essays.

Sounds to me like this happened:

- that dude smashed
- she regretted it
- she subsequently called you
- you got played like a bitch and got his dirty 4am drunk scraps

Hopefully you smashed then didn't see her again.

[unbreakable]

Did you do her?

that night? no we had sex for the first time the night before and that morning.

[unbreakable]

- that dude smashed
- she regretted it
- she subsequently called you
- you got played like a bitch and got his dirty 4am drunk scraps
.

but why would she call me if she smashed? also wouldnt it smell like sex when i walked in?

[ILLsmak]

that night? no we had sex for the first time the night before and that morning.

its yaboy, dating guru ILLSmak.

My advice, and you can take it or leave it... is to support her emotionally because she probably needs a friend (assuming you can?) but understand that she's a toxic girl. Involving yourself with her is bad. You may even have to fight people over her or for her, but in the end you will only get yourself hurt because she's going to continue to put herself in situations where she will be taken advantage of.

People do get taken advantage of, but there is some negligence on their part. It's so odd... people that put themselves in situations where they can be.

This girl sounds like a (bogus but true alert) "My family molested me and I've been living out that cycle repeatedly." Maybe some day she'll break out of it, but know that you are not doing yourself any favors by investing emotionally in what should be a rescue, at best.

-Smak

[ILLsmak]

but why would she call me if she smashed? also wouldnt it smell like sex when i walked in?

Let you know she needs saving? To let you know other guys wanna **** her and she can't stop them? Many reasons.

Girls in general are ****ed up, but I tend to understand people pretty well. Of course, I'm wrong sometimes... but I'll take the wrongs opposed to getting stuck with da bullshat.

-Smak

[unbreakable]

People do get taken advantage of, but there is some negligence on their part. It's so odd... people that put themselves in situations where they can be.



thanks for the input. i agree and thats why i was so mad she could put herself in this position..

as for all the evidence i provided.. do you think she fukked?

[embersyc]

She was naked from waste down and dude was still there?

:coleman:

It happened.

[millwad]

There's a risk that they had sex, if she opened the door with only a T on the risk is pretty big that they actually had sex.

And female's are very sensitive when they get asked regarding sex by people they do like. My fianc

[millwad]

thanks for the input. i agree and thats why i was so mad she could put herself in this position..

as for all the evidence i provided.. do you think she fukked?

I think that you should have a serious talk about it with her, she would definitely remember having sex so question her regarding what happened.

I'm not going to say if she did it or didn't do it, don't want to give you false hopes or the other way around but you should definitely know that there's a risk she did it.

Following combination is a horrible one;

* Naked
* Drunk
* Alone with a guy

[STATUTORY]

smart choice not white knighting the girl and beating the dude up for without clarifying what happeened, even tho it didn't seem like u got the full answer. that's how fools get arrested.

[Zan Tabak]

I like the dot points. Much better to read than those essays.

Sounds to me like this happened:

- that dude smashed
- she regretted it
- she subsequently called you
- you got played like a bitch and got his dirty 4am drunk scraps

Hopefully you smashed then didn't see her again.
:oldlol: :oldlol:

This is probably what happened. Although I don't agree with the last point, no reason to burn that bridge. Keep hittin it and take her for what she is, don't try to make a serious gf out of it.

[HarryCallahan]

She may or may not have. You can't change what she did/didn't do. My advice is just to move on. It's 2013, no need for all this white knight bs, there's 3.5BILLION women on planet earth, no need to get involved with drama magnets.

[rufuspaul]

She may or may not have. You can't change what she did/didn't do. My advice is just to move on. It's 2013, no need for all this white knight bs, there's 3.5BILLION women on planet earth, no need to get involved with drama magnets.


This. Bitch was drunk and horny and when you went to eat she thought you weren't showing up so she got with the dude that was there. Any dick in a storm.

[eriX]

Depends if you actually see yourself in a relationship with her somewhere in the future. Even as a friend tho you should clear things up with her, if she was actually raped then you have some serious business to deal with, if not then you gotta ask why would she call you over after. Either way you want to know the truth.

[nathanjizzle]

she was horny, and youre telling me she let a guy in her room took off her pants and denied him? you are in denial, the evidence slapped you in the ****in face and you still wont believe it.

and how does it makes sense that she keeps saying "he tried to take my pants off but i wouldnt let him" then how did her pants come off?

[SCREWstonRockets]

Lots of girls don't like to admit being raped. I know, because I'm still here.....












*rimshot* just kidding!

[ZeN]

OP.. shame on you for comparing yourself to Thorp. :oldlol:

[Rasheed1]

If the guy was in the bathroom? he probably already finished and was washing his balls in the sink..

if she was naked from the waist down? yeah.. it was already over

[unbreakable]

If the guy was in the bathroom? he probably already finished and was washing his balls in the sink..

if she was naked from the waist down? yeah.. it was already over

thanks for the input.. .why would she text me asking for help if she was fukkin? i just dont get it :wtf:

[boozehound]

thanks for the input. i agree and thats why i was so mad she could put herself in this position..

as for all the evidence i provided.. do you think she fukked?
who cares. If they did, you shouldnt hold it against her

[unbreakable]

who cares. If they did, you shouldnt hold it against her

did you read the thread? no disrespect.. but she invited me over.. if she invited me over WHILE SHES FUKKIN thats straight up fukked up and of course i should hold it against her..

like i said ive only known her a month but we were cool.. if shes got some dudes on the side i cant complain cuz we aint official but to invite me over WHILE youre fukkin? makes no sense

please read this and reply im interested in what you think booze

[Rasheed1]

thanks for the input.. .why would she text me asking for help if she was fukkin? i just dont get it :wtf:


Maybe she didnt actually wanna f*ck the guy, and felt kinda slutty over it afterwards.. girls do that sh*t.. they change reality from time to time to maintain their view of themselves.

like someone else said, girls tend to lie about their sexual habits...

I have a general rule with women... However many people she says she slept with? I figure its at least double that amount..

5 means 10, and 10 means 20.. I know enough about women to know that they rationalize things..

"He dont count because I was drunk that night" ....

"I dont s*ck d*ck" (then, a month later she goes down on you like a pro swallowing the kids)

girls will lie about alot of things when it comes to sex mostly because there is alot of pressure on them not to be whores.. they dont wanna look like whores so they sometimes fudge the truth about what they actually do..

be skeptical of women and their stories when it comes to their sex lives

[boozehound]

thanks for the input.. .why would she text me asking for help if she was fukkin? i just dont get it :wtf:
because she didnt want to and the guy raped/took advantage of her. Very few rapes are actually violent. Again, if you like her, move past this. It doesnt really matter if they ****ed or not. But, since you came over 1.5 hours after she first asked for help (am I reading that wrong), its most likely that he raped her. Shame on him

[unbreakable]

because she didnt want to and the guy raped/took advantage of her. Very few rapes are actually violent. Again, if you like her, move past this. It doesnt really matter if they ****ed or not. But, since you came over 1.5 hours after she first asked for help (am I reading that wrong), its most likely that he raped her. Shame on him
thanks for the reply. .. also when i say "fukkin" i imply that its mutual.. not that she was raped so thats why i asked .. if yall think she "fukked" not if yall think she was raped..

just for clarification.. she said "comeee" so i went.. she didnt answer the text or calls when i was outside so i left to get food .. called about 10 times.. 15 min later she texts for help and thats when i went back again and this time went to her door .. but again thanks for the input

[kurple]

dudes are creeps. and girls get ****ing beyond stupid when they are drunk

would not be surprised if she ****ed him. Then shame on you random guy, taking advantage of a piss drunk girl! and you should have beat his ass

but i would not be surprised if he was just horny as **** and she had trouble saying no as A LOT of girls do when they are drunk

having no pants or panties, makes it more likely she ****ed him. I would have know if she had filled her ***** right before me (smell and different feeling). And it seemed like you would have as well.

[unbreakable]

having no pants or panties, makes it more likely she ****ed him. I would have know if she had filled her ***** right before me (smell and different feeling). And it seemed like you would have as well.

thanks for the reply. like i said i noticed no smell or blood in her room/bed (shes super tight.. if shes passed out i doubt she gets wet.. strong possibility of blood if unwilling sex?)...

no smell of sex.. no blood.. no sex? please reply what you think

[kurple]

but you should just move on

if you really like her, it shouldnt matter. And if you just want someone to bang, there you go.

[Rasheed1]

thanks for the reply. .. also when i say "fukkin" i imply that its mutual.. not that she was raped so thats why i asked .. if yall think she "fukked" not if yall think she was raped..

just for clarification.. she said "comeee" so i went.. she didnt answer the text or calls when i was outside so i left to get food .. called about 10 times.. 15 min later she texts for help and thats when i went back again and this time went to her door .. but again thanks for the input


its difficult to say...

Guys do tend to go hard sometimes and that is rape if she is actually telling him "no-no, I dont wanna do this" and he goes in anyway..

but sometimes girls may "think" those words instead of actually saying them... and other times they dont even have any problem with getting chopped up until the wrong person finds out about it..

it depends on the character of the woman...

j/s your story is very close to line, so I would be skeptical and judge whether I like her enough overall to go any further with her relationship wise.

you have only known her for a month? be skeptical and give it more time to learn her character

[unbreakable]

thanks sheed appreciate the thoughts

[boozehound]

thanks for the reply. .. also when i say "fukkin" i imply that its mutual.. not that she was raped so thats why i asked .. if yall think she "fukked" not if yall think she was raped..

just for clarification.. she said "comeee" so i went.. she didnt answer the text or calls when i was outside so i left to get food .. called about 10 times.. 15 min later she texts for help and thats when i went back again and this time went to her door .. but again thanks for the input
huh, interesting. Dont dwell on it and move forward. I do agree that you probably would've smelled the sex, so maybe not. Also, if she had ****ed him and was hiding it from you, she wouldnt have answered the door like that.

[boozehound]

its difficult to say...

Guys do tend to go hard sometimes and that is rape if she is actually telling him "no-no, I dont wanna do this" and he goes in anyway..

but sometimes girls may "think" those words instead of actually saying them... and other times they dont even have any problem with getting chopped up until the wrong person finds out about it..

it depends on the character of the woman...

j/s your story is very close to line, so I would be skeptical and judge whether I like her enough overall to go any further with her relationship wise.

you have only known her for a month? be skeptical and give it more time to learn her character
Right. I dont think you should drop her necessarily, but you should be a little wary moving forward. As sheed says, there is such pressure to not be labeled a slut (slut shaming) for indulging in the same carnal urges that we have. Funny that you (the general you) are super happy to find out a girl will **** you casually, but want to think shes only banged a couple guys before.

[unbreakable]

thanks booze i owe u

[rufuspaul]

Right. I dont think you should drop her necessarily, but you should be a little wary moving forward. As sheed says, there is such pressure to not be labeled a slut (slut shaming) for indulging in the same carnal urges that we have. Funny that you (the general you) are super happy to find out a girl will **** you casually, but want to think shes only banged a couple guys before.


Is that similar to **** punting?

[ace23]

she was horny, and youre telling me she let a guy in her room took off her pants and denied him? you are in denial, the evidence slapped you in the ****in face and you still wont believe it.

and how does it makes sense that she keeps saying "he tried to take my pants off but i wouldnt let him" then how did her pants come off?
this :oldlol:

[RoseCity07]

Sorry to tell you but she let the guy smash for sure. You don't let someone take your pants off like that. He busted in her and left.

[TheReal Kendall]

Oh definitely. I can tell and smell when my girlfriend has had sex with another guy




:lebroncry:

:lol :(

I guess my nose suck because I can't smell shit unless the girl vag stinks. But to OP most likely they had sex and she regretted it afterwards. If you really like her though it shouldn't matter since yall not together but you should be careful cause it's a high possibility that she will get drunk again and do something stupid like this. Never trust women. They are very sneaky.

[Nick Young]

To me it sounds like 80% she f*cked this guy and regreted it once sobering, now trying to justify it in her head+she lying to you that she didn't f*ck/suck this guy off. She probably liked you, but is a slut and slept with this guy, so now to distract herself from the guilt and admitting it's her fault she makes up this bullshit "I was almost raped" drama.

20% she is speaking the truth, but I doubt it. I have had many whore bag girls in my circle of friends who make out with loads of guys every night out and always sleep with a loser and then deny it the next day even though every one saw it, or claim "I was roofied" "I didn't do anything with him when I got home" etc



BOTTOM LINE THIS CHICK IS DRAMA! GET AWAY FROM HER. 80% CHANCE SHE IS LYING TO YOU

[Nick Young]

thanks for the input.. .why would she text me asking for help if she was fukkin? i just dont get it :wtf:
to amuse herself with the drama that would insue

[embersyc]

She probably texted you because she wanted him to leave and he wasn't taking the hint.

That is of course after they had sex.

[BrooklynZoo]

[QUOTE=millwad]My fianc

[FKAri]

he was trying to take off my pants and i kept saying no

http://www.miscupload.com/upload/131202705000645056283123.gif

Oh. thats her talkin. Strong use of quotations earlier but not there.

[AintNoSunshine]

pics or it didn't happen

what the fukk else do you expect me to reply?

[maybeshewill13]

Sounds like a classy chick OP, well done :rolleyes: