How do you deal with embarrassing drunken moments?

[hateraid]

Have you even had one of those nights where you got completely wasted and someone says to you the next morning with a disgusted look on their face, "do you know what you did/said last night?"

Went through one last night :facepalm


How do you guys deal with it? stop drinking? Go recluse? Brush it off and chalk it up to one of those epic nights?

[Jailblazers7]

Usually go recluse the rest of the weekend and pick up the pieces on Monday.

[hateraid]

Guys wanna hear what I did?

[alenleomessi]

unless you killed or raped somebody, what is there to deal with... just continue with your life like nothing happened...

[Fudge]

*raises hand

[Scholar]

I did once. I apologized the next morn.

I stopped drinking after that day and thought I was done permanently, but I drank again during ECF game 3 at my friend's house.

[Jailblazers7]

Guys wanna hear what I did?

You should make a guessing game of it.

My guess is puked in an inappropriate place.

[hateraid]

You should make a guessing game of it.

My guess is puked in an inappropriate place.

I wish that was it

[ElPigto]

I wish that was it

WTF did you do? Were you given the option to blow a dude and get whatever girl you'd like by any chance?

[Styles p]

did you confess your love for a friend while shitfaced?

[MMM]

unless you killed or raped somebody, what is there to deal with... just continue with your life like nothing happened...

what if you did both
Raped then killed the person
or
Killed than raped the person

[Nebraskanball]

Why don't you just tell us what you did? That's why you made the thread anyways. It's not like you're expecting anyone on a basketball forum to give you groundbreaking advice on "dealing with" getting too drunk. So just go ahead, spit it out.

And the only way to deal with it is to learn to handle your booze.

[Fudge]

You flashed your dick in a nightclub?

[Scholar]

WTF did you do? Were you given the option to blow a dude and get whatever girl you'd like by any chance?

Nah. He was probably in bed between the girl of his choice and a gay dude, and he ended up just kicking the girl out of bed and turning his back to the gay dude.

[DeuceWallaces]

If your friends like to party then I usually chalk it up to an epic night of idiocy and fun. If you're with people who are more of the "oh my god what the **** is he doing" ilk then you may need to pick up the pieces and throw out a couple apologies.

[JMT]

Change the title to "WHY do I deal with embarrassing drunken moments?" and it will give you the real perspective that you should be looking for.

[joe]

I think it's a deeper problem, that you don't act the way sober that you do when you're drunk. So there's a discrepancy. Maybe your sober self should be more like your drunk self, the real uncensored you. :D Then you'd have nothing to be ashamed of.

But the way Iiiii usually deal with it is just being filled with endless guilt and shame, so whatever..

[niko]

Acknowledge them and apologize if necessary. THere's not much else you can do. Completely acting like it didn't happen is strange to me.

[MetsPackers]

This one time when I was 16 I took 4 Xanax bars and then went out to a party with a few of my friends. I remember barely anything from the night at all but apparently we went to one girls house where we were just drinking and smoking blunts and shit no big deal didn't do anything bad

But then we went to a real party at this other chicks house and apparently I believe I was The Situation from jersey shore and was acting like him the entire time. I took my shirt off and was just going up to girls saying "hey baby you wana fvck the situation?" and was apparently not getting good reactions. Then I tried to block someones shot in pong with my abs and just broke right through the table and spilled a huge amount of beer everywhere. Then I fvcked this girl on the front lawn in front of a bunch of freshmen who were scarred for life while I was staring at another girls saying "huh you wana get in on this".

Then this kid from another town was trying to bring the speakers from the party back to his house which pissed me off and he hit my boy with a speaker. So I walked up to him and yelled to my boy across the room "YO I JUST WANT TO CONFIRM THAT THIS IS THE KID WHO HIT YOU". He said yes and everyone is looking at me except the kid for some reason. Then I punched him in the back of the head with the brass knuckles I brought for some reason. He fell through the wooden DJ table and was knocked out. Everyone was bugging out and I just went in the kitchen and threw up atleast 20 times ruined the whole kitchen apparently it still smells like puke to this day

I just tried to not talk to anyone who was there every again after that

[-p.tiddy-]

my name hasn't come up yet?

It all depends on what you did...I've done some flat out bad things while drunk that I had to call the next day and apologize for and ask for forgiveness...this would fall in the area of starting fist fights, to stealing something, flipping tables over in clubs, etc...and just making the phone call can help, because usually the other side is clued in to your sobriety.

the worst is when you really hurt a girl you care about while drunk, either by cheating on her or saying something so awful that she never forgets it :( I've done that a few times and still to this day I hate myself for it.

Then there are the times you do something so bad you wake up in jail the next day. Those usually aren't as embarrassing as they are wake up calls. This has happened to me close to a dozen times, and each time I clean up my act for a few months and then go right back to being destructive...

If what you did is less than what I listed above, then all in all you just deal with it by being embarrassed...and understand it will just blow over in a week or two...

[bmulls]

I once peed in a trash can right in the middle of a crowded club. Just whipped my dick out and started peeing. I also called my date by her (hotter) best friend's name all night and puked my guts out on the front lawn after we got back. My fraternity had rented the whole place out so I didn't get thrown out or anything but I never heard the end of it. That was the last time I got truly black out drunk.

[nathanjizzle]

i was pretty drunk, on my way to my ex girlfriends house around 12 at night, i had to stop for gas so my car wouldnt die on the way there. i also took a piss at the pump station because i didnt want to have a full bladder ****ing her.

[nathanjizzle]

damn.. that could kill someone :biggums:

seriuosly, i had a pair of brass knuckles and only used it for breaking car windows, you punch someone with that you can be charged for attempted murder.

[Balla_Status]

This one time when I was 16 I took 4 Xanax bars and then went out to a party with a few of my friends. I remember barely anything from the night at all but apparently we went to one girls house where we were just drinking and smoking blunts and shit no big deal didn't do anything bad

But then we went to a real party at this other chicks house and apparently I believe I was The Situation from jersey shore and was acting like him the entire time. I took my shirt off and was just going up to girls saying "hey baby you wana fvck the situation?" and was apparently not getting good reactions. Then I tried to block someones shot in pong with my abs and just broke right through the table and spilled a huge amount of beer everywhere. Then I fvcked this girl on the front lawn in front of a bunch of freshmen who were scarred for life while I was staring at another girls saying "huh you wana get in on this".

Then this kid from another town was trying to bring the speakers from the party back to his house which pissed me off and he hit my boy with a speaker. So I walked up to him and yelled to my boy across the room "YO I JUST WANT TO CONFIRM THAT THIS IS THE KID WHO HIT YOU". He said yes and everyone is looking at me except the kid for some reason. Then I punched him in the back of the head with the brass knuckles I brought for some reason. He fell through the wooden DJ table and was knocked out. Everyone was bugging out and I just went in the kitchen and threw up atleast 20 times ruined the whole kitchen apparently it still smells like puke to this day

I just tried to not talk to anyone who was there every again after that

Sorry for partying

[hateraid]

WTF did you do? Were you given the option to blow a dude and get whatever girl you'd like by any chance?

Here's how it went:

I call my brother up to see what he was doing last night. He says one of our buddies is playing at a club downtown Philly. I didn't realy commit to that plan but I was looking to have a few bevies. He says our buddy is playing at 9:30, but didn't really put it out there as an invite. He tries to avoid it because if we do go on benders I usually crash at his house since he lives closer downtown. He doesn't like looking after me the next day.
I keep that in the back of my mind, but decided to go to my other buddy's bar instead. It was around the corner from an alumni Rugby House party another buddy invited me to. I figure cool, have the pre-drinks then swing by there.
So I get to my buddy's bar at about 7:00 and figure I would have maybe a couple of pints before I head out. I sit up at the rail and it was packed. But not just strangers, it was my bar owners friend's friends. Being the social butterfly that I am I chat it up. We're getting along and the drinks are flowing. By the time it hits 9:30 I'm about 6 pints and 3 shooters in. I'm hammered.
So instead of recognizing that, I remember my brother was at our musician friend's gig and I figure, cool, I'm gonna dance it up before the party. I'll crash my brother's shindig. On the cab ride there I'm hit hard. I'm slurring, rambling, and drunk out of my tree. I get to the club at 10:00 and my brother who's younger and his brother-in-law who's older than me are outside smoking. Inside was my sister-in-law and her sister. As soon as I hopped out the cab I'm screaming at the top of my lungs. It was so obnoxious that they had to tell my bro that they wouldn't let me in. Being the friends they are, they actually tip the doorman just to let me in and promised I'd behave. I didn't see all this because I was juiced.
When I got in there I was out of control. The table where they were sitting was right by the stage. I'm jamming like Busta Rhymes east coast stomping. Drinks were on the table and I start slamming them down. I go back to dancing hard by the stage and that's when it all went black....
I wake up the next morning on my brother's couch wearing nothing but my underwear and 1 sock on. I don't remember a thing or how I got there. I sit there and try to recover. My brother and sister-in-law come out and tell me they're taking me home.
On the ride home that's where the dreaded, "so, do you even remember what happened last night?" story happens. My brother looks disgusted. I say to them I kind of don't want to know seeing the look on his face. He says he's telling me anyways.
After I slammed the drinks I go back to dancing like a madman. But this time I jump on stage and start ripping around with the band. Like Frank the Tank interrupting Snoop's set at the frat party. I spin out of control and I fall onto the DJ's laptop and bust it. Night over, club shuts her down. I get carried to a cab. End everybody's night early and they came with me back to my brother's. :facepalm
I apologize over and over, tell them this is the last time and I will not get that shitfaced with them again. I can tell they take it with a grain of salt. I'm embarassed as hell. On top of that when I get home I see my bro's Facebook status and it reads "I now annoint myself the older brother." Thus adding more salt on the wounds.

Having told you guys that, yeah I feel bad. I would never cheat or get into a fight, but this feels totally humiliating, also knowing this doesn't look good to my wife and kid. I don't know if I can chalk this up to an epic night, but this is the worse behavior I've ever put myself in

[HarryCallahan]

Just feel appropriately embarrassed, it's punishment enough.

[ace23]

When I got in there I was out of control. The table where they were sitting was right by the stage. I'm jamming like Busta Rhymes east coast stomping. Drinks were on the table and I start slamming them down. I go back to dancing hard by the stage and that's when it all went black....
I wake up the next morning on my brother's couch wearing nothing but my underwear and 1 sock on. I don't remember a thing or how I got there. I sit there and try to recover. My brother and sister-in-law come out and tell me they're taking me home.
On the ride home that's where the dreaded, "so, do you even remember what happened last night?" story happens. My brother looks disgusted. I say to them I kind of don't want to know seeing the look on his face. He says he's telling me anyways.
After I slammed the drinks I go back to dancing like a madman. But this time I jump on stage and start ripping around with the band. Like Frank the Tank interrupting Snoop's set at the frat party. I spin out of control and I fall onto the DJ's laptop and bust it. Night over, club shuts her down. I get carried to a cab. End everybody's night early and they came with me back to my brother's. :facepalm
I apologize over and over, tell them this is the last time and I will not get that shitfaced with them again. I can tell they take it with a grain of salt. I'm embarassed as hell. On top of that when I get home I see my bro's Facebook status and it reads "I now annoint myself the older brother." Thus adding more salt on the wounds.

Having told you guys that, yeah I feel bad. I would never cheat or get into a fight, but this feels totally humiliating, also knowing this doesn't look good to my wife and kid. I don't know if I can chalk this up to an epic night, but this is the worse behavior I've ever put myself in
:roll: :roll: :roll: DED

[1987_Lakers]

This one time when I was 16 I took 4 Xanax bars and then went out to a party with a few of my friends. I remember barely anything from the night at all but apparently we went to one girls house where we were just drinking and smoking blunts and shit no big deal didn't do anything bad

But then we went to a real party at this other chicks house and apparently I believe I was The Situation from jersey shore and was acting like him the entire time. I took my shirt off and was just going up to girls saying "hey baby you wana fvck the situation?" and was apparently not getting good reactions. Then I tried to block someones shot in pong with my abs and just broke right through the table and spilled a huge amount of beer everywhere. Then I fvcked this girl on the front lawn in front of a bunch of freshmen who were scarred for life while I was staring at another girls saying "huh you wana get in on this".

Then this kid from another town was trying to bring the speakers from the party back to his house which pissed me off and he hit my boy with a speaker. So I walked up to him and yelled to my boy across the room "YO I JUST WANT TO CONFIRM THAT THIS IS THE KID WHO HIT YOU". He said yes and everyone is looking at me except the kid for some reason. Then I punched him in the back of the head with the brass knuckles I brought for some reason. He fell through the wooden DJ table and was knocked out. Everyone was bugging out and I just went in the kitchen and threw up atleast 20 times ruined the whole kitchen apparently it still smells like puke to this day

I just tried to not talk to anyone who was there every again after that

:roll: if this is real.

[1987_Lakers]

Here's how it went:

I call my brother up to see what he was doing last night. He says one of our buddies is playing at a club downtown Philly. I didn't realy commit to that plan but I was looking to have a few bevies. He says our buddy is playing at 9:30, but didn't really put it out there as an invite. He tries to avoid it because if we do go on benders I usually crash at his house since he lives closer downtown. He doesn't like looking after me the next day.
I keep that in the back of my mind, but decided to go to my other buddy's bar instead. It was around the corner from an alumni Rugby House party another buddy invited me to. I figure cool, have the pre-drinks then swing by there.
So I get to my buddy's bar at about 7:00 and figure I would have maybe a couple of pints before I head out. I sit up at the rail and it was packed. But not just strangers, it was my bar owners friend's friends. Being the social butterfly that I am I chat it up. We're getting along and the drinks are flowing. By the time it hits 9:30 I'm about 6 pints and 3 shooters in. I'm hammered.
So instead of recognizing that, I remember my brother was at our musician friend's gig and I figure, cool, I'm gonna dance it up before the party. I'll crash my brother's shindig. On the cab ride there I'm hit hard. I'm slurring, rambling, and drunk out of my tree. I get to the club at 10:00 and my brother who's younger and his brother-in-law who's older than me are outside smoking. Inside was my sister-in-law and her sister. As soon as I hopped out the cab I'm screaming at the top of my lungs. It was so obnoxious that they had to tell my bro that they wouldn't let me in. Being the friends they are, they actually tip the doorman just to let me in and promised I'd behave. I didn't see all this because I was juiced.
When I got in there I was out of control. The table where they were sitting was right by the stage. I'm jamming like Busta Rhymes east coast stomping. Drinks were on the table and I start slamming them down. I go back to dancing hard by the stage and that's when it all went black....
I wake up the next morning on my brother's couch wearing nothing but my underwear and 1 sock on. I don't remember a thing or how I got there. I sit there and try to recover. My brother and sister-in-law come out and tell me they're taking me home.
On the ride home that's where the dreaded, "so, do you even remember what happened last night?" story happens. My brother looks disgusted. I say to them I kind of don't want to know seeing the look on his face. He says he's telling me anyways.
After I slammed the drinks I go back to dancing like a madman. But this time I jump on stage and start ripping around with the band. Like Frank the Tank interrupting Snoop's set at the frat party. I spin out of control and I fall onto the DJ's laptop and bust it. Night over, club shuts her down. I get carried to a cab. End everybody's night early and they came with me back to my brother's. :facepalm
I apologize over and over, tell them this is the last time and I will not get that shitfaced with them again. I can tell they take it with a grain of salt. I'm embarassed as hell. On top of that when I get home I see my bro's Facebook status and it reads "I now annoint myself the older brother." Thus adding more salt on the wounds.

Having told you guys that, yeah I feel bad. I would never cheat or get into a fight, but this feels totally humiliating, also knowing this doesn't look good to my wife and kid. I don't know if I can chalk this up to an epic night, but this is the worse behavior I've ever put myself in
:roll:

[Balla_Status]

Here's how it went:

I call my brother up to see what he was doing last night. He says one of our buddies is playing at a club downtown Philly. I didn't realy commit to that plan but I was looking to have a few bevies. He says our buddy is playing at 9:30, but didn't really put it out there as an invite. He tries to avoid it because if we do go on benders I usually crash at his house since he lives closer downtown. He doesn't like looking after me the next day.
I keep that in the back of my mind, but decided to go to my other buddy's bar instead. It was around the corner from an alumni Rugby House party another buddy invited me to. I figure cool, have the pre-drinks then swing by there.
So I get to my buddy's bar at about 7:00 and figure I would have maybe a couple of pints before I head out. I sit up at the rail and it was packed. But not just strangers, it was my bar owners friend's friends. Being the social butterfly that I am I chat it up. We're getting along and the drinks are flowing. By the time it hits 9:30 I'm about 6 pints and 3 shooters in. I'm hammered.
So instead of recognizing that, I remember my brother was at our musician friend's gig and I figure, cool, I'm gonna dance it up before the party. I'll crash my brother's shindig. On the cab ride there I'm hit hard. I'm slurring, rambling, and drunk out of my tree. I get to the club at 10:00 and my brother who's younger and his brother-in-law who's older than me are outside smoking. Inside was my sister-in-law and her sister. As soon as I hopped out the cab I'm screaming at the top of my lungs. It was so obnoxious that they had to tell my bro that they wouldn't let me in. Being the friends they are, they actually tip the doorman just to let me in and promised I'd behave. I didn't see all this because I was juiced.
When I got in there I was out of control. The table where they were sitting was right by the stage. I'm jamming like Busta Rhymes east coast stomping. Drinks were on the table and I start slamming them down. I go back to dancing hard by the stage and that's when it all went black....
I wake up the next morning on my brother's couch wearing nothing but my underwear and 1 sock on. I don't remember a thing or how I got there. I sit there and try to recover. My brother and sister-in-law come out and tell me they're taking me home.
On the ride home that's where the dreaded, "so, do you even remember what happened last night?" story happens. My brother looks disgusted. I say to them I kind of don't want to know seeing the look on his face. He says he's telling me anyways.
After I slammed the drinks I go back to dancing like a madman. But this time I jump on stage and start ripping around with the band. Like Frank the Tank interrupting Snoop's set at the frat party. I spin out of control and I fall onto the DJ's laptop and bust it. Night over, club shuts her down. I get carried to a cab. End everybody's night early and they came with me back to my brother's. :facepalm
I apologize over and over, tell them this is the last time and I will not get that shitfaced with them again. I can tell they take it with a grain of salt. I'm embarassed as hell. On top of that when I get home I see my bro's Facebook status and it reads "I now annoint myself the older brother." Thus adding more salt on the wounds.

Having told you guys that, yeah I feel bad. I would never cheat or get into a fight, but this feels totally humiliating, also knowing this doesn't look good to my wife and kid. I don't know if I can chalk this up to an epic night, but this is the worse behavior I've ever put myself in

Damn dude. I've done some stupid shit and been black out but never anything like that.

But I don't have a wife and kid.

If you were drunk by 9:30 and blacked out by 10:00, it sounds like you didn't eat dinner. That will make or break my night for me.

[InspiredLebowski]

you tell em we just took Miami 7 and the stars are aligning

[hateraid]

Damn dude. I've done some stupid shit and been black out but never anything like that.

But I don't have a wife and kid.

If you were drunk by 9:30 and blacked out by 10:00, it sounds like you didn't eat dinner. That will make or break my night for me.

I didn't eat since 5:00, but that could be it.

Yeah, it's bad that I'm embarassed, but I coulnd't imagine how the wifey feels about these stories. Haven't told her yet. Don't want to sleep in the spare. Living in shame there's always comfort beside a warm body :lol

[hateraid]

On a side note, do you think it was inappropriate for my borther to air it out on facebook? I've been struggling with that

[Lebowsky]

On a side note, do you think it was inappropriate for my borther to air it out on facebook? I've been struggling with that
Personally, I wouldn't do it, but if you got that drunk then you need to suck it up and deal with the consequences. It's embarrassing as hell and you feel like shit for w while, but time cures it all. I got embarrassingly drunk last Xmas at my work party at the Hilton, and some people on the team never saw me the same way after that. Fortunately it didn't spread out too much. It sucked for a couple of weeks or three, but now I don't even work there any more and I couldn't care less. You trip, you fall, you pick youself up and learn. At least I guess we do learn, right?

[rufuspaul]

This one time when I was 16 I took 4 Xanax bars and then went out to a party with a few of my friends. I remember barely anything from the night at all but apparently we went to one girls house where we were just drinking and smoking blunts and shit no big deal didn't do anything bad

But then we went to a real party at this other chicks house and apparently I believe I was The Situation from jersey shore and was acting like him the entire time. I took my shirt off and was just going up to girls saying "hey baby you wana fvck the situation?" and was apparently not getting good reactions. Then I tried to block someones shot in pong with my abs and just broke right through the table and spilled a huge amount of beer everywhere. Then I fvcked this girl on the front lawn in front of a bunch of freshmen who were scarred for life while I was staring at another girls saying "huh you wana get in on this".

Then this kid from another town was trying to bring the speakers from the party back to his house which pissed me off and he hit my boy with a speaker. So I walked up to him and yelled to my boy across the room "YO I JUST WANT TO CONFIRM THAT THIS IS THE KID WHO HIT YOU". He said yes and everyone is looking at me except the kid for some reason. Then I punched him in the back of the head with the brass knuckles I brought for some reason. He fell through the wooden DJ table and was knocked out. Everyone was bugging out and I just went in the kitchen and threw up atleast 20 times ruined the whole kitchen apparently it still smells like puke to this day

I just tried to not talk to anyone who was there every again after that



:applause: :rockon:

[El Kabong]

This one time when I was 16 I took 4 Xanax bars and then went out to a party with a few of my friends. I remember barely anything from the night at all but apparently we went to one girls house where we were just drinking and smoking blunts and shit no big deal didn't do anything bad

But then we went to a real party at this other chicks house and apparently I believe I was The Situation from jersey shore and was acting like him the entire time. I took my shirt off and was just going up to girls saying "hey baby you wana fvck the situation?" and was apparently not getting good reactions. Then I tried to block someones shot in pong with my abs and just broke right through the table and spilled a huge amount of beer everywhere. Then I fvcked this girl on the front lawn in front of a bunch of freshmen who were scarred for life while I was staring at another girls saying "huh you wana get in on this".

Then this kid from another town was trying to bring the speakers from the party back to his house which pissed me off and he hit my boy with a speaker. So I walked up to him and yelled to my boy across the room "YO I JUST WANT TO CONFIRM THAT THIS IS THE KID WHO HIT YOU". He said yes and everyone is looking at me except the kid for some reason. Then I punched him in the back of the head with the brass knuckles I brought for some reason. He fell through the wooden DJ table and was knocked out. Everyone was bugging out and I just went in the kitchen and threw up atleast 20 times ruined the whole kitchen apparently it still smells like puke to this day

I just tried to not talk to anyone who was there every again after that
What's awesome about this story is you're acting like a complete dickhead, but still got laid

So you see kids, its not all so bad. Because if MetsPackers can abuse prescription medication, get drunk and act like a reality TV douchebag and still get his dick wet, then I believe there's hope for us all.

[DeuceWallaces]

Here's how it went:

I call my brother up to see what he was doing last night. He says one of our buddies is playing at a club downtown Philly. I didn't realy commit to that plan but I was looking to have a few bevies. He says our buddy is playing at 9:30, but didn't really put it out there as an invite. He tries to avoid it because if we do go on benders I usually crash at his house since he lives closer downtown. He doesn't like looking after me the next day.
I keep that in the back of my mind, but decided to go to my other buddy's bar instead. It was around the corner from an alumni Rugby House party another buddy invited me to. I figure cool, have the pre-drinks then swing by there.
So I get to my buddy's bar at about 7:00 and figure I would have maybe a couple of pints before I head out. I sit up at the rail and it was packed. But not just strangers, it was my bar owners friend's friends. Being the social butterfly that I am I chat it up. We're getting along and the drinks are flowing. By the time it hits 9:30 I'm about 6 pints and 3 shooters in. I'm hammered.
So instead of recognizing that, I remember my brother was at our musician friend's gig and I figure, cool, I'm gonna dance it up before the party. I'll crash my brother's shindig. On the cab ride there I'm hit hard. I'm slurring, rambling, and drunk out of my tree. I get to the club at 10:00 and my brother who's younger and his brother-in-law who's older than me are outside smoking. Inside was my sister-in-law and her sister. As soon as I hopped out the cab I'm screaming at the top of my lungs. It was so obnoxious that they had to tell my bro that they wouldn't let me in. Being the friends they are, they actually tip the doorman just to let me in and promised I'd behave. I didn't see all this because I was juiced.
When I got in there I was out of control. The table where they were sitting was right by the stage. I'm jamming like Busta Rhymes east coast stomping. Drinks were on the table and I start slamming them down. I go back to dancing hard by the stage and that's when it all went black....
I wake up the next morning on my brother's couch wearing nothing but my underwear and 1 sock on. I don't remember a thing or how I got there. I sit there and try to recover. My brother and sister-in-law come out and tell me they're taking me home.
On the ride home that's where the dreaded, "so, do you even remember what happened last night?" story happens. My brother looks disgusted. I say to them I kind of don't want to know seeing the look on his face. He says he's telling me anyways.
After I slammed the drinks I go back to dancing like a madman. But this time I jump on stage and start ripping around with the band. Like Frank the Tank interrupting Snoop's set at the frat party. I spin out of control and I fall onto the DJ's laptop and bust it. Night over, club shuts her down. I get carried to a cab. End everybody's night early and they came with me back to my brother's. :facepalm
I apologize over and over, tell them this is the last time and I will not get that shitfaced with them again. I can tell they take it with a grain of salt. I'm embarassed as hell. On top of that when I get home I see my bro's Facebook status and it reads "I now annoint myself the older brother." Thus adding more salt on the wounds.

Having told you guys that, yeah I feel bad. I would never cheat or get into a fight, but this feels totally humiliating, also knowing this doesn't look good to my wife and kid. I don't know if I can chalk this up to an epic night, but this is the worse behavior I've ever put myself in

Sounds like an epic night. Only mistake was getting on stage.

[hateraid]

Personally, I wouldn't do it, but if you got that drunk then you need to suck it up and deal with the consequences. It's embarrassing as hell and you feel like shit for w while, but time cures it all. I got embarrassingly drunk last Xmas at my work party at the Hilton, and some people on the team never saw me the same way after that. Fortunately it didn't spread out too much. It sucked for a couple of weeks or three, but now I don't even work there any more and I couldn't care less. You trip, you fall, you pick youself up and learn. At least I guess we do learn, right?

I've accepted what I've done. I'm definately going to be more aware moving forward

[hateraid]

Sounds like an epic night. Only mistake was getting on stage.
That's the problem, I couldn't remember a thing before that moment

[hateraid]

Or people will stop inviting him places because he's a jackass who can't handle his booze. Also he can't summarize events well. Story could have been told in a few sentences.
Didn't you already say on the first page you didn't care to hear my story?

Seriously, what gives? I've never encountered you before yet you seem to take every opportunity to take personal shots at me

[hateraid]

I'm an asshole
Can I treat you like one then?

[johndeeregreen]

What you did sucks, but if it's not a regular thing for you, your friends/family are being ***** IMO. Everyone gets drunk and does dumb shit once in awhile. Now, if this is a pretty regular thing for you, then yeah, I can understand why they're so pissed.

When I was younger I used to do things I regretted like weekly or worse. And the only way to deal with it is to get ahold of yourself and stop causing these scenes in the first place. The biggest turning point for me was realizing that getting blackout drunk every time you drink isn't normal. As strange as that sounds, in college that's how we ALL drank, so I never thought anything of it. Once I came to the realization that getting absolutely demolished and doing retarded things wasn't how everyone drank and that I had a problem, it was really easy to rein it back in for the most part.

All you can do with your mistakes is learn from them. If you've learned something from this and adjust your behavior accordingly, then it wasn't a total loss.

[imnew09]

I tend to make jokes out of it... Maybe because I'm still in college and not give a fk about my drunken moments yet.

[hateraid]

Are you coming on to me?

If it turns you on then yes

[Dolphin]

Only one black out embarrassing moment that involved friends replaying the previous night. Happened last summer at my best friend's gf's bday party. Apparently in the early morning a few of us were swimming (not smart, I know, but her parents were by the pool) and I tried to drown a couple of my female friends. As in dunking their heads in the water and not letting them up right away and doing it over and over again. My best friend supposedly decked me off of my chair at one point because I was chirping him as well. Oh and I tried playing frisby with the bday girl's dad, but apparently all of my throws went 5 ft and into the ground...I mean over and over again and he walked off shaking his head asking what the **** is wrong with me lol. Everyone was laughing about it the next day though and I really wasn't the worst because I do remember a few things that would embarrass any girl if it came out: 1. I was taking a piss in the bathroom and my one girl friend barged in and sat down on the toilet to take a leak...being drunk I watched her as piss was coming out of her vag. I didn't pee on her though because I was in shock. She had the most disgusting drunken look on her face too leaning up against the wall to support her and all lol 2. I tried to pass out on a mattress in the family room and another girl friend was sleeping on it too and at some point she got the idea of giving me a sloppy drunken handy twice that night. I told people about the first one, but I feel I will keep the second to myself.

The only other time I've blacked out is when I picked up a girl at a club down town and woke up in a motel with her in the suburbs. Cost me almost 200 for the cab ride there and back and 120 for the room. Cabbie clearly took advantage of us on the ride to the motel.

[rufuspaul]

Only one black out embarrassing moment that involved friends replaying the previous night. Happened last summer at my best friend's gf's bday party. Apparently in the early morning a few of us were swimming (not smart, I know, but her parents were by the pool) and I tried to drown a couple of my female friends. As in dunking their heads in the water and not letting them up right away and doing it over and over again. My best friend supposedly decked me off of my chair at one point because I was chirping him as well. Oh and I tried playing frisby with the bday girl's dad, but apparently all of my throws went 5 ft and into the ground...I mean over and over again and he walked off shaking his head asking what the **** is wrong with me lol. Everyone was laughing about it the next day though and I really wasn't the worst because I do remember a few things that would embarrass any girl if it came out: 1. I was taking a piss in the bathroom and my one girl friend barged in and sat down on the toilet to take a leak...being drunk I watched her as piss was coming out of her vag. I didn't pee on her though because I was in shock. She had the most disgusting drunken look on her face too leaning up against the wall to support her and all lol 2. I tried to pass out on a mattress in the family room and another girl friend was sleeping on it too and at some point she got the idea of giving me a sloppy drunken handy twice that night. I told people about the first one, but I feel I will keep the second to myself.

The only other time I've blacked out is when I picked up a girl at a club down town and woke up in a motel with her in the suburbs. Cost me almost 200 for the cab ride there and back and 120 for the room. Cabbie clearly took advantage of us on the ride to the motel.


Oh that's nothing. I mean who doesn't try to drown girls when they're drunk?

[Dolphin]

Oh that's nothing. I mean who doesn't try to drown girls when they're drunk?

They were breathing the next day so it's all good. I mean if what you do doesn't kill someone, it can't be held against you, right?

[-p.tiddy-]

That's the problem, I couldn't remember a thing before that moment
let me ask you something, I don't want to derail this thread into another direction, but you would say that you were mentally handicapped that night correct? making one horrible decision after another right?

had your friends not carried you to a cab, and had your car been in sight, do you think that you would have attempted to drive home?

I know you don't even remember your state of mind so it may be impossible for you to answer, but if your keys were in your pocket, and your car was out front, do you think that you would have still had the ability to know it isn't okay to drive?

[hateraid]

let me ask you something, I don't want to derail this thread into another direction, but you would say that you were mentally handicapped that night correct? making one horrible decision after another right?

had your friends not carried you to a cab, and had your car been in sight, do you think that you would have attempted to drive home?

I know you don't even remember your state of mind so it may be impossible for you to answer, but if your keys were in your pocket, and your car was out front, do you think that you would have still had the ability to know it isn't okay to drive?

I never leave the house with my car keys if I know I'm drinking. At least I'll have that common sense. I took it overboard because I had my bro to fall back on.

[Dolphin]

let me ask you something, I don't want to derail this thread into another direction, but you would say that you were mentally handicapped that night correct? making one horrible decision after another right?

had your friends not carried you to a cab, and had your car been in sight, do you think that you would have attempted to drive home?

I know you don't even remember your state of mind so it may be impossible for you to answer, but if your keys were in your pocket, and your car was out front, do you think that you would have still had the ability to know it isn't okay to drive?

We get it, drinking and driving is no biggie...it can happen to anyone. kill someone? Honest mistake. You still have a good heart. :facepalm

[-p.tiddy-]

We get it, drinking and driving is no biggie...it can happen to anyone. kill someone? Honest mistake. You still have a good heart. :facepalm
no, you do not get my point of view at all...

[-p.tiddy-]

I never leave the house with my car keys if I know I'm drinking. At least I'll have that common sense. I took it overboard because I had my bro to fall back on.
:applause: ...props to that

you kind of avoided my question though..."IF" you had been alone, without friends, in your state of mind, and with your keys in your pocket, do you think that you would have still had the good sense to know not to drive?

[Dolphin]

no, you do not get my point of view at all...

Umm...in that thread where the dude ran over two boys and was subsequently killed by the dad, you basically stated that mistakes happen and the dad was idiot for killing someone for making a mistake. I think I understand your point of view well enough. lol

You are a drunk driving apologist. Just as cheaters defend cheaters to avoid looking inside oneself to see what is broken, you defend other alcoholics who drive drunk.

[ace23]

:applause: ...props to that

you kind of avoided my question though..."IF" you had been alone, without friends, in your state of mind, and with your keys in your pocket, do you think that you would have still had the good sense to know not to drive?
What are you getting at, dude? He probably would have driven home.

[-p.tiddy-]

What are you getting at, dude? He probably would have driven home.
I'm not getting at anything, I said I didn't want to derail this thread, I am just curious as to what he thinks he would have done if in that situation, in that mind set.

[Lebowsky]

Inb4NDEdiscussion.

[-p.tiddy-]

Umm...in that thread where the dude ran over two boys and was subsequently killed by the dad, you basically stated that mistakes happen and the dad was idiot for killing someone for making a mistake. I think I understand your point of view well enough. lol

You are a drunk driving apologist. Just as cheaters defend cheaters to avoid looking inside oneself to see what is broken, you defend other alcoholics who drive drunk.
No that isn't what I said, that is just what you interpreted. I said that the driver didn't deserve to be executed on site.

And I was correct

[-p.tiddy-]

Inb4NDEdiscussion.
Lol

[rufuspaul]

Last weekend some old college buddies came up to my mountain house for a few days of beer, golf, cigars and general degenerate behavior. The subject of drunk driving came up and my one friend told the story of coming back from a bar, parking his car and walking up to his apartment when a cop pulls up with the lights flashing. The cop stops him and says he clocked him going down the street and was going to issue a citation when he smelled the liquor on him. He then calls for backup and puts my friend through all the sobriety test stuff (standing on one leg, touching your nose, saying the alphabet backwards, etc.) The backup arrives and they give him several breathalyzers. The 2 cops confer for awhile before the backup guy leaves. The first cop comes back to my friend and asks him if he's going to drive anymore that night. After my buddy says no the cop says if he sees that the car has been moved at all before the next day he'll arrest him. He then tells my friend that he blew a .20, but he passed all the sobriety tests with flying colors. The first time he had ever seen that happen.

[hateraid]

:applause: ...props to that

you kind of avoided my question though..."IF" you had been alone, without friends, in your state of mind, and with your keys in your pocket, do you think that you would have still had the good sense to know not to drive?

I honestly can't say. The noble thing to say is no I wouldn't drive. Reality is being impaired 100% clouds proper judgement. The main reason I say no I wouldn't is

1- I don't go out and get wasted often
2- I'm conscious of how my wife and son judge my behavior
3- My drinking circle would not allow it
4- My job requires me to drive

[-p.tiddy-]

Yeah its impossible to know if you can't remember yourself...just curious as to what you thought you would do...thanks

[LBJMVP]

i went through a bad stretch last semester where i black out almost every time i drank.


if it was a true black out where there is seriously like 2-3 hours where i dont remember shit then i just avoid everyone for like 2 days and if no one texts me about anything i did in that time then i know im good.


one time i totally blacked out and next thing i know i waking up in my bed.
i look at my phone and there was a series of texts saying i had to jail and people were wondering if i was still there, and someone said i got bailed out.


im freakin out, and then i realize that there is no way i could black out something like getting arrested, going to jail, and getting bailed out

so i call the last number on my phone which is a friend i know, and he told me that i was walking home from the bar, fell into a ditch and a cop stopped me... i showed him my fake i.d. as identification. i must have either been very calm, and told him i was just trying to get home safe and doing know harm, or the just felt bad for me because i didnt get arrested.

the gave me one phone call and said if i could get a ride i could go home, they were more interested in catching people breaking into cars.


i was pretty shocked when he told me, cause i would thought a run in with the cops is a pretty sobering moment. but i remember nothing.

[-p.tiddy-]

yeah I was in a blackout when I got my DUI...I don't remember any of it...I don't remember getting into my car, I don't remember driving, and I don't remember being pulled over...it is all a complete blank

All I know is what the police told me coupled with a video of them doing a sobriety test on me at the station which I failed obviously


NO ONE ever goes out and intends to get "blackout drunk"...It isn't like anyone sets out to forget their entire night...blacking out is something that happens when things went further than you wanted them too or were aware of, many drunk people are not aware of how drunk they are and always just view themselves as "buzzed" when in reality they are just a couple tequila shots away from not knowing their own name...

[CarlosBoozer]

Uh, lots of people do actually.
That's like the first thing they tell me before we go out drinking :roll:

[Jailblazers7]

i went through a bad stretch last semester where i black out almost every time i drank.


if it was a true black out where there is seriously like 2-3 hours where i dont remember shit then i just avoid everyone for like 2 days and if no one texts me about anything i did in that time then i know im good.


one time i totally blacked out and next thing i know i waking up in my bed.
i look at my phone and there was a series of texts saying i had to jail and people were wondering if i was still there, and someone said i got bailed out.


im freakin out, and then i realize that there is no way i could black out something like getting arrested, going to jail, and getting bailed out

so i call the last number on my phone which is a friend i know, and he told me that i was walking home from the bar, fell into a ditch and a cop stopped me... i showed him my fake i.d. as identification. i must have either been very calm, and told him i was just trying to get home safe and doing know harm, or the just felt bad for me because i didnt get arrested.

the gave me one phone call and said if i could get a ride i could go home, they were more interested in catching people breaking into cars.


i was pretty shocked when he told me, cause i would thought a run in with the cops is a pretty sobering moment. but i remember nothing.

I was once cuffed, arrested, etc. and didn't remember any of it. Like 7 months later I got a citation in the mail for underage drinking (I was 19 at the time). I know parts of the story which are crazy but I still don't know anything from about 12-2 am. That kind of shook me straight.

[-p.tiddy-]

Uh, lots of people do actually.
Uh no, lots of people do not go out intending on blacking out...why would amyone want that?

The only way I can see someone wanting to blackout is if they are suicidal and drinking because of severe depression

[-p.tiddy-]

Plenty of people around my age do it all of the time.
Just because they do it all the time doesn't mean they wanted to...

Do you know what a blackout is? Going out and partying and getting fckin wasted is one thing, blacking out is another thing...it isn't fun, you're literally brain dead and nothing you do is remembered.

I've blacked out dozens of times and every single time I was in deep regret the next day.

[-p.tiddy-]

The next step after a true blackout is death by alcohol poisoning which lots of people your age also do...do you think they intended for that when going out?

[-p.tiddy-]

Do you know what brain dead is?
lol, okay not "literally" brain dead


wow, Lebowski was right I think...somehow this will make it's way to an NDE debate :lol

[tpols]

When I drink I dont intend to get blacked out but were all definitely trying to get wasted.. I like to get to the point right before blackout but sometimes p tiddy is right you dont realize how drunk you are and then a few more shots down feeling great, 20 minutes later youre at a bar and completely gone lol.

[DeuceWallaces]

I've never set my intentions to black out but I know many who do.

Lots of nights I'll state that "We're gonna get belligerent tonight!", but that's about the extent of it.

[Lebowsky]

lol, okay not "literally" brain dead


wow, Lebowski was right I think...somehow this will make it's way to an NDE debate :lol
Told ya :oldlol:

[-p.tiddy-]

I hate being with someone who is blacked out, they can't even talk, just mumbling comes out instead of actual words, they need to be watched like a fckin baby...in fact I would say an infant's mind set is very close to the mind set of someone who is blacked out lol

neither an infant or a blackout drunk remember it lol

and if you're with a girl you just met and your buddy is blacked out it pretty much kills the mood, and then you know you are going to have to spend your night making sure they get home okay and all that...all in all it just sucks

[rufuspaul]

I would say an infant's mind set is very close to the mind set of someone who is blacked out lol



Drunk Toddler (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cds7lSHawAw)

[-p.tiddy-]

Drunk Toddler (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cds7lSHawAw)
:roll:

omg that is fckin fantastic :oldlol:

[joe]

I blacked out several times as a teenager, could have ended pretty badly! I'm surprised I made it out of my teen years relatively okay in general.

[RidonKs]

Last weekend some old college buddies came up to my mountain house for a few days of beer, golf, cigars and general degenerate behavior. The subject of drunk driving came up and my one friend told the story of coming back from a bar, parking his car and walking up to his apartment when a cop pulls up with the lights flashing. The cop stops him and says he clocked him going down the street and was going to issue a citation when he smelled the liquor on him. He then calls for backup and puts my friend through all the sobriety test stuff (standing on one leg, touching your nose, saying the alphabet backwards, etc.) The backup arrives and they give him several breathalyzers. The 2 cops confer for awhile before the backup guy leaves. The first cop comes back to my friend and asks him if he's going to drive anymore that night. After my buddy says no the cop says if he sees that the car has been moved at all before the next day he'll arrest him. He then tells my friend that he blew a .20, but he passed all the sobriety tests with flying colors. The first time he had ever seen that happen.
awesome. this is why you should drink heavily kids. work up your tolerance and you never have to worry about a dui ever again.

[EricGordon23]

I blacked out and streaked at a McDonalds once. My friends were MAD!

[NuggetsFan]

I blacked out several times as a teenager, could have ended pretty badly! I'm surprised I made it out of my teen years relatively okay in general.

I think everybody who partied alot in HS experienced some crazy black out moments. 15-16 year old kids just aren't meant to consume tons of booze, some of the shit you seen at HS parties are just mind blowing, to me anyways. Clubs, Bars = craziness, college the same but you want too see some stupidity toss a kid under 17 a 26er :lol

[Smoke117]

Drink enough to not remember it even happened. If you can't remember what you did, did it really happen? At least to you anyway? You can't feel embarrassed about something you can't even remember.

[joe]

I think everybody who partied alot in HS experienced some crazy black out moments. 15-16 year old kids just aren't meant to consume tons of booze, some of the shit you seen at HS parties are just mind blowing, to me anyways. Clubs, Bars = craziness, college the same but you want too see some stupidity toss a kid under 17 a 26er :lol

Amen, I'm just happy most people turned down my offers to fight them "just to see who would win" that I heard I was making. lmao

[Balla_Status]

Let's get shitty.

[bdreason]

I've had plenty of retarded drunken moments in college, and the best thing to do is just apologize and move on.

[miller-time]

Well there are two kinds, there is embarrassment and there is shame.

Usually embarrasment is where you just do something dumb, but people know you are drunk and will give you a bit of a ribbing for it. When that happens usually I just go recluse, let the embarrassment subside a bit then face the music. Sometimes if you avoid it long enough it isn't even brought up again.

With shame it is where you might say some hurtful things (intended or not) or behave in such a way that might ruin other peoples nights. In that situation usually I try to apologize as quickly as I can.

[OhNoTimNoSho]

If no one said blame it on the ah ah ah alcohol then i am dissappointed in you ish.

[rufuspaul]

awesome. this is why you should drink heavily kids. work up your tolerance and you never have to worry about a dui ever again.


:lol That happened to my friend when he was still in college. I think he started drinking heavily in elementary school.

[gigantes]

wear a costume.

http://r2-store.distractify.netdna-cdn.com/postimage/201410/5/ad6262f422c8d1ced6547198bc8dcd1e_650x.jpg

[christian1923]

last time i was in Vegas i blacked out at the club, my friends lost me. I gained consciousness at like 5 AM standing in the middle of a Mcdonalds on the other side of the Vegas strip. I have no idea what happened, but my friends say i probably sucked a dick.:(