What does it mean if a girl with a boyfriend never mentions him?

[lakers_forever]

If a girl has a boyfriend, but never mentions him and talks to you all the time in the Gym (for 10, 20 minutes), laughing and kind of flirting, even interrupting her work out for doing so, what does it mean? She never brings the guy in the conversation and it's pretty obvious I'm interested in her. BTW, she does not talk to anyone else at the Gym, only me, so is not like she is just a friendly girl.

We also have added each other on facebook (she is not listed as committed there) and she has given me her number (I asked for it); we exchanged texts friday night.

PS: She mentioned him once, months ago. But never again. Not even when I asked what she likes to do on weekends (she said nothing special, just hanging out with her friends).

[EnoughSaid]

Dude if she's not mentioning her boyfriend and she's flirting with you, hit it. Whatever happens with her boyfriend is not your problem. At the end of the day you're just getting some ass bro. :cheers:

[Nick Young]

Just cus a girl has a boyfriend it doesn't mean she has to talk about him every 5 minutes. Just cus a chick talks to you doesn't mean she wants your c*ck. She might have filed you in to the straight "gay best friend" role. Or maybe she is fiending for your **** and has no second thoughts about cheating on her boyfriend. Watch her body language to find out. Using body language it's really easy to tell if a girl is into you or not. Words don't mean shit, except for No, which doesn't always mean no, but just to be safe you should always take it as no.

[lakers_forever]

Dude if she's not mentioning her boyfriend and she's flirting with you, hit it. Whatever happens with her boyfriend is not your problem. At the end of the day you're just getting some ass bro. :cheers:

:D I know. It's not like she's married or anything like that.
I don't care if she has a boyfriend (i'm not sure she still has a boyfriend either), just don't know how and when to make a move.


Just cus a girl has a boyfriend it doesn't mean she has to talk about him every 5 minutes. Just cus a chick talks to you doesn't mean she wants your c*ck. She might have filed you in to the straight "gay best friend" role. Or maybe she is fiending for your **** and has no second thoughts about cheating on her boyfriend. Watch her body language to find out. Using body language it's really easy to tell if a girl is into you or not. Words don't mean shit, except for No, which doesn't always mean no, but just to be safe you should always take it as no.

I know, but the thing is she never mentions him, not even when she is supposed to.

Her body language tells me she's into me. She smiles, let me touch her, and touches me sometimes when talking to me. We are both clearly flirting when talking to each other.

[EnoughSaid]

In before she actually wants to have a threesome with a dude from the front and a dude from the back. :roll:

[lakers_forever]

In before she actually wants to have a threesome with a dude from the front and a dude from the back. :roll:

:D No way, bro. Not my thing. :lol

[Goldrush25]

I remember asking myself this about a woman at work I liked.

It doesn't mean anything necessarily. Maybe she's just a less co-dependent type that doesn't define herself by her relationships. Or maybe she likes attention and knows she gets less of it from men when she talks about her boyfriend.

I think it's most likely the latter. She's not getting attention like she wants from the BF so she gets it from you. All the while she goes home and f**** the BF. Has her cake and is eating it too. She will continue this as long as you let her. She may have some attraction to you. She may even fantasize about being with you but make no mistake, she's made her choice, and it's the boyfriend.

[lakers_forever]

I remember asking myself this about a woman at work I liked.

It doesn't mean anything necessarily. Maybe she's just a less co-dependent type that doesn't define herself by her relationships. Or maybe she likes attention and knows she gets less of it from men when she talks about her boyfriend.

I think it's most likely the latter. She's not getting attention like she wants from the BF so she gets it from you. All the while she goes home and f**** the BF. Has her cake and is eating it too. She will continue this as long as you let her. She may have some attraction to you. She may even fantasize about being with you but make no mistake, she's made her choice, and it's the boyfriend.

That's an interesting opinion. Specially considering I'm a very good looking guy :D

Thanks. :cheers:

[Kuma]

Sounds like she's keen for other men. But do you know if she is still definitely with him?

I tend to stay away from girls with boyfriends if they're showing obvious interest. I've had one girl all over me literally 5 minutes after telling me she had a boyfriend. I can't respect that at all.

[Goldrush25]

That's an interesting opinion. Specially considering I'm a very good looking guy :D

Thanks. :cheers:

Yeah, been there. I guess you could say I'm currently in the situation myself.

Back off if anything, don't make a move. If she follows then you may have something. But just remember if she'd cheat on him she'll cheat on you if you ever date her.

I would think dating someone else would work too. She might get pretty jealous. If she does, call her out on it.

I think the least likely scenario is that she leaves the boyfriend high and dry for you. I rarely see women do that in real life.

[lakers_forever]

Sounds like she's keen for other men. But do you know if she is still definitely with him?


No. Two days ago, I've asked a very good friend of mine who knows her and her friends. He said he did not know, but would find out. Still waiting for the reply.

[Kuma]

No. Two days ago, I've asked a very good friend of mine who knows her and her friends. He said he did not know, but would find out. Still waiting for the reply.

See, she could have broken up with him by now (hence no facebook relationship status).

Although, if you are genuinely very good looking, then she'll probably be unintentionally flirting with you because of it.

[lakers_forever]

Yeah, been there. I guess you could say I'm currently in the situation myself.

Back off if anything, don't make a move. If she follows then you may have something. But just remember if she'd cheat on him she'll cheat on you if you ever date her.

I would think dating someone else would work too. She might get pretty jealous. If she does, call her out on it.

And I hate games, but I've come to learn that women love games.

Yep. And the thing is I like this girl. We have a lot of things in common. But what if I fall for her and make her my GF, I would be forever afraid of she cheating on me (like you said).

Then again, maybe she has ended it with him. I will know in a couple of days.

Thanks again!

[lakers_forever]

See, she could have broken up with him by now (hence no facebook relationship status).

Although, if you are genuinely very good looking, then she'll probably be unintentionally flirting with you because of it.

Let's hope so. :D

I am, but there are other good looking guys there and she does not talk with any of the them.

[Kuma]

Also, pics required.

[nightprowler10]

:D No way, bro. Not my thing. :lol
What's wrong with it? Just make sure your balls don't touch his.

[Electric Slide]

If she's not in a relationship in facebook then she clearly isn't in one.

[nathanjizzle]

damn ***** youre about to scoop in on another mans girl. do what you gotta do. poor guy though, ive been on that end. :cry:

[Goldrush25]

damn ***** youre about to scoop in on another mans girl. do what you gotta do. poor guy though, ive been on that end. :cry:

As an adult, I never had a problem with the guy going after another guy's girl. The guy is just doing what they're wired to do. It's nothing personal.

I always blame the woman if they go for it, because when they make these decisions it is usually about more than sex. It takes a lot for a woman to cheat so they've thought about it a lot by the time they've decided to go through with it. Whereas most guys, if given enough opportunities to cheat, will cheat eventually.

[reppy]

As an adult, I never had a problem with the guy going after another guy's girl. The guy is just doing what they're wired to do. It's nothing personal.

I always blame the woman if they go for it, because when they make these decisions it is usually about more than sex. It takes a lot for a woman to cheat so they've thought about it a lot by the time they've decided to go through with it. Whereas most guys, if given enough opportunities to cheat, will cheat eventually.

Women are wired to bang, too. Hell, they're wired to want to bang the strongest, healthiest males they can find.

Maybe she's with a guy that makes a lot of money, but his genetics aren't that great.

People have a choice in their decisions, though. Seems silly to not blame the guy cause hey, guys wanna **** and they can't control it.

[ILLsmak]

you want dude's sloppy seconds? lol.

Girls are funny about boyfriends. I've seen girls who were trying to tease that they had a bf, too. It's just another thing. I don't think it means anything. It's more important whether or not you think she likes you. All girls are different.

If you think she does, well I dunno... I'd never **** someone's girl for so many reasons, but that's just me...

-Smak

[ILLsmak]

As an adult, I never had a problem with the guy going after another guy's girl. The guy is just doing what they're wired to do. It's nothing personal.

I always blame the woman if they go for it, because when they make these decisions it is usually about more than sex. It takes a lot for a woman to cheat so they've thought about it a lot by the time they've decided to go through with it. Whereas most guys, if given enough opportunities to cheat, will cheat eventually.

also, double post. lol

you could also say we're 'wired' to rape every girl we see, I mean, if we're that alpha we just take what we want right. Or we should just knock a dude out who is standing there in our way.

That's a bad way of thinking. Intelligence, the mind, is rising above.

it doesn't take a lot for a woman to cheat. Women are no more loyal than men, and you get a girl that's ****ing everyone, so gg.

-Smak

[daily]

What does it mean if a girl with a boyfriend never mentions him?

It means she has short term memory loss. Enjoy!

[riseagainst]

bro, just bend it over, spread her legs, and pound it into a pile of gross mess.

[lakers_forever]

bro, just bend it over, spread her legs, and pound it into a pile of gross mess.

:lol

Today, we talked a lot. I said she looked pretty and she smiled and looked down. That's a good sign, right?

[MavsSuperFan]

As an adult, I never had a problem with the guy going after another guy's girl. The guy is just doing what they're wired to do. It's nothing personal.

I always blame the woman if they go for it, because when they make these decisions it is usually about more than sex. It takes a lot for a woman to cheat so they've thought about it a lot by the time they've decided to go through with it. Whereas most guys, if given enough opportunities to cheat, will cheat eventually.

poor reasoning.

He should be mad at his girl because she is the one who betrayed him and he probably has no association with the other guy, so the other guy owes him nothing.

Same is true for stupid women who get mad at other women instead of the guy that betrayed them.

[lakers_forever]

We also exchanged texts yesterday and she gave me the wink, a lot of hahahaha's and exclamation points. She alawys anwser right away (not waiting games). I'm think she definetly into me. I'm sure most at the gym think we are dating already (cause, as I said, she only talks to me there).

[Goldrush25]

poor reasoning.

He should be mad at his girl because she is the one who betrayed him and he probably has no association with the other guy, so the other guy owes him nothing.

Same is true for stupid women who get mad at other women instead of the guy that betrayed them.

Didn't I basically say the same thing?:confusedshrug:

[nathanjizzle]

We also exchanged texts yesterday and she gave me the wink, a lot of hahahaha's and exclamation points. She alawys anwser right away (not waiting games). I'm think she definetly into me. I'm sure most at the gym think we are dating already (cause, as I said, she only talks to me there).

how do you guys meet so often at the gym? are you guys showing up precisely the same time?

[lakers_forever]

how do you guys meet so often at the gym? are you guys showing up precisely the same time?

Around the same time everyday.

[TheSilentKiller]

Could just ask her about it if you are interested in her :confusedshrug:

[lakers_forever]

I've been still flirting and talking with this girl. I found out she has a boyfriend indeed trough a mutual friend.

But that has not stopped me. Sue me. :D So, I was walking her home and asked her if she would be free on the weekend, she said yes, then I asked her out for a drink and she looked shocked and remained silent for a couple of seconds. Then I said: so? And she said looking down and blushing "I don't know" and said bye and smiled at me. So, the next day we meet I cracked a joke about something and acted like nothing hapenned, so she would not be embarrassed about it. And surprisingly she acted like nothing hapenned as well, laughing at my jokes, contributing to the conversation and letting me touch her and so on.

Now I ask, WTF? Not even when I asked her out, she mentions her boyfriend? And now I made it clear I want her (by asking her out) and she still does not freeze me out? I'm confused. Anyone?

[Le Shaqtus]

I've been still flirting and talking with this girl. I found out she has a boyfriend indeed trough a mutual friend.

But that has not stopped me. Sue me. :D So, I was walking her home and asked her if she would be free on the weekend, she said yes, then I asked her out for a drink and she looked shocked and remained silent for a couple of seconds. Then I said: so? And she said looking down and blushing "I don't know" and said bye and smiled at me. So, the next day we meet I cracked a joke about something and acted like nothing hapenned, so she would not be embarrased about it. And surprisingly she acted like nothing hapenned as well, laughing at my jokes, contributing to the conversation and letting me touch her and so on.

Now I ask, WTF? Not even when I asked her out, she mentioned her boyfriend? And now I made it clear I want her (by asking her out) and she still does not freeze me out? I'm confused. Anyone?

She wants the D.

[lakers_forever]

I remember asking myself this about a woman at work I liked.

It doesn't mean anything necessarily. Maybe she's just a less co-dependent type that doesn't define herself by her relationships. Or maybe she likes attention and knows she gets less of it from men when she talks about her boyfriend.

I think it's most likely the latter. She's not getting attention like she wants from the BF so she gets it from you. All the while she goes home and f**** the BF. Has her cake and is eating it too. She will continue this as long as you let her. She may have some attraction to you. She may even fantasize about being with you but make no mistake, she's made her choice, and it's the boyfriend.

I'm beggining to think you were 100% spot on, rush.

[RoseCity07]

I was in the exact same situation a month ago with this beautiful girl. She and I would hang out after class a lot. She never mentioned her bf, he's in another country. One night I go out with my friend and her and she is in the back seat. She jokingly says something in my ear and starts licking and sucking on my ear lobe. I think maybe she was joking around but multiple times she gave me lap dances in the club one with her tits right in my face.

When we first started hanging out she did the hair flip thing all the time and hit me a lot. Thing is I never felt like anything was too obvious because she pulled back one time when we were dancing. I don't get females sometimes...they can grind their ass on you one minute and then ignore you the next. Anyway, I'm cool with this girl but no way would I make a move if the bf is around. If you really like her then how can you trust her after getting her to cheat. Wait till she breaks up or ask her out and see what she says.

[Myth]

She is a slut. It is pretty clear.

And why bother going for a girl with a bf? You are just asking for drama. There are tons of single girls, and a girl who is not clear with relationship boundaries isn't worth fighting for.

[B-Easy8]

Pipe me Bitch.

Ray Donovan styles.