View Full Version : Why have young people in Japan stopped having sex?
East_Stone_Ya
10-22-2013, 10:39 AM
Japan has a serious problem in his hands :(
[QUOTE]45% of Japanese women aged 16-24 are
Fresh Kid
10-22-2013, 10:44 AM
tired of tha same eggrollz:roll:
CeltsGarlic
10-22-2013, 11:04 AM
lol, what the heck?
blablabla
10-22-2013, 11:07 AM
Tentacle porn has ruined their perception of sex
TheReturn
10-22-2013, 11:22 AM
Considering the fact that overpopulation is the biggest problem we're facing in the world today, this is not that big of a problem.
tmacattack33
10-22-2013, 11:37 AM
What exactly did they ask the people getting surveyed?
Was it "do you enjoy sex" or "would you like to be involved in a relationship that involves sex"?
Cuz damn i didn't think it was even physically possible for someone not to enjoy sex. That'd be like saying you don't like food.
iamgine
10-22-2013, 11:53 AM
Yeah if this survey is based on participants response, it wouldn't be accurate at all.
Especially so since culturally Japanese are more conservative in speaking out about subjects such as this.
Considering the fact that overpopulation is the biggest problem we're facing in the world today, this is not that big of a problem.
Overpopulation is a myth. We can support many more humans than we have right now.
tomtucker
10-22-2013, 12:48 PM
Considering the fact that overpopulation is the biggest problem we're facing in the world today, this is not that big of a problem.
only problem is that the japanese are smart.......we are surrounded by good stuff they make , sony and so on..........it
Swaggin916
10-22-2013, 02:17 PM
Because their super-ego's are inflated to the point where they feel it's wrong or are just so uncomfortable with the thought of it. They are way too socially conscious for their own good. It's Freudian psychology. People with overly inflated super egos begin to fear unconscious takeover and therefore repress or redirect the desires altogether.
TheReturn
10-22-2013, 02:20 PM
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2LeTTeRS
10-22-2013, 02:23 PM
Would you want to have sex with someone who looked just like you?
Why yes; yes I would.
They haven't. They've stopped getting married. The sex, i don't think that stopped.
I'm not going to bother coming up with statistics but this is just plain false.
I'm not interested in that scaremongering propaganda anyways.
They showed the boys a picture of a girl who looked 12 and showed girls pictures of tiny dongs and asked them if they were sexually aroused.
If it makes anyone feel better i've produced two new japanese citizens and ill try my best for more.
MavsSuperFan
10-22-2013, 04:58 PM
If it makes anyone feel better i've produced two new japanese citizens and ill try my best for more.
arent you a white guy married to a japanese girl though?
Japan is just a weird country period. They went from insanely masculine (imperial japan in ww2) to insanely feminine.
They haven't. They've stopped getting married. The sex, i don't think that stopped.
No there are a bunch of articles about how they arent interested in sex. Men and women. Its not like europe where use of birth control is preventing reproduction. Obviously not every japanese person, not even a majority. but a significant minority.
HomieWeMajor
10-22-2013, 05:02 PM
I think it's because Japanese ***** are small that it doesn't count
MavsSuperFan
10-22-2013, 05:11 PM
I think it's because Japanese ***** are small that it doesn't count
How do you explain the lack of interest among men?
How do you explain that it is a recent phenomenon?
Its probably above the maturity level of ISH to have this discussion though.
I find this phenomenon in Japan crazy. its like a sci-fi scenario.
-p.tiddy-
10-22-2013, 05:12 PM
I've never been to Japan but I was told that any "decent looking white boy" can go there and pretty much hand pick any woman they want...and that they love US culture.
arent you a white guy married to a japanese girl though?
Japan is just a weird country period. They went from insanely masculine (imperial japan in ww2) to insanely feminine.
No there are a bunch of articles about how they arent interested in sex. Men and women. Its not like europe where use of birth control is preventing reproduction. Obviously not every japanese person, not even a majority. but a significant minority.
my kids are japanese citizens which is what the birth count is measuring. not pure japanese. citizens.
I've never been to Japan but I was told that any "decent looking white boy" can go there and pretty much hand pick any woman they want...and that they love US culture.
Not quite on either front but I'd say it's easier. You can go above your pay grade easier. Really hot girls are still really hot girls that aren't giving people the time of day just like here (especially if they aren't into american culture, that's a really hard sell) but I've seen ridiculously dorky american guys with zero game be with girls whereas in the US their left hand would reject them. And there are the women who want you to marry them and take them to the US because they don't like the culture in Japan or japanese men, if you're willing to do that it's on.
Japanese men aren't all bad (we have some friends who are pretty cool) but a lot of them are just very self absorbed and not really treating their wives that well. I sit there playing with my kids, help my wife carry things, open and close the door and her friends are wow'd and always say how fantastic a husband i am. I generally treat my wife like she's a person I still like, a lot of the husbands treat their wives like there wives are stuck with them so they need to deal with it.
TheReal Kendall
10-22-2013, 05:22 PM
Not quite on either front but I'd say it's easier. You can go above your pay grade easier. Really hot girls are still really hot girls that aren't giving people the time of day just like here (especially if they aren't into american culture, that's a really hard sell) but I've seen ridiculously dorky american guys with zero game be with girls whereas in the US their left hand would reject them. And there are the women who want you to marry them and take them to the US because they don't like the culture in Japan or japanese men, if you're willing to do that it's on.
Japanese men aren't all bad (we have some friends who are pretty cool) but a lot of them are just very self absorbed and not really treating their wives that well. I sit there playing with my kids, help my wife carry things, open and close the door and her friends are wow'd and always say how fantastic a husband i am. I generally treat my wife like she's a person I still like, a lot of the husbands treat their wives like there wives are stuck with them so they need to deal with it.
What about black dudes?
I love Asian women
What about black dudes?
I love Asian women
The one's who like foreigners, some seek out black guys. Others don't care for them. I have three close friends who are black fathers with japanese wives, and my daughters japanese class on the weekend has at least four if not five mixed families with black fathers.
So yeah, you're in. :lol
BTW, the japanese govt gave us $3k for each kid. NIPPON GANBARE!
Jameerthefear
10-22-2013, 05:56 PM
so Japanese guys aren't very sexual? that is completely weird to me because in the anime industry fanservice is the thing that sells the most from my experience.
so Japanese guys aren't very sexual? that is completely weird to me because in the anime industry fanservice is the thing that sells the most from my experience.
We are stereotyping across everyone which of course we should not do, but in my experience those men in business spend so much time at work, hanging with their co-workers, etc. that they just neglect their home life and the wives a lot. It becomes almost a situation where you are almost in a partnership at home rather than a marriage. Japanese life/work balance is shit because of the face time and the fact it's almost insisted you go out with your co-workers after work.
I know some real nice guys (one of my friends was making a nice living as a rock singer/guitarist but gave it up to do construction so he saw his wife and son more), etc. But some of my wife's closest friends in Japan have husbands who are literally never home. Their kids are afraid of them because they never see them. One of the husbands had to pick up the kid at school (she was sick) and the doctor asked what was different about her today and he didn't know because he doesn't see her during the day. It's a shitty dynamic for intimacy.
Since the husbands are out a lot they sexualize other people (not their wife), hostesses, co-workers, etc. Anyone but who they have access too.
not wanting to procreate is different from not wanting to ejaculate.
i believe they are not interested in having babies. the birth ratio in japan has declined a lot ever since their economy tanked in the 90s. they're not financially stable, so they're not getting married, having kids, etc.
but as for *not* wanting sex, yeah right, whatever. what dude of testosterone age is not interested in busting a nut?
RoseCity07
10-22-2013, 11:26 PM
My cousin was telling me he saw some documentary that talked about this issue. The video interviews these asian guys that say they never have to leave their houses because they watch porn, eat, and play video games all day. It makes sense. If you're jacking it all day and having fun where is the motivation to seek out a female? I think porn is really changing the way men interact with women. No woman can compete against porn. I rarely see a female that I feel compelled to talk to because most are no where near as hot as the women I see in porn. It's actually really sad and one of the reasons I'm trying to stop watching porn all together.
I<3NBA
10-23-2013, 02:28 AM
My cousin was telling me he saw some documentary that talked about this issue. The video interviews these asian guys that say they never have to leave their houses because they watch porn, eat, and play video games all day. It makes sense. If you're jacking it all day and having fun where is the motivation to seek out a female? I think porn is really changing the way men interact with women. No woman can compete against porn. I rarely see a female that I feel compelled to talk to because most are no where near as hot as the women I see in porn. It's actually really sad and one of the reasons I'm trying to stop watching porn all together.
jesus christ. your life is sad. real life sex beats porn anyday.
Swaggin916
10-23-2013, 02:48 AM
My cousin was telling me he saw some documentary that talked about this issue. The video interviews these asian guys that say they never have to leave their houses because they watch porn, eat, and play video games all day. It makes sense. If you're jacking it all day and having fun where is the motivation to seek out a female? I think porn is really changing the way men interact with women. No woman can compete against porn. I rarely see a female that I feel compelled to talk to because most are no where near as hot as the women I see in porn. It's actually really sad and one of the reasons I'm trying to stop watching porn all together.
You make a lot of good points. I was very comfortable for many years not seeking relations with girls because I was so comfortable just hanging out with my friends playing video games and basketball, and then just jerking it to porn when I was horny. It worked for me, and still does... It's totally stress free and my desires are filled to the extent where I am satisfied. It's one of those things that makes you unmotivated because your totally cool with the way things are. Something really great has to come along for you to want to change... the grasses have to be obviously greener.
That being said, to say no woman can compete against porn... It's unfortunate you feel that way. If you meet a woman you really connect with, I am sure that view will change.
NuggetsFan
10-23-2013, 03:08 AM
No woman can compete against porn. I rarely see a female that I feel compelled to talk to because most are no where near as hot as the women I see in porn.
I dunno if it's just me but vast majority of the girls in porn are pretty average/below average by real life standards to me. Look pretty beat up, terrible boob jobs, insane amounts of makeup, other plastic sugeries. Kinda the appeal of porn, it isn't Natalie Portman but generally some attainable girl. Honestly even the best girls in porn seem attainable. I think that's why certain girls dominate so much, because overall they blow away the competition.
Some have really nice bodies but face wise? Ehhh. That's not even elbows too pointy type stuff either, I'd say the vast majority of the girls an average guy dates could walk in and get a job in the adult industry if they wanted too.
Porn being better than real life girls is craaaaaazy :lol
Nick Young
10-23-2013, 03:50 AM
We are stereotyping across everyone which of course we should not do, but in my experience those men in business spend so much time at work, hanging with their co-workers, etc. that they just neglect their home life and the wives a lot. It becomes almost a situation where you are almost in a partnership at home rather than a marriage. Japanese life/work balance is shit because of the face time and the fact it's almost insisted you go out with your co-workers after work.
I know some real nice guys (one of my friends was making a nice living as a rock singer/guitarist but gave it up to do construction so he saw his wife and son more), etc. But some of my wife's closest friends in Japan have husbands who are literally never home. Their kids are afraid of them because they never see them. One of the husbands had to pick up the kid at school (she was sick) and the doctor asked what was different about her today and he didn't know because he doesn't see her during the day. It's a shitty dynamic for intimacy.
Since the husbands are out a lot they sexualize other people (not their wife), hostesses, co-workers, etc. Anyone but who they have access too.
Ok so they don't like relationships and don't make good husbands and wives.
But what about 16-24 year olds not being interested in casual meaningless sex?
Yes they study a lot but why don't they want to f*ck eachother? That is a natural urge? Is Japan the most repressed country in the entire world? I think even in Saudi Arabia or Kuwait more people that age would admit that they want and enjoy sex.
RoseCity07
10-23-2013, 04:14 AM
You make a lot of good points. I was very comfortable for many years not seeking relations with girls because I was so comfortable just hanging out with my friends playing video games and basketball, and then just jerking it to porn when I was horny. It worked for me, and still does... It's totally stress free and my desires are filled to the extent where I am satisfied. It's one of those things that makes you unmotivated because your totally cool with the way things are. Something really great has to come along for you to want to change... the grasses have to be obviously greener.
That being said, to say no woman can compete against porn... It's unfortunate you feel that way. If you meet a woman you really connect with, I am sure that view will change.
Oh I've met a few in my life. Even the last year I met a girl that definitely got had me caught up. I'm talking about this girl really got me hooked by just being around her. I meant that an average chick can't compete. I think what really attracts me to some women is a hot personality. I can be attracted to an average chick that has a little attitude over a boring model type.
Nick Young
10-23-2013, 04:45 AM
Oh I've met a few in my life. Even the last year I met a girl that definitely got had me caught up. I'm talking about this girl really got me hooked by just being around her. I meant that an average chick can't compete. I think what really attracts me to some women is a hot personality. I can be attracted to an average chick that has a little attitude over a boring model type.
in my experience model types usually have awesome personalities and arent boring because they've seen and done loads of badass shit.
Normal chicks usually try too hard to overcompensate for their looks to compete with the hot chicks imo.
What attracts me the most is realness and not being an insecure try-hard.
fiddy
10-23-2013, 04:46 AM
@K
he deleted it, but we already read what he wrote. :oldlol:
kNIOKAS
10-23-2013, 05:53 AM
Vice has made a short doc on Japan and relationships & sex bness:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpZbu7J7UL4
and maybe a couple more of those reports.
resin_baller
10-23-2013, 06:54 PM
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Now if only China and 90% of ISH would follow suit.
Ok so they don't like relationships and don't make good husbands and wives.
But what about 16-24 year olds not being interested in casual meaningless sex?
Yes they study a lot but why don't they want to f*ck eachother? That is a natural urge? Is Japan the most repressed country in the entire world? I think even in Saudi Arabia or Kuwait more people that age would admit that they want and enjoy sex.
16-24 yr olds are still having sex. I think the study is misreading what people mean. You can definitely find changing mores about marriage and kids, but teens to young adults there are more open about these things that before, that's jsut not true.
http://kotaku.com/wrong-about-japan-and-sex-1450567428
A lot of what's in the article and why it's wrong or misleading is here.
Basically if you told me people in japan (younger) are less interested in marriage and becoming parents i'd believe that. The way their society is with work, etc. is not ideal for having a family. If you tell me horny teenagers and early 20's are not having sex, that's delusional.
Flash31
10-24-2013, 12:24 AM
Considering the fact that overpopulation is the biggest problem we're facing in the world today, this is not that big of a problem.
It is for Japan hugely
Their median and avg age of the poulation is increasing year after year
Their birthrates are some of the Worlds lowest and their happiness levels arent exactly brimming.
Japan is having a problem with replacing workers,and older retirement age people leaving workforce and finding support bc there are less and less younger people every year.
While at the same time,Japan is one of the most densely populated countries in the world.
In China it dont get any easier,due to their enormous population but only occupying one half of Chinas land and one-drop rule,
There are 8 males for every one female,Thats a horrible statistic right there.
And if you look at the culture of Japan,its not very sexualized as much as we think.And due to Japan getting more and more advanced along with the dense population and peoples iqs increasing and becoming more about careers and money,its seen as less and less.
when you have people in your country marrying video game sysytems,pillows with anime figures on them and spending almost all their time fixated on technology,itll create a problem.
bigkingsfan
10-24-2013, 12:30 AM
Pokemon just came out.
Pokemon just came out.
:roll:
JEFFERSON MONEY
10-24-2013, 03:45 PM
Herbivore culture.
Strange though.
Tokyo is famous for having gorgeous women and a lot of guys are cool.
Why such low libido?
Lakers Legend#32
10-25-2013, 01:53 AM
As long as there is Japanese porn, no problem.
AintNoSunshine
10-25-2013, 02:45 AM
The problem is, they censor the porn. When people start fooling around and it isn't pixelated they freak out and stop.
:lol
ILLsmak
10-25-2013, 08:39 AM
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Flash31
10-25-2013, 04:02 PM
It's not a myth because people inhabit the same spaces. lol. If people wanted to live in places where nothing was, that would be different, but they don't.
-Smak
exactly you cant just take all the land not used for wildlife or things and try to divide the population into it and say its not
China has over 1.5 Billion people and yet only about 50% of China is occupied and the majority are All on one half of China.
Japan is one of the most densely populated countries in the world to where a foot of space is more expensive than anywhere else.
India is still rapidly growing
over 1.2 billion people yet due to that and logistics
there isnt enough running water,electricity,food available tobsupply the whole country sufficiently.
Canada only has 35 million people and is huge in conparison but No one wants to live up north or leave major hubs or cities much.
Theres land available but people dont want to live on a desert or where its extremely cold which is why even though Russia is biggest country,over 90% of its population lives close to Europe and in major cities.
Every country has its spots where majority of people flock
Australia on the coast,Us on coast or near rivers,nice weather,
Canada down south
China on eastern half,Russia on western part
The current pop isnt sustainable right now in places
They dont have the necessary resources
The problem is, they censor the porn. When people start fooling around and it isn't pixelated they freak out and stop.
OMG I CAN SEE THE *****!
BarberSchool
11-16-2013, 08:34 PM
Ok so they don't like relationships and don't make good husbands and wives.
But what about 16-24 year olds not being interested in casual meaningless sex?
Yes they study a lot but why don't they want to f*ck eachother? That is a natural urge? Is Japan the most repressed country in the entire world? I think even in Saudi Arabia or Kuwait more people that age would admit that they want and enjoy sex.Amongst my rotation, the 2nd horniest girl who has incredibly perverted dreams and was always studying, was a Saudi med student. Their country is super repressed, and as soon as they get out it's like "making up for lost time", but only with other muslims or people mixed with muslim....they want to experiemnt and go wild, but not too far from Islam for comfort.
I think most conservative nations are like this.
But japan has a whole host of factors that I guess contribute to this strangest of phenomenons.
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