View Full Version : anyone reaching a point where they just regard most women as sluts
STATUTORY
12-02-2013, 06:15 PM
? dunno as I get older and the more encounters I have with women, I'm starting to become real jaded and cynical when it comes to the opposite sex
STATUTORY
12-02-2013, 06:19 PM
You're having a rough patch
Don't become one of those female haters
I don't hate them but can't imagine putting dat wife tag on any female i know right now
Jameerthefear
12-02-2013, 06:23 PM
:facepalm you need to respect women.
ace23
12-02-2013, 06:25 PM
:facepalm you need to respect women.
:roll:
STATUTORY
12-02-2013, 06:32 PM
:facepalm you need to respect women.
dat 15 year of age perspective? :applause: :oldlol:
Jameerthefear
12-02-2013, 06:40 PM
:roll:
what's so funny?
TheReal Kendall
12-02-2013, 06:44 PM
Marriage outdated dude
What's wrong with confessing your love for a broad and staying together as long as possible?
Finding a female into that might be tough but they exist.
Having kids will mess this up though. Be currful
All women gonna want to get married at some point.
All women gonna want to get married at some point.
Yeah, marriage isn't for the guy. It is for the girl, potential children, and family members. You do it to make all of them happy and feel stable, which in turn should make you happy.
-p.tiddy-
12-02-2013, 06:59 PM
I'm going the opposite direction in terms of how I view things...I am getting tired of how quick we are to label women "sluts" in the US
I'm getting tired of sex being viewed as some taboo evil act...
feels like if a women acts sexual in any way we declare she is demeaning herself...
In the US we are scared to show children breasts...but why?...it isn't that way in France and they have no problems...in France there are exposed boobs on TV commercials...it isn't considered a "big deal" and it shouldn't be either
In the US we would rather our children watch extreme violence than nudity...it's totally ass-backwards
furthermore it's completely a double standard for men to be glorified for fcking lots of females but women to be shunned for doing the same...we need to evolve out of it.
I think there is something wrong with OP and the woman he is pursuing if you think all women are "sluts". Raise your game up, and who you pursue and how. If you pursue women strictly to be one and done (which is fine) what kind of women do you think you'll find?
And the reason you get married is for the most part, the type of woman you'd like to stick around and not bone everyone else and is worth that probably won't stick around unless you get married.
JerrySteakhouse
12-02-2013, 07:09 PM
:facepalm you need to respect women.
:roll:
STATUTORY
12-02-2013, 07:11 PM
I think there is something wrong with OP and the woman he is pursuing if you think all women are "sluts". Raise your game up, and who you pursue and how. If you pursue women strictly to be one and done (which is fine) what kind of women do you think you'll find?
And the reason you get married is for the most part, the type of woman you'd like to stick around and not bone everyone else and is worth that probably won't stick around unless you get married.
I find it very easy to get most girls and I certainly am not delusional to think I'm anything special, from that I deduce most girls are easy. There are some that are very difficult to game but those are a minority and getting them takes a lot of work and you have to go exclusive for a while which involves giving up a lot of other girls. Just seems like a untenable situation.
TheReal Kendall
12-02-2013, 07:12 PM
I'm going the opposite direction in terms of how I view things...I am getting tired of how quick we are to label women "sluts" in the US
I'm getting tired of sex being viewed as some taboo evil act...
feels like if a women acts sexual in any way we declare she is demeaning herself...
In the US we are scared to show children breasts...but why?...it isn't that way in France and they have no problems...in France there are exposed boobs on TV commercials...it isn't considered a "big deal" and it shouldn't be either
In the US we would rather our children watch extreme violence than nudity...it's totally ass-backwards
furthermore it's completely a double standard for men to be glorified for fcking lots of females but women to be shunned for doing the same...we need to evolve out of it.
I feel what you saying and I've been guilty of labeling women as sluts even though I'm out doing the same thing but this how the world is.
Men get away with doing stuff women can't.
It's been like this since the beginning of time and it's not gonna change anytime soon.
TheReal Kendall
12-02-2013, 07:12 PM
I think there is something wrong with OP and the woman he is pursuing if you think all women are "sluts". Raise your game up, and who you pursue and how. If you pursue women strictly to be one and done (which is fine) what kind of women do you think you'll find?
And the reason you get married is for the most part, the type of woman you'd like to stick around and not bone everyone else and is worth that probably won't stick around unless you get married.
This is true also.
unbreakable
12-02-2013, 07:12 PM
not all women are sluts bro. some are easier than others, but even that doesnt make them "sluts"..
imo a slut is a bitch who will fukk multiple dudes at once or in a day or within 2 day period, etc (maybe).. or for money...
but if a girl has sex on the first or second date after a good time out, thats not a slut
Bandito
12-02-2013, 07:14 PM
I think there is something wrong with OP and the woman he is pursuing if you think all women are "sluts". Raise your game up, and who you pursue and how. If you pursue women strictly to be one and done (which is fine) what kind of women do you think you'll find?
And the reason you get married is for the most part, the type of woman you'd like to stick around and not bone everyone else and is worth that probably won't stick around unless you get married.
Abd how do you "raise" your game up?
unbreakable
12-02-2013, 07:15 PM
Abd how do you "raise" your game up?
develop the mental and physical patience/strength/beauty to pursue a girl worth keeping :confusedshrug:
JerrySteakhouse
12-02-2013, 07:16 PM
what's so funny?
Girls are whores man... All they want to do is get *****ed till they hit the age of 25 then think it is time to settle down. Stop treating them with respect, that is not how attraction works. Girls are dumb, they follow their emotions and don't think logically.. The girls I disrespected most are still hung up on me and the girls I treated with respect are over me...
Do yourself a favor and be an asshole to girls, just don't over do it. But being nice gets you nowhere but rejected, especially when a girl says "I'm done with assholes and only want to date nice guys", that is the biggest curveball in dating
unbreakable
12-02-2013, 07:18 PM
Do yourself a favor and be an asshole to girls, just don't over do it. g
biggest misconception in Player-ology 101.
true pimps dont have to be assholes bro. its true : DONT TAKE NO SHlT and DONT BE NOBODYS BITCH/STEPPINGSTOOL but that doesnt mean be an asshole.
TheReal Kendall
12-02-2013, 07:20 PM
biggest misconception in Player-ology 101.
true pimps dont have to be assholes bro. its true : DONT TAKE NO SHlT and DONT BE NOBODYS BITCH/STEPPINGSTOOL but that doesnt mean be an asshole.
i really doubt youve pulled anything worth keeping with that attitude :confusedshrug:
This true.
Being the nice guy works well.
You just gotta put your foot down and show them you're not gonna take any shit though
JerrySteakhouse
12-02-2013, 07:21 PM
biggest misconception in Player-ology 101.
true pimps dont have to be assholes bro. its true : DONT TAKE NO SHlT and DONT BE NOBODYS BITCH/STEPPINGSTOOL but that doesnt mean be an asshole.
i really doubt youve pulled anything worth keeping with that attitude :confusedshrug:
No you're right. I don't mean literally be a dumbass/asshole... When I say don't over do it I mean stop giving a ***** and be you, don't go out of your way to please anyone but yourself.. If you are out with a girl and not having a good time, let her know and suggest some new shit... Straight up what you said is right, be nobodys bitch and never be a push over.
unbreakable
12-02-2013, 07:22 PM
This true.
Being the nice guy works well.
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nice guy with attitude and passion is a great combination.. be funny, intelligent, welcoming, sincere, creative.. but dont TAKE NO SHlT and NO DISRESPECT
unbreakable
12-02-2013, 07:22 PM
No you're right. I don't mean literally be a dumbass/asshole... When I say don't over do it I mean stop giving a ***** and be you, don't go out of your way to please anyone but yourself.. If you are out with a girl and not having a good time, let her know and suggest some new shit... Straight up what you said is right, be nobodys bitch and never be a push over.
my bad i misunderstood u :cheers:
JerrySteakhouse
12-02-2013, 07:24 PM
This true.
Being the nice guy works well.
You just gotta put your foot down and show them you're not gonna take any shit though
You can be NICE but don't be a pleaser and put the pusssy on the pedestal, you will be no challenge and girls love challenges they just don't know it... I've had a girl chaase the ***** out of me and once she got me and I showed affection she peaced.. Untill I made her jealous and played harder to get and made her chase me again :lol
JerrySteakhouse
12-02-2013, 07:25 PM
nice guy with attitude and passion is a great combination.. be funny, intelligent, welcoming, receptive.. but dont TAKE NO SHlT and NO DISRESPECT
:applause:
So true, I wish I could help my ISH brothas out tho... Get all my ****** up in here laid. :applause:
Abd how do you "raise" your game up?
Put more thought into which women you pursue above "who looks drunkest". Things like that.
longtime lurker
12-02-2013, 10:05 PM
I think there is something wrong with OP and the woman he is pursuing if you think all women are "sluts". Raise your game up, and who you pursue and how. If you pursue women strictly to be one and done (which is fine) what kind of women do you think you'll find?
And the reason you get married is for the most part, the type of woman you'd like to stick around and not bone everyone else and is worth that probably won't stick around unless you get married.
This is some real shit right here. You can tell he's well past the age of your typical ISH poster
Dictator
12-02-2013, 10:44 PM
I went through this phase. There are definitely quality women out in the sea.
STATUTORY
12-02-2013, 10:44 PM
This is some real shit right here. You can tell he's well past the age of your typical ISH poster
I think niko has kids in fact
outbreak
12-02-2013, 10:59 PM
change up where you meet women, I went through this too. The places I used to hang out I was getting jaded with the girls I knew there and their antics but it's more to do with the clubs/bars you hang out in and that circle of people it attracts than the whole female persuasion
I think niko has kids in fact
Two, 3 and 6. :cheers: I'm 41.
CelticBaller
12-02-2013, 11:07 PM
:facepalm you need to respect women.
I'm kinda late, but hell no. Respect is earned, and the ones that earned it are wifed up.
Edit: Jerry summed it up pretty good
STATUTORY
12-02-2013, 11:08 PM
it's like I can't respect the women i have sex with and the ones I respect are the ones who refuses me.
Jameerthefear
12-02-2013, 11:10 PM
it's like I can't respect the women i have sex with and the ones I respect are the ones who refuses me.
That's not right. Their no different from you.
CelticBaller
12-02-2013, 11:14 PM
it's like I can't respect the women i have sex with and the ones I respect are the ones who refuses me.
If you are sleeping with some you're doing something right. If they just flat out refuse you keep it pushing and find someone else, but if they haven't flat out refused there's still hope for you brother.
outbreak
12-02-2013, 11:42 PM
it's like I can't respect the women i have sex with and the ones I respect are the ones who refuses me.
you can't stop respecting a woman for enjoying sex, the girls I consider sluts are like one girl I used to be friends with who slept with 3 brothers (siblings, not black guys) in one night almost one after the other and then got all upset and wouldn't stop crying the next day when they all found out and hated her for it. That's the kind of girl it's hard to find respect for. Or another girl I went to school with who filmed herself getting banged by 2 dudes and got all upset when everyone saw the video and then a month later filmed herself getting banged by another dude on a kitchen table and again sent the video to people and again got upset when everyone made fun of her. Girls can enjoy sex but there's a limit to what a self respecting person should be doing.
Kblaze8855
12-03-2013, 12:46 AM
I might have thought that way from like 16-20. Then I noticed women arent sluts...they are just people. All judged equally they arent as bad as most males I know would be if put in the position an average to above average looking woman is.
When you are an early teen girls are wanted but not easily obtained. Status symbol to have. Then that melts away to....you being expected to be able to get one. Get a bit older....you see that its fairly simple. And at that point many come to the conclusion in the OP. And I think a bit after that...they see that its only easy because women are just like us.
They just hide it a little bit better. But its there. Its there in the smile. The look that lingers...the look back from a distance a moment after you lock eyes and look away. The no good reason text after 4 months...just fishing. Subtle. We are more out there and obvious.
Once you know what to look for its clear we are all doing the same thing.
I dont judge anymore.
Not normal women.
Now....gold digging whores....down to judge.
b1imtf
12-03-2013, 01:10 AM
Yup.
AintNoSunshine
12-03-2013, 01:43 AM
Like attracts like, maybe you're a male slutt yourself. Just kidding but plenty of amazing women out there, I think you just need to get out of your normal social circle
longtime lurker
12-03-2013, 02:23 AM
I think niko has kids in fact
Then he must have done something right. You'd be wise to take his advice
IamRAMBO24
12-03-2013, 02:39 AM
:facepalm you need to respect women.
WTF is wrong with you?
HylianNightmare
12-03-2013, 08:47 AM
Do yourself a favor and be an asshole to girls, just don't over do it. But being nice gets you nowhere but rejected, especially when a girl says "I'm done with assholes and only want to date nice guys", that is the biggest curveball in dating
jameer, this is one of the truest quotes you will ever find on ish. believe this man
OhNoTimNoSho
12-03-2013, 09:23 AM
If you going out and meeting all your women in clubs or bars then yeah all women are gonna be sluts.
BRabbiT
12-03-2013, 09:24 AM
:facepalm you need to respect women.
:lol
he said "most", and it seems that way, imo.
but not my mamma, of course:no:
jameer, this is one of the truest quotes you will ever find on ish. believe this man
If you can't do asshole at least don't be needy. Live your own life, don't call to say hi or check up, etc.
Nick Young
12-03-2013, 10:07 AM
I think there is something wrong with OP and the woman he is pursuing if you think all women are "sluts". Raise your game up, and who you pursue and how. If you pursue women strictly to be one and done (which is fine) what kind of women do you think you'll find?
And the reason you get married is for the most part, the type of woman you'd like to stick around and not bone everyone else and is worth that probably won't stick around unless you get married.
Marriage is a fools game. Everyone does it only because everyone else around them does it, because they think they have to to prove themselves a success.
Just2McFly
12-03-2013, 10:31 AM
Girls are whores man... All they want to do is get *****ed till they hit the age of 25 then think it is time to settle down. Stop treating them with respect, that is not how attraction works. Girls are dumb, they follow their emotions and don't think logically.. The girls I disrespected most are still hung up on me and the girls I treated with respect are over me...
Do yourself a favor and be an asshole to girls, just don't over do it. But being nice gets you nowhere but rejected, especially when a girl says "I'm done with assholes and only want to date nice guys", that is the biggest curveball in dating
This only works for westernized females fam. I've run into some eastern european/south american broads that don't play that shit. They want a man to take charge, but not disrespect them in the process.
rufuspaul
12-03-2013, 10:50 AM
Marriage is a fools game. Everyone does it only because everyone else around them does it, because they think they have to to prove themselves a success.
Do you wish your parents never married?
Jailblazers7
12-03-2013, 12:35 PM
If you going out and meeting all your women in clubs or bars then yeah all women are gonna be sluts.
This. You have to understand the context of how you meet women. You meet someone at a bar or club? They are probably just like you...looking to get drunk, have fun, and maybe get laid at the end of the night.
pinhead
12-03-2013, 12:39 PM
The only positive thing about a woman can have is usually their looks. I find women very very boring to talk to. I don't think a woman has ever made me laugh.
-p.tiddy-
12-03-2013, 01:03 PM
This. You have to understand the context of how you meet women. You meet someone at a bar or club? They are probably just like you...looking to get drunk, have fun, and maybe get laid at the end of the night.
lol, is it not sad that we look down on women who are "just like us"?
Nick Young
12-03-2013, 01:09 PM
They aren't sluts, they're just women, their brains are wired differently, which is why they suck at spatial tasks and other things. I don't blame women for acting like women, I accept that they're just acting true to their nature.
ace23
12-03-2013, 01:09 PM
lol, is it not sad that we look down on women who are "just like us"?
Anyone with a brain does not look down on women for wanting to have sex with men. I understand what you're saying, but your point should be common knowledge. Of course there are some idiots out there who disagree.
Nick Young
12-03-2013, 01:11 PM
Do you wish your parents never married?
Well I don't care if they married or not, I'm happy dey produced me doe.
are you happy that you locked yourself in to one woman for the rest of your life instead of leaving yourself open to bang loads of different women?
Psycho
12-03-2013, 01:15 PM
Well I don't care if they married or not, I'm happy dey produced me doe.
are you happy that you locked yourself in to one woman for the rest of your life instead of leaving yourself open to bang loads of different women?
If you love a woman you'll never even think about sex again, unless it is with her. Only animals put so much importance on sex anyway.
Nick Young
12-03-2013, 01:19 PM
If you love a woman you'll never even think about sex again, unless it is with her. Only animals put so much importance on sex anyway.
That's a Sex in the City Divine sisters of the yaya sisterhood estrogen fueled bullshit myth bruh.
lol not really. You can repress yourself and force yourself to try to believe that disney fairy tale lala bullshit doe. Most people stop being attracted to eachother after about 2 years. Usually after that date people stick together simply because they have already been together so long, even though the spark is gone, and they convince themselves thats how life is supposed to be, and consign themselves to live passionless lives.
Well I don't care if they married or not, I'm happy dey produced me doe.
are you happy that you locked yourself in to one woman for the rest of your life instead of leaving yourself open to bang loads of different women?
Yes, because she wouldn't do it otherwise, and i wouldn't have my two kids and our life together. Which is a lot of fun. I did the banging whoever I want thing. That's not going to work when I'm older. But i'll have my wife, my kids, their grandkids, coming over holidays, working on our garden, our house, etc.
The party ends at some point, at which time those other attachments become important.
I'm married because I want to be. Most of the shit you do it seems you do because that's how you think things should be.
Mr. Jabbar
12-03-2013, 01:33 PM
of course there are these "dwight" and "lebron" women out there, who will sleep with you but are ready to dump you for a guy with more money/fame/whatever, luckily there are also "kobe" women, very few, but they'll stick through good and bad, loyal, only then you can marry :applause:
of course there are these "dwight" and "lebron" women out there, who will sleep with you but are ready to dump you for a guy with more money/fame/whatever, luckily there are also "kobe" women, very few, but they'll stick through good and bad, loyal, only then you can marry :applause:
Most women are like Kobe, they'll stick with you but you need to keep paying them top dollar "just because".
Bandito
12-03-2013, 01:54 PM
Most women are like Kobe, they'll stick with you but you need to keep paying them top dollar "just because".
10/10:lol
Dresta
12-03-2013, 02:08 PM
OP is a moron who evidently doesn't know more than a handful of women, at best.
TheReal Kendall
12-03-2013, 07:40 PM
Yes, because she wouldn't do it otherwise, and i wouldn't have my two kids and our life together. Which is a lot of fun. I did the banging whoever I want thing. That's not going to work when I'm older. But i'll have my wife, my kids, their grandkids, coming over holidays, working on our garden, our house, etc.
The party ends at some point, at which time those other attachments become important.
I'm married because I want to be. Most of the shit you do it seems you do because that's how you think things should be.
:applause:
I respect guys like you
Dresta
12-04-2013, 01:05 PM
He's not exactly 'locked in' either: it's not like it's the 13th century when divorce was impossible.
Jailblazers7
12-04-2013, 01:21 PM
lol, is it not sad that we look down on women who are "just like us"?
I think a lot of it is that guys are just way too preoccupied with being consider the best a girl has ever had in bed. If a girl has had a lot of sex, then a lot of guys will get freaked out and feel they have to be some superstar in the sack in order to measure up.
I think guys need to get over who or what their girls did prior. No, you don't want the neighborhood mattress (it says something generally about a person who has no standards) but unless you have some butt ugly girl or someone who is repressed (or a child) they are going to have had sex.
I met my wife when she was 23 and she was hot as hell. For some of you, you'd probably be turned off because she wasn't a virgin. Don't limit your choices so much.
Is He Ill
12-04-2013, 02:23 PM
Most women are like Kobe, they'll stick with you but you need to keep paying them top dollar "just because".
:oldlol:
JEFFERSON MONEY
12-04-2013, 02:38 PM
Op do you REALLY REALLY forreal want a wife?
What exactly do you want?
Dresta
12-04-2013, 02:45 PM
I think guys need to get over who or what their girls did prior. No, you don't want the neighborhood mattress (it says something generally about a person who has no standards) but unless you have some butt ugly girl or someone who is repressed (or a child) they are going to have had sex.
I met my wife when she was 23 and she was hot as hell. For some of you, you'd probably be turned off because she wasn't a virgin. Don't limit your choices so much.
C'mon now, who said anything like that?
Though i knew a muslim guy at uni who was 'saving himself' for marriage, and who would only marry a virgin; he told me if he married a girl who said she was a v. and turned out not to be, that he would kill her. Also that he'd disown his kids if they weren't muslim, or if they were gay.
:roll:
ace23
12-04-2013, 02:48 PM
Though i knew a muslim guy at uni who was 'saving himself' for marriage, and who would only marry a virgin; he told me if he married a girl who said she was a v. and turned out not to be, that he would kill her. Also that he'd disown his kids if they weren't muslim, or if they were gay.
:roll:
:roll:
Random_Guy
12-04-2013, 03:21 PM
at least he has standards :confusedshrug:
I mean yeah its a little crazy, but its not like he was sleeping around like a dog lol.
JEFFERSON MONEY
12-04-2013, 03:28 PM
C'mon now, who said anything like that?
Though i knew a muslim guy at uni who was 'saving himself' for marriage, and who would only marry a virgin; he told me if he married a girl who said she was a v. and turned out not to be, that he would kill her. Also that he'd disown his kids if they weren't muslim, or if they were gay.
:roll:
Why is that funny?
I've heard similar opinions/mindsets many a times.
This is semi-typical of an uberconservative culture.
Dresta
12-04-2013, 03:47 PM
at least he has standards :confusedshrug:
I mean yeah its a little crazy, but its not like he was sleeping around like a dog lol.
:facepalm
Threatening to kill someone if they lie about being a virgin + disowning your children if they don't believe what you want them to is much much worse than 'sleeping around like a dog'
'at least he has standards' is not an adequate defence, sorry.
Dresta
12-04-2013, 03:49 PM
Why is that funny?
I've heard similar opinions/mindsets many a times.
This is semi-typical of an uberconservative culture.
Because i find idiots funny...
C'mon now, who said anything like that?
Though i knew a muslim guy at uni who was 'saving himself' for marriage, and who would only marry a virgin; he told me if he married a girl who said she was a v. and turned out not to be, that he would kill her. Also that he'd disown his kids if they weren't muslim, or if they were gay.
:roll:
This board, a lot of the guys here are proud (and believing for reasons beyond me) they are with girls who only slept with them and no one else. Outside of the silliness of a bunch of guys all coincidentally have mid twenties virgins before they met them, the fact it's an important point for them is strange to me. Meticode used to brag his girl never slept with anyone besides him, i think his daughter was born by immaculate conception.
rufuspaul
12-04-2013, 04:09 PM
This board, a lot of the guys here are proud (and believing for reasons beyond me) they are with girls who only slept with them and no one else. Outside of the silliness of a bunch of guys all coincidentally have mid twenties virgins before they met them, the fact it's an important point for them is strange to me. Meticode used to brag his girl never slept with anyone besides him, i think his daughter was born by immaculate conception.
:lol
outbreak
12-04-2013, 05:42 PM
This board, a lot of the guys here are proud (and believing for reasons beyond me) they are with girls who only slept with them and no one else. Outside of the silliness of a bunch of guys all coincidentally have mid twenties virgins before they met them, the fact it's an important point for them is strange to me. Meticode used to brag his girl never slept with anyone besides him, i think his daughter was born by immaculate conception.
If you settle into a serious relationship with a girl who's never been with another guy wouldn't that just increase the chances she will cheat on you or leave you when she reaches her 30s and realises she hasn't really tested the waters before committing to you? I don't think a girls a slut for sleeping with a lot of guys or enjoying sex, to me a girls a slut when she has no respect for herself and uses sex to get attention and seem cool which is really a bit sad.
FKAri
12-04-2013, 06:23 PM
If you settle into a serious relationship with a girl who's never been with another guy wouldn't that just increase the chances she will cheat on you or leave you when she reaches her 30s and realises she hasn't really tested the waters before committing to you?
I disagree
I don't think a girls a slut for sleeping with a lot of guys or enjoying sex, to me a girls a slut when she has no respect for herself and uses sex to get attention and seem cool which is really a bit sad.
I agree.
Also, the fewer sexual partners you've had the stronger you catch feelings.
Jordan-esque
12-04-2013, 06:24 PM
I guess marriage is out of the question for the op
I disagree
Truth. If you have a small dick like us it's for the best when our girl doesn't know any better.
-p.tiddy-
12-04-2013, 07:37 PM
I would "guess" that it is accurate that women who are in a long relationship with their first are more likely to stray due to curiosity...just a guess though
I know that is how I would be if I was in a long term relationship with the one I lost my virginity too...I would want to see what else is out there.
I would "guess" that it is accurate that women who are in a long relationship with their first are more likely to stray due to curiosity...just a guess though
I know that is how I would be if I was in a long term relationship with the one I lost my virginity too...I would want to see what else is out there.
I think it's just logical. You're a married guy, is there a piece of ass worth possibly losing your wife and kids over? Not a chance. But if you never ever had another woman...it's something that might nag at you.
STATUTORY
12-04-2013, 08:01 PM
I would "guess" that it is accurate that women who are in a long relationship with their first are more likely to stray due to curiosity...just a guess though
I know that is how I would be if I was in a long term relationship with the one I lost my virginity too...I would want to see what else is out there.
Do you think women enjoy sex as much as men do?
-p.tiddy-
12-04-2013, 08:11 PM
Do you think women enjoy sex as much as men do?
I'm not sure, but obviously most women do enjoy it a lot
they probably don't think about it 24/7 like men do though...not until they are older anyway
STATUTORY
12-04-2013, 08:12 PM
I'm not sure, but obviously most women do enjoy it a lot
they probably don't think about it 24/7 like men do though...not until they are older anyway
so you think females hit sexual prime late in life?
-p.tiddy-
12-04-2013, 08:15 PM
so you think females hit sexual prime late in life?
as far as their mental/hormonal state goes, yes I do...
STATUTORY
12-04-2013, 08:17 PM
as far as their mental/hormonal state goes, yes I do...
:oldlol: then marriage really makes no sense for the man
for men sexual drive definitely decreases over time, so when ur older and I presume that's when the man really just wants a faithful companion around and is less able to satisfy his woman sexually, thats when he's most at risk for being cuckolded?
that's rough
I don't know if woman want sex as much or not, but i think they don't need it as much. I think men need it. I'm not sure woman have that need as often.
-p.tiddy-
12-04-2013, 08:20 PM
:oldlol: then marriage really makes no sense for the man
I'm married, but I will say I don't think nature intended for monogamy to happen
it's healthy though, it's been shown that married people live longer on average...so there are some things about that our bodies/minds like.
longtime lurker
12-04-2013, 08:25 PM
Do you think women enjoy sex as much as men do?
I question how much ass you're really getting if you seriously ask this question.
STATUTORY
12-04-2013, 08:30 PM
I question how much ass you're really getting if you seriously ask this question.
:oldlol: I never claimed I was getting mad ass, but I do ok.
Some other posters implied that women want marriage/status and treat sex as a necessary cost and don't enjoy it.
christian1923
12-05-2013, 12:35 AM
I saw a girl give a guy head in middle of a party dance floor a couple weeks back and all I could think to myself was "wow somebody is gonna marry this girl and not even know this" :biggums:
PistonsFan#21
12-05-2013, 12:37 AM
OP do you regard all the women that rejected you as lesbians too?
Dresta
12-05-2013, 12:38 AM
I saw a girl give a guy head in middle of a party dance floor a couple weeks back and all I could think to myself was "wow somebody is gonna marry this girl and not even know this" :biggums:
yeah, unlucky.
AintNoSunshine
12-05-2013, 01:41 AM
Most women are like Kobe, they'll stick with you but you need to keep paying them top dollar "just because".
But every once in awhile these women will buy you a big azz diamond ring because they made a big cuckold out of you
JEFFERSON MONEY
12-05-2013, 02:04 AM
as far as their mental/hormonal state goes, yes I do...
That's bull
You been sipping too much kool-aid prime
Teenage girls are the most horny
That 35 sexual prime Bs can be explained by a( a last surge of libido before hitting the wall and the last few eggs and b) a huge societal agenda to render early 30s women more valuable than they really
But hey if it takes lies to keep the cogs running the proceed
Dresta
12-05-2013, 12:24 PM
:oldlol: then marriage really makes no sense for the man
for men sexual drive definitely decreases over time, so when ur older and I presume that's when the man really just wants a faithful companion around and is less able to satisfy his woman sexually, thats when he's most at risk for being cuckolded?
that's rough
That's just a big pile of untrue and speculative bullcrap.
That's bull
You been sipping too much kool-aid prime
Teenage girls are the most horny
That 35 sexual prime Bs can be explained by a( a last surge of libido before hitting the wall and the last few eggs and b) a huge societal agenda to render early 30s women more valuable than they really
But hey if it takes lies to keep the cogs running the proceed
I seriously doubt it.
-p.tiddy-
12-05-2013, 12:34 PM
That's bull
You been sipping too much kool-aid prime
Teenage girls are the most horny
That 35 sexual prime Bs can be explained by a( a last surge of libido before hitting the wall and the last few eggs and b) a huge societal agenda to render early 30s women more valuable than they really
But hey if it takes lies to keep the cogs running the proceed
hmmm...you may be right
[QUOTE] so why do we say women reach their sexual peak at 35? It has nothing to do with hormones and everything to do with the society we live in.
Although we may be in our hormonal peak just after puberty, girls are warned of the dangers of sex: pregnancy, sexually transmitted infections and being seen as a slut. We then distance from our sexuality. Eventually women begin to figure out what they want sexually and begin to be much more direct in asking for it. (This usually happens from running across a lover who is attentive, attuned and skilled, or from reading about sexual pleasure, learning from friends or learning through self-pleasuring.) This learning leads to what has been commonly known as our
JEFFERSON MONEY
12-05-2013, 02:32 PM
Yes, I had mentioned teenage girls under the impression of libido for the sake of libido and nothing else.
Meaning simply wanting sex in one way or one form without an agenda or a pressure being driven.
Every day in high school proved this to be true. Every day in early college proved this to be true. DESPITE the obstacles of parents and overseeing authority as the article had mentioned.
But as you mentioned sexuality, especially female, is extremely fluid, misunderstood, and subject to change through many variables. In which case you very well could say it is a "prime." Having spoken to men age 35 (who are in many ways the most attractive THEY'VE ever been), had they had the chance to choose a girl they wanted to fukk MOST OF THEM WOULD CHOOSE THE 18/19/20. So the 35 year old woman needs some leverage going her way for a society to function. What better way to keep a mate looking to stray? Feed them as much and as kinky sex as possible.
I'd highly recommend the resources "Sperm Wars" and "The Rational Male" which you can find online. Very eye-opening. Especially The Rational Male; Rollo Tomassi is a great resource for these kind of things.
I still assert that there is a feminist agenda going on that strongly attempts to inject lies into the mainstream which continue to frolick and mold others' opinion.. Cool. That's great. But there are losers in this game. Those losers often being productive but boring unattractive guys. And when they find out they've been duped, they'll snap. And all hell will break loose.
Some 1984 type sh!t. But feminism ain't even close to being the main bad thing. There are other demons that need to be slain for a healthy, happy, "free" society. I'm sure Dooms can help with this one.
The same agenda that talks about rape being a matter of "control and power" and not just plain ol' damn lust (Projection). The same agenda that put out ludicrous things like "The sexiest thing a man can do is wash dishes" when science says the exact opposite.
The same agenda that forces a husband to take on a wife's signature for a vasectomy. Essentially, control male sexuality.
Balla_Status
12-05-2013, 05:07 PM
How ****ing dumb are we as men of society to look down on women as being sluts? Yeah, great job dickwads let's make it harder for men to get laid.
Le Shaqtus
12-05-2013, 05:29 PM
How ****ing dumb are we as men of society to look down on women as being sluts? Yeah, great job dickwads let's make it harder for men to get laid.
Leaves more of the better women to guys who aren't assholes like the OP :confusedshrug:
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