View Full Version : How do you reject a girl without being a d1ck?
BrooklynZoo
12-17-2013, 10:55 PM
So I got this girl and her friend who keep hitting me up on text (past couple days) and no matter how long i take to answer and bland answers they haven't gotten the hint. They pretty much talk to eachother while talking to me. I'm trying not to be a dick but that doesn't seem to be helping. #HSproblems
Start talking about some other girl you like. Or just type "are we going to have the threesome already or i really need to go?"
highwhey
12-17-2013, 11:12 PM
So I got this girl and her friend who keep hitting me up on text (past couple days) and no matter how long i take to answer and bland answers they haven't gotten the hint. They pretty much talk to eachother while talking to me. I'm trying not to be a dick but that doesn't seem to be helping. #HSproblems
Did u show any interest? If u recently made out with one of them then you should be direct and tell them you're not interested.
This chick I know grinded on me at a cocnert this weekend and I made the mistake of making out with her. Everyday since she's texted me almost non stop. Good morning, did u sleep well? How was work today? I just drove by Alan lane, etc. I don't want to be a douche ether so I'm pretending to be busy.
I can't even check instagram or fb because there's always a new notification that she tagged me or commented something :facepalm
TheReal Kendall
12-17-2013, 11:33 PM
Just stop responding or tell her straight up you not feeling her.
If that don't work just say you and your ex are trying to work things out again. This works for me all the time
CelticBaller
12-17-2013, 11:34 PM
Ignoring her sucks, but it is the easiest way out.
Being a dick sometimes get's a bad rap.
knickballer
12-18-2013, 01:12 AM
http://img.pandawhale.com/75437-brb-using-imagination-since-no-8019.jpeg
Beatlezz
12-18-2013, 01:17 AM
Tell her you're into men, or little anime girls.
AintNoSunshine
12-18-2013, 01:53 AM
Show us her pics so we can come up with something more sophiscated and strategic
Fudge
12-18-2013, 01:56 AM
Tell her you're into men, or little anime girls.
:oldlol:
ballup
12-18-2013, 02:00 AM
Friendzone her.
honest reply. I had that once too, what i would do is reply with minimal effort with absolutely no flirting intentions in the wording and just don't try to be funny or nice in a way that they can misinterpret your texts. Most importantly reply like a few hours or a day later, so they know you've read their texts but replies but with no intentions, after like a week or 2 they will stop. :cheers:
Or like niko said get a 3some and be done with it but they sound like the type to cling onto you forever if you do that.
AI Thornton
12-18-2013, 05:52 AM
So I got this girl and her friend who keep hitting me up on text (past couple days) and no matter how long i take to answer and bland answers they haven't gotten the hint. They pretty much talk to eachother while talking to me. I'm trying not to be a dick but that doesn't seem to be helping. #HSproblems
Looking at the situation all wrong. Suggest a threesome. You either get a threesome or get rid of them. Win-win situation.
East_Stone_Ya
12-18-2013, 05:59 AM
you tell mad lies
T-Time3
12-18-2013, 06:23 AM
oh man i had this kinda situation last year and i felt like being a d1ck. i felt terrible for her but i set myself free.
so i was at a point where i want to have some fun , ended up with this girl i met at a party. she's a 6.5 (yea i don't know what was i thinking at that time either. smh)
we hangout a couple times and by the time i was "sober" i thought, man i gotta get the hell outta this shit.
so i stop ignoring her text, not answering her phone calls and sh1t, after like 7-9 days or so that girl gone insane. when i got back from work my neighbor told me there's a girl knocking on my door and waited like 20minutes before she left :facepalm .
one night i accidentally pick up her phonecall and she start crying, telling me how i changed,don't text her back and all that, so basically i told her i was busy, working on a project.:lol
she finally stop calling and texting after i change my facebook profile picture with a girl friend :D
Dresta
12-18-2013, 09:52 AM
Just ignore people you cba talking to like any normal person.
BrooklynZoo
12-18-2013, 12:50 PM
Yeah her friend asked me what I thought of her and I told her "just friends". Apparently she did not share this message with the other girl as she keeps messaging me and when i don't reply she'll ask if I fell asleep and sends me a whole bunch of animated smileys. She asked/hinted at hanging out a few times and each time shot down.
The threesome idea wouldn't work because I'm just not attracted to her and we have mutual friends so that'd probably get around. I'm just gonna take a little longer to reply and maybe she will figure it out lol
Le Shaqtus
12-18-2013, 01:05 PM
Easy solution.
Murder.
TheReturn
12-18-2013, 01:11 PM
Tell her you just don't have the time, that's what I've done a couple of times.
Le Shaqtus
12-18-2013, 01:12 PM
This thread is so dumb
Why's it dumb? Some people have a hard time being assholes when they have to be :confusedshrug:
chosen_one6
12-18-2013, 01:36 PM
Just act like you're busy all the time. They'll eventually stop. And in the event that they don't and try to ask you to go somewhere, tell them "sorry, I don't think my girlfriend would like that idea."
If they ask why you can't just hang out, tell them your girlfriend is extremely jealous and possessive but that you love her the way that she is.
gigantes
12-18-2013, 05:56 PM
how about:
http://www.deathbulge.com/assets/images/comics/128.gif
highwhey
12-18-2013, 06:18 PM
oh man i had this kinda situation last year and i felt like being a d1ck. i felt terrible for her but i set myself free.
so i was at a point where i want to have some fun , ended up with this girl i met at a party. she's a 6.5 (yea i don't know what was i thinking at that time either. smh)
we hangout a couple times and by the time i was "sober" i thought, man i gotta get the hell outta this shit.
so i stop ignoring her text, not answering her phone calls and sh1t, after like 7-9 days or so that girl gone insane. when i got back from work my neighbor told me there's a girl knocking on my door and waited like 20minutes before she left :facepalm .
one night i accidentally pick up her phonecall and she start crying, telling me how i changed,don't text her back and all that, so basically i told her i was busy, working on a project.:lol
she finally stop calling and texting after i change my facebook profile picture with a girl friend :D
:oldlol: not a bad idea
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