How can you encourage your girlfriend to lose weight?

[East_Stone_Ya]

without hurting her feelings :confusedshrug:

[niko]

Next time you have sex tell her to be on top and then fake an injury and go to the hospital.

[LJJ]

Stop being a disgusting fatbody yourself is the best way to encourage her.

[fiddy]

buy her a fat burner

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[cos88]

op how do you look? fatboy also?


it all starts with healthy food. when going out with her don't eat fast food, try to eat often but very little.

go to a good gym and encourage her to join, same with jogging.

[Jailblazers7]

Stop being a disgusting fatbody yourself is the best way to encourage her.

Yup. Start hitting the gym hard and she will probably feel guilted/pressured into doing it herself.

[nathanjizzle]

dont tell her shes fat, just tell her you want her to be healthy so you can love her long time.

get her a gym membership, or a dvd workout program.

[Gabi]

Just ask her if she wants to start run with you or go to the gym with you.

[JohnFreeman]

dump her fat ass

[LJJ]

I read something about a study that showed 85% of women who get a gastric bypass leave their spouse within 2 years. Just a word of advice for OP. Do you really want your girl to move up the social ladder? Really?!

[alenleomessi]

OP you either fatass yourself or you are very beta

[East_Stone_Ya]

Next time you have sex tell her to be on top and then fake an injury and go to the hospital.

:oldlol:

did it work for you?

[East_Stone_Ya]

i'm not an fat ass myself and neither is my GF, but lately she has gained weight in a way that she has a mini belly and chubby thighs. As i like women with fit bodies it just has become a bit of an issue for me and i would like her to drop some weight. But don't know how to convince her without hurting her feelings.

One option that i have thought is to joke about it and then see her reaction to it

[fiddy]

i'm not an fat ass myself and neither is my GF, but lately she has gained weight in a way that she has a mini belly and chubby thighs. As i like women with fit bodies it just has become a bit of an issue for me.
The problem with females bodies is that those parts (belly and thighs) are body fats that are hard to move. They are evolutionary predisposed to have fat there for the sake of carrying children. Unless she puts deliberate effort to shake off that weight its going to build up eventually.

[East_Stone_Ya]

The problem with females bodies is that those parts (belly and thighs) are body fats that are hard to move. They evolutionary predisposed to have fat there for the sake of carrying children. Unless she puts deliberate effort to shake off that weight its going to build up eventually.

i know that for women in their 40's or 50's it's quite normal to have fat in those body parts but in their 20's i think it's not normal

[Le Shaqtus]

Tell her she's fat and she needs to lose weight.

[ace23]

Next time you have sex tell her to be on top and then fake an injury and go to the hospital.
:roll:

[JohnFreeman]

When she sits on your lap, let out a huge sigh/grunt

[irondarts]

Work out with her.

[imdaman99]

Make her feel a little insecure. It's probably not too healthy, but I'm sure it'll work. I remember my ex would judge other women's body in front of me to gauge whether or not I like that kinda body. I would be honest with her, and I think that made her insecure that I liked a woman with a fit body. She did get in shape, because she realized I was too. Plus she looked bigger than me in pics...according to what her BRUTALLY honest friend told her :roll:

[DukeDelonte13]

i'm not an fat ass myself and neither is my GF, but lately she has gained weight in a way that she has a mini belly and chubby thighs. As i like women with fit bodies it just has become a bit of an issue for me and i would like her to drop some weight. But don't know how to convince her without hurting her feelings.

One option that i have thought is to joke about it and then see her reaction to it


I call that dancing with the devil.


All you have to do is eat healthier around her and do more active stuff together.

Before you make a comment to her ask yourself "Is this going to be worth a stupid fight with a woman?"

I hate stupid fights with women. Men can be rational and talk to each other about stuff but you catch a girl on the wrong day and they will equate a comment about their weight to you calling her ugly, only attracted to her physically, etc.

[Bush4Ever]

Bitches love it when you suggest you two do things together.

So basically, get a gym membership for you and her and go to the gym together (or exercise together, etc...).

[Dresta]

Just tell her she's looking chubby and keep jiggling her belly. Even if your girl isn't fat you should do this as a preventative measure.

[BRabbiT]

it all starts with healthy food. when going out with her don't eat fast food, try to eat often but very little.



+1

[Levity]

by her herbalife.

its what my girlfriend started doing when she thought she was gaining weight. personally, i see no difference (never thought she was gaining weight in the first place, though) but she feels very confident about her body now and wants to keep using it.

or just eat a shit load of flame broiler together, or something healthy like that

[East_Stone_Ya]

Just tell her she's looking chubby and keep jiggling her belly. Even if your girl isn't fat you should do this as a preventative measure.

damn that would be an automatic bitch slap from her :oldlol:

[boozehound]

i'm not an fat ass myself and neither is my GF, but lately she has gained weight in a way that she has a mini belly and chubby thighs. As i like women with fit bodies it just has become a bit of an issue for me and i would like her to drop some weight. But don't know how to convince her without hurting her feelings.

One option that i have thought is to joke about it and then see her reaction to it
you will hurt her feelings. end of story. Oh well, tell her straight up (in a positive way) and start a workout regime for both of you

[Dictator]

Take her with you to the gym.

[Jameerthefear]

Let her catch you jerking off to skinny, petite girls.

[East_Stone_Ya]

Let her catch you jerking off to skinny, petite girls.

you meant anime right?

[AirTupac]

Any pics so we can assess the full situation?

[Draz]

Don't be stubborn. You chose her because she obviously made you happy right? Why change her. Lets be real about it. She can change her appearance as much as she likes. But, once she starts feeling prettier, chances are she's going to start thinking she can do better. Not saying you're doing a bad job at all, it's just human nature.

Be polite about it, be respectful. It can really damage her feelings.

[Overdrive]

Cope with it or tell her straight what's the deal. Everything else leads to drama in the long run.

Buying 2 fitness studio subscriptions is so obvious.

[outbreak]

Lose weight with her, tell her for the new year your planning on losing 5 kilos or something and could she help you diet and exercise? Most people can stand to lose a little weight and if you get a woman hooked on calorie counting and exercise they generally get into it abit.

[Dresta]

Don't be stubborn. You chose her because she obviously made you happy right? Why change her. Lets be real about it. She can change her appearance as much as she likes. But, once she starts feeling prettier, chances are she's going to start thinking she can do better. Not saying you're doing a bad job at all, it's just human nature.

Be polite about it, be respectful. It can really damage her feelings.
Isn't this the guy that's all upset that his girl once sent out a nudie picture? Read your own post and apply it to yourself plz.

And how do you know she was fat when they first started going out? Getting fat once you know someone won't leave you is just rude. lol @ damaged 'feelings' - tell people the truth: if your chick is fat then tell her she is fat; it does no good to lie to people and fill their heads with pretty little delusions.