Found out my girl sent nudes out ..

[Draz]

Lastnight I stumbled upon a local website that exposes girls. Upon the first page I simply scrolled down and noticed someone posting if they had a picture of my girls name and they had posted a picture of her back in 2008-2010 to share it. The picture is very old, she must of been 15-16 at the time. She is 19 now. With the picture posted he detailed the thread saying he had plenty of pictures of her in his old email and knows there are more out there. Someone else replied that she had sent him pics a while ago but deleted it.

Now. I was on the phone with my girl during this encounter and my ENTIRE body got weak and my voice changed. She KNEW for a fact something was wrong. I called my mom downstairs and asked my mom if this is my girl, without even telling her the problem, I guess she knew though. She said it was a possibility it was her. I called her bestfriend up who I'm really cool with, and she confirmed. The picture was a regular picture of her holding up a sidekick 08.

I explained to my mom the situation and my mom said it's her past what can you do about it? That I'll be stupid to leave her over it. Keep in mind, my mom LOVES this girl, the first girl I truly brought home. She comes to my house EVERY DAY. We spend practically EVERY minute together. She's laying in my arms 100% of the time. I love this girl with every last breath.

I confronted her about it. I always confronted her about nude pictures. I asked her if she ever sent her ex nudes long before this. She always got mad and said never. Keep in mind, she sends me and we also make sex videos. I know for a fact they have pictures of her, maybe misplaced. But basically their trading to get a picture of her. The thread was posted a few days ago.

While confronting her I took precaution. I ended it with her.

I'm honestly venting here. I don't want to lose her.. I never loved a girl like I loved her. Her only excuse was she NEVER sent pics out and that picture was back from her Myspace. The way the two guys responded, I figured there MUST be pictures of her. She probably sent them a long time ago, which I cannot be upset about. And I don't blame her for lying about doing this in the past.

My question is, what would you do? I made 1 year 5 months with her. We are inseparable together every single minute, on the phone every minute. We eat, sleep, shit, with each other literally. Would you let her go? Have you came across a situation like this?

I'm literally down on my knees upset, saddened, and I know she doesn't want to back herself up that she never sent pics because we aren't talking and I sense she knows the pictures are out there waiting to be released any minute and doesn't want to let me down deep down inside.

I'm sorry. I shouldn't post my personal business but I just can't take this pain.. :cry: The pain is literally too much.. please refrain from troll posts.. I don't truly want to leave her but I can't take knowing she's done this, that and the idea that people can see her like this whenever they want... This girl is my happiness and I love her with all of my heart.. I just want this to end and I feel hopeless because I literally feel alive the moment I had met her, I feel like my life started when I met her. I was an entirely new person. She MADE me who I am today..

[step_back]

I hope you mean figuratively, a lot of what you said is gross if it was literal.

[Draz]

Figuratively of course ..

[niko]

If you are either
1) Youngish (25 or under)
or
2) You are not married, just a girlfriend

Better not to deal with stupid shit that makes you uncomfortable. Once i decided to marry my wife, in my mind i signed up for stupid shit (mind you not that same shit you got but besides the point). Prior to that, to me it's best just to get out if things are going on that bother you that much.

[rufuspaul]

These pics need to be posted in order for us to make an informed decision.

[CelticBaller]

this is ISH and you know the protocol

[nathanjizzle]

its in her past man, you gotta let it go. it hurts now because its a brand new situation, once time passes it wont be such a big issue.

[CeltsGarlic]

deal breaker obviously. 15 y.o sending nudes?

[HardwoodLegend]

So, you would never date a girl who's posed for Playboy or any other adult magazine? Having a girl that other dudes are out there lusting over is a boss move. Man up and get that girl back.

[Draz]

It's hard knowing she messed around with guys like this. I know back then when everyone had Sidekicks and T-MAIL nudes were popular. I know she could of been a victim of that shit.

I'm honestly not upset she lied to me about sending nudes to other guys or a guy she trusted back when she was younger. Who would admit to their boyfriend or girlfriend they truly love and don't want to lose that? No one. I'm upset that this in general is happening to me. I don't deserve it.

I've went out of my way to love this girl unconditionally since the day I met her. I've given her everything a guy can give a female. I fought for her love.. we have so much memories and experiences together she truly is a soulmate type of girl to me and it takes just about every strength to write such a powerful word about someone.

I understand I'm young, I'm 21. I just don't want to lose someone who made me the happiest person alive. Who's given me so much. She's such an amazing girl and her personality is just the most amazing I've ever met. We literally complete each others sentences every time we talk. We are the perfect match.

Her jealousy, everything I love about her. Her attitude. The small things that annoy her and trigger her. I'm more afraid of losing her than starting fresh with another girl. My family all knows her. My family adores her and accepts her. My little sister loves her to death. My mother treats her like a daughter. She's respected.

I'm in a situation here and I told my mother she can make this better if she admits to me there's pictures of her she had sent long ago, and then maybe, I can work on making our relationship occur. I just don't see her doing that because she knows it'll destroy me, and it'll start a series of problems. She sent me a picture of the valentine day present she got me, something she wouldn't of done, and said happy valentines. She worked so hard on it and it was very unique.

I love her to the death of me.. this is by far the most I can go through. I'm trying to look at celebrities as an example. I'm looking at each possible way out of this mess. My best friends are telling me not to let her go. I sent her a sweet comment on our instagram to let her know that I love her very much and I do not hate her as it seems. She has yet to respond..

[Draz]

deal breaker obviously. 15 y.o sending nudes?
You don't know the type of insecurities young girls face. To get a guys attention. It was very popular back then during T-MAIL and sidekick users. I got nude pictures from hundreds of girls back then and still do get them.

It's just the fact that I'm dealing with this situation. You don't think it's easy for me to respond like this to someone else's situation like you did? It's a common response, deal breaker, let her go. But, people don't know what another person means to them. It's up until they face that challenge themselves they undergo every reason to have it work and accept it..

I'm not a bad person. I would do ANYTHING for absolutely ANYONE in need. I'm one of the most humble person you can ever meet. If anyone here had asked me for anything, in my reach or not I would give them my all. That is why it hurts most.

This seems like a soft topic, like I'm a softie, I might lose a lot of reputation for this, but I just want to know what other people actually would honestly do this bad that I had to get it off of my chest ..:cry: :mad:

[tomSR.]

i am old so i don

[Gabi]

deal breaker obviously. 15 y.o sending nudes?

Does not mean a thing, I know one of the sweetest and nicest girl in the world who sent a picture of her boobs to her boyfriend, his phone was used by a friend who saw it pass it forward and just like that the whole school had a picture of this girl and her boobs.

She was not older than 14-15 and it is not a huge deal if you send a nude picture. Remember me deleting it from everyone showing it off but at that point everyone already had it.

The girl did not come to school for a week before we went over and dragged her to school and told her to keep her head up, everyone will forget about it in a week. Everyone did eventually.

There is a difference between what kind of pictures you take if it was more vulgar with a face shot and her vag open and she fingering herself I would be bothered but if I found a picture of my girlfriends tits on the internet I would do all in my power to try to take it down but if all fails it does not matter to me. It just a nude picture, quite honestly it is nothing different then a regular model showing of her tits or an actress flashing boobs on the big screen.

[boozehound]

what is the website please?

[niko]

You're 21. Every relationship has problems. Relationships that have deal breaking issues that early are not worth clinging too. You will find someone else. Absolutely, 100%. Don't start the breakup, go back, breakup situation, it doesn't work.

[Gabi]

I did not read the whole post because I am lazy but what is she doing on the picture? are they Vanessa Hudgens type of pictures or more like her fingering her self and stuff?

Vanessa Hudgens NSFW (http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m55e2qPl0C1rwfj7eo1_400.jpg)

Anyway you seem to love her this should not be such a big deal. Her past is her past.

[DeuceWallaces]

Sounds to me like your mom is suspiciously cool and defensive about public nude-selfies being circulated.

Just saying.

[step_back]

Sounds to me like your mom is suspiciously cool and defensive about public nude-selfies being circulated.

Just saying.

Come on don't make him even more paranoid:roll:

Draz in all honesty I think you're blowing this way out of proportion. She sent nudes to a former boyfriend in confidence. They split up and he pulled a douche move and put them online. She has already filmed sex films which are a lot more graphic with you. I'm not going to make a judgement on your character but there is nothing stopping you from uploading them to the internet. You might feel hurt but if you love this girl as much as you say you do you will forgive her and move on. If you don't think you can forgive her them move on with your lives.


P.S I do think your girl is naive. We live in a digital age, never take a picture or film something you wouldn't want to share with the rest of the world. Buy a polaroid otherwise.

[AirTupac]

I backtracked your ip and found your history page. Found your girl's pics and jacked off so much to her. Thanks bro! :rockon:

[Crown&Coke]

she did some questionable things in your opinion in the past. It's bound to happen.

What you should be pissed about is her lying about sending nudies to people after you specifically asked her, imo anyway

If you say you love her, don't be dumb and throw it away over dumb shit

[Draz]

Alright. My best friend is here telling me the same thing. He said give it a few days without texting her until she admits she sent nudes out. From there deal with it.

[DeuceWallaces]

she did some questionable things in your opinion in the past. It's bound to happen.

What you should be pissed about is her lying about sending nudies to people after you specifically asked her, imo anyway

If you say you love her, don't be dumb and throw it away over dumb shit

Lol "the past." She has since upped her game and started filming pornos with the OP. If anything her behavior is getting worse; not better.

[niko]

I'm telling you, you're 21, there's a billion ****able females out there, do not spend time in relationships that are more work than fun. Not at that age. You're first big love is called your first because there's a second, third, etc.

[alenleomessi]

just let it go and in the meantime..

..jack off to the photos while picturing the alpha ex-boyfriend deflowering your girl with his 12 incher

[Pushxx]

If you are as close as you say, you should say every word of this to her.

Also...AirTupac's post :cheers: :rockon:

[Crown&Coke]

Maybe she lied because she knew draz would lose his shit and she wanted to protect him from shit that doesn't really matter

But it matters to him

How does Draz take anything she says seriously if that's the case? Both dudes and chicks use that same rationale daily. It's up to the individual accept that or say f that

I'm staying with she lied, **** her.

[Akrazotile]

Lastnight I stumbled upon a local website that exposes girls. Upon the first page I simply scrolled down and noticed someone posting if they had a picture of my girls name and they had posted a picture of her back in 2008-2010 to share it. The picture is very old, she must of been 15-16 at the time. She is 19 now. With the picture posted he detailed the thread saying he had plenty of pictures of her in his old email and knows there are more out there. Someone else replied that she had sent him pics a while ago but deleted it.

Now. I was on the phone with my girl during this encounter and my ENTIRE body got weak and my voice changed. She KNEW for a fact something was wrong. I called my mom downstairs and asked my mom if this is my girl, without even telling her the problem, I guess she knew though. She said it was a possibility it was her. I called her bestfriend up who I'm really cool with, and she confirmed. The picture was a regular picture of her holding up a sidekick 08.

I explained to my mom the situation and my mom said it's her past what can you do about it? That I'll be stupid to leave her over it. Keep in mind, my mom LOVES this girl, the first girl I truly brought home. She comes to my house EVERY DAY. We spend practically EVERY minute together. She's laying in my arms 100% of the time. I love this girl with every last breath.

I confronted her about it. I always confronted her about nude pictures. I asked her if she ever sent her ex nudes long before this. She always got mad and said never. Keep in mind, she sends me and we also make sex videos. I know for a fact they have pictures of her, maybe misplaced. But basically their trading to get a picture of her. The thread was posted a few days ago.

While confronting her I took precaution. I ended it with her.

I'm honestly venting here. I don't want to lose her.. I never loved a girl like I loved her. Her only excuse was she NEVER sent pics out and that picture was back from her Myspace. The way the two guys responded, I figured there MUST be pictures of her. She probably sent them a long time ago, which I cannot be upset about. And I don't blame her for lying about doing this in the past.

My question is, what would you do? I made 1 year 5 months with her. We are inseparable together every single minute, on the phone every minute. We eat, sleep, shit, with each other literally. Would you let her go? Have you came across a situation like this?

I'm literally down on my knees upset, saddened, and I know she doesn't want to back herself up that she never sent pics because we aren't talking and I sense she knows the pictures are out there waiting to be released any minute and doesn't want to let me down deep down inside.

I'm sorry. I shouldn't post my personal business but I just can't take this pain.. :cry: The pain is literally too much.. please refrain from troll posts.. I don't truly want to leave her but I can't take knowing she's done this, that and the idea that people can see her like this whenever they want... This girl is my happiness and I love her with all of my heart.. I just want this to end and I feel hopeless because I literally feel alive the moment I had met her, I feel like my life started when I met her. I was an entirely new person. She MADE me who I am today..


why do u have so many fake accounts bruh

[Dresta]

Do not understand why people make sex videos - there just seems no point to it. Do you guys chill out and put it on the big screen with some nacho chips or something?

[Crown&Coke]

Lol "the past." She has since upped her game and started filming pornos with the OP. If anything her behavior is getting worse; not better.

I will not dignify that with a response.

Any girl down to make some home mades is cool with me

[bdreason]

If she was under age when she took the pics, why are you worried? If those pics are posted on the internet, the guy risks going to jail. I would get in touch with the ex, and threaten to call the police on him. Doubt he posts any pics after that.

[HardwoodLegend]

Draz, it's time to change your Custom User Title. You're not handling this situation like a baoss. Way too sensitive and effeminate.

[gigantes]

everyone lies for a variety of reasons, especially to themselves. but also to their soulmate on occasion.

so you have a distorted view of reality, it happens to make you feel very very bad right now, and you

[methusala]

It's not like she sucked 37 *****, though.

Get over it.

[riseagainst]

just let it go and in the meantime..

..jack off to the photos while picturing the alpha ex-boyfriend deflowering your girl with his 12 incher

:lol
:roll:

[BRabbiT]

My question is, what would you do? I made 1 year 5 months with her. We are inseparable together every single minute, on the phone every minute. We eat, sleep, shit, with each other literally. Would you let her go? Have you came across a situation like this?



try to get past it, if she's a great girl otherwise.

[MavsSuperFan]

So you found out other people have seen your girlfriend naked (before you even met her) and dumped her despite being in love with her?

I dont think america is the right country for you bro. You wont be happy here with your expectations for women. Look into saudi arabia.

[Jailblazers7]

It's hard knowing she messed around with guys like this.

Stopped reading here to be honest. If that's the issue here, then you really need to just get over it.

[CeltsGarlic]

get over her dude. . i dont want you coming back next week on how you found her on pornhub.

[MavsSuperFan]

I'm sorry. I shouldn't post my personal business but I just can't take this pain.. The pain is literally too much.. please refrain from troll posts.. I don't truly want to leave her but I can't take knowing she's done this, that and the idea that people can see her like this whenever they want... This girl is my happiness and I love her with all of my heart.. I just want this to end and I feel hopeless because I literally feel alive the moment I had met her, I feel like my life started when I met her. I was an entirely new person. She MADE me who I am today..

Why is it so devastating to know that she had a sexual history before you? Did she lie to you and claim that she was a virgin?

Does the fact that she was with another person change who she is to you that much? How are you going to date as you get older?

[oh the horror]

I'd be more concerned with her saying she never did it and then you found out she actually did do it.

[9erempiree]

If a girl that young is sending nude pictures of herself to guys, who knows what kind of freaky things she was doing with them sexually.

I mean, she has already graduated to doing movies.

Can the OP live with the fact that she probably endured black men in her past or tried oral, **** or been with the entire football team?

[ace23]

So what she sent out some pics. Who gives a shit?

[niko]

like 5 percent of the population is fvkable
There's enough

[dr.hee]

Can the OP live with the fact that she probably endured black men in her past or tried oral, **** or been with the entire football team?

You shouldn't generalize. Just because you like that shit done to you doesn't mean all b*tches do.

[boozehound]

again, without a website name, this thread is useless. SMFH OP!

[9erempiree]

You shouldn't generalize. Just because you like that shit done to you doesn't mean all b*tches do.

Nobody is generalizing here. Just making an observation based off, her starting at an early age exploiting herself to sending nude pics and then progressing to another form, which is in videos.

I also covered the other aspect and that she was the "victim". The idea of her being tricked or pressured by a group of teens to take nude pics. If she was victimized then she would probably be tricked to perform sex acts too.

[Andrew Wiggins]

Took four responses for this to get posted. ISH I'm disappointed. Rufus as always, :applause:

it's disturbing that a guy in his late 30s/early 40s wants to see nudes of a 15 year old girl and you're here commending him for it :facepalm :wtf:

[CeltsGarlic]

the fact that op still hasnt posted pics is an insult to the ish.

[Cowboy Thunder]

I did not read the whole post because I am lazy but what is she doing on the picture? are they Vanessa Hudgens type of pictures or more like her fingering her self and stuff?

Vanessa Hudgens NSFW (http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m55e2qPl0C1rwfj7eo1_400.jpg)

Anyway you seem to love her this should not be such a big deal. Her past is her past.

Only quality post in this POS thread. weak shit OP

[ROCSteady]

Draz continues to solidify himself as a top poster on this site.

He needs to be knighted by one of the OGs....stat

[ROCSteady]

Yo other night I found out that this model chick I used to f uck upped her shame game and is now like a fetish model.

I was drinkin with my sis and bro in law and like my sistah brought it up and then like proceeded to show me a Facebook pic or sumthin (been abstinent of the Book for like 2 months now) of her in bondage and sum shit like what they did to people in Robin Hood times when ppl didn't pay their taxes. It was a pretty, sexy damaged attention whore I banged several times gettin straight Sheriff Nottingham'd.

I was all like, 'whoa.' I kno how u feel Drazzer. Modern technology exposure is evil

[RightToCensor]

4 pages and no pics :biggums:

[AirTupac]

it's disturbing that a guy in his late 30s/early 40s wants to see nudes of a 15 year old girl and you're here commending him for it :facepalm :wtf:

I dont think your ISH material then

:coleman:

[Draz]

The worst part about this. I stayed home from college today and missed a test. She was doing my math project for me and I was stupid enough to bring this to her attention. Now we aren't talking and this project is due Thursday. She was almost done too man.

Everyone's telling me including my mother to just knock it off, and let it go. Friends going as far as convincing me to drop it. She called one of my close friends last night and told him she never did those things. I just don't believe it.

I wouldn't mind her confronting me about this and telling me straight that she has, and lets see if we can move forward. Otherwise then that she's only digging a deeper whole. I said some dirty shit to her last night and this morning I posted a long nice comment on one of her photos, she never responded and I don't intend on her responding.

I just don't want to get caught up in this shit at a young age. I really don't. The only thing keeping me is what we have together. My best friend just came over for a few hours and had a talk with me. He said one of his best friends that formerly went to our high school, his girlfriend was a major pop. She slept with everyone. And guys would leave annoyn messages on his ask.fm saying they banged his girl, he would respond that he's madly in love and shit with her.

I can man up to this, but I just want HER to be the one to come to ME, and make this better. If she lied, I can accept that. It's in the past. Way back in the past. But, if she find the need to prolong this, I have nothing else to do than to move on and rid her. I don't want enemies, the less the better, of course I would end shit on mutual terms. It's her word against theirs.

She hasn't once hit me up, I initiated through a nice comment. I feel like she knows she did this, and it's coming back to haunt her because it can come out to the public.

I got so much stress on my hands with this math project. Tomorrow is her off day from school. I wouldn't mind having a mutual encounter with her and come to an agreement on some terms. I don't want someone lying to me point blank in the face. It's unacceptable.

[AirTupac]

You should check her emails, who knows if she did things like escorting or giving out massages with happy endings.

[Jameerthefear]

just nudes. girls get caught sending nudes at my school all the time. some are slutty and some are really really nice. hell, when i was in middle school some 12-13 yo girl send nudes and it got out and a lot of people saw the pic. i know her now and she is very nice.

[Dictator]

Dude let me let you know......


Girls are the biggest fckn liars on earth. These btches will lie until you literally have to slap the truth out of them. She's done for. Don't be suprised to find out later on that shes cheated on you.

Act like you forgive her, fck her one last time, then dump her.

[9erempiree]

The worst part about this. I stayed home from college today and missed a test. She was doing my math project for me and I was stupid enough to bring this to her attention. Now we aren't talking and this project is due Thursday. She was almost done too man.

Everyone's telling me including my mother to just knock it off, and let it go. Friends going as far as convincing me to drop it. She called one of my close friends last night and told him she never did those things. I just don't believe it.

I wouldn't mind her confronting me about this and telling me straight that she has, and lets see if we can move forward. Otherwise then that she's only digging a deeper whole. I said some dirty shit to her last night and this morning I posted a long nice comment on one of her photos, she never responded and I don't intend on her responding.

I just don't want to get caught up in this shit at a young age. I really don't. The only thing keeping me is what we have together. My best friend just came over for a few hours and had a talk with me. He said one of his best friends that formerly went to our high school, his girlfriend was a major pop. She slept with everyone. And guys would leave annoyn messages on his ask.fm saying they banged his girl, he would respond that he's madly in love and shit with her.

I can man up to this, but I just want HER to be the one to come to ME, and make this better. If she lied, I can accept that. It's in the past. Way back in the past. But, if she find the need to prolong this, I have nothing else to do than to move on and rid her. I don't want enemies, the less the better, of course I would end shit on mutual terms. It's her word against theirs.

She hasn't once hit me up, I initiated through a nice comment. I feel like she knows she did this, and it's coming back to haunt her because it can come out to the public.

I got so much stress on my hands with this math project. Tomorrow is her off day from school. I wouldn't mind having a mutual encounter with her and come to an agreement on some terms. I don't want someone lying to me point blank in the face. It's unacceptable.

I am a respected member on this site and being experienced, I can tell you did the right thing.

You confronted her. Made a nice message. She either owns up to it or that's it. There is no need to lie about it and if she's lying about it, then you can't trust her.

The ball is on her court now. If she doesn't want to make things better then you know she is not the one. There is nothing you can do at this point.

It is up to her.

Momma is always right but I think your girl is like a daughter to her and that can cloud her judgement.

[9erempiree]

Also, if she got mad because you brought up something she did years ago, it can also means that she is probably doing it currently too.

Or else, she could have simply said, "that was years ago and I regret doing that."

What do you really expect from this? You are guilty of putting your sex life with her on video too. You could be the same guy, years down the road, posting video of your ex. Look what she's doing with you and imagine what she was doing when she was experimenting with photos and sex.

[Draz]

Basically. The sad part is, my mother loves this girl so much she's willing to accept that if she did. My mom said that isn't any of my business. You know my mom is insanely in love with this girl when a mother can say that.

I initiated, I even just got to the extent that I called her to have a mutual understanding to help me with this math project. Her phone is taking me to voicemail. I guess God doesn't want me to call her first. I'm not begging anyone to explain to me valid reasons to believe them. But, she really hasn't attempted to give me an explanation to what that really is. My mother believes she's just in shock and doesn't know what to do.

[Draz]

Also, if she got mad because you brought up something she did years ago, it can also means that she is probably doing it currently too.

Or else, she could have simply said, "that was years ago and I regret doing that."

What do you really expect from this? You are guilty of putting your sex life with her on video too. You could be the same guy, years down the road, posting video of your ex. Look what she's doing with you and imagine what she was doing when she was experimenting with photos and sex.

Exactly. There's so much shit that has happened in this relationship that made me question her. This explains the trust issues I have with her. I just need to start fresh, honestly. If she did all of this with me, imagine what she's previously done.

I'm more upset that I lead this relationship long. It was supposed to be a hit and quit. I left a girl for three years who would of literally done anything for me for this girl. And this is what happens. Karma is real.

[9erempiree]

If a woman cares about a guy and fearing that they may lose him, then they will immediately give an explanation or make things right.

She obviously doesn't fear losing you or else she would have an explanation.

Like I said, don't contact her. Be the man.

[Draz]

Dude let me let you know......


Girls are the biggest fckn liars on earth. These btches will lie until you literally have to slap the truth out of them. She's done for. Don't be suprised to find out later on that shes cheated on you.

Act like you forgive her, fck her one last time, then dump her.

I know that. I've experienced this first hand with her. She went on a cruise and started talking to this guy behind my back. Basically caught her messaging him behind my back on her iPad with iMessage.

A little flirty as well. She lied so much to me.. I just don't think she deserves me and it DESTROYS me inside out knowing I went to the end of the world and back for her.. holy shit human beings are DISGUSTING to the people that treat them like Kings and Queens aren't they?

I'm just thankful for the responses on here that actually cared. I've read all, and I appreciate it. It helped me a lot. For the 4 years + I've been on here, I respect it. Thank you.

[9erempiree]

Exactly. There's so much shit that has happened in this relationship that made me question her. This explains the trust issues I have with her. I just need to start fresh, honestly. If she did all of this with me, imagine what she's previously done.

I'm more upset that I lead this relationship long. It was supposed to be a hit and quit. I left a girl for three years who would of literally done anything for me for this girl. And this is what happens. Karma is real.

Let it ride out. Just don't make assumptions.

I know I am assuming a lot of things but we are here to give you many perspectives for you to think about.

Whether it was innocent nude pics to extreme cases that I have mentioned in previous posts. Those are to be taken in context.

Don't ditch her just yet but see where it goes from here on out.....because if you guys were to break up....there will be a talk and some closure.

[Jameerthefear]

did u not read my post draz

[Draz]

If a woman cares about a guy and fearing that they may lose him, then they will immediately give an explanation or make things right.

She obviously doesn't fear losing you or else she would have an explanation.

Like I said, don't contact her. Be the man.

I will end it with this.

Last night after we had the argument, she can see who I'm on the phone with. The "Call Waiting" pops up letting her know I'm on the other line. She rung out my phone at least 7-15 times. She hit my friends up asking if I'm on the phone with them. Insecurity. When I finally answered, she was more busy yelling at the top of her lungs, literally, on who I was on the other end of the phone with .. I simply said, that's really what you're concerned about?

I guess God doesn't want me to be with her. Ever since we met, there were many things that showed me to leave. Many, many things. I shouldn't of prolonged it.

I feel like, I'm worthless because I've given someone my very all. And they turn around, and just really throw knives at my back when all I did was give them love and friendship. :mad:

[IamRAMBO24]

I'm assuming your girl is hot since so many guys want to see her naked, so the only advice I have for you is to start lowering your standards and date fat girls. Fat girls WON'T ever cheat because they know they can't. Don't worry about them sending out nudes because nobody wants to look at their fat a*s. I know you young bucks want the perfect pretty girl, but you have to look at it this way: all vags are the same. All you have to do is turn off the light and bend her over and you are all good; you just don't look at her in direct sunlight.

Trust me, this is full proof and you won't ever be heart broken again.

[9erempiree]

I know that. I've experienced this first hand with her. She went on a cruise and started talking to this guy behind my back. Basically caught her messaging him behind my back on her iPad with iMessage.

A little flirty as well. She lied so much to me.. I just don't think she deserves me and it DESTROYS me inside out knowing I went to the end of the world and back for her.. holy shit human beings are DISGUSTING to the people that treat them like Kings and Queens aren't they?

I'm just thankful for the responses on here that actually cared. I've read all, and I appreciate it. It helped me a lot. For the 4 years + I've been on here, I respect it. Thank you.

wow...didn't know she was messaging other dudes too.

That's another thing than just some pictures.

You got a lot of thinking to do and find out whether you can put up with all this nonsense and the paranoia that will come with this relationship.

You guys are young, you may just be some dude on her boyfriend list till she finds someone she is willing to have a family with.

[Draz]

@ Jameer

I read your post. I understand that. I'm not even getting into the entire "Which guys she sent pics too, what kind of pics, how many, random guys" type of shit. I'm just more into the idea that she has no explanation to it. She's just saying she didn't and that's it.

@Empire

I can't jump to conclusions. I do have to give her leverage because I did not see them. But, these people are known to get nudes out of people because they've proven so. The fact that her name and picture popped up in that website alone, just it shouldn't of happened makes me believe it.

[Overdrive]

I know that. I've experienced this first hand with her. She went on a cruise and started talking to this guy behind my back. Basically caught her messaging him behind my back on her iPad with iMessage.

A little flirty as well. She lied so much to me.. I just don't think she deserves me and it DESTROYS me inside out knowing I went to the end of the world and back for her.. holy shit human beings are DISGUSTING to the people that treat them like Kings and Queens aren't they?

If it smells fishy it's probably fish. Saying if she has a history of doing weird sex related stuff, texts other dudes you should not invest to much emotion into the relationship.

[CelticBaller]

I'm assuming your girl is hot since so many guys want to see her naked, so the only advice I have for you is to start lowering your standards and date fat girls. Fat girls WON'T ever cheat because they know they can't. Don't worry about them sending out nudes because nobody wants to look at their fat a*s. I know you young bucks want the perfect pretty girl, but you have to look at it this way: all vags are the same. All you have to do is turn off the light and bend her over and you are all good; you just don't look at her in direct sunlight.

Trust me, this is full proof and you won't ever be heart broken again.
:lol

[Dictator]

Dont forget though, you are asking her about an embarrassing situation she did years ago so its not as bad as you would think for her to deny it.

[Draz]

@ Empire

I've been through a lot with her. We both went on vacation. The first time we spent away from each other since we got together We were constantly always together, every day.. We were about 11 or 10 months in, I believe 11. I went to Florida, for one week. The very day I came back to NY, she left on a cruise the same day. For a week and a half.

During MY vacation, about the third day in. My ex gave her a call. She told her a lot of "bad" things about me, trying to break us up, at 3AM to 5:30AM. About three days into my vacation keep in mind. It's been HELL after that. She went on vacation and we didn't communicate much because on the cruise didn't have service for her to call, and she didn't purchase Wi-Fi. The little communication she seemed so much into talking to me..

I did not question her, who she met, what she was doing. The VERY last day she was coming back to NY, at the airport, I asked her, who did you meet and who were you with the entire time on the cruise. She told me she met new friends, two guys. I asked for their ages. I told her I didn't like the idea of her exchanging phone numbers, especially since she said they lived near her and I.

She was upset, we had an argument. I took my permit, passed it, we were still fighting and we didn't see each other up until after my permit, a few days after she came because she sprained her ankle while on vacation. She wasn't happy to see me. We went out, ate lunch, I had an amazing talk with her on how much I loved her face to face and kissed her. She had TEARS coming out of her ****ing face. I didn't know, I sensed she did something. A few months later, I found out she was iMessaging this guy around the same time she came back. He's telling her how much he liked her personality, etc. She had him under an Emoji with a smiley face and hearts. Wtf?

I called the guy up, I was VERY, VERY, mannered and polite. I explained to him my situation. Guy told me she didn't cheat on me, and that he loved how much she was into me and wish he had that in a girl. That he wasn't coming at her, etc. I believed him of course. I put this entire thing aside, I blamed it on myself. I said, maybe it was me, I caused this on myself.

I forgave her.

Look at where I am now? Pathetic.

@Dictator

I understood that. Which is why when I confronted her about this, if it is true, I said listen. "I'm not against you, I'm not mad at you, I'm sad for you. I'm here for you. If you need to call the cops, do it." I know for a fact a girl won't come out and say she's done nudes in the past to a guy like me in a relationship like ours. It's a recipe for disaster. Which is why, I'm finding literally, deep down in my heart the little love and care that I used to hold on to her with, to find it to still be with her if this is true.

[DeuceWallaces]

4 pages and no pics :biggums:

4 pages lol Jan 2014 :facepalm

[RightToCensor]

4 pages lol Jan 2014 :facepalm
I'm not sure whats funny other than that you posted on ISH 10000+ times

[IamRAMBO24]

Where's my response Draz?

[IamRAMBO24]

I'm not sure whats funny other than that you posted on ISH 10000+ times

You're not funny.

[9erempiree]

I'm not sure whats funny other than that you posted on ISH 10000+ times

:facepalm If you are going to argue at least know how to.

JAN 2104 = 785 post in a month times 12.....roughly 9420 post a year for you.

Where he's going on 8 years with 14,000 posts......about 1750 post a year.

I did the math.

[DeuceWallaces]

I'm not sure whats funny other than that you posted on ISH 10000+ times

Your 34 posts a day beg to differ.

[Draz]

Rambo, no amount of vag can make me happy compared to this girl bro. Trust me. It just doesn't satisfy me..

[RightToCensor]

I seem to have a bad rep to those three azns complaining to me.

[DeuceWallaces]

Rambo, no amount of vag can make me happy compared to this girl bro. Trust me. It just doesn't satisfy me..

Dude, you're just a kid. It's unlikely to work out long term anyway just because of your age (unless you're a hard christian or catholic); this is all the more reason to move on when she's passing out selfies and making videos with you.

[IamRAMBO24]

Rambo, no amount of vag can make me happy compared to this girl bro. Trust me. It just doesn't satisfy me..

Dude you're p*ssy whooped.

End thread* that;s the real problem. Snap out of it bro; no girl is worth this much attention.

[ace23]

The worst part about this. I stayed home from college today and missed a test. She was doing my math project for me and I was stupid enough to bring this to her attention. Now we aren't talking and this project is due Thursday. She was almost done too man.
Why would you stay home if you had a test today? :facepalm

And you had this bitch doing your homework for you? Lol.

[Draz]

I stayed home because it was crazy outside. That, and I knew I was going to fail my math test considering it wasn't multiple choice and not being done on computers but in a normal class. Couldn't cheat lol. Also, my stomach was just turned from this girl man.

You guys are right. I should just leave and not look back. She still hasn't called me, she's keeping her distance as if I'm wrong or something. She used to call me in times like this crying in the middle of the night that she can't lose me, etc. She didn't do that last night. And she isn't texting me nor is she calling me. I guess she really did send nude pics when she was younger.

I'll just get my education up, become more family orientated. My little sister needs more attention. That's the worst part about this entire story, my little sister gets jealous. She's 7, writing me letters saying I don't give her enough attention and that she feels as if she doesn't have an older brother. That's heart breaking. I need to be there for her and spend time with her.

This is a great oppertunity to open my ability to network with people considering she didn't allow me to do that, and just live a little bit of single life. I don't know what it's like to be single. Like I said, the moment I got out of a 3 year relationship with my ex, I had a 1 day window and got with this girl. Now I'm 1 year 5 months in.

I know she's done. She sent me a picture of the valentine day gift she made for me, it was a blanket with all of our pictures on it. She did everything she can to keep that away from my eye, and she exposed it to me the very night. I guess I'm single now.

[CavaliersFTW]

What the **** are you babbling and whining about like a little b itch OP grow the f u ck up . You're dating a teenager, teenagers do that shit. Even girls you will date in the future that are older, will have pasts like that, learn to deal wit it or never date again.

[TheGreatDeraj]

wtf are you kidding me? This better be a troll thread.

Unless she is sending nudes to other guys while you were together, then you are completely in the wrong.

Do you only date virgins or something? Who cares if someone else has seen your chick naked before you were together?

Yea, she lied to you about sending pis to others which would piss me off, but not enough t break up with a great girl. She may have just lied to you because she thought that's what you wanted to hear or was embarrassed about it.

Honestly, I cringed during your post, you're basically having a nervous breakdown and breaking up with someone you care about because she sent out some nude picture in her teens? Do you know how many chicks do that kinda crap?


I'm sorry. I shouldn't post my personal business but I just can't take this pain.. The pain is literally too much.. please refrain from troll posts.. I don't truly want to leave her but I can't take knowing she's done this, that and the idea that people can see her like this whenever they want... This girl is my happiness and I love her with all of my heart.. I just want this to end and I feel hopeless because I literally feel alive the moment I had met her, I feel like my life started when I met her. I was an entirely new person. She MADE me who I am today..


Not good bro have to be truly happy with yourself

[Derka]

All girls have several skeletons in their closet.

[GOBB]

Where is your dad or older brother?

[Draz]

wtf are you kidding me? This better be a troll thread.

Unless she is sending nudes to other guys while you were together, then you are completely in the wrong.

Do you only date virgins or something? Who cares if someone else has seen your chick naked before you were together?

Yea, she lied to you about sending pis to others which would piss me off, but not enough t break up with a great girl. She may have just lied to you because she thought that's what you wanted to hear or was embarrassed about it.

Honestly, I cringed during your post, you're basically having a nervous breakdown and breaking up with someone you care about because she sent out some nude picture in her teens? Do you know how many chicks do that kinda crap?



Not good bro have to be truly happy with yourself

Thank you. I honestly respect this post. I'm thankful for it. You're right as well. Everyone has a past. It's the idea that she is constantly lying to me baffles me. Then again no girl would admit that.

Right now, she's avoiding me and she isn't even trying to make things right. If she wants, I'm here. I'm waiting for the call, the message, something. From there on I'll see where it goes. If it doesn't work out then I guess it wasn't meant to be. There's more to this story in the previous posts that suggests my reason to behave the way I am.

[TheGreatDeraj]

Thank you. I honestly respect this post. I'm thankful for it. You're right as well. Everyone has a past. It's the idea that she is constantly lying to me baffles me. Then again no girl would admit that.

Right now, she's avoiding me and she isn't even trying to make things right. If she wants, I'm here. I'm waiting for the call, the message, something. From there on I'll see where it goes. If it doesn't work out then I guess it wasn't meant to be. There's more to this story in the previous posts that suggests my reason to behave the way I am.

Never mind, If she is constantly lying about everything, then you made the right move. Can't wife a girl that you can't trust.

Also, If she is constantly lying to you and doesn't even care that you break up with her, then there is probably someone else. Sorry

[GASOL IS GOAT]

Ish is probably the worst place to ask about relationship advice yet you guys keep doing it :facepalm

[Styles p]

These pics need to be posted in order for us to make an informed decision.
Ish i am disappoint, it took 4 posts for this.

[Draz]

My mother just told me she texted her. I said why, she asked her if she's coming over tomorrow. She told me, have you ever heard of giving someone a second chance.

My mom loves this girl too much .. I miss her a lot too .. I'm praying hard whatever decision I choose ends up being the right choice ..

[eriX]

My mother just told me she texted her. I said why, she asked her if she's coming over tomorrow. She told me, have you ever heard of giving someone a second chance.

My mom loves this girl too much .. I miss her a lot too .. I'm praying hard whatever decision I choose ends up being the right choice ..

you are making things too complicated... just go up to her face to face and ask her directly whether she have done those things and if she had, is there anything else you should know about. Straight up, no bullshit. Too many people try to ease the pain whilst going through these situations and not take the right actions. All you need to do is ask her those questions and if she chooses to answer then you can base your decision off those answers (obviously should look for whether or not she is lying, if you really want to know i can help with some body language stuff) and if she doesnt answer then you also know that she is not the one.

[Lamar Doom]

These pics need to be posted in order for us to make an informed decision.


Ish i am disappoint, it took 4 posts for this.


just so we're clear, you guys want him to post nudes of a 15 year old girl?

[Lamar Doom]

and to the point, OP, you're tripping, every girl you'll ever be with (save maybe your first girlfriend when you're 14 or whatever) is going to have done some shit that you probably don't want to know about. It's not a big deal. Seems like it is a big deal to you though so maybe you should just move on and try to avoid delving into future girlfriends' pasts. I know that you're weird for posting about it and you're clearly WAY over thinking it. Your family's (over) involvement in this is also f*cking weird. She's 19 years old dude, you're probably around the same, you've been with her for a year, cool the f*ck out.

[Jameerthefear]

just so we're clear, you guys want him to post nudes of a 15 year old girl?
I'm up for it.

[Black and White]

Leave her dude, focus on your sister, family first.

[CavaliersFTW]

Leave her dude, focus on your sister, family first.
http://wpmedia.o.canada.com/2013/05/5df78_orig-cringe.gif

[AirTupac]

Leave her dude, focus on your sister, family first.

:cletus:

[Jameerthefear]

Leave her dude, focus on your sister, family first.
http://i.imgur.com/QdvmVZ9.gif

[KingBeasley08]

C'mon man. You're acting insanely beta right now. #1 Rule: Never put a b*tch on a pedestal. If she's in the wrong, then she's wrong and stand by it. You cave and she'll hold you by the d*ck and you'll be her little slave. Either discuss this all out or move on or else she will continue to push how far she can go and continue to manipulate you.

You're alpha brah. Always remind yourself that. Letting some hoe walk over you is the first step to falling into Betasville

[Black and White]

http://i.imgur.com/QdvmVZ9.gif

You understood my little joke there right? :D

[JohnFreeman]

Well she obviously trusted this guy with nude photos and he was a d*ck for putting them online. Tell her about it so they can possibly be taken down and find out who did it.

[christian1923]

You and your girl shit together? :(

[oh the horror]

Did all of you fellas miss the post were he stated she is constantly lying to him?


That's the bigger issue here.

[christian1923]

Did all of you fellas miss the post were he stated she is constantly lying to him?


That's the bigger issue here.
"I hate that Women lie to me, so I lie to them back" weezy said it best. It's a cold game out here lol

[alenleomessi]

just so we're clear, you guys want him to post nudes of a 15 year old girl?
http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2sxaipAsE1r2xnwto1_500.gif
everybody abandon thread!

[Styles p]

just so we're clear, you guys want him to post nudes of a 15 year old girl?
Implying i even read his post.

[Le Shaqtus]

Girls send nude pictures of themselves to boyfriends all the time. I've gotten them from previous girlfriends, that doesn't make them bad people :confusedshrug:

I mean the difference is the dude was an asshole and posted them online, we live in a sexting age now :lol it's not like she cheated on you with the dude, plus she's 19 and people make dumb choices.

[Draz]

My boy is telling me she talked to him and she's upset that I would believe something like this. She's not budging. She's sticking to her guns. My friend is telling me it wouldn't matter if she did, especially if she did it was when she was young.

I can't see her. That's the thing. The snow and icy conditions make it impossible to see her. Tomorrow is her day off, I sent her a text. It's up to her.

[JohnFreeman]

just so we're clear, you guys want him to post nudes of a 15 year old girl?

http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f5/HangmenHeaven/Response%20Face/Hansen_blank_background.jpg

What is going on here?

[CelticBaller]

8 pages and no pics smh

i might have to search local queens sites for my ish brethren

[oh the horror]

My boy is telling me she talked to him and she's upset that I would believe something like this. She's not budging. She's sticking to her guns. My friend is telling me it wouldn't matter if she did, especially if she did it was when she was young.

I can't see her. That's the thing. The snow and icy conditions make it impossible to see her. Tomorrow is her day off, I sent her a text. It's up to her.



Believe something like what? That she even took photos at all?

[blablabla]

it's disturbing that a guy in his late 30s/early 40s wants to see nudes of a 15 year old girl and you're here commending him for it :facepalm :wtf:
it's the rules

[AirTupac]

To be fair, OP has posted many pictures of himself on a message board full of dudes. Inequality at its finest. If she wants to show her tits online, who the hell are you tell her otherwise? Just make sure next time that she posts on ISH because ISH #1.

[blablabla]

My boy is telling me she talked to him and she's upset that I would believe something like this. She's not budging. She's sticking to her guns. My friend is telling me it wouldn't matter if she did, especially if she did it was when she was young.

she probably bribed him with some nudes

[AirTupac]

she probably bribed him with some nudes

That shit is hotter than bitcoins these days.

[oh the horror]

Am I crazy or does this girl sound a little manipulative?

[AirTupac]

Am I crazy or does this girl sound a little manipulative?

Definitely something.

[CelticBaller]

Am I crazy or does this girl sound a little manipulative?
you're not, she makes him shit with her, bribes both the dude she cheated on draz with and his friends with nudes, and probably had sex with his mom to keep her at her side.

[code green]

I can get over the pictures, but not the lying. She's showing the ability to not only look you in the face and lie, but to turn it around on you like you're the asshole.

I'm not going to tell you whether or not you should stay or leave, because I have a feeling you already know what you're going to do. And I'm not faulting you for it, because first loves are a bitch. So my advice to you is this: If you do decide to stay with her, I think you should start doing things to better your personal life. Learn something new....meet new people....hit the gym if you don't already. Form an identity that isn't so heavily involved with your girlfriend. Being that dependent on someone else for your own happiness is a scary thing. People have done some crazy shit when that gets taken away from them. Maybe it's something everyone's gotta experience once to learn, but take my advice. If it goes bad, it makes the fall much easier. And if it works out (and I hope it does), you've still improved your life. Be your own man, and surround yourself with positivity. Confidence and true happiness with where you are in life can really clear up your perspective when faced with decision like this.

[TheGreatDeraj]

Did all of you fellas miss the post were he stated she is constantly lying to him?


That's the bigger issue here.

this.

Run as fast as you can young yella. Lying is a major red flag.

also: re read code greens post ^^^

[IamRAMBO24]

:applause:
I can get over the pictures, but not the lying. She's showing the ability to not only look you in the face and lie, but to turn it around on you like you're the asshole.

I'm not going to tell you whether or not you should stay or leave, because I have a feeling you already know what you're going to do. And I'm not faulting you for it, because first loves are a bitch. So my advice to you is this: If you do decide to stay with her, I think you should start doing things to better your personal life. Learn something new....meet new people....hit the gym if you don't already. Form an identity that isn't so heavily involved with your girlfriend. Being that dependent on someone else for your own happiness is a scary thing. People have done some crazy shit when that gets taken away from them. Maybe it's something everyone's gotta experience once to learn, but take my advice. If it goes bad, it makes the fall much easier. And if it works out (and I hope it does), you've still improved your life. Be your own man, and surround yourself with positivity. Confidence and true happiness with where you are in life can really clear up your perspective when faced with decision like this.

:applause:

[IamRAMBO24]

Did all of you fellas miss the post were he stated she is constantly lying to him?


That's the bigger issue here.

The bigger issue is why isn't he chasing some fat tail? That's what I don't get.

[oh the horror]

The fact that she's lying and now compaigning to his mother and friend with her version of events seems kind of ....funky to me.



Again, to the OP if she's constantly lying then I'd say tread lightly.

[Bandito]

Hum, I would not leave her because of that but I would confront her about it and tell her about the website. Then see what explanations she has.

[Draz]

She hasn't responded to my text yet. It's getting late and I'm about to hit the bed. I had the most amazing talk with my little sister for the first time in my life I just broke down crying, the both of us.. I told her how much I loved her and how much I regret pushing her aside. That no girl can ever replace her and that she is my heart.

If anything, after all of this, that meant the world to me .. I feel accomplished letting her know that I love her and I am her older brother. Thank you guys for your response.

[CelticBaller]

She hasn't responded to my text yet. It's getting late and I'm about to hit the bed. I had the most amazing talk with my little sister for the first time in my life I just broke down crying, the both of us.. I told her how much I loved her and how much I regret pushing her aside. That no girl can ever replace her and that she is my heart.

Dude, you're my nikka and everything but wow, this is soft af

[ace23]

Dude, you're my nikka and everything but wow, this is soft af
This.

Draz been falling off hard lately.

[Jameerthefear]

She hasn't responded to my text yet. It's getting late and I'm about to hit the bed. I had the most amazing talk with my little sister for the first time in my life I just broke down crying, the both of us.. I told her how much I loved her and how much I regret pushing her aside. That no girl can ever replace her and that she is my heart.

If anything, after all of this, that meant the world to me .. I feel accomplished letting her know that I love her and I am her older brother. Thank you guys for your response.
You should find more time for your sister then. Take her to an amusement park, buy her some dolls, family bathtime...

[JohnFreeman]

She hasn't responded to my text yet. It's getting late and I'm about to hit the bed. I had the most amazing talk with my little sister for the first time in my life I just broke down crying, the both of us.. I told her how much I loved her and how much I regret pushing her aside. That no girl can ever replace her and that she is my heart.

If anything, after all of this, that meant the world to me .. I feel accomplished letting her know that I love her and I am her older brother. Thank you guys for your response.
http://gifatron.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/RRnhhqW.gif

[niko]

You should find more time for your sister then. Take her to an amusement park, buy her some dolls, family bathtime...

:facepalm Jameer, am i going to have to smack you again?

[code green]

Sleep it off, homie.

[highwhey]

I can get over the pictures, but not the lying. She's showing the ability to not only look you in the face and lie, but to turn it around on you like you're the asshole.

I'm not going to tell you whether or not you should stay or leave, because I have a feeling you already know what you're going to do. And I'm not faulting you for it, because first loves are a bitch. So my advice to you is this: If you do decide to stay with her, I think you should start doing things to better your personal life. Learn something new....meet new people....hit the gym if you don't already. Form an identity that isn't so heavily involved with your girlfriend. Being that dependent on someone else for your own happiness is a scary thing. People have done some crazy shit when that gets taken away from them. Maybe it's something everyone's gotta experience once to learn, but take my advice. If it goes bad, it makes the fall much easier. And if it works out (and I hope it does), you've still improved your life. Be your own man, and surround yourself with positivity. Confidence and true happiness with where you are in life can really clear up your perspective when faced with decision like this.
best post in this thread.

Draz: my man, we are the same age but honestly I think you should listen to what code green said about forming your own identity and meeting new people. My best friend was in a similar relationship, thought his world revolved around his girl until she broke up with him.the guy was shattered but managed to move on, and believe me, being with that girl blinded him because she was a huge B1tch. Don't settle for a girl that deceived you. That's one red flag that you cannot ignore, it will bite you in the ass later on if you don't get away from her.

[Jameerthefear]

:facepalm Jameer, am i going to have to smack you again?
Just some helpful suggestions!

[KingBeasley08]

Dude, you're my nikka and everything but wow, this is soft af
This. I think dude has dropped to beta. Sad what putting hoes on pedestal does to a man.

Jameer, let this be a lesson to you. Put yourself before any b!tch. You can't trust her, than you can't. Don't let a hoe manipulate you

[chosen_one6]

If she'll lie to you about something as small as sending out nudes, that means she'll lie to you about anything. Drop her homie because eventually she's going to think she can get away with lying about small stuff. Then she'll think she can get away with anything. And you know what that leads to...

[9erempiree]

She hasn't responded to my text yet. It's getting late and I'm about to hit the bed. I had the most amazing talk with my little sister for the first time in my life I just broke down crying, the both of us.. I told her how much I loved her and how much I regret pushing her aside. That no girl can ever replace her and that she is my heart.

If anything, after all of this, that meant the world to me .. I feel accomplished letting her know that I love her and I am her older brother. Thank you guys for your response.

SNAP OUT OF IT! She only 7.

I recommend watching some Clint Eastwood and Schwarzenegger movies.

First step of recovery is to get your manhood back. Every year a man is with a woman, he loses his manhood. You need to get that back.

We get judged when we are at our worst. You crying with your 7 year old sister is not helping your recovery.

[Jameerthefear]

This. I think dude has dropped to beta. Sad what putting hoes on pedestal does to a man.

Jameer, let this be a lesson to you. Put yourself before any b!tch. You can't trust her, than you can't. Don't let a hoe manipulate you
You guys are too mean to girls.

[9erempiree]

You guys are too mean to girls.

You are young and haven't been hurt by a woman.

Nobody is saying treat them like crap but to find that balance. Just like people shouldn't spoil their kids. This is the same way in a relationship. One side should not give more love than the other.

Treat the ladies like a man, the only time you should get with a girl

[JohnFreeman]

This. I think dude has dropped to beta. Sad what putting hoes on pedestal does to a man.

Jameer, let this be a lesson to you. Put yourself before any b!tch. You can't trust her, than you can't. Don't let a hoe manipulate you

He is beta. Next stop omega

[chosen_one6]

You guys are too mean to girls.

Bruh, when you do the nice guy routine women take advantage of you and WILL stomp your heart out.

Just wait until that one girl comes along that does it to you, and your outlook on women will change. You won't be so sweet anymore and they'll be all over your nuts. Trust me, I've been there before. You get way more puss when you act like a man and not a puppy love boy.

[KingBeasley08]

You are young and haven't been hurt by a woman.

Nobody is saying treat them like crap but to find that balance. Just like people shouldn't spoil their kids. This is the same way in a relationship. One side should not give more love than the other.

Treat the ladies like a man, the only time you should get with a girl
This. I'm not saying beat your woman or feel that she's inferior. But your needs and your wants should be your ultimate goal. Treat her like an equal, not like a God. That leads to them getting cocky and manipulating you into doing whatever they want. A girl should always be a secondary goal for a man. He should first and foremost look after himself.

[CelticBaller]

You guys are too mean to girls.
There's a reason why we're men and you're a kid

We're looking out for you, we don't want you to end up being beta

[b1imtf]

Good luck bro. Make the right decision :cheers:

[AllenIverson3]

who effing cares..... is she cheating on you? no... why should u care. plus it was a long time ago.... you sound like bitch right now.

[ILLsmak]

Lastnight I stumbled upon a local website that exposes girls. Upon the first page I simply scrolled down and noticed someone posting if they had a picture of my girls name and they had posted a picture of her back in 2008-2010 to share it. The picture is very old, she must of been 15-16 at the time. She is 19 now. With the picture posted he detailed the thread saying he had plenty of pictures of her in his old email and knows there are more out there. Someone else replied that she had sent him pics a while ago but deleted it.

Now. I was on the phone with my girl during this encounter and my ENTIRE body got weak and my voice changed. She KNEW for a fact something was wrong. I called my mom downstairs and asked my mom if this is my girl, without even telling her the problem, I guess she knew though. She said it was a possibility it was her. I called her bestfriend up who I'm really cool with, and she confirmed. The picture was a regular picture of her holding up a sidekick 08.

I explained to my mom the situation and my mom said it's her past what can you do about it? That I'll be stupid to leave her over it. Keep in mind, my mom LOVES this girl, the first girl I truly brought home. She comes to my house EVERY DAY. We spend practically EVERY minute together. She's laying in my arms 100% of the time. I love this girl with every last breath.

I confronted her about it. I always confronted her about nude pictures. I asked her if she ever sent her ex nudes long before this. She always got mad and said never. Keep in mind, she sends me and we also make sex videos. I know for a fact they have pictures of her, maybe misplaced. But basically their trading to get a picture of her. The thread was posted a few days ago.

While confronting her I took precaution. I ended it with her.

I'm honestly venting here. I don't want to lose her.. I never loved a girl like I loved her. Her only excuse was she NEVER sent pics out and that picture was back from her Myspace. The way the two guys responded, I figured there MUST be pictures of her. She probably sent them a long time ago, which I cannot be upset about. And I don't blame her for lying about doing this in the past.

My question is, what would you do? I made 1 year 5 months with her. We are inseparable together every single minute, on the phone every minute. We eat, sleep, shit, with each other literally. Would you let her go? Have you came across a situation like this?

I'm literally down on my knees upset, saddened, and I know she doesn't want to back herself up that she never sent pics because we aren't talking and I sense she knows the pictures are out there waiting to be released any minute and doesn't want to let me down deep down inside.

I'm sorry. I shouldn't post my personal business but I just can't take this pain.. :cry: The pain is literally too much.. please refrain from troll posts.. I don't truly want to leave her but I can't take knowing she's done this, that and the idea that people can see her like this whenever they want... This girl is my happiness and I love her with all of my heart.. I just want this to end and I feel hopeless because I literally feel alive the moment I had met her, I feel like my life started when I met her. I was an entirely new person. She MADE me who I am today..

epic moment in life... "MOM... (points to porn site) is that my girlfriend?"

-Smak

[dude77]

sending pix .. that's nothing .. op you're acting like a fggt

[dude77]

Did all of you fellas miss the post were he stated she is constantly lying to him?





ok this is a different story .. pattern of lying to your face .. very bad .. that's what you should be concerned about .. not some pictures

[MadeFromDust]

your new break up song...
"say something i'm giving up on you" :cry:

[code green]

your new break up song...
"say something i'm giving up on you" :cry:


I don't know who could possibly enjoy listening to that. I can't think of another song that leaves me with such a shitty feeling, including the Immortal Technique song where the guy rapes his own mother and then commits suicide.:oldlol:

[MMM]

tell her you are reporting the site and the guys with the under age pics of her to the police. I would like to see her reaction to that, i think it would force her to come clean.

[rip2]

didn't read through the whole thread.. but you said she's sending you nudes now too and you guys have sex tapes. So.. you're simply mad because she did the exact same thing with an EX? :lol

So it's pretty much like.. being mad at her for having sex with her ex, although you guys are having sex now?

Come on. Grow up. Everyone has a past. Plus those pics are underage so they won't go viral. Thus, who gives a damn.

I'd say it'll be good for you to let her go. Otherwise she will suffer more in your hands in the future..

and what's with the mother thing.. :biggums:

[9erempiree]

For those that didn't read the entire thread......

It went from sending naked pics to people in the past.......to being a habitual liar towards the OP.

So, this problem basically opened up another can of worms that is far greater than some naked pics and she is even lying about the pics.

She should have just fessed up and say, "Yes, that was me and I regret doing it" but since she takes videos with the OP, then this is a behavior that she never regretted. She is one of those freaky types who lie.

Do you guys see a pattern of behavior here?

Skeletons in the closet is not something to take lightly. One can always look at the past and form a person's pattern of behavior. It's one thing doing all this freaky stuff and getting it out of her system but she has a span of 4 years where she took naked pics and sending them to people to taping sex tapes with the OP.

There is a reason why she is shook and not calling the OP. Probably upset that she got exposed and knowing that she made a 2nd mistake with the sex tape.

OP should clear himself and start with a clean slate, I would do her a favor and erase those sex tapes just so she knows it's not out there. Therefore, you are not responsible for anything that may harm her or get accused of. This does not mean you should take her back but let it ride and see what her next move is.

Don't cry about it. Put on an Arnold movie and get your manhood back.

[Angel Face]

To be fair OP, you should send out your own nude photos to her boys.

[Draz]

I'm in the phone with her right now, she called me. She's swearing up and down and putting a show that she never sent pics to anyone and these guys just want to see if anyone had of her. She told me I would have to know if this is true, and I have her the ok to tell me if she did because we need to handle the manner. These are underage girls being "exposed" ages 14+ and it's truly disgusting.


She said the picture was a very old picture off of her myspace and the guy practically took it off of there. We're going to meet in person in a few hours and put it away. If I ever find out there were and she went as far as lying in my face then it's a huge issue after that I'll take action.

[MMM]

I'm in the phone with her right now, she called me. She's swearing up and down and putting a show that she never sent pics to anyone and these guys just want to see if anyone had of her. She told me I would have to know if this is true, and I have her the ok to tell me if she did because we need to handle the manner. These are underage girls being "exposed" ages 14+ and it's truly disgusting.


She said the picture was a very old picture off of her myspace and the guy practically took it off of there. We're going to meet in person in a few hours and put it away. If I ever find out there were and she went as far as lying in my face then it's a huge issue after that I'll take action.

Forgive my ignorance, i'm like an old man when it comes to these certain things. She's claiming she had nudes on Myspace and someone hacked into her account and got her nude pics???

[dunksby]

I have to see the pics to judge properly. And help me here, is Draz the same guy who posted pics of his fiance and got mauled by the OTC so much that he had a meltdown and left?

[Draz]

Forgive my ignorance, i'm like an old man when it comes to these certain things. She's claiming she had nudes on Myspace and someone hacked into her account and got her nude pics???
The picture the person used was from her MySpace it wasn't a nude but it was fairly old 2007-2008. To get the attention of people that he once had pictures and knew they were out there and for people to share if they had. Someone else hyped it up as well saying he once had but deleted. Lot of conspiracy.

She's giving me her 100% she never sent these pics. And it's some random person with no life. If they knew her personally they would of used a recent picture not something so long ago. I warned her when I see her in an hour or so to come face to face and look me on the face and if I find out she's lying there's nothing more I can do but walk away. But, that I'm not going to walk away if she tells the truth even if she did and I'm willing to go through it with her and all of the right procedures necessary to help. If I find out she's lying then there's nothing I can do.

She's saying if there was pictures it would of been posted a long time ago. I'm working in it though.

[Draz]

I have to see the pics to judge properly. And help me here, is Draz the same guy who posted pics of his fiance and got mauled by the OTC so much that he had a meltdown and left?
@ dunksby

No that's not me.

[East_Stone_Ya]

Bruh, when you do the nice guy routine women take advantage of you and WILL stomp your heart out.

Just wait until that one girl comes along that does it to you, and your outlook on women will change. You won't be so sweet anymore and they'll be all over your nuts. Trust me, I've been there before. You get way more puss when you act like a man and not a puppy love boy.


http://www.quickmeme.com/img/34/343de795dddb951ab89d8e9849457e6b0fa990b932c164f64d d4cec827d87f34.jpg

[LJJ]

I have to see the pics to judge properly. And help me here, is Draz the same guy who posted pics of his fiance and got mauled by the OTC so much that he had a meltdown and left?

Nah, that's Raz/Cedric. He'll surface sooner or later.

[ROCSteady]

I know that. I've experienced this first hand with her. She went on a cruise and started talking to this guy behind my back. Basically caught her messaging him behind my back on her iPad with iMessage.

A little flirty as well. She lied so much to me.. I just don't think she deserves me and it DESTROYS me inside out knowing I went to the end of the world and back for her.. holy shit human beings are DISGUSTING to the people that treat them like Kings and Queens aren't they?

I'm just thankful for the responses on here that actually cared. I've read all, and I appreciate it. It helped me a lot. For the 4 years + I've been on here, I respect it. Thank you.

we luv u dude. You're like OTC's little brother, the one that isn't annoying and we want you to prosper and be happy. Case in point, all the outpouring of advice and comfort for your well being. Hope it works out my man, thing u gotta remember is the awful truth is nothing really lasts in this world except the will and desire to adapt, move on and improve. Even that is only found in select special kind of people. I don't kno u in RL but u seem like that kind of guy from your posts. Good luck hermano :cheers:

[dunksby]

@ dunksby

No that's not me.
You are cool then and seriously who cares if she sent out nudies when she was a stupid teen? Even if she has lied to you about it just means she doesn't want to lose you.

Nah, that's Raz/Cedric. He'll surface sooner or later.
Hope he does, OTC needs more controversy.

[9erempiree]

Forgive my ignorance, i'm like an old man when it comes to these certain things. She's claiming she had nudes on Myspace and someone hacked into her account and got her nude pics???

I'm a little confused as well. The OP said nudes. He showed these pics to mom and friend and they confirmed.

Now she's saying they are not nudes?

Something doesn't add up here.

[Draz]

I meant a normal picture was taken from her MySpace @ Empire

And yeah. She's here right now. I'll post more details later.

[Guy Dudebro]

Did somebody say pics?

I need a link to these pics or this thread is a massive waste.

boo-fvckin hoo, your ho is a ho. Man up princess and go fvck someone else.

[imdaman99]

You're young my dude. I know everyone says that, but there's lots out there. I am kinda like you, I know for a fact I'd be pissed as fck if I found out someone I was in love with did something like that in the past.

What I think you should do is just give it time. I know Valentines Day is around the corner but if you have to be single during it than so be it. Just know that she is not gonna be out hooking up with another dude though, because I assume she ain't like that. I think the fact that you're young and still have a lot to learn should factor in this. Take a break from the relationship. Don't become spiteful either, just know that she was not with you when she sent those pics.

I remember how my ex would ask me all these personal things about what I had done with previous girls, and I was brutally honest. She was upset but I said what the hell does anything I have done with previous girls have anything to do with you? She got over them. What ticked me off was the fact that she didn't fully tell me the truth. I found out over time the fact that she was hiding so much shit, that would have probably stung me for a minute but I'd get over it. Women lie, or hide shit better.

When women ask us about our past, we're usually honest. If we ever ask them about theirs, they lie. Believe that. Unless they are older and come straight up with their NO BS attitude. It's so true about the whole question you ask men how many women they have been with and divide that answer by 3-4 to get the real number, ask a woman the same and multiply that by 3-4 to get that :roll:

Tough times dude, let us know. Us ISHers be here for you yo *grouphug*

[KDTrey5]

niggeh we got a hoe in our hands

[Jackass18]

You seem to have overreacted, and people tend to avoid people if they know they're going to overreact to a situation. They'll give you time to blow off steam and then reengage when you've cooled down. Or, she's embarrassed by the situation and doesn't want to deal with it right now. Well, seeing your last post, seems like the time arrived for her. She could be in total denial-mode, in which case you could try and call her bluff to see how she reacts.

Have you even seen the pics yet? Maybe they don't actually exist and she's telling the truth (in which case you're ****ed). She's got you by the balls.

[Draz]

I haven't seen the pics yet. The reason this is a main discussion without pics is because the person who posted is genuine in terms of exposing girls. He's posted a few pics of younger girls and is the second most active person in the site. She looked me in the eyes and swore up and down on everything that there are no pictures.

I'll take her word for it and see where this goes. I warned her lying to me is worst than those pics being released.

[Draz]

This thread actually went many pages with discussion. I'm impressed my ish brotherins.

[Jackass18]

Why did you decide to check out that website? You make it seem like you just stumbled across that website and it just happened to have someone talking about your gf on there. Did you google 'nude pics [then your girlfriend's name]' or something?

It seems a bit odd that the 2 people who claim to have seen the pictures no longer have them. That sounds a bit suspicious, but why are they posting a pic of your gf in the first place?

[Draz]

@ jackass

That's exactly what's she's upset about right now. That I went on there especially when I had a lot of math homework to do. She's giving me an attitude and spazzed out on me a few minutes ago. I didn't search her up or anything. I seen it on my news feed and decided to look on this site to see if I actually knew anyone there.

[DeuceWallaces]

@ jackass

That's exactly what's she's upset about right now. That I went on there especially when I had a lot of math homework to do. She's giving me an attitude and spazzed out on me a few minutes ago. I didn't search her up or anything. I seen it on my news feed and decided to look on this site to see if I actually knew anyone there.

Man, your posts are borderline embarrassing. Ultimately, it sounds like you just need to grow up. Please tell me you're 17?

[Stempel, HERB]

Man, your posts are borderline embarrassing. Ultimately, it sounds like you just need to grow up. Please tell me you're 17?

:applause: Draz doesn't know shit until he's been engaged for seven amazing years!

[Draz]

Man, your posts are borderline embarrassing. Ultimately, it sounds like you just need to grow up. Please tell me you're 17?
You didn't read the thread carefully. I don't care much about her actions in the past if she did. I care that she is constantly ruining my trust and sabotaging it. It's simple, leave and move on. Do better. Be better. But because she's my first love, the one girl I'd bend over backwards for it means a great amount.


The thread was more based on what would you do, if you were in a similar situation and if most of us here are adults and have faced them numerous times on several different occasions.

[blablabla]

So now your girl is mad at you because you confronted her about her nudes

[rip2]

You didn't read the thread carefully. I don't care much about her actions in the past if she did. I care that she is constantly ruining my trust and sabotaging it. It's simple, leave and move on. Do better. Be better. But because she's my first love, the one girl I'd bend over backwards for it means a great amount.


The thread was more based on what would you do, if you were in a similar situation and if most of us here are adults and have faced them numerous times on several different occasions.
I've read the last 2 pages now and he's right, it's embarrassing to hear another dude talk this way and you're coming off as a very insecure teenager. And you mentioned math homework which made even more sense to me now.

Look, calm the f down. You don't even have any proof and you're acting like her nudes are floating around.

You want to know what an adult would do? They would not confront in such a manner when they don't even have any proof. You basically went in her face with so much suspicion, like you already expected she was lying. That's not trust at all. You didn't believe her before seeing the pics or even hearing her out.

Now, if the pics did show up and she did lie? Then dump her. That's simple enough, isn't it? Why all the dilemma? Don't accuse her if you dont have proof. Be more mature. When you got solid proof, then do what you want.

edit: the reason why you were on that pedophile site is also suspect.

[Draz]

I've read the last 2 pages now and he's right, it's embarrassing to hear another dude talk this way and you're coming off as a very insecure teenager. And you mentioned math homework which made even more sense to me now.

Look, calm the f down. You don't even have any proof and you're acting like her nudes are floating around.

You want to know what an adult would do? They would not confront in such a manner when they don't even have any proof. You basically went in her face with so much suspicion, like you already expected she was lying. That's not trust at all. You didn't believe her before seeing the pics or even hearing her out.

Now, if the pics did show up and she did lie? Then dump her. That's simple enough, isn't it? Why all the dilemma? Don't accuse her if you dont have proof. Be more mature. When you got solid proof, then do what you want.

edit: the reason why you were on that pedophile site is also suspect.

Great response. Unbelievable, the truth is hard and cold. You hit the nail on it. I'll definitely react different to this.

[Draz]

The site isn't to land pedophiles. It was to expose females. And of course, just like Facebook pages the age of the females are questionable.

[CelticBaller]

The site isn't to land pedophiles. It was to expose females. And of course, just like Facebook pages the age of the females are questionable.
doesn't matter, if she is underaged in those pictures then it's illegal

[rip2]

Great response. Unbelievable, the truth is hard and cold. You hit the nail on it. I'll definitely react different to this.
Good for you for at least having a leveled head to hear me out. I'm just saying, you were obviously emotional from finding out, but you gotta hold yourself together. Confronting her and telling her she better not be lying to you is not the mature and adult thing to do.

Simply stand on her side first. Ask her calmly about it. If you said you're ok with her past actions, then so far there shouldn't be any reason for you to be angry right? Ask yourself why you're angered even though you don't care about her past actions? You shouldn't be. Instead, ask her if it happened, and if she needed your help to eliminate those pics. If she said no, and that there are no such pics. Then trust her and move on. You're supposed to be on her side. Not against her - even if her old photos did surfaced.

Now, if you found out later she was lying? Then that's up to you what you want to do. Each man would make their own decisions on what to do. ISH can then tell you what they would do. But for now, calm down, trust her, and look for actual proof if you want to dig to the end of it.

[KrispyKreme0]

I remember the days I sent out nudes. Was getting replies left and right. Thinking about doing it again! Yay or nay guys?

[niko]

You're 21 with drama. You think this will get better over time?

[oh the horror]

You're 21 with drama. You think this will get better over time?


It can get better. When he doesn't allow it.

One of the hardest lessons to learn as one ages is most drama is self inflicted. I'm still confused as to the details of this story.

Her pic is on a random page from a "random" guy as stating he has nudes of her? Hmmm


I like how she's mad at him now.

[ImKobe]

Marry her.

[DeuceWallaces]

You didn't read the thread carefully. I don't care much about her actions in the past if she did. I care that she is constantly ruining my trust and sabotaging it. It's simple, leave and move on. Do better. Be better. But because she's my first love, the one girl I'd bend over backwards for it means a great amount.


The thread was more based on what would you do, if you were in a similar situation and if most of us here are adults and have faced them numerous times on several different occasions.

I read it all too carefully. You're a little kid going on and on about your mom, the love of your life (lol you're a kid), homework, etc. You sound like a god damn ABC Family Drama for teenagers.

For whatever reason you're incredulous that the girl you currently film homemade porno's with might of had the audacity to send nude pics to a previous boyfriend that have since turned up on the internet (child porn hello?). This is somehow earth shattering lol. Wake up and grow up man. Despite what you think none of this shit will matter when you're an adult.

[DeuceWallaces]

:applause: Draz doesn't know shit until he's been engaged for seven amazing years!

Only 2.

[The_Yearning]

Now. I was on the phone with my girl during this encounter and my ENTIRE body got weak and my voice changed. She KNEW for a fact something was wrong. I called my mom downstairs and asked my mom if this is my girl, without even telling her the problem, I guess she knew though. She said it was a possibility it was her. I called her bestfriend up who I'm really cool with, and she confirmed. The picture was a regular picture of her holding up a sidekick 08.

Why would you show your mom naked pics of your girl? How would she know? I think you're a little too close to your mom to be quite frank, and hence, letting other women walk all over you.

[DeuceWallaces]

Why would you show your mom naked pics of your girl? How would she know? I think you a little too close to your mom to be quite frank, and hence, letting other women walk all over you.

Yeah, to me that was the funniest part. "Oh shit, nudes of my underage girlfriend; hey MOOOMMMM!"

[The_Yearning]

Yeah, to me that was the funniest part. "Oh shit, nudes of my underage girlfriend; hey MOOOMMMM!"

Seriously, I was like wtf? OP and the mother is obviously the problem here. The girl is just a victim from what I'm gathering.

[oh the horror]

Why would you show your mom naked pics of your girl? How would she know? I think you're a little too close to your mom to be quite frank, and hence, letting other women walk all over you.


What I think happened is the initial pics weren't nude but pics of said girl stating (from the poster of the pic of her) that he has nudes of her.

[Take Your Lumps]

I'm honestly not upset she lied to me about sending nudes to other guys or a guy she trusted back when she was younger.

I'm upset that this in general is happening to me. I don't deserve it.

I've went out of my way to love this girl unconditionally since the day I met her. I've given her everything a guy can give a female. I fought for her love..

Cringe.

[niko]

You're a kid dating another kid wasting time being unhappy about stupid shit. Which people do in life at times for far too long. I had this on again, off again thing with a girl for a few years and finally one day i said **** it, i don't want to deal with it. There must be something else. And there was.

Did you **** this other person? Did you send naked picks? Who has them? Are you mad at me now?

Why deal with that when you are young and the next girl is aroudn the corner?

[Dictator]

Wait a minute OP, you haven't seen the nudes? Please tell me you did because if not you might just be biggest idiot ever.

[dunksby]

What me and Draz got is too special to be ruined over some alleged dick pics
:oldlol: Best post yet.

[Jameerthefear]

so uhh. anyone got a link to this site.......

[rip2]

Wait a minute OP, you haven't seen the nudes? Please tell me you did because if not you might just be biggest idiot ever.
He hasnt. Which is why, if ppl read through the thread, they can see him overreacting to simply rumors.

He didnt show his mom her nudes, he showed her a normal photo from few years back, then started thinking she lied and her nudes are out there.

Last few replies are right on the money. Sometimes you brought the drama to yourself, not the women.

[Draz]

I did not see the nudes of her. She looked me in the eyes today and swore up and down that she did not and that there aren't any. That people are just trying to get it out and see if people had of her. As well as ruining her reputation being thrown in there.

I did my thing. I warned her that I can careless about the pictures because of the amount of love and what we have together. That lying to me while looking me dead in the face will have me leaving and not supporting her if and when pics are found of her. We had a mutual agreement and put it away.

She spent the entire day with me on her day off from college, went to school with me and came back. I feel like myself again that this is put aside and dealt with but I can never be too sure. Right now I'll take her word for it. If she ever gets exposed that'll be the last time she looks me in the face and lie, considering she had a few amount of times already.

My entire day changed with this fixed and I feel great. Until that day comes where this lie of hers come back and haunts her and us because the pics come out, I will drop her on her face and I will personally expose her myself.

[oh the horror]

You're putting way way too much stock into someone else for your personal happiness dude.

[Draz]

You're putting way way too much stock into someone else for your personal happiness dude.
Tell me about it. You have no God dam clue. You can only see this is just 1% of what I'm going through to be with this girl. It's like we weren't supposed to last or something but we make a good relationship. I'm sacrificing personal happiness because I love being with her and she too does make me happy but the pain that comes being with her is just unbearable.

[Draz]

@ Niko

I read all of your responses and I understand exactly where you are coming from. Your entirely right about moving on and finding people that wouldn't put you through this. Especially at this age. The thing is I'm stumped. I'm very selective in who I pick and what Ilike in them. The qualities. The personality. The amount of joy I have with them.

This one girl, takes away all of my pride and c0ckyness. She removes it. No matter how much girls I get, this girl has me coming back for her. It's like an addiction you know? It' harder than it seems to up and go because of the memories we have together sand experiences. I've been with a girl for three years before her and I moved on within the next day. Never looked back. But this girl makes me a mess.

[eriX]

please don't turn out to be like this

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[Is He Ill]

^
:roll:

[Draz]

Im Done Lmfaoooooo

Close This Thread Now.

[imdaman99]

All that drama over something that never happened??? Holy shit :facepalm

That's a healthy relationship, pre-emptive threats about what you're gonna do when you find out she lied to you :hammerhead:

[rip2]

please don't turn out to be like this

https://fbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn2/t1/1620663_1608264459221452_1667562591_n.jpg
:lol :roll: :roll: :roll:

[ROCSteady]

Man, your posts are borderline embarrassing. Ultimately, it sounds like you just need to grow up. Please tell me you're 17?

Man let the dude fret over his first love. Big man of you to come through and chastise someone almost ten years your junior about a girl he loves. So what if his situation is a little emo to some of the older guys.

He made a thread for some insight/advice/feedback from a board he trusts and respects. Guess what? He's gotten plenty good advice and support. Posters obv care enough where not all the responses are like your inane pointless bullshit.

It sounds like YOU need to mind your business and post in threads where u actually have anything of value to add, w your wack ass weak skills with women.

Hilarious that unhappy, insufferable people like you need to come into threads for no reason other than to give a young dude gettin steady ass the old man treatment. GTFO here you Scandinavian vampire

[ROCSteady]

please don't turn out to be like this

https://fbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn2/t1/1620663_1608264459221452_1667562591_n.jpg

:lol

That shit killed a small part of my soul :wtf:

Draz u ever pull some shit like that on the Fbook, I'll come to Queens and fck u up so bad not even the cons in jail will wanna fck you

[code green]

FB post is obviously a joke

You'd be surprised. :oldlol:

[highwhey]

Draz needs an ish homie to take him out for a beer.

Coming in 2014: highwhey visits queens

[LockoutOver11]

this made me realize its not crazy to having been thinking what if my girl got some nuddies in the web from other ****** recently... she's sends a lot to me because i ask... i dunno how i would feel about that...

i mean i got mad nude pics from other bitches but they just stored into one folder on my laptop, i would never put that shit on display to web... and i could care less about any of them... but i would rather delete them then post them up to the web....

anyways main thing... man i hope my girl got nothing on the web, that shit would be disappointing... 2 yrs... i dunno if i'd break up with her, but man that one is tough to just by pass like nada...

[DeuceWallaces]

Man let the dude fret over his first love. Big man of you to come through and chastise someone almost ten years your junior about a girl he loves. So what if his situation is a little emo to some of the older guys.

He made a thread for some insight/advice/feedback from a board he trusts and respects. Guess what? He's gotten plenty good advice and support. Posters obv care enough where not all the responses are like your inane pointless bullshit.

It sounds like YOU need to mind your business and post in threads where u actually have anything of value to add, w your wack ass weak skills with women.

Hilarious that unhappy, insufferable people like you need to come into threads for no reason other than to give a young dude gettin steady ass the old man treatment. GTFO here you Scandinavian vampire

Shut the **** up. Dude came to a basketball site crying that his woman, who he films home made porno with, supposedly sent some nude pics. Being 15 some odd years his elder I'm one of the only people in this thread giving him valuable advice about how all this shit will be of no consequence in 5-10 years. In short, get a life and go **** your self.

[ace23]

Man let the dude fret over his first love. Big man of you to come through and chastise someone almost ten years your junior about a girl he loves. So what if his situation is a little emo to some of the older guys.

He made a thread for some insight/advice/feedback from a board he trusts and respects. Guess what? He's gotten plenty good advice and support. Posters obv care enough where not all the responses are like your inane pointless bullshit.

It sounds like YOU need to mind your business and post in threads where u actually have anything of value to add, w your wack ass weak skills with women.

Hilarious that unhappy, insufferable people like you need to come into threads for no reason other than to give a young dude gettin steady ass the old man treatment. GTFO here you Scandinavian vampire
Nah, dude's tripping.

He's making sex vids with this chick and he's mad that her exes might have nudes.

I don't get it.

He can stress about it if he wants tho. Lol

[ROCSteady]

Shut the **** up. Dude came to a basketball site crying that his woman, who he films home made porno with, supposedly sent some nude pics. Being 15 some odd years his elder I'm one of the only people in this thread giving him valuable advice about how all this shit will be of no consequence in 5-10 years. In short, get a life and go **** your self.

Yea cuz it's unheard of for ppl to make threads in the OTC about their personal quandaries :rolleyes:

You're just bein useless, having multiple posts saying nothing but one line of 'perspective' about what life may or may not seem like in the future. STFU.

Don't try to act like your presence here is aiming to be anything but a **** ass dickhead who wants to look down on the dude's slight overreaction to a prob with his girl just cuz he's young and you....fckn DoucheWallaces is oh so wise and worldly. Gimmie a break. You aren't mentor material, I see right thru your above post facade that you're trying to help my boy Draz.

The funny thing is Draz has prolly fcked more snatch and had banged a higher number of box than you. Keep preaching what 'real life' is, you miserable Anne Rice written neck biter

[KingBeasley08]

please don't turn out to be like this

https://fbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn2/t1/1620663_1608264459221452_1667562591_n.jpg
You gotta be f*cking me..

[JohnFreeman]

Listen to Boys 2 men and cry in the shower

[ROCSteady]

Nah, dude's tripping.

He's making sex vids with this chick and he's mad that her exes might have nudes.

I don't get it.

He can stress about it if he wants tho. Lol

I mean I get the reaction and responses from our group, we as the OTC always gun roast and question people when they put out real life sticky shit on the board. OP brought the boys out to tell him to man up, not surprising. Draz is my dude tho so I'm not gunna rag on him for wearin his heart on his sleeve, excessive or not.

The diff is ol Albino skin, white hair sunken eyes 2Wallass wants to come in and rag on a young dude whose dealing with handlin his emotions bout feelings of fresh love (not cynical cruddy dried up reality love mentality like some of the older cats here) and try to play it off like he's tryin to spit knowledge when it couldn't be further from the truth. Just insults and smearing of the guy. Then when I get at him he wants to point to one semi vague and cliche sentence and say he was one of the only posters to give him good advice :no:

I've been posting here long enough to know Wallaces MO and what he aims to accomplish when he comments on something. It's rarely cordial or with good intentions so in this instance I'm gunna call him out on it becuz he's full of shit. This dude reaks of unhappiness but he wants to rag on a young guy with 20 years life experience tryin to find his way and deal with his attachments and luv for his girl.

Fck him.

[MadeFromDust]

The site isn't to land pedophiles. It was to expose females. And of course, just like Facebook pages the age of the females are questionable.
He was at Da Dirddy dot com :roll:

[East_Stone_Ya]

Draz u ever pull some shit like that on the Fbook, I'll come to Queens and fck u up so bad not even the cons in jail will wanna fck you

you sound like some worrying parent

[Myth]

Main problem I see in the OP is the deficit in communication and trust, not the issue of whether there are nude pictures from the past or not.

[Balla_Status]

Man let the dude fret over his first love. Big man of you to come through and chastise someone almost ten years your junior about a girl he loves. So what if his situation is a little emo to some of the older guys.

He made a thread for some insight/advice/feedback from a board he trusts and respects. Guess what? He's gotten plenty good advice and support. Posters obv care enough where not all the responses are like your inane pointless bullshit.

It sounds like YOU need to mind your business and post in threads where u actually have anything of value to add, w your wack ass weak skills with women.

Hilarious that unhappy, insufferable people like you need to come into threads for no reason other than to give a young dude gettin steady ass the old man treatment. GTFO here you Scandinavian vampire

:lol

[Myth]

Tell me about it. You have no God dam clue. You can only see this is just 1% of what I'm going through to be with this girl. It's like we weren't supposed to last or something but we make a good relationship. I'm sacrificing personal happiness because I love being with her and she too does make me happy but the pain that comes being with her is just unbearable.

:biggums:

Those are red flags of an unhealthy relationship (especially the bolded part), but best of luck.

[Angel Face]

please don't turn out to be like this

https://fbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn2/t1/1620663_1608264459221452_1667562591_n.jpg

:oldlol:

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[JohnFreeman]

please don't turn out to be like this

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[Jackass18]

My mother just told me she texted her. I said why, she asked her if she's coming over tomorrow. She told me, have you ever heard of giving someone a second chance.

Who was the one asking for the second chance and why?

You obviously have trust issues in your relationship and those tend to linger. What happens the next time something suspicious arises? Are you going to quickly assume that she's lying or are you going to trust her? Are you going to start spying on her hoping to one day find evidence of betrayal? Being head over heels for a girl can cloud your judgment big time. Listen to what your trusted and level-headed friends have to say about the situation.