tgan3
03-20-2014, 12:43 PM
From reading on attraction theory and practising the craft in reality, I believe there is no "secret formula" for attracting girls. It is not a switch where you can turn on or off. I'll tell you how it is a combination of below, you don't have to spend $$ on internet advice...
1) Dress nicely, be well kept
You don't have to dress flamboyantly but don't appear shabby.
2) Be confident, maybe cocky to an extend
Most girls dig the alpha male or so called "bad boys". Why? Because it shows that a guy is decisive/confident and these people are charming and attract others wherever they go.
3) Speech, posture patterns and humour
Stand upright, don't stutter or avert eye contact. Again, its all about confidence and the way you speak. Being funny helps.
4) Don't appear needy, or shower her with gifts
There's nothing wrong with a gift, but don't go on the expense of getting a branded bag or expensive jewellery if there isn't any occasion. Don't spam her phone with messages/calls too...why? Because it irritates a person like how spam emails irritate you at work. Appear interested in her by dropping hints but don't appear overly-interested by literally drooling at her...
Lastly...
How to get her to bed...
Let me emphasize, with most girls (unless she's a virgin) can be bed within 3 dates MAX! If she's into it, usually a one night stand is possible. These are for promiscuous girls (Girls you meet in club/bars) DO NOT go for the long relationship route and try to buy gifts and asks her out for dates and appear passive! Because this would put you into friend zone.
Ever wonder how you are NEVER ATTRACTED to your sister even though others say she's hot? Because you see her too often, that is the reason for the disinterest to a girl if you don't make a move fast.
Best way to get her back is to make her semi-drunk, a person who consumes alcohol will lower their inhibitions. If she laughs and touches you its a good sign, then just make a suggestion that you take her home or something. Be firm yet gentle when asking, but don't be obnoxious.
All these are pretty standard, I am not trying to appear as a know-it-all but there are people out there that need help with this kind of thing, you don't have to pay $50 for some "secret formula", probably everything you need is surmised here :cheers:
1) Dress nicely, be well kept
You don't have to dress flamboyantly but don't appear shabby.
2) Be confident, maybe cocky to an extend
Most girls dig the alpha male or so called "bad boys". Why? Because it shows that a guy is decisive/confident and these people are charming and attract others wherever they go.
3) Speech, posture patterns and humour
Stand upright, don't stutter or avert eye contact. Again, its all about confidence and the way you speak. Being funny helps.
4) Don't appear needy, or shower her with gifts
There's nothing wrong with a gift, but don't go on the expense of getting a branded bag or expensive jewellery if there isn't any occasion. Don't spam her phone with messages/calls too...why? Because it irritates a person like how spam emails irritate you at work. Appear interested in her by dropping hints but don't appear overly-interested by literally drooling at her...
Lastly...
How to get her to bed...
Let me emphasize, with most girls (unless she's a virgin) can be bed within 3 dates MAX! If she's into it, usually a one night stand is possible. These are for promiscuous girls (Girls you meet in club/bars) DO NOT go for the long relationship route and try to buy gifts and asks her out for dates and appear passive! Because this would put you into friend zone.
Ever wonder how you are NEVER ATTRACTED to your sister even though others say she's hot? Because you see her too often, that is the reason for the disinterest to a girl if you don't make a move fast.
Best way to get her back is to make her semi-drunk, a person who consumes alcohol will lower their inhibitions. If she laughs and touches you its a good sign, then just make a suggestion that you take her home or something. Be firm yet gentle when asking, but don't be obnoxious.
All these are pretty standard, I am not trying to appear as a know-it-all but there are people out there that need help with this kind of thing, you don't have to pay $50 for some "secret formula", probably everything you need is surmised here :cheers: