Reactions to catching your girlfriend/wife cheating on you?

[Brizzly]

I was out earlier today with a friend and he told me about this dude beating the guy ****ing his girlfriend senseless, and I just don't get it. Why would he take out his anger of his girl two timing him on the guy.

The guy as far as I understood from the story didn't know that she had a boyfriend and that shit.

So let us say you open the door to your house and you see someone having sex with your gf/wife, what do you think your first instinct is? beating the guy or just dump the girl?

[Fudge]

Joining in.

[chosen_one6]

Joining in.

You'd just be joining in on two dudes.

I've put some thought into this OP. I think I would just walk away and never speak to that person again. They'd know what they did wrong. And if it was in my house, I'd pack all of their shit up and leave it at the door with no notice. I'd also take a picture or video so that I had evidence just in case they ever tried to say I was lying.

[Akrazotile]

I would immediately begin to *********e.

[Fudge]

You'd just be joining in on two dudes.

I've put some thought into this OP. I think I would just walk away and never speak to that person again. They'd know what they did wrong. And if it was in my house, I'd pack all of their shit up and leave it at the door with no notice. I'd also take a picture or video so that I had evidence just in case they ever tried to say I was lying.
Lies. You'd probably shoot the guy, no?

[The-Legend-24]

I never got that either, bitch was the one that let that nikka in.

I wouldn't know doe, I'm a PMF, so bitches never leave me for another nikka.

[iamgine]

I was out earlier today with a friend and he told me about this dude beating the guy ****ing his girlfriend senseless, and I just don't get it. Why would he take out his anger of his girl two timing him on the guy.

The guy as far as I understood from the story didn't know that she had a boyfriend and that shit.

So let us say you open the door to your house and you see someone having sex with your gf/wife, what do you think your first instinct is? beating the guy or just dump the girl?
What don't you get about an emotional moment? :confusedshrug:

[MMM]

Older males might be more rational and realize its the girlfriend/wife at fault but it doesn't surprise me if younger males are taking their betrayal out on someone. Heck, the other male isn't blameless in the majority of situations and even in the small cases where he didn't know then he really should have spent more time finding out or least be in a position where you don't get your ass handed to you.

[MMM]

What don't you get about an emotional moment? :confusedshrug:

some of us are emotionally retarded

[Draz]

Definitely beat the girl

[Akrazotile]

Don't say anything, don't react. Sit in the living room.

That'll f*ck with her head more than anything else.


What if it's a studio?

[MMM]

if your girl/wife is cheating your doing something very wrong. Yes ultimately the fault is hers but somewhere along the line you've failed at something which indirectly led to her cheating.

[MavsSuperFan]

More angry at the girl. She is the one that betrayed you.

[eriX]

thing is it's hard to take your anger out on a girl...

if you can control your intiatial anger what i would do is, video tape it so you can see both of their faces then proceed pretend nothing happened. The next day while shes out say you want to take her to dinner ask a friend or something to get all her valuables and chuck them out of the house. Then ask her parents to come coz its gonna be a suprise proposal, set up a tv somewhere and pretend to propose to her and then infront of her family and everyone show the video of her cheating.

i had too much fun with this... :banana:

[Nick Young]

if your girl/wife is cheating your doing something very wrong. Yes ultimately the fault is hers but somewhere along the line you've failed at something which indirectly led to her cheating.
That's a lie, some hos just cheat for the sake of cheating, because they can.

[cos88]

lol 'a friend told me about a guy' story.



i fell sorry op, hope you recover quickly :(

[MMM]

That's a lie, some hos just cheat for the sake of cheating, because they can.

I don't disagree but the signs must be there to begin with failing to notice them is a failure on your part.

[nightprowler10]

Nobody can honestly know what they would unless its happened to them.

[Overdrive]

That's a lie, some hos just cheat for the sake of cheating, because they can.

That's no keeper material anyway and if you don't notice the mental state in a serious relationship it's on you again.

[BrooklynZoo]

if your girl/wife is cheating your doing something very wrong. Yes ultimately the fault is hers but somewhere along the line you've failed at something which indirectly led to her cheating.


that's so drake

[Brizzly]

lol 'a friend told me about a guy' story.



i fell sorry op, hope you recover quickly :(
drats u caught me.

[b1imtf]

Definitely beat the girl
My ***** Draz :cheers:

[MMM]

that's so drake

Not really just cheating hoes should be bookable. I mean if you'd new girl cheated on her old boyfriend with you then I would not be surprised if she chests on u.

[Overdrive]

drats u caught me.

Diamondring not expensive enough?

[STATUTORY]

I would never resort to violence, key is try and not get too emotionally invested

[ILLsmak]

I was out earlier today with a friend and he told me about this dude beating the guy ****ing his girlfriend senseless, and I just don't get it. Why would he take out his anger of his girl two timing him on the guy.

The guy as far as I understood from the story didn't know that she had a boyfriend and that shit.

So let us say you open the door to your house and you see someone having sex with your gf/wife, what do you think your first instinct is? beating the guy or just dump the girl?

Yea, no reason to take it out on the guy. He has no relation to you. I understand why people would do it... cuz theymad.

If it were me, I'd just be like "HEH" loud enough for them both to hear, then leave... that's why I would never get married because shit like that can happen. I don't trust people, and I always want that escape clause. I don't want to have to get a lawyer to dip out.

Edit: lol at dude saying it's the guy's fault when a woman cheats. Nah, people take responsibility for their own actions... and your choice is how you respond. Someone's action can drive you to do something... or coax you, but in the end you did it. Everyone in the world (period) to knows cheating is wrong. It wouldn't be cheating if it wasn't wrong. So, no matter what they are disrespecting not only you but the relationship... no matter what happened before it's on them. To me, I could deal with much shit. I'd deal with my girl being a heroin addict, hitting me with a baseball bat... etc. But if she cheated, I'm done.

-Smak

[Boris Pen]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KLwbz-peegw

[Boris Pen]

if your girl/wife is cheating your doing something very wrong. Yes ultimately the fault is hers but somewhere along the line you've failed at something which indirectly led to her cheating.




Cuck

[Long Duck Dong]

I have a friend who caught his 2 young kids walking down the street near the home(that he bought) of his recently divorced wife. He asked them why they were by themselves? One was 5 and the other only 6 years old, it's a decent neighborhood but he was still livid. The kids told him mommy was with a friend and told them to go play at the park for awhile. He came home and could hear his ex wife getting banged hard as soon as opened the front door. He grabbed a baseball bat and went to the bedroom. Before the poor guy who was pounding his wife could even turn his head my friend hit him across the back, then broke his arm when he was lifting his hands up to protect himself. The wife jumped on his back while he was beating this poor guy to a pulp with the bat. He threw her off him and broke her arm too when she raised her hands. Fortunately the neighbors could hear the commotion and ran inside the house to stop him before he killed them.

The guy he beat up spent 3 weeks in the hospital. The most amazing thing to me is that he only spent a little over 2 years in jail.

[Draz]

I have a friend who caught his 2 young kids walking down the street near the home(that he bought) of his recently divorced wife. He asked them why they were by themselves? One was 5 and the other only 6 years old, it's a decent neighborhood but he was still livid. The kids told him mommy was with a friend and told them to go play at the park for awhile. He came home and could hear his ex wife getting banged hard as soon as opened the front door. He grabbed a baseball bat and went to the bedroom. Before the poor guy who was pounding his wife could even turn his head my friend hit him across the back, then broke his arm when he was lifting his hands up to protect himself. The wife jumped on his back while he was beating this poor guy to a pulp with the bat. He threw her off him and broke her arm too when she raised her hands. Fortunately the neighbors could hear the commotion and ran inside the house to stop him before he killed them.

The guy he beat up spent 3 weeks in the hospital. The most amazing thing to me is that he only spent a little over 2 years in jail.

Definitely not worth 2 years in jail lol. I'd pay someone bronx to handle the lightweight for a bacon egg and cheese and that's that.

[Gohan]

Adultery is a sure ticket to hell try to avoid that ish. I’m dead serious people don’t think about their life after earth

[dude77]

the correct move is to just walk away and ghost her but you never really know how you'll react in that type of situation .. 'crime of passion' exists for a reason ... actually that applies to the gf .. not live in gf too .. if it's someone you live with then you'll have to deal with them for a bit longer especially if it's a wife