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BrooklynZoo
04-24-2014, 07:42 PM
pretty much all the girls I've been with (not that there's many), i've had to string along with at least a chance that a relationship could result... but damn that's too much work lol. I jus started talkin to this chick but i aint tryna get into a real relationship with her. Anyone with good pointers on how to mess around without gettin tied down?

~primetime~
04-24-2014, 07:46 PM
alcohol...use the "we were just drunk" line after

tgan3
04-24-2014, 07:55 PM
Just ask or go touchie on her when in the right mood and setting, 9 out of 10 times you get a slap but you are rewarded every 1 time.

Dresta
04-24-2014, 08:13 PM
Go to a nightclub and take your pick of average looking sluts.

TheReal Kendall
04-24-2014, 08:39 PM
Just tell them you just got out of a serious relationship and you not ready to jump in another one yet.

Tell them you just wanna chill and wing it to see where it goes.

Works every time for me but eventually they start catching feels hard

Bandito
04-24-2014, 08:45 PM
Alcohol her and then just ask her

Pushxx
04-24-2014, 11:39 PM
Never express emotions. Ever. Just do everything normally except for expressing emotion or showing care for anything.

It's your best chance.

christian1923
04-24-2014, 11:42 PM
You just gotta be flatout with these girls. Tell them what you want.

Draz
04-24-2014, 11:55 PM
Dam I've had casual sex with everyone besides my current long term girl.

JohnFreeman
04-25-2014, 12:03 AM
You are putting the pvssy on a pedestal

Kakapopo
04-25-2014, 12:03 AM
Wrong place to ask, most posters here haven't had sex.

KyleKong
04-25-2014, 12:10 AM
You are putting the pvssy on a pedestal

This.

zoom17
04-25-2014, 12:10 AM
Wrong place to ask, most posters here haven't had sex.

Speak for your self.

BasedTom
04-25-2014, 12:11 AM
Casually.

BigBoss
04-25-2014, 12:12 AM
-Firstly, know what your good qualities are and use that against women who lack those qualities to fill a void in their life.

-Understand what girls like. They seek security in a partner, whether it be in a relationship OR feeling secure enough to open their legs in a one night stand. For guys we don't think twice about sex, but as a female their perception of it is difference. Some girls have high sex drives and like sex, but the MAJORITY get anxiety about taking it to that next step because physiologically we're the dominant AND they're are societal stigmas against sluts, so they need to get over that barrier mentally if they haven't already. Foreplay is a MUST. In bed AND in courting her. Get her to TRUST you. Be HONEST about your intentions ALWAYS. Furthermore, to get a girl attracted to you you need a few of these qualities. Looks aren't everything. You need a personality/charisma too. Some things like 1) Independence. 2) Confidence. 3) Has money OR is going somewhere in his life. 4) Can think for himself. 5) Personal hygiene/cares about his body. 6. Do NOT be a pu$$y. If you want it, take it. Or the next guy will. As with anything in life. 7. Stop thinking about alpha/beta talk or how you should be such and such. Less thinking more action. Just do it. 7. Talk to more girls then once, so you don't give a $hit if it doesn't work out with one. 8. The mindset has to be 100% sex, do NOT catch feelings. This is chess.

The list goes on, but you need to posses, or at least fake a few of things. It helps.

There's two types of woman:

1) One who know what they want, and are independent thinkers.
2) Dependent girls who need a man. Generic personality.

Type 1 girl: If you meet a girl like this, and you think she is dtf then just be direct, because chances are they are looking for the exact same thing. I find these girls are in the 30+ range. Their biological clock is on the down end of and they've made the decision to not make it a priority, or have a relationship. Talk to her at an equal standing and get her to trust you before bringing it up/making a move.

Type 2 girl: If you meet a girl like this. Come off as a complete douche yet well mannered to everyone else, ignore her/don't give her unnecessary attention, etc and have her come to you. Girls are emotional, and if they think they aren't good enough, it'll drive them crazy and they'll give you attention. Most guys who show these girls attention are suckers. What these girls want is a man. So once again be direct, but once she is attached/trusts you. These girls are in the 18-22 range and dumb/emotional as $hit.


23-29 range is a trap. These girls are looking for Mr. Right deep down, so they aren't quick to give it up.

-Party girls are DTF, but too much gossip going on so make sure you don't know her friends.
-Good girls TAKE a lot of work, but are the biggest freaks.
-The older you get, the easier it gets. Younger girls like you more. Older women like younger guys. If you're in your higher teens/early 20's it's BEST to practice with older women. Then the older you get switch back to younger.
-Don't discriminate with age. Anything is fair game if it's legal and fukable. YOLO.

Step by step breakdown:

1. Meet a girl.
2. Talk and assess the situation. If she is type 1 or type 2.
3. Plan accordingly which version of yourself to show to her.
4. Talk to her with confidence, always be in the position of power.
5. Pull away at some point as if you've lost interest. When she comes back that establishes position of power, then it's smooth sailing.
6. Invite her over.
7. Wine. Movie. Done deal.


Good luck.

Kakapopo
04-25-2014, 12:16 AM
^Reported

BigBoss
04-25-2014, 12:21 AM
http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view7/2594811/tupac-giving-middle-finger-o.gif

Breezy
04-25-2014, 12:26 AM
Force yourself on them. Women are things, not people. I recommend chloroform.

BrooklynZoo
04-25-2014, 12:26 AM
You are putting the pvssy on a pedestal

not really, im not asking how to get pus$y i'm more curious if people simply feign interest in a girl, bang her and then pull a dick move and bounce when she catches feelings or if they're more straightforward with their intentions (which im sure would lower your odds). some good/funny responses.



Tell them you just wanna chill and wing it to see where it goes.


yeah ive used that before and ill be using it again lol :cheers:

BigBoss
04-25-2014, 12:28 AM
not really, im not asking how to get pus$y i'm more curious if people simply feign interest in a girl, bang her and then pull a dick move and bounce when she catches feelings or if they're more straightforward with their intentions (which im sure would lower your odds). some good/funny responses.





If you sent a pic of your dick to a girl you just met. Let's say to 100 girls. At least 10 will reply and show interest and the facade is over, and it's down to buisness. Guaranteed. Don't believe me, just try it and keep stats

GimmeThat
04-25-2014, 12:29 AM
Try and go for the french kiss.

BrooklynZoo
04-25-2014, 12:30 AM
If you sent a pic of your dick to a girl you just met. Let's say to 100 girls. At least 10 will reply and show interest and the facade is over, and it's down to buisness. Guaranteed. Don't believe me, just try it and keep stats


and the other 90 will post it on social media :oldlol:

dude77
04-25-2014, 12:30 AM
lol be good looking or have your shit together and be well off financially .. avg/ugly poor dudes are the ones who have to 'fake' shit and talk about being in a relationship

BigBoss
04-25-2014, 12:33 AM
and the other 90 will post it on social media :oldlol:

They need to be girls you just met, not on your fb, only a cell #.

And yeah they're dropped once you bang them.

Try itttt. You'd be surprised how much easier it actually is.

dude77
04-25-2014, 12:49 AM
oh .. we talking about hit and runs or having bitches on call for casual sex .. very different

GimmeThat
04-25-2014, 12:53 AM
lol be good looking or have your shit together and be well off financially .. avg/ugly poor dudes are the ones who have to 'fake' shit and talk about being in a relationship


Tell Black Eyes Peas I found love. the smell of cash. damn chemical gases.

BrooklynZoo
04-25-2014, 01:00 AM
oh .. we talking about hit and runs or having bitches on call for casual sex .. very different


either or, but the second would be better lol. I had one girl I was hangin out/talkin with randomly mention that its ok to have **** buddies. In my head im thinkin smooth sailing, but like the next day she's asking about a relationship... I still hit it, but then we jus kinda stopped talkin after she realized I was jus wasn't interested in going out with her

Le Shaqtus
04-25-2014, 02:00 AM
Never had it :lol I don't know how I'd go about that kind of thing. Always been a relationship guy.

chosen_one6
04-25-2014, 02:36 AM
Just tell them straight out what you want from the get-go. They'll respect you more for it. What I usually tell them is "I'm just doing me right now and focusing on work and school. So I'm just having fun and seeing what happens. I'm definitely open to a relationship but I'm not looking for it specifically."

This gives them the idea that you may want something more down the line but at the moment you're too busy to get tied down. As long as you play your cards right you'll get in them jeans and they won't get too attached right away. Just be aware that if you f*** them really well they'll get attached a lot faster. Women won't say it to you but great sex can make them go nuts.

iBandwagon
04-25-2014, 03:13 AM
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russwest0
04-25-2014, 04:01 AM
alcohol. and if not that then bring up a movie she might like and invite her over. it's ****ing simple yet you nerds over complicate everything as if there is a formula to obtaining the *****.

Let me put it like this for yall nerds. The ***** is like a rubix cube. You can buy it.

step_back
04-25-2014, 04:41 AM
Hit her in the face, if she doesn't sleep with you then hit her again. Repeat until you see results.

Bandito
04-25-2014, 07:00 AM
alcohol. and if not that then bring up a movie she might like and invite her over. it's ****ing simple yet you nerds over complicate everything as if there is a formula to obtaining the *****.

Let me put it like this for yall nerds. The ***** is like a rubix cube. You can buy it.
He know whats up:cheers:

Derka
04-25-2014, 07:15 AM
alcohol. and if not that then bring up a movie she might like and invite her over. it's ****ing simple yet you nerds over complicate everything as if there is a formula to obtaining the *****.

Let me put it like this for yall nerds. The ***** is like a rubix cube. You can buy it.

:cheers:

BrooklynZoo
04-25-2014, 10:26 AM
alcohol. and if not that then bring up a movie she might like and invite her over. it's ****ing simple yet you nerds over complicate everything as if there is a formula to obtaining the *****.

Let me put it like this for yall nerds. The ***** is like a rubix cube. You can buy it.

No shit that's like the oldest trick in the book. The point of the thread is whether or not you're straightforward with them about your intentions. It's funny how anytime someone makes a sex thread on here people take it as an opportunity to post the "***** on a pedestal" stuff

Bandito
04-25-2014, 10:51 AM
No shit that's like the oldest trick in the book. The point of the thread is whether or not you're straightforward with them about your intentions. It's funny how anytime someone makes a sex thread on here people take it as an opportunity to post the "***** on a pedestal" stuff
It may be the oldest but it is a classic because it works. :pimp:

Also yeah people/nerds/inexperienced people tend to do that. I mean put the ***** in a pedestal.

GimmeThat
04-25-2014, 10:55 AM
alcohol. and if not that then bring up a movie she might like and invite her over. it's ****ing simple yet you nerds over complicate everything as if there is a formula to obtaining the *****.

Let me put it like this for yall nerds. The ***** is like a rubix cube. You can buy it.


I think what you meant is
"how do you casually go about having sex"

:rockon: