Would you find this offensive?

[hateraid]

So I'm joking around and took a pic of my son who's 9 years old, sleeping, holding a bottle of Crown Royal. I post it on FB. Some liked, some laughed, some joked I'm a bad father.
Then my brother in law posts, "I don't like this, take it down NOW!" He's pissed!
Funny this is my son thought it was hilarious and my wife just gave me the eyes rolled my husband is such a dork look.

Is this really distasteful? It's not like we were doing shots. Is he overreacting and should I take it down?

[tmacattack33]

Its fine to me.

As long as you're son views it as just something funny and goofy its cool.

But if he's thinking that it makes you think he is cool then it might be a problem. Thats prob why some of ur family is mad...they prob think ur son might get the wrong idea.

[robert de niro]

nothing wrong with that, it's like when people get pissed at you for putting some socks or glasses on a dog

[hateraid]

As long as you're son views it as just something funny and goofy its cool. But if he's thinking it makes him look cool or something or that you think it makes him look cool that can be a problem.

Maw, he dislikes people drinking. He just thought the prank was hilarious. He's not gonna show it off or anything like that

[Brizzly]

no, i posted a pic of my son with an unlit cig in his mouth and a glas of whisky in his hand.

[hateraid]

Its fine to me.

As long as you're son views it as just something funny and goofy its cool.

But if he's thinking that it makes you think he is cool then it might be a problem. Thats prob why some of ur family is mad...they prob think ur son might get the wrong idea.

My fam thought it was hilarious. He even took a pic of his wife sleeping with siracha balanced on her forehead to try and top it

[hateraid]

no, i posted a pic of my son with an unlit cig in his mouth and a glas of whisky in his hand.

:lol
Awake?

[Brizzly]

Maw, he dislikes people drinking. He just thought the prank was hilarious. He's not gonna show it off or anything like that

he nine years old, wait until he turns 15. He probably gonna be a full time alcoholic.

[Brizzly]

:lol
Awake?

Yup, but posted it on his mamas facebook. No one got offended everyone thought it was cute.

[MadeFromDust]

it's child abuse. you have no right to put a pic of yur son on the internet like that before he is old enough to consent. take it down asap before cps gets wind of it

[hateraid]

it's child abuse. you have no right to put a pic of yur son on the internet like that before he is old enough to consent. take it down asap before cps gets wind of it

Is that an actual law?

[Brizzly]

Is that an actual law?

If you are not serious, then yes it is an actual law and your child will be taken away and you will be eating a lot of cockmeatsandwich.

If not then no, lol.

[TheMarkMadsen]

Is that an actual law?

no :rolleyes:

don't let your sensitive brother in law bum you out, its a harmless joke and you and your son will look back on it in a few years and get a good laugh

[Draz]

Your brother in law has a clit? Tell him we voted him off the straight island and to man up its your son.

[MadeFromDust]

Is that an actual law?
i don't think so but you know how the police state is...abuse and arrest first, then deal with the complications of the law later

[Jameerthefear]

It's your son tell your brother in law to fcuk off.

[Bird]

So I'm joking around and took a pic of my son who's 9 years old, sleeping, holding a bottle of Crown Royal. I post it on FB. Some liked, some laughed, some joked I'm a bad father.
Then my brother in law posts, "I don't like this, take it down NOW!" He's pissed!
Funny this is my son thought it was hilarious and my wife just gave me the eyes rolled my husband is such a dork look.

Is this really distasteful? It's not like we were doing shots. Is he overreacting and should I take it down?

Not distasteful or offensive.

Some people just have to get butt hurt.

I posted a picture of my son on my FB when he was like a year and a half old, where he fell asleep while getting off the couch. So I put a bottle of Patron in his hand, took a picture and posted it up. People loved it.

Your brother-in-law is just being a butt hurt little bitch. Tell him to shut the fcuk up and mind his own damn business. I'm sure he'll rip is boyfriend's asshole open over this.

[ILLsmak]

So I'm joking around and took a pic of my son who's 9 years old, sleeping, holding a bottle of Crown Royal. I post it on FB. Some liked, some laughed, some joked I'm a bad father.
Then my brother in law posts, "I don't like this, take it down NOW!" He's pissed!
Funny this is my son thought it was hilarious and my wife just gave me the eyes rolled my husband is such a dork look.

Is this really distasteful? It's not like we were doing shots. Is he overreacting and should I take it down?

In that situation, I think you should always take it down.

I would talk with dude and anyone who asks you about why you did it, just tell them.

Not worth getting into e-drama even if you weren't wrong. It's ****ed up enough to demand someone take something down, but you should just end it there and take it down. Be like woh... sry bro. lol and he will look like an ass. Opposed to you.

-Smak

[reppy]

The truth? It's not super terrible, but it is kind of low brow and I'd be a little unimpressed. If someone showed me the picture in private, I'd probably laugh, though.

Ask yourself this: if you knew a potential employer would see it, would you post it on your Facebook? What if you were running for a political office, would you post it on your Facebook?

It's worth considering before you post something.

[IamRAMBO24]

Tell your brother to go f*ck himself.

[IamRAMBO24]

I once photoshopped a picture of my son on one of the guards during the abu gharib torture. Everyone thought it was funny as hell and told me to do more. I'm working on one where he's a nazi soldier leading a bunch of jews into a concentration camp for history purposes.

[D-FENS]

It's your son tell your brother in law to fcuk off.

I agree with the anime fan

[MMM]

I'm extremely offended
you are a terrible father and represent everything wrong with the country.



















only half way joking. Yor are probably a terrible father but i'm not offended.

[Derka]

F*ck your brother-in-law.

[Dresta]

Echoing the thread sentiments of telling your brother in law to go **** himself and worry about his own kids and life (if he has any/one).

I suggest you put one up with a *** in his mouth now, then one with a little baking powder around his nose while passed out and with dollar bill in his hand, another slumped over with a syringe next to his exposed arm, and another with a bong while wearing a rasta hat. Then make a collage, blow it up nice and big, and write 'Mind your own ****ing business (insert brother in laws name)' on the top and give it to him for his birthday.

[maybeshewill13]

Nothing wrong with it. People are *******. Tell your brother to suck a dick.

[16X]

Your brother is a bitch for telling you what to do, but I wouldn't put a picture like that up. It's not much different than having your son holding a bong or pipe, or posing with a gun. I personally don't find children with drugs or alcohol to be funny, but to each their own.

[MMM]

I wouldn't tell another man bout his kids.

But I don't get why people put pics of their kids on the internet. You never know who can get a hold of em and do disturbing shit. Yea it is unlikely but there are some wierdos out there.

[ALBballer]

I was doing a group project either in the 3rd or 4th grade it was probably on the subject of recylcling. I don't remember all the details but but I thought it would be funny if I pretended to drink out of an empty beer bottle in the video.

Needless to say the teacher didn't find it funny and she nearly failed us on the project.

I see nothing wrong with you did OP.

[macmac]

The same shit happened to me. I was taking pictures with my 6year old nephew holding on to my dick, as a joke you know? And everyone starting freaking out and crying and threatening to call the police. It's like, dude, mind your own business, it's my dick and its my nephew, I don't understand what the big deal is? It's not like I was fully erect.

People are just so sensitive these days.

[D-FENS]

The same shit happened to me. I was taking pictures with my 6year old nephew holding on to my dick, as a joke you know? And everyone starting freaking out and crying and threatening to call the police. It's like, dude, mind your own business, it's my dick and its my nephew, I don't understand what the big deal is? It's not like I was fully erect.

People are just so sensitive these days.

But you're Chinese - how did they see it?

[stalkerforlife]

Distasteful.

But i'm a recovering alcoholic.

I don't know your family history.

[Done_And_Done]

The same shit happened to me. I was taking pictures with my 6year old nephew holding on to my dick, as a joke you know? And everyone starting freaking out and crying and threatening to call the police. It's like, dude, mind your own business, it's my dick and its my nephew, I don't understand what the big deal is? It's not like I was fully erect.

People are just so sensitive these days.

:roll:

[GimmeThat]

As long as you don't find it offensive when your child gets trolled at school and have the mentality that I will try ANYTHING once because of how you help raised him.

I heard High school was/is a malicious place.

[GimmeThat]

But you're Chinese - how did they see it?

just say "pic or it never happened"

you closet homo

[Done_And_Done]

Was your wife raised in a very conservative household?

And no, you definitely did not cross the line here. I see these types of playful pics turn up on my FB timeline every so often and they're always met with jovial humour.

[Cactus-Sack]

Your brother in law seems like a bit f a cvnt.

[ace23]

Yes.

Not sure how you were able to get to sleep after posting that.

[hateraid]

Yes.

Not sure how you were able to get to sleep after posting that.

I download one of your tracks. When I hear your flat dragged out tone I can fall asleep in seconds

[Jameerthefear]

I download one of your tracks. When I hear your flat dragged out tone I can fall asleep in seconds
Damn.

[hateraid]

Here's the pic, lol

http://i58.tinypic.com/dhbyom.jpg

[ace23]

I download one of your tracks. When I hear your flat dragged out tone I can fall asleep in seconds
New hater. I got you down. :cheers:

[ForeverHeat]

Here's the pic, lol

http://i58.tinypic.com/dhbyom.jpg

That hand looks like a grown mans hand. This doesnt look good hateraid, I'd get a lawyer.

[hateraid]

Kid has eczema on his hands. He's had a bad case of it all his life. scratched it so much it got slight discoloring.

[hateraid]

New hater. I got you down. :cheers:

:cheers:

[CeltsGarlic]

Obviously not offended, but a bit tasteless, if you ask me. I would just meh, and move.

[16X]

Would you put a picture of your son with a gun though, Hateraid? Alcohol kills far more people/ ruins more lives than guns do.

[hateraid]

Would you put a picture of your son with a gun though, Hateraid? Alcohol kills far more people/ ruins more lives than guns do.

What type of gun? That gives me an idea for my next pic

[knickballer]

lol, it's your son and obviously the picture was meant to be comical. You're brother in law is a a **** and tell him to mind his own business.

Now if you had your son take a pic with a gun or something that can be offensive(like a turban or swastika) then yeah take that down..

[MrC1991]

Eh its not big deal really, but people are so damn sensitive now a days that you can do or say shit no more. Facebook is cool with staying in touch with people and all that, but its also easily one of the worst thing the internet has ever birthed in a way.

[oh the horror]

What I would be offended by is another man ordering me to do anything. Especially if it's my property or a child.


Grown men shouldn't be barking orders at one another. That's how you get punched in the mouth.

[hateraid]

What I would be offended by is another man ordering me to do anything. Especially if it's my property or a child.


Grown men shouldn't be barking orders at one another. That's how you get punched in the mouth.
I've been struggling with that one. Since it's my brother in law I've restrained because I don't want my wife to be upset

[hateraid]

Was your wife raised in a very conservative household?

And no, you definitely did not cross the line here. I see these types of playful pics turn up on my FB timeline every so often and they're always met with jovial humour.
My father in law is a pastor so it is a bit conservative. But my bro in law has been around me and my friends enough to see some crud humor. But he married another preacher's kid and they hold a holier than thou attitude

[red1]

looks like harmless fun to me

[JerrySteakhouse]

Harmless fun...

[hateraid]

looks like harmless fun to me


Harmless fun...

Thanks :cheers:
Did anybody notice the Bilbo Baggins on his head?

[~primetime~]

Obviously not offended, but a bit tasteless, if you ask me. I would just meh, and move.
This for me

It's whatever, but I don't find children and alcoholism to be funny really. But that's just not part of my own personal humor.

[~primetime~]

The same shit happened to me. I was taking pictures with my 6year old nephew holding on to my dick, as a joke you know? And everyone starting freaking out and crying and threatening to call the police. It's like, dude, mind your own business, it's my dick and its my nephew, I don't understand what the big deal is? It's not like I was fully erect.

People are just so sensitive these days.
:oldlol:

[hateraid]

This for me

It's whatever, but I don't find children and alcoholism to be funny really. But that's just not part of my own personal humor.

I can respect that. Not everyone thinks this is tasteful. But my issue more was my brother in law demanding I take it down.

[~primetime~]

I can respect that. Not everyone thinks this is tasteful. But my issue more was my brother in law demanding I take it down.
Right, yeah he should probably mind his own business... Unless he is running for president or something.

[Dresta]

This for me

It's whatever, but I don't find children and alcoholism to be funny really. But that's just not part of my own personal humor.
Who said anything about alcoholism? Looks like you're bringing your own neuroses to the party right now.

[~primetime~]

Who said anything about alcoholism? Looks like you're bringing your own neuroses to the party right now.
I am, yes. My own personal issues make this unfunny for me, like I said.

A passed our child with a bottle equates to alcoholism for me, was I supposed to assume he just had a sip?

[Rubio2Gasol]

In most of the world children having a little alcohol is not at all taboo. Of course, no child is encouraged to go on a binge drinking tear, but having a spot of vodka or saki or whatever is not uncommon on occasion......

Or when you want the kid to sleep :lol

[Jailblazers7]

I think I'd personally be a bit nervous that this might give the kid a bad idea about the social status of alcohol but he's gonna get all the peer pressure he can handle once he hits high school anyway. I prob wouldn't be happy in your brother in laws shoes either but I wouldn't be confronting you about it.

[~primetime~]

It might be on the funny or cute side if he was a baby, like 1 or 2

A 9 year old is getting up there... Might be a reality in 6-7 years

[Crown&Coke]

It's your own kid, the only two people who are allowed to make a fuss are you and the child's mother. And it seems those two people realize it is a funny, not an indictment on the kid or his character

BUT, it if was Vodka, I would be disappoint. Since it's Crown, I like your taste.

Your bro-in-law needs to chill, it isn't his kid. If it was his kid, I can understand even if I don't agree. Now I wouldn't go ahead and respond on FB because some nutjobs go wild on the internet and it probably isn't in anyone's best interest to let the world see the back and forth. I would tell him nicely it's my FB page and my child. If he presses the issue I would tell him again not so nicely

[Dresta]

A passed our child with a bottle equates to alcoholism for me, was I supposed to assume he just had a sip?
How? The logical connection is not there. A child could easily have a few sips of alcohol and fall asleep. No one with sense would think the child an alcoholic.

You only think 'alcoholism' because you were an alcoholic, and as a consequence you have a perverted mind.


It might be on the funny or cute side if he was a baby, like 1 or 2

A 9 year old is getting up there... Might be a reality in 6-7 years
:lol

Ok for a baby, but not ok for a 9-year old because they might actually become an alchie when they're older (and a completely different person no less), and then you won't be laughing!

[oh the horror]

That's also an issue with folks...

One picture taken in jest might lead to alcoholism. Really?



Jesus Christ help us all.

[magic chiongson]

I download one of your tracks. When I hear your flat dragged out tone I can fall asleep in seconds

:bowdown:

[~primetime~]

How? The logical connection is not there. A child could easily have a few sips of alcohol and fall asleep. No one with sense would think the child an alcoholic.

You only think 'alcoholism' because you were an alcoholic, and as a consequence you have a perverted mind.


:lol

Ok for a baby, but not ok for a 9-year old because they might actually become an alchie when they're older (and a completely different person no less), and then you won't be laughing!
You're supposed to think he got drunk and passed out genius, that's where the supposed humor is. He could have easily taken a few responsible sips and fell asleep? Tell me you're just trolling please...lol..."my perverted" mind assumes he got drunk? :oldlol:

And didn't say it was "okay" for a baby, I said there might be actual humor there for me, 9 is old. But that would probably be unfunny to me as well.

[ArbitraryWater]

The same shit happened to me. I was taking pictures with my 6year old nephew holding on to my dick, as a joke you know? And everyone starting freaking out and crying and threatening to call the police. It's like, dude, mind your own business, it's my dick and its my nephew, I don't understand what the big deal is? It's not like I was fully erect.

People are just so sensitive these days.


:roll: :roll:

would rep

[ArbitraryWater]

What I would be offended by is another man ordering me to do anything. Especially if it's my property or a child.


Grown men shouldn't be barking orders at one another. That's how you get punched in the mouth.

lol this tbh..

to OP: Harlmess fun IMO... cmon, does this hurt anyone? Come one... maybe he's assuming you won't bother at him drinking at an early age, some ppl make those wierd connections without noticing.

[Dresta]

You're supposed to think he got drunk and passed out genius, that's where the supposed humor is. He could have easily taken a few responsible sips and fell asleep? Tell me you're just trolling please...lol..."my perverted" mind assumes he got drunk? :oldlol:

And didn't say it was "okay" for a baby, I said there might be actual humor there for me, 9 is old. But that would probably be unfunny to me as well.
You don't make any sense man... alcohol has addled your brain something serious.

[~primetime~]

:rolleyes: