I need help, family issue

[$LakerGold]

Gonna make this sorta short.

My sister has been really disrespectful to us for months now, disrespectful to my mom to the point where my mom cried & had our relatives call her. My dad called me, & there, my mom was crying because of that ungrateful selfish bitch.

As for her, there's no way in hell to break into her stupid brain. She's a minor/teenager, she tends to act tough in situation like this because she knows I can't hit her. So, if I can't hit her, then I'm going to kick her boyfriend's ass.

Her boyfriend is the same age as me, he's a trouble maker.

My question is now, when I beat his ass, can I get sent to jail for it? Because, if I do, it's still gonna be my mom's problem & I don't want that. I live in MD at the moment.

I already texted him that he can't come over unless she apologizes to my mom. End of story. I've had enough of this.

I'm feeling sorry for him because his mom passed away last week & that's rough. But this is my mom now.


If he steps inside the house, & I land the first punch, can I get sent to jail for that? It's not that I don't want to go to jail, because I don't give a shit anymore, but if it goes down, the problem goes back to my mom.

Don't bother mentioning about my parents not doing anything about it, the have given up. And I now I have to stand up.

Right now, for me is that, tomorrow -- I'll tell him he can't come in if he does come over, if he refuses to listen, then i'll do it.

Is that legal? Can I get beat him up & get him for trespassing?

Thank you.

[Cactus-Sack]

No, you won't go to jail because you are obviously 10 years old.



Who the fvck goes on a message board to complain about his sister? Besides Jameer.

[DeuceWallaces]

You can't just assault people because you're angry with them.

[$LakerGold]

Dumb ass.

It's been an hour or two. I just need to know the legalities, making sure. Put the story up for them to understand my motive.

[Cactus-Sack]

What kind of sack of shit wants to fight a guy for no good reason, whose mother died a week ago. Scumbag.


Who are we kidding? The boyfriend is gonna kick the shit out of you anyway. Post pics.

[$LakerGold]

You can't just assault people because you're angry with them.
So, if my father bans him & he refuses to listen, can you get him with trespassing?

[tpols]

If you dont want him in, dont let him in, and call the cops when he shows up. Simple.

[$LakerGold]

Banning him from the house will teach her a lesson, take away her happiness, if he refuses to listen, then I'm gonna take action. Simple as that.

Where the f*ck are the adults here?

[Cactus-Sack]

Banning him from the house will teach her a lesson, take away her happiness, if he refuses to listen, then I'm gonna take action. Simple as that.

Where the f*ck are the adults here?

They're the ones suggesting you don't get your ass kicked because you feel like fighting a guy because your teenage sister is a bitch (two completely unrelated things). You sound like a fgt kid bruh.

[Draz]

You can never take away a girls boyfriend. She will fck him and fck him even harder now. Just slap the fck out of your sister.

[Pushxx]

You're gonna beat up some guy because he's dating your bitchy sister?

What the ****?

[stalkerforlife]

If you tell him to stay out of the house and he doesn't listen, I see no reason not to execute a physical attack on him to protect yourself and your family.

He should NOT be allowed there if you and your family don't want him there.

[$LakerGold]

Are you an idiot?

I'm saying, he can't come over because she's being disrespectful, & I know that kid will refuse to listen. So if he does, i'm gonna take action.


Have you seen your mom cry?

[$LakerGold]

You can never take away a girls boyfriend. She will fck him and fck him even harder now. Just slap the fck out of your sister.

I expected better from you.

[Rocketswin2013]

So you're beating the shit out of the boyfriend.......Because.......He's your sisters boyfriend? "Trouble maker" eh? You're not telling us something. What type of trouble does he make? Did you walk in on him destroying your little sisters vag ?:lol

[Draz]

Listen. You need to beat your sister like she never had a father.

[Cactus-Sack]

Are you an idiot?

I'm saying, he can't come over because she's being disrespectful, & I know that kid will refuse to listen. So if he does, i'm gonna take action.


Have you seen your mom cry?

You think getting your ass kicked on the front lawn is gonna help that? Definitely 14...

[$LakerGold]

Wow.

I have every reason to get mad at her, and for me to take away her happiness, is to ban him from the house.

Bunch of narrow-minded f*cks.

[Draz]

I expected better from you.
:rant but it's the truth.. You can't put hands on a guy that is honestly innocent regardless of how stuck up or who he is to your sister. It's understandable you're angry and want to take physical action if there isn't any solution. But, you start where the problem truthfully exists and that's with your sister.

Talk to her personally as an older brother and nurture her like a father, have that mature conversation and try your hardest to get through to her. I'm sure if you really, really, tried, you could. You put hands on that guy you'll get in trouble and it'll be on your record. All to teach your sister a lesson.

Just talk to the boyfriend man to man if it doesn't work. Don't get physical.

[stalkerforlife]

OP, are you confident that you can kick this guy's ass? You sound very hesitant.

[Cactus-Sack]

Wow.

I have every reason to get mad at her, and for me to take away her happiness, is to ban him from the house.

Bunch of narrow-minded f*cks.

Take away her happiness=Get your ass kicked on the lawn in front of your crying mother.


:applause:

[Draz]

Draz, get your remote.
:rant I will mentor him. We won't get to that point.

Boyfriends could be problems. You just need to keep a level head and when it comes down to it see eye to eye. Be civilized. You being physical will only show you are no better than your sister and her arrogant ways of harming your family, it's teenage shit 80% of them go through. It's a phase.

[YouGotServed]

tl;dr

But let me get this straight?

Your sister is a bitch and made your mommy cry. To get back at her you're banning her boyfriend from coming over.....and if he doesn't listen you're going to "kick his ass"?

We're the narrow minded ones. K.

Grow up and stop acting like a fukking phaggit.

[$LakerGold]

OP, are you confident that you can kick this guy's ass? You sound very hesitant.
I'm hesitant because his mother just passed away.

I'm posting this here, because I want to know if I can get sent to jail if I take action tomorrow. I don't want that on my mother's hands.

[Rocketswin2013]

I'm hesitant because his mother just passed away.

I'm posting this here, because I want to know if I can get sent to jail if I take action tomorrow. I don't want that on my mother's hands.
OP your whole plan is dumb.

[Draz]

I'm hesitant because his mother just passed away.

I'm posting this here, because I want to know if I can get sent to jail if I take action tomorrow. I don't want that on my mother's hands.
Let me be the first to tell you, you can honestly go to jail for absolutely anything. Assault, threatening someone, or even anything in that nature.

Handle it civilized, I guarantee you results if and only if you try your hardest to be mature about it. If it doesn't work, you need to take action by telling him that your parents and you have agreed than he isn't allowed to be in the house or he will face trespassing. He's your age, he won't risk going to jail over a girl.

[Cactus-Sack]

I'm hesitant because his mother just passed away.

I'm posting this here, because I want to know if I can get sent to jail if I take action tomorrow. I don't want that on my mother's hands.

No, juvie. You'll still be tossin' everybody's salad, so no difference.

[$LakerGold]

:rant but it's the truth.. You can't put hands on a guy that is honestly innocent regardless of how stuck up or who he is to your sister. It's understandable you're angry and want to take physical action if there isn't any solution. But, you start where the problem truthfully exists and that's with your sister.

Talk to her personally as an older brother and nurture her like a father, have that mature conversation and try your hardest to get through to her. I'm sure if you really, really, tried, you could. You put hands on that guy you'll get in trouble and it'll be on your record. All to teach your sister a lesson.

Just talk to the boyfriend man to man if it doesn't work. Don't get physical.
I'm a nice, dude. But he's the reason why my sister has been all that f*cked up. You're not the first person to tell me that violence isn't the answer, but with a guy like him, it's hard to say that violence isn't the answer. I've had enough with him becoming the cause of my sister's behavior for the past months. It builds up & builds up, you know what I mean? I mean, who the **** is this guy?

[D-Rose]

Where are your parents in all this? And I don't mean physically...

If your sister is acting this way and she is a minor, your parents need to take EVERYTHING away from her. No phone, no computer, no hanging out, no movies, no tv, no boyfriend coming over, etc. She's a minor. They can do anything in terms of discipline, bar physical lol. You'll see how fast that bitch comes around and shows some respect.

As for the boyfriend, just call the police if he shows up, as it's your Mom's house. Cops show up and your mom has his ass removed.

[$LakerGold]

Let me be the first to tell you, you can honestly go to jail for absolutely anything. Assault, threatening someone, or even anything in that nature.

Handle it civilized, I guarantee you results if and only if you try your hardest to be mature about it. If it doesn't work, you need to take action by telling him that your parents and you have agreed than he isn't allowed to be in the house or he will face trespassing. He's your age, he won't risk going to jail over a girl.
Okay, man. i'll think this through. My father is so f*cking clueless right now & that's also the reason why I'm pissed off. My mom is crying & he's standing in the corner doing NOTHING.

[YouGotServed]

Lettuce be honest here, you're just being a big drama queen because this your first time seeing your mom cry.

Relax, bud.

[ace23]

I don't understand why you're taking this out on your sister's bf. Is he the only thing that makes her happy? Lol

[Cactus-Sack]

We all know you're the only killer here, shan

True, fiddy men.

[Draz]

I'm a nice, dude. But he's the reason why my sister has been all that f*cked up. You're not the first person to tell me that violence isn't the answer, but with a guy like him, it's hard to say that violence isn't the answer. I've had enough with him becoming the cause of my sister's behavior for the past months. It builds up & builds up, you know what I mean? I mean, who the **** is this guy?
It isn't worth it. I know you feel corrupted in the head. The issue with Americans and most families is we can't seem to fix issues in our own household or even see that it arises from our own flesh and blood so we blame others. You know your sister is behaving the way she is because of her boyfriend. I'm guessing he's an older guy. It's normal. She will come to her senses believe me.

Chances are she's in love and she won't come out of it with force, she needs to learn. You put hands on someone, another man, you don't know what he's capable of doing. One example of this is the fact he lost his mother. You're willing to put hands on a man because he effects your household and makes tears come out of her eyes. But to this guy, he has no mother anymore and has not much to lose.

In fact. I'm sure if you invited him for a discussion about this, you two would get decently along. Talk to him about your situation and what he too would want being done for his mothers own good.

[GimmeThat]

it's either you and your mom is going to need help sometime, or your sister is going to need help.

because the simple solution to the problem is that you shouldn't be affected by what your sister does.

And yes, your mother is mentally weak for being a parent and unable to hold her own against behaviors like this.

The reality is that none of you three will have a healthy relationship in the near future. Adding violence will temporarily silence the problem, and unless the root of cause disappears (in your brain it appears to be the boy friend, which chances are, it may be other issues) Than yes, the issue will rise again.

But good thing people become adults, and that you can take the violent route, and expect to never have a relationship with them once she or you are old enough. Or you can not take the violent route and choose to not have a relationship with her starting now.

This goes the same for your mother, because again, she is mentally weak at handling these issues at this time. And how things will turn out for her, that is no garunteed.

But people utilize abortions. And if you think that doesn't make them a psychopath. Then I guess seeing an actual life form and having it aborted from your system might be a better practice.



I don't leave people behind, I let go of those to be the cause of death to our party. That is the pledge of a true survivor.

[D-Rose]

and yeah, don't fight. You could ruin your life at worst...imagine if you killed the kid. Have your parents play the carrot sticks and carriage game with your sister. If she doesn't show respect...no cell phone, laptop, iPad, boyfriend, etc. It's simple.

[BasedTom]

Do you mind elaborating on what they actually did that is ruining your family's life in the trailer park?

You seem to keep skipping over the fact as to how your sister is being a bitch and why that justifies you beating the shit out of her boyfriend. It'd be a lot easier to feel sympathetic towards your cause if we actually knew what you were talking about in your feral rage

[AirTupac]

Pics of sister?

[$LakerGold]

Where are your parents in all this? And I don't mean physically...

If your sister is acting this way and she is a minor, your parents need to take EVERYTHING away from her. No phone, no computer, no hanging out, no movies, no tv, no boyfriend coming over, etc. She's a minor. They can do anything in terms of discipline, bar physical lol. You'll see how fast that bitch comes around and shows some respect.

As for the boyfriend, just call the police if he shows up, as it's your Mom's house. Cops show up and your mom has his ass removed.

Okay.

My parents have done that in the past, but they have given up on her and just let her do what she wants, & it needs to stop now. She screams, throws tantrums, & 99% of the time the thing she says are for my mom. I've kept quiet about it through the years, but it has been worse for the past months, I thought my dad would step in & defend her, but he has given up a long time ago. Earlier I saw her break down, & that's it, man.

But i'll think it through.

I really don't give a shit about going to jail, but it's just that, everything goes back to my mom & I can't deal with that.

[D-Rose]

Pics of sister?
http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/jwdrp.gif

[Draz]

What you should do, is turn off your electronic devices. You're angry and cannot see straight. Angry thoughts only make stupid choices. Be wise, think about how you'll approach and diagnose the situation. Take your sister out for dinner with her boyfriend even, show you care about the both if them and their relationship if they're capable of having one together and need to respect rules and regulations.

Build a friendship. Build a bond. Build a relationship. Build a trust. You do this, both your sister and her boyfriend will respect you. And, guess what? When the boyfriend becomes an ex, your sister will learn from all of this and be trained.

Training. We all need it. Your father seems passive, but this is more like he doesn't care at all. It's ok to be fatherly.

[$LakerGold]

Sorry guys, I'm just pissed & I can't get it together right now.

[$LakerGold]

She works part time & pays for her cellphone bill.

[D-Rose]

Okay.

My parents have done that in the past, but they have given up on her and just let her do what she wants, & it needs to stop now. She screams, throws tantrums, & 99% of the time the thing she says are for my mom. I've kept quiet about it through the years, but it has been worse for the past months, I thought my dad would step in & defend her, but he has given up a long time ago. Earlier I saw her break down, & that's it, man.

But i'll think it through.

I really don't give a shit about going to jail, but it's just that, everything goes back to my mom & I can't deal with that.

You need to have a talk with your mom about asserting herself. SHE is the parent. She is in control here...don't let a hormonal teenager run the house. Explain to your mom that she has to stand up for herself and you can back her up. She needs to take that stuff away from your sister until she proves over time that she deserves more.

and please don't go to jail. It could impair you getting a job, an education, etc. IT's not worth it. It's not even that guy's fault. If he shows up, your mom should ask him to leave. If he does not...call 911.

[$LakerGold]

Lettuce be honest here, you're just being a big drama queen because this your first time seeing your mom cry.

Relax, bud.
2nd time. She was physically abused by my father before, but that's over now, he can't do it anymore.

[Draz]

You need to have a talk with your mom about asserting herself. SHE is the parent. She is in control here...don't let a hormonal teenager run the house. Explain to your mom that she has to stand up for herself and you can back her up. She needs to take that stuff away from your sister until she proves over time that she deserves more.

and please don't go to jail. It could impair you getting a job, an education, etc. IT's not worth it. It's not even that guy's fault. If he shows up, your mom should ask him to leave. If he does not...call 911.
This. Your mother needs to take control and be a mother. You'll be cool bro, just learn that life isn't about forcing decisions and actions on someone, it's about helping them decide to make such moves towards the benefits.

[travelingman]

Pics of sister?

This is the only relevant inquiry posed in this thread so far.

[YouGotServed]

Are you going to tell us what her asshole boyfriend did to warrant an ass beating?

[$LakerGold]

This. Your mother needs to take control and be a mother. You'll be cool bro, just learn that life isn't about forcing decisions and actions on someone, it's about helping them decide to make such moves towards the benefits.

Thank you for this.

@D-Rose, thank you, man.

I won't forget this. I'll talk to them tomorrow.

[$LakerGold]

Are you going to tell us what her asshole boyfriend did to warrant an ass beating?
One of it is, he's a fake tough guy. & that's just one of it.

[D-Rose]

Thank you for this.

@D-Rose, thank you, man.

I won't forget this. I'll talk to them tomorrow.
:cheers: no prob dude. Good luck, and please think before you act out of passion.

[YouGotServed]

One of it is, he's a fake tough guy. & that's just one of it.

im not a lawyer or anything, but im pretty sure him being a fake tough guy is not a legit reason to kick his ass.

[Milbuck]

From what you've been saying, you don't really have much reason to do anything violent to your sister's boyfriend. I'd definitely consider shitting on his car or something, but kicking his ass should be off the table unless he actually does something that warrants it.

[ace23]

2nd time. She was physically abused by my father before, but that's over now, he can't do it anymore.
Is he paralyzed?

[iBandwagon]

OP is a child.

[1987_Lakers]

Why would you fight someone who's mother just died a week ago when he's not even the issue here.

OP sounds like an immature idiot.

[zoom17]

weird thread.

[ElPigto]

Stop acting all tough vato. First of all, stop saying you don't care if you go to jail. You obviously care, otherwise you wouldn't be asking us what are the consequences of you assaulting someone for no ****ing reason. Second, you aren't the ****ing parent bro, it's admirable that you want to help your mom out, but your mom needs to step the **** up and be a mom. If she can't handle your sister that is her own damn fault. I know kids are dumbasses, but when they don't have respect for their parents, the parents more than likely failed at raising them right somewhere along the way. You shouldn't risk going to jail just to try to fix something that is probably not going to help and more than likely make things worse.

You have a life ahead of you bro. I am glad you love your mom enough that you want to take action to help her out in this situation, but honestly the only thing you can do is act like a rational adult and attempt to talk things out. If you really want the bf not to come to the house, get a restraining order on him. At the end of the day your sister is going to make her own choices and you beating up the bf will more than likely not have any effect on this issue. I guess in the short term you'll feel good about it, but in the long term, if you end up in jail, you'll probably screw up future job prospects and such. Stop being so damn short sighted.

[plowking]

Jesus, OP... You're a flat out idiot. I knew it prior to this thread, but it's good the rest of the board knows now.

How much of an idiot do you have to be to think violence is the answer? All that posting in the UFC thread is getting to you. You clearly have a lot of anger built up from all that passive aggressive posting you do on here, and I guess it's pent over and time to try and beat someone up over it.

He's a fake tough guy, and you want to beat him up?

Idiot. lol...

[plowking]

Did OP beat the shit out of the boyfriend or did he get knocked out?

[KyleKong]

How old are you?

[BlazerRed]

OP :facepalm

[Meticode]

Original poster's family and himself need to go to counselling pronto. Holy shit. :oldlol:

[BasedTom]

Original poster's family and himself need to go to counselling pronto. Holy shit. :oldlol:
No, that's what Jerry Springer and Maury are for.

To help people resolve their issues as responsible adults would.

[GimmeThat]

while I understand that what is legal and what is illegal troubles others on the matter of moral. especially when it comes to the subject of how much power should an authoritative figure holds.

blood is a disease.