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G-Funk
06-23-2014, 10:41 AM
So I met this girl that I really like who either pretends or really has no Idea when a guy is trying to get at her. And it bothers the **** out of me, and we get keep getting in arguments over it all the time, I'm going to give u 3 examples of what I mean but first I need advice on how to deal with this girl, I don't know how to tell her that these dudes are trying to get at her and that she's looking like hoe cause she's too friendly with these ni99az:
First, she tells me she's hanging out with a guy at a party that he invited her to. I told her u know he's getting at u right, she's like no were just friends, and my responds to her is but he's only inviting u cause he wants it, and I finally got her to agree that all men want is the *****, but her argument is they are only going to go as far as she lets them, so my point to her was so why have a "friendship" that's not genuine and he's only been a friend cause he wants u, she said cause she enjoys the company.
2nd, she says my cousin hits her up on text all the time, to see how she's doing, says that not every guy that msg her is trying to get at her. My response was so how come he doesn't msg my sister to see how she's doing or me? She says that he's my family so she can't just diss him when he texts her.
There is this guy on IG that thinks she wants him cause she likes his Ig pictures but he's ugly ass has a gf but dude wants to sign up at her gym and asks her to go with him and she agreed. I told her dude is Already in shape, why does he need to go to ur gym, it's just an excuse to get close to u, But she gives me the same bullshit response.
JohnFreeman
06-23-2014, 10:42 AM
You reek of desperation, and you better believe she can smell it.
Nick Young
06-23-2014, 10:44 AM
So I met this girl that I really like who either pretends or really has no Idea when a guy is trying to get at her. And it bothers the **** out of me, and we get keep getting in arguments over it all the time, I'm going to give u 3 examples of what I mean but first I need advice on how to deal with this girl, I don't know how to tell her that these dudes are trying to get at her and that she's looking like hoe cause she's too friendly with these ni99az:
First, she tells me she's hanging out with a guy at a party that he invited her to. I told her u know he's getting at u right, she's like no were just friends, and my responds to her is but he's only inviting u cause he wants it, and I finally got her to agree that all men want is the *****, but her argument is they are only going to go as far as she lets them, so my point to her was so why have a "friendship" that's not genuine and he's only been a friend cause he wants u, she said cause she enjoys the company.
2nd, she says my cousin hits her up on text all the time, to see how she's doing, says that not every guy that msg her is trying to get at her. Lin like so how come he doesn't msg my sister to see how she's doing or me?
There is this guy on IG that thinks she wants him cause she likes his Ig pictures but he's ugly ass has a gf but dude wants to sign up at her gym and asks her to go with him... I told her dude is Already in shape, why does he need to go to ur gym, it's just an excuse to get close to u, But she gives me the same bullshit response.
dawg you in the friend zone so deep and dont even realize it. Also when you tell her not to get with these guys, it just makes these guys more attractive in her eyes.
She knows exactly what she's doing, and she knows how desperate you are for it. In the words of Queen Elsa:
http://25.media.tumblr.com/d5da0e81ae4716b9013a1606bfdd3355/tumblr_mxh4i2zyUn1qdsm1jo1_500.gif
G-Funk
06-23-2014, 10:49 AM
I already ht it tho ^^^^ so no friend zone. but u guys are right I'm just gonna shake the bitch
G-Funk
06-23-2014, 10:53 AM
who reads posts longer than a couple sentences? Christ.
Two ni99az
Nick Young
06-23-2014, 10:54 AM
I already ht it tho ^^^^ so no friend zone. but u guys are right I'm just gonna shake the bitch
you are what is called an orbiter. she keeps you around to boost her self esteem because she can tell how much you are in to her. Shake the bish yo
riseagainst
06-23-2014, 11:01 AM
ditch that bish. Don't waste your time with girls. Find yourself a woman.
MrC1991
06-23-2014, 11:05 AM
Or just be friends with her and occasionally hook up and don't overthink it or catch feelings. Like an adult
Wish more "adults" would think like this.
G-Funk
06-23-2014, 11:07 AM
I see da light!!http://finkorswim.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/YellowLight_1372223.jpg
G-Funk
06-23-2014, 11:08 AM
Exactly what I needed a dose of reality
You're going through too much already. She ain't worth it bro. Just leave now before you fall in love. She smells your fear and uses it as a perfume.
G-Funk
06-23-2014, 11:36 AM
You're going through too much already. She ain't worth it bro. Just leave now before you fall in love. She smells your fear and uses it as a perfume.
Or I can keep talking to her but show her I stop givin g a f***, cause she wants to be with me, msgs me everyday, tells me she misses me and wishes she was my lady but I'm not ready to jump the gun now, I just don't want her to be that way
MrC1991
06-23-2014, 11:39 AM
Or I can keep talking to her but show her I stop givin g a f***, cause she wants to be with me
No let it go and move onto something else.
Nick Young
06-23-2014, 11:54 AM
Or I can keep talking to her but show her I stop givin g a f***, cause she wants to be with me, msgs me everyday, tells me she misses me and wishes she was my lady but I'm not ready to jump the gun now, I just don't want her to be that way
she just does that to keep you on her hook and boost her ego bro
http://25.media.tumblr.com/d5da0e81ae4716b9013a1606bfdd3355/tumblr_mxh4i2zyUn1qdsm1jo1_500.gif
nathanjizzle
06-23-2014, 12:00 PM
you know how many ****** shes ****ing? get real dude.
Pointguard
06-23-2014, 12:20 PM
I had a Sagittarius fox like that. Tried to play the stupid game like she don't know what guys are up to. She was the type that wanted me to stop the world and make her the center of the living universe. So I got distant and out of the picture only to hear that she was crazy about me. I went back with her only to have this craziness pop up again. She went thru my phone and whatever she could to be in my business. I left it alone.
No fine woman doesn't know the nature of men. And the women that like to play games don't stop playing them until some severe reality hits them. I would leave it alone. Tell her that you aren't used to women that don't know how men are.
Lonely_Sandberg
06-23-2014, 01:08 PM
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G-Funk
06-23-2014, 01:47 PM
I had a Sagittarius fox like that. Tried to play the stupid game like she don't know what guys are up to. She was the type that wanted me to stop the world and make her the center of the living universe. So I got distant and out of the picture only to hear that she was crazy about me. I went back with her only to have this craziness pop up again. She went thru my phone and whatever she could to be in my business. I left it alone.
No fine woman doesn't know the nature of men. And the women that like to play games don't stop playing them until some severe reality hits them. I would leave it alone. Tell her that you aren't used to women that don't know how men are.
Dawg, ur new knickname is now 'the hammer' cause u hit da nail on the head. You described her spot on.
G-Funk
06-23-2014, 01:54 PM
But how do I distant myself more, it's not like I bother her, I'm ok if we don't talk for days, I'm not clingy... should I ignore her text? I don't do that cause I think it's immature to do so, I thought I was over that stage but I guess women don't
Charlie Sheen
06-23-2014, 02:04 PM
But how do I distant myself more, it's not like I bother her, I'm ok if we don't talk for days, I'm not clingy... should I ignore her text? I don't do that cause I think it's immature to do so, I thought I was over that stage but I guess women don't
Yep. Ignore the texts. Or tell her what's really on your mind and ask her to f#ck. Find out once and for all where you stand with this broad or cut her loose.
Derka
06-23-2014, 02:08 PM
I had a Sagittarius fox like that. Tried to play the stupid game like she don't know what guys are up to. She was the type that wanted me to stop the world and make her the center of the living universe. So I got distant and out of the picture only to hear that she was crazy about me. I went back with her only to have this craziness pop up again. She went thru my phone and whatever she could to be in my business. I left it alone.
No fine woman doesn't know the nature of men. And the women that like to play games don't stop playing them until some severe reality hits them. I would leave it alone. Tell her that you aren't used to women that don't know how men are.
Every single word of this. My man here hits the nail on the head.
But how do I distant myself more, it's not like I bother her, I'm ok if we don't talk for days, I'm not clingy... should I ignore her text? I don't do that cause I think it's immature to do so, I thought I was over that stage but I guess women don't
Definitely ignore the texts. If she goes all pauk on you, you know you're on to adult things while this girl is playing kid's games. You don't need that.
G-Funk
06-23-2014, 02:18 PM
I want her to go Pauk on my ass
No homo
waseem780
08-30-2014, 10:41 PM
Bump
So what happened bruh?
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