Do you have enemies?

[BigBoss]

Is there anybody in your lifetime who you feel did you wrong? Do you use that as motivation for the things you do now? What happened?

Share ISH.

[sweggeh]

I have a way to many enemies to count, like for real. There was this one guy though, who I went to college with. He was a friend of a friend, so often we would hang out even though we hated eachother. There was always animosity but the worst moment was when he threw something at my face while we were on the bus in front of our other friend which was a girl that I liked and Im pretty sure liked me back. Cause I was young, I was only 16, I kinda froze and didnt do anything, and Im pretty sure that girl lost respect for me that day.

I did find out though that he threatened to kill himself cause his girlfriend wanted to leave him, and no one looked at him the same after that :yaohappy:

[gigantes]

enemies is not the same thing as ppl doing you wrong. the former is personal, the latter is just life.

i just try to shrug both things off... IMO nothing is ever really personal in the end, and my motivation almost always comes from different sources. unlike a michael jordan, say.

on july 1st i got jumped by two young guys right outside my place. we scuffled, they grabbed my 4G phone and some cash, then ran off. i got a light concussion and a little damage to the retina in my right eye. but they're still just brothers to me and i don't take it personally. IMO life is too short to get in to enemies, evil-doers and all that bullshit.

[riseagainst]

i once gave my ex girlfriend a present for her birthday: a super hung black man.

She was hesitant at first because she said that she doesn't like black people. She was innocent, in a sense that she did not know the stereotype surrounding black guys with huge d1cks. I was her first and I fcked her well everyday, or at least i thought. When he pulled that thang out, i could see her eyes open wide and she stared at it in disbelief. She was scared, not like she thought the guy was going to rob her cus he was black, but she was afraid of his d1ck. Needless to say, i was actually kind of turned on watching her about to get ravaged by a BBC.

She could barely even fit his tip in her mouth. But she still tried to take as much into her mouth as possible and made slurping sounds. It was fcking hot. Then the black guy lost his patience and just wanted to ram it in hard and fast. He barely made contact with his tip at first and she moaned loud. Oh yeah i know she wanted it badly. Then out of no where, he just rammed it in with so much force it looked like she was about to rip in half. She screamed in agony, but i could see it in her eyes that she enjoyed the pleasure. After he was done, her vag was gaping wide, 3 times wider than the girth of my *****. It was epic.

From that day on, sex with her was never the same, mostly for her. She was loose and i just did not satisfy her enough. She eventually cheated and slept around with blck guys, and black guys only, because she loved BBC. She eventually broke up with me and told me straight up i have a small d1ck. :(

Every now and then i see her facebook pictures and all pictures of her are with different black guys..... dam it.....

[sweggeh]

enemies is not the same thing as ppl doing you wrong. the former is personal, the latter is just life.

i just try to shrug both things off... IMO nothing is ever really personal in the end, and my motivation almost always comes from different sources. unlike a michael jordan, say.

on july 1st i got jumped by two young guys right outside my place. we scuffled, they grabbed my 4G phone and some cash, then ran off. i got a light concussion and a little damage to the retina in my right eye. but they're still just brothers to me and i don't take it personally. IMO life is too short to get in to enemies, evil-doers and all that bullshit.

Next time they gon f*ck up your left eye, see if your still brothers then.

[TylerOO]

nah. everyone respects or fears me. alpha as ****

[BigBoss]

enemies is not the same thing as ppl doing you wrong. the former is personal, the latter is just life.

i just try to shrug both things off... IMO nothing is ever really personal in the end, and my motivation almost always comes from different sources. unlike a michael jordan, say.

on july 1st i got jumped by two young guys right outside my place. we scuffled, they grabbed my 4G phone and some cash, then ran off. i got a light concussion and a little damage to the retina in my right eye. but they're still just brothers to me and i don't take it personally. IMO life is too short to get in to enemies, evil-doers and all that bullshit.

I disagree, anyone who does you dirty is an enemy. You're a better man to shrug it off, but you won't go far in life with that mentality

[sweggeh]

i once gave my ex girlfriend a present for her birthday: a super hung black man.

She was hesitant at first because she said that she doesn't like black people. She was innocent, in a sense that she did not know the stereotype surrounding black guys with huge d1cks. I was her first and I fcked her well everyday, or at least i thought. When he pulled that thang out, i could see her eyes open wide and she stared at it in disbelief. She was scared, not like she thought the guy was going to rob her cus he was black, but she was afraid of his d1ck. Needless to say, i was actually kind of turned on watching her about to get ravaged by a BBC.

She could barely even fit his tip in her mouth. But she still tried to take as much into her mouth as possible and made slurping sounds. It was fcking hot. Then the black guy lost his patience and just wanted to ram it in hard and fast. He barely made contact with his tip at first and she moaned loud. Oh yeah i know she wanted it badly. Then out of no where, he just rammed it in with so much force it looked like she was about to rip in half. She screamed in agony, but i could see it in her eyes that she enjoyed the pleasure. After he was done, her vag was gaping wide, 3 times wider than the girth of my *****. It was epic.

From that day on, sex with her was never the same, mostly for her. She was loose and i just did not satisfy her enough. She eventually cheated and slept around with blck guys, and black guys only, because she loved BBC. She eventually broke up with me and told me straight up i have a small d1ck. :(

Every now and then i see her facebook pictures and all pictures of her are with different black guys..... dam it.....

wow

[BigBoss]

i once gave my ex girlfriend a present for her birthday: a super hung black man.

She was hesitant at first because she said that she doesn't like black people. She was innocent, in a sense that she did not know the stereotype surrounding black guys with huge d1cks. I was her first and I fcked her well everyday, or at least i thought. When he pulled that thang out, i could see her eyes open wide and she stared at it in disbelief. She was scared, not like she thought the guy was going to rob her cus he was black, but she was afraid of his d1ck. Needless to say, i was actually kind of turned on watching her about to get ravaged by a BBC.

She could barely even fit his tip in her mouth. But she still tried to take as much into her mouth as possible and made slurping sounds. It was fcking hot. Then the black guy lost his patience and just wanted to ram it in hard and fast. He barely made contact with his tip at first and she moaned loud. Oh yeah i know she wanted it badly. Then out of no where, he just rammed it in with so much force it looked like she was about to rip in half. She screamed in agony, but i could see it in her eyes that she enjoyed the pleasure. After he was done, her vag was gaping wide, 3 times wider than the girth of my *****. It was epic.

From that day on, sex with her was never the same, mostly for her. She was loose and i just did not satisfy her enough. She eventually cheated and slept around with blck guys, and black guys only, because she loved BBC. She eventually broke up with me and told me straight up i have a small d1ck. :(

Every now and then i see her facebook pictures and all pictures of her are with different black guys..... dam it.....
This post is probably bs but a lot of ppl do only find pleasure in voyeurism by watching their loved ones get humiliated sexually. Ive heard stories about husbands dropping their wives off at sex clubs, then picking them up later why the wife is stoned/drunk recapping the night to get them off so they can **** their wife replaying what they heard in their head. Its the only way they can finish during sex

[imnew09]

Those who anonymous negged me, I'd seek my revenge soon

[tmacattack33]

enemies is not the same thing as ppl doing you wrong. the former is personal, the latter is just life.

i just try to shrug both things off... IMO nothing is ever really personal in the end, and my motivation almost always comes from different sources. unlike a michael jordan, say.

on july 1st i got jumped by two young guys right outside my place. we scuffled, they grabbed my 4G phone and some cash, then ran off. i got a light concussion and a little damage to the retina in my right eye. but they're still just brothers to me and i don't take it personally. IMO life is too short to get in to enemies, evil-doers and all that bullshit.

IMO life is too boring without it.

Sometimes some interesting beef is highly entertaining. I miss high school, when everyone was competing against each other to be mr cool man and get the girls. It was like a game.

[sweggeh]

This post is probably bs but a lot of ppl do only find pleasure in voyeurism by watching their loved ones get humiliated sexually. Ive heard stories about husbands dropping their wives off at sex clubs, then picking them up later why the wife is stoned/drunk recapping the night to get them off so they can **** their wife replaying what they heard in their head. Its the only way they can finish during sex

I heard a story once about a guy who was in love with a girl, and he was desperate for her to be his girlfriend. She invited him to a party that she knew of, and he went. I think he was trying to play it cool and not give her too much attention, but when the time came he was too nervous to make a move. She was drunk and started talking to some other guy and they went upstairs. This guy couldnt handle her possibly giving her virginity to someone else so he went to the door to listen and heard weird noises. He eventually opened the door and saw the guy raw dogging her from behind and her screaming from enjoyment. He ran home and cried as he jerked off to what he had seen. I cant remember where I saw this but Im sure its on ISH somewhere if you look.

[gigantes]

I disagree, anyone who does you dirty is an enemy. You're a better man to shrug it off, but you won't go far in life with that mentality
on the contrary, that mentality has gotten me past decades of things which would have otherwise wrecked me. and it sounds like you will find yourself surrounded by enemies with your own mentality.


IMO life is too boring without it.

Sometimes some interesting beef is highly entertaining. I miss high school, when everyone was competing against each other to be mr cool man and get the girls. It was like a game.
life has plenty of things to interest me without needing to resort to that thinking. OTOH, i love such things as MMA, sports and dissing my buddies (and various strangers) for fun. being mock-enemies is all good to me.

i'm an older guy, tho, so it's not like i started out thinking this way. all part of the growing up process... at least for me.

[D-FENS]

This post is probably bs but a lot of ppl do only find pleasure in voyeurism by watching their loved ones get humiliated sexually. Ive heard stories about husbands dropping their wives off at sex clubs, then picking them up later why the wife is stoned/drunk recapping the night to get them off so they can **** their wife replaying what they heard in their head. Its the only way they can finish during sex

SPeaking from experience? :roll:

[BasedTom]

Myself.

[BigBoss]

on the contrary, that mentality has gotten me past decades of things which would have otherwise wrecked me. and it sounds like you will find yourself surrounded by enemies with your own mentality.



Key word is would have wrecked you

I need you to explain the bold part.

Because quite frankly, as Bruce Lee said "hack away at the inessentials", i only surround myself with people who make me better and am adding by subtracting things in my life which includes grudges, but at the same time i'm on my toes to "strike" at anything or anyone in my way. To get to where I want to go i'll have things or people in my way, and they're my enemies that will get destroyed. That's more philosophical then literal, it's a mind frame. Historically, man in it's essence is about conquering. Whether it be politically, economics, or just personal. You can only take it to the next level, by stopping the next person from getting there first. You can't just NOT play the game otherwise you'll be forgotten. I was like you last year when i was buying into a lot of buddhist philisophy but i've discarded a lot of it, i've only held onto philisophies about centering oneself.

[LOLCATS]

I dont believe in keeping grudges, it just hurts you in the long run.

[TheReal Kendall]

I dont believe in keeping grudges, it just hurts you in the long run.

Just like keeping secrets from your wife. :facepalm

[gigantes]

Key word is would have wrecked you

I need you to explain the bold part.

Because quite frankly, as Bruce Lee said "hack away at the inessentials", i only surround myself with people who make me better and am adding by subtracting things in my life which includes grudges, but at the same time i'm on my toes to "strike" at anything or anyone in my way. To get to where I want to go i'll have things or people in my way, and they're my enemies that will get destroyed. That's more philosophical then literal, it's a mind frame. Historically, man in it's essence is about conquering. Whether it be politically, economics, or just personal. You can only take it to the next level, by stopping the next person from getting there first. You can't just NOT play the game otherwise you'll be forgotten. I was like you last year when i was buying into a lot of buddhist philisophy but i've discarded a lot of it, i've only held onto philisophies about centering oneself.
LIFE is about conquering and competition. it's built-in from the very first cells on earth.

MAN is about -that- in combination with tribalism (community, brothers and sisters). this goes back as much as 6+ million years, and produces such things as sacrificing for a stranger as well as 'us against them' thinking.

one day you may be able to get more from buddhism and realise it may have more to teach you. it certainly does for me.

IMO the big point is to understand the various systems in life and the various roles we must play. sometimes that means being an alpha beast, sometimes a pacifist with thick skin, other times something in-between. as bruce lee also said-- "be like water, my friend."

[LOLCATS]

Just like keeping secrets from your wife. :facepalm

You know nothing about me, my wife or our relationship and I know you are trying to offend me but you should think before you speak, for your own sake.

[Lebron23]

I only have one enemy his name is Sandy. He bullied me in 4th grade then I punched him and almost Knocked him out.

[TheReal Kendall]

You know nothing about me, my wife or our relationship and I know you are trying to offend me but you should think before you speak, for your own sake.

I'm not trying to offend you. I just feel like you should be honest to your wife and tell her about your past adventures.

[LOLCATS]

I'm not trying to offend you. I just feel like you should be honest to your wife and tell her about your past adventures.

Why? I have already spoken about this, what would be the point? Do you go into detail with your wife/girlfriend about you ex girlfriends? Who does that? She has seen a couple pictures and spoken to one of my exes in the street, thats all she needs to know. Shes not even interested to know anymore than that, so why would I even bring it up? And even if I did how would that help our relationship? If anything it would cause unnecessary strain on our marriage.

[Thunderfan86]

I'm not trying to offend you. I just feel like you should be honest to your wife and tell her about your past adventures.
Is there a thread around here that mentions him and his past adventures? If so.....could you point me in the right direction?

[sweggeh]

Is there a thread around here that mentions him and his past adventures? If so.....could you point me in the right direction?

http://www.insidehoops.com/forum/showthread.php?t=348223

Your welcome. I think he talked about it a bit more in other places but this was the origin. Buckle up, its quite a read. He starts on the second page.

[BigBoss]

LIFE is about conquering and competition. it's built-in from the very first cells on earth.

MAN is about -that- in combination with tribalism (community, brothers and sisters). this goes back as much as 6+ million years, and produces such things as sacrificing for a stranger as well as 'us against them' thinking.

one day you may be able to get more from buddhism and realise it may have more to teach you. it certainly does for me.

IMO the big point is to understand the various systems in life and the various roles we must play. sometimes that means being an alpha beast, sometimes a pacifist with thick skin, other times something in-between. as bruce lee also said-- "be like water, my friend."

I have 3 questions for you

1) Would you say your a patient person? If so how do you slow down.
2) Whats your opinion about friendships
3) Do you feel content? If so, when did it occur and why. If not, then skip this

[step_back]

Yes.

I won't go into fine details but when I was a teenager my mum was extorted for money by her partner. It's left her in significant money problems for the rest of her life. That is my enemy.

I know where this man lives and have often thought about slitting his throat.

[sweggeh]

Yes.

I won't go into fine details but when I was a teenager my mum was extorted for money by her partner. It's left her in significant money problems for the rest of her life. That is my enemy.

I know where this man lives and have often thought about slitting his throat.

Instead of being a noob, why dont you work extra hard and dedicate your life to making enough money to allow you mum to live a financially healthy life? Whats done is done, the money isnt going to pour out of his neck if you slit his throat.

[BigBoss]

Yes.

I won't go into fine details but when I was a teenager my mum was extorted for money by her partner. It's left her in significant money problems for the rest of her life. That is my enemy.

I know where this man lives and have often thought about slitting his throat.

Have you ever spoken to him?

[step_back]

Instead of being a noob, why dont you work extra hard and dedicate your life to making enough money to allow you mum to live a financially healthy life? Whats done is done, the money isnt going to pour out of his neck if you slit his throat.

It's easy for you to say. I still have family members who no longer have contact because of what happened. People can think what ever they like it doesn't matter to me or change how I feel.

I only want to harm one person on this Earth.

[sweggeh]

It's easy for you to say. I still have family members who no longer have contact because of what happened. People can think what ever they like it doesn't matter to me or change how I feel.

I only want to harm one person on this Earth.

Im just saying bro, its not healthy. You can get him back, but that only solves one side of the problem. What about the bigger problem of your mums financial security?

[gigantes]

I have 3 questions for you

1) Would you say your a patient person? If so how do you slow down.
2) Whats your opinion about friendships
3) Do you feel content? If so, when did it occur and why. If not, then skip this
lol... can i loan you a few bucks and do your homework, too?

ah whtv

1) most of the time. dunno what you mean by slow down if i'm already being patient.
2) they're an important part of a healthy life
3) dunno if i'll ever be 'content', but i know how to get there much more easily than when i was younger. understanding why i am the way i am helped a lot. IME most of the 'negative' aspects of ourselves don't need to be eradicated, covered up or medicated... they need to be accepted and managed accordingly.

[step_back]

Have you ever spoken to him?

I've not spoken to him but I've followed him home from work. That's how I know where he lives. ****er is literally 4/5 miles away from my mums house. I won't ever act on my thoughts because it would only bring more harm to my family and me going to prison for life is a waste of mine but he's the only person in my life that I actually hate and consider my enemy.

I can forgive people who've wronged me but we're not talking money around the few thousand mark. He bought a house.

[sweggeh]

I've not spoken to him but I've followed him home from work. That's how I know where he lives. ****er is literally 4/5 miles away from my mums house. I won't ever act on my thoughts because it would only bring more harm to my family and me going to prison for life is a waste of mine but he's the only person in my life that I actually hate and consider my enemy.

I can forgive people who've wronged me but we're not talking money around the few thousand mark. He bought a house.

Woah wtf.....how much was it? Like just the ball park?

[step_back]

Woah wtf.....how much was it? Like just the ball park?

Over

[sweggeh]

[QUOTE=step_back]Over

[sweggeh]

Ok now your anger makes more sense. Did you say before you lived in that rich part of London where all the uptown hoes were at? It explains why your mum was so rich. Did you guys get the police involved?

[sweggeh]

[QUOTE=step_back]Over

[step_back]

Ok now your anger makes more sense. Did you say before you lived in that rich part of London where all the uptown hoes were at? It explains why your mum was so rich. Did you guys get the police involved?

I live in South West London. It's not a mansion or anything like that but the houses down my road go for half a million usually. My mum has also lived in it for nearly 40 years. We're very much working class but the area has been built on over the last few decades and now is considered an affluent part of London.

In regards to legal action it's even more costly, technically she did sign off on the money borrowed against the house. We can argue all we want about how he conned her but how exactly can we prove it when paper work in her name has been signed.

[Thunderfan86]

http://www.insidehoops.com/forum/showthread.php?t=348223

Your welcome. I think he talked about it a bit more in other places but this was the origin. Buckle up, its quite a read. He starts on the second page.
Just read the whole thread, it was very interesting to say the least. I wonder if I could get him to answer a question for me.

[BigBoss]

lol... can i loan you a few bucks and do your homework, too?

ah whtv

1) most of the time. dunno what you mean by slow down if i'm already being patient.
2) they're an important part of a healthy life
3) dunno if i'll ever be 'content', but i know how to get there much more easily than when i was younger. understanding why i am the way i am helped a lot. IME most of the 'negative' aspects of ourselves don't need to be eradicated, covered up or medicated... they need to be accepted and managed accordingly.

I asked for a comparison. I have no desire to learn from you. You're the underacheiver type who hides behind buddhist philiosphy. Yeah your approach to life isn't as focused as mines. Ill go much farther. If you decide you want to take it to the next level and pass 3 trials you can be my student. Pm me little man

[BigBoss]

I've not spoken to him but I've followed him home from work. That's how I know where he lives. ****er is literally 4/5 miles away from my mums house. I won't ever act on my thoughts because it would only bring more harm to my family and me going to prison for life is a waste of mine but he's the only person in my life that I actually hate and consider my enemy.

I can forgive people who've wronged me but we're not talking money around the few thousand mark. He bought a house.

You need to reconcile those feelings at some point. Theres 3 options 1) hurting him which solves nothing. 2) letting go 3) using your mothers financial difficulty and its impact on you as a vehicle to find success in your life.

Good luck man. Hope you get closure in that.

[gigantes]

I asked for a comparison. I have no desire to learn from you. Yeah your approach to life isn't as focused as mines. Ill go much farther.
aw... i'm sure you will. :cheers:

[riseagainst]

i get negged for spilling my soul... you guys are heartless.

:(
:cry:

[GimmeThat]

I try not to worry about it when they aren't active in my life.

I tend to not do much about it when I don't consider them to be growing into a big threat.


the term killer instinct may as well be framed that once you recognize a legitimate threat, you not just remove them, but eliminate them.