How do you deal with marital problems?

[LOLCATS]

I am having some pretty bad troubles with my wife. We argue every single day, and they are getting worse and about things that are more petty. I love her but I feel like she regrets marrying me. She went through a lot when she decided to marry me (mostly because of her family) and I am getting the feeling she thinks she made the wrong decision. So anyway, how do you talk to someone who is always stressed out and you think may not want to be with you anymore?

[Jailblazers7]

Step 1: Talk to a marriage counselor.

[DukeDelonte13]

i feel like petty arguments aren't really a big deal. All women argue over petty sh*t constantly.

Sometimes i feel like no matter what you do or say, there are just going to be some days where you S/O is gonna find a way to be pissed at you.

[SupermanOnSteroids]

i guess its time for you to win her over again.

[riseagainst]

how did you get her to marry you in the first place? What made her decide to choose you over her family?

[LOLCATS]

how did you get her to marry you in the first place? What made her decide to choose you over her family?

Im white (half British, half Murican). She is Indian. Her family wanted her to marry a Indian guy and their was a lot of arguing and falling out between her and numerous family members. She went through a lot to get us to this point. I get the feeling now that she regrets it. She brings things up like how she really misses her cousin, who was friends with her but they stopped talking since we got married. The thing is she knows that I know why they arent talking, and its like shes trying to make me feel guilty by bringing up stuff she lost because of me indirectly. And if I confront her she just calls me paranoid and makes a awkward show of me not appreciating what she did. Its been like this since a few months after our wedding.

[stalkerforlife]

I am having some pretty bad troubles with my wife. We argue every single day, and they are getting worse and about things that are more petty. I love her but I feel like she regrets marrying me. She went through a lot when she decided to marry me (mostly because of her family) and I am getting the feeling she thinks she made the wrong decision. So anyway, how do you talk to someone who is always stressed out and you think may not want to be with you anymore?

Sorry to hear about your situation. I went through the same thing as you. My GF would get so angry over the smallest things, like she wanted to fight and separate us. I just stayed the course and killed her with kindness and love. Things have gotten a lot better over time. We have a child together, though...that helped strengthen our love.

I don't know, man...sucks. I'm beta and I know no woman considers me her dream man.

[BRabbiT]

empathy

[DeuceWallaces]

You talk it out, but I would be upfront with her if she tried to run the guilt train on me because her family are a bunch of marital xenophobes. Put a stop to that shit quick and make her realize how wrong they are; not the other way around.

[sweggeh]

Just tell her you used to bang trannies. That should diffuse the situation.

[sweggeh]

Yo I have been meaning to ask you, have you become a expert at identifying trannies now? Like could you pick one out of a line up no matter how well they have been concealed?

[KyleKong]

Fart in her *****.

She'll never see it coming!

[stalkerforlife]

Just tell her you used to bang trannies. That should diffuse the situation.

:roll:

Seriously, though, did he bang the ones that still had their junk?

[sweggeh]

:roll:

Seriously, though, did he bang the ones that still had their junk?

Yep. He claimed it wasnt gay though :rolleyes:

[Im so nba'd out]

I am having some pretty bad troubles with my wife. We argue every single day, and they are getting worse and about things that are more petty. I love her but I feel like she regrets marrying me. She went through a lot when she decided to marry me (mostly because of her family) and I am getting the feeling she thinks she made the wrong decision. So anyway, how do you talk to someone who is always stressed out and you think may not want to be with you anymore?
Talk to her about it and by it i mean the trannies you sleep with.

[SupermanOnSteroids]

a little more oral should do it opie.

[Meticode]

Do two things.

Talk about it with her and see what she says. Then if you love her, if you truly love her, treat her the best you can absolutely treat her. Treat her like a queen and see if she returns the mutual feelings. If things don't change or she's not appreciative about the things you do for her. Then start thinking about counselling, separation or divorce depending upon what comes from it.

[SupermanOnSteroids]

http://tonova.typepad.com/thesuddencurve/images/2007/08/06/knobs.jpg

this was presented to me during my army debriefing from a deployment. good luck figuring it out opie.

[TheReal Kendall]

She starting to notice your gay tendencies bro. That's why you should've been honest from the jump.

[Bandito]

Put in her pooper.

[LOLCATS]

Thanks for the replies guys. I have tried talking it out with her and treating her the best I can in these difficult times but I think her problems are more to do with her and her family than they are with me. It doesnt matter what I do it wont make her situation better and this stress is killing our marriage. I dont really know how I can save it from here, everyday seems worse than the last. I was considering us taking a break but from experience that never works, it often just accelerates the break up. We have no kids so if worst came to worst we would be able to make it a clean break but it still hurts to think about our life together reaching a situation where it has no way of continuing with us being as happy as we were.

[sweggeh]

Dude how can you expect her to be fully honest to you with regards to her feelings if you arent being honest with her? You gotta tell her about the trannies man. You just gotta do it.

[Im so nba'd out]

Thanks for the replies guys. I have tried talking it out with her and treating her the best I can in these difficult times but I think her problems are more to do with her and her family than they are with me. It doesnt matter what I do it wont make her situation better and this stress is killing our marriage. I dont really know how I can save it from here, everyday seems worse than the last. I was considering us taking a break but from experience that never works, it often just accelerates the break up. We have no kids so if worst came to worst we would be able to make it a clean break but it still hurts to think about our life together reaching a situation where it has no way of continuing with us being as happy as we were.
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[SupermanOnSteroids]

i dunno if you want to keep this going, but if you do, get her pregnant quick.

[LOLCATS]

Dude how can you expect her to be fully honest to you with regards to her feelings if you arent being honest with her? You gotta tell her about the trannies man. You just gotta do it.

Are you even reading? What does that have to do with our situation right now? Sometimes I think there are people on this site who have transwomen fetishes, the way you guys keep bringing this up all the time. Theres nothing wrong with it, just be honest with yourself brother.

[LOLCATS]

She starting to notice your gay tendencies bro. That's why you should've been honest from the jump.

You too. Those who continually call others gay are usually the ones with something to hide.

[TheReal Kendall]

You too. Those who continually call others gay are usually the ones with something to hide.

But you admitted it though. :facepalm


I'm just saying her and her fam might be getting strange vibes from you. Women can tell when men are hiding stuff from them.

You can't expect her to be honest if you can't truly be honest.

[SupermanOnSteroids]

But you admitted it though. :facepalm


I'm just saying her and her fam might be getting strange vibes from you. Women can tell when men are hiding stuff from them.

You can't expect her to be honest if you can't truly be honest.
dude sucking cocks and taking ***** is the new way of life. the sooner you recognize the better off you would be.

[sweggeh]

Are you even reading? What does that have to do with our situation right now? Sometimes I think there are people on this site who have transwomen fetishes, the way you guys keep bringing this up all the time. Theres nothing wrong with it, just be honest with yourself brother.

I aint gon lie, some trannies look hot. LOOK hot. Thats as far as it goes. I can look at them and appreciate, but the second you touch then things change. You admitted to sucking off trannies di*ks, and claim you arent gay. All Im saying is that you need to share this with your wife. Be honest man.

[Im so nba'd out]

I aint gon lie, some trannies look hot. LOOK hot. Thats as far as it goes. I can look at them and appreciate, but the second you touch then things change. You admitted to sucking off trannies di*ks, and claim you arent gay. All Im saying is that you need to share this with your wife. Be honest man.
http://puppetlabs.com/sites/default/files/3618865-wtf.gif

[SupermanOnSteroids]

dude, some trannies just look hot. no debating that. look em up.

[sweggeh]

http://puppetlabs.com/sites/default/files/3618865-wtf.gif

Are you saying this isnt hot?

http://25.media.tumblr.com/1608d6d151e561dd141237c0180ef9c8/tumblr_mezbhmUrTw1rlkilvo4_500.jpg

http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/f0/d5/09/f0d509854139e78b602f678ce20b50fb.jpg

http://pic.pimg.tw/geantsage/1385249848-911337929.jpg

Its one thing to appreciate, another to actaully engage in. Lets no lie here bro.

[LOLCATS]

http://pic.pimg.tw/geantsage/1385249848-911337929.jpg


So its okay for you to look at her, but when this guy touches hes gay now?

http://img1.voc.com.cn/UpLoadFile/2013/11/30/201311301543307079.jpg

In what world does that make sense?

[Im so nba'd out]

Are you saying this isnt hot?

yes.....thats what im saying

[Bandito]

You're gay if you wouldn't **** these sluts all night long
They're men though. You would be ****ing MEN...!!!

[LOLCATS]

You're gay if you wouldn't **** these sluts all night long

Exactly. This is like back in the day when there were white men who loved black women but would never sleep with one because of what people would think. People arent close minded anymore, but people here talk like they are still in the 6th grade.

[LOLCATS]

They're men though. You would be ****ing MEN...!!!

Maybe by your definition but in the real world, when you look at them you clearly see women.

[sweggeh]

Exactly. This is like back in the day when there were white men who loved black women but would never sleep with one because of what people would think. People arent close minded anymore, but people here talk like they are still in the 6th grade.

Theres nothing wrong with it, being gay is generally accepted in todays society. A more accurate comparison would be a white guy sleeping with a black woman and then convincing himself she isnt black. Theres no need to lie to yourself.

[DukeDelonte13]

Theres nothing wrong with it, being gay is generally accepted in todays society. A more accurate comparison would be a white guy sleeping with a black woman and then convincing himself she isnt black. Theres no need to lie to yourself.


that's not accurate at all.

The black girl has a p*ssy. The tranny has a d*ck. It's a huge difference.

[LOLCATS]

Theres nothing wrong with it, being gay is generally accepted in todays society. A more accurate comparison would be a white guy sleeping with a black woman and then convincing himself she isnt black. Theres no need to lie to yourself.

Well theres really no point arguing, you are set in your ways so you live your way and I will live mine. But there are a lot of people like you. Watch this vid, it might help.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wONAJcuqbD4

[LOLCATS]

LOLCATS, does a tranny butthole feel like a lady butthole?

Of course. Obviously everyone is a little different and thus feels a little different during sex, but generally it is exactly the same whether transgender woman or biological woman.

[Rocketswin2013]

Easy, stop f*cking Shemales OP.

[#number6ix#]

PM real14 aka freshkid... Not only did he save my marriage he saved my life

[sweggeh]

Of course. Obviously everyone is a little different and thus feels a little different during sex, but generally it is exactly the same whether transgender woman or biological woman.

Have you tasted the buttholes? Do they taste the same?

[SupermanOnSteroids]

PM real14 aka freshkid... Not only did he save my marriage he saved my life
dude i know some women can go crazy if they don't get an orgasm in a long long time, but bringing other posters into it isn't really a good solution.

[sweggeh]

PM real14 aka freshkid... Not only did he save my marriage he saved my life

That fool couldnt save himself dollar at the dollar store :oldlol:

[SupermanOnSteroids]

Have you tasted the buttholes? Do they taste the same?
i can confirm, the buttholes taste the same, its the clits that you need to worry about.

[sweggeh]

dude i know some women can go crazy if they don't get an orgasm in a long long time, but bringing other posters into it isn't really a good solution.

:lebronamazed:

[sweggeh]

i can confirm, the buttholes taste the same, its the clits that you need to worry about.

:roll: :roll: :roll:

:applause:

[TheReal Kendall]

Of course. Obviously everyone is a little different and thus feels a little different during sex, but generally it is exactly the same whether transgender woman or biological woman.

Why not just fvck women then instead of fvcking dudes dressed as women? Or do you just like the extra package?

[LOLCATS]

Have you tasted the buttholes? Do they taste the same?

I can assure you they taste the same, thanks for asking.

[SupermanOnSteroids]

dude ass is ass whether its a guy or a girl. they are all the same. now the difference between ass and pu$$y, then you might be on to something.

[#number6ix#]

Stop getting caught jacking off to tranny porn and she should ease up a little

[BrainDead]

dude ass is ass whether its a guy or a girl. they are all the same. now the difference between ass and pu$$y, then you might be on to something.
If you don't mind me asking......What is your race?

[SupermanOnSteroids]

If you don't mind me asking......What is your race?
from India but grew up in US.

[LOLCATS]

Why not just fvck women then instead of fvcking dudes dressed as women? Or do you just like the extra package?

I have already addressed how I started dating transwomen exclusively in another thread that Im pretty sure you were present in.

[SupermanOnSteroids]

I have already addressed how I started dating transwomen exclusively in another thread that Im pretty sure you were present in.
so you've started dating transgender women EXCLUSIVELY?:biggums:

[sweggeh]

so you've started dating transgender women EXCLUSIVELY?:biggums:

If only you knew buddy. Did you see the original thread? He said he was in a group and they were professional tranny daters.

[D-FENS]

Sorry to hear about your situation. I went through the same thing as you. My GF would get so angry over the smallest things, like she wanted to fight and separate us. I just stayed the course and killed her with kindness and love. Things have gotten a lot better over time. We have a child together, though...that helped strengthen our love.

I don't know, man...sucks. I'm beta and I know no woman considers me her dream man.

Maybe your acne won her over.

[BigBoss]

Do meth together

[BrainDead]

I have already addressed how I started dating transwomen exclusively in another thread that Im pretty sure you were present in.
I have a question....but first I want to let you know that I'm not judging you or anything. I don't have a problem with anyone's preference. I'm just curious about something you said before.

I think you mentioned you had a relationship with a pre op tran. Did you have **** sex with her/him? Did you fondle his pen1s? Did you suck his pen1s? If the answer is yes....then how is that not gay? Again, I'm not trying to make fun of you or anything. I'm just trying to figure out the logic behind this.

[SupermanOnSteroids]

If only you knew buddy. Did you see the original thread? He said he was in a group and they were professional tranny daters.
yeah! good luck to ya buddy!!!

as a professional troll, i know you don't mean it brah. i has da faith in ya.

[LOLCATS]

I have a question....but first I want to let you know that I'm not judging you or anything. I don't have a problem with anyone's preference. I'm just curious about something you said before.

I think you mentioned you had a relationship with a pre op tran. Did you have **** sex with her/him? Did you fondle his pen1s? Did you suck his pen1s? If the answer is yes....then how is that not gay? Again, I'm not trying to make fun of you or anything. I'm just trying to figure out the logic behind this.

I have never touched the pen1s. Its like it isnt there. I said before, I know guys that like the pen1s and are aroused by touching it and sucking it, but not me. I only see them as female. If I was to go around sucking their d.i.c.k.s then I would say Im gay, but Im not.

[sweggeh]

I have never touched the pen1s. Its like it isnt there. I said before, I know guys that like the pen1s and are aroused by touching it and sucking it, but not me. I only see them as female. If I was to go around sucking their d.i.c.k.s then I would say Im gay, but Im not.

Bro you sound gayer with each post, just stop. Theres nothing wrong with being a fakkit bro, embrace it.

[niko]

Exactly. This is like back in the day when there were white men who loved black women but would never sleep with one because of what people would think. People arent close minded anymore, but people here talk like they are still in the 6th grade.
Closed minded would be saying that no one should do it no matter what. People aren't saying that. They are saying it's gay. I tend to agree. If you have sex with another man, by definition that's gay. If there are two ***** in the room and no woman, that's gay. :lol

No hate, do what makes you happy. But touching another ***** and saying it's not gay is weird to me.

[LOLCATS]

I have talked about all this before, I really dont want to go over it in every thread.

[Rocketswin2013]

Bro you sound gayer with each post, just stop. Theres nothing wrong with being a fakkit bro, embrace it.
^^^

[sweggeh]

I have talked about all this before, I really dont want to go over it in every thread.

Way to avoid the question bro.

[IcanzIIravor]

Does OP's wife no about his history with trannies? I'd say that could be a helluva marriage wedge if she is more of a traditionalist.

[GimmeThat]

it's hard to get someone to get back to being fully committed when they no longer want to look out/ help you in all aspects you are looking for.

I feel like sometimes you might even be better off to build upon your relationship when a new problem/scenario in life occurs than anything else.

unless what brought you two together from the first place involved factors/values that are just too general and shared by all that it then even becomes difficult to make a difference.

[sweggeh]

Does OP's wife no about his history with trannies? I'd say that could be a helluva marriage wedge if she is more of a traditionalist.

He should just tell her. These deluded lies he has convinced himself help nobody.

[Calabis]

Im white (half British, half Murican). She is Indian. Her family wanted her to marry a Indian guy and their was a lot of arguing and falling out between her and numerous family members. She went through a lot to get us to this point. I get the feeling now that she regrets it. She brings things up like how she really misses her cousin, who was friends with her but they stopped talking since we got married. The thing is she knows that I know why they arent talking, and its like shes trying to make me feel guilty by bringing up stuff she lost because of me indirectly. And if I confront her she just calls me paranoid and makes a awkward show of me not appreciating what she did. Its been like this since a few months after our wedding.

Dude, she sacrificed her family for you, that's pretty damn remarkable. Instead of confronting her about it, ask her if there is anything you can do to try to help her solve that issue. Hell maybe go speak to her father man to man, without her knowing. Tell him how you feel about his daughter and you can't change your race. Tell him your willing to do anything for her and that you want them to be apart of your guys life and journey. Let him know that he and his family are very important to her.

Not trying to get all Dr. Phil, but that must suck to lose your family like that.