how often do you text/talk on the phone with a girl you just started dating?

[dh144498]

title. How much is considered too much? Is it normal to talk on the phone every night for 2 hours even though we just started dating each other?

[NumberSix]

1 text/call per nutt you bust in her.

[navy]

title. How much is considered too much? Is it normal to talk on the phone every night for 2 hours even though we just started dating each other?
Depends what you are talking about. If you are calling her and forcing conversation then stop. If it is more a natural thing, then by all means continue.

Also, depends on how often you see her physically.

[riseagainst]

A text promptly every 10minutes accompanied by a call every hour, if she doesn't answer proceed to call 3 more times, if no answer, begin texting every 5minutes

Bishes love it

:lol

[Bandito]

Depends what you are talking about. If you are calling her and forcing conversation then stop. If it is more a natural thing, then by all means continue.

Also, depends on how often you see her physically.
This.

I call this girl that I just started dating almost everyday but it is never forced.

[russwest0]

This.

I call this girl that I just started dating almost everyday but it is never forced.

:wtf: clingy much?

[TheNaturalWR]

I text way more before we start dating. Shit is literally 24/7, up til like 3 AM talking about stupid random shit. Then when we start dating it's just like whenever, cause the bitch is already mine. :oldlol:

[riseagainst]

the girl i went out with recently initiates almost all the texts. and last night during text she asked me to call her because she wants to hear my voice again.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

the girl i went out with recently initiates almost all the texts. and last night during text she asked me to call her because she wants to hear my voice again.

I hate that though especially if you got a roommate. I remember having to go outside a few times my freshman year of college just to talk to my girl even if it was freezing cold outside. :facepalm

[chosen_one6]

the girl i went out with recently initiates almost all the texts. and last night during text she asked me to call her because she wants to hear my voice again.

She wants the D

[riseagainst]

I hate that though especially if you got a roommate. I remember having to go outside a few times my freshman year of college just to talk to my girl even if it was freezing cold outside. :facepalm

i feel you bro



She wants the D

:rockon:
gonna see her this saturday at her place.
:cheers:

[BigBoss]

18-22 range: everyday is fine.
22-26 range: play it cool
26 and up: less phone, more in person chats.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Depends on the girl.

[SupermanOnSteroids]

i text/phone my girl many times during the day. i send her dick pics, nipple pics, ass ho le pics, etc etc. all in all i keep it spicy.

[BigBoss]

i text/phone my girl many times during the day. i send her dick pics, nipple pics, ass ho le pics, etc etc. all in all i keep it spicy.

Did you guys meet while you were stoned/drunk? And does she shower?

[SupermanOnSteroids]

Did you guys meet while you were stoned/drunk? And does she shower?
we met in a library actually while studying for the finals while in college.

and yes we both shower. together. she scrubs my butt hole, with a brush, both inside and out. and i scrub her's the same way. after all we know we are going to end up licking each other's buttholes so why not clean what you'll lick thoroughly. because while its in the bathroom, its one thing, but when you get into the bedroom, OMG gotta go jack off.

[GimmeThat]

probably depends on how often you two could meet up.

[Meticode]

If you really like a girl and want to keep her hooked don't do it often. Hell, even sometimes if she sends you one message ignore it and don't reply until she sends you another.

[riseagainst]

If you really like a girl and want to keep her hooked don't do it often. Hell, even sometimes if she sends you one message ignore it and don't reply until she sends you another.

dam... this is some good advice. I have a soft and tender heart and i myself hate being ignored by anyone, even friends and family. So i naturally want to respond to whomever texts me even if i don't like them that much.

[LJJ]

What happens as the conversation (in text, in person or when calling, whatever) progresses is that you get to know each other better. And naturally once you know someone better your opinion changes. The girl (or guy, the reverse happens too) simply finds out you have incompatibilities, or you are boring in conversation, or she doesn't like your lifestyle, hobbies, values, etc. I think that's where the main "don't text too much" myth comes from. The real problem (she didn't like him as much as she thought she would) hurts the ego, so people explain it with "I gamed her wrong man, let that one slip through my fingers".


Just play it natural. Don't force anything. If you are having a nice conversation you can exchange as much as you like during that time. If the conversation is too one sided or you struggle to maintain don't keep struggling. Never keep sending texts if you don't get a response. It's simple really.

[SupermanOnSteroids]

Just be yourself





Said no one ever
b/c it never works.

trust me, as a practicing psychologist that has many many confident clients, i consider myself a bit on an expert on this matter. and that shit never works. you always have to portray an image of yourself that is better than you actually are and hope that gets accepted. then you hope that after they have accepted the exaggerated you, you would be able to calm down and they would continue to except the real you. but you still keep up a certain level of an image that doesn't portray the real you. but at first, always exaggerated. very much exaggerated.

[Meticode]

b/c it never works.

trust me, as a practicing psychologist that has many many confident clients, i consider myself a bit on an expert on this matter. and that shit never works. you always have to portray an image of yourself that is better than you actually are and hope that gets accepted. then you hope that after they have accepted the exaggerated you, you would be able to calm down and they would continue to except the real you. but you still keep up a certain level of an image that doesn't portray the real you. but at first, always exaggerated. very much exaggerated.
Welcome to marriage pretty much. :oldlol:

[ILLsmak]

b/c it never works.

trust me, as a practicing psychologist that has many many confident clients, i consider myself a bit on an expert on this matter. and that shit never works. you always have to portray an image of yourself that is better than you actually are and hope that gets accepted. then you hope that after they have accepted the exaggerated you, you would be able to calm down and they would continue to except the real you. but you still keep up a certain level of an image that doesn't portray the real you. but at first, always exaggerated. very much exaggerated.

It works once you have a sense of self and the more self actualized you are the more effective it is. Girls can tell man. They may put up with it, but guys who are themselves win almost always. Or I do.

A lot of people don't even have a sense of self. You gotta build it before you can be it. That's what true confidence is: I'm me, no one can be me better. I'm good enough, smart enough etc.

-Smak

[Angel Face]

Seldom. I only text / make phone calls when I wanna see her, although she text and call me all the time. If I have my phone with me in my pocket, I'll answer if she's calling. When she text sometimes I'll reply after 3 hours or more, sometimes instantly, sometimes the next day, depends...