Why don't people of my kind take me seriously as a mixed black man?

[Fudge]

I have lighter skin for a black man, but I keep getting clowned on by my dark skin homies. Cracking jokes like i'm sort of weakling. I feel like i'm in high school again. Getting bullied on a daily basis.

Why is it always like this? And if I were to step up, i'd get my ass kicked since i'm the only mixed person in my group of friends. This isn't fair.

[Smoke117]

I have lighter skin for a black man, but I keep getting clowned on by my dark skin homies. Cracking jokes like i'm sort of weakling. I feel like i'm in high school again. Getting bullied on a daily basis.

Why is it always like this? And if I were to step up, i'd get my ass kicked since i'm the only mixed person in my group of friends. This isn't fair.


get better friends.

[TheTruth11]

As a light skinned Black man I can tell you for a fact that YOU ARE WEAK. I hang with my darker skinned homies all the time and they never come at me that way. It starts with the attitude. You don't have to be a thug - just confident. And based upon the way that you are posting this weak shit tells me that you need to man up and be an Alpha.

If that does not help you looky here:
1. Malcolm X - believed to be one of the hardest brothers to have ever lived - MIXED RACE - nicknamed "Red" because of his reddish hair and lighter skin.
2. Frederick Douglas - freedom fighter and world renown leader of Black people - MIXED RACE - biiig respect to the big homie - a true Alpha.
3. WEB Dubois - look him up. Shot caller. Mixed.
4. George Washington Carver - look him up. Shot caller. Mixed.
5. The present leader of the NAACP - Mixed race.
6. Ice T - haaaha - modern day OG and pimp.
7. Blake Griffin - NBA - mixed race.
8. Klay Thompson - NBA - mixed race.
9. Jason Kidd - NBA - mixed race.
Etc., etc., etc.

Too many to count bro. Stop being a *****, be proud of who you are and stand on your square from now on.:pimp:

Also, as somebody else pointed out, if you are having problems with confidence and being strong... you might need to get yourself some new friends. Lions will naturally sort out the weak among them.

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[Fudge]

As a light skinned Black man I can tell you for a fact that YOU ARE WEAK. I hang with my darker skinned homies all the time and they never come at me that way. It starts with the attitude. You don't have to be a thug - just confident. And based upon the way that you are posting this weak shit tells me that you need to man up and be an Alpha.

If that does not help you looky here:
1. Malcolm X - believed to be one of the hardest brothers to have ever lived - MIXED RACE - nicknamed "Red" because of his reddish hair and lighter skin.
2. Frederick Douglas - freedom fighter and world renown leader of Black people - MIXED RACE - biiig respect to the big homie - a true Alpha.
3. WEB Dubois - look him up. Shot caller. Mixed.
4. George Washington Carver - look him up. Shot caller. Mixed.
5. The present leader of the NAACP - Mixed race.
6. Ice T - haaaha - modern day OG and pimp.
7. Blake Griffin - NBA - mixed race.
8. Klay Thompson - NBA - mixed race.
9. Jason Kidd - NBA - mixed race.
Etc., etc., etc.

Too many to count bro. Stop being a *****, be proud of who you are and stand on your square from now on.:pimp:

Also, as somebody else pointed out, if you are having problems with confidence and being strong... you might need to get yourself some new friends. Lions will naturally sort out the weak among them.

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Trust me, bro, I'm hard as hell. Outside of my circle of friends, i'm feared and well respected in my neighborhood.

Chicago nighas :facepalm :oldlol:

[TheTruth11]

Trust me, bro, I'm hard as hell. Outside of my circle of friends, i'm feared and well respected in my neighborhood.

Chicago nighas :facepalm :oldlol:

Go back and read your original post and see if what you write here makes any sense :facepalm

Either you were lying then or you are lying now, which one is it? Because if you are truly respected in the hood as you claim, your friends would respect you too.

[chosen_one6]

Trust me, bro, I'm hard as hell. Outside of my circle of friends, i'm feared and well respected in my neighborhood.

Chicago nighas :facepalm :oldlol:

I bet you are, because you're on a forum with a bunch of dudes. Just the thought of all the meat we're packing makes you salivate like a bulldog.

That's probably why they don't respect you. Because you lust for them and they can tell.

[Fudge]

Go back and read your original post and see if what you write here makes any sense :facepalm

Either you were lying then or you are lying now, which one is it? Because if you are truly respected in the hood as you claim, your friends would respect you too.
Those two don't go hand in hand. :lol For all you know, my friends can be suburban nerdy black kids that live miles away from me. Point is, I get clowned on because i'm outnumbered in my group. That's all it really is. I've realized lightskin black men are much more powerful/alpha all by their lonesome.

[Fudge]

I bet you are, because you're on a forum with a bunch of dudes. Just the thought of all the meat we're packing makes you salivate like a bulldog.

That's probably why they don't respect you. Because you lust for them and they can tell.
Now you're just making this awkward. Get yo homoerotic ass out of here and kill an innocent homeless man for fun again.

[riseagainst]

cus u aint a real *****.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

As a light skinned Black man I can tell you for a fact that YOU ARE WEAK. I hang with my darker skinned homies all the time and they never come at me that way. It starts with the attitude. You don't have to be a thug - just confident. And based upon the way that you are posting this weak shit tells me that you need to man up and be an Alpha.

If that does not help you looky here:
1. Malcolm X - believed to be one of the hardest brothers to have ever lived - MIXED RACE - nicknamed "Red" because of his reddish hair and lighter skin.
2. Frederick Douglas - freedom fighter and world renown leader of Black people - MIXED RACE - biiig respect to the big homie - a true Alpha.
3. WEB Dubois - look him up. Shot caller. Mixed.
4. George Washington Carver - look him up. Shot caller. Mixed.
5. The present leader of the NAACP - Mixed race.
6. Ice T - haaaha - modern day OG and pimp.
7. Blake Griffin - NBA - mixed race.
8. Klay Thompson - NBA - mixed race.
9. Jason Kidd - NBA - mixed race.
Etc., etc., etc.

Too many to count bro. Stop being a *****, be proud of who you are and stand on your square from now on.:pimp:

Also, as somebody else pointed out, if you are having problems with confidence and being strong... you might need to get yourself some new friends. Lions will naturally sort out the weak among them.

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Woah had no clue that Jason Kidd was mixed.

[riseagainst]

Woah had no clue that Jason Kidd was mixed.

no wonder he beats his wife.

[chosen_one6]

no wonder he beats his wife.

And has a big d*ck. And likes chicken. And likes watermelon. And likes 40's. And likes gangster rap. And has ashy skin. And is good at sports.

[Jameerthefear]

You aren't mixed you pimply piece of shit.

[32jazz]

Woah had no clue that Jason Kidd was mixed.


This guy seems to be a troll & this isn't a serious issue in the community. Silly.

But I was reminded of sportscenter when Kornheiser & Wilbon were actually compiling a list of the 5 best White players & Kornheiser ran out of players & picked Jason Kidd. Wilbon corrected him & reminded him Kidd is "Black' .

Kornheiser protested /whined & asked hilariously "Why do Blacks always get the mixed race Kids"?:oldlol:

[TheReal Kendall]

I'm lightskin and I can tell you just weak bro.

Man the fvck up and stop giving us a bad rep!

[Swaggin916]

The same thing happens if in any group of people if you are the only one that's different.

[Fudge]

I'm lightskin and I can tell you just weak bro.

Man the fvck up and stop giving us a bad rep!
Don't lie dog, you bump Drake albums during late night cruises.

[TheReal Kendall]

Don't lie dog, you bump Drake albums during late night cruises.

Nah, Drake makes me sleepy.

All about that Kevin Gates :pimp:

[SunsN07BookIt]

What difference does it make? Almost all African Americans are mixed anyway. Even the darkies like Condoleezza Rice and Snoop Dogg, have less than 75% Sub Saharan African DNA in their blood according to DNA tests.

[NumberSix]

OP. Your friends call you weak because of your super gay tendencies.

[Fudge]

OP. Your friends call you weak because of your super gay tendencies.
:coleman: :coleman:

[DaSeba5]

Get better friends. There are probably a lot more people who won't say shit about it. Drop negative people from your life. And I don't mean be a bitch and make a scene about it. I just mean start talking to them less and naturally people move on and you move on if it bothers you that much. You can't change who you are.

[Fudge]

Get better friends. There are probably a lot more people who won't say shit about it. Drop negative people from your life. And I don't mean be a bitch and make a scene about it. I just mean start talking to them less and naturally people move on and you move on if it bothers you that much. You can't change who you are.
Is it possible to get a darker skin tone?

[DaSeba5]

Is it possible to get a darker skin tone?

IDK for black people. I'm white so my skin color changes from the sun. I'm either red or tan since I live in South FL. Otherwise I can get pale if I'm away from the sun.

[Big_Dogg]

Friends or not, sometimes you just gotta fight some ****** and show them you don't take no mess