i am an addict....

[riseagainst]

i need to get this off my chest.

I have an addiction to *********ion. I *********e between 1-3 times a day, and through most of the past year, because of the frequency, i sub-consciously increased the speed of my stroke and the tightness of my grip. Nowadays i do it incredibly fast and grip it extremely tight because i now require a lot more sensation to climax. And on average it takes me 60-90 minutes to climax with my hand. And the strokes are super fast.

When i do it with women, which have way slower strokes obviously, i cannot climax within a reasonable time. I imagine it will take me a good 3-5 hours to reach it at this rate. She thinks she's doing something wrong, but i assured her it's not and it's just a problem of mine.

So now i need to un-do this necessity for that amount of sensation. I have started to do a no-fap challenge and i already started on Sunday. Now on day 4. I'm going through withdrawal.

:oldlol:

[Jailblazers7]

So you expect us to believe that you spend 3-4.5 hours per day *********ing furiously? :coleman:

[Nick Young]

how the phuck a bish last 3 hours of grinding, she stay wet that long bro? Really bro? really?

[riseagainst]

So you expect us to believe that you spend 3-4.5 hours per day *********ing furiously? :coleman:

i said 1-3 times a day. Most of time it's 1 time. If i have nothing to do like on some weekends, i do it more.

[riseagainst]

how the phuck a bish last 3 hours of grinding, she stay wet that long bro? Really bro? really?

nono. I guess i didnt really explain that part. I couldn't come close to climaxing after about 30 minutes, so i just stopped. :(

[Jailblazers7]

i said 1-3 times a day. Most of time it's 1 time. If i have nothing to do like on some weekends, i do it more.

ok but 60-90 minutes per time? Is your dick numb 24/7?

[riseagainst]

ok but 60-90 minutes per time? Is your dick numb 24/7?

no. But like i said, i have the death grip syndrome now due to too much *********ion.....

[sweggeh]

You gotta stop rising against your hand bro.

[Shade8780]

Your hairline must be even worse than LeBron's.

[SunsN07BookIt]

When i do it with women, which have way slower strokes obviously, i cannot climax within a reasonable time. I imagine it will take me a good 3-5 hours to reach it at this rate. She thinks she's doing something wrong, but i assured her it's not and it's just a problem of mine.




Yeah this really bothers women. When I first met my current gf, I had no problem ejaculating now I basically never do. It used to drive her crazy, and she used to incessantly bug me about until I'd get pissed, saying dumb shit like it wrecks a woman's body for a man not *** in her. Now she has gotten tired of nagging me, we go longer and she has more orgasms anyway. I didn't have this problem with other women, or my last long term gf, but even though my gf's pretty hot, she's not that bright, she's poor and already has one kid, so I think part of me is terrified of getting her pregnant.

[Orlando Magic]

http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/

Has all of the answers you need, OP.

Basically the more you jack off, and even more specifically, the more you use pornography, and even more specific than that, the more you use internet pornography... the more you're going to become desensitized to real women.

Stop beating off. Get off of your computer. When you're on it, DO NOT LOOK UP PORN.

Internet pornography ****s up a male's brain in ways that we have never before seen in the history of the species.

The good news is it's reversible and while recovery time varies, the average is 90 days. Some take 30 days and some take 1-2 years. But if you stop looking at porn and stop jacking off completely, your problems will be cured.

I would suggest seeing a counselor and trying to figure out why exactly it is that you are addicted to jacking off.

Addicts of ANYTHING are almost always, ALMOST ALWAYS trying to cover up some type of emotional hurt via a cheap escape... and that comes in the form of being addicted to jacking off, alcohol, drugs, etc... whatever.

[riseagainst]

http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/

Has all of the answers you need, OP.

Basically the more you jack off, and even more specifically, the more you use pornography, and even more specific than that, the more you use internet pornography... the more you're going to become desensitized to real women.

Stop beating off. Get off of your computer. When you're on it, DO NOT LOOK UP PORN.

Internet pornography ****s up a male's brain in ways that we have never before seen in the history of the species.

The good news is it's reversible and while recovery time varies, the average is 90 days. Some take 30 days and some take 1-2 years. But if you stop looking at porn and stop jacking off completely, your problems will be cured.

I would suggest seeing a counselor and trying to figure out why exactly it is that you are addicted to jacking off.

Addicts of ANYTHING are almost always, ALMOST ALWAYS trying to cover up some type of emotional hurt via a cheap escape... and that comes in the form of being addicted to jacking off, alcohol, drugs, etc... whatever.



i think i was just trying to cvm.

:lol

[9erempiree]

i need to get this off my chest.

I have an addiction to *********ion. I *********e between 1-3 times a day, and through most of the past year, because of the frequency, i sub-consciously increased the speed of my stroke and the tightness of my grip. Nowadays i do it incredibly fast and grip it extremely tight because i now require a lot more sensation to climax. And on average it takes me 60-90 minutes to climax with my hand. And the strokes are super fast.

When i do it with women, which have way slower strokes obviously, i cannot climax within a reasonable time. I imagine it will take me a good 3-5 hours to reach it at this rate. She thinks she's doing something wrong, but i assured her it's not and it's just a problem of mine.

So now i need to un-do this necessity for that amount of sensation. I have started to do a no-fap challenge and i already started on Sunday. Now on day 4. I'm going through withdrawal.

:oldlol:

WTF is this?:biggums:

I am embarrassed to be on here.

[riseagainst]

WTF is this?:biggums:

I am embarrassed to be on here.

we're human beings.
Oh renaissance man, oh handsome man.

[LONGTIME]

OP got a case of numb dick.

[~primetime~]

porn addiction has swept the country, I have read it labeled as an 'epidemic' even...and it isn't because all males have some underlying problem, it's because our hormones are programmed to love it.


BUT MORE INTERESTING...I also recently read that women watching hardcore porn is on a huge rise, studies show they are catching up with men almost. Unlike men they are scared to talk about it because society labels it taboo for women to watch porn. It is also more damaging to women because they usually feel shame in it due to society's views. Lots of women out there are seeking counseling for supposed porn addictions.


edit here is the article:

Pornography Addiction a Growing Problem Among Women (http://www.charismanews.com/opinion/watchman-on-the-wall/41611-pornography-addiction-a-growing-problem-among-women)

[KobesFinger]

Day 13 for me. This is attempt #2 for me, I relapsed on day 4 I think it was but so far its been pretty easy. I'm gonna find a girlfriend when I go back to uni and I'm gonna buss a huge nut on her face

[Shade8780]

Day 13 for me. This is attempt #2 for me, I relapsed on day 4 I think it was but so far its been pretty easy. I'm gonna find a girlfriend when I go back to uni and I'm gonna buss a huge nut on her face
Or most likely you're gonna end up cumming in 30 seconds.

[~primetime~]

Yeah you really don't have to stop jerking off for good, cold turkey lol. Jerking off is not only normal but also very healthy in moderation. Try just jerking off every other day, WITHOUT porn...see how that goes.

[russwest0]

I'm on day 4 too man....

Every 5 out there is looking like a 10....

[Orlando Magic]

I'm on 18 days. I had just reached 6 months hard mode when I relapsed for about a month straight.

I have never felt less anxious in my entire life than the extended period of abstaining from PMO.

[Orlando Magic]

Yeah you really don't have to stop jerking off for good, cold turkey lol. Jerking off is not only normal but also very healthy in moderation. Try just jerking off every other day, WITHOUT porn...see how that goes.

Jerking off every other day probably isn't healthy, but if you're staying away from porn and just using your imagination it's probably not terrible.

Porn at all = terrible. Period. It ****s up your brain.

Just stop doing it altogether.

Monk mode.

[russwest0]

Jerking off every other day probably isn't healthy, but if you're staying away from porn and just using your imagination it's probably not terrible.

Porn at all = terrible. Period. It ****s up your brain.

Just stop doing it altogether.

Monk mode.

Agreed with this.

[Smook A.]

Everytime you get "the feeling" just look at this picture. (http://img27.fansshare.com/pic138/w/age-and-ageing/1200/19584_old_women.jpg)

It helped me, so it might help you.

[russwest0]

i saw a 12 year old girl wearing a bikini and i know she was like just 12 or some shit but she had dat ass ish....

this not fapping shit is having me on my jameer shit lol

[riseagainst]

i just had phone sex last night and she was moaning and dirty talking and i was laying on my bed completely nude with one of the hardest hard-ons i've ever experienced. I tried really hard not to touch it but even then i still felt a surge of warmth and tension going from the base to the tip and wanting out like a geyser. But in the end i was able to control it.
#day5nofapstories

:rockon: