View Full Version : Do you see yourself getting married and staying faithful for the rest of your life?
BigBoss
09-13-2014, 01:50 AM
Is it possible to give up women? :confusedshrug:
Virgins please don't post i.e. Lebron23, Jameer, JohnFreeman
Im Still Ballin
09-13-2014, 01:58 AM
I'm a virgin at 21 and I can see myself being faithful. However, if I'm unhappy in my marriage then probably no.
Do you have a micropenis or something? Come on dude! Get out there! If you have a small pecker then I suggest you start jelqing and work on your confidence. There's always an answer man. Always.
Random_Guy
09-13-2014, 02:07 AM
yes
JEFFERSON MONEY
09-13-2014, 02:12 AM
Depends completely on the context of the the chick. If we become like.. extended family and all the in-laws are cool and the children are nice and life is good and we're all doing what we're supposed to be doing and fairly satisfied and there's beautiful mutual value exchanged between us.. then sure. Howard Stern's wife actively brings a lot to the table... so does Susan Downey.. keeps things fun, fresh, exciting and never quits.. you know as "stoic" as we may seem most of us simply can't hurt someone who's sincerely that good to us. Especially if the sex drive is channeled entirely to hobbies, creating wealth, being a good dad and all that. There's a few chicks who are inspiring because they're so damn beautiful (character-wise).. or maybe that's just the brain specifically selecting only the good in them hehe
married/monogamous guys like Deuce, Rufuspaul, and Boozehound stick out to me as flat out.... better, more robust people than a few of my player friends although from a biological/hedonistic standpoint the players are winnin the game of life
the only certainties is that the game of life is to be played strongly till the fukking end. saw a hunchbacked grandpa waddling his way to the cables this morning in the gym. perhaps a divorcee. nikka don't quit no matta what life throws at him. hopefully the unbreakable human drive/spirit will be retained thorugh thick and thin and any signs of a chick attempting to break that spirit will be revoked instantly.
JohnFreeman
09-13-2014, 02:14 AM
rent free
KNOW1EDGE
09-13-2014, 02:15 AM
Yes.
When you actually truly love a woman, you're perspective isn't "I HAVE to give up ALL women" but rather "I GET to have THIS woman for life" men TRULY in love don't give a fuh about not being able to have sex with other females
You'll understand when your older and more mature.
10% of men get tired of having sex with the same woman after just one month.
25% want something else after 6 months.
50% want to switch a different partner after 2-3 years.
80% probably don't even get that excited at all for the same woman after 10 years.
i'm totally pulling these numbers out of my ass. just estimating based on unscientific observation in life.
masonanddixon
09-13-2014, 12:35 PM
Yes.
When you actually truly love a woman, you're perspective isn't "I HAVE to give up ALL women" but rather "I GET to have THIS woman for life" men TRULY in love don't give a fuh about not being able to have sex with other females
You'll understand when your older and more mature.
lol this works for about 6 weeks.
Nick Young
09-13-2014, 12:40 PM
I dont think ill ever want to get married but have no problem with settling down with a chick long term.
Marriage is a complete fools game. What's the point of locking yourself in to a contract like that? To prove your love to the rest of the world? Because everyone else does it? I have zero idea how I will feel about someone 10 years from now. If I get married and later want a divorce, I will be f*cked and forced to give that woman MY money and hand over MY assets for the rest of my life. Laws favour women too much in divorces. Marriage is retarded.
Even Meticode cheated on his wife. Marriage can cause the most moral of men do completely change who they are.
If one day I am old and rich, 60+, I might be willing to marry a hotty 20 year old if it means I get to bang her for the rest of my days.
Nick Young
09-13-2014, 12:43 PM
Yes.
When you actually truly love a woman, you're perspective isn't "I HAVE to give up ALL women" but rather "I GET to have THIS woman for life" men TRULY in love don't give a fuh about not being able to have sex with other females
You'll understand when your older and more mature.
LOL why do you need to marry her to have her for life?
n00bie
09-13-2014, 12:56 PM
Really depends on the marriage & family situation.
If I have kids & I've got a good relationship with my in-laws / extended family.. I would not cheat.
Once you get older with kids, your priorities change. Is 1 night with a different vag worth risking losing your kids & all the relationships you've built with your extended family?
n00bie
09-13-2014, 01:01 PM
I dont think ill ever want to get married but have no problem with settling down with a chick long term.
Marriage is a complete fools game. What's the point of locking yourself in to a contract like that? To prove your love to the rest of the world? Because everyone else does it? I have zero idea how I will feel about someone 10 years from now. If I get married and later want a divorce, I will be f*cked and forced to give that woman MY money and hand over MY assets for the rest of my life. Laws favour women too much in divorces. Marriage is retarded.
Even Meticode cheated on his wife. Marriage can cause the most moral of men do completely change who they are.
If one day I am old and rich, 60+, I might be willing to marry a hotty 20 year old if it means I get to bang her for the rest of my days.
Sounds like you came from a broken home. Marriage is usually reserved for people who wants kids.
And with your logic, what happens if you're 60+ and you're NOT rich? I hope you enjoy being alone in your death bed. No 20 year old is going to want to bang you.
All the best with your life buddy. Your future's looking real bright. :applause:
Nick Young
09-13-2014, 01:19 PM
Sounds like you came from a broken home. Marriage is usually reserved for people who wants kids.
And with your logic, what happens if you're 60+ and you're NOT rich? I hope you enjoy being alone in your death bed. No 20 year old is going to want to bang you.
All the best with your life buddy. Your future's looking real bright. :applause:
Nope. Nothing stopping you from having kids and not being married.
So basically you're saying you should marry early and lock a woman in to alleviate your fear of being alone when you're old? Doesn't seem like a very good reason to me at all.:lol
Nick Young
09-13-2014, 01:21 PM
Really depends on the marriage & family situation.
If I have kids & I've got a good relationship with my in-laws / extended family.. I would not cheat.
Once you get older with kids, your priorities change. Is 1 night with a different vag worth risking losing your kids & all the relationships you've built with your extended family?
The greatest husband and family man on ISH, Meticode said the exact same thing. Dude spent 3 years posting about how much he loved his wife. And then...we all know what happened.
step_back
09-13-2014, 01:25 PM
Sounds like you came from a broken home. Marriage is usually reserved for people who wants kids.
And with your logic, what happens if you're 60+ and you're NOT rich? I hope you enjoy being alone in your death bed. No 20 year old is going to want to bang you.
All the best with your life buddy. Your future's looking real bright. :applause:
Sounds like you live in an "ideal" world. There's no guarantee you won't be a 60+ year old man who dies alone on his death bed.
Also not everyone gives a shit about finding a soul mate in life. It's not a motivating factor for me.
Nick Young
09-13-2014, 01:40 PM
Sounds like you live in an "ideal" world. There's no guarantee you won't be a 60+ year old man who dies alone on his death bed.
Also not everyone gives a shit about finding a soul mate in life. It's not a motivating factor for me.
yeah its a disney fairy tale rom-com upbringing, makes people think they have to get married to 'the one' to be successful and happy. All that does is encourage people to lock themselves in to a low level 9-5 job early in life until they die, in order to support their new 'soul mate'.
Not exactly a dream existence but sheep want to be sheep, and it's the easiest path of least resistance.
longhornfan1234
09-13-2014, 01:55 PM
We can all agree we're flawed human beings? How can you fully trust someone and give your heart to someone who's inheritely flawed?
DonDadda59
09-13-2014, 02:00 PM
I dont think ill ever want to get married but have no problem with settling down with a chick long term.
Marriage is a complete fools game. What's the point of locking yourself in to a contract like that? To prove your love to the rest of the world? Because everyone else does it? I have zero idea how I will feel about someone 10 years from now. If I get married and later want a divorce, I will be f*cked and forced to give that woman MY money and hand over MY assets for the rest of my life. Laws favour women too much in divorces. Marriage is retarded.
Even Meticode cheated on his wife. Marriage can cause the most moral of men do completely change who they are.
If one day I am old and rich, 60+, I might be willing to marry a hotty 20 year old if it means I get to bang her for the rest of my days.
Then there's no hope for the rest of us :(
DeuceWallaces
09-13-2014, 02:25 PM
Then there's no hope for the rest of us :(
Naw man, he's a lying hypocritical d-bag just like any other troll here. It's not that hard to keep your dick in your pants when you're in a relationship yet alone married with a kid; assuming he also didn't lie about that.
RidonKs
09-13-2014, 02:39 PM
i've been wondering a lot about open / non-monogomous relationships lately. i think there is danger in making such an attempt especially without completely open dialogue. nevertheless i also think it's not only a possibility for a relationship but in fact, at least where i'm living and talking to people, the culture seems to be trending in that direction... ever so cautiously.
the intriguing and maybe convo-stopping element comes with the birth of a child. are the nuclear family unit and polyamory compatible?
anybody wanna offer any insight on this digression from the thread topic which is a really good one (i dunno if i'll ever get married or settle down, though i'm certain i'll have children)
KNOW1EDGE
09-13-2014, 03:39 PM
lol this works for about 6 weeks.
False. You missed the point.
If this only lasts 6 weeks, then you were never really in love, you never should have been married and you don't care about your wife.
This thread is pathetic
I dont think ill ever want to get married but have no problem with settling down with a chick long term.
Marriage is a complete fools game. What's the point of locking yourself in to a contract like that? To prove your love to the rest of the world? Because everyone else does it? I have zero idea how I will feel about someone 10 years from now. If I get married and later want a divorce, I will be f*cked and forced to give that woman MY money and hand over MY assets for the rest of my life. Laws favour women too much in divorces. Marriage is retarded.
Even Meticode cheated on his wife. Marriage can cause the most moral of men do completely change who they are.
If one day I am old and rich, 60+, I might be willing to marry a hotty 20 year old if it means I get to bang her for the rest of my days.
There's no reason you need to get married but if you stay with the same chick for 10 years you'll hand over your money anyway, that's easily a common law marriage. You'd be better off married with a prenup.
It's easy not to cheat, you just don't pursue and when someone is trying to hand you an opportunity, they need to be cut off. As far as "being tired", I'm not ruining my life for somethings as fleeting as sex. Once you do it, you're done. I still like sex, it's been 16 years with same woman. :confusedshrug:
To me it would have been easier (mentally) to cheat when we were married a short time, you didn't have that pattern set, and when you first get married it feels like people want to test if they can pull you away from your wife. I had a really good friend who decided I was a fantastic guy she missed out on the second I was married. It's bizarre.
The greatest husband and family man on ISH, Meticode said the exact same thing. Dude spent 3 years posting about how much he loved his wife. And then...we all know what happened.
No, he spent years trying to justify he wanted to stray by making sure we all knew how fantastic his wife is. I love my wife (and she's actually still pretty hot), but "That Kate Upton is a dog, not a goddess like my wife" is something that comes out of Meticode's mouth, not a happily married guy. Anyone (IMO) who feels the need to tell you 100 times a day that there wife is the best and they are the most happy and they are never upset even for a moment is full of it and probably unhappy.
Nick Young
09-13-2014, 04:43 PM
Naw man, he's a lying hypocritical d-bag just like any other troll here. It's not that hard to keep your dick in your pants when you're in a relationship yet alone married with a kid; assuming he also didn't lie about that.
you think Meticode is a liar?:confusedshrug:
Nick Young
09-13-2014, 04:44 PM
There's no reason you need to get married but if you stay with the same chick for 10 years you'll hand over your money anyway, that's easily a common law marriage. You'd be better off married with a prenup.
So many states just ignoring prenups, like Cali.
I never spend loads on chicks, been doing alright so far in life living this way.
you think Meticode is a liar?:confusedshrug:
Do you think he really thinks his wife is beautiful but super models are ugly?
DeuceWallaces
09-13-2014, 04:47 PM
you think Meticode is a liar?:confusedshrug:
He's lied about everything on this message board.
So many states just ignoring prenups, like Cali.
I never spend loads on chicks, been doing alright so far in life living this way.
You shouldn't if you don't want to. :confusedshrug: You need to do in life what makes you feel satisfied. To me the marriage and kids though as I grow older definitely was a better decision, when i was 30 if i was still single, i would have been fine. At 40, i'd still be ok but it's more satisfying having someone else around. Just me though...
Worse thing in the world is marrying if you don't want to be. I have friends that are so miserable to each other and so badly don't want to be married and it's just painful to even be near them. I don't even want to know how they feel.
Nick Young
09-13-2014, 05:02 PM
He's lied about everything on this message board.
:O Was he not really married to that woman?
:O Was he not really married to that woman?
So you are honestly unaware Meticode is full of shit?
DeuceWallaces
09-13-2014, 05:06 PM
:O Was he not really married to that woman?
Nope. Just a sad attention whore. Probably didn't even cheat on her, have a kid, or anything. Wouldn't be surprised if it's just another loser in his parents basement with some fake internet persona.
Nope. Just a sad attention whore. Probably didn't even cheat on her, have a kid, or anything. Wouldn't be surprised if it's just another loser in his parents basement with some fake internet persona.
I didn't know it was that deep, i thought the marriage was real. That's pretty bad.
Nick Young, wrong thread i know but Diego Costa. DAMN.
Nick Young
09-13-2014, 05:13 PM
So you are honestly unaware Meticode is full of shit?
yes. when did this get discovered? Who found out?:confusedshrug:
How intriguing! Yes Costa the people's champion and Remy as well!
DeuceWallaces
09-13-2014, 05:15 PM
I didn't know it was that deep, i thought the marriage was real. That's pretty bad.
He never said he wasn't married. I'm just saying, that given his bullshit attention whoring, I wouldn't be surprised if everything he's said is a lie.
Nick Young
09-13-2014, 05:20 PM
He never said he wasn't married. I'm just saying, that given his bullshit attention whoring, I wouldn't be surprised if everything he's said is a lie.
How else did he attention whore?
It's not just about the woman you're with being boring. Some men want to test the waters still because their tired of the same female or haven't experienced enough premarriage.
I've had enough of females and sex, enough to settle down forever if married. But that's just a 22 year old mindset. It'll change at 25, 27, and 30.
masonanddixon
09-13-2014, 06:40 PM
False. You missed the point.
If this only lasts 6 weeks, then you were never really in love, you never should have been married and you don't care about your wife.
This thread is pathetic
Man is not biologically wired for monogamy.
Meticode
09-13-2014, 06:45 PM
I've already failed at this thread title before I even clicked on it.
stalkerforlife
09-13-2014, 09:57 PM
I'm ugly, poor, and I have small manhood. If a woman wants me, I will damn sure marry her and stay faithful.
BigBoss
09-13-2014, 10:04 PM
I've already failed at this thread title before I even clicked on it.
You cheated on your wife? Please explain why and do you regret it?
i've been wondering a lot about open / non-monogomous relationships lately. i think there is danger in making such an attempt especially without completely open dialogue. nevertheless i also think it's not only a possibility for a relationship but in fact, at least where i'm living and talking to people, the culture seems to be trending in that direction... ever so cautiously.
the intriguing and maybe convo-stopping element comes with the birth of a child. are the nuclear family unit and polyamory compatible?
anybody wanna offer any insight on this digression from the thread topic which is a really good one (i dunno if i'll ever get married or settle down, though i'm certain i'll have children)
I think anything can work depends on the couple of course but i think in today's world a couple can make anything or any type of relationship work... the thing is as i've gotten older I've come to realize the name tag on the relationship is secondary to the people involved...
relationships last because of the people involved, a couple that makes one type of relationship work would probably make any type of relationships work.. it's in their bones it's who they are, it's how they're wired..
BasedTom
09-13-2014, 10:45 PM
At what age did you married guys go through with it?
Right now I'm not even thinking about marriage. It's just not something that I've ever seriously given much thought to. Meanwhile I have slightly older friends who are finished with uni and are suddenly super-serious about this stuff (and even a few religious types that got married right after high school).
BigBoss
09-14-2014, 12:43 AM
At what age did you married guys go through with it?
Right now I'm not even thinking about marriage. It's just not something that I've ever seriously given much thought to. Meanwhile I have slightly older friends who are finished with uni and are suddenly super-serious about this stuff (and even a few religious types that got married right after high school).
:facepalm
BasedTom
09-14-2014, 12:56 AM
:facepalm
There's a few posters on ISH who are supposedly married and I'd like to hear what they have to say about it. Especially since I can't speak at all from experience.
I'm not opposed to the institution of marriage, but at the same time I feel like a lot of people marry out of a sense of obligation rather than an actual desire to spend the rest of their life with that person.
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