Has anyone here ever had "Unfinished Business" sex?

[russwest0]

basically I've told this story before about a girl who I could have fukked multiple times throughout high school and she was a solid 8/9 out of 10 and had a cute face, and amazing ass, but I was such an idiot I didn't do it and then she moved far away from me and my chance was blown.

ANYWAYS.....

She texted me the other day and we got to talking and I brought up that we have unfinished business to do with not having sex and she may be visting soon (soon as in probably anywhere from 4-12 months from now) and said she would even take the lead and that "it will happen."

How do I keep her in this frame of mind with minimal effort and how do I ensure that it happens when she gets here?

[navy]

She texted you as in you made up this story or you still have your high school phone number?

[russwest0]

She texted you as in you made up this story or you still have your high school phone number?

My number hasn't changed

[L.Kizzle]

What strip club are you at?

[russwest0]

basically we were texting for a while, the whole catching up on shit, and then we got to the point where I was like

"well it was nice talking to you again" and she was like "so you're done?"

and I was like "yeah, you live far away from here and I don't want to waste time with these texts. If you visit and want to hang out thats fine, but until then bye"

and then she said "you don't want to be friends?" and I said "If you want me to be honest I'm still mad that I never got to have sex with you when I had such easy chances to, but you are coming from a different perspective and I understand"

and she said "I mean I want that to happen too" and then she made it clear she wanted sex and then we talked for a bit more and I think she was starting to act like I was more talkative with her and I could sense that maybe she thought because she wanted to have sex I would be her friend now or something which may have turned her off a bit?

It's hard to explain brothers. I wasn't about to waste time texting her a bunch w/o knowing if there was some ***** at the end of the tunnel and I think she may be slightly aware of that but I don't want her to be because it lowers my chances if that makes sense.

[nathanjizzle]

basically we were texting for a while, the whole catching up on shit, and then we got to the point where I was like

"well it was nice talking to you again" and she was like "so you're done?"

and I was like "yeah, you live far away from here and I don't want to waste time with these texts. If you visit and want to hang out thats fine, but until then bye"

and then she said "you don't want to be friends?" and I said "If you want me to be honest I'm still mad that I never got to have sex with you when I had such easy chances to, but you are coming from a different perspective and I understand"

and she said "I mean I want that to happen too" and then she made it clear she wanted sex and then we talked for a bit more and I think she was starting to act like I was more talkative with her and I could sense that maybe she thought because she wanted to have sex I would be her friend now or something which may have turned her off a bit?

It's hard to explain brothers. I wasn't about to waste time texting her a bunch w/o knowing if there was some ***** at the end of the tunnel and I think she may be slightly aware of that but I don't want her to be because it lowers my chances if that makes sense.

this is fake:sleeping

[russwest0]

this is fake:sleeping

I have long explained it this situation in other threads before. I'll dig it up:


Dude Jameer don't feel bad bro.

In high school I had a solid 9/10 that texted me first every single day for a whole year and I still ****ed it up so bad that I never got laid.

I didn't even talk to her first, she just started talking to me on the bus and asked for my number. My parents just divorced and I was in a new neighborhood and feeling shitty so I was quiet but she'd keep talking to me.

One day I went over to her house, and was just sitting on her couch while she was getting something for her niece and I looked over and she was bending over in front of a dryer wearing tight jeans and her ass looked so fukking good. she had such a fukkable ass.

She would always text me that she loved me too and shit, and one time at work I even said fukk it and texted her "lets have sex" and she said "right now?"

and here's the worst part...

not wanting to go buy condoms and roll up in my work uniform, my stupid ass said no.... So next time you b*tch and whine about your stupid fukking fukk up, you remember me, and my struggle mother fukker.

I still fukking fap to her twitter pics and she doesn't even know I know she has a twitter. sometimes I cry about my fukk ups w/ her, WHILE SIMULTANEOUSLY FAPPING TO HER.

It's not fake at all and I really want to have sex with her so I want to take steps along the way to ensure that it happens.

[riseagainst]

I have long explained it this situation in other threads before. I'll dig it up:



It's not fake at all and I really want to have sex with her so I want to take steps along the way to ensure that it happens.


i believe you, bro. make her want it. Then give it to her good when the chance comes.

:rockon:

[russwest0]

i believe you, bro. make her want it. Then give it to her good when the chance comes.

:rockon:

she is one of those girls who has slightly paler skin than most, but it's really smooth looking and shit. and she's a tad more on the skinnier side than most but with her overall look it makes her look sexy as hell.... and I can confirm that her ass (at least from her jeans) looks fukking GOD tier...

[nathanjizzle]

I have long explained it this situation in other threads before. I'll dig it up:



It's not fake at all and I really want to have sex with her so I want to take steps along the way to ensure that it happens.

okay. **** her man:cheers:

although it seems like she wants more than just a ****.

[russwest0]

Shit, what'd I'd really love is to get some nudes from her but I know with the type of girl she is that will be almost impossible.

Until then I'll just keep fapping to her general image I guess

[riseagainst]

Shit, what'd I'd really love is to get some nudes from her but I know with the type of girl she is that will be almost impossible.

Until then I'll just keep fapping to her general image I guess

made me laugh so hard
:roll:

[russwest0]

she'll probably visit for like a week.

hopefully we can have sex at least twice in that span.

and maybe I can bang one of the dumpy tinder girls beforehand to get some experience under my belt.

[russwest0]

Here's I few questions I have for some of the ISH manwhore veterans:

Lets say she comes over to my place. I live with three other guys. How do I keep it as non awkward as possible? Just bring her to my room, close the door, and chill and talk w/ her for a bit, put on a movie and start making out? I've also never kissed a girl lmao so I don't know if that will be weird

my room is also right next to one of my bros and outside of the living room, will it be loud to where they can hear whats going on?

is it normal to have sex more like more than once in one night with a girl like this?

do I shave my downstairs region completely beforehand? what should I generally do in regards to that?

how do I initiate this via text? lets say she says "so I'm in town now." do I just say "okay, come over and lets have sex" ?

Thanks in advance for extending your knowledge to a simpleton such as myself

[riseagainst]

Here's I few questions I have for some of the ISH manwhore veterans:

Lets say she comes over to my place. I live with three other guys. How do I keep it as non awkward as possible? Just bring her to my room, close the door, and chill and talk w/ her for a bit, put on a movie and start making out? I've also never kissed a girl lmao so I don't know if that will be weird

my room is also right next to one of my bros and outside of the living room, will it be loud to where they can hear whats going on?

is it normal to have sex more like more than once in one night with a girl like this?

do I shave my downstairs region completely beforehand? what should I generally do in regards to that?

how do I initiate this via text? lets say she says "so I'm in town now." do I just say "okay, come over and lets have sex" ?

Thanks in advance for extending your knowledge to a simpleton such as myself


:biggums:

so you are a virgin?

[nathanjizzle]

Here's I few questions I have for some of the ISH manwhore veterans:

Lets say she comes over to my place. I live with three other guys. How do I keep it as non awkward as possible? Just bring her to my room, close the door, and chill and talk w/ her for a bit, put on a movie and start making out? I've also never kissed a girl lmao so I don't know if that will be weird

my room is also right next to one of my bros and outside of the living room, will it be loud to where they can hear whats going on?

is it normal to have sex more like more than once in one night with a girl like this?

do I shave my downstairs region completely beforehand? what should I generally do in regards to that?

how do I initiate this via text? lets say she says "so I'm in town now." do I just say "okay, come over and lets have sex" ?

Thanks in advance for extending your knowledge to a simpleton such as myself

:biggums:

[russwest0]

:biggums:

so you are a virgin?

yeah lol I'm actually pretty good looking too. 6'0, 170, low bf%, nice tanned skin, dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, intelligent, junior at a good college with a 3.5 GPA, etc...

I just have no idea how to get laid apparently. I have messaged a few tinder girls "Hey, would you like to suck my dick" and shit but the end result is usually them saying "no" and me saying "alright cool" but like I know these girls are less attractive than me

I don't know man it's hard as fukk right now

[riseagainst]

yeah lol I'm actually pretty good looking too. 6'0, 170, low bf%, nice tanned skin, dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, intelligent, junior at a good college with a 3.5 GPA, etc...

I just have no idea how to get laid apparently. I have messaged a few tinder girls "Hey, would you like to suck my dick" and shit but the end result is usually them saying "no" and me saying "alright cool" but like I know these girls are less attractive than me

I don't know man it's hard as fukk right now

:roll:

maybe next time you should say: "hey, i have a 3.5 GPA."

[Orlando Magic]

she'll probably visit for like a week.

hopefully we can have sex at least twice in that span.

and maybe I can bang one of the dumpy tinder girls beforehand to get some experience under my belt.

Only twice in a week and you're like 18-20? lol.

[russwest0]

Only twice in a week and you're like 18-20? lol.

well damn she will have all of her friends and family to catch up with too lol

[riseagainst]

well damn she will have all of her friends and family to catch up with too lol

why don't you just give it to her good? pound it to oblivion and don't pull out.

[boozehound]

I have had several situations like this. Chicks who were in relationships (or some other circumstance) at the time, but still wanted to **** me. I did get back to it on 3 occasions. pretty fun.

[boozehound]

wait, so this dude has never had sex at all before? Yeah, this will go badly. You will be too expectant and make it awkward for her.

[russwest0]

wait, so this dude has never had sex at all before? Yeah, this will go badly. You will be too expectant and make it awkward for her.

what do you mean?

I'm not expecting some porn esque shit but I do expect it to be good?

I may suck at being good at sex since I'm new but I'll still try my best and shit. I'm a giving soul bro, If I suck at eating her out I'll just do it for double the time then

[riseagainst]

what do you mean?

I'm not expecting some porn esque shit but I do expect it to be good?

I may suck at being good at sex since I'm new but I'll still try my best and shit. I'm a giving soul bro, If I suck at eating her out I'll just do it for double the time then

are you well hung? Is she experienced?

[russwest0]

are you well hung? Is she experienced?

My dick is like 6.5" and she has probably had sex like 2-3 times.

thats what I mean though, should I fukk a few dumpy tinder girls beforehand?

[riseagainst]

My dick is like 6.5" and she has probably had sex like 2-3 times.

thats what I mean though, should I fukk a few dumpy tinder girls beforehand?

when you jerk off how fast do you cvm?

[russwest0]

when you jerk off how fast do you cvm?

depends on what gear I'm going in

[riseagainst]

depends on what gear I'm going in

:roll:

well if you cvm pretty fast, i'd say yeah find some other girl to bang to give it a test run. Or if you can't, then just wank it 3 times beforehand so you don't jizz too fast.

[boozehound]

what do you mean?

I'm not expecting some porn esque shit but I do expect it to be good?

I may suck at being good at sex since I'm new but I'll still try my best and shit. I'm a giving soul bro, If I suck at eating her out I'll just do it for double the time then
I mean that you are both in a different place. The best sex is spontaneous. If you go in to this with sex as the only goal (in other words, no hanging out, just go straight to your room, etc), you will both feel fairly awkward and uncomfortable. who knows though.

[ace23]

I have messaged a few tinder girls "Hey, would you like to suck my dick" and shit but the end result is usually them saying "no" and me saying "alright cool" but like I know these girls are less attractive than me
:roll: :roll: :roll:

[Nick Young]

Here's I few questions I have for some of the ISH manwhore veterans:

Lets say she comes over to my place. I live with three other guys. How do I keep it as non awkward as possible? Just bring her to my room, close the door, and chill and talk w/ her for a bit, put on a movie and start making out? I've also never kissed a girl lmao so I don't know if that will be weird

my room is also right next to one of my bros and outside of the living room, will it be loud to where they can hear whats going on?

is it normal to have sex more like more than once in one night with a girl like this?

do I shave my downstairs region completely beforehand? what should I generally do in regards to that?

how do I initiate this via text? lets say she says "so I'm in town now." do I just say "okay, come over and lets have sex" ?

Thanks in advance for extending your knowledge to a simpleton such as myself
oh lawd bro just dont overthink it, just bring her to your room, even tell your bros you bringing a girl around so they know to leave you the phuck alone and not c*ckblock.

If they aren't good bros/jelly nerds they might try to c*ckblock you on purpose. How well do you know these people?

[sweggeh]

I cant imagine you ever getting a girl to have sex with you. No offence.

[stalkerforlife]

Lick her pooper.

[russwest0]

I mean that you are both in a different place. The best sex is spontaneous. If you go in to this with sex as the only goal (in other words, no hanging out, just go straight to your room, etc), you will both feel fairly awkward and uncomfortable. who knows though.

yeah I was kind of thinking that.

I wonder what I can do to ensure sex but take away the forced feeling of it?