Is this worth trying?

[waseem780]

So I talked to this chick on facebook and she sort of didnt reply after I said "U seem shy" cause she was giving short-ish answers , it doesn't say "seen" but she's been online on facebook so im just assuming she's ignoring it , i have her in one of my classes , and i've seen her the past 2 days but didnt even make eye contact with her i was ignoring her basically , and is it worth trying to message her one more time on facebook to finally know if shes really ignoring me or not. Or should I keep ignoring her irl until she talks to me first?

and if i talk to her irl , should I pretend like nothing happened or ask her why she ignored me?

[cuad]

Girls need to know that you'll be there for them, waseem. What you have to do is message her every day whether she responds or not. Trust takes a while to build, but it's worth it because of the reward.

:)

[qrich]

Show her your cawk.

[waseem780]

Girls need to know that you'll be there for them, waseem. What you have to do is message her every day whether she responds or not. Trust is a big deal.

:)
Teen girls these days are ****ed up , I don't wanna come off as a dicksucker

[Jailblazers7]

So I talked to this chick on facebook and she sort of didnt reply after I said "U seem shy" cause she was giving short-ish answers , it doesn't say "seen" but she's been online on facebook so im just assuming she's ignoring it , i have her in one of my classes , and i've seen her the past 2 days but didnt even make eye contact with her i was ignoring her basically , and is it worth trying to message her one more time on facebook to finally know if shes really ignoring me or not. Or should I keep ignoring her irl until she talks to me first?

Def don't facebook her again. Either approach her in person or just drop it.

[cuad]

Teen girls these days are ****ed up , I don't wanna come off as a dicksucker
Ah, I see. You should buy her a gift. Make it slightly expensive too 'cause guys with money ain't no dicksuckers.

[StephHamann]

send her pictures of your d

[waseem780]

Ah, I see. You should buy her a gift. Make it slightly expensive too 'cause guys with money ain't no dicksuckers.
Ill sell my parents house,cars, and everything inside for some jewelry and cars for her , is that a little too cheap?

[kNIOKAS]

Talk IRL, ask what happened, ask if she wants to hang out. Don't play games on fb, it never leads to anything anyway


Have to parrot what cuad is saying. :applause:

One message a day may be too light. I'd say three would be ideal. Really send the message you're trying to build something here. A good morning message, an after school message, and for good measure one more at night time. Whether she responds or not, avoid eye contact in person at school. This demonstrates you're a man and staying away from dicksucking ways by using Facebook as your primary communication.

You got this
:lol

[Myth]

So she was hesitant to open up, so you call her shy, which likely was taken as criticism. Nice work :cheers:

[waseem780]

So she was hesitant to open up, so you call her shy, which likely was taken as criticism. Nice work :cheers:
She barely talks just a few "Lol" "Haha" "Yeah you didnt" and stuff like that and shy aint an insult

[BigBoss]

OP is brown and has no game

[BigBoss]

As for advice. Keeping ignoring her. Make her come to you.

[Myth]

She barely talks just a few "Lol" "Haha" "Yeah you didnt" and stuff like that and shy aint an insult

You may not think it is, but some people do.

[waseem780]

OP is brown and has no game

yeah i wish i looked like the guy in your avi

[navy]

lol, why did you ignore her in class?

Stop the facebooking and talk to her in class.

[waseem780]

lol, why did you ignore her in class?

Stop the facebooking and talk to her in class.
Because if she ignores me ima ignore her back , and fine I'll talk to her in class , but should I mention her ignoring the message or nah?

[waseem780]

You may not think it is, but some people do.
Alright what do you think I should do , You seem smart I'll listen

[navy]

Because if she ignores me ima ignore her back , and fine I'll talk to her in class , but should I mention her ignoring the message or nah?
You've already established she is shy, you ignoring her seems counter productive.

You should bring it up and quickly apologize, I suspect she will say she didnt have a problem with it no matter how she really felt. But that way you cant start over and not worry about it.


Side note: are you sure she is shy or just doesnt want to talk to you....

[waseem780]

You've already established she is shy, you ignoring her seems counter productive.

You should bring it up and quickly apologize, I suspect she will say she didnt have a problem with it no matter how she really felt. But that way you cant start over and not worry about it.


Side note: are you sure she is shy or just doesnt want to talk to you....
alright will do ,

Im sure she is shy

How should I say the apology

[navy]

alright will do ,

Im sure she is shy

How should I say the apology

Say she stopped responding when you called her shy, and that you're sorry as you were just trying to get longer responses/start a conversation. And then you can start over.

And stop facebooking. Get that phone number.

[TheReal Kendall]

This generation is fvcked.

Talk to her in class and get her number. If she ignoring you or giving you short answers cut that bitch off cause she not feeling you bro.

[RoseCity07]

Take the advice I was told. You go up to her when she's alone grab her by the arm and say, "Don't turn this rape into a murder". srs

[Just2McFly]

forget females you need to work on your social skills and insecurities. in order to lead an interesting life and learn you have to balance things and you are obsessed with females at the moment. Take a step back and realign your compass towards your individual goals and strive to improve so that you achieve those goals and surpass them.

I noticed you seem to have confidence and self esteem issues, if you feel like something is hindering your pursuit of women you have two options, accept or change.

You have to accept your height and ethnicity, but almost everything else can be changed.

I dont know your age but if you are as young as you sound(late teens), you are entering your prime. Start putting in that work in the offseason so that you can be an allstar for seasons to come.

I would suggest you stop taking all of these conversations too seriously and get rid of expectations. Talk to a woman you find attractive and expect nothing. Enjoy the interaction, smile and try to look for subtle(or not so subtle ) clues about how she feels about the situation. Trust me, I'm not even that great at identifying signals but I'm working on it.

I have low self-esteem and that has affected me because I became too needy and that drives away girls faster than body odor and yellow teeth. I used to use self-deprecating humor where i would fish for compliments hoping that the average/below average broad i was with would boost my ego. A f*cked up life that I want you to avoid.

Think highly of yourself OP. Treat yourself and make sure that you are living life to the fullest. Stare your insecurities down and attack them until they are deceased or on life support. Be honest and warm, and stay focused.

:cheers:

-kblaze jr