Have you ever dated a girl you thought you had no chance with?

[waseem780]

Question up there^

[nathanjizzle]

well not dated, but im pursuing a girl that i know i have no business pursuing

[joe]

Ya in high school. I remember I heard she liked me and I thought people were messing with me. She was so beautiful and awesome. Honestly I still think about her. The one that had to be a painful lesson instead of a happy ending.

[RidonKs]

just about every time so far

[Rake2204]

Oh yes. Buckle up, for it was not one of my finest moments.

I was 18 working at a country club in Ann Arbor. There was a beautiful girl working there as a tennis instructor. Lebanese-American heritage, great personality, good values, soon-to-be engineering major at the University of Michigan. Early on in the summer, she initiated small talk, ultimately leading to her inviting me to the club's massive 4th of July Celebration later that evening. She gave me her phone number without me doing much of anything to deserve it. That was the first time 18-year-old Rake was like, "Maybe she's interested.... no, probably not."

I showed up to the 4th of July thing. She had a guy alongside and two female friends. As we walked as a group, she'd ask prodding questions about whether I had a girlfriend, whether I smoked or drank, etc. Then, after her two female friends turned back around, it was just me and the guy and this girl sitting on a blanket watching fireworks while he tickled her and talked about cheesesteak hoagies. Awful.

Walked back to our cars. We were heading back to her place, where many were gathering. She stopped me, motioned toward cheesesteak guy and said, "Just so you know, I'd never date someone like that." Went back to her place, I ended up playing a weird early 90's computer game on her PC. Didn't know what I was doing. She came over and helped me by placing her hand over mine on the mouse.

Days later, she showed up to my graduation party unannounced and knocked all my family members off their feet with her looks, smarts and warm personality. Finally, we set up a movie date and things rolled from there... kind of.

She had many male friends (like hoagie guy) so I constantly felt like I was nothing more than that. Culminated in a great date night shortly thereafter, out on the town, watching a movie at Top of the Park, just generally carousing and whatnot. When I brought her back to her house, we said our goodbyes while she had her arms wrapped around my neck with my back pressed against my car door. We locked eyes, I remember kind of rubbing her thigh a little, time passed, and... I did not go for the kiss... because I still didn't think I had a chance. Also, I am retarded. We just awkwardly hugged again and that was it.

Things kind of fizzled from there. She enrolled at U of M that fall and that was all she wrote. A shameful showing in hindsight, but I tell myself it provided me with invaluable experience. Young Rake...

TL;DR: Yes, she threw many signs. Went straight over head because didn't think I had chance. Subsequently blew a sure thing in spectacular fashion.

[RidonKs]

Oh yes. Buckle up, for it was not one of my finest moments.

I was 18 working at a country club in Ann Arbor. There was a beautiful girl working there as a tennis instructor. Lebanese-American heritage, great personality, good values, soon-to-be engineering major at the University of Michigan. Early on in the summer, she initiated small talk with me, ultimately leading to her inviting me to the club's massive Fourth of July Celebration later that evening. She gave me her phone number without me doing much of anything to deserve it. That was the first time 18-year-old Rake was like, "Maybe she's interested.... no, probably not."

I showed up to the 4th of July thing. She had a guy alongside and two female friends. As we walked as a group, she'd ask prodding questions about whether I had a girlfriend, whether I smoked or drank, etc. Then, after her two female friends turned back around, it was just me and the guy and this girl sitting on a blanket watching fireworks while he tickled her and talked about cheesesteak hoagies. Awful.

Walked back to our cars. We were heading back to her place, where many were gathering. She stopped me, motioned toward cheesesteak guy and said, "Just so you know, I'd never date someone like that."Went back to her place, I ended up playing a weird early 90's computer game on her PC. Didn't know what I was doing. She came over and helped me by placing her hand over mine on the mouse.

Days later, she showed up to my graduation party unannounced and knocked all my family members of their feet with her looks, smarts and warm personality. Finally, we set up a movie date and things rolled from there... kind of.

She had many male friends (like hoagie guy) so I constantly felt like I was nothing more than that. Culminated in a great date night shortly thereafter, out on the town. When I brought her back to her house, we said our goodbyes while she had her arms wrapped around me with me pressed back against my car door. We locked eyes, I remember kind of rubbing her thigh a little, time passed, and... I did not go for the kiss... because I still didn't think I had a chance. Also, I am retarded. We just awkwardly hugged again and that was it.

Things kind of fizzled from there. She enrolled at U of M that Fall and that was all she wrote. A shameful showing in hindsight, but I tell myself it provided me with invaluable experience. Young Rake...

TL;DR: Yes, she threw many signs. Went straight over head because didn't think I had chance. Subsequently blew a sure thing in spectacular fashion.
haha damn. poor young naive rake.

[RoseCity07]

I'm f*ckin with a girl right now that's a model. She gets hit on by dudes all the time at work and even when we are out. I guess she's just attracted to my confidence.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

In high school, I did. College, unless it some rich sorority girl, I think I have a chance always.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Ya in high school. I remember I heard she liked me and I thought people were messing with me. She was so beautiful and awesome. Honestly I still think about her. The one that had to be a painful lesson instead of a happy ending.

Yep bro I feel you. I found out a girl liked me a lot after I graduated. She only talked to me once and it was one of the most brief/awkward conversations I have ever had. She was cute though, would have been nothing more than a fling though before college.

[ace23]

Also, I am retarded.
:oldlol:

[highwhey]

Yeah but she turned out to be a psycho.

Also, the opposite has happened to me, a girl I thought I could easily hook up with cuz she's average looking, rejected me like 3 times. I always compare her rejection to the feeling you get when you hand a waitress your debit/credit card and confidently know you have enough money for the transaction but for whatever odd reason, your card is declined.
I had enough funds for this chick.

Whatevs, gonna wait until she's more vulnerable.

[Heavincent]

Rake tells the best stories.

[1987_Lakers]

I remember in High School there was this girl who was stunning, very beautiful, all the guys drooled over her, but for some reason this girl would always give me attention, I would ALWAYS catch her looking at me and she once bumped into me on purpose so I can feel her thighs while she was wearing a skirt. Of course, me being a young stupid chubby kid would STILL think there was no way she would go for me.

Now? I've lost tons of weight, gained more confidence, & I'm a pretty good looking guy so I think I can pull almost anything.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Currently crushing on a girl in one my classes, god I hate how I can talk to girls SO easily if I'm not attracted to them but choke around the ones I like :facepalm. And I also blush like a buffoon.

[outbreak]

yulp, went out with a girl when I was about 15 who was gorgeous. Like model material. She was going through a punk stage and I guess liked me because I was one of the few punks in my area. Anyway went out for a few months then she cheated on me and we broke up. She was pretty psycho though, she knew I liked dead kennedys so she carved a DK logo on her arm with a razor. Pretty odd considering she didn't really like them or listen to that kind of music at all after we broke up.

[Le Shaqtus]

Currently crushing on a girl in one my classes, god I hate how I can talk to girls SO easily if I'm not attracted to them but choke around the ones I like :facepalm. And I also blush like a buffoon.

I feel you bruh, there's a cutie in one of my classes but it's like impossible to figure out a way too smoothly converse with her, then eventually make a move :lol

[fsvr54]

Currently crushing on a girl in one my classes, god I hate how I can talk to girls SO easily if I'm not attracted to them but choke around the ones I like :facepalm. And I also blush like a buffoon.

My biggest problem with women, I can be normal around any woman but then if I like them a lot I act a nervous mess and get nothing done.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

My biggest problem with women, I can be normal around any woman but then if I like them a lot I act a nervous mess and get nothing done.

Yeah, I'm very picky so usually I have a good amount of attractive friends that I like talking to who I'm not into. But if I am attracted to you, well welcome to my stuttering and sweat.

[Just2McFly]

Stop placing so much importance on the interaction. The reason why you guys are "choking" is because you view her as a challenge and your performance matters dearly but that's the exact type of mentality that can hinder you and get you into trouble.

I wouldn't suggest you to be yourself if you are fumbling mess around a female you consider attractive. Just take a deep breath and think about how normal she is despite how attractive you may think she is. Do whatever it takes to knock her off the pedestal you've placed her on. It sounds weird but I used to think about how my female friends would go on about how disgusting women are, especially in public washrooms. (:oldlol: ) That did the trick for me.

But honestly, we are all human... Money/status, looks, etc... are all bullshit attributes that can be taken from us in a second. If that's what has you shook then you need to take a deep breath and regain a proper frame of mind. From there on, soldier forth my good men because these girls are at their peak right now and they most likely arent getting better with age. Time is of the essence.

[cuad]

I did for a lil while, but then the date rape drugs wore off.

[Smook A.]

Oh yeah. Hell yeah. It was in high school. 1st day of my Junior year. I was heading to my 4th period class and I looked around to see if there was any hot girls. There were some but 1 just really caught my eyes. I checked her out and gawd dayum. I was ****ing flattered. She had a nice light golden tone skin color. Her eyes were green and she was a brunette. She sat two rows behind and I would always awkwardly stare at her every 5-10 minutes. When class was over, she got up and I noticed that ass. I wanted to **** her.

2nd day of school, we had to stand up in front of the class and share about ourselves. I was a little nervous obviously. She went before me and holy shit... she was so confident when she spoke. Her name was Gabriella and she was totally new to the high school. She made a little jokes here and there when she was talking. I was amazed. She seemed funny, she looked good, and her ass we so round and big. I remember day dreaming about us being together right after she was done presenting. Im not even bullshitting. Alright so RIGHT AFTER she went, the teacher called my name to go up and I was like "oh shit not me". I was slow to get up. After about 5 seconds, I finally got up and walked up in front of the class. Before I tell you guys what happened I gotta say a few things. In high school, I was a popular dude. I played pretty much every sport and I talked to a bunch of people. My nickname in high school was Smook (That's the meaning behind my username btw) and so whenever I presented a bunch of my friends would yell out "Smooooook" in front of the class. Of course a couple of my friends yelled it out when I got up and had to present. I kinda laughed about it the first thing I did was look at Gabriella. She gave a little smile. I was totally trapped in those eyes... im telling you.

Anyways... I finished presenting. It wasn't anything special. A couple days went by and I told my friends about her. They told me to not be a pvssy and go talk to her. I mean, I talked to a shit ton of girls back in my high school days but for some reason I was too shy to talk to Gabriella. I remember how she would always sit with her 1 friend at lunch. I couldn't believe she had just 1 friend! I knew that she was a new student but c'mon... how could she not have more friends after about a week. I expected to see her with a ton of people judging by her personality and looks. At the end of the day, I still felt like I had 0 chance with her. Honestly, I was being a loser. Alright on with the story. One day at lunch I was eating at the table with my friends. I remember looking at Gabriella. My friend noticed and gave me a little nudge. Im like "bro... I can't do it". My friend responded by saying "dude quit being a wussy and go up to her. Talk to her and ask for her number". I gave it a second and said "**** it, why not". I got up and went to her. Also, as I was walking I had a feeling inside. "What is she going to think of me". "How is she going to react when I say hi". My mind was so full of crap. She was only about 30 feet away. The walk to her seriously felt like a mile.

I finally approached her. Obviously the first thing I did was introduce myself and kinda studdered. She looked and smiled. I'll never forget the moment. Her eyes were as glitery as a diamond and when she smiled I couldn't help but notice those perfect perfect shiny teeth. She was the best thing I've ever seen in my life. I talked a little bit about myself and asked for her number. Without hesitating she said sure. I pulled out my phone (it was one of those motorola flip phones btw) and it was turned off. I wanted to stab myself with a fork. I flipped the phone open and pressed the start button. It was awkward as shit. I looked around a bit and then mine and Gabriella's eyes met. I gave her a weird smile and then looked away. I was reallyyyy shy. After about 10-15 seconds my phone turned on. It felt like hours. She gave me her digits. I was excited. I went to my friends with a big ass smile on my face. All of those ****ers got up and said "Smoooooook". I was embarrassed.

After all that shit, I went home and gave her a call. She didn't pick up. I tried again and no answer. I got on the internet and logged on to MySpace (Yes, MySpace) and looked her name up. I found her and added her as a friend. It took FOREVER for her to finally accept my friend request. As soon as she did it, all I did was chat with her. We talked A LOT, and I got to know her sooo much. It was great. We would stay up till midnight and do our homework together. I even got to talk to her on the phone numerous times. She was the big reason why I looked forward to school days. 4th period class became my favorite. Me and Gabriella would always make eye contact and smile at eachother. After a couple months of knowing her, I asked her out. She was a little shy about it and looked at the ground when I asked her. After about 5 seconds (I think) she looked up at me and said sure, why not. That was probably one of the happiest days of my entire life.

I remember out first date like it was yesterday. We went to the movies and saw Night at the Museum. She and I loved the movie. I got to put my hand around her. It felt uh-mazing. The movie theater wasn't actually that far away from her house so I got to walk to her home. We talked about our favorite parts of the movie. Oh and not to mention, I got to hold her hand throughout the entire walk back home. She was so funny and she always smiled whenever she talked. I just liked her so much, and im sure she felt the same way about me. The walk home was fantastic. I felt like she liked me more. We even got to kiss. It was just an amazing day overall. As I was walking home, I could not believe that I was actually with her. At times, I honestly felt like I was dreaming.

Anyway, it all went downhill after our 1st date. We went to Starbucks for the 2nd one. She loved that place. I didn't really like it because im not that big of a coffee fan. I just got a big ass cookie. That date was pretty horrible. She got wayyy too open with me. It was too much and I couldn't handle it. She told me that she transferred high schools because she was known as the big time whore there. She told me she got screwed by a lot of guys. I was in shock, because I wondered why she never told me before. I mean, she talked a lot. Why the **** didn't she tell me a few months ago? It was just awkward. The 3rd date was even worse. It was at the mall. We walked and she would always point at a guy and say "oh I would totally **** that guy". I shook my head in anger so many times. I was totally done with it after that. Obviously, I dumped her and never really talked to her for the rest of high school. This was in 2006 for those of you wondering. Years and years went by. I didn't talk to Gabriella until about 2012. I looked her up on Facebook and added her as a friend. Within one hour she accepted my friend request. I chatted with her a bit and found out that she's a married woman with 1 kid. We just talked about life and catched onto some things. I don't regret leaving her, tbh. Im just glad that I dated a girl that I thought I had no chance with. Yeah... that's my story.

[NZStreetBaller]

Oh yeah. Hell yeah. It was in high school. 1st day of my Junior year. I was heading to my 4th period class and I looked around to see if there was any hot girls. There were some but 1 just really caught my eyes. I checked her out and gawd dayum. I was ****ing flattered. She had a nice light golden tone skin color. Her eyes were green and she was a brunette. She sat two rows behind and I would always awkwardly stare at her every 5-10 minutes. When class was over, she got up and I noticed that ass. I wanted to **** her.

2nd day of school, we had to stand up in front of the class and share about ourselves. I was a little nervous obviously. She went before me and holy shit... she was so confident when she spoke. Her name was Gabriella and she was totally new to the high school. She made a little jokes here and there when she was talking. I was amazed. She seemed funny, she looked good, and her ass we so round and big. I remember day dreaming about us being together right after she was done presenting. Im not even bullshitting. Alright so RIGHT AFTER she went, the teacher called my name to go up and I was like "oh shit not me". I was slow to get up. After about 5 seconds, I finally got up and walked up in front of the class. Before I tell you guys what happened I gotta say a few things. In high school, I was a popular dude. I played pretty much every sport and I talked to a bunch of people. My nickname in high school was Smook (That's the meaning behind my username btw) and so whenever I presented a bunch of my friends would yell out "Smooooook" in front of the class. Of course a couple of my friends yelled it out when I got up and had to present. I kinda laughed about it the first thing I did was look at Gabriella. She gave a little smile. I was totally trapped in those eyes... im telling you.

Anyways... I finished presenting. It wasn't anything special. A couple days went by and I told my friends about her. They told me to not be a pvssy and go talk to her. I mean, I talked to a shit ton of girls back in my high school days but for some reason I was too shy to talk to Gabriella. I remember how she would always sit with her 1 friend at lunch. I couldn't believe she had just 1 friend! I knew that she was a new student but c'mon... how could she not have more friends after about a week. I expected to see her with a ton of people judging by her personality and looks. At the end of the day, I still felt like I had 0 chance with her. Honestly, I was being a loser. Alright on with the story. One day at lunch I was eating at the table with my friends. I remember looking at Gabriella. My friend noticed and gave me a little nudge. Im like "bro... I can't do it". My friend responded by saying "dude quit being a wussy and go up to her. Talk to her and ask for her number". I gave it a second and said "**** it, why not". I got up and went to her. Also, as I was walking I had a feeling inside. "What is she going to think of me". "How is she going to react when I say hi". My mind was so full of crap. She was only about 30 feet away. The walk to her seriously felt like a mile.

I finally approached her. Obviously the first thing I did was introduce myself and kinda studdered. She looked and smiled. I'll never forget the moment. Her eyes were as glitery as a diamond and when she smiled I couldn't help but notice those perfect perfect shiny teeth. She was the best thing I've ever seen in my life. I talked a little bit about myself and asked for her number. Without hesitating she said sure. I pulled out my phone (it was one of those motorola flip phones btw) and it was turned off. I wanted to stab myself with a fork. I flipped the phone open and pressed the start button. It was awkward as shit. I looked around a bit and then mine and Gabriella's eyes met. I gave her a weird smile and then looked away. I was reallyyyy shy. After about 10-15 seconds my phone turned on. It felt like hours. She gave me her digits. I was excited. I went to my friends with a big ass smile on my face. All of those ****ers got up and said "Smoooooook". I was embarrassed.

After all that shit, I went home and gave her a call. She didn't pick up. I tried again and no answer. I got on the internet and logged on to MySpace (Yes, MySpace) and looked her name up. I found her and added her as a friend. It took FOREVER for her to finally accept my friend request. As soon as she did it, all I did was chat with her. We talked A LOT, and I got to know her sooo much. It was great. We would stay up till midnight and do our homework together. I even got to talk to her on the phone numerous times. She was the big reason why I looked forward to school days. 4th period class became my favorite. Me and Gabriella would always make eye contact and smile at eachother. After a couple months of knowing her, I asked her out. She was a little shy about it and looked at the ground when I asked her. After about 5 seconds (I think) she looked up at me and said sure, why not. That was probably one of the happiest days of my entire life.

I remember out first date like it was yesterday. We went to the movies and saw Night at the Museum. She and I loved the movie. I got to put my hand around her. It felt uh-mazing. The movie theater wasn't actually that far away from her house so I got to walk to her home. We talked about our favorite parts of the movie. Oh and not to mention, I got to hold her hand throughout the entire walk back home. She was so funny and she always smiled whenever she talked. I just liked her so much, and im sure she felt the same way about me. The walk home was fantastic. I felt like she liked me more. We even got to kiss. It was just an amazing day overall. As I was walking home, I could not believe that I was actually with her. At times, I honestly felt like I was dreaming.

Anyway, it all went downhill after our 1st date. We went to Starbucks for the 2nd one. She loved that place. I didn't really like it because im not that big of a coffee fan. I just got a big ass cookie. That date was pretty horrible. She got wayyy too open with me. It was too much and I couldn't handle it. She told me that she transferred high schools because she was known as the big time whore there. She told me she got screwed by a lot of guys. I was in shock, because I wondered why she never told me before. I mean, she talked a lot. Why the **** didn't she tell me a few months ago? It was just awkward. The 3rd date was even worse. It was at the mall. We walked and she would always point at a guy and say "oh I would totally **** that guy". I shook my head in anger so many times. I was totally done with it after that. Obviously, I dumped her and never really talked to her for the rest of high school. This was in 2006 for those of you wondering. Years and years went by. I didn't talk to Gabriella until about 2012. I looked her up on Facebook and added her as a friend. Within one hour she accepted my friend request. I chatted with her a bit and found out that she's a married woman with 1 kid. We just talked about life and catched onto some things. I don't regret leaving her, tbh. Im just glad that I dated a girl that I thought I had no chance with. Yeah... that's my story.

:wtf: good lord is that an essay record???

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Oh yeah. Hell yeah. It was in high school. 1st day of my Junior year. I was heading to my 4th period class and I looked around to see if there was any hot girls. There were some but 1 just really caught my eyes. I checked her out and gawd dayum. I was ****ing flattered. She had a nice light golden tone skin color. Her eyes were green and she was a brunette. She sat two rows behind and I would always awkwardly stare at her every 5-10 minutes. When class was over, she got up and I noticed that ass. I wanted to **** her.

2nd day of school, we had to stand up in front of the class and share about ourselves. I was a little nervous obviously. She went before me and holy shit... she was so confident when she spoke. Her name was Gabriella and she was totally new to the high school. She made a little jokes here and there when she was talking. I was amazed. She seemed funny, she looked good, and her ass we so round and big. I remember day dreaming about us being together right after she was done presenting. Im not even bullshitting. Alright so RIGHT AFTER she went, the teacher called my name to go up and I was like "oh shit not me". I was slow to get up. After about 5 seconds, I finally got up and walked up in front of the class. Before I tell you guys what happened I gotta say a few things. In high school, I was a popular dude. I played pretty much every sport and I talked to a bunch of people. My nickname in high school was Smook (That's the meaning behind my username btw) and so whenever I presented a bunch of my friends would yell out "Smooooook" in front of the class. Of course a couple of my friends yelled it out when I got up and had to present. I kinda laughed about it the first thing I did was look at Gabriella. She gave a little smile. I was totally trapped in those eyes... im telling you.

Anyways... I finished presenting. It wasn't anything special. A couple days went by and I told my friends about her. They told me to not be a pvssy and go talk to her. I mean, I talked to a shit ton of girls back in my high school days but for some reason I was too shy to talk to Gabriella. I remember how she would always sit with her 1 friend at lunch. I couldn't believe she had just 1 friend! I knew that she was a new student but c'mon... how could she not have more friends after about a week. I expected to see her with a ton of people judging by her personality and looks. At the end of the day, I still felt like I had 0 chance with her. Honestly, I was being a loser. Alright on with the story. One day at lunch I was eating at the table with my friends. I remember looking at Gabriella. My friend noticed and gave me a little nudge. Im like "bro... I can't do it". My friend responded by saying "dude quit being a wussy and go up to her. Talk to her and ask for her number". I gave it a second and said "**** it, why not". I got up and went to her. Also, as I was walking I had a feeling inside. "What is she going to think of me". "How is she going to react when I say hi". My mind was so full of crap. She was only about 30 feet away. The walk to her seriously felt like a mile.

I finally approached her. Obviously the first thing I did was introduce myself and kinda studdered. She looked and smiled. I'll never forget the moment. Her eyes were as glitery as a diamond and when she smiled I couldn't help but notice those perfect perfect shiny teeth. She was the best thing I've ever seen in my life. I talked a little bit about myself and asked for her number. Without hesitating she said sure. I pulled out my phone (it was one of those motorola flip phones btw) and it was turned off. I wanted to stab myself with a fork. I flipped the phone open and pressed the start button. It was awkward as shit. I looked around a bit and then mine and Gabriella's eyes met. I gave her a weird smile and then looked away. I was reallyyyy shy. After about 10-15 seconds my phone turned on. It felt like hours. She gave me her digits. I was excited. I went to my friends with a big ass smile on my face. All of those ****ers got up and said "Smoooooook". I was embarrassed.

After all that shit, I went home and gave her a call. She didn't pick up. I tried again and no answer. I got on the internet and logged on to MySpace (Yes, MySpace) and looked her name up. I found her and added her as a friend. It took FOREVER for her to finally accept my friend request. As soon as she did it, all I did was chat with her. We talked A LOT, and I got to know her sooo much. It was great. We would stay up till midnight and do our homework together. I even got to talk to her on the phone numerous times. She was the big reason why I looked forward to school days. 4th period class became my favorite. Me and Gabriella would always make eye contact and smile at eachother. After a couple months of knowing her, I asked her out. She was a little shy about it and looked at the ground when I asked her. After about 5 seconds (I think) she looked up at me and said sure, why not. That was probably one of the happiest days of my entire life.

I remember out first date like it was yesterday. We went to the movies and saw Night at the Museum. She and I loved the movie. I got to put my hand around her. It felt uh-mazing. The movie theater wasn't actually that far away from her house so I got to walk to her home. We talked about our favorite parts of the movie. Oh and not to mention, I got to hold her hand throughout the entire walk back home. She was so funny and she always smiled whenever she talked. I just liked her so much, and im sure she felt the same way about me. The walk home was fantastic. I felt like she liked me more. We even got to kiss. It was just an amazing day overall. As I was walking home, I could not believe that I was actually with her. At times, I honestly felt like I was dreaming.

Anyway, it all went downhill after our 1st date. We went to Starbucks for the 2nd one. She loved that place. I didn't really like it because im not that big of a coffee fan. I just got a big ass cookie. That date was pretty horrible. She got wayyy too open with me. It was too much and I couldn't handle it. She told me that she transferred high schools because she was known as the big time whore there. She told me she got screwed by a lot of guys. I was in shock, because I wondered why she never told me before. I mean, she talked a lot. Why the **** didn't she tell me a few months ago? It was just awkward. The 3rd date was even worse. It was at the mall. We walked and she would always point at a guy and say "oh I would totally **** that guy". I shook my head in anger so many times. I was totally done with it after that. Obviously, I dumped her and never really talked to her for the rest of high school. This was in 2006 for those of you wondering. Years and years went by. I didn't talk to Gabriella until about 2012. I looked her up on Facebook and added her as a friend. Within one hour she accepted my friend request. I chatted with her a bit and found out that she's a married woman with 1 kid. We just talked about life and catched onto some things. I don't regret leaving her, tbh. Im just glad that I dated a girl that I thought I had no chance with. Yeah... that's my story.

Alright at least you tried :applause:. Good job Smooooook

[Derka]

Dated, no. Intercoursed, several.

[Bosnian Sajo]

Smoooooooooooooooooooooook

Really sexy girl that you fall for and later you realize that she's ****ed 10+ guys...dagger in the heart, for sure. I know your pain braj :eek: :(




Weird though, I've never really gone for a girl that I thought was way out of my league before. Not like I'm ****in nasty hoes, but I've never seen a 10 walk by and jumped up to the challenge...and whenever I do go out, there is always this one friend (lets call him Fred) who is up to the challenge of getting the number of the finest bitch we see out and at least get SOME kind of action, whether it was just a kiss or him actually going home with the girl. No hate on Fred's game, I always cheer him on and gladly play as wingman, but I always settle for the #2, never the 1st option...And this fool ain't even that handsome, he is however more muscular than me. He's funny and confident, but so are most of the people we be with. It's that fear of rejection that keeps me settling, but not this weekend. This thread has given me a quest for this weekend :lol

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Really sexy girl that you fall for and later you realize that she's ****ed 10+ guys...dagger in the heart, for sure. I know your pain braj :eek: :(




Weird though, I've never really gone for a girl that I thought was way out of my league before. Not like I'm ****in nasty hoes, but I've never seen a 10 walk by and jumped up to the challenge...and whenever I do go out, there is always this one friend (lets call him Fred) who is up to the challenge of getting the number of the finest bitch we see out and at least get SOME kind of action, whether it was just a kiss or him actually going home with the girl. No hate on Fred's game, I always cheer him on and gladly play as wingman, but I always settle for the #2, never the 1st option...And this fool ain't even that handsome, he is however more muscular than me. He's funny and confident, but so are most of the people we be with. It's that fear of rejection that keeps me settling, but not this weekend. This thread has given me a quest for this weekend :lol

It's all confidence. Guys think all that aesthetic things are what you need for girls. All you got to know is how to treat them, talk to them, and have a good sense of humor. It really isn't as hard as we all play it out to be.

[Legends66NBA7]

I just flow with whoever the girl is, to be honest. Dating someone isn't that big of a deal, unless you make it feel that way.

[Rake2204]

Just watched the Lenny Cooke documentary and it reminded me of a follow-up situation with the same girl from page 1 (and the window situation: http://www.insidehoops.com/forum/showthread.php?t=362916).

I thought I blew my chance with my tennis pro crush following Page 1's failure. But I was back at her house a week or two later. It was me, her, and, like, three of her guy friends. I felt a little threatened by them, but she was giving me secret looks that let young Rake know that he was the man.

Somehow, we ended up playing a name game where each person had to come up with famous people's names to fit in pre-determined sets of initials. So, for instance, with the initials "B.R.", a person could respond with Bert Reynolds.

One set of initials was "N.T." With the 2002 NBA Draft having commenced just a few weeks prior, it hit me... I was going to blow up the spot (and in my mind, really impress tennis pro) with my game-breaking N.T. name.

So time runs out and we're revealing what we had for each set of initials. We get to N.T. and everyone's come up empty. Except for me. Likely with my eyebrows furrowed, feeling next level, I confidently say, "Nikoloz Tskitishvili". If there was a mic, I would have dropped it.

Just then, one of her guy friends, who I knew for a fact had no basketball knowledge, called me out and said Nikoloz's name began with an "S". I explained the foreign nature of his origin and the silent "T". The guy insisted he knew who I was talking about and again, insisted it began with an "S".

Older Rake knows sometimes it's best to let things go in random, let's-just-have-fun settings. Young Rake did not. I had an extended back-and-forth with this random dude I didn't know about Nikoloz Tskitishvili until finally we agreed to disagree. By then, tennis pro had grown visibly tired of my antics. The knowing looks and glances stopped immediately and I'm thinking that finally killed my chances for real.

I secretly think that kid knew what he was doing. It was a setup by a cockblocking mastermind and I took the bait.

I hate Nikoloz Tskitishvili.

[mr beast]

Just watched the Lenny Cooke documentary and it reminded me of a follow-up situation with the same girl from page 1 (and the window situation: http://www.insidehoops.com/forum/showthread.php?t=362916).

I thought I blew my chance with my tennis pro crush following Page 1's failure. But I was back at her house a week or two later. It was me, her, and, like, three of her guy friends. I felt a little threatened by them, but she was giving me secret looks that let young Rake know that he was the man.

Somehow, we ended up playing a name game where each person had to come up with famous people's names to fit in pre-determined sets of initials. So, for instance, with the initials "B.R.", a person could respond with Bert Reynolds.

One set of initials was "N.T." With the 2002 NBA Draft having commenced just a few weeks prior, it hit me... I was going to blow up the spot (and in my mind, really impress tennis pro) with my game-breaking N.T. name.

So time runs out and we're revealing what we had for each set of initials. We get to N.T. and everyone's come up empty. Except for me. Likely with my eyebrows furrowed, feeling next level, I confidently say, "Nikoloz Tskitishvili". If there was a mic, I would have dropped it.

Just then, one of her guy friends, who I knew for a fact had no basketball knowledge, called me out and said Nikoloz's name began with an "S". I explained the foreign nature of his origin and the silent "T". The guy insisted he knew who I was talking about and again, insisted it began with an "S".

Older Rake knows sometimes it's best to let things go in random, let's-just-have-fun settings. Young Rake did not. I had an extended back-and-forth with this random dude I didn't know about Nikoloz Tskitishvili until finally we agreed to disagree. By then, tennis pro had grown visibly tired of my antics. The knowing looks and glances stopped immediately and I'm thinking that finally killed my chances for real.

I secretly think that kid knew what he was doing. It was a setup by a cockblocking mastermind and I took the bait.

I hate Nikoloz Tskitishvili.

poor young rake down 0-2

cb'ed by this man :no: http://assets.sbnation.com/assets/140924/nikoloz_tskitishvili-arton21219-240x240.jpg

[Nevaeh]

The 'find a flaw' technique. Solid.

This definitely works. I don't care how fine a girl is, she will always have some flaws for the pickin' if you study people enough. It's one of the ways that i learned that the guys who are great at clowning females usually have no problem getting them.

One thing that I've learned is most women, no matter how hard their life has been or whatever, love a guy with a sense of humor. And no you don't have to be an expert comedian, just have a bit of charm to break the ice a bit.

Also, for the "extra fine females", do NOT compliment her looks at all while you're getting to know her. She looks good, she knows she looks good, and if you're going straight to the " Damn girl you look good" well, like every other guy she meets, this can also be a quick turn off for her. Girls like guys that intrigue them, more than guys that fawn over them. That's sometimes why you'll see the biker/mechanic type dudes pull women, because they have interests beyond just skirt chasing.