Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

[waseem780]

Here's my situation

Two years ago my 2 best friends, my brother(we're not close brothers at all we barely talk) and I moved here to this new state. My 2 best friends(who were brothers) stayed for a year and left the state. So ever since the beginning of this school year (september) I've felt really alone.

There aren't any people my age who live around here.

It's not like I am an anti-social loser or something. I was pretty popular at my old school and had a lot of friends. In my new school though I had to start from scratch , I've made "friends" but none of them are close and I never see them outside of school.

The reason I really wanted my crush to be my girlfriend is because I felt like I wouldn't feel lonely anymore. (But she rejected me if you didn't already know)

Now I am pretty much alone in everything I do , When I come home from school Its usually just chill on the internet then I smoke weed take a walk for a few hours and play catch alone yes its gotten to the point where I throw my football in the air and catch it by myself because I have no one.

The feeling of being alone is killing me inside and I feel like I'm missing out a ton in life.

[FatComputerNerd]

At least you don't have Ebola!

[MP.Trey]

Yeah sometimes, but then I just smoke another bowl and I'm fine with it.

[TheReal Kendall]

Dude you need to go out or something. Do something to keep your mind off that girl.

From what you said it didn't seem like y'all talked that much so why you simping?

You should chill with brother too man. That's your blood, get to know him.

[alenleomessi]

quit smoking weed and start doing real activities like going to the gym, playing pickup basketball, going to some book club in school.. well ok maybe not that but you get what im saying.. you will meet people

[waseem780]

Dude you need to go out or something. Do something to keep your mind off that girl.

From what you said it didn't seem like y'all talked that much so why you simping?

You should chill with brother too man. That's your blood, get to know him.
Its not really the girl im thinking bout , its the missing my friends and a little bit the girl.

thats exactly my point i've done everything and still haven't met any close friends , i haven't even laughed out loud for such a while I can barely believe it

I do go to the gym btw.

[FatComputerNerd]

Get a dog.

Good for companionship, can play fetch instead of throwing a ball in the air to yourself.

Also dogs can be chick magnets. Take it to your local dog park and you will meet women.

Also agree with what others have said regarding quitting weed. It won't help your depression any.

[waseem780]

Get a dog.

Good for companionship, can play fetch instead of throwing a ball in the air to yourself.

Also dogs can be chick magnets. Take it to your local dog park and you will meet women.

Also agree with what others have said regarding quitting weed. It won't help your depression any.
I didn't start weed because I was depressed and to be honest I am not even depressed I just feel so empty.

Dog seems like a good idea actually

[ArbitraryWater]

The biggest fear for me ever would be being alone...


If you feel that way, I would do some activities like alan said... Gym is pretty cool, if you go through with it it will also attract chicks... I dont know, play a sport in a team or something?

I understand the "missing out" part where you could do so many awesome things..

[sweggeh]

If you want to make friends, just go to places where you can actually meet them. Play basketball for example, talk to the guys playing, boom you can make some friends right there. Its not anywhere near as hard as trying to get a girlfriend, which is your other problem.

Forget smoking weed man, it doesnt help at all. It just makes things worse.

[Budadiiii]

Yeah sometimes, but then I just smoke another bowl and I'm fine with it.
self-medicating. :applause:

I respect that lifestyle. I'm a druggy fo' life.

[waseem780]

If you want to make friends, just go to places where you can actually meet them. Play basketball for example, talk to the guys playing, boom you can make some friends right there. Its not anywhere near as hard as trying to get a girlfriend, which is your other problem.

Forget smoking weed man, it doesnt help at all. It just makes things worse.
Brah I have loads of friends , but No close ones.. I'll go to community center which is a few miles away and try playing some basketball everyday seems like a good idea , but if its empty im screwed.

[Bandito]

I have the opposite of you. I have too much life and I miss having no life and no girlfriend...switch?

[TylerOO]

Play ball.

Ball is life.

[waseem780]

Play ball.

Ball is life.
Ball really is life man , whenever I play sports time flies by so fast and I feel so stress free ,,,, just hopin the community center isn't empty as ****

[TylerOO]

Ball really is life man , whenever I play sports time flies by so fast and I feel so stress free ,,,, just hopin the community center isn't empty as ****


I'm the same bro. You might make friends with some people your age there too.

[$LakerGold]

You ask for advice, but yet, you never apply or do them. Go make something happen.

[MP.Trey]

self-medicating. :applause:

I respect that lifestyle. I'm a druggy fo' life.
Druggys Wit Hoes (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WFbgRmkzU08) :cheers:

[nathanjizzle]

you are a pretty deep thinking person for a young teenager. you will be okay in life as long as you make it to 25.

[waseem780]

You ask for advice, but yet, you never apply or do them. Go make something happen.
give me an example?

[waseem780]

you are a pretty deep thinking person for a young teenager. you will be okay in life as long as you make it to 25.
thanks man

[$LakerGold]

give me an example?
Your 'getting in shape' thread. It's getting old.

[waseem780]

Your 'getting in shape' thread. It's getting old.
Lol I am currently on a only veggie/meat/fruit diet , and I go to the gym 5 days a week. But yes there was a time i kept losing focus

[enayes]

Don't get a dog unless you truly want one. They take a lot of time and energy to own. I wouldn't get one to try and "cure" your loneliness.

If you do get a dog, check out any local shelters. I got my lab/mastiff from a shelter at 2 years old and he's great. Full of energy and it's an awesome feeling knowing you rescued an animal. And if the dog is a year or two old they're almost always already house trained so you don't have to worry about that.

[NZStreetBaller]

I have a similar situation. But I moved country im 25 and had heaps of mates back home. Like literally we filled up 4 basketball teams in the social league. And we'd get drunk every weekend and talk basketball like crazy. But since I moved 9 months ago ive found that I only have work mates that I dont do anything with outside of work and I spend alot of time of facebook talking to my old friends.

I think it had alot to do with why I started an ish account...

[Fudge]

I've had this feeling when I was an opiate addict a few months ago. I felt lonely, disgusted, disappointed in myself. Snorted coke like 2 times a day. Dark times right there. I'm glad I got over that hump.

Feel like a new man now. I booted certain people out of my life, mainly the negative ones that was constantly bringing me down. Now? I got a steady office job, recently purchased a brand new Jeep Wrangler, and paid off my parents house.

Just keep doing you, bro. Long as you're a good dude, good will come to you. Who needs RL friends anyways? :lol

[Heavincent]

At least you don't have Ebola!

And at least ISIS isn't holding him captive. Or what about an ISIS member with Ebola holding him captive! :eek:

Life is good OP. Live it up brother :cheers: Jerk off or something. You'll feel better.

[oarabbus]

Waseem join some school sports teams if you haven't already. Or city club teams. You can make friends that way too. Pick up an instrument maybe. How often you smoke weed btw? Honestly I've gone through phases like the one you're describing and cutting down actually does help.


Keep hitting the gym and eating healthy, honestly you gotta forget that girl, go after others. I know you're young you had a big crush and she was probably the most amazing girl in the world. But seriously if you listen to hip hop listen to what they're saying about women. She's just another girl man, there is nothing special about her. May not seem like it now but eventually you will realize. Even if there is something special about here, there are a LOT of special ones out there.

[MadeFromDust]

Here's my situation

Two years ago my 2 best friends, my brother(we're not close brothers at all we barely talk) and I moved here to this new state. My 2 best friends(who were brothers) stayed for a year and left the state. So ever since the beginning of this school year (september) I've felt really alone.

There aren't any people my age who live around here.

It's not like I am an anti-social loser or something. I was pretty popular at my old school and had a lot of friends. In my new school though I had to start from scratch , I've made "friends" but none of them are close and I never see them outside of school.

The reason I really wanted my crush to be my girlfriend is because I felt like I wouldn't feel lonely anymore. (But she rejected me if you didn't already know)

Now I am pretty much alone in everything I do , When I come home from school Its usually just chill on the internet then I smoke weed take a walk for a few hours and play catch alone yes its gotten to the point where I throw my football in the air and catch it by myself because I have no one.

The feeling of being alone is killing me inside and I feel like I'm missing out a ton in life.It's hard to make new friends especially as you get older. The most healthy people in society seem to thrive off of friendships and relationships they made growing up through school. They continue and expand upon those like a big tree with branches the rest of their lives. When you move it's like uprooting that tree. It dies. You have to replant yourself somewhere else without the benefit of all that youthful history and experiences. If you are not outgoing and extroverted to begin with, then it is extremely difficult as you have found.

Go to the park and play hoops with whomever shows up. There should always be pickup games available at the public parks and gyms. Plenty of friends to be had through playing hoops. The ones you keep seeing out there could eventually become friends.

That's one option, another is the car scene. If you like cars find out where the car meets are and hang around. It's easy to meet people at car meets or at the race track. People walk around and look at the cars, ask questions, talk about performance, mods, etc. Not as easy as playing hoops but still kind of easy. Sometimes you just have to take a chance and break the ice by going up to people and asking about their cars to get things started. In a similar vein, you could join a motorcycle club and go riding with the group on weekends or whenever.

If you really desire to not be lonely you will make these extra efforts and you will achieve what you are seeking I have no doubt. Some people are actually happier in solitude however.

[BigBoss]

Get a job

Buy a car or better clothes

Get that bitch who rejected you

Stop wasting your time smoking weed and throwing a ball around. Be a man and a go getter. Nothings free or handed to you


Kids these days

[SexSymbol]

Live or die.

[Shade8780]

I can't imagine what I'd be like if I had no friends in school. At times, if I ever feel like that, it's really shitty. And that's usually for only a day or a few hours.

[thefatmiral]

lonely and bored. get a roommate. helps split bills and its someone to talk to even they're not your good friend. or try booze. get a dog.

[GimmeThat]

if you are doing exceptionally well in school that may be able to comfort you for the mean time I suppose

and if you aren't.

I'm surprised that you actually have such high standards for making friends.

[waseem780]

I'll find my way , even if its not now. I probably need this space to become more social than I already was.

[BigBoss]

I'll find my way , even if its not now. I probably need this space to become more social than I already was.


Im telling you kid. Get your mind frame to be about making money over friends/girls. That stuff comes easy with money

[waseem780]

Im telling you kid. Get your mind frame to be about making money over friends/girls. That stuff comes easy with money
im 17

[nzamcdza]

im 17

Things that seem like a big deal when 17 mean literally nothing in a few years, trust me!

[fiddy]

Yeah sometimes, but then I just smoke another bowl and I'm fine with it.
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[STATUTORY]

it's easy to make friends once u get to college.