Girls who have a lot of guy friends...

[russwest0]

How does ISH deal with these females?

I've been texting a girl for a long time and oddly enough we don't have many mutual friends, but just through conversation we'll talk about our friends and it turns out that all of hers are guys.

We'll snapchat sometimes too and they have a feature where you can see the three people that your friend on snapchat has been snapchatting the most over the past week, and hers sometimes change, and I've seen about 10 different names on there.... all guys.

What should I do about this? We both like eachother, but are in a situation where we'd have to wait to be together because she lives away from me for now.

Should I bail on this girl?

[Bandito]

My girlfriend is like that too but lucky me they are all ugly nerds:lol

[russwest0]

My girlfriend is like that too but lucky me they are all ugly nerds:lol

Thats both good and bad :lol

Good cause they probably aren't a threat to you but bad because you might be forced to hang out with them and because some of these nerds are probably so lonely they'll start getting aggressive towards her and shit.

[Swaggin916]

It could be that they were raised with a lot of dudes... Or maybe they kinda fake an interest in guy things to get them to like them... Or they need to feel
Desired by many men... I don't know for sure but I just can't imagine that because I have zero friends that are girls. But ad a dude, if I'm not hitting it then I am not interested. Women don't need to have sex to get something out of it. I wouldn't bail I just wouldn't take it seriously. Keep those doors open man for those lonely nights with every girl who doesnt want to tie you down.

[Bless Mathews]

She a ho.

Are you that retOarded?

[Fudge]

Hate that shit, man. Sucks cause i'm hella insecure so i'll always be checkin up on girls everytime she chills with her guy friends. FML

[ZeN]

Theres no problem with women that have a lot of guy friends. However I wouldn't trust one that ONLY has guy friends. If you want a relationship then you should be alert of that. But if you are just DTF then it heightens your scoring potential.

[BigBoss]

One friend in my crew is a chick. She's a tom boy but cool as ***. She hasn't banged any of us ( that i know). Girls with guys for friends = no drama. They're all friendzoned

[TylerOO]

Shes a hoe.

Trust me b. Dont bother.

[LJJ]

One of my ex girlfriends was like that, now I wouldn't be interested in a girl with those personality traits anymore.

The truth is, in most guy-girl friendships the guy wants to bang. That's a reality. And a lot of guys tend to tip toe around a girl they want to bang. They are a bit extra nice, do favors they wouldn't for their guy friend, take a little extra shit.

That doesn't mean there is any sex involved, but it's an inequal friendship. Girls who only have friendships like those have some problems emotionally. Insecurity, ego, whatever. They tend to not get along with other girls. Would you trust a guy who can't really ever get along with his peers? Exactly.

[sweggeh]

One friend in my crew is a chick. She's a tom boy but cool as ***. She hasn't banged any of us ( that i know). Girls with guys for friends = no drama. They're all friendzoned

Virgin detected.

Girls with a lot of guy friends are trouble. Either avoid them or cut that shit off pronto. Girls think a lot more emotionally then men. You dont want any other guys as close or closer to her than you are emotionally.

[RidonKs]

One of my ex girlfriends was like that, now I wouldn't be interested in a girl with those personality traits anymore.

The truth is, in most guy-girl friendships the guy wants to bang. That's a reality. And a lot of guys tend to tip toe around a girl they want to bang. They are a bit extra nice, do favors they wouldn't for their guy friend, take a little extra shit.

That doesn't mean there is any sex involved, but it's an inequal friendship. Girls who only have friendships like those have some problems emotionally. Insecurity, ego, whatever. They tend to not get along with other girls. Would you trust a guy who can't really ever get along with his peers? Exactly.
breakin her down like freud :lol :applause:

[Batz]

One friend in my crew is a chick. She's a tom boy but cool as ***. She hasn't banged any of us ( that i know). Girls with guys for friends = no drama. They're all friendzoned
What nonsense.

[Shade8780]

http://i.imgur.com/QgJULh.jpg

[embersyc]

You **** them.
Your friends **** them.
Your friend's friends **** them.

Everybody wins.

[L.Kizzle]

Ain't no fun if da homies can't have none. Pass dat bich around like a joint.

"You want a hit of dis nigha?"
"Why yes I do!"

[blablabla]

these girls are freaks b

[ImKobe]

How does ISH deal with these females?

I've been texting a girl for a long time and oddly enough we don't have many mutual friends, but just through conversation we'll talk about our friends and it turns out that all of hers are guys.

We'll snapchat sometimes too and they have a feature where you can see the three people that your friend on snapchat has been snapchatting the most over the past week, and hers sometimes change, and I've seen about 10 different names on there.... all guys.

What should I do about this? We both like eachother, but are in a situation where we'd have to wait to be together because she lives away from me for now.

Should I bail on this girl?


So what? You're not going to smash because she has guy friends?

Girls with a lot of guy friends are usually very easy-going.

[christian1923]

Take a look at the guy or guys. If you see one of them and think "he could fvck my bitch" then you're in trouble.

[thefatmiral]

so she's hanging around a bunch of dudes who wanna bang her. ugly or not there's something about those guys she likes. I wouldnt invest too much.

[Real Men Wear Green]

Avoid her. That can of tuna would only last you three days instead off the week you're accustomed to. Women are pigs.

[hateraid]

Dating girls with mainly guy friends always turns out ugly. It's like dating a girl with a ton of older brothers, who want to bang her

[Budadiiii]

Avoid her. That can of tuna would only last you three days instead off the week you're accustomed to. Women are pigs.
Spoken like a 34 year old virgin

[Real Men Wear Green]

Spoken like a 34 year old virgin
You're actually dumb enough take that reply seriously?

[Budadiiii]

You're actually dumb enough take that reply seriously?
You're actually dumb enough take that reply seriously?

[stalkerforlife]

Whores. Or at least attention whores.

And pathological liars.

[Real Men Wear Green]

You're actually dumb enough take that reply seriously?
No, i don't take you seriously.

[Budadiiii]

No, i don't take you seriously.
You're a pothead, you don't take anything seriously

The only thing in life you take seriously is your modding on here

[stalkerforlife]

You're a pothead, you don't take anything seriously

The only thing in life you take seriously is your modding on here

:roll:

[Fudge]

You're a pothead, you don't take anything seriously

The only thing in life you take seriously is your modding on here
:lol

[Real Men Wear Green]

And now I'm allegedly a pothead. Fine. Let's just let this massively uninteresting conversation die.

[Duderonomy]

The plus side of girls like this is they are drama free because they think like men, but she's clearly not a long term ride or die.

[fsvr54]

As was mentioned before, if she's a tomboy it's less weird but if she's a regular girl it's a red flag.

[highwhey]

One of my friends wife is like that and she's really cool to talk to but she can also be very b1tchy when the attention is not focused on her entirely.

[Draz]

My girlfriend has more guy friends than girls. Her circle is 3 guy best friends and 3 girl best friends. It's all about your relationship and trust you have going on. I am however friends with all of them but I'm not blind.

[Bandito]

Thats both good and bad :lol

Good cause they probably aren't a threat to you but bad because you might be forced to hang out with them and because some of these nerds are probably so lonely they'll start getting aggressive towards her and shit.
All of that has happened. Specially because half of the group is in love with here :lol

[Bandito]

You're a pothead, you don't take anything seriously

The only thing in life you take seriously is your modding on here
Damn bro. You just slayed him.

[russwest0]

As was mentioned before, if she's a tomboy it's less weird but if she's a regular girl it's a red flag.

She definitely ain't a tomboy...

I brought it up to her, without saying anything negative, I just simply said "All of your friends are guys" and she started getting upset and said that she wasn't attracted to any of them.

I don't know though.

[Rake2204]

She definitely ain't a tomboy...

I brought it up to her, without saying anything negative, I just simply said "All of your friends are guys" and she started getting upset and said that she wasn't attracted to any of them.

I don't know though.I think it depends on the specifics of the situation. Someone mentioned the "she's friends with male nerds" type of girl earlier - I have been near a situation like that. It was not a threat or an issue really. But I did feel for a number of those guys, because it seemed quite apparent they were nice-guying it, trying to find a way in, but she was oblivious to it all; she just thought it was nice that she had nice friends.

It was probably a good sign in that case because she accumulated those friends because she was so approachable and cool, so a lot of those awkward guys that struggle with the harsher females would try to latch on to the one who actually gave them the time of day. Again though, I think she was kind of naive and oblivious to what she was creating, for she just believed she was being a good person.

[russwest0]

I think it depends on the specifics of the situation. Someone mentioned the "she's friends with male nerds" type of girl earlier - I have been near a situation like that. It was not a threat or an issue really. But I did feel for a number of those guys, because it seemed quite apparent they were nice-guying it, trying to find a way in, but she was oblivious to it all; she just thought it was nice that she had nice friends.

It was probably a good sign in that case because she accumulated those friends because she was so approachable and cool, so a lot of those awkward guys that struggle with the harsher females would try to latch on to the one who actually gave them the time of day. Again though, I think she was kind of naive and oblivious to what she was creating, for she just believed she was being a good person.

Most of these guys she meets at raves and I don't think many are nerds.

[Rake2204]

Most of these guys she meets at raves and I don't think many are nerds.Ha, yeah, that could be a little bit of a different situation. I may need to bow out on this one, for I do not have much personal experience in something like that.

[Swaggin916]

Virgin detected.

Girls with a lot of guy friends are trouble. Either avoid them or cut that shit off pronto. Girls think a lot more emotionally then men. You dont want any other guys as close or closer to her than you are emotionally.

See what's with that mindset though? That's a jealous, possessive, and lazy mindset. Don't get me wrong I'm totally there with you but I'd rather just have one but in the end I would just feel like dude what are you worried about just enjoy the time you have if it's a good time and don't worry what else they are doing. Always have other options or be prepared to go out and get something else.

[ILLsmak]

She definitely ain't a tomboy...

I brought it up to her, without saying anything negative, I just simply said "All of your friends are guys" and she started getting upset and said that she wasn't attracted to any of them.

I don't know though.

u need finesse.

I dunno how I feel about it. I think a girl can have guy friends if she wants to. I don't think a girl could cheat on me without me knowing it, but the issue is just... what would I do then. Probably just stop talking to her.

To me, the issue is... are her guy friends your friends. If they are, then that's bad shit. It's possible she can really play dudes against each other... and to anyone who is like nah he's my boy he'd never do that, bet.

If you don't know the guys, who cares. She may be a slut, you may be a slut. whatever. I do think some girls just out alpha other girls, though, and all of the girls are just bitchy to them. Some girls can still kick it with girls who are jealous of them, but some can't.

Many possibilities.

-Smak

[joe]

When a guy is friends with a girl: She friendzoned me and I can never get out!

When a guys girlfriend has male friends: THEY ARE ALL ****ING HER

[sweggeh]

When a guy is friends with a girl: She friendzoned me and I can never get out!

When a guys girlfriend has male friends: THEY ARE ALL ****ING HER

Thats just the thing. Do you want your girl being close friends with a bunch of guys who are just waiting for the first opportunity to bang her brains out? Its a very precarious situation that is better to just be avoided.

[Bandito]

Thats just the thing. Do you want your girl being close friends with a bunch of guys who are just waiting for the first opportunity to bang her brains out? Its a very precarious situation that is better to just be avoided.
Youre just insecure about your self, if shes happy with the sex life she wont be going after another guy.

[JohnnySic]

Simple. Girls with lots of guy friends are using those guys for something. Usually its social-butterfly type girls who like to piggy-back off anything fun their guy friends are up to. The guys want to get with her (their motivation for the so called friendship) but are squarely in the friend zone.

Once these girls get into a serious relationship or marriage, the guy friends are no longer desired and are tossed into the dumpster.

PS - Any guy who allows himself to get friend zoned is an idiot.

[riseagainst]

Sorry to hear that. She's cheating on you, bro. She's banging every single guy she talks to. She's having orgies with multiple guys she talks to. You know that trip she took with her "friends" to Europe? She took 2 uncircumsized d1cks at once over there. Best thing to do right now if you want to keep her is to put a baby inside of her prevent her from getting an abortion.

[Myth]

The stupidity on ISH never ceased to amaze me.

[russwest0]

Sorry to hear that. She's cheating on you, bro. She's banging every single guy she talks to. She's having orgies with multiple guys she talks to. You know that trip she took with her "friends" to Europe? She took 2 uncircumsized d1cks at once over there. Best thing to do right now if you want to keep her is to put a baby inside of her prevent her from getting an abortion.

She ain't cheating on shit because we aren't together and can't be for at least 2 years.

So most likely she'll have sex like around 10 times in that span, so why shouldn't I do the same, right?

[GimmeThat]

How does ISH deal with these females?

I've been texting a girl for a long time and oddly enough we don't have many mutual friends, but just through conversation we'll talk about our friends and it turns out that all of hers are guys.

We'll snapchat sometimes too and they have a feature where you can see the three people that your friend on snapchat has been snapchatting the most over the past week, and hers sometimes change, and I've seen about 10 different names on there.... all guys.

What should I do about this? We both like eachother, but are in a situation where we'd have to wait to be together because she lives away from me for now.

Should I bail on this girl?


well, one problem that pose with the possibility of a girl having many guy friends

is she might have the wrong idea about who you are, just because she's thinking, well, he's a guy.

[GimmeThat]

Simple. Girls with lots of guy friends are using those guys for something. Usually its social-butterfly type girls who like to piggy-back off anything fun their guy friends are up to. The guys want to get with her (their motivation for the so called friendship) but are squarely in the friend zone.

Once these girls get into a serious relationship or marriage, the guy friends are no longer desired and are tossed into the dumpster.

PS - Any guy who allows himself to get friend zoned is an idiot.



men and women

always so sure of themselves

[dude77]

lol doesn't fkn matter .. you can't predict if she's gonna cheat on your ass no matter what friends she has so why even stress about that ? ... if a bitch is going to cheat, she's going to cheat and you may never even find out about it .. women can be just as down low and sneaky as us .. some chicks are sluts .. what are you gonna do about it ? .. best you can do is be your own best self and that's that .. be confident and sure of yourself and drop that effeminate nonsense .. if you want to date some hoe who has 'guy friends' then you fkn deal with it .. if you don't like it, then don't go whining like some bitch and just drop her .. I sound like some retard dating counselor .. just stop acting like a fkn chick you fggt

[dkmwise]

She definitely ain't a tomboy...

I brought it up to her, without saying anything negative, I just simply said "All of your friends are guys" and she started getting upset and said that she wasn't attracted to any of them.

I don't know though.

She may be telling you the complete truth that she isn't attracted to them, but that doesn't mean feelings couldn't change in the future. If you spend a lot of time around someone feelings can develop. And chances are at least some (if not all) of the guys she's friends with secretly like her, and even if they aren't actively pursuing her, you know guys, they're not going to turn her down if things started to happen. Being social friends or work friends with people of the opposite sex is one thing, but if you're a guy and you're texting and snapchating with a female, I gotta believe that in your mind you're investing time in hope of a possible relationship in the future.

[MadeFromDust]

I like groupies. What's wrong with that? :confusedshrug:

[GimmeThat]

I like groupies. What's wrong with that? :confusedshrug:


just don't lose respect/attention for whoever/whatever that demands your loyalty and responsibility

[GimmeThat]

lol doesn't fkn matter .. you can't predict if she's gonna cheat on your ass no matter what friends she has so why even stress about that ? ... if a bitch is going to cheat, she's going to cheat and you may never even find out about it .. women can be just as down low and sneaky as us .. some chicks are sluts .. what are you gonna do about it ? .. best you can do is be your own best self and that's that .. be confident and sure of yourself and drop that effeminate nonsense .. if you want to date some hoe who has 'guy friends' then you fkn deal with it .. if you don't like it, then don't go whining like some bitch and just drop her .. I sound like some retard dating counselor .. just stop acting like a fkn chick you fggt


what you are really trying to say, is

it's like a girl takes you right to where she lives and say
"so, this is me"

all while she and you still gets to make that decision on whether or not you're gonna walk in there together.



I mean, besides the whole distance stuff of course

but OP should get the point.




just like a terrible movie.

[russwest0]

This girl turned out to be a huge whore and a massive cuntbag.

She just turned 20 and has had sex with over 5+ people and hangs out with nothing but guys, yet if you even suggest that she's a whore or suggest that she's different for having so many guy friends she gets real pissy.

She told me all of this bullshit about how I'm perfect, she wants to live with me somewhere when we get older, etc, but now she's dating some other guy, so why should I ****ing care?

She's a straight whore.

[ace23]

She just turned 20 and has had sex with over 5+ people
What a whore :roll:

[russwest0]

What a whore :roll:

It's not so much that she's done it, it's more or less that she's constantly texted me a bunch of bullshit about how she wants to be with me. And any time I bring up her guy friends she plays it down, but who else is she f*cking?

Regardless we're done talking now because she has been texting me a bunch of bullshit about how she loves me and shit and then a few days later I find out she just started dating some guy where she lives and she wasn't even considerate enough to tell me.

[longhornfan1234]

"Quote:
Originally Posted by russwest0
She just turned 20 and has had sex with over 5+ people
What a whore".


:roll: :roll:


Brah, you need to get out more.

[russwest0]

"Quote:
Originally Posted by russwest0
She just turned 20 and has had sex with over 5+ people
What a whore".


:roll: :roll:


Brah, you need to get out more.

you completely missed the context of why I said that.

so if anyone needs to "get out more," it's probably you.

[sweggeh]

If a girl admits to ****in 5+ guys, the real number is atleast 15+.

[dunksby]

OP is one of those guy friends who is eternally friend zoned.

[russwest0]

If a girl admits to ****in 5+ guys, the real number is atleast 15+.

lol right?

she's been telling me the past 3 years everything about how I'm the guy she wants, i'm perfect, all this dumb bullshit,

but 3 years ago she was a virgin and a while back when we were talking I was like "what are we on now, number 5?" and she was like "you're exactly correct."

i was going to be her first but she was a dumb ****. honestly man i dont know why I wasted so much f*cking time on this whore

[dude77]

If a girl admits to ****in 5+ guys, the real number is atleast 15+.

bingo lol

that probably goes for anyone really .. but definitely add 10+ to whatever number a female gives you ..

op stop giving this girl mind .. you think she's thinking about you ? .. well maybe while she's getting pounded by other guys .. meanwhile you're here stressing about her .. I hope you're at least going out with other girls and getting some action yourself

[russwest0]

bingo lol

that probably goes for anyone really .. but definitely add 10+ to whatever number a female gives you ..

op stop giving this girl mind .. you think she's thinking about you ? .. well maybe while she's getting pounded by other guys .. meanwhile you're here stressing about her .. I hope you're at least going out with other girls and getting some action yourself

nah she thinks about me all the f*cking time and thats pretty obvious.

i dont even give a shit anymore though man, next time she texts me trying to start up her bullshit again I'll probably just say back "f*ck you ****."

we had a chance to hang before she moved but then she was like "I can't see everybody" or some dumbass shit, and then promptly moved and then sent me a long ass email about how she loved me and shit.

she's a stupid ass **** and I could care less about her now.

[dude77]

nah she thinks about me all the f*cking time and thats pretty obvious.

i dont even give a shit anymore though man, next time she texts me trying to start up her bullshit again I'll probably just say back "f*ck you ****."

we had a chance to hang before she moved but then she was like "I can't see everybody" or some dumbass shit, and then promptly moved and then sent me a long ass email about how she loved me and shit.

she's a stupid ass **** and I could care less about her now.

yeah all the time .. while she's going out and having fun with other people .. that's what I'm saying .. that comment says it all .. "I can't see everybody" .. you're just someone in line to her .. meanwhile you're stressing out over her .. ok .. let me rephrase that .. you think she's stressing over you and starting threads on message boards about you ? lol .. not good man .. time to drop it .. this should not be happening .. you're giving this too much head

[riseagainst]

sorry russ. This girl is probably taking it up the ass with 2 dudes right as i'm typing this.