View Full Version : 10 Hours of Walking in NYC as a Woman
MavsSuperFan
10-28-2014, 08:23 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1XGPvbWn0A
Other than the dude that followed her around for several minutes, which I could understand finding creepy, I honestly dont see whats the big deal with being told you are attractive.
The one dude who told her to be grateful is also kind of an ass.
But why is it considered harassment to say hi, how are you, have a nice day, etc.
Stuckey
10-28-2014, 08:25 PM
:banana: me gusta
RidonKs
10-28-2014, 08:35 PM
maybe it's not harassment in every case. who knows what the legal definition is... my opinion on experience is the legal definition is probably too liberal.
but i can understand why that would be annoying as fk. imagine if ugly fat girls you had no interest in were approaching you all day every day telling you how awesome you were and you didn't want to insult them by telling the truth so you were forced to play along and politely extricate yourself from each and every situation? probably not a whole lot of fun after the first day, unless you don't mind just being an asshole... which would kill your reputation
plus as the video includes in the end, this is not to mention a bunch of whistling/
and let's be real... these aren't real pickup lines. none of these guys can honestly think this chick is gonna stop for them walking down the fking street :lol
tho lol @
hello good morning god bless you have a good day alright? (proceeds to walk beside her for 5 minutes
hey lookit there... i just saw a thousand dollars
too ugly for u?
iTare
10-28-2014, 08:49 PM
Im not donating money because a few guys thought you were cute and expressed it verbally.
:lol
chosen_one6
10-28-2014, 08:55 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1XGPvbWn0A
Other than the dude that followed her around for several minutes, which I could understand finding creepy, I honestly dont see whats the big deal with being told you are attractive.
The one dude who told her to be grateful is also kind of an ass.
But why is it considered harassment to say hi, how are you, have a nice day, etc.
Imagine thirsty dudes calling you all sorts of names every day. Then you will begin to understand why it's harassment.
That second part is not harassment, that technically is being polite. However, I think we all know most of those guys didn't really care for how her day was going or how she was feeling.
But why is it considered harassment to say hi, how are you, have a nice day, etc.
It's about context
On the busy city streets you don't go around saying hello to every stranger who briskly walks past you. So a thousand people walked past these guys in the past 30 minutes and they didn't even acknowledge, but then a girl with a fat ass walks past and they go
"ooooh, hello there ( ͡
KevinNYC
10-28-2014, 09:06 PM
maybe it's not harassment in every case. who knows what the legal definition is... my opinion on experience is the legal definition is probably too liberal.
They are not talking about criminal harassment here, just plain ole street harrassment.
RidonKs
10-28-2014, 09:07 PM
to trail off on ljj's last sentence, it does fking suck because it makes hot girls far less approachable to guys (me) who actually have something to say that doesn't boil down to an indiscriminate "ur hawt"... they got their asshole radars up 24/7
Jameerthefear
10-28-2014, 09:16 PM
Waaaahhhh poor females waaaahhh. Feminists need to get the f*ck off this Earth.
chosen_one6
10-28-2014, 09:25 PM
Waaaahhhh poor females waaaahhh. Feminists need to get the f*ck off this Earth.
Holy shit you're an idiot
RidonKs
10-28-2014, 09:30 PM
Waaaahhhh poor females waaaahhh. Feminists need to get the f*ck off this Earth.
everything u post makes me think u are not a troll or a gimmick but in fact a real person... except when u post about women. a subset of humanity you clearly hold a great deal of resentment towards.
RidonKs
10-28-2014, 09:31 PM
I'm not defending anything, especially because I didn't watch the video...
But saying 'hi' to every 50th person, once in a while it will be an attractive woman, that doesn't make you a scumbag. Is smiling is bad too?
When you're exercising, jogging, hiking you're supposed to say hi to people. Just because people are accustomed to ignoring each other on the street doesn't mean the person saying something is an asshole.
I get that context is a big deal, but that discourages genuine friendliness.
it's under 2 minutes long, u should watch it. it has literally nothing to do with "genuine friendliness".
tho im totally on board with your larger point.
CelticBaller
10-28-2014, 09:35 PM
aside from the real thirsty dudes, a greeting and a compliment don't seem bad
Jailblazers7
10-28-2014, 09:37 PM
There is a difference between a polite hello and what is happening in the video. If you can't tell the difference then chances are that everyone thinks you're a creep.
I'm not defending anything, especially because I didn't watch the video...
But saying 'hi' to every 50th person, once in a while it will be an attractive woman, that doesn't make you a scumbag. Is smiling is bad too?
When you're exercising, jogging, hiking you're supposed to say hi to people. Just because people are accustomed to ignoring each other on the street doesn't mean the person saying something is an asshole.
I get that context is a big deal, but that discourages genuine friendliness.
"Saying hi to every 50th person, that just sometimes happens to be an attractive woman" :rolleyes: nobody does this.
Anyway, friendliness is great and all that. You know what? Saying hi to someone not because you are being friendly, but specifically because you find them attractive is perfectly great also in itself.
But there is a time and a place for everything. You just gave great examples yourself: meet someone out hiking? Of course you say hi. Calling after a women in the busy street who is clearly busy, because you like her fat ass? That's the wrong place and the wrong time, and yes you are an asshole for doing that.
RidonKs
10-28-2014, 09:41 PM
aside from the real thirsty dudes, a greeting and a compliment don't seem bad
they're all thirsty, some are just a bit modest
CelticBaller
10-28-2014, 09:47 PM
they're all thirsty, some are just a bit modest
a godbless you and have a good day doesn't compare to being followed, thats when the thirst is real
irondarts
10-28-2014, 10:11 PM
Waaaahhhh poor females waaaahhh. Feminists need to get the f*ck off this Earth.
You've got some serious issues with women that you need to work out, man.
Trollsmasher
10-28-2014, 11:24 PM
only blacks and hispanics in the video...
inb4 liberal logic overload
Jameerthefear
10-28-2014, 11:26 PM
everything u post makes me think u are not a troll or a gimmick but in fact a real person... except when u post about women. a subset of humanity you clearly hold a great deal of resentment towards.
No, just no.
Jameerthefear
10-28-2014, 11:26 PM
You've got some serious issues with women that you need to work out, man.
See above post.
RidonKs
10-28-2014, 11:29 PM
only blacks and hispanics in the video...
inb4 liberal logic overload
people are racist
white females are racist
whites are majority
white females dont fk male minorities
male minorities are stronger than female minorities
only strongest minorities make it past border security
there are more male minorities than female minorities
male minorities are sexually frustrated
male minorities hone in on white females
white females reject male minorities
video posted in op shows that white females reject male minorities
*** unsure if female in video constitutes description of white female
imdaman99
10-28-2014, 11:33 PM
If she walked in the city for 10 hours, she walked past literally at least 10,000 men. She got harrassed by 100 or so... so thats about 1-2% of men, no longer sounds so bad :oldlol: She got some nice boobs tho, I'd def check her out but I wouldn't say anything :pimp:
RidonKs
10-28-2014, 11:33 PM
See above post.
if u are in fact a real person, it's a shame u are incapable of telling the difference between those who hate you and those who offer constructive criticism. some day perhaps.
nathanjizzle
10-28-2014, 11:36 PM
the culture in newyork specific to these lower class people is corny as ****.
KNOW1EDGE
10-29-2014, 12:11 AM
OMG that poor woman.
She is so ugly and so desperate for attention it's disgusting.
Somebody put a d1ck in her mouth and shut this feminist liberal dummy the fuhck up.
thefatmiral
10-29-2014, 01:10 AM
men are horny. interesting research.
bigkingsfan
10-29-2014, 01:42 AM
Film this at night in a dark alley and you'll have my full support.
dude77
10-29-2014, 03:22 AM
so now saying 'have a nice day' 'how are you' 'god bless' 'you're beautiful' to a female walking by is harrassment .. fkn christ lol .. some of those can be construed as harrassment .. the followers are creepers .. but there is NOTHING, never will be nothing wrong with saying have a nice day or how are you or you're beautiful to a female in public ..
women love attention .. don't let any feminist piece of shit try to warp your mind like that .. sick fks
bballer
10-29-2014, 06:41 AM
only watched it once but it seems like every dude was a black dude. just saying.
ImKobe
10-29-2014, 06:55 AM
so now saying 'have a nice day' 'how are you' 'god bless' 'you're beautiful' to a female walking by is harrassment .. fkn christ lol .. some of those can be construed as harrassment .. the followers are creepers .. but there is NOTHING, never will be nothing wrong with saying have a nice day or how are you or you're beautiful to a female in public ..
women love attention .. don't let any feminist piece of shit try to warp your mind like that .. sick fks
Seriously this...
dunksby
10-29-2014, 06:55 AM
I know everyone should strive for their ideals and such but let's be honest, this woman should be thankful for living in the US and NYC. If she is so concerned about how women are treated in public maybe she could try it in Nigeria, Liberia, Saudi Arabia and so on?
she's only like a 6 or 5.
Jailblazers7
10-29-2014, 08:45 AM
I know everyone should strive for their ideals and such but let's be honest, this woman should be thankful for living in the US and NYC. If she is so concerned about how women are treated in public maybe she could try it in Nigeria, Liberia, Saudi Arabia and so on?
Seriously? That is the worst argument that get brought up during these types of topics.
I mean, why would we ever want to improve the behavior in our society when we can just point our fingers at someone else and say, "Hey, at least we're not as bad as them."
dunksby
10-29-2014, 10:50 AM
Seriously? That is the worst argument that get brought up during these types of topics.
I mean, why would we ever want to improve the behavior in our society when we can just point our fingers at someone else and say, "Hey, at least we're not as bad as them."
I'm pointing out that she doesn't have a case here, what she went through was not harassment. That's why I'm suggesting she starts enjoying and appreciating her life instead of being oversensitive.
StephHamann
10-29-2014, 10:51 AM
Black hobos talking to her, if i walk on the street hobos always ask me for money, so no big deal :confusedshrug:
dunksby
10-29-2014, 10:55 AM
Damn ugly creep wow
I admit I don't get ***** none :(
robert de niro
10-29-2014, 11:00 AM
how can anyone defend this :oldlol: so many creeps in this thread man
Dresta
10-29-2014, 11:47 AM
Sorry, but i have, and likely always will have more sympathy for the ugly chick who never gets approached or talked to rather than the hot girl who has to deal with attention she doesn't want. It's unfortunate, but too bad, and things could be far worse! Any law restricting this kind of thing would provide extra protection simply to cater to the desires of the privileged few and also be far too arbitrary to be worth even trying.
I don't think enough people appreciate how much easier life is made for you if you are attractive, and how much harder if you are ugly. An attractive woman spends a good portion of her life being given things, whereas an ugly woman gets many of the disadvantages of being a woman but few of the advantages. Yet they are still arguing for more privileges, more arbitrary distortion of the law!
meh.. if you can't handle this then you can't handle freedom and instead of asking the government for extra protection we might as well return to patriarchy. The feminist movement has always demanded freedom without having to deal with any of the painful consequences of freedom, mind you.
ArbitraryWater
10-29-2014, 11:59 AM
OP please be ****ing real... :facepalm
Do you ever do that to complete strangers?
It's just thirsty men perving at women in public they don't know.... That's got to be pretty ****ing annoying... She doesn't need to say anything back, its not meant nicely... Ist just Men performing cave man game...
This was harrassment... Those dudes were all pretty disgusting.
Either you kindly approach someone, or you let it be.... Look, but dont look too much.. Keep it clean.
Like someone else said, its about context... Some were nice complements... The majority not, though. The majority was rude.
They need to learn how to behave.
Edit:
Its innapropriate... Did you ever do that to complete strangers?
And how would you react? Its awkward.... She doesnt know them and doesnt intend on knowing them....
Is she supposed to smile and answer back around every corner? Who would go through that effort just to appease strange Men she doesnt know and doesnt want to?
Nice compliments are something else... It helps if the Men dont look like trashy thugs...
On a 2nd note, "How you doing today" or "Whats up beautiful have a good day" or "Have a nice evening" is totally fine... Said it politely, kept it short and modest... But ist something else with someone walking hip to hip with you, starring you down and saying "god bless u Mama".. wtf is that?!
I dont know how donating would help... But still Men need to reduce this behaviour.
glidedrxlr22
10-29-2014, 12:20 PM
I would smash her.
Women are some confusing species..... they love clothes that shows all features, tight jeans/shirt or mini skirt / super short cut off jeans, showing to much skin & stuff like that. They love to tease, they love the attention, but if you approach them you are a creep!
Yet if she finds somebody interesting/good looking/whatever, wants a specific guy to approach her maybe that guy is to afraid now to make the first move/initiate the talking to not be labeled a "creep" like those others aswell, i have been that guy many times... when one day a girl approached me asking ME out, we dated and she kept asking why i never asked her out, if i was shy or something, why i was not interested (when i actually was!).... Women are funny................
This is why i think it would be best if the women initiated the first talk, see a good looking guy, walk up to him and talk to him, ask him out, it will 100% of the time be a YES....... no man will turn you down (maybe not even those who are married/have GF's), unless you are one really ugly mofo.... That way we dont have to act like creep, you wont be bothered, you choose whoever you like and the deserving guy gets you..... win-win..... But the reality is that will never happen, so please be considerate!
Its women who needs to be put in OUR shoes, not the other way around, then they will fully understand.
ArbitraryWater
10-29-2014, 01:03 PM
Women are some confusing species..... they love clothes that shows all features, tight jeans/shirt or mini skirt / super short cut off jeans, showing to much skin & stuff like that. They love to tease, they love the attention, but if you approach them you are a creep!
Yet if she finds somebody interesting/good looking/whatever, wants a specific guy to approach her maybe that guy is to afraid now to make the first move/initiate the talking to not be labeled a "creep" like those others aswell, i have been that guy many times... when one day a girl approached me asking ME out, we dated and she kept asking why i never asked her out, if i was shy or something, why i was not interested (when i actually was!).... Women are funny................
This is why i think it would be best if the women initiated the first talk, see a good looking guy, walk up to him and talk to him, ask him out, it will 100% of the time be a YES....... no man will turn you down (maybe not even those who are married/have GF's), unless you are one really ugly mofo.... That way we dont have to act like creep, you wont be bothered, you choose whoever you like and the deserving guy gets you..... win-win..... But the reality is that will never happen, so please be considerate!
Its women who needs to be put in OUR shoes, not the other way around, then they will fully understand.
But nobody here politely approached her and asked her out......... Just a bunch of lame talk from the side.
robert de niro
10-29-2014, 01:04 PM
Women are some confusing species..... they love clothes that shows all features, tight jeans/shirt or mini skirt / super short cut off jeans, showing to much skin & stuff like that. They love to tease, they love the attention, but if you approach them you are a creep!
Yet if she finds somebody interestings/good looking/whatever, wants a specific guy to approach her maybe that guy is to afraid now to make the first move/initiate the talking to not be labeled a "creep" like those others aswell, i have been that guy many times... when one day a girl approached me asking ME out, we dated and she kept asking why i never asked her out, if i was shy or something, why i was not interested (when i actually was!).... Women are funny................
This is why i think it would be best if the women initiated the first talk, see a good looking guy, walk up to him and talk to him, ask him out, it will 100% of the time be a YES....... no man will turn you down (maybe not even those who are married/have GF's), unless you are one really ugly mofo.... That way we dont have to act like creep (we really dont have a choice!), you wont be bothered, you choose whoever you like and the deserving guy gets you..... win-win.....
But the reality is that will never happen, so STFU and handle it! :P
are you really comparing being too shy to ask a classmate out to some creeps talking to random girls in the street cos they want to hit it bad? and that first argument is so ignorant, women dress for themselves, you just happen to find it attractive
ILLsmak
10-29-2014, 01:22 PM
Sorry, but i have, and likely always will have more sympathy for the ugly chick who never gets approached or talked to rather than the hot girl who has to deal with attention she doesn't want. It's unfortunate, but too bad, and things could be far worse! Any law restricting this kind of thing would provide extra protection simply to cater to the desires of the privileged few and also be far too arbitrary to be worth even trying.
I don't think enough people appreciate how much easier life is made for you if you are attractive, and how much harder if you are ugly. An attractive woman spends a good portion of her life being given things, whereas an ugly woman gets many of the disadvantages of being a woman but few of the advantages. Yet they are still arguing for more privileges, more arbitrary distortion of the law!
meh.. if you can't handle this then you can't handle freedom and instead of asking the government for extra protection we might as well return to patriarchy. The feminist movement has always demanded freedom without having to deal with any of the painful consequences of freedom, mind you.
Not to mention dudes are scum of the earth. A bunch of slimy guys. There are slimy chics, too.
I think that it's possible that SOME of those people were just talking. It's OK to say hi what's up to a girl, I think, even if it's only because you want to **** her. I personally wouldn't say that unless we made eye contact because I wouldn't want her to be annoyed. This is more street annoyance than harassment. A few were bad.
And not to mention apparently this behavior has worked for them.
Edit: @ Robbie, so if a girl is ****ing hot and everyone wants to **** her then no one should talk to her? Isn't the issue more that the guys are seen as creepy?
You think a guy is a creep if he looks at a girl and wants to **** her?
-Smak
tomtucker
10-29-2014, 01:52 PM
harassment my ass.......this is new york, bitch should be lucky she didn
stalkerforlife
10-29-2014, 01:55 PM
What is a man supposed to do, not say anything to women? Be lonely forever?
Women have it so easy.
Men have to get rejected time and time again. (Well, I do)
ArbitraryWater
10-29-2014, 01:57 PM
[QUOTE=tomtucker]harassment my ass.......this is new york, bitch should be lucky she didn
tmacattack33
10-29-2014, 02:06 PM
They say she walked around for 10 hours...and out of all of that, all we ended up with was like 20 guys saying something saying things to her.
And 90% of the guys look like they were just sitting on the corner drunk or high with absolutely nothing to do. People like that cause all kinds of problems, so that is not news.
BRabbiT
10-29-2014, 02:12 PM
Other than the dude that followed her around for several minutes... why is it considered harassment to say hi, how are you, have a nice day, etc.
+1
longhornfan1234
10-29-2014, 02:25 PM
Sorry, but i have, and likely always will have more sympathy for the ugly chick who never gets approached or talked to rather than the hot girl who has to deal with attention she doesn't want. It's unfortunate, but too bad, and things could be far worse! Any law restricting this kind of thing would provide extra protection simply to cater to the desires of the privileged few and also be far too arbitrary to be worth even trying.
I don't think enough people appreciate how much easier life is made for you if you are attractive, and how much harder if you are ugly. An attractive woman spends a good portion of her life being given things, whereas an ugly woman gets many of the disadvantages of being a woman but few of the advantages. Yet they are still arguing for more privileges, more arbitrary distortion of the law!
meh.. if you can't handle this then you can't handle freedom and instead of asking the government for extra protection we might as well return to patriarchy. The feminist movement has always demanded freedom without having to deal with any of the painful consequences of freedom, mind you.
Isn't attractiveness a relative term? That's a moot point.
Moreso, if a guy is sitting at a bar and continually approached by what he considers to be "ugly girls" trust me, he would make a stink. Guys just don't have to deal with it in the same capacity as girls.
I know that there's women who avoid certain areas at my job just because they hate how some guys to them or check them out or whatever. It makes themfeel uncomfortable, and those actions are unnecessary. That's exactly it... Is it necessary? The answer is NO. It's not about patriarchy... it's about equal respect. Women are demanding to be treated fairly. How many men feel harassed by women? I know it happens but it's not even comparable.
I don't know a single female who doesn't feel harassed, targeted, or uncomfortable by SOME men on a daily basis. And this encompasses varying "attractiveness levels" since apparently attractive people have it easy. Wtf???
KevinNYC
10-29-2014, 02:25 PM
Such a horrible Argument..
Do you really think it rises to the level of an argument?
Also I doubt he has ever been in NYC.
Dresta
10-29-2014, 03:33 PM
Isn't attractiveness a relative term? That's a moot point.
Moreso, if a guy is sitting at a bar and continually approached by what he considers to be "ugly girls" trust me, he would make a stink. Guys just don't have to deal with it in the same capacity as girls.
I know that there's women who avoid certain areas at my job just because they hate how some guys to them or check them out or whatever. It makes themfeel uncomfortable, and those actions are unnecessary. That's exactly it... Is it necessary? The answer is NO. It's not about patriarchy... it's about equal respect. Women are demanding to be treated fairly. How many men feel harassed by women? I know it happens but it's not even comparable.
I don't know a single female who doesn't feel harassed, targeted, or uncomfortable by SOME men on a daily basis. And this encompasses varying "attractiveness levels" since apparently attractive people have it easy. Wtf???
I don't see why you've quoted me when you haven't actually responded to anything i said, and instead just rambled off some pointless and undefinable cliches like 'equal respect' (is this collective and aggregated respect? must all men regard women with the same respect as one another?) and being 'treated fairly' (fairly by whom? men as a sex? such a thing as a collective entity does not exist. 'fairness' is a far more ambiguous and relative concept than attractiveness and yet you ridicule that).
Basically, you've written and argued **** all. How am i supposed to respond to such trite nonsense? Do women have a right to not feel uncomfortable? Is this what you're arguing? That's quite the utopian vision. Were the men in this video not specifically 'targeted' to be made feel 'uncomfortable' by their own inadequacy as human beings? Is this not stating the obvious and then shitting on and ridiculing the dregs of society to reaffirm the obvious? You don't really have any point other than holding a vague inclination that this is somehow unfair, and that something should be done about it (though you don't know what or how).
Jameerthefear
10-29-2014, 03:47 PM
Oh great, more bluepillers supporting the message of this video. This is why we'll have Hillary Clinton's bum ass in office in 2016.
MavsSuperFan
10-29-2014, 03:51 PM
Oh great, more bluepillers supporting the message of this video. This is why we'll have Hillary Clinton's bum ass in office in 2016.
man getting rejected by that girl really affected you
Jameerthefear
10-29-2014, 04:06 PM
I didn't get rejected by anyone
KevinNYC
10-29-2014, 04:22 PM
Oh great, more bluepillers supporting the message of this video. This is why we'll have Hillary Clinton's bum ass in office in 2016.
Wow.
Looked up "bluepiller"
http://www.businessinsider.com/the-red-pill-reddit-2013-8
Wow.
Jameer, don't choose this sad life.
Raymone
10-29-2014, 04:33 PM
http://i.imgur.com/IgJB9IE.jpg
dude77
10-29-2014, 05:08 PM
Damn you never get titty huh
Bummer dude
Being and ugly creep must be wack
there's nothing wrong with telling a female in public what those guys were saying .. the only ones I would object to are the guys following her .. guys pursue and talk to women .. women like being talked to and pursued .. have always .. that's just how it is .. no feminist fantasy is ever going to change our human nature ..
but lets get real though .. she's not complaining about being harrassed because she doesn't like being talked to .. it's because of who is trying to talk to her .. which is what makes her little stunt video all the more disingenuous and can't be taken seriously ..
also, this chunky little man faced slut in the video is the same girl who will start complaining the minute she's not getting any attention .. just another attention whoring, irrational female looking for something to whine about
ArbitraryWater
10-29-2014, 05:12 PM
The pussification of society begins: (ugly) guys can't even compliment a bitch without it being harrassment
Just because they are verbalizing words that could are by definition "nice", that is NOT the idea they are communicating to the woman. What they are saying is "let me **** you, ur just a another ***** as far as I'm concerned" even in this video they are communicating that same message in many difference ways, even the silent walker who is way too close for comfort is saying it and he isn't even opening his mouth.
Your parents should have done a better Job of teaching you this.
ArbitraryWater
10-29-2014, 05:20 PM
She is though. She's a female, albeit an attractive one but still a regular person like you and I. They're all just "another ugly/not rich dude" to her. So what's the difference?
Exactly.. a regular normal Person... So why not approach her normally instead of shouting some lame stuff in public to her?
What gives these men the right to objectify her like this? They're just judging her on her looks; they don't actually care about how she is...
To make things worse, they're putting her on a pedestal... Do they HONESTLY care about her? No... Do they want to meet her to eventually get in her pants? Probably.... You think you do that like this? Like cave men?
A few were okay, what you could call polite... Like "have a good evening" but the rest isn't defendable...
dude77
10-29-2014, 05:23 PM
Poor little fella
What are ya 5'6 tops?
oh .. wastin' my time typing all that shit .. and you're a troll .. nevermind
ArbitraryWater
10-29-2014, 05:24 PM
Don't know why I keep clicking "view post". You obviously aren't serious.
Welp, good to have another troll back I guess..You'll fit right in again.
oarabbus
10-29-2014, 05:42 PM
Poor little fella
What are ya 5'6 tops?
Why you gotta hate on short guys. I never treat anyone badly in my life based off things they can't control like race, height etc.
We didn't choose to be short asshole
Bigsmoke
10-29-2014, 05:51 PM
Weak.
All they did was tell her she was beautiful
Now this was harassment
http://youtu.be/UN0kW6rg-rk
masonanddixon
10-29-2014, 05:58 PM
2014 society is a joke
ILLsmak
10-29-2014, 06:34 PM
Moreso, if a guy is sitting at a bar and continually approached by what he considers to be "ugly girls" trust me, he would make a stink. Guys just don't have to deal with it in the same capacity as girls.
Maybe...
It's different because guys are supposed to approach girls. Girls are supposed to attract. A girl wears clothes to attract and guys think that's gg because they are dumb.
I've been in many awkward situations with women. What do you mean cause a stink? DAMN THIS GIRL SO UGLY GET AWAY GIRL. haha. A girl can tell a guy to **** off, but it's harder, I think, as a guy. All you can do is just not really respond to her, but if it's at a bar she may keep talking. It could be some 80 year old woman, too. We gonna act like old women don't think they can get away with touching you in a way that would get a man arrested?
Shit is annoying but harassment? As long as people keep their hands off my dick, I'm willing to let it slide. The harassment in the video is that the girl was mad that those guys were wanting to **** her. So, it was like her ideal was being assaulted. But how is that different than someone wearing a T shirt that says GOD IS FAKE or hitler on a T shirt. It's wack... it happens, but it's not harassment. If I was someone who got truly raped or harassed, I would be offended by that. Not to mention that people probably think those guys are all would-be rapists.
Last point, with a guy it's more that girls will be showing off their body. So, let's say I have an issue with girls sticking their ass in my face or showing me their cleavage. Or using sexual innuendo. Does that mean I am being sexually harassed?
You can twist it, but it's really the same shit. It goes back to inequality. Men are supposed to be able to handle it. I deal w/ it, but it does happen. There are many times when I want people to go away. I think attractive guys and girls get similar attention. Maybe it's just that there are more lonely men on the street or at bars?
-Smak
ArbitraryWater
10-29-2014, 07:07 PM
Maybe...
It's different because guys are supposed to approach girls. Girls are supposed to attract. A girl wears clothes to attract and guys think that's gg because they are dumb.
I've been in many awkward situations with women. What do you mean cause a stink? DAMN THIS GIRL SO UGLY GET AWAY GIRL. haha. A girl can tell a guy to **** off, but it's harder, I think, as a guy. All you can do is just not really respond to her, but if it's at a bar she may keep talking. It could be some 80 year old woman, too. We gonna act like old women don't think they can get away with touching you in a way that would get a man arrested?
Shit is annoying but harassment? As long as people keep their hands off my dick, I'm willing to let it slide. The harassment in the video is that the girl was mad that those guys were wanting to **** her. So, it was like her ideal was being assaulted. But how is that different than someone wearing a T shirt that says GOD IS FAKE or hitler on a T shirt. It's wack... it happens, but it's not harassment. If I was someone who got truly raped or harassed, I would be offended by that. Not to mention that people probably think those guys are all would-be rapists.
Last point, with a guy it's more that girls will be showing off their body. So, let's say I have an issue with girls sticking their ass in my face or showing me their cleavage. Or using sexual innuendo. Does that mean I am being sexually harassed?
You can twist it, but it's really the same shit. It goes back to inequality. Men are supposed to be able to handle it. I deal w/ it, but it does happen. There are many times when I want people to go away. I think attractive guys and girls get similar attention. Maybe it's just that there are more lonely men on the street or at bars?
-Smak
Good post.
Also, Equality really doesn't make much sense to me... Men and Women are simply different.
Seen some of the video and noticed she was 10 minutes away from where I live. Where that terror attack on the police officer being attacked by the axe, same location (Notice the Jimmy Jazz store) and Apple Bees. That's Jamaica Avenue. It's a spot where 95% of African Americans are. They maul girls here where I live. A good looking or any female at that walking down the st here will get mauled at. It happens in my neighborhood, guys in passing cars who have no guts to confront a girl the right way.
wakencdukest
10-29-2014, 08:59 PM
That video ain't nothing new. Lets see her walk for ten hours through decent neighborhoods, there won't be nothing to talk about.
RidonKs
10-29-2014, 09:51 PM
Yet they are still arguing for more privileges, more arbitrary distortion of the law!
first person in thread to bring up law claims people should stop changing the law = strawman = red herring
Raymone
10-29-2014, 10:06 PM
This is further evidence of the west coast's superiority over the east. People in California don't do this sort of shit to random women walking in public. Not even our black people.
Jameerthefear
10-29-2014, 10:09 PM
Redpill gets a bad rap (mostly from people who don't know about it listening to other people who don't know about it) but it actually has some solid fundamentals.
That being said, Jameer hasn't gone through life enough yet to be discussing this stuff.
No, the earlier u get in it the better. I won't fall for female's tricks.
BlazerRed
10-29-2014, 10:28 PM
This is further evidence of the west coast's superiority over the east. People in California don't do this sort of shit to random women walking in public. Not even our black people.
West Coast = Best Coast :banana:
Jailblazers7
10-29-2014, 10:29 PM
It's cool to be aware but you haven't really had the experiences that justify the plunge. Then when you're older you can really apply that knowledge.
Cheapest flight is almost $600
Cincy's airport ****ing blows. It's impossible to get a cheap ticket out of there.
Pointguard
10-29-2014, 11:53 PM
If she walked in the city for 10 hours, she walked past literally at least 10,000 men. She got harrassed by 100 or so... so thats about 1-2% of men, no longer sounds so bad :oldlol: She got some nice boobs tho, I'd def check her out but I wouldn't say anything :pimp:
People here don't know what a numbers game she was playing. She nearly did the whole strip of 125th street. She was also in Time Square. And earlier in the film Soho. Before that Wall street. So, yeah more like 20,000 men. While at times being in the Den of Wolves.
"God Bless you"
"Have a good day"
"How you doing Beautiful"
"How are you"
"Have a nice evening"
"Nice"
Aren't really harassment calls at all. And they are easily the majority of the calls. Guys going Dammmm aren't really calls either. While I think the calling gets out of hand and often is, this wasn't a good video at all.
Just2McFly
10-30-2014, 12:25 AM
that woman could have had my children fam... I am definitely trying to see what on earth is so bad about this? Put me on game ISH.... I see this girl, I'm a man in NYC... chances are that I will NEVER see this broad again...I'm supposed to hold my tongue and watch her walk out of my life helplessly lusting after her? A polite greeting with somewhat obvious intentions(starting a conversation) is supposed to be harassment now?
This is embarrassing... western culture and more specifically white people have become so b*tchmade... im in toronto and i meet girls from every continent virtually every day working retail in a tourist spot and these girls always have negative things to say about canadian men. how soft and pussified we are, we dont hold eye contact in public, dont approach, wont say hi and when i see NY'ers doing the game proud you blast them and put them down?
they are men actively pursuing what they want and taking advantage of the opportunity in front of them. i've had enough of this feminism movement tainting game already... like this shit is out of hand. i dont even know what to say to women anymore now that hi is unacceptable.
aside from that dude that got mystified by her body, what is wrong here? the norm for mingling between the sexes has reached and all time low
im stressed for the future men
irondarts
10-30-2014, 01:14 AM
That dude walking right beside her for 5 minutes was insanely creepy.
ace23
10-30-2014, 01:34 AM
Bitch fine af.
BigBoss
10-30-2014, 01:43 AM
Didn't read what any of you guys wrote, so if it's been mentioned already then my bad. My response to this video
1. If she found the guys attractive this would be a non-issue
2. A lot of those guys are saying shit like " have a nice day and god bless you".
3. lol @ ending street harassment. Where exactly does the money go and what would it do?
KNOW1EDGE
10-30-2014, 02:22 AM
Bitch fine af.
I really hope you are joking
ace23
10-30-2014, 02:28 AM
I really hope you are joking
Lolwut? Body is 10/10
KNOW1EDGE
10-30-2014, 02:33 AM
Lolwut? Body is 10/10
Stahp
Just2McFly
10-30-2014, 02:34 AM
I wouldn't want a bunch of strangers coming up and trying to start conversations with me on the street even if they were being nice. It's not the proper venue to try and talk to girls. I'm sure you got plenty of girlfriends glove, don't they tell you this bugs them and it makes you want to lay off?
Girls hit on me at work. They stare at me on the subway,bus,mall wherever... I'm not making videos about and trying to "raise funds" to stop it either:lol
this whole concept of venue is foolish, the only problem I have with what these guys did was the fact that they didn't read her body language before approaching. It's obviously that she wasn't trying to hear anything short of gunshots and a siren. Her body was laser focused on walking straight ahead without stopping for interruptions.
My question to you all, since we are mostly men... what is a man supposed to do? Let me know because outside of approaching when it seems that she's not interested(assumptions can be wrong, sometimes girls are just miserable) what did the majority of the guys in this vid do wrong?
Man let me tell you, I've literally chased women before(last time was like three days ago), call me thirsty, buy me a gatorade, etc... but I go after what i want and i wanted her. We locked eyes while she was going up an escalator and I told her to wait.
just let me know where im wrong because i think that being assertive and somewhat aggressive sexually isn't necessarily a bad thing
sundizz
10-30-2014, 02:46 AM
People really take civilization for granted. It's only in this recent modern maybe 20 or 30 years that this has happened. We are animals. The more educated we get the less we try to act like it. That's why all of this was happening in the ghetto/low income/low educated areas. Of course all guys (regardless of education/income etc) want to holla. However, society would break down if everyone acted like this.
This is just normal human behavior. It is why woman want someone that can protect them. This shows me more a lack of progress of society/education than it shows anything about men.
She did nothing wrong...neither did the men. Women need to learn how to deal with it, but instead they scream for equality. However, when it comes to marriage, divorce, etc they get all sorts of benefits compared to men. Men and women are different....all this equalizing stuff just messes with people's heads.
In hoops we all have roles; scorer, rebounder, defender, etc. When everyone does their part well the team has success. It is the same with society - a hot girl is going to attract a certain amount of attention. It is implicit in society functioning as it should.
tomtucker
10-30-2014, 05:02 AM
Weak.
All they did was tell her she was beautiful
Now this was harassment
http://youtu.be/UN0kW6rg-rk
:oldlol: :lol
tomtucker
10-30-2014, 05:04 AM
Do you really think it rises to the level of an argument?
Also I doubt he has ever been in NYC.
NY is not a tough and raw place ? :confusedshrug:
TheReal Kendall
10-30-2014, 05:46 AM
Girls hit on me at work. They stare at me on the subway,bus,mall wherever... I'm not making videos about and trying to "raise funds" to stop it either:lol
this whole concept of venue is foolish, the only problem I have with what these guys did was the fact that they didn't read her body language before approaching. It's obviously that she wasn't trying to hear anything short of gunshots and a siren. Her body was laser focused on walking straight ahead without stopping for interruptions.
My question to you all, since we are mostly men... what is a man supposed to do? Let me know because outside of approaching when it seems that she's not interested(assumptions can be wrong, sometimes girls are just miserable) what did the majority of the guys in this vid do wrong?
Man let me tell you, I've literally chased women before(last time was like three days ago), call me thirsty, buy me a gatorade, etc... but I go after what i want and i wanted her. We locked eyes while she was going up an escalator and I told her to wait.
just let me know where im wrong because i think that being assertive and somewhat aggressive sexually isn't necessarily a bad thing
:applause: Great post and I feel the same way.
Dresta
10-30-2014, 09:48 AM
first person in thread to bring up law claims people should stop changing the law = strawman = red herring
What? Feminists are always arguing for law changes that favour specifically them and their wants. Feminists in the UK recently went on a crusade to ban lads mags as these conflict with the 'rights' of female employees not to see half a breast. This video ends saying 'end street harassment' and asking for the donation of money - how is this going to be accomplished without an arbitrary distortion of the law? It can't be. So why bring it up if this isn't an effort to change the law? Of course this video carries the implicit assumption that we should view these men as criminals.
People really take civilization for granted. It's only in this recent modern maybe 20 or 30 years that this has happened. We are animals. The more educated we get the less we try to act like it. That's why all of this was happening in the ghetto/low income/low educated areas. Of course all guys (regardless of education/income etc) want to holla. However, society would break down if everyone acted like this.
This is just normal human behavior. It is why woman want someone that can protect them. This shows me more a lack of progress of society/education than it shows anything about men.
She did nothing wrong...neither did the men. Women need to learn how to deal with it, but instead they scream for equality. However, when it comes to marriage, divorce, etc they get all sorts of benefits compared to men. Men and women are different....all this equalizing stuff just messes with people's heads.
In hoops we all have roles; scorer, rebounder, defender, etc. When everyone does their part well the team has success. It is the same with society - a hot girl is going to attract a certain amount of attention. It is implicit in society functioning as it should.It is exactly this. Most of the video looks to me like a privileged and reasonably attractive girl is using a bunch of vagrants and underprivileged men to vaunt her own superiority over them. Kind of perverse, if you ask me. These guys for the most part are simply poor and not very well educated, so the whole thing is pretty humiliating, for all parties imo.
SCdac
10-30-2014, 10:20 AM
Man, the comments on this video and reactions to it all over the internet are almost as perplexing as the poor behavior from some men in the video. There's a culture of rape and objectification that many folks aren't even aware of or take seriously... None the less, for me, the catch-22 is that women LOVE men who are confident, in fact they seek it out when looking for a mate. How is one supposed to be confident (i.e., perhaps jumping out of a comfort zone and approaching a woman unprompted) when we're not allowed to be. As an experiment, I felt the measures and results of video could have been better.
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 11:11 AM
only watched it once but it seems like every dude was a black dude. just saying.
this
why was this the only post in this thread to point this out?
it's a black culture thing...every dude was black, white men aren't following her around saying "what's up girl!!!???"
And the sad thing is this girl isn't even very attractive, she is just a normal looking female, I thought I was about to watch some stripper looking chick dressed all slutted out but that isn't what this is at all.
And the sad thing is this girl isn't even very attractive, she is just a normal looking female, I thought I was about to watch some stripper looking chick dressed all slutted out but that isn't what this is at all.
Average? Those hips and that ass on a white woman is definitely not average. She has big tits too.
It's not really my taste, but the figure she has is definitely not average.
Andrew Wiggins
10-30-2014, 11:20 AM
pretty easy to tell who the virgins and creeps are by the reactions on this thread. people acting as if those guys are being friendly :facepalm :lol
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 11:51 AM
Average? Those hips and that ass on a white woman is definitely not average. She has big tits too.
It's not really my taste, but the figure she has is definitely not average.
I'll say she is slightly above average...her body is just a typical female body imo...she isn't fat, she isn't skinny, she just has a normal female figure.
I would rate her like a 6/10...maybe 7, but that seems kinda high
Anyway, my point is that she wasn't some slutted out stripper who is obviously flaunting her shit, and that is what I thought I was about to witness when reading the thread title. She was dressed casual, just a normal female, and has 100 black dudes yapping at her like they've never seen a female before and would do anything to put their dick in her...it's sad IMO.
Budadiiii
10-30-2014, 11:58 AM
The way she ignored these lower class dudes was hilarious. They're not used to someone completely ignoring their silly antics
Most would at least smile and say thank you, so that gives them confidence to do it again.
Harassment needs to stop. I side with the women on this one.
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 12:35 PM
Girls hit on me at work. They stare at me on the subway,bus,mall wherever... I'm not making videos about and trying to "raise funds" to stop it either:lol
this whole concept of venue is foolish, the only problem I have with what these guys did was the fact that they didn't read her body language before approaching. It's obviously that she wasn't trying to hear anything short of gunshots and a siren. Her body was laser focused on walking straight ahead without stopping for interruptions.
My question to you all, since we are mostly men... what is a man supposed to do? Let me know because outside of approaching when it seems that she's not interested(assumptions can be wrong, sometimes girls are just miserable) what did the majority of the guys in this vid do wrong?
Man let me tell you, I've literally chased women before(last time was like three days ago), call me thirsty, buy me a gatorade, etc... but I go after what i want and i wanted her. We locked eyes while she was going up an escalator and I told her to wait.
just let me know where im wrong because i think that being assertive and somewhat aggressive sexually isn't necessarily a bad thing
GO TO A CLUB, a bar, etc...that is where women go to be hit on
Do some online dating, another place where it is expected of you to hit on a woman.
has yelling at random females on the street ever worked for any man?...just doing that alone reaks of desperation, it is a horrible look. It is the exact opposite of what a man who actually gets women would do.
Jailblazers7
10-30-2014, 12:39 PM
GO TO A CLUB, a bar, etc...that is where women go to be hit on
Do some online dating, another place where it is expected of you to hit on a woman.
has yelling at random females on the street ever worked for any man?...just doing that alone reaks of desperation, it is a horrible look. It is the exact opposite of what a man who actually gets women would do.
lol yeah, it's that hard to find an appropriate place to hit one women. Go to a coffee shop, a bar, a bookstore, a mall, etc.
97 bulls
10-30-2014, 12:49 PM
What? Feminists are always arguing for law changes that favour specifically them and their wants. Feminists in the UK recently went on a crusade to ban lads mags as these conflict with the 'rights' of female employees not to see half a breast. This video ends saying 'end street harassment' and asking for the donation of money - how is this going to be accomplished without an arbitrary distortion of the law? It can't be. So why bring it up if this isn't an effort to change the law? Of course this video carries the implicit assumption that we should view these men as criminals.
It is exactly this. Most of the video looks to me like a privileged and reasonably attractive girl is using a bunch of vagrants and underprivileged men to vaunt her own superiority over them. Kind of perverse, if you ask me. These guys for the most part are simply poor and not very well educated, so the whole thing is pretty humiliating, for all parties imo.
Rich and educated men will do the exact same thing. Thats just how men are.
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 12:57 PM
Rich and educated men will do the exact same thing. Thats just how men are.
naw...if she walks down Rodeo Drive she wouldn't get any attention
you think rich white men would hound her with "SUPP GIRL LEMME THEM DIGITS!!!"
???
97 bulls
10-30-2014, 01:11 PM
naw...if she walks down Rodeo Drive she wouldn't get any attention
you think rich white men would hound her with "SUPP GIRL LEMME THEM DIGITS!!!"
???
They wouldn't say that. But they would definitely flirt with her.
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 01:17 PM
They wouldn't say that. But they would definitely flirt with her.
no dude...not 100 times
look at this not a single man gives a fck (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AIIrhUyz-Iw)
dude77
10-30-2014, 01:19 PM
GO TO A CLUB, a bar, etc...that is where women go to be hit on
Do some online dating, another place where it is expected of you to hit on a woman.
has yelling at random females on the street ever worked for any man?...just doing that alone reaks of desperation, it is a horrible look. It is the exact opposite of what a man who actually gets women would do.
lol .. so now we have 'designated meeting places' .. all others are off limits .. can't look at women or talk to them if they're not in said designated meeting places ..
people meet people anywhere .. always have, always will .. ..
some of these guys don't have the best approach but you can meet anyone on a street ..
look, lets be honest here .. the only reason why some of you are taking a stance against these guys is because of who they are simply put .. she sees them as dregs so others see them as dregs so whatever effort they put into talking to her is immediately dismissed and mocked ..
if they made a video with this same girl walking down the street and they showed some of these guys having 'success' with her, or showed 'higher class' guys having success with her, then the same idiots on here would be praising the guy and talking about how 'they did it because they have confidence' .. people are fkn dumb and easily swayed ..
look at justin bieber 'harrassing' this chick on the street .. as you can see she's completely turned off and calls the cops on him .. what was he thinking ? he should've gone to a bar
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8D20QYZ5-qE
tpols
10-30-2014, 01:19 PM
god bless you mami... damnn
Hey! Look it there... just saw a thousand dollars
:lol
Raymone
10-30-2014, 01:23 PM
Rich and educated men will do the exact same thing.
Why are you always entirely wrong about so many different things?
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 01:32 PM
look at justin bieber 'harrassing' this chick on the street .. as you can see she's completely turned off and calls the cops on him .. what was he thinking ? he should've gone to a bar
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8D20QYZ5-qE
ooohhhh....so it DOES work
you just have to be the most famous celeb on the fcking planet first :oldlol:
dude77
10-30-2014, 01:35 PM
ooohhhh....so it DOES work
you just have to be the most famous celeb on the fcking planet first :oldlol:
don't act fkn dumb .. the point is .. it's about who you are .. you're knocking those guys because you think they're dregs ..
she purposely picked a place where she knew she would purposely ignore whoever tried to talk to her to convey her flawed message ..
make a video with this same attention whore and show guys having success with her and you'd make a post about 'they're confident man blah blah' .. you're just going by the video
Raymone
10-30-2014, 01:38 PM
look at justin bieber 'harrassing' this chick on the street .. as you can see she's completely turned off and calls the cops on him .. what was he thinking ? he should've gone to a bar
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8D20QYZ5-qE
Looks like he's trying to initiate a conversation with her. That's a little different than shouting shit at her like "Damn! Nice ass. Hey mami, lookin gud." although it still comes off a bit desperate.
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 01:38 PM
don't act fkn dumb .. the point is .. it's about who you are .. you're knocking those guys because you think they're dregs ..
make a video with this same attention whore and show guys having success with her and you'd make a post about 'they're confident man that's why blah blah' .. you're just going by the video
100 men having "success" with her? Is that even possible?
She is showing the vast number of men doing this...over 100 apparently
These guys aren't getting pssy doing this dude...like shown earlier:
http://i.imgur.com/IgJB9IE.jpg
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 01:45 PM
women - we don't like to be hit on by strange men on the street while we're going about our business
you - fvk that I'll hit on women wherever whenever.
Girls are directly telling you they don't like something and yr dumbass is soooo dum that you don't listen. We'll not you, yr just trolling, but the guys in this thread who are serious
:applause:
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 01:46 PM
http://prod-filesbucket-7hmmorphht20.s3-ap-southeast-2.amazonaws.com/what-its-like-to-walk-down-the-street-as-a-woman-still.jpg
^^^ that shit is creepy as fck btw
5 minutes is A LONG ASS TIME for that...seriously
dude77
10-30-2014, 01:48 PM
100 men having "success" with her? Is that even possible?
She is showing the vast number of men doing this...over 100 apparently
These guys aren't getting pssy doing this dude...like shown earlier:
'vast number' .. no she's showing you what she wants you to see .. it's just selective bullshit .. she purposely made a video where she was purposely going to walk around people she would never have any interest in and purposely was going to ignore them if they tried to talk to her ..
Looks like he's trying to initiate a conversation with her. That's a little different than shouting shit at her like "Damn! Nice ass. Hey mami, lookin gud." although it still comes off a bit desperate.
well it starts when they're already conversing .. we don't know how he got her attention .. but yeah obviously some of those lines aren't the best lines .. who the guy is behind the words matters obviously .. but things like 'hey beautiful' .. 'god bless' yada yada .. .. she would've fallen for that easily and thought it was 'cute' etc.. doesn't matter .. point is that video is bs and its message is flawed and disingenuous
StephHamann
10-30-2014, 01:49 PM
http://prod-filesbucket-7hmmorphht20.s3-ap-southeast-2.amazonaws.com/what-its-like-to-walk-down-the-street-as-a-woman-still.jpg
^^^ that shit is creepy as fck btw
5 minutes is A LONG ASS TIME for that...seriously
racist
dude77
10-30-2014, 01:50 PM
http://prod-filesbucket-7hmmorphht20.s3-ap-southeast-2.amazonaws.com/what-its-like-to-walk-down-the-street-as-a-woman-still.jpg
^^^ that shit is creepy as fck btw
5 minutes is A LONG ASS TIME for that...seriously
has rapist written all over him
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 01:50 PM
racist
not racist, it would be creepy as fck with a white man too...hell that might even be a little creepier lol, so maybe a tad racist lol
Raymone
10-30-2014, 01:51 PM
That guy looks like a present and/or future rapist. Legitimately. She should turn that section of unedited footage to the cops to be safe.
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 01:54 PM
'vast number' .. no she's showing you what she wants you to see .. it's just selective bullshit .. she purposely made a video where she was purposely going to walk around people she would never have any interest in and purposely was going to ignore them if they tried to talk to her ..
yes, obviously
she made a video trying to show the world what it is like for an average female to walk around Manhattan
oarabbus
10-30-2014, 01:58 PM
not racist, it would be creepy as fck with a white man too...hell that might even be a little creepier lol, so maybe a tad racist lol
This... if someone walks next to you for 30 seconds, that's a long ass time. This guy did that for FIVE MINUTES. That's ****ing creepy.
Raymone
10-30-2014, 02:03 PM
It was creepy when Patrick Bateman walked next to that chick for one single block after smiling and saying hello.
TheMan
10-30-2014, 02:06 PM
Holy shit you're an idiot
Jameer is pretty much ISH's biggest resident idiot, that's quite an accomplishment :oldlol:
Just2McFly
10-30-2014, 02:08 PM
GO TO A CLUB, a bar, etc...that is where women go to be hit on
Do some online dating, another place where it is expected of you to hit on a woman.
has yelling at random females on the street ever worked for any man?...just doing that alone reaks of desperation, it is a horrible look. It is the exact opposite of what a man who actually gets women would do.
Go to a club to pick up women, yes a loud,dark, testosterone infested enviroment would definitely be the logical place to pick up women.
you guys need to go out side and experience different cultures and get out of here with that weak ass shit. go and ask women from asia, south america, the carribean, africa,etc.. how men act over there. Western men are getting soft as hell.
prime you are easily the hardest headed man I have ever had the misfortune speaking to, how in the world were most of the men "yelling" at her? they tried a greeting to get attention and failed. shit... some of them were simply complementing her looks but at least they had the balls to say something and express their desire, something that you and macho and jailblazers somehow fail to understand.
NYC's metro population is over 20 million. there are millions of tourists in the city at any time, when you see a girl you like, you cant simply expect her to be in the local watering hole after ten. when they see a girl, it's simply on sight for them. they are never seeing her again.
Do I condone yelling? Or sounding like you are cumming yourself when you are speaking with her? hell no, but I never get offended at the effort and these men putting ego and comfort aside to take a shot meanwhile men like you who have admitted to doing vile shit to females in your past try to judge them... gtfo here
now onto doing "the expected" to get the girl. how does that work prime? that shit sounds boring as ****. these girls are used to get hit on in the club, on tinder, okcupid but if I made eye contact with a girl on the train and simply asked her how her night was going (something I did last night) I am completely throwing her off and getting past all of what she's rehearsed. having a real conversation.
like doing what every other guy does, going to the bar,club in hopes of women is what really reeks of desperation. the fact that you get dressed up, spend money on the cover and the drinks all in hopes of finding a curvy broad with curly hair makes you look like a f*cking chump but i should know better than to discuss that with people on ish....
you stick to what you know and i'll stick to what i know
Just2McFly
10-30-2014, 02:10 PM
god bless you mami... damnn
Hey! Look it there... just saw a thousand dollars
:lol
that had me weak:roll: :roll: :roll:
dude77
10-30-2014, 02:12 PM
Go to a club to pick up women, yes a loud,dark, testosterone infested enviroment would definitely be the logical place to pick up women.
you guys need to go out side and experience different cultures and get out of here with that weak ass shit. go and ask women from asia, south america, the carribean, africa,etc.. how men act over there. Western men are getting soft as hell.
prime you are easily the hardest headed man I have ever had the misfortune speaking to, how in the world were most of the men "yelling" at her? they tried a greeting to get attention and failed. shit... some of them were simply complementing her looks but at least they had the balls to say something and express their desire, something that you and macho and jailblazers somehow fail to understand.
NYC's metro population is over 20 million. there are millions of tourists in the city at any time, when you see a girl you like, you cant simply expect her to be in the local watering hole after ten. when they see a girl, it's simply on sight for them. they are never seeing her again.
Do I condone yelling? Or sounding like you are cumming yourself when you are speaking with her? hell no, but I never get offended at the effort and these men putting ego and comfort aside to take a shot meanwhile men like you who have admitted to doing vile shit to females in your past try to judge them... gtfo here
now onto doing "the expected" to get the girl. how does that work prime? that shit sounds boring as ****. these girls are used to get hit on in the club, on tinder, okcupid but if I made eye contact with a girl on the train and simply asked her how her night was going (something I did last night) I am completely throwing her off and getting past all of what she's rehearsed. having a real conversation.
like doing what every other guy does, going to the bar,club in hopes of women is what really reeks of desperation. the fact that you get dressed up, spend money on the cover and the drinks all in hopes of finding a curvy broad with curly hair makes you look like a f*cking chump but i should know better than to discuss that with people on ish....
you stick to what you know and i'll stick to what i know
:applause:
Dresta
10-30-2014, 02:33 PM
don't act fkn dumb .. the point is .. it's about who you are .. you're knocking those guys because you think they're dregs ..
she purposely picked a place where she knew she would purposely ignore whoever tried to talk to her to convey her flawed message ..
make a video with this same attention whore and show guys having success with her and you'd make a post about 'they're confident man blah blah' .. you're just going by the videoSome guy on facebook shared this:
https://storify.com/Aut_Omnia/why-you-shouldnt-share-the-nyc
Apparently the video was made by a 'rich white guy with an agenda' anyway (i.e. making impoverished and desperate black guys look bad to help the cause of neighbourhood gentrification).
I did get the impression from the video that it was more about sneering at people who already probably have pretty shit and depressing lives than actually demonstrating anything of value. This is generally how human beings feel good about themselves (by thinking worse of others).
97 bulls
10-30-2014, 02:47 PM
http://thedailyshow.cc.com/videos/5ndnit/jessica-s-feminized-atmosphereQUOTE=~primetime~]
Check out this video
no dude...not 100 times
Over the course of ten hours? In New York? How many men do you think she came across.
I've read some comments claiming she probably encountered 10,000 men.
look at this not a single man gives a fck (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AIIrhUyz-Iw)[/QUOTE]
If that woman walked down any street she is not gonna receive much attention if any. She looks like shes about 40.
oarabbus
10-30-2014, 02:47 PM
Bragplaining, now in video form!
The moral of this story: Unless you're a super hot and wealthy super alpha don't speak to attractive women.
YEah but you actually hit the nail on the head here. The "be white" part is implied as well.
Just2McFly
10-30-2014, 02:50 PM
Glove have you ever hooked up with a girl you met randomly on the street in the middle of the day
Did she turn out to be awful and crazy?
I actually dated a girl that I met downtown for a while. We are still friends to this day. Macho man and co... meeting someone organically, as in me seeing an attractive female outside and having the balls to go up and talk to her is a way better method than going to a bar or signing up for some dating app.
I can't believe I'm explaining this to grown men. How are you guys going to procreate with no balls?
KyleKong
10-30-2014, 02:51 PM
10 hours of a Man walking in NYC (http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/8aeb78deb2/10-hours-of-walking-in-nyc-as-a-man)
Huehuehue
SCdac
10-30-2014, 02:52 PM
Eh, being physically attractive while walking down the street is not good enough of a reason for a guy to feel entitled to a conversation or even a response. They wouldn't be hollering at an ugly, unfit chick, so clearly it's not about hollering at any chick that walks by. Harassment comes in many forms, some more benign than others. What's weak about this video, however, is wide varying degrees of catcalling muddle the overall point, and race has clearly overshadowed the overall point too. The video is being perceived in such wildly different ways by the general internet using public and in that respect I think it failed and may have even backfired. I look at all the catcalling more collectively than anything, not necessarily one by one, which I think was the point of the video. Basically, women are not first come-first serve sex objects.
97 bulls
10-30-2014, 02:58 PM
It's downtown Brooklyn, almost everyone who stands out gets "harrassed" constantly. Put on a suit and walk down a few blocks and you can splice a video of a bunch of people saying "Hi", asking you for money or trying to sell you something. That's how big cities work.
Women can't even explain why this is creepy, it just is right? It's because it's "creepy" to have guys you find unattractive hit on you. But if they say that it exposes the vanity and self-adulation that goes into this kind of shit. Most of these raging feminists reblogging this video are most likely not as attractive as this woman at all, so they turn to the next available target: male sexuality.
Like what are n!ggas supposed to do? Girls won't approach guys...that's out of the question. Their egos are too fragile. So what is a dude supposed to do? Just...not say anything and ignore her? Well then he's not interested apparently. It all leads back to my original point, it's only "creepy" if the guy doing it is unattractive. Let Brad Pitt walk down the street and say the exact same things to this broad and her pants will be soaking
Great post
oarabbus
10-30-2014, 03:02 PM
It's 2014, dating apps are normal
Also I wouldn't call walking up to a stranger organic. Organic would be meeting through a friend or going meeting at an activity
Why the fvk would I want kids? Do you know how shitty having a kid is?
Clearly you don't know because you don't have one
Just2McFly
10-30-2014, 03:03 PM
It's 2014, dating apps are normal
Also I wouldn't call walking up to a stranger organic. Organic would be meeting through a friend or going meeting at an activity
Why the fvk would I want kids? Do you know how shitty having a kid is?
Are you seriously calling someone hooking you up organic? N*gga that is the very definition of rehearsed
97 bulls
10-30-2014, 03:04 PM
And how many are actual cat calls? Most of those were.just greetings and compliments.
Ill never understand this about women. If you don't want to attract attention, stop doing things to look attractive.
Putting on makeup, getting your hair done, nails, wearing certain types of clothing..... these things attract attention. Who is this done for? Other woman? Hopefully not yourself, cuz thats equally pathetic as whats being portrayed in the video.
I mean, if a person screams in a busy store people are gonna look.
Jailblazers7
10-30-2014, 03:07 PM
And how many are actual cat calls? Most of those were.just greetings and compliments.
Ill never understand this about women. If you don't want to attract attention, stop doing things to look attractive.
Putting on makeup, getting your hair done, nails, wearing certain types of clothing..... these things attract attention. Who is this done for? Other woman? Hopefully not yourself, cuz thats equally pathetic as whats being portrayed in the video.
I mean, if a person screams in a busy store people are gonna look.
:oldlol:
So they should just ignore all social conventions and look like complete shit in order to avoid the unwanted attention of men?
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 03:07 PM
It's downtown Brooklyn, almost everyone who stands out gets "harrassed" constantly. Put on a suit and walk down a few blocks and you can splice a video of a bunch of people saying "Hi", asking you for money or trying to sell you something. That's how big cities work.
Women can't even explain why this is creepy, it just is right? It's because it's "creepy" to have guys you find unattractive hit on you. But if they say that it exposes the vanity and self-adulation that goes into this kind of shit. Most of these raging feminists reblogging this video are most likely not as attractive as this woman at all, so they turn to the next available target: male sexuality.
The creepiness of a male walking side by side with you for over 5 minutes needs to be explained?
Like what are n!ggas supposed to do? Girls won't approach guys...that's out of the question. Their egos are too fragile. So what is a dude supposed to do? Just...not say anything and ignore her? Well then he's not interested apparently. It all leads back to my original point, it's only "creepy" if the guy doing it is unattractive. Let Brad Pitt walk down the street and say the exact same things to this broad and her pants will be soaking
approach them in a club, or any atmosphere where they actually WANT to be hit on...it isn't hard
Online dating is a great tool these days...full of women who are actually looking for men and not just trying to walk to work or go about their daily business.
bringing up Brad Pitt, Justin Beiber, etc is POINTLESS obviously
Pointguard
10-30-2014, 03:08 PM
naw...if she walks down Ro:wtf: deo Drive she wouldn't get any attention
you think rich white men would hound her with "SUPP GIRL LEMME THEM DIGITS!!!"
???
Language is language. You just have a stylistic preference and you think its more sophisticated than that. It isn't. If I have a woman in front of me, the rule of thumb is that I can get her, and it won't be thru sign language. I prefer there be something in common so we can relate but if not it didn't stop me. You're only as good as the moment presents itself.
A women highlighting her shape with her clothing, while having huge curves is usually sending a signal to more aggressive types. Most times she's in the attention game she is likely suggesting a stronger sexual energy. In big cities like NY even sophisticated women are fully aware of projecting sexual energy. Most men in this thread seem unaware of this universe. A woman in a bar can use her sexuality to get a drink... its more blatant than a cat call. Her language is sly, but its about her sexuality and your pockets. The more sophisticated your rap it will cost you more money, and she gave you all the express signals in the beginning.
Signals are sent out to be received for the most part. You should always keep character and be respectful. But sometimes the game is wilder than you thought it was.
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 03:11 PM
It's 2014, dating apps are normal
Also I wouldn't call walking up to a stranger organic. Organic would be meeting through a friend or going meeting at an activity
Why the fvk would I want kids? Do you know how shitty having a kid is?
that's way to 'boring' because everyone does it that way due to it making sense
grow some balls and find your wife by yelling "SUP HO!?" on the street...
SCdac
10-30-2014, 03:18 PM
So much blaming the victim mentality in this thread :oldlol: .. Eh lost cause here on the OTC lounge ... If a black person doesn't want to get attacked by racists, how about painting your skin white!! duhhh. You know you're attracting attention!!
wear this if you don't want to be hollered at!! geez
http://jurjis.files.wordpress.com/2013/11/completehijabjpg.jpg
97 bulls
10-30-2014, 03:22 PM
:oldlol:
So they should just ignore all social conventions and look like complete shit in order to avoid the unwanted attention of men?
How do you figure? Does a woman need to wear makeup? No. Does she need to dress provocative? No. The only reason those things are done is to look beautiful. Again, I ask for who?
Theres nothing wrong with being clean and nicely groomed. You totally took my statement out of context.
Just2McFly
10-30-2014, 03:24 PM
that's way to 'boring' because everyone does it that way due to it making sense
grow some balls and find your wife by yelling "SUP HO!?" on the street...
I've been on this site since like 2008. Rad has been on here since 2010. You know for a fact that we aren't the type of guys to say sup ho to any female. You know that we are more articulate that you will ever be.
You keep clinging to an extremely small sample size, stereotyping non white males with no justification for such remarks and its time that it stops. You are the prototypical passively racist white male and you have a kid, if you don't want to pass that trifling behavior on to your offspring, change that shit.
I could systematically destroy your argument, but I'm 24...you're almost 40... you should know better by now. I know that you arent going to change and most likely you are going to raise a child that clings to shitty stereotypes and think badly of other ethnicities, he just wont have the balls to outwardly say so. Just like how you think badly of man who have the balls to courteously go out of their way to meet beautiful women, the ones that aren't clubbing or at bars. You know, women that have better chances of being sane, classy and a solid person.
97 bulls
10-30-2014, 03:25 PM
So much blaming the victim mentality in this thread :oldlol: .. Eh lost cause here on the OTC lounge ... If a black person doesn't want to get attacked by racists, how about painting your skin white!! duhhh. You know you're attracting attention!!
wear this if you don't want to be hollered at!! geez
http://jurjis.files.wordpress.com/2013/11/completehijabjpg.jpg
Why take it to the extreme? My only point is if you dont want people acknowledging your beauty then why try to enhance it?
Why else would a guy turbocharge his car except to go faster?
Just2McFly
10-30-2014, 03:33 PM
Glove
You talk about how hitting on a girl at a bar/club is no good cause all guys do that...
But the video shows that's tons of guys do it to a girl just walking down the street... you aren't standing out or anything you're just another dude bugging her on her way to work
You stand the chance to get rejected anywhere, that we can all agree on, correct? This video proves my point more than you could ever imagine.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_urban_areas_by_population
NYC is the eight most populous city on the planet.... most populous in North America...
This girl walked through one of the most densely populated places on earth and could only conjure up a few minutes of material? All that after 10 hours of walking?
If she got dressed up and went to a club we would have had hours of guys sending drinks her way, aggressively hitting on her, winking across the room, grabbing her, etc...
The fact that she could on find a few notably examples shows that these men are doing something most men don't do.
sweggeh
10-30-2014, 03:34 PM
Macho Man you are sounding like a beta bitch white knight right now. This video is set up. She deliberately went to areas where she knew these kind of shady guys hang out and then got 2 minutes of footage from 10 hours of them saying random stuff to her. This is dumb as hell.
Also, lets not pretend if these guys were amazing looking that she wouldn't be blushing and loving the attention. Is this how it works now? You can only talk to a girl if you are good looking huh?
Feminists are just bitches that need a good dicking down. Most of them aint got no man so they resort to anger. Its like the fatties that shame skinny models.
97 bulls
10-30-2014, 03:34 PM
I feel as if I should feel guilty for being a man. I remember having a discussion with a woman about chivalry. She swore up and down that men only do it to look at her butt. Then got bent out of shape when I didn't hold the door open for her.
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 03:36 PM
I've been on this site since like 2008. Rad has been on here since 2010. You know for a fact that we aren't the type of guys to say sup ho to any female. You know that we are more articulate that you will ever be.
You keep clinging to an extremely small sample size, stereotyping non white males with no justification for such remarks and its time that it stops. You are the prototypical passively racist white male and you have a kid, if you don't want to pass that trifling behavior on to your offspring, change that shit.
I could systematically destroy your argument, but I'm 24...you're almost 40... you should know better by now. I know that you arent going to change and most likely you are going to raise a child that clings to shitty stereotypes and think badly of other ethnicities, he just wont have the balls to outwardly say so. Just like how you think badly of man who have the balls to courteously go out of their way to meet beautiful women, the ones that aren't clubbing or at bars. You know, women that have better chances of being sane, classy and a solid person.
yes you are the child and I am the adult...which is why you are defending these clowns method and I am not
the sad part is that you aren't trolling
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 03:39 PM
These men should not be your example of how to pick up women
be careful...he is a very articulate poster who could systematically destroy your argument
Just2McFly
10-30-2014, 03:46 PM
yes you are the child and I am the adult...which is why you are defending these clowns method and I am not
the sad part is that you aren't trolling
If I were the child I would be stereotyping my fellow posters and make disparaging remarks instead of debating what was said. Age isn't maturity and that's something you will learn through experience and challenging yourself, not by making stupid posts on websites.
The "clowns" method involves seeing a woman they find attractive and calmly talking to her as if she is a person. Let me see how in the world that is something to be disparaged. Before you even bring up intent, it doesn't matter how well you try to disguise it any woman who has even as much as sniffed dick in her lifetime will know what you are trying to do as you are doing no matter how hard you try to not be creepy.
As for social norms, that changes all the time, be yourself and stop living your life for other people. That shit makes you sound soft. JailBlazers, if you are interested in a girl you need to find a way to make an effort to talk to her, IDGAF what other people think, they aren't giving out their ******. Go after what you want. Of course there are limits to my methodology, I obviously dont follow women or actually harass them. I just approach them politely and make conversation. Just a bit smoother than the men in the video.
As for prime , you can make as much money as you want and enjoy white privilege til your dying days but anyone that knows will eventually figure out that you are one of most insufferable idiots on the face of the planet.
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 04:19 PM
McFly, being a relentless hound dog has its place, and that place isn't out on the street. You should reserve it for 'nightlife'...That's the social norm for a reason...there's nothing 'soft' or 'beta' about it.
If this girl made the same video inside a night club no one would care, it wouldn't be viral, because it would only be expected.
You can do things your way IDGAF, but you should know that your method is a very annoying method to most women, like the woman in the video is trying to show you. You see something you like and feel that you need to go after it? Guess what that woman probably gets hit on every day, just like my wife does who can't stand it when random men approach her.
Jailblazers7
10-30-2014, 04:21 PM
If I were the child I would be stereotyping my fellow posters and make disparaging remarks instead of debating what was said. Age isn't maturity and that's something you will learn through experience and challenging yourself, not by making stupid posts on websites.
The "clowns" method involves seeing a woman they find attractive and calmly talking to her as if she is a person. Let me see how in the world that is something to be disparaged. Before you even bring up intent, it doesn't matter how well you try to disguise it any woman who has even as much as sniffed dick in her lifetime will know what you are trying to do as you are doing no matter how hard you try to not be creepy.
As for social norms, that changes all the time, be yourself and stop living your life for other people. That shit makes you sound soft. JailBlazers, if you are interested in a girl you need to find a way to make an effort to talk to her, IDGAF what other people think, they aren't giving out their ******. Go after what you want. Of course there are limits to my methodology, I obviously dont follow women or actually harass them. I just approach them politely and make conversation. Just a bit smoother than the men in the video.
As for prime , you can make as much money as you want and enjoy white privilege til your dying days but anyone that knows will eventually figure out that you are one of most insufferable idiots on the face of the planet.
Why do you think I'm somehow repressing myself and folding to the whims of society? I'm not silently stewing while I'm walking down the street because the people around me will judge me if try to talk to the girl walking past me. I just think it's incredibly inconsiderate to randomly call out to a girl walking down the street simply because I think there's a chance they could like me. People have shit to do and things going on and it's not my place to hassle them when they're trying to walk from point A to point B. Honestly, it's not that hard to pick up girls at a "cliche" spot like a bar, coffee shop, or whatever so why bother? Sure maybe random girl walking in front of me is beautiful and I'd love to **** her or take her out but I don't have the "I might never see her again I have to say hello" mentality going through me head. And I have started conversations on the bus, on the train, even at a crosswalk before but there is always some nonverbal cue before I say hello like eye contact or a smile.
I don't see why it's so gosh darn ridiculous that women would rather not be harassed (or whatever word you want to use) while walking down the street. And you guys are crazy if you think this happens to only 7s and up. I've seen shit like this happen to completely average looking girls.
The Real JW
10-30-2014, 04:29 PM
There are really people in this thread who don't find anything wrong with following a lone female you've never seen before for five straight minutes?
The Real JW
10-30-2014, 04:34 PM
Also, I think the claims of racism are a little off-base. I think it comes down to less educated people being more blatantly and openly sexist. And there are apparently plenty of those people on 125th street in Harlem; black and white.
sweggeh
10-30-2014, 04:39 PM
McFly, being a relentless hound dog has its place, and that place isn't out on the street. You should reserve it for 'nightlife'...That's the social norm for a reason...there's nothing 'soft' or 'beta' about it.
If this girl made the same video inside a night club no one would care, it wouldn't be viral, because it would only be expected.
You can do things your way IDGAF, but you should know that your method is a very annoying method to most women, like the woman in the video is trying to show you. You see something you like and feel that you need to go after it? Guess what that woman probably gets hit on every day, just like my wife does who can't stand it when random men approach her.
Thats bs. If I see a beautiful girl waiting at the bus stop, or sitting on a park bench or something, I am not allowed to say anything because trying to get girls numbers is something only reserved for nightlife? Hell no.
YOLO. Im not gonna die with any regrets. That girl could end up being your wife, who knows.
sweggeh
10-30-2014, 04:42 PM
Also, I think the claims of racism are a little off-base. I think it comes down to less educated people being more blatantly and openly sexist. And there are apparently plenty of those people on 125th street in Harlem; black and white.
If she went to certain places in the South, she would get alot of white guys saying this shit to her. Its obvious how most of these videos focus on the bad sides of blacks only.
Raymone
10-30-2014, 04:44 PM
Thats bs. If I see a beautiful girl waiting at the bus stop, or sitting on a park bench or something, I am not allowed to say anything because trying to get girls numbers is something only reserved for nightlife? Hell no.
Try to spark up a conversation if she seems receptive, sure. Try to avoid saying things like, "Dayyumm. Wassup baybeh. Lookin good!"
Jameerthefear
10-30-2014, 04:49 PM
The amount of blue pill bullshit on this site is absolutely disgusting. I legitimately would fight almost everyone in this thread because of their p*ssy antics.
oarabbus
10-30-2014, 04:51 PM
I don't have cancer either and I know it sucks dick
Touche.
Also, I think the claims of racism are a little off-base. I think it comes down to less educated people being more blatantly and openly sexist. And there are apparently plenty of those people on 125th street in Harlem; black and white.
You're joking right? The video creator is on record saying they edited out the white people, for some BS reason. Why aren't there any white people in the video?
Jameerthefear
10-30-2014, 04:54 PM
Touche.
You're joking right? The video creator is on record saying they edited out the white people, for some BS reason. Why aren't there any white people in the video?
so the creator is a racist, rich shill with his stupid pet bitch that he can flaunt around? no surprise that blue pillers took the female side immediately. none at all.
Raymone
10-30-2014, 04:56 PM
There are really people in this thread who don't find anything wrong with following a lone female you've never seen before for five straight minutes?
That's an easy way to spot the weirdo creeps on ISH, if it wasn't already obvious.
Budadiiii
10-30-2014, 04:59 PM
I've never had to initiate a conversation with a female because I'm pretty... they always initiate it with me...
Must suck for you average looking/ugly ****s who have to win girls over with your personality. :oldlol:
God, that would be ****ing terrible.
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 05:01 PM
You should strive to not be a creep though
that's the problem is that they don't care if they are annoying or creepy...or they just can't see what it really looks like, which is the opposite of attractive.
The men in this vid come of like needy bums asking for money...
"excuse me miss...excuse me...could you PLEASE spare some pssy? I haven't had any in so long...PLEASE???...MISS???...MISS??? I really like your ass, please give me some...PLEEEEASE???"
Jameerthefear
10-30-2014, 05:02 PM
that's the problem is that they don't care if they are annoying or creepy...or they just can't see what it really looks like, which is the opposite of attractive.
The men in this vid come of like needy bums asking for money...
"excuse me miss...excuse me...could you PLEASE spare some pssy? I haven't had any in so long...PLEASE???...MISS???...MISS??? I really like your ass, please give me some...PLEEEEASE???"
:facepalm
thefatmiral
10-30-2014, 05:08 PM
if someone wants to be left alone then just leave them be. not any more complicated then that.
sweggeh
10-30-2014, 05:11 PM
that's the problem is that they don't care if they are annoying or creepy...or they just can't see what it really looks like, which is the opposite of attractive.
The men in this vid come of like needy bums asking for money...
"excuse me miss...excuse me...could you PLEASE spare some pssy? I haven't had any in so long...PLEASE???...MISS???...MISS??? I really like your ass, please give me some...PLEEEEASE???"
Oh please. So saying good morning to someone is a crime now? Really? Half the guys in that video did nothing wrong. Most of them stopped talking to her after she didnt respond. How is that pathetic or "sexual harassment"?
Raymone
10-30-2014, 05:16 PM
that's the problem is that they don't care if they are annoying or creepy...or they just can't see what it really looks like, which is the opposite of attractive.
The men in this vid come of like needy bums asking for money...
"excuse me miss...excuse me...could you PLEASE spare some pssy? I haven't had any in so long...PLEASE???...MISS???...MISS??? I really like your ass, please give me some...PLEEEEASE???"
It kinda reminds me of pigeons flocking around food.
http://i.imgur.com/VzuaaKb.jpg
The people in this video are clearly less evolved humans, so maybe we shouldn't even be faulting them for sexually harassing women. It's food, they just eat it. There's no thought process or decision to be made.
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 05:18 PM
Oh please. So saying good morning to someone is a crime now? Really? Half the guys in that video did nothing wrong. Most of them stopped talking to her after she didnt respond. How is that pathetic or "sexual harassment"?
Oh please, they weren't just politely curious about how she was doing that morning, they wanted p*ssy...just cut the bs
May not be 'wrong' per se but definitely annoying and pathetic...and if lasts for more than 1 minute 'creepy'
sweggeh
10-30-2014, 05:21 PM
Oh please, they weren't just politely curious about how she was doing that morning, they wanted p*ssy...just cut the bs
May not be 'wrong' per se but definitely annoying and pathetic...and if lasts for more than 1 minute 'creepy'
There is nothing wrong with being interested in a girl. They made the first move by saying "Good morning" or "have a nice day" or whatever, she wasn't interested and that was that. That is what happened literally more than half the video.
Why are they not allowed to say that? If they were good looking and she was interested it wouldn't be harassment then, would it? Such bullshit.
Budadiiii
10-30-2014, 05:24 PM
There is nothing wrong with being interested in a girl. They made the first move by saying "Good morning" or "have a nice day" or whatever, she wasn't interested and that was that. That is what happened literally more than half the video.
Why are they not allowed to say that? If they were good looking and she was interested it wouldn't be harassment then, would it? Such bullshit.
You sound like a frustrated nerd because you can relate to the losers in this video who choose to annoy someone clearly out of their league.
You're asshurt, brah. And you're not even intelligent. You're one of those dumb nerds with absolutely no potential in life. :facepalm
:yaohappy:
tpols
10-30-2014, 05:25 PM
that's the problem is that they don't care if they are annoying or creepy...or they just can't see what it really looks like, which is the opposite of attractive.
The men in this vid come of like needy bums asking for money...
"excuse me miss...excuse me...could you PLEASE spare some pssy? I haven't had any in so long...PLEASE???...MISS???...MISS??? I really like your ass, please give me some...PLEEEEASE???"
:oldlol:
she knew what she was doing.. walking by all these ghetto ass guys just chilling on the sides of buildings.. with an ass like that.
Females are such attention whores. They always need attention. And if they get too much they start trying to get attention by telling everyone not to give them attention.:facepalm
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 05:25 PM
But if they just straight up said, "Hey bitch I want to f*ck" you'd say there was (obviously) something wrong with that. So what are they supposed to say?
I mean there were dudes just saying "God bless you" and "You're beautiful". How in the world is that creepy? 5 years ago feminists were calling it chivalry.
that's exactly how it reads though...what are they supposed to say? NOTHING...let her go about her business, leave her alone
"god bless you" is just a polite gesture to a sneeze...it doesn't read like "oh please let me have some pssy miss"
It isn't hard to tell when a female is open to being approached...alone in an up beat and happy mood...this woman does NOT look like she wants to be approached, she looks like she wants to be left alone so she can get to where she is going.
sweggeh
10-30-2014, 05:26 PM
You sound like a frustrated nerd because you can relate to the losers in this video who choose to annoy someone clearly out of their league.
You're asshurt, brah. And you're not even intelligent. You're one of those dumb nerds with absolutely no potential in life. :facepalm
:yaohappy:
Thanks for confirming your alts, Simon.
I have probably been with more girls than you have talked too. And I havent been with that many girls at all. Keep flapping dem unkissed lips though homie, its funny.
Budadiiii
10-30-2014, 05:33 PM
Thanks for confirming your alts, Simon.
I have probably been with more girls than you have talked too. And I havent been with that many girls at all. Keep flapping dem unkissed lips though homie, its funny.
You crack me up bro.
I'm shocked you haven't been with many girls.... you're 24, ugly, broke, live with your parents, and still have no degree or job.
That's fine though. I'd love to see you face to face so I could punch you right in your c*ck sucker. but then I'd probably feel bad about knocking you out in front of your dad so I'd apologize and eat dinner with you guys, while staring at your 14 year old sisters C cup titties. You're a *** brah, and live that nerd lifestyle. Nothing I can do for you
sweggeh
10-30-2014, 05:37 PM
You crack me up bro.
I'm shocked you haven't been with many girls.... you're 24, ugly, broke, live with your parents, and still have no degree or job.
That's fine though. I'd love to see you face to face so I could punch you right in your c*ck sucker. but then I'd probably feel bad about knocking you out in front of your dad so I'd apologize and eat dinner with you guys, while staring at your 14 year old sisters C cup titties. You're a *** brah, and live that nerd lifestyle. Nothing I can do for you
Ok homie. Hopefully you can catch a bouquet at my upcoming wedding. Bitches love bouquets.
But if they just straight up said, "Hey bitch I want to f*ck" you'd say there was (obviously) something wrong with that. So what are they supposed to say?
I mean there were dudes just saying "God bless you" and "You're beautiful". How in the world is that creepy? 5 years ago feminists were calling it chivalry.
See that's the thing, it's not the words in itself matter. You could say "hey how are you today, god bless you" and it could be creepy, you can also say "bitch come here and grind that ass on my face" and it doesn't have to be creepy. It's all about context.
Why are you bothering this girl who is walking in the streets with a cause, clearly going somewhere, walking fast, closed body language, clearly busy, clearly not looking to meet anyone or engage in some small talk? Just because you think she is pretty? Because any random ass girl passing you in the street could be your "future wife"?
No one is saying it's a crime, but if you think that is a good way to present yourself you have some problems understanding the unwritten rules of social interaction. And that's essentially what the problem of people who come off as creepy generally have, they don't understand how actions come across to the other person/people involved.
sweggeh
10-30-2014, 05:58 PM
See that's the thing, it's not the words in itself matter. You could say "hey how are you today, god bless you" and it could be creepy, you can also say "bitch come here and grind that ass on my face" and it doesn't have to be creepy. It's all about context.
Why are you bothering this girl who is walking in the streets with a cause, clearly going somewhere, walking fast, closed body language, clearly busy, clearly not looking to meet anyone or engage in some small talk? Just because you think she is pretty? Because any random ass girl passing you in the street could be your "future wife"?
No one is saying it's a crime, but if you think that is a good way to present yourself you have some problems understanding the unwritten rules of social interaction. And that's essentially what the problem of people who come off as creepy generally have, they don't understand how actions come across to the other person/people involved.
All this goes out the window when you realise that if it was a guy she was really attracted to, she would in most cases stop what shes doing and enjoy the attention. Lets not pretend otherwise.
So Im just thinking, there always seem to be quite a few double standards when feminism is involved.
ArbitraryWater
10-30-2014, 06:02 PM
:oldlol:
she knew what she was doing.. walking by all these ghetto ass guys just chilling on the sides of buildings.. with an ass like that.
Females are such attention whores. They always need attention. And if they get too much they start trying to get attention by telling everyone not to give them attention.:facepalm
Yeah, she should just chop her ass off.. What an attention seeker :facepalm
ArbitraryWater
10-30-2014, 06:05 PM
Im So Rad is actually serious with his blabber...
The fact that men don't understand that this behavior is unwanted and harassment is part of the problem. This shit is sexual in intent.
KNOW1EDGE
10-30-2014, 07:44 PM
Did any of these men break any laws?
Im Still Ballin
10-30-2014, 07:49 PM
Only bitch made men get angry from this video. If I want to holla at a honey, I WILL holla at the honey. It's nature. Watch the Lions in the pride.
~primetime~
10-30-2014, 10:06 PM
So if you were walking down the street and a guy said "Hey, man what's up?" or "How's it going?" you'd be angry at him and ready to fight?
I don't understand. Humans speaking to other humans in a casual manner isn't really creepy to me. Idk. I just don't think of any girl as too good for my time.
You do understand, it's not a casual manner
Instead of picturing every male saying "how are you" picture every male you see trying to do what ever they can to fck you in the ass. Some even following you for minutes at a time.
Maybe you wouldn't be "ready to fight" but you'd certainly be annoyed.
The few of you that are defending this method really need to stop pretending that these guys are just politely saying "hello" lol
KNOW1EDGE
10-30-2014, 10:49 PM
If I walked down the street and woman told me I was attractive and tried to talk to me I would not make a video complaining about it.
And it'll ask again, did any of these men commit a crime(s)?
Just2McFly
10-30-2014, 11:41 PM
Why do you think I'm somehow repressing myself and folding to the whims of society? I'm not silently stewing while I'm walking down the street because the people around me will judge me if try to talk to the girl walking past me. I just think it's incredibly inconsiderate to randomly call out to a girl walking down the street simply because I think there's a chance they could like me. People have shit to do and things going on and it's not my place to hassle them when they're trying to walk from point A to point B. Honestly, it's not that hard to pick up girls at a "cliche" spot like a bar, coffee shop, or whatever so why bother? Sure maybe random girl walking in front of me is beautiful and I'd love to **** her or take her out but I don't have the "I might never see her again I have to say hello" mentality going through me head. And I have started conversations on the bus, on the train, even at a crosswalk before but there is always some nonverbal cue before I say hello like eye contact or a smile.
I don't see why it's so gosh darn ridiculous that women would rather not be harassed (or whatever word you want to use) while walking down the street. And you guys are crazy if you think this happens to only 7s and up. I've seen shit like this happen to completely average looking girls.
Inconsiderate because you think they might have shit to do? people always have shit to do man, every conversation is an interruption in the constantly preoccupied society. People have the right to deny approaches at any moment but I don't know what world you live in where women deserve the right to be completely absolved from outside contact because they don't feel like it. That's the most insane thing I have ever heard. When people talk to me, I respond in a genuinely nice manner and if I dont have time, I dont stop walking and inform them that I'm busy at the moment but then again there are interruptions/approaches that all people will make time for and you know it.
This whole thing is so hypocritical. I could easily flip your argument on you and call you inconsiderate for approaching a woman when she's reading and sipping her coffee at that indie hipster spot you frequent from time to time... that girl was just trying to read and enjoy her bev:rolleyes:
The reason why you picked her up was because she decided that your interruption was welcomed due to whatever reason, maybe because of your height or attire, etc...
Another one of your examples, the bar... a girl could be just trying to drink with her girls, put a no male rule in place and plan to go home as a collective unit until you interrupt their plans and swoop in trying to take that blonde home.
I figure that 99% of the people who arent homeless have something to do when they are in public, and you speaking them could be convoluted to being inconsiderate but luckily, some interruptions are welcomed and thats how the world works.
I find it hypocritical to criticize guys for doing the same shit that we all do and if you're criticizing them based on the moral high ground of being considerate when you approach, think again.
ArbitraryWater
10-31-2014, 12:09 AM
I wanna smack ImSoRad's fat ass in the mouf
ArbitraryWater
10-31-2014, 12:10 AM
If I walked down the street and woman told me I was attractive and tried to talk to me I would not make a video complaining about it.
And it'll ask again, did any of these men commit a crime(s)?
No, technically these Men didn't commit any crimes.. Now what the **** does this have to do with anything?
Raymone
10-31-2014, 12:13 AM
Some people in here are really having trouble distinguishing a genuine attempt to start a conversation from simply shouting sexual things that border harassment.
~primetime~
10-31-2014, 12:17 AM
Some people in here are really having trouble distinguishing a genuine attempt to start a conversation from simply shouting sexual things that border harassment.
Yeah, it's actually kind of funny
"What, they're just saying hello to the nice lady! They're just very polite gentlemen!"
:lol
ArbitraryWater
10-31-2014, 12:23 AM
Not only is cat-calling obnoxious and rude, but it is also ineffective.
Has ANYONE ever actually gotten a date this way?
Please... Never.
It's just thirsty Men trying to have some pathetic contact for 1-2 seconds.
--
Look at the YouTube comments "Okay, let me get something straight, when we do compliment you its considered harassment. However, if none of us compliment you, you get upset at men anyways.... WHAT THE **** DO YOU WANT FROM US?!?"
It's not that black and white :facepalm
ALBballer
10-31-2014, 12:40 AM
[QUOTE=LJJ]It's about context
On the busy city streets you don't go around saying hello to every stranger who briskly walks past you. So a thousand people walked past these guys in the past 30 minutes and they didn't even acknowledge, but then a girl with a fat ass walks past and they go
"ooooh, hello there ( ͡
dude77
10-31-2014, 12:45 AM
so many feminist sympathizing puussies
Rodmantheman
10-31-2014, 12:49 AM
This bitch thinks this is sexual harassment let her spend a week in Saudi Arabia or India:lol
ILLsmak
10-31-2014, 12:49 AM
If I walked down the street and woman told me I was attractive and tried to talk to me I would not make a video complaining about it.
And it'll ask again, did any of these men commit a crime(s)?
Some of it was bad... the following. But that's what I'm arguing. Not that it's not wrong and that those people weren't assholes... for the most part they were, but it's not the travesty they are making it out to be. Much worse shit is happening in the world.
If you can't go through life and laugh off these dudes, then you are going to be unhappy. You think they should pass laws to make it so people can't annoy you on the street? That's a so-called slippery slope.
Mind laws? "I think that dude is thinking about ****ing me!" I think I treat women well but that doesn't mean I haven't thought about sex. Now, I would say that it was after a lot more from her than just walking by... but still.
I really hate the argument that O SO SHE SHOULD CHANGE HOW SHE DRESSES THEN? lol, it's like yeah basically. It's nothing about victim blaming, but if you wear a red shirt and people beat your ass, then you stop wearing a red shirt.
People turn it into some state where women are oppressed and can't even choose how they dress, but that's not it at all. At most, you can say, 'dude is dumb he saw my clothes and thought I was DTF.'
I say the same thing about racism. If someone wants to come up to you and be racist, verbally, while you are walking by, you should be able to just shrug it off. The law can't step in and help you with everything. You have to be secure with yourself.
Now, when people start beating dudes down or raping girls then that's wack.
Edit: Talking about adults here, btw. If someone is a kid then racism or sexism can profoundly affect them. As an adult, you should have overcome that.
-Smak
KNOW1EDGE
10-31-2014, 01:36 AM
No, technically these Men didn't commit any crimes.. Now what the **** does this have to do with anything?
What does the law have to do with anything?
Is that a serious question?
If legally they were doing nothing wrong, then why are you crying?
Raymone
10-31-2014, 01:51 AM
What does the law have to do with anything?
Is that a serious question?
If legally they were doing nothing wrong, then why are you crying?
Is it against the law to call a black person the n-word?
Zimmerman wasn't breaking the law by exiting his vehicle, but you and the rest of the bandwagon certainly had your panties in a bunch over that.
KNOW1EDGE
10-31-2014, 02:00 AM
Is it against the law to call a black person the n-word?
Zimmerman wasn't breaking the law by exiting his vehicle, but you and the rest of the bandwagon certainly had your panties in a bunch over that.
No, it is not against the law to call a black person the N word.
But it is illegal to murder kids.
Anything else I can help you with lil buddy?
Raymone
10-31-2014, 02:21 AM
No, it is not against the law to call a black person the N word.
But it is illegal to murder kids.
Anything else I can help you with lil buddy?
Then you'd gave no qualms about hurling racist insults because it's not illegal. Face it, you bringing up the law in this topic was foolish and another one of your pinheaded entrances into yet another thread.
And who mentioned anything about murder or kids?
Try to keep up, or if you're unable, just continue spectating.
Budadiiii
10-31-2014, 03:37 AM
I wanna smack ImSoRad's fat ass in the mouf
Dude. :facepalm
dunksby
10-31-2014, 04:50 AM
That passive aggressive closet racist chick in the video is being a drama queen and that's that. Apart from that shady guy following her around the rest is just trivial. Why didn't she try to talk to the dude who was following her like that? Any respectable girl in her situation would stop and ask the dude to stop it but clearly not when you have an agenda and obviously trying to make a point.
And to put this stupid narrative here that anyone who doesn't see sexual harassment in this example shouts "Sup hoe?" on the streets to women. No I don't do it nor do I condone or promote it in anyway. The fact that I have to insert this disclaimer shows the depth of pussification of some of you so called men.
ArbitraryWater
10-31-2014, 11:47 AM
That passive aggressive closet racist chick in the video is being a drama queen and that's that. Apart from that shady guy following her around the rest is just trivial. Why didn't she try to talk to the dude who was following her like that? Any respectable girl in her situation would stop and ask the dude to stop it but clearly not when you have an agenda and obviously trying to make a point.
And to put this stupid narrative here that anyone who doesn't see sexual harassment in this example shouts "Sup hoe?" on the streets to women. No I don't do it nor do I condone or promote it in anyway. The fact that I have to insert this disclaimer shows the depth of pussification of some of you so called men.
What does that have to do with anything? Doesn't that already show how bad the situation is when you need to tell a guy to stop following yourself?
Don't you see how ridiculous that is? As reaction to her not answering, he follows her.. Same hostile reaction when she didn't answer back to "good morning", all of the sudden the Men get mad and scream at her... That's not a real "Good Morning", that's just a "Let me talk to this hawt chick" and if she doesn't react, she's just another bitch..
Pointguard
10-31-2014, 12:10 PM
Is it against the law to call a black person the n-word?
Zimmerman wasn't breaking the law by exiting his vehicle, but you and the rest of the bandwagon certainly had your panties in a bunch over that.
This is a great example of how much the internet breeds cowards. This poster is obviously too scared to talk to women in public, alluding to it as an intrusion of her privacy but give a guy a gun its ok to hop out of a car to kill someone. You live in fear and guilt, the two are related and are the main reason people hold on to them. You will justify everything as a reason to withdraw. And will try to get everybody to withdraw with you. You need a psychiatrist.
Raymone
10-31-2014, 12:49 PM
This is a great example of how much the internet breeds cowards. This poster is obviously too scared to talk to women in public, alluding to it as an intrusion of her privacy but give a guy a gun its ok to hop out of a car to kill someone. You live in fear and guilt, the two are related and are the main reason people hold on to them. You will justify everything as a reason to withdraw. And will try to get everybody to withdraw with you. You need a psychiatrist.
Careful with all that reaching, you'll sprain your little arms.
Nothing in that post of mine or any post prior has said you shouldn't talk to women in public. I dare you to quote one. Again, unless by "talk to" you're including shouting things like "dayuumm lookin good mami" or silently following her for five minutes, in which case you're probably also a tactless sociopath and yes I'm saying you shouldn't do that.
TryToBeUnbias
10-31-2014, 01:36 PM
New Yorks gonna blow up.
Droid101
10-31-2014, 01:51 PM
Waaaahhhh poor females waaaahhh. Feminists need to get the f*ck off this Earth.
Well, branstans have been melting down all over the forum today, and yet this is the dumbest thing I've read.
97 bulls
10-31-2014, 02:29 PM
Some of these people never cease to amaze me. In some cases, you want to follow the law and excuse intent (Trayvon Martin/Zimmerman case). Then in another, we must say "damn the law" and actually look between the lines.
I gotta ask. Throughout that whole Martin/Zimmeran ordeal, there was a constant back and between whether or not its ok to follow people. The very same jackasses that were saying its ok to follow people and that its not against the law, are now saying its creepy. Unbelievable.
Jameerthefear
10-31-2014, 02:30 PM
Some of these people never cease to amaze me. In some cases, you want to follow the law and excuse intent (Trayvon Martin/Zimmerman case). Then in another, we must say "damn the law" and actually look between the lines.
I gotta ask. Throughout that whole Martin/Zimmeran ordeal, there was a constant back and between whether or not its ok to follow people. The very same jackasses that were saying its ok to follow people and that its not against the law, are now saying its creepy. Unbelievable.
Damn. Good call.
Raymone
10-31-2014, 02:50 PM
Some of these people never cease to amaze me. In some cases, you want to follow the law and excuse intent (Trayvon Martin/Zimmerman case). Then in another, we must say "damn the law" and actually look between the lines.
I gotta ask. Throughout that whole Martin/Zimmeran ordeal, there was a constant back and between whether or not its ok to follow people. The very same jackasses that were saying its ok to follow people and that its not against the law, are now saying its creepy. Unbelievable.
If one of these guys had gone as far as physically assaulting her and was being charged and tried, then I'd agree that law is very relevant here. But nobody (that I know of) is saying these people are committing crimes here, creators of the video included. They're pointing out the onslaught of uninvited, intrusive, sexually-charged harassments that an average woman walking through the streets of NYC apparently endures in her day-to-day. Some of them obviously worse than others. (I don't think "have a good evening ma'am" is harassment, for instance)
I think you know that it's irrelevant to this discussion whether they broke any laws, even if kn01edg3 doesn't. You're just being willfully obtuse and/or trolling.
NumberSix
10-31-2014, 02:56 PM
Some of these people never cease to amaze me. In some cases, you want to follow the law and excuse intent (Trayvon Martin/Zimmerman case). Then in another, we must say "damn the law" and actually look between the lines.
I gotta ask. Throughout that whole Martin/Zimmeran ordeal, there was a constant back and between whether or not its ok to follow people. The very same jackasses that were saying its ok to follow people and that its not against the law, are now saying its creepy. Unbelievable.
What are you talking about?
In the Zimmerman case, it was the right of center people who were arguing that following a person is not illegal. Are you under the impression that it is now the right of center who is in support of this feminist mumbo-jumbo? :confusedshrug:
Dresta
10-31-2014, 02:57 PM
What does that have to do with anything? Doesn't that already show how bad the situation is when you need to tell a guy to stop following yourself?
Don't you see how ridiculous that is? As reaction to her not answering, he follows her.. Same hostile reaction when she didn't answer back to "good morning", all of the sudden the Men get mad and scream at her... That's not a real "Good Morning", that's just a "Let me talk to this hawt chick" and if she doesn't react, she's just another bitch..
The point is what does showing a man following for five minutes show, what exactly is it representative of?
The fact that there are weirdos that hang out on the streets in poor neighbourhoods? breaking news that one...
Living in a city you simply have to put up with being made uncomfortable, because cities are packed full of people that make most feel uncomfortable.
~primetime~
10-31-2014, 03:01 PM
The point is what does showing a man following for five minutes show, what exactly is it representative of?
The fact that there are weirdos that hang out on the streets in poor neighbourhoods? breaking news that one...
Living in a city you simply have to put up with being made uncomfortable, because cities are packed full of people that make most feel uncomfortable.
She is just trying to show what an average woman has put up with on a regular basis for those who are unaware.
She isn't declaring that these men should be jailed (although it's likely some of them should)
~primetime~
10-31-2014, 03:05 PM
Leave law out of it...
It's simply annoying as fck to constantly be pestered every where you go...I am annoyed by bums asking for change...by sales calls at home while I'm trying to relax...etc etc etc
She made this vid in hopes that it opens a few eyes to men that don't understand how annoying they are, but probably not.
97 bulls
10-31-2014, 03:17 PM
What are you talking about?
In the Zimmerman case, it was the right of center people who were arguing that following a person is not illegal. Are you under the impression that it is now the right of center who is in support of this feminist mumbo-jumbo? :confusedshrug:
I actually think we agree in this instance. I directed my comment at Raymone and I believe Primetime
RoundMoundOfReb
10-31-2014, 03:18 PM
Conspiracy theory: Liberal news media bringing up all these feminist issues to get us to feel as if we owe Woman something due to past injustices and therefore Americans feel compelled to elect the democratic candidate, Hilary Clinton. And if you don't vote for her you're a sexist (like being a racist with Obama).
97 bulls
10-31-2014, 03:19 PM
Leave law out of it...
It's simply annoying as fck to constantly be pestered every where you go...I am annoyed by bums asking for change...by sales calls at home while I'm trying to relax...etc etc etc
She made this vid in hopes that it opens a few eyes to men that don't understand how annoying they are, but probably not.
You can't be so sensitive bro. We all do things that someone else may consider annoying. Including you.
~primetime~
10-31-2014, 03:27 PM
You can't be so sensitive bro. We all do things that someone else may consider annoying. Including you.
Right, and maybe if we are all made aware of when we are annoying some of us will stop.
not in here obviously LOL, that will never happen...but maybe IRL
wakencdukest
10-31-2014, 03:28 PM
I'm not buying this bullshit at all. First off, this whole thing is biased, a woman walking alone in a predominantly black neighborhood is going to get hit on and get a lot of catcalls. Everyone knows it, I don't think anyone will dispute it. Do single white women usually walk alone in these areas? I don't think so. If they are going to make a video and ask people for donations to fight street harassment, why wouldn't they go to a bunch of different areas and get footage of every demographic? Because it's totally biased. Put her in the nice side of town in any city in the country and it wouldn't support their agenda of women being harassed, so they have to limit the study to bad neighborhoods. If anything, it portrays black men as assholes. Is this what the feminists are trying to prove? So, where do the donations go? Are they even going to be able to change this kind of behavior within a whole part of society? What exactly are they trying to do about it? It's either a scam or a huge waste of peoples donations. It will not change a thing.
alenleomessi
10-31-2014, 04:26 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75aX9mlipiY&feature=share
ballup
10-31-2014, 04:54 PM
There were a couple of instances where the greeting shouldn't be what the author dubs as "harassment". The "how are you this morning" and "have a nice evening" are reaches and are definitely appropriate.
I wouldn't consider this harassment asides from the guys who followed her. None of the other were aggressive pursuits, just juvenile greetings. She felt harassed by the end of the experiment, but none of the guys were in collaboration with each other. They were all their own individual experiences.
Now, the main issue is the sheer number of inappropriate calls. Here's the thing, that takes place in one of the largest cities in the US. In cities, women are more likely to run into all kinds of men, even the scumbags. Densely populated areas are easy places to collect samples of almost any kind of behavior. If they did this in a suburb for a week, they wouldn't come close to making a similar length video.
All people should be able to go about their business in peace, but that's just not possible when you walk in such a packed location. You are gong to be forced into social interactions.
Also, people need to understand this is an experiment. She wasn't supposed to talk throughout it, trying to portray the approaches as unsolicited.
NumberSix
10-31-2014, 04:54 PM
Conspiracy theory: Liberal news media bringing up all these feminist issues to get us to feel as if we owe Woman something due to past injustices and therefore Americans feel compelled to elect the democratic candidate, Hilary Clinton. And if you don't vote for her you're a sexist (like being a racist with Obama).
I actually think Hilary would be an excellent president. I still don't know what the hell people were thinking in picking Obama, a guy nobody had ever heard of at the time, over her.
Rodmantheman
10-31-2014, 05:06 PM
I actually think Hilary would be an excellent president. I still don't know what the hell people were thinking in picking Obama, a guy nobody had ever heard of at the time, over her.
:biggums:
bdreason
10-31-2014, 05:19 PM
Looked like a bunch of street ni99as to me. When I walk by them they usually ask me for money. I'd rather be complimented than asked for money.
~primetime~
10-31-2014, 05:33 PM
Looked like a bunch of street ni99as to me. When I walk by them they usually ask me for money. I'd rather be complimented than asked for money.
say dawg...let me borrow that chain dawg
let me hold a dolla homey
they want money from you...and pssy from her, both are annoying
Jailblazers7
10-31-2014, 05:48 PM
Conspiracy theory: Liberal news media bringing up all these feminist issues to get us to feel as if we owe Woman something due to past injustices and therefore Americans feel compelled to elect the democratic candidate, Hilary Clinton. And if you don't vote for her you're a sexist (like being a racist with Obama).
lol I love theories like that. Sounds ridiculous but has just enough of a point to make you go "but maybe..."
Her record and personality are the furthest thing from the stereotype of femininity that I don't think it would matter even if true.
MadeFromDust
10-31-2014, 05:59 PM
They're just checking to see if she's open to conversation. If she's not open to conversation then she ignores them like she did and they get the hint. Nothing wrong with them trying yolo
RoundMoundOfReb
10-31-2014, 06:35 PM
I actually think Hilary would be an excellent president. I still don't know what the hell people were thinking in picking Obama, a guy nobody had ever heard of at the time, over her.
It was because of (racist) black people who voted for obama in droves. Black vote is a huge factor during the primaries.
ace23
10-31-2014, 06:43 PM
Lot of racism in here.
sweggeh
10-31-2014, 06:45 PM
They're just checking to see if she's open to conversation. If she's not open to conversation then she ignores them like she did and they get the hint. Nothing wrong with them trying yolo
Yep, its this simple. Only one guy did something wrong, that was the guy that walked by her for 5 minutes. But Im pretty sure even that guy was just trying to play off the embarrassing response to his weak intro, but he ended up looking even worse.
Legends66NBA7
10-31-2014, 06:58 PM
Arguing for the sake of arguing.
Raymone
11-01-2014, 02:43 AM
Women are supposed to accept these unsolicited advances with a smile because most of the harassers in this instance happened to have been black?
Heh. Sorry fellas, it's 2014. The power of that race card is steadily waning. Time to be responsible for your own actions. Start with controlling yourselves in public around women. Around anyone, preferably. All men should.
TonyMontana
11-01-2014, 02:52 AM
I don't live in NYC, but I experience similar shit in large cities. Except instead of trying to make sexual advances they bother me for money on every ****ing block(why the **** would I give money to a random guy I don't know for nothing in return? I have to work for mine).
It's ****ing annoying and I can't stand it. And why do these people just stand around all day. Go home, go do something. Nobody likes this shit and everyone purposefully ignores eye contact, and pretends they didn't hear them.
MadeFromDust
11-01-2014, 03:12 AM
I don't live in NYC, but I experience similar shit in large cities. Except instead of trying to make sexual advances they bother me for money on every ****ing block(why the **** would I give money to a random guy I don't know for nothing in return? I have to work for mine).
It's ****ing annoying and I can't stand it. And why do these people just stand around all day. Go home, go do something. Nobody likes this shit and everyone purposefully ignores eye contact, and pretends they didn't hear them.
They could take a tip from those Chicagoaneans and retaliate against the poor beggars like this
http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhu59teh7s7X88V1c7
Dresta
11-01-2014, 10:14 AM
lol I love theories like that. Sounds ridiculous but has just enough of a point to make you go "but maybe..."
Her record and personality are the furthest thing from the stereotype of femininity that I don't think it would matter even if true.
She still brought out the waterworks in the last primaries though :lol
embersyc
11-01-2014, 10:39 AM
So in 10 hours they got 2 minutes worth of footage.
Seems legit.
I'm sure if I walked around NYC for 10 hours, I'd get harassed just as much, admittedly mostly by people looking for cash, but I don't see a difference personally.
knickballer
11-01-2014, 11:02 AM
So in 10 hours they got 2 minutes worth of footage.
Seems legit.
I'm sure if I walked around NYC for 10 hours, I'd get harassed just as much, admittedly mostly by people looking for cash, but I don't see a difference personally.
Yea, that's my thought as well..
I think she had some type of symbol or design on her ass which made it even more eye popping and add that to the fact she's wearing tights with a big ole' booty it's no surprise she got some looks...
CelticBaller
11-01-2014, 12:39 PM
guy doing it for 3 hours
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75aX9mlipiY&feature=share
Rodmantheman
11-01-2014, 12:57 PM
guy doing it for 3 hours
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75aX9mlipiY&feature=share
At the gay black guy:roll:
mehyaM24
11-01-2014, 01:04 PM
The same guys who stan black athletes talk shit about black people.
lol
this doesn't even make sense. black people are exempt from being talked shit upon?
Pointguard
11-01-2014, 01:07 PM
Some of these people never cease to amaze me. In some cases, you want to follow the law and excuse intent (Trayvon Martin/Zimmerman case). Then in another, we must say "damn the law" and actually look between the lines.
I gotta ask. Throughout that whole Martin/Zimmeran ordeal, there was a constant back and between whether or not its ok to follow people. The very same jackasses that were saying its ok to follow people and that its not against the law, are now saying its creepy. Unbelievable.
Or to constantly defend a guy like Zimmerman like he's their mother after he molested his cousin for over ten years, and pulls out guns on three different women (wife included), kills a kid, and the poster Raymone charades him a hero! And now he's the great judge of subtlety toward women!!! Dude is basically saying it's ok to molest and stick guns in their face of woman you're intimate with, but don't be creepy and say "God bless you" to strangers.
And is here thinking he's rolling with the humans like he's normal.
MavsSuperFan
11-01-2014, 01:22 PM
that woman could have had my children fam... I am definitely trying to see what on earth is so bad about this? Put me on game ISH.... I see this girl, I'm a man in NYC... chances are that I will NEVER see this broad again...I'm supposed to hold my tongue and watch her walk out of my life helplessly lusting after her? A polite greeting with somewhat obvious intentions(starting a conversation) is supposed to be harassment now?
This is embarrassing... western culture and more specifically white people have become so b*tchmade... im in toronto and i meet girls from every continent virtually every day working retail in a tourist spot and these girls always have negative things to say about canadian men. how soft and pussified we are, we dont hold eye contact in public, dont approach, wont say hi and when i see NY'ers doing the game proud you blast them and put them down?
they are men actively pursuing what they want and taking advantage of the opportunity in front of them. i've had enough of this feminism movement tainting game already... like this shit is out of hand. i dont even know what to say to women anymore now that hi is unacceptable.
aside from that dude that got mystified by her body, what is wrong here? the norm for mingling between the sexes has reached and all time low
im stressed for the future men
:lol calm down, its not that big a deal. meeting a girl randomly on the street and getting a date out of it has always been a rare occurrence for normal men. (eg. not obviously rich and/or famous)
that woman could have had my children fam... I am definitely trying to see what on earth is so bad about this? Put me on game ISH.... I see this girl, I'm a man in NYC... chances are that I will NEVER see this broad again...I'm supposed to hold my tongue and watch her walk out of my life helplessly lusting after her? A polite greeting with somewhat obvious intentions(starting a conversation) is supposed to be harassment now?
i agree with you its not harassment. But dont kid yourself there was never a time in history where saying hi to a girl you have never met before on the street was a high percentage conversion into a date.
The most effective way to get women has always been to get into situations where you can interact with them and display some conversational skills.
Its probably the easiest time in history to meet women now. Tinder, dating sites, etc. You get turned down and rejected a lot, but its still probably easier than anytime previously.
Some women dont like being talked to by random men because they are afraid that it might escalate to violence/rape. its totally fine imo to say hi, or hello, or any other pleasantry, but if she ignores you and keeps walking you should stop. She isnt interested, if she were she would have stopped.
Raymone
11-01-2014, 02:02 PM
Or to constantly defend a guy like Zimmerman like he's their mother after he molested his cousin for over ten years, and pulls out guns on three different women (wife included), kills a kid, and the poster Raymone charades him a hero! And now he's the great judge of subtlety toward women!!! Dude is basically saying it's ok to molest and stick guns in their face of woman you're intimate with, but don't be creepy and say "God bless you" to strangers.
I keep getting you and 97 bulls confused with all the hardcore reaching you both do. Heavy belly laughs at "saying it's ok to molest." I don't know or care if Zimmerman is a bad person, nor have I ever really commented on those deliberate distractions. Following that case, I only cared about what happened that night. Or rather, what could best be discerned and proven in a court room. Whether he kicked a stray dog one time or fondled a cousin was of no bearing to my consideration of what he was being tried for. The bloody head injuries photographed and grass stains on his clothing were more along the lines of things I considered relevant.
I have an apparently rare ability to be impartial and objective and not be led astray on emotional tangents (Tray bought skittles! He was black and the other guy wasn't! Foul! Etc). Or insist on stupid dichotomies like "you either think Zim's guilty of murder or you applaud him as a hero."
I'd make a great lawyer if I'd chosen that career path.
97 bulls
11-01-2014, 02:20 PM
I keep getting you and 97 bulls confused with all the hardcore reaching you both do. Heavy belly laughs at "saying it's ok to molest." I don't know or care if Zimmerman is a bad person, nor have I ever really commented on those deliberate distractions. Following that case, I only cared about what happened that night. Or rather, what could best be discerned and proven in a court room. Whether he kicked a stray dog one time or fondled a cousin was of no bearing to my consideration of what he was being tried for. The bloody head injuries photographed and grass stains on his clothing were more along the lines of things I considered relevant.
I have an apparently rare ability to be impartial and objective and not be led astray on emotional tangents (Tray bought skittles! He was black and the other guy wasn't! Foul! Etc). Or insist on stupid dichotomies like "you either think Zim's guilty of murder or you applaud him as a hero."
I'd make a great lawyer if I'd chosen that career path.
But weren't you the one constantly alluding to Trayvon Martins behavior in school? And linking these instances with what happened that night? Posting pics of his facebook account. Talking about how he smokes weed etc. What does any of that have to do with what happened that night?
All those pics of his "broken" nose and grass stains show is that he was getting his ass kicked. It doesnt exonerate him from guilt.
MavsSuperFan
11-01-2014, 02:22 PM
Girls hit on me at work. They stare at me on the subway,bus,mall wherever... I'm not making videos about and trying to "raise funds" to stop it either:lol
this whole concept of venue is foolish, the only problem I have with what these guys did was the fact that they didn't read her body language before approaching. It's obviously that she wasn't trying to hear anything short of gunshots and a siren. Her body was laser focused on walking straight ahead without stopping for interruptions.
My question to you all, since we are mostly men... what is a man supposed to do? Let me know because outside of approaching when it seems that she's not interested(assumptions can be wrong, sometimes girls are just miserable) what did the majority of the guys in this vid do wrong?
Man let me tell you, I've literally chased women before(last time was like three days ago), call me thirsty, buy me a gatorade, etc... but I go after what i want and i wanted her. We locked eyes while she was going up an escalator and I told her to wait.
just let me know where im wrong because i think that being assertive and somewhat aggressive sexually isn't necessarily a bad thing
It really depends on what degree. Did you follow that girl for 5 mins, quietly stalking her? It really depends on how the girl responds. If she gives you the impression she isnt interested you should stop. Women will let you know if they are interested.
In the video there were only 2 instances of guys doing something imo wrong.
1. the guy that stalking her for 5 mins after she ignored his initial greeting, honestly would not blame a woman for calling the cops on a guy doing something like this.
2. the guy that told her to be grateful. (very minor, but assholeish behavior)
Raymone
11-01-2014, 02:28 PM
Here's a list of all the things said to her. I don't think I missed any.
How you doin' today? I guess not good, huh?
Smile. Smiiile!
What's up beautiful, have a good day.
Hey, what's up girl? How you doin'? Somebody's acknowledging you for being beautiful! You should say thank you more. For real?
God bless you mami. Damn...
Hey baby.
Hey beautiful!
How are you this morning?
Have a nice evening.
Nice!
Damn! DAMN!
Hi beautiful.
Sexy- American Eagle!
Hello, good morning. God bless you have a good day aight? *Follows her silently for 5 minutes.
Damn! How you doin'?
How you doing, good? Sweetie?
Hey, look it there! I just saw a thousand dollaz.
Damn, girl.
You don't wanna talk? Cuz I'm ugly? Huh? We can't be friends, nuthin? You don't speak? If I give you my number, you gonna talk to me? No? Too ugly fo you?
Whats up miss?
How you doin'?
Have a nice evening, darling.
Do you consider the bolded ones to be polite conversation starters, Just2McFly? Honest question.
A polite greeting with somewhat obvious intentions(starting a conversation) is supposed to be harassment now?
mehyaM24
11-01-2014, 02:37 PM
Here's a list of all the things said to her. I don't think I missed any.
How you doin' today? I guess not good, huh?
Smile. Smiiile!
What's up beautiful, have a good day.
Hey, what's up girl? How you doin'? Somebody's acknowledging you for being beautiful! You should say thank you more. For real?
God bless you mami. Damn...
Hey baby.
Hey beautiful!
How are you this morning?
Have a nice evening.
Nice!
Damn! DAMN!
Hi beautiful.
Sexy- American Eagle!
Hello, good morning. God bless you have a good day aight? *Follows her silently for 5 minutes.
Damn! How you doin'?
How you doing, good? Sweetie?
Hey, look it there! I just saw a thousand dollaz.
Damn, girl.
You don't wanna talk? Cuz I'm ugly? Huh? We can't be friends, nuthin? You don't speak? If I give you my number, you gonna talk to me? No? Too ugly fo you?
Whats up miss?
How you doin'?
Have a nice evening, darling.
Do you consider the bolded ones to be polite conversation starters, Just2McFly? Honest question.
not sure why you bolded "hey beautiful". nothing wrong with that.
i agree with the rest. you're not getting laid or talked to approaching random chicks like that (non skanks).
not sure why you're quoting "powerglove" either. i doubt guy has ever approached a female that wasn't a family member. :oldlol:
Raymone
11-01-2014, 02:43 PM
not sure why you bolded "hey beautiful". nothing wrong with that.
i agree with the rest. you're not getting laid or talked to approaching random chicks like that (non skanks).
Fair point. I wasn't sure whether I'd bold those ones or not. Borderline I guess. While greetings like "Hey beautiful! Hey sexy! Hey gorgeous!" could be considered conversation starters, I'm not sure how polite they are, at least from the perspective of the woman on the street receiving them from complete strangers. I don't think those ones are very harassing, but I'm also not going to pretend I know what it feels like for every public greeting thrown my way to have sexual undertones. I could imagine it gets tiring and uncomfortable.
NBAplayoffs2001
11-01-2014, 02:59 PM
So are you saying that random dude in the ghetto that one night who said "What's up man have a good evening" to me was a form of verbal sexual harassment. :biggums:
In all seriousness, some were abuse but saying "have a good evening" imo does not constitute as verbal harassment.
Raymone
11-01-2014, 03:18 PM
So are you saying that random dude in the ghetto that one night who said "What's up man have a good evening" to me was a form of verbal sexual harassment. :biggums:
In all seriousness, some were abuse but saying "have a good evening" imo does not constitute as verbal harassment.
Agreed, I don't think that one was harassment. Probably not an intro with a very good success rate on women passing by, but not inappropriate.
MavsSuperFan
11-01-2014, 03:37 PM
So are you saying that random dude in the ghetto that one night who said "What's up man have a good evening" to me was a form of verbal sexual harassment. :biggums:
In all seriousness, some were abuse but saying "have a good evening" imo does not constitute as verbal harassment.
The makers of the video were stupid, they conflated stuff most reasonable people would deem appropriate with inappropriate stuff.
Very few women would have a problem with someone saying "hi" to them or something like "have a nice day". What they fear is if they respond politely the guy will misinterpret it as that they are also interested in them. lets be honest the reason the guys greeted her was because they were interested. This is why women try to ignore greetings from men they are not interested in. I'm sure any guy with female friends, GFs, sisters, other female family members, etc can appreciate that.
Women are afraid that if they say something like "no, im not interested" it might escalate and make the guy angry and that he might attack and/or rape her. they are also afraid that a polite response will encourage the guy to hit on them more. so they just trying to ignore it and keep moving.
Its a poor comparison to compare it to girls staring at guys or hitting on guys. Instances of female on male violence/rape is very rare.
IMO its totally ok to go up to a women and say something that lets her know your interested, but if she doesnt respond in a way that lets you know its mutual, move on.
~primetime~
11-01-2014, 04:21 PM
Like already stated several times in here it isn't about the literal words that were spoken it's about context.
I mean some of you just need to cut the shit...NONE of them were actually wishing her a "good evening" in a polite manner...ALL of them wanted to fck.
THAT's the reality...
All she is trying to do is show you guys what that's like...some men already know this is something that women have to put up with every day, BUT some men are under the stupid ass impression that they are the only ones trying to court this women and not only that but they are under the impression that they AREN'T annoying as fck.
To those of you that cat call on a regular, when NOT out at clubs...you should take a fckin hint from this woman and stop trying to make excuses for why you'll continue to do it anyway.
MavsSuperFan
11-01-2014, 04:27 PM
Like already stated several times in here it isn't about the literal words that were spoken it's about context.
I mean some of you just need to cut the shit...NONE of them were actually wishing her a "good evening" in a polite manner...ALL of them wanted to fck.
THAT's the reality...
All she is trying to do is show you guys what that's like...some men already know this is something that women have to put up with every day, BUT some men are under the stupid ass impression that they are the only ones trying to court this women and not only that but they are under the impression that they AREN'T annoying as fck.
To those of you that cat call on a regular, when NOT out at clubs...you should take a fckin hint from this woman and stop trying to make excuses for why you'll continue to do it anyway.
Well obviously. no one thinks otherwise. Personally I think its ok to take a shot as long as you stop when its clear its not appreciated.
Only the guys that followed her, the guy that followed her for 5 mins and the guy that kept asking if it was because she thought he was too ugly, behaved really inappropriately imo. the guy that told her to be grateful is also an ass.
No one thinks that they genuinely care what a random person thinks.
KNOW1EDGE
11-01-2014, 04:38 PM
This sh1t is hilarious.
I think this world has a lot bigger problems than woman being hit on while walking down the street.
I can't believe this thread has lived on for 20 pages of blatant white knight retardism
zoom17
11-01-2014, 04:43 PM
This sh1t is hilarious.
I think this world has a lot bigger problems than woman being hit on while walking down the street.
I can't believe this thread has lived on for 20 pages of blatant white knight retardism
This 100%
NumberSix
11-01-2014, 04:59 PM
Like already stated several times in here it isn't about the literal words that were spoken it's about context.
I mean some of you just need to cut the shit...NONE of them were actually wishing her a "good evening" in a polite manner...ALL of them wanted to fck.
THAT's the reality...
Nobody is denying their intentions. The issue is people saying it qualifies as "harassment". If you think someone saying saying "good evening" or "hey beautiful" as you walk by is "harassment" you are inasne. If she would have said its annoying or bothersome, nobody would argue. It's when going to the extreme length of calling it harassment that people start looking at you sideways.
Today i was minding my own business, walking to my car (200 meters). A fat lady started harassing me asking really loud if i knew where a certain restaurant around the area was. After that, out of nowhere, a group of tourists started harassing me about finding their way to a museum. Use google maps you lazy ****s and don't bother people.
I still remember how a few years ago some guys started shouting at some of us to call for a "****ing ambulance" cause they were in a car accident. Call it yourself, you're the dumbass who got into an accident, stop harassing people and solve your own problems.
There's no goodness in people anymore :( .
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