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Mamba
12-26-2014, 10:13 AM
edit delete. just get rid of it.

nathanjizzle
12-26-2014, 10:33 AM
guys i may be a little bit ****ed up right now...but its been three months, thje relationship didn't even go for long......ut i really can't seem to let go of my ex and move on.

Its not like she was the best looking girl, or the most supportive.....but i can't seem to stop thinking about her....and the worst part is...she's alreadyu moved on and has a new boyfriend (saw them together on a date holding hands)

i deleted her from social media, I deleted her number, i deleted her photos, burnt all the letters

I've gotten with over 30 girls since the break up (legit....i have photos if youj want to see)...

yet....i can't stop thinking about her, still thinking about getting back together. I can't message another girl without having some sort of insecurity...I can't think to myself that it's over. That i can become something else that will make her want me back....it's getting so hard..so so hard...guys I know im gonna get called a fgt, beta and all that shit.

But i need help.

Its a sign that you guys are meant to be together and that you should start driving by her house at night to see what shes up to.

GimmeThat
12-26-2014, 10:43 AM
because her specialness > 30 girls I suppose

hey, many cases, happens to be even more

Le Shaqtus
12-26-2014, 10:48 AM
I know how you feel, I had that connection to a girl I dated 8 months ago, and now we're back together after complicated set of circumstances.

knickballer
12-26-2014, 11:12 AM
"burnt all the letters"


lol...

Bandito
12-26-2014, 11:15 AM
Its a sign that you guys are meant to be together and that you should start driving by her house at night to see what shes up to.
This is creepy as **** mate:lol

Draz
12-26-2014, 01:26 PM
You aren't over her and you're justifying that you are by dating other girls. Only to lead to your downfall in perhaps not being sexually aroused by other females, inability to carry genuine conversations with them, and failure to see their qualities.

First rule of being an adult with exs, break up the right mature way. Mutually. Or else it'll leave an unfolded gap of questions. Good luck.

I<3NBA
12-26-2014, 01:31 PM
because it's just 3 months

longhornfan1234
12-26-2014, 01:34 PM
Mutual break up? Is that possible?

dude77
12-26-2014, 01:34 PM
You aren't over her and you're justifying that you are by dating other girls. Only to lead to your downfall in perhaps not being sexually aroused by other females, inability to carry genuine conversations with them, and failure to see their qualities.

First rule of being an adult with exs, break up the right mature way. Mutually. Or else it'll leave an unfolded gap of questions. Good luck.

that wouldn't have worked .. they break up 'mutually' .. that wouldn't have magically made him get over her lol .. this is an internal thing .. he needs to man up .. that must've been some good ***** I'm guessing .. but ya gotta let it go .. it's fkn pointless dwelling over shit

Draz
12-26-2014, 01:36 PM
Breaking up without a mutuality causes a stir between what ifs and what cans. It's better that both parties come together and say it can't and won't happen. In some cases most people leave without a proper reason and the other person is left stranded searching for answers by hanging on for months or years.

What you can do to get over her is focus on making yourself better. Join college, if you're in college excel in college. College isn't for you go to trade school learn a trade. Best thing to do when you're single is learn and benefit yourself.

Go meet new people. Have time for your friends and family.

GimmeThat
12-26-2014, 01:57 PM
Because you should try prostitutes
Not girls who are just there

Draz
12-26-2014, 02:45 PM
Just realized no one asked for pics

stalkerforlife
12-26-2014, 02:46 PM
Because you're beta and can't easily find another girl.

oh the horror
12-26-2014, 04:08 PM
A. It's only been 3 months. Let some time pass. You'll see.


B. You're actually making it worse by trying to fill the void with various rebounds. Do your own thing for a bit and just mellow out. Learn to not be depending on outside sources for your own happiness. It'll make you stronger. When you consistently date for that purpose and it doesn't work since you're not over the last one you'll just end up feeling worse

HitandRun Reggie
12-26-2014, 04:15 PM
It's better the relationship ended up in the early stages before marriage and kids. If she had left you in a more serious relationship, you probably would killed her and walked around the house wearing her head as a hat.

LOLCATS
12-26-2014, 04:26 PM
Try something new, maybe you are stuck in a rut.

LJJ
12-26-2014, 04:40 PM
I've gotten with over 30 girls since the break up (legit....i have photos if youj want to see)...

But i need help.


:lol

http://i.imgur.com/KaBvtD0.gif




You do need help.

CavaliersFTW
12-26-2014, 04:47 PM
guys i may be a little bit ****ed up right now...but its been three months, thje relationship didn't even go for long......ut i really can't seem to let go of my ex and move on.

Its not like she was the best looking girl, or the most supportive.....but i can't seem to stop thinking about her....and the worst part is...she's alreadyu moved on and has a new boyfriend (saw them together on a date holding hands)

i deleted her from social media, I deleted her number, i deleted her photos, burnt all the letters

I've gotten with over 30 girls since the break up (legit....i have photos if youj want to see)...

yet....i can't stop thinking about her, still thinking about getting back together. I can't message another girl without having some sort of insecurity...I can't think to myself that it's over. That i can become something else that will make her want me back....it's getting so hard..so so hard...guys I know im gonna get called a fgt, beta and all that shit.

But i need help.
We're definitely going to need to see those photos for context or there's no way we can help you out.

Bandito
12-26-2014, 07:01 PM
30 girls? Betas tend to be liars.

ace23
12-26-2014, 08:54 PM
Its a sign that you guys are meant to be together and that you should start driving by her house at night to see what shes up to.
:roll:

vinsane01
12-26-2014, 09:14 PM
Its a sign that you guys are meant to be together and that you should start driving by her house at night to see what shes up to.

:oldlol:

if hooking up with girls isnt working, do something else. Travel, got out somewhere. Or maybe like the other dude said, you need closure. Talk to her and say all that is needed to be said. It's up to you man, you'll be fine.

joe
12-26-2014, 09:17 PM
I never get over people that I really cared about. Years and years, and I still feel the emotions inside from the break up, the good times. I wont think about my exes all the time but when I do it feels like it was yesterday. People always say things like Just Give It Time, but that really doesnt happen for everyone. Its the same for me with friendships. I get these strong emotions when I think of things I did with friends when I was 12/13. Its cray.

Mamba
12-27-2014, 03:34 AM
We are going to need said pics of all 30 or gtfo.
well i don't take pictures of every girl i gotten with but i got a few entertaining ones here, to please you internet darlings

http://i.imgur.com/SiUrz5Z.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/3SepdPq.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/ntXVEKA.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/lmN12VX.jpg

p.s.
not really a beta...just struggling to get over her...
http://i.imgur.com/BfxKVXY.jpg

masonanddixon
12-27-2014, 06:36 AM
lol she's a woman. Women are the most disposable and dispensable commodities in existence. You only think you care about her because of media and societal mindwashings and expectations.

AintNoSunshine
12-27-2014, 07:40 AM
nvm

SexSymbol
12-27-2014, 08:28 AM
well i don't take pictures of every girl i gotten with but i got a few entertaining ones here, to please you internet darlings

http://i.imgur.com/SiUrz5Z.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/3SepdPq.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/ntXVEKA.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/lmN12VX.jpg

p.s.
not really a beta...just struggling to get over her...
http://i.imgur.com/BfxKVXY.jpg
Are you the fakkott who looks like a fakkot in every foto?
btw, those tits are so terribly shopped on

alenleomessi
12-27-2014, 08:55 AM
faggy hairstyle, stupid face in every photo, everyday is an upperbody day, cant get over a girl after 3 months..

i dont know how to break it to you.. but you are the definition of beta.. its in your blood.. you will die knowing you are a beta..

dude77
12-27-2014, 12:25 PM
someone is allergic to working their legs .. yikes .. if you're gonna put in the time at the gym, might as well do it the right way

SupermanOnSteroids
12-27-2014, 12:49 PM
forced ejaculation.

just picture forced ejaculation.

you say she's been with many other guys after you 2 broke up.

just picture forced ejaculation all over her face by all dem guys. and game over.

just picture all dem guys busting their loads all over her face like a worthless little slut (cus what is she to them that is she to you) and leaving loads and loads of cu m all over her face for the hell of it. and then going off and telling their friends how they left a cu m mustache on the bishe's lip to all their friends.

just let her go dud. its too late now. too many cu m mustaches already been done.

Bandito
12-27-2014, 12:59 PM
Try something new, maybe you are stuck in a rut.
Stop trying to make everybody try having sex with trannies you humongous ******. :roll:

Draz
12-27-2014, 04:40 PM
It's possible. Going to clubs and having one night stands, switching locations meeting new fresh girls.

GimmeThat
12-27-2014, 05:18 PM
In some cases, people believe the imperfection that made them cringe, will go away.

Draz
12-27-2014, 05:43 PM
You haven't left queens in ten years
Come over

code green
12-29-2014, 02:08 PM
forced ejaculation.

just picture forced ejaculation.

you say she's been with many other guys after you 2 broke up.

just picture forced ejaculation all over her face by all dem guys. and game over.

just picture all dem guys busting their loads all over her face like a worthless little slut (cus what is she to them that is she to you) and leaving loads and loads of cu m all over her face for the hell of it. and then going off and telling their friends how they left a cu m mustache on the bishe's lip to all their friends.

just let her go dud. its too late now. too many cu m mustaches already been done.


Surprisingly therapeutic. :oldlol: