How do you short guys live with being small?

[Im Still Ballin]

I was at a friends house the other day, he had some people over and one of my mates who is 5 foot 5 got straight up insulted by a couple of the girls... The topic of height and obviously the girls pretty much straight away made it into a dick measuring affair by saying how it affects their attraction and dating...

"I don't want to be dating someone that's smaller than me It feels like it's my little brother" All the girls laughed and my 5-5 friend looked like his soul had left his body. Ouch.

I'm 6-1 myself and height has never been much of a worry for me, I would have liked to be 6-3 or 6-4 but it didn't turn out that way...

So to all you guys lacking in size; how does it affect your dating and interactions with women? Does it annoy you or does it not matter?

[oarabbus]

Yeah I'm sure those btches would turn down Mark Wahlberg, Tom Cruise, Messi, Nate Robinson or Darren Sproles.


Well maybe Cruise if they aren't hardcore into scientology but... yeah

Sucks for your friend though, too bad he didn't have a snappy comeback... thats brutal. The thing though is that women do want to generally be with a guy taller than them. Your friend at 5'5" itill has options, since a lot of women are below 5'5" .


What'd he do after though? Hopefully not just sit there comatose saying nothing.

[1987_Lakers]

I'm 5 foot 9 which is the average size, but I have a close friend who is pretty short and I can tell it's his biggest insecurity.

Years ago I remember a girl who rejected him because of his size, I was right there. It was really painful to watch and I think his size has made him develop an inferiority complex, now he has a controlling gf who won't let him do anything.

[ILLsmak]

I'm 5 foot 9 which is the average size, but I have a close friend who is pretty short and I can tell it's his biggest insecurity.

Years ago I remember a girl who rejected him because of his size, I was right there. It was really painful to watch and I think his size has made him develop an inferiority complex, now he has a controlling gf who won't let him do anything.

I dunno I'm short and it's never been an issue. I've kicked it with huge dudes, too. The only girls that I can tell it might be an issue are super tall ( like 5'10+). But I dunno, it's still gg for the most part.

I mean being short has its issues, esp if you're trying to be a bball player, but in life not really.

It's really in how you view yourself. I don't think of people by their heights so I am not like intimidated by them in a social setting. I can see if you were that you would be. But really what is a dude gonna do, fight me? If that's what he wants I guess that's what is gonna happen, but beyond that it means nathan.

Every girl says they like tall guys, but generally they mean they don't want guys shorter than them. Some girls like super tall guys, but I dunno... depends on the girl, I guess.

Like dude said plenty of people in history have been short and successful. It's actually funny to think of how short some of them are, but you don't think about people who have charisma as short.. you think of dudes who are like IM SO SHORT SHITTTT as short.

-Smak

[1987_Lakers]

I dunno I'm short and it's never been an issue. I've kicked it with huge dudes, too. The only girls that I can tell it might be an issue are super tall ( like 5'10+). But I dunno, it's still gg for the most part.

I mean being short has its issues, esp if you're trying to be a bball player, but in life not really.

It's really in how you view yourself. I don't think of people by their heights so I am not like intimidated by them in a social setting. I can see if you were that you would be. But really what is a dude gonna do, fight me? If that's what he wants I guess that's what is gonna happen, but beyond that it means nathan.

Every girl says they like tall guys, but generally they mean they don't want guys shorter than them. Some girls like super tall guys, but I dunno... depends on the girl, I guess.

Like dude said plenty of people in history have been short and successful. It's actually funny to think of how short some of them are, but you don't think about people who have charisma as short.. you think of dudes who are like IM SO SHORT SHITTTT as short.

-Smak

I agree. It all depends on how the person views himself. Everyone is different.

[bdreason]

Been tall my whole life, and it's definitely nice. I was never attracted to short girls, to the point that I would ignore a cute girl if she was too short. My gf is around 5'5", which is honestly about the shortest I ever went. I sometimes joke with her that she barely made the cut... truth is she's much better looking than me. :oldlol:

I had plenty of short friends in HS and College that had no problem getting girls. If a girl doesn't like you because you're too short, just move on to the next one. I've been skinny my whole life, and turned down by women because it many times... just gotta keep trucking. The good thing about women is you can tell in the first 30 seconds if she's physically attracted to you.

[Budadiiii]

Been tall my whole life, and it's definitely nice. I was never attracted to short girls, to the point that I would ignore a cute girl if she was too short. My gf is around 5'5", which is honestly about the shortest I ever went. I sometimes joke with her that she barely made the cut... truth is she's much better looking than me. :oldlol:

I had plenty of short friends in HS and College that had no problem getting girls. If a girl doesn't like you because you're too short, just move on to the next one. I've been skinny my whole life, and turned down by women because it many times... just gotta keep trucking. The good thing about women is you can tell in the first 30 seconds if she's physically attracted to you.
Well maybe you should ****in' eat more dude. I mean, if you want to be known as a skinny tennis playing little bitch, then more power to you. But if you actually want to be considered a respectable human being, start eating and get in the gym.

[JohnFreeman]

Anyone below 6 feet is a little ******

[iTare]

i am 6'4 and handsome

[Im Still Ballin]

His soul left his body like Casper; was like "Nah son I'm out you're on your own for tonight brother"

I got a couple more short friends but they handle it really well. Both did pretty well in the looks department and they have confident, almost cocky personalities. People will go; "oh look he has short man syndrome" but the reality is you can literally say that for anything. "Oh look at that tall guy he has tall man syndrome" "oh look at that asian he has small asian village from vietnam syndrome" etc etc

IMO the best way to go about it is to just cop it but be strong and confident, hitting the gyms always a plus, people who call out other people for these things usually have been thinking about similar things as well (insecurity) Who knows the ****er could have a pencil dick for all we know....

[plowking]

I'm fairly tall, 6'3, but when I first started going out to clubs at 18 over here in Australia, I was a skinny, lanky, ball player who wore clothing a little too big, and couldn't really fill it out. I'm decent looking and still got some play, but I could tell that the physique wasn't to a lot of girls liking, particularly because I'm in a state that loves their rugby. So big, strong looking dudes is generally the type over here for chicks.

Hit the gym, wear fitted tees now and it hasn't been a problem since. Gym can seriously help just about any situation. Being lean and athletic looking will make most people look a lot more appealing.

[joe]

I am 5 6 and I agree with Smaks post. I just live life I never really think about my height. I pretty much am not attracted to any girl who is taller than me. Maybe that is a reaction to the idea that THEY wont be attracted to me, but I think I just like to be taller than the girl. A really beautiful girl who is 5 foot 8 is like invisible to me. Obviously you know she is beautiful, but it is like a painting or something. I dont feel any attraction for girls who arent from 5 feet to 5 foot 5. lol.

My friends have always been way taller than me, most of them being 5 foot 10 to 6 foot 2. However I always got as many or more girls than them, and we used to get a lot of girls. I honestly think it helped my Street Cred to have so many tall friends.

When I think about the fact that short people are hired less, paid less, etc, it can be a little disheartening. But when I was a kid I always was like, the short kid who was really fast. And I was never afraid of bigger people in fights because I saw it that I could dodge them and that I was tough enough to take a hit and still keep going. So I guess that my attitude towards being short has remained positive.

I wouldnt want to hang around people who were rude like those girls in the OP. I think I would get pretty mad because who wants to be around people who say things like that? The truth is the truth I guess, but if that is your view of the truth than I would not give you the time of day after that.

[T_L_P]

I'm fairly tall, 6'3, but when I first started going out to clubs at 18 over here in Australia, I was a skinny, lanky, ball player who wore clothing a little too big, and couldn't really fill it out. I'm decent looking and still got some play, but I could tell that the physique wasn't to a lot of girls liking, particularly because I'm in a state that loves their rugby. So big, strong looking dudes is generally the type over here for chicks.

Hit the gym, wear fitted tees now and it hasn't been a problem since. Gym can seriously help just about any situation. Being lean and athletic looking will make most people look a lot more appealing.

You got skins vs. poido, my brother?

[Im Still Ballin]

You got skins vs. poido, my brother?
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[christian1923]

I'm short, I'm 5'7. I stick to girls who play soccer lol

[sundizz]

I am 5 6 and I agree with Smaks post. I just live life I never really think about my height. I pretty much am not attracted to any girl who is taller than me. Maybe that is a reaction to the idea that THEY wont be attracted to me, but I think I just like to be taller than the girl. A really beautiful girl who is 5 foot 8 is like invisible to me. Obviously you know she is beautiful, but it is like a painting or something. I dont feel any attraction for girls who arent from 5 feet to 5 foot 5. lol.

My friends have always been way taller than me, most of them being 5 foot 10 to 6 foot 2. However I always got as many or more girls than them, and we used to get a lot of girls. I honestly think it helped my Street Cred to have so many tall friends.

When I think about the fact that short people are hired less, paid less, etc, it can be a little disheartening. But when I was a kid I always was like, the short kid who was really fast. And I was never afraid of bigger people in fights because I saw it that I could dodge them and that I was tough enough to take a hit and still keep going. So I guess that my attitude towards being short has remained positive.

I wouldnt want to hang around people who were rude like those girls in the OP. I think I would get pretty mad because who wants to be around people who say things like that? The truth is the truth I guess, but if that is your view of the truth than I would not give you the time of day after that.

Some revisionist history. As adults it is easy being short - we control our lives. As a kid it really suck(ed) being short. You are constantly put in a situation where people judge each other against some set standard. I appreciate you putting a positive spin on it, but it really did suck to have to work 5x harder, be 3x funnier, dress 5x nicer and still do worse than some 6'2 acne faced kid that could barely put together a sentence.

I think what really got me as a kid was that I succeeded at everything else very well - hoops, school, adults view of me, test scores etc....and i put that same want to succeed mentality toward girls (dressing nice, having a good talking game, etc) and while I did well....i definitely wasn't getting the prom queen. It annoyed me that no matter how hard I "worked" there was some inherent reason that I couldn't get what I wanted.

As an adult that is true too of course, but the world is much less black and white. Now, I am just happy with what I have...whcih still is all awesome. A very good looking/hot gf, a great career job, healthy family, and trusted friends.

Moral of the story: Being short sucks when you are a kid (just like any other really shizzy thing like super bad acne, or very ugly, or fat) but as an adult it matters significantly less and you are a seasoned vet at handling the cold truth of the world (that no one cares that much about you).

[plowking]

You got skins vs. poido, my brother?

I think I'm good. :oldlol:

[nathanjizzle]

im a 5'10 asian, im the cream of the crop. Anytime i walk into a room of asian people, all the ladies eyes light up and they smile like they are seeing a man that hit the genetic lottery, which they are.

[Velocirap31]

5'10" but I was always the short guy in the group because most of my friends played basketball and were 6' to 6'9". I think I just went to an 'above average height' high school as well, the typical height was 6'. I just worked out and got strong, the typical can't get taller so get wider approach. Now that I'm 26, I find that height is pretty irrelevant. Girls care far more about what you do for a living, your income, and your reliability.

[Straight_Ballin]

5'10" but I was always the short guy in the group because most of my friends played basketball and were 6' to 6'9". I think I just went to an 'above average height' high school as well, the typical height was 6'. I just worked out and got strong, the typical can't get taller so get wider approach. Now that I'm 26, I find that height is pretty irrelevant. Girls care far more about what you do for a living, your income, and your reliability.

Exactly. Someone can work out in the gym all they want but at the end of the day if they are flipping burgers they have to lie about what they do for a living which is pathetic.

[joe]

Some revisionist history. As adults it is easy being short - we control our lives. As a kid it really suck(ed) being short. You are constantly put in a situation where people judge each other against some set standard. I appreciate you putting a positive spin on it, but it really did suck to have to work 5x harder, be 3x funnier, dress 5x nicer and still do worse than some 6'2 acne faced kid that could barely put together a sentence.

I think what really got me as a kid was that I succeeded at everything else very well - hoops, school, adults view of me, test scores etc....and i put that same want to succeed mentality toward girls (dressing nice, having a good talking game, etc) and while I did well....i definitely wasn't getting the prom queen. It annoyed me that no matter how hard I "worked" there was some inherent reason that I couldn't get what I wanted.

As an adult that is true too of course, but the world is much less black and white. Now, I am just happy with what I have...whcih still is all awesome. A very good looking/hot gf, a great career job, healthy family, and trusted friends.

Moral of the story: Being short sucks when you are a kid (just like any other really shizzy thing like super bad acne, or very ugly, or fat) but as an adult it matters significantly less and you are a seasoned vet at handling the cold truth of the world (that no one cares that much about you).

Really? When you're a little kid people love you like no matter what. I'd say when you're an adult you're far more likely to be judged by your appearance. My brother is 5'8 and he pulled the hottest legit dimes all the time.

[fsvr54]

I'm 5'5" and it's not a big deal really. It's only a problem if you think it is.

It's probably weirder for white guys honestly. As a hispanic in an area where there are a lot of short people it's less of a deal.

[oarabbus]

No, they want a tall guy

5'1 girl isn't like "as long as he's taller than me". She wants a tall guy too

Only girls who say as long as he's taller than me are tall girls, so the dude is gonna be tall anyhow

Not saying short guys can't get babes but being tall is the equivalent of having nice boobs. Sure I don't need a girl with spectacular tits but it's certainly fvkin preferable


Lmao you seem butthurt that short dudes are capable of getting girls, not sure why. Half the dudes in this topic say they're short and it hasn't affected them too much. Short guys may have to work a bit harder but they can get ass too, deal with it. Worry about yourself

[Big_Dogg]

I thought I'd be short, my mum is 5'3 and my dad is 5'6, I ended up being 6'2, it's almost like I willed myself to be that big, I was very short all the way up until my 2nd last year of high school, over the summer break I went from 5'2 to 5'8 and then grew more over the year and filled out quite significantly.

Must be some genetic negro throwback or something, my brother lucked out and is only 5'9, he is quite thin and I got the muscular side of the genes, he must have got the house negro genes and I got the worker ones or something.

[Milbuck]

im a 5'10 asian, im the cream of the crop. Anytime i walk into a room of asian people, all the ladies eyes light up and they smile like they are seeing a man that hit the genetic lottery, which they are.
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[warriorfan]

entire story is fabricated OP hasn't hung out with any girls in years

[BasedTom]

5'10" but I was always the short guy in the group because most of my friends played basketball and were 6' to 6'9". I think I just went to an 'above average height' high school as well, the typical height was 6'. I just worked out and got strong, the typical can't get taller so get wider approach. Now that I'm 26, I find that height is pretty irrelevant. Girls care far more about what you do for a living, your income, and your reliability.
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[oarabbus]

The fvk you talking about lil fella? You are the one that seems upset.

I said short guys can get babes

Girls just prefer tall. It's a fact. If you don't hear girls say that it's because you're short and they don't wanna be mean

Now apologize to me shrimp

"Apologize to me shrimp" looks like you have some kind of complex, that's good stuff right there :roll:


...of course they prefer tall. They prefer rich, tall, ripped, powerful, intelligent, charismatic, funny, big d1ck guys.

But... If you're not all those things but do alright for yourself with women then it doesn't really matter.

You can either worry about yourself, or worry about informing (short/broke/fat/bald) dudes about how girls don't prefer that.

[sundizz]

Moral of the story: Girls don't know what they want. They just say things. It's up to you to believe them liars or not.

[ILLsmak]

Some revisionist history. As adults it is easy being short - we control our lives. As a kid it really suck(ed) being short. You are constantly put in a situation where people judge each other against some set standard. I appreciate you putting a positive spin on it, but it really did suck to have to work 5x harder, be 3x funnier, dress 5x nicer and still do worse than some 6'2 acne faced kid that could barely put together a sentence.


Never happened. You know, when I was young I was skinny and sickly for a few years... meaning like 4th-5th grade. Then I hit puberty pretty early and actually grew. I wasn't 'the tallest dude', but the people who were taller than me were 'tall people.'

The unfortunate issue is that it seems when you hit puberty early and get a growth spurt... that you're pretty much done. So everyone ended up growing taller than me, even the dudes who I was looking down on for most of my childhood.

I've had way more insults regarding my body hair than height. I am not extremely hairy, but when you have chest hair and nobody else does as a younger kid... you start feeling really self conscious. But I got over it.

I have some friends that grew tall and were good looking, but a lot of them were also weird looking. No weird looking Steve Urkel dude is gonna get women cuz of their height. Tall dudes gotta be good looking... in good shape, etc, to appeal to women. Maybe all things being equal a girl would choose a taller guy over me... but that's life, I guess. Never really experienced it in reality.

-Smak

[YouGotServed]

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[riseagainst]

i'm 5'7",i have big muscles and jacked as sh1t. Plus i am incredibly good looking. i pull hoes taller than me all the time it ain't even funny.

[code green]

Yeah, as a 5'7" 27 year old, i can admit that women would prefer the taller guy 9 times out of 10. There are probably stats that say that's the case in business as well. You make up for it with your brain*. Around the wimmenz, you gotta make them laugh. At the job? Know your shit. Height ain't everything, although it sucks nobody wants a 5'7" point guard after high school.






















*and cawk

[code green]

I just remembered the time I was hooking up with this woman who told me "Not going to lie, I was nervous you'd be small down there because of your height" after a couple of weeks.


I can't come up with a more backhanded compliment, and I've been trying.

[JohnnySic]

I can't come up with a more backhanded compliment, and I've been trying.
"You look good for your age" really means "why dont you look like shiit yet?"

[JohnnySic]

Hopefully you'll never have a short boss. Those guys can be hell to deal with.

[hateraid]

Height is only an issue when it comes to dating...or making a career out of something height dependant ie: basketball, fire fighter...
In the realm of dating height is a real big obstacle that can be made up with if you're super attractive. Girls I find are much more superficial when it comes to physical appearance and will date a shorter guy if they are good looking or have a ton of dough. I have never had a problem attracting a taller girl. I've actually dated a girl 5'9 and have been asked out by girls that height a few more times. But my personal preference is a girl who is under 5'5 so I really don't pay attention to taller girls anyways. If they come along then hey, bring it on. I'm not self-conscious.
No offense to your friend OP, but he probably didn't have anything to offer in the looks or career department. The height comment was probably the first thing they pick at because it was obvious

[ButterFace]

I was at a friends house the other day, he had some people over and one of my mates who is 5 foot 5 got straight up insulted by a couple of the girls... The topic of height and obviously the girls pretty much straight away made it into a dick measuring affair by saying how it affects their attraction and dating...

"I don't want to be dating someone that's smaller than me It feels like it's my little brother" All the girls laughed and my 5-5 friend looked like his soul had left his body. Ouch.

I'm 6-1 myself and height has never been much of a worry for me, I would have liked to be 6-3 or 6-4 but it didn't turn out that way...

So to all you guys lacking in size; how does it affect your dating and interactions with women? Does it annoy you or does it not matter?

It hasn't effected my friends who are short. I have a 5'3" friend who married a 5'11" girl who looks like a model. I think it is an issue through high school and early college, but it became less of an issue with age because women start looking more for success than height.

[ArbitraryWater]

I just remembered the time I was hooking up with this woman who told me "Not going to lie, I was nervous you'd be small down there because of your height" after a couple of weeks.


I can't come up with a more backhanded compliment, and I've been trying.

How is that a backhanded compliment?

She literally just said what she was afraid of but relieved it was not the case.

[sweggeh]

I am 5-9. Not that tall, but not short either. And I am okay with that.

[GimmeThat]

If you knew,

You'd ban me.

[Im Still Ballin]

It seems to me that the dating priorities of females shift from being focused on looks and features in high school and early college to wealth, status and power from late college and on wards.

[sweggeh]

It seems to me that the dating priorities of females shift from being focused on looks and features in high school and early college to wealth, status and power from late college and on wards.

Not really man. Show up to your high school driving a lamborghini and bitches will be all over you, good lookin or not.

[Im Still Ballin]

Just because you bring a lambo to school doesn't mean she will go out with you

However... If you pick her up in the Lambo and go out for drinks (because you're over 21 and matured) She will most likely start dating you (its the money!!!)

[sweggeh]

Just because you bring a lambo to school doesn't mean she will go out with you

However... If you pick her up in the Lambo and go out for drinks (because you're over 21 and matured) She will most likely start dating you (its the money!!!)

Nah man. The status is still important. You could be a cute guy but if you are weird and have no friends, a popular girl is gonna be less likely to date you. Chicks date cool kids in high school, just like in later life a man with a 100k a year job will get better standard of chicks than a guy who is a better looking but works at burger king.

Having a lambo in high school while the other guys look like beta's riding the bus instantly boosts your status, which boosts your attractiveness with the ladies.

The problem most guys have is they think that just because men usually judge girls for their looks, girls must be the same. Which is true to a certain extent, but girls can be turned onto a guy for a lot of other different reasons. For guys looks is mainly the only way they become attracted to a girl, at least with ones they haven't known for long.

[hateraid]

It seems to me that the dating priorities of females shift from being focused on looks and features in high school and early college to wealth, status and power from late college and on wards.

Women prioretize looks and money period. No matter what the age. They hate to admit it but they are way more superficial than men

[GimmeThat]

Just because you bring a lambo to school doesn't mean she will go out with you

However... If you pick her up in the Lambo and go out for drinks (because you're over 21 and matured) She will most likely start dating you (its the money!!!)

People enjoy utilizing their power differently. Perhaps some of the trickiest cunning kind of people, enjoys the power to forgive.

As the only mistake others have ever committed, was the mistake of following an illusion, regarding the nature of the power of love. Or an ill, unadvised, obsession.

[DirkNowitzki41]

As long as you aint Danny DeVito then you should be fine lol. If a girl actually rejects you for your height then you shouldn't even bother with them and just go on to the next one.

I'm 5'10 w/o shoes so I'm not short, but I've seen plenty of 5'5 dudes get girls no prob. All the girls I've been with have been around 5'5 - 5'6.. I'd find it weird to date someone taller than me. Just feels wrong...

[~primetime~]

Few years ago I read a study done on internet dating sites that was on CNN or something...the results showed that the first two things women look at are height and hair. If the guy's profile met their height requirement, and he wasn't bald, THEN they would actually read his profile.

[GimmeThat]

Few years ago I read a study done on internet dating sites that was on CNN or something...the results showed that the first two things women look at are height and hair. If the guy's profile met their height requirement, and he wasn't bald, THEN they would actually read his profile.

Until they reached the maximum amount of the miles they were willing to travel.

Maybe thats men still

[ButterFace]

Few years ago I read a study done on internet dating sites that was on CNN or something...the results showed that the first two things women look at are height and hair. If the guy's profile met their height requirement, and he wasn't bald, THEN they would actually read his profile.

Well, that is just for efficiency sake. The first thing guys look at online is pics too. So can't blame the women for that one.

[Mr. Jabbar]

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[DonDadda59]

Too many insecure muhphuckas spending their whole lives worrying about what some airheaded d*ck sucks think about them. Tall, short.. phuck's the difference when they're on their backs or on all fours? :confusedshrug:

[poido123]

I'm sure they don't cope with it well.


Can you imagine being looked over time and time again to the tall guy next to you, because of your height?


That would make you extremely bitter I'd imagine.


Lucky for me, I'm a healthy 6'2

[poido123]

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F.cking LOL



Spat my drink out :roll: :roll:

[Lebronxrings]

6'6 250 lbs here. I feel bad for yall who get no play. :oldlol:

[NBAplayoffs2001]

I dunno I'm short and it's never been an issue. I've kicked it with huge dudes, too. The only girls that I can tell it might be an issue are super tall ( like 5'10+). But I dunno, it's still gg for the most part.

I mean being short has its issues, esp if you're trying to be a bball player, but in life not really.

It's really in how you view yourself. I don't think of people by their heights so I am not like intimidated by them in a social setting. I can see if you were that you would be. But really what is a dude gonna do, fight me? If that's what he wants I guess that's what is gonna happen, but beyond that it means nathan.

Every girl says they like tall guys, but generally they mean they don't want guys shorter than them. Some girls like super tall guys, but I dunno... depends on the girl, I guess.

Like dude said plenty of people in history have been short and successful. It's actually funny to think of how short some of them are, but you don't think about people who have charisma as short.. you think of dudes who are like IM SO SHORT SHITTTT as short.

-Smak

I'm 5'9''-5'10'' in shoes. Probably barely 5'8'' without. Some girls are super selective and some tall girls I personally know who are around my height prefer guys who are 6'2'' to 6'4''. They claim they would date anyone but if you look at their dating history, it's all just tall guys. I personally prefer girls to be at least 5'2''. I don't mind girls who are slightly taller than me at 5'9''. 5'10''+ and I am not attracted to them. So I can see why it goes both ways.

[oarabbus]

Have you considered lifts?

lmao that's a terrible suggestion


Few years ago I read a study done on internet dating sites that was on CNN or something...the results showed that the first two things women look at are height and hair. If the guy's profile met their height requirement, and he wasn't bald, THEN they would actually read his profile.


Online dating is pretty fxcked since each girl has dozens and dozens of thirsty dudes messaging them, if they aren't even that attractive. And if you're short online dating is near pointless unless you have Tom Cruise aesthetics. Studies have shown that online dating is heavily skewed towards tall guys and white guys (especially tall white guys). If you're short online dating is mostly a waste of time, much better to get some a$$ in person

[JEFFERSON MONEY]

Too many insecure muhphuckas spending their whole lives worrying about what some airheaded d*ck sucks think about them. Tall, short.. phuck's the difference when they're on their backs or on all fours? :confusedshrug:

Possibly the only sensible mentality to have.