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Giaodollo
07-12-2015, 05:50 PM
I am trying to become a more well rounded man, as that is stated I am curious as what is considered a gentlemans hug? I am not purely speaking of what the general public will think of it, but also how the receiver of the hug feels.

Like I have for 20 years done that one arm hug, like I thought was gangsta. Maybe if I hadn't seen one of my boos for a while I could give them a one second two armer but I was always considerate of what peor around would say, like is that dude a man that loves men? Can't have that.

So I mean I could like give her that two armer at home and when we see in public I can go for that one armer but after awhile she'll realize I am doing it weirdly. Like she be are you ashamed of beast hugging me in public? Don't want that.

So what is the hug that I can do in public and in private? Because I don't think girls like the onesie.

So Also bonus Q, is it okay to one arm your guy friends?

9erempiree
07-12-2015, 05:52 PM
I always hug a chick with one arm. None of that two arm hug unless family. You also don't want to hug them so close where their titties are touching you. Let them put the titties on you and more often than not they do.

You don't want to come off as that guy that wants to cop a feel. Just do what I do with the one armed hug from the side.

I hug like the left and not the right
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ks8Ax7Ygz-E/S42un-VbK-I/AAAAAAAAAOE/uH483keB_2g/s400/hug.jpg

dunksby
07-12-2015, 05:54 PM
I am trying to become a more well rounded man, as that is stated I am curious as what is considered a gentlemans hug? I am not purely speaking of what the general public will think of it, but also how the receiver of the hug feels.

Like I have for 20 years done that one arm hug, like I thought was gangsta. Maybe if I hadn't seen one of my boos for a while I could give them a one second two armer but I was always considerate of what peor around would say, like is that dude a man that loves men? Can't have that.

So I mean I could like give her that two armer at home and when we see in public I can go for that one armer but after awhile she'll realize I am doing it weirdly. Like she be are you ashamed of beast hugging me in public? Don't want that.

So what is the hug that I can do in public and in private? Because I don't think girls like the onesie.

So Also bonus Q, is it okay to one arm your guy friends?
Unless you are disabled, you hug using both your arms. Who taught you your manners man?

red1
07-12-2015, 05:55 PM
I always hug a chick with one arm. None of that two arm hug unless family. You also don't want to hug them so close where their titties are touching you. Let them put the titties on you and more often than not they do.

You don't want to come off as that guy that wants to cop a feel. Just do what I do with the one armed hug from the side.

I hug like the left and not the right
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ks8Ax7Ygz-E/S42un-VbK-I/AAAAAAAAAOE/uH483keB_2g/s400/hug.jpg
:facepalm

ace23
07-12-2015, 06:01 PM
Both hands directly on his/her ass

ArbitraryWater
07-12-2015, 06:04 PM
Both hands directly on his/her ass

press yourself against her titties and grab her ass... doesnt matter if stranger, colleague, friend, gf, whatever..

outbreak
07-12-2015, 06:18 PM
press yourself against her titties and grab her ass... doesnt matter if stranger, colleague, friend, gf, whatever..
+1 if you are european, you just shrug it off, shake your head and say "you american's are so uptight"

ArbitraryWater
07-12-2015, 06:20 PM
+1 if you are european, you just shrug it off, shake your head and say "you american's are so uptight"

:oldlol:

TripleA
07-12-2015, 07:54 PM
I am trying to become a more well rounded man, as that is stated I am curious as what is considered a gentlemans hug? I am not purely speaking of what the general public will think of it, but also how the receiver of the hug feels.

Like I have for 20 years done that one arm hug, like I thought was gangsta. Maybe if I hadn't seen one of my boos for a while I could give them a one second two armer but I was always considerate of what peor around would say, like is that dude a man that loves men? Can't have that.

So I mean I could like give her that two armer at home and when we see in public I can go for that one armer but after awhile she'll realize I am doing it weirdly. Like she be are you ashamed of beast hugging me in public? Don't want that.

So what is the hug that I can do in public and in private? Because I don't think girls like the onesie.

So Also bonus Q, is it okay to one arm your guy friends?

dog are you somali

Giaodollo
07-12-2015, 08:00 PM
dog are you somali
I am the captain now:pimp: Why? You don't like my people?

Giaodollo
07-12-2015, 08:04 PM
I always hug a chick with one arm. None of that two arm hug unless family. You also don't want to hug them so close where their titties are touching you. Let them put the titties on you and more often than not they do.

You don't want to come off as that guy that wants to cop a feel. Just do what I do with the one armed hug from the side.

I hug like the left and not the right
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ks8Ax7Ygz-E/S42un-VbK-I/AAAAAAAAAOE/uH483keB_2g/s400/hug.jpg
hmm the girl seems happier at the onesie. You are a very smart fella, could you give me other life advice?

TripleA
07-12-2015, 08:14 PM
I am the captain now:pimp: Why? You don't like my people?
Naw, Somali people are dope.

Giaodollo
07-12-2015, 08:16 PM
Naw, Somali people are dope.

I am not somali though. I just like the movie.

RidonKs
07-13-2015, 01:35 AM
this is a very good thread

men you hug with a pat on the back
women you hug with a shoulder rub

in either case it is face to face. eye contact is important but even lacking it, you at least have to be facing the same direction. and if there is one thing we know, it's that any suggestions from 9erempiree come from how lonely he is.