Women reclaim the word fat. Being fat is actually empowering and healthy

[Nick Young]

http://oi57.tinypic.com/11ghdsk.jpg




In a world where larger women are all too often shamed for their bodies, asked prying questions about their health, and not allowed to feel beautiful, a photographer has set out to reclaim the word “fat.”

Body positive images by Brazilian photographer Miarana Godoy, 22, feature women posing in their underwear, painted with slogans protesting fat shaming including "My Body My Rules" and "Fat and Healthy".

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/women-reclaim-the-word-fat-in-empowering-me-body-positive-photo-series-10438546.html



These brave women should all be applauded for fighting against imperialist First Estate CIS gender white male patriarchal gender roles, and challenging unrealistic standards of beauty. In my country, Europe, women like these are considered beautiful and intelligent independent young women, just as all women are. :applause:

http://www.independent.co.uk/incoming/article10439792.ece/alternates/w460/plus-size-2.jpg
http://www.independent.co.uk/incoming/article10439794.ece/alternates/w460/plus-size-3.jpg
http://www.independent.co.uk/incoming/article10439795.ece/alternates/w460/plus-size-4.jpg
http://www.independent.co.uk/incoming/article10439796.ece/alternates/w460/plus-size-5.jpg


This is what true beauty looks like. #NotAllFatties

[BasedTom]

**** you

[ISHGoat]

Fat women SHOULD be shamed. In my country, Africa, we do not even have enough food to feed our family yet these obese women in your country are eating all the ****ing food.

[BasedTom]

Seriously, you are one sick ****

[DonD13]

in my country, USA, we're all "empowered and healthy"! :applause:

[Nick Young]

Fat women SHOULD be shamed. In my country, Africa, we do not even have enough food to feed our family yet these obese women in your country are eating all the ****ing food.
In my country, Europe, women rarely eat enough and recline enough in order to reach these 'curvy' sizes. All the same, these women are completely healthy and deserve to be called beautiful just as much as the next girl. The patriarchal male gaze instills imperialist oppressive values on women and especially minority and muslim women. It is our duty and job to fight sizism and fatism. Any man who does not find the women in these photographs sexy is a misogynistic First Estate imperialist and quite frankly, deserves to be thrown in prison.

http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.2090499.1422125401!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/article_635/holiday24f-2-web.jpg
https://lolcow.farm/pt/src/1430015373824.jpg
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/05/11/11/288C5D8200000578-3076396-Plus_size_stunner_Tess_Holliday_said_she_wants_to_ challenge_soci-a-1_1431338504958.jpg
This is what true beauty looks like.

[ArbitraryWater]

Fat women SHOULD be shamed. In my country, Africa, we do not even have enough food to feed our family yet these obese women in your country are eating all the ****ing food.

:roll:

[Nick Young]

http://www.independent.co.uk/incoming/article10439838.ece/alternates/w460/plus-size-6.jpg
#Curves

[imdaman99]

This is gross. These women need Islam, aka covering up. When you look like that, I approve of them converting and burka'in it up.

Who agrees?

[Velocirap31]

Type 2 diabetes isn't healthy or beautiful.

[BasedTom]

Kill them all

[ArbitraryWater]

They should kill all fat shits (like these women) and skinny shits (like Tom) IMMEDIATELY.

[Patrick Chewing]

http://i692.photobucket.com/albums/vv288/dwm82000/Vomit.gif

[Batz]

This is disgusting.

[RidonKs]

steep climb for a bunch of cows

[Pushxx]

They can do and say whatever they want to feel better about not being attractive to almost everyone and probably not living past age 65.

One life to live.

[Nick Young]

this is what Millennial beauty looks like, ISH. Get used to it.
https://pennycrisvogue.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/beth_ditto_naked.jpg


#realwomenhavecurves

[RidonKs]

i dunno none of em are particularly ugly. one of them is f@ckable, the others just need a few months to trim the bulge... at least they aren't disfigured. y'all some spoiled porn obsessed mfers is what it is.

[chosen_one6]

i dunno none of em are particularly ugly. one of them is f@ckable, the others just need a few months to trim the bulge... at least they aren't disfigured. y'all some spoiled porn obsessed mfers is what it is.

One is f*ckable? :roll:

We got a chubby chaser here.

[alenleomessi]

i dunno none of em are particularly ugly. one of them is f@ckable, the others just need a few months to trim the bulge... at least they aren't disfigured. y'all some spoiled porn obsessed mfers is what it is.
http://rs1089.pbsrc.com/albums/i360/justbelievebaby/gifs/ohyea.gif~c200

[RidonKs]

http://rs1089.pbsrc.com/albums/i360/justbelievebaby/gifs/ohyea.gif~c200
:lol

[RidonKs]

One is f*ckable? :roll:

We got a chubby chaser here.
no man you're not seeing the whole picture

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/05/11/11/288C5D8200000578-3076396-Plus_size_stunner_Tess_Holliday_said_she_wants_to_ challenge_soci-a-1_1431338504958.jpg

wiiiiiiide angle

[RidonKs]

i guess this is why we keep nick young around

[Bandito]

this is what Millennial beauty looks like, ISH. Get used to it.
https://pennycrisvogue.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/beth_ditto_naked.jpg


#realwomenhavecurves
Thats not curves. That a f*cking circle.

[knickballer]

"There's nothing wrong with being fat and it's perfectly healty. In fact, the skinny ones are the unhealthy ones as they have sicked views of body image."

No. Being mildy fat is actually very unhealthy and leads to wide range of health issues(including diseases). Going on a healthy/balanced diet will reduce signficant amount of diseases and you'll improve your chances of living much longer.

What's even worst is that we're supposed to agree that being fat/obese is actually normal and not harmful to the body.

PS, **** you for posting those photos. Not only do my coworkers see some NSFW material on my screen but they see obese women in their underwear. Can it get any worst?

[CavaliersFTW]

http://oi57.tinypic.com/11ghdsk.jpg



http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/women-reclaim-the-word-fat-in-empowering-me-body-positive-photo-series-10438546.html



These brave women should all be applauded for fighting against imperialist First Estate CIS gender white male patriarchal gender roles, and challenging unrealistic standards of beauty. In my country, Europe, women like these are considered beautiful and intelligent independent young women, just as all women are. :applause:

http://www.independent.co.uk/incoming/article10439792.ece/alternates/w460/plus-size-2.jpg
http://www.independent.co.uk/incoming/article10439794.ece/alternates/w460/plus-size-3.jpg
http://www.independent.co.uk/incoming/article10439795.ece/alternates/w460/plus-size-4.jpg
http://www.independent.co.uk/incoming/article10439796.ece/alternates/w460/plus-size-5.jpg


This is what true beauty looks like. #NotAllFatties
All I see are a bunch of stubborn gluttons that are at increased risk of heart disease and diabetes. Having a positive body image due to being naturally thicker is one thing. Denying the ill-effects of straight up obesity on ones self is another. Those aren't just thick women, those are obese women.

[CavaliersFTW]

this is what Millennial beauty looks like, ISH. Get used to it.
https://pennycrisvogue.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/beth_ditto_naked.jpg


#realwomenhavecurves
If by curves you mean rolls

[KNOW1EDGE]

Good they can have it, no one wants it, or them.

And that is a brutally disturbing photo.

Not sure why you would be proud of that but ok.

[CavaliersFTW]

Good they can have it, no one wants it, or them.

And that is a brutally disturbing photo.

Not sure why you would be proud of that but ok.
They literally just don't want to exercise or be healthy and they got so sick of hearing it they gave up and said "YOU KNOW WHAT IM HAPPY (a lie) HOW I AM, WHOS TO SAY THIS ISN'T BEAUTY HMM!? ILL SHOW YOU"

They're just a bunch of hens copping an attitude. It isn't sincere happiness with themselves. They're just sick of hearing people tell them they need to lose weight... which they do, even their doctors will be telling them they need to lose weight I can just see it now, they attack their doctors telling them they are "part of the problem" with this nation of fat discrimination :oldlol:

[Lensanity]

Fat women are the most unbearable creatures in humanity. They feel like even though they are fat disgusting pieces of dying shit they should be labeled as "beautiful" and all this other bullshit. I cheer whenever they die of obesity related causes.

[KNOW1EDGE]

They're just a bunch of hens copping an attitude. It isn't sincere happiness with themselves. They're just sick of hearing people tell them they need to lose weight... which they do, even their doctors will be telling them they need to lose weight I can just see it now, they attack their doctors telling them they are "part of the problem" with this nation of fat discrimination :oldlol:

This is essentially one of the biggest issues that liberal America has bestowed upon us.

The voice of reason has now become "intolerant"

You tell an overweight person they're unhealthy and your intolerant.

You tell Bruce Jenner he is a man who is mentally ill and your intolerant.

Using common sense has now literally become known as being intolerant :cheers:

[Dresta]

Look at all these raging misogynists on ISHs, trying to force their patriarchal and oppressive view of beauty down everyone's throats. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes...

#WeAreAllBeautiful

#It'sTheInsideThatMatters

[navy]

To be fair there is clear misogyny on ISH and the internet. Which is why there are very few active female posters on ish and internet in general is so male dominant. (I know a few females who pretend to me male on ish actually) Doesnt help that the internet is full of recluse virgins.

Anyways fat should not be celebrated. Healthy and non perfect body types? Sure.

[TheMan]

Going from the European Beauties and Latina Lover's thread to this abomination is literally a kick to the balls

[Jailblazers7]

I don't care if overweight people want to push back against the negativity by being happy with the way they look and the choices they've made...but they should be able to admit that they are less healthy than someone who takes care of their bodies. Fat and healthy is just some delusional BS.

BTW, I'm about to start the "Alcoholic and healthy" movement if anybody wants in.

[KNOW1EDGE]

Oh shut the fuhck up about misogyny, thats the bullsh1t I'm talking about.

Pointing out that a person who is overweight and unhealthy is not misogynistic.

Stating that in your opinion these ladies are unattractive is not misogynistic.

Cheese & Rice

[bdreason]

As long as they pay their own medical bills, they can be as fat as they want. Society shouldn't have to pay for their poor choices though.

[TheMan]

Can you imagine if this chick lost 30 lbs?
http://i659.photobucket.com/albums/uu320/jenny44416/woman.jpg

[niko]

Some of you on this board feel threatened by women. It's weird.

[KNOW1EDGE]

Some of you on this board feel threatened by women. It's weird.

Interesting statement. What makes you feel that way? Could you point out specific posts in which posters appear to "feel threatened by women"? -also, how do you know what other people are feeling? You could probably make a lot of money off that skill if you put it to use in the real world.

[Dresta]

Oh shut the fuhck up about misogyny, thats the bullsh1t I'm talking about.

Pointing out that a person who is overweight and unhealthy is not misogynistic.

Stating that in your opinion these ladies are unattractive is not misogynistic.

Cheese & Rice
Stop being such a misogynist brah - you're just upset that the patriarchal system is crumbling before your eyes, and that wimmin are now happy being their obese selves. This is not pathetic self-indulgence you know, it's emancipation!!


lol

[Dresta]

Interesting statement. What makes you feel that way? Could you point out specific posts in which posters appear to "feel threatened by women"? -also, how do you know what other people are feeling? You could probably make a lot of money off that skill if you put it to use in the real world.
Niko almost never makes a post when he isn't broadly judging a bunch of people as being moral cretin - it must make him feel better or something, like a form of self-help therapy.

[9erempiree]

Those women reclaiming the word fat because there lazy ass don't want to work out.

Kind of like those women that claim how nice their fat asses are. That is an excuse not to work out.

[KyrieTheFuture]

So you think a thread on a basketball message board filled with pages of morons saying, "Ew, disgusting, kill them, nobody wants them, they're horrible, and they have health problems" is a good thing?

That's awful, and you're fueling something with which you have a problem.

This stupid movement only exists because they're getting shit on by people.

Let them do their own thing, don't get bent out of shape, and they won't hold marches and ad campaigns and shit.
Because none of them are physically capable of marching

I don't think there's a movement of fat men who consider themselves hunks. We have no plus size male models.

[JEFFERSON MONEY]

You know that's overboard, but that's a retaliation from the 90s supermodel look. Naturally, pendulums swing in attitudes and there lies a compensates.

Both 5'11 115 on a few carrot sticks and a slice of pizza a day and this monstrosity you see above ought to be the forbidden extremes of a healthy, sound body. The first = missiong periods infertility, the second = reduced athleticism.

The food supply is sorely lacking in nutrients and minerals as well which is really really bad for surpressing hunger., These girls.. usually A morning of cereal and milk, a mid-morning frappuchino, a sandwich lunch, and a pasta dinner alone gets you at probably 400+g carbs with very little nutrients. Little nutrients = unoptimal hormonal profile. Add to the fact they stress about useless things and get sh!tty quality of sleep next to their phones and you've got a descending spiral of gluttony and sloth. Add the absolutely sh!tty disgusting quality TV in the form of nick/disney/bet and it gets worse Add the inherent vanity and consumer culture and even more nonsense. Add that they probably don't have husbands who legitimately love them and it gets worse. Add the oversexualization, the general despair, and the amount of trash and false information they receive about males on a daily basis and.. well you catch the drift.

This may sound white knight to some, but having spoken to many ladies who were previously overweight but are legit hawties right now, they have a similar mentality when it comes to males, but in a different sort of criticism. When they're fat they're in a depressing hell where nothing works and the world outside looks crazy (kind of like how Patrick Chewing thinks the world is stupid, but in the sense of projection rather than cold analysis... mainly because he's the biggest idiot on these boards age-wise) Therefore, It'd behoof one to express empathy.

Now let's change that up to a different diet... A more medieval one.

Morning: 2 eggs from the chicken coop, black coffee
Lunch: Some cooked turnip, churned butter from the heifer, a fresh smeltz
Dinner: Some grain and a bit a meat in a stew

That's what? 1500-2kcals, 100 pro, 200 car, 80 fatish?
And pletny f vitamisn and minerals?

Day: Composed of being on your feet and running errands. Some shopping and of course plenty of socializing. Squatting to collect chicken eggs, kneading bread into dough, carrying children around, lunging to milk cows, squatting more to garden flowers, taking a walk in the park, and lights out sleep at 9 AM. No f*cks given to social media, no f*cks given to tv, no f*cks given to delusional movies, no need for the gym even. Just nature and the wisdom that lies within your roots.


Had I been these ladies father, it would have been imperative to have given adequate attention, instilled dietary habits WAY before the monster inside was unleashed.

[ThePhantomCreep]

Does anybody really believe these women are happy being obese?

They'd wish away the excess fat in a heartbeat if they could.

[Jameerthefear]

Fat women are ****ing disgusting. Just how I PREDICTED. I said the feminism will keep pushing and pushing and if cucks like Prof. and others keep giving ground then they will walk all over you fools. You will see. Fat women are now debating FACTS.

[ace23]

I'd **** half of em

[SpecialQue]

I like girls with meat on them. Hell, I typically defend chicks that normally get called fat but are only overweight by a few pounds.

However, these girls, and this ad campaign, are fvcking gross.

[Nick Young]

"There's nothing wrong with being fat and it's perfectly healty. In fact, the skinny ones are the unhealthy ones as they have sicked views of body image."

No. Being mildy fat is actually very unhealthy and leads to wide range of health issues(including diseases). Going on a healthy/balanced diet will reduce signficant amount of diseases and you'll improve your chances of living much longer.

What's even worst is that we're supposed to agree that being fat/obese is actually normal and not harmful to the body.

PS, **** you for posting those photos. Not only do my coworkers see some NSFW material on my screen but they see obese women in their underwear. Can it get any worst?
These photos aren't NSFW. These women are beautiful and empowered and you should be proud that people now know you look at them.:cheers:

[TripleA]

I like girls with meat on them. Hell, I typically defend chicks that normally get called fat but are only overweight by a few pounds.

However, these girls, and this ad campaign, are fvcking gross.

Ya they are obese.

[Nick Young]

Look at all these raging misogynists on ISHs, trying to force their patriarchal and oppressive view of beauty down everyone's throats. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes...

#WeAreAllBeautiful

#It'sTheInsideThatMatters
This man understands. You must be from my country, Europe:cheers:

[Lensanity]

Fat people should have to pay extreme prices for health insurance. I'm talking about the most they can possibly afford. Thin, healthy people should get free healthcare.

If a fat person has a heart attack and can't afford the treatment then tough shit, let them die. Don't take money from us to support them.

[ThePhantomCreep]

Fat people should have to pay extreme prices for health insurance. I'm talking about the most they can possibly afford. Thin, healthy people should get free healthcare.

If a fat person has a heart attack and can't afford the treatment then tough shit, let them die. Don't take money from us to support them.

Sociopath's utopia right here.

[Jameerthefear]

Not caring what these chicks do isn't giving up ground in some imaginary war.

Get a life.
You're such a cuck you can't see the obvious.

[BasedTom]

Fat bitches living rent free in Jam's head.
this, these fatties are mentally deranged to the point where they attention whore for subsistence. Giving them that satisfaction only weighs down the rest of us.

In an ideal society, we'd use them for scientific research and then dispose of them in a discrete yet morally just manner

[sportsfan76]

What the f*Ck is this FUNKY FLABBY SH*T

[Jailblazers7]

This isn't all that different from the BS dadbod shut that was going around a while ago for men BTW in case people wanna make it about feminism.

[sportsfan76]

Those b*tches look FUNKY And DIRTY

[Jameerthefear]

This isn't all that different from the BS dadbod shut that was going around a while ago for men BTW in case people wanna make it about feminism.
Stop. This is about feminism.

[Jailblazers7]

Stop. This is about feminism.

We could be talking about hamburgers vs. hot dogs and it would be about feminism for you.

[Jameerthefear]

It's time to open your eyes if you don't think this directly deals with the feminist movement which discourages body shaming.

[sportsfan76]

I will say if the Cowboys win the SB this year I would my face right in the middle of all their saggy a$$ES:banana:

[Hawker]

This isn't all that different from the BS dadbod shut that was going around a while ago for men BTW in case people wanna make it about feminism.
The dadbod craze was brought about because a female wrote an article about it and the only reason why she liked it so she doesn't feel as insecure about her body. It wasn't brought about by some men's rights organization.

Didn't read article but if this is brought about by dudes saying obese chicks are attractive then void everything I said.:lol

[Jailblazers7]

The dadbod craze was brought about because a female wrote an article about it and the only reason why she liked it so she doesn't feel as insecure about her body. It wasn't brought about by some men's rights organization.

Didn't read article but if this is brought about by dudes saying obese chicks are attractive then void everything I said.:lol

No, the dadbod shit happened because fat people wanna feel good about being fat. Women want men to be ok with being fat and men want women to feel good about being fat because there are a lot of fat, lonely people. That's about it.

[9erempiree]

http://s17.postimg.org/758b0cnxb/fatties.png



http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/women-reclaim-the-word-fat-in-empowering-me-body-positive-photo-series-10438546.html



These ladies are :facepalm :facepalm

[Euroleague]

To be fair there is clear misogyny on ISH and the internet. Which is why there are very few active female posters on ish and internet in general is so male dominant. (I know a few females who pretend to me male on ish actually) Doesnt help that the internet is full of recluse virgins.

Anyways fat should not be celebrated. Healthy and non perfect body types? Sure.

Yeah well, you can go ahead and let them know that they are not fooling anyone.

[Euroleague]

Sociopath's utopia right here.

Psychopath actually.

[Lakers Legend#32]

No Fat Chicks Ever!

[UK2K]

Shoving your fat body into a thong and taking pictures to put on the internet isnt going to make people accept you.

Hate to break it to you.

[Hawker]

No, the dadbod shit happened because fat people wanna feel good about being fat. Women want men to be ok with being fat and men want women to feel good about being fat because there are a lot of fat, lonely people. That's about it.

I'll show you more evidence later but to be fair dadbod is like a balance. It's def not obese but not something I encourage either.

[NZStreetBaller]

Accepting being fat is so fukin beta. Its just a way out of hardwork and taking care of your body. Lazyness and abusing your the body god gifted you should not be applauded.

[Euroleague]

I'll show you more evidence later but to be fair dadbod is like a balance. It's def not obese but not something I encourage either.

What the **** is "dadbod"? I saw this term before. What the hell does that even mean anyway?

Like just a nice way of saying old guy's body or middle age guy's body or what?

[bballnoob1192]

you idiots arguing about beauty being in all different shapes. How about being healthy? that comes in one shape, and it aint the shapes in this thread.

[UK2K]

What the **** is "dadbod"? I saw this term before. What the hell does that even mean anyway?

Like just a nice way of saying old guy's body or middle age guy's body or what?

Being lumpy, undefined, with a beer belly.

[niko]

Niko almost never makes a post when he isn't broadly judging a bunch of people as being moral cretin - it must make him feel better or something, like a form of self-help therapy.

Yes, that's it exactly. The most impressive thing here is you said all of that in 30 words and not 3,000.

[imdaman99]

I don't condone this behavior by the overweight women, but I have never paid attention to them in the 1st place. I don't understand getting hot and bothered about things that will never affect you, unless you're worried about all the women in the world (or your SO) agreeing to this and fattening up :oldlol:

[Richie2k6]

I understand women's emotional differences, but I'm also a realist.

I have no problem with larger women feeling empowered and sexy in their own skin, and not feeling self-conscious to the fact that it causes them emotional and psychological issues...

I DO have a problem with society and fat people trying to make us think it's ok to be obese as long as you love yourself. There's nothing ok about it. It's not healthy and it's not something that should be ignored. "I'm 5"3 and 230lbs but I love myself and I am damn beautiful". Ok sure, if you see yourself as beautiful then I'm happy for you and I'm glad you've found inner peace with yourself. But that doesn't mean it's ok to have a blood pressure through the roof and clogged arteries that will kill you before you turn 50. Be sexy if that's how you feel, but don't be a focking idiot and ignore the fact that you're DESTROYING YOUR BODY AND PRETENDING IT'S ALRIGHT

That's the mentality that makes America fatter and fatter - accepting unhealthy lifestyles. Everyone's fine, nobody has to change, everyone can be who they want, love yourself, the world is made of marshmallows and gumdrops. Reality check. It's all good until your heart seizes up and you die because you're walking around with a 40% body fat because you're "sexy and don't need to change your body" because you're ok with it :rolleyes:

There's a fine line between being a little overweight but maintaining generally good health, and being MORBIDLY OBESE and on the verge of a dramatically shortened life. Focking idiots.

[JEFFERSON MONEY]

Taking care of your body solely because of a God that doesn't exist is beta to the f*cking max.

How is it beta?

[gigantes]

I understand women's emotional differences, but I'm also a realist.

I have no problem with larger women feeling empowered and sexy in their own skin, and not feeling self-conscious to the fact that it causes them emotional and psychological issues...

I DO have a problem with society and fat people trying to make us think it's ok to be obese as long as you love yourself. There's nothing ok about it. It's not healthy and it's not something that should be ignored. "I'm 5"3 and 230lbs but I love myself and I am damn beautiful". Ok sure, if you see yourself as beautiful then I'm happy for you and I'm glad you've found inner peace with yourself. But that doesn't mean it's ok to have a blood pressure through the roof and clogged arteries that will kill you before you turn 50. Be sexy if that's how you feel, but don't be a focking idiot and ignore the fact that you're DESTROYING YOUR BODY AND PRETENDING IT'S ALRIGHT

That's the mentality that makes America fatter and fatter - accepting unhealthy lifestyles. Everyone's fine, nobody has to change, everyone can be who they want, love yourself, the world is made of marshmallows and gumdrops. Reality check. It's all good until your heart seizes up and you die because you're walking around with a 40% body fat because you're "sexy and don't need to change your body" because you're ok with it :rolleyes:

There's a fine line between being a little overweight but maintaining generally good health, and being MORBIDLY OBESE and on the verge of a dramatically shortened life. Focking idiots.
mainly agree, not to mention morbid obesity on the USA's scale costs taxpayers and individuals a huge amount of money.

this is not like downs syndrome in which you have no real option but to accept it or not. nope... morbid obesity is in real terms a life-threatening illness with many potential cures.

and even if the obesity is caused by low self-esteem and/or an organic problem, chances are that's something that can be treated as well.

OTOH life is just a dream and you can pick whatever battles you want to...... glory in being a public nuisance...... and jump off a cliff like a bunch of others are doing, just because you find that empowering.

[Jailblazers7]

I'll show you more evidence later but to be fair dadbod is like a balance. It's def not obese but not something I encourage either.

It wasn't as extreme as OP but it was basically chubby dudes saying "women like chubby guys so we don't need to get in shape." Just some weak shit that people were saying to make themselves feel better. Def in the same vein as "I'm fat an beautiful."