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I've been in two relationships. The first one for three years, my mother hated. Had to end it. The second one, three years. Ended five months ago. My mother absolutely loved her.. Despite the absolute HORRIBLE fights we've had encountered she still loves this girl. Her relationship with her was great.. I mean amazing. We broke up. My ex went her way, I went mine. My birthday just passed (the 27th) and she hit me up at 12am. Didn't respond. She called at 6pm. Didn't answer. Now, keep in mind it's been five months. I'm trying to move on.
Fast forward to today... I brought home a new girl I've been seeing. She's very smart. She's certified in areas to do medical as a nurses assistant. 18 year old. And she's decent.. She's a "virgin".. I can careless about the virgin part. I made it official with her the 21st. Here's the issue:
Mom doesn't like her. I sensed it. She left, in my gut I'm just like fck. I actually really like this girl. My mom's ragging on me telling me I can do better. Like wtf. She was just joking and going off. "Oh you don't have any better choices", etc
I mean fck. I'm trying to move on here. Smart girl, head on her shoulders and decent girl. My mom's just fcked up. The reason why it's effecting me is because I have to obviously please my mother. I have this issue if she isn't happy then I can't be.
Anyone had this issue before? What did you do?
Tldr; brings home new girlfriend, mother rags on me that I can do better when in reality there's nothing really bad with the girl. She's like a 7/10, smart girl, decent and has a nice personality. (I know you guys are like wow 7/10 girl, but really I'm trying to move on here, obviously I know I can do better but I'm content where I am)
Edit: Now I'm here feeling like absolute shit and I'm back to square one deciding if I should let this good girl go.
Im so nba'd out
09-30-2015, 05:52 PM
seems like your mom wants to fck u bro....make it happen and report back to us with the details
seems like your mom wants to fck u bro....make it happen and report back to us with the details
Be serious. Serious threads require serious responses. There's a shit load of other threads we can respond like this. I'm obviously flustered atm.
Nick Young
09-30-2015, 05:55 PM
Ur mom is jelly that you dating a younger girl and not your old nearly used up girlfriend. Your mom liked your old girlfriend because she could relate to her for being old.
GJ on you being 27 and dating an 18 year old virgin. Those are the rarest kinds of girl in America right now.
Do not let your mom's insecurity hold you back from doing what you do.
You are 27. Don't let your mom have any influence on your love life. You did nothing wrong but date a girl with strong values who is still in the prime peak of her hotness as an 18 year old.
YOUR MOM IS JELLY BECAUSE THE GIRL IS 18 AND YOUR MOM IS OLD. Women have no logic or rationality. Do not put too much thought in to this, or let your mom make you feel bad about yourself.
bigkingsfan
09-30-2015, 05:58 PM
Pimp slap your mom and move on with your life.
Ur mom is jelly that you dating a younger girl and not your old nearly used up girlfriend. Your mom liked your old girlfriend because she could relate to her for being old.
GJ on you being 27 and dating an 18 year old virgin. Those are the rarest kinds of girl in America right now.
Do not let your mom's insecurity hold you back from doing what you do.
No no, my birthday was the 27th, I turned 23 lol
And idk whats her issue. I'm here like wow this girl doesn't look that bad, she's skinny, she's actually a decent fcking NORMAL girl. She's also not obsessive over me and caves in to fcking me like every other girl does. I see that and I like that quality. Even though I sucked her tits and dry humped the living shit out of her with blue balls enough to jizz a waterfall I'm proud of this decision.
But my mom really killed my entire happiness. Just when I was recovering. I even lost 20-30lbs from stress the past five months I look like shit.
Nick Young
09-30-2015, 06:05 PM
Your mom feels miserable about her self and is probably insecure about aging.
Do not let a menopausal, jealous, negative, insecure woman drag you down, even if it's your mom.
If your mom was feeling good about herself in this current time, she would not try to make her own son feel guilty and miserable for finding a nice new girlfriend.
Your mom is insecure and so is dragging you down to try to make herself feel better.
Yes it sucks when your own parents act like this, but don't let it hold you back. You can't control how your mom acts or feels about things, but you can control if you let her negativity affect you.
BasedTom
09-30-2015, 06:10 PM
damn you're 27? thought you were 20 from your picture.
hooking up with 18 year olds...more power to you m8
BasedTom
09-30-2015, 06:16 PM
ah just saw now, happy birthday anyway dude
i dont have much personal experience since i'm not that close to my parents where i feel the need to present friends and girls to them...but my m8 was in your position and got the girl knocked up...seems very awkward to deal with
good luck anyway man :cheers:
JEFFERSON MONEY
09-30-2015, 06:32 PM
Let's play a game. Nick revealed part of the picture already.
But for those who know women (looking at you Kaspah)
What does Draz's mom see (or not see) in his current squeeze that Draz has not acknowledged yet? And why would a previous girl with borderline personality disorder be a better catch in his mom's eyes?
Derka
09-30-2015, 06:42 PM
No. My girl and I succeeded wildly in charming the f*ck out of each other's parents. We even managed to get both sets together once so (so far, schedules are a bitch) and they hit it off swimmingly.
Pretty lucky and pretty awesome.
As to your situation...sucks, bro. Sounds like you gotta be firm with your moms on this one though if you really like this girl the way you say you do.
At any given point I can say fck the girl and move on (after I fck of course) but, I feel like my mother knows how alone I've been and saddened by the end of my relationship before that I thought she'd be happy to see someone make me happy. But, instead she's selfish and wants the perfect girl she thinks I deserve.
She doesn't have any remorse to how I'd feel. I mean.. If the girls making your son happy in a time where you know he isn't why bash her so bad? At least say it nicer.
Now I'm here, talking to her and I'm like fck. This girls going to go nuts if I leave her after taking her virginity and on top of that I have to find another girl.
Nick Young
09-30-2015, 06:57 PM
At any given point I can say fck the girl and move on (after I fck of course) but, I feel like my mother knows how alone I've been and saddened by the end of my relationship before that I thought she'd be happy to see someone make me happy. But, instead she's selfish and wants the perfect girl she thinks I deserve.
She doesn't have any remorse to how I'd feel. I mean.. If the girls making your son happy in a time where you know he isn't why bash her so bad? At least way it nicer.
Now I'm here, talking to her and I'm like fck. This girls going to go nuts if I leave her after taking her virginity and on top of that I have to find another girl.
Your mom is a black hole of emotion and likely suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder, just like your old girlfriend probably did. J$ is right. Do not let these emotional vampires make you feel bad for finding success and becoming happy.
Read this and see if you relate to any of it:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/resolution-not-conflict/201210/when-your-mother-has-borderline-personality
Normal moms don't try to make their kids feel guilty and sad when their kid is happy. She is trying to make things all about her. Don't fall in to her bullshit. If you still live at home, try to move out ASAP.
Should I let the girl go? The girl told me when we chilled she doesn't regret anything. And I see that as a way to take whatever I want for the next month or so and find a way to bounce.
Or should I let someone else take her and hopefully she finds someone who can truly love and accept her in?
fsvr54
09-30-2015, 07:02 PM
Why do you care about what your mom thinks about your girlfriend?
Nick Young
09-30-2015, 07:02 PM
Should I let the girl go? The girl told me when we chilled she doesn't regret anything. And I see that as a way to take whatever I want for the next month or so and find a way to bounce.
Or should I let someone else take her and hopefully she finds someone who can truly love and accept her in?
Hell no. You're 23 and a grown ass man. Your mom is mentally unhealthy and jelly. Ignore your mom's bullshit and continue to date who you want to.
That's someone's daughter for Christ sakes. While taking out food for her I felt my mother's drift that she disliked her. Everything's just so awkward right now. I'll have a talk with my mom tomorrow and see exactly what she expects from a female. Because if her objective is to compete with my ex, what happiness do I get out of that. I can bring any beautiful girl in who's attractive but at what point am I happy to say I'm satisfied.
I just wanted to see the pov of everyone's thoughts here.
Like I said, I can easily replace the girl. But who's really choosing the female? Just bs.
BasedTom
09-30-2015, 07:14 PM
honestly bro, you don't need your parent's approval
she just has to see her with you and maybe interact with her for dinner here and there...You're the one dealing with her on a day to day basis
maybe it's cultural differences, but your train of thought seems really weird to me
JEFFERSON MONEY
09-30-2015, 07:15 PM
honestly bro, you don't need your parent's approval
she just has to see her with you and maybe interact with her for dinner here and there...You're the one dealing with her on a day to day basis
maybe it's cultural differences, but your train of thought seems really weird to me
He's from Guyana, which is often linked to India.
In India, there is a huge significance in the relationship between a Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law
Nick Young
09-30-2015, 07:19 PM
That's someone's daughter for Christ sakes. While taking out food for her I felt my mother's drift that she disliked her. Everything's just so awkward right now. I'll have a talk with my mom tomorrow and see exactly what she expects from a female. Because if her objective is to compete with my ex, what happiness do I get out of that. I can bring any beautiful girl in who's attractive but at what point am I happy to say I'm satisfied.
I just wanted to see the pov of everyone's thoughts here.
Like I said, I can easily replace the girl. But who's really choosing the female? Just bs.
Going by that logic, your mom will continue to **** block you for the rest of yur life until you get with a tubby wrinklebag who doesn't make your mom jelly. Don't back down now, otherwise you'll be backing down for the rest of your life. Don't let your mom control where your dick goes, you're 23. Christ.
Also, they met ONE TIME. Give them atleast like 7 times meeting. if your mom continues to be a bitch and it matters that much to you, do what you want, but maybe your borderline mama will change her mind in a few weeks, who knows.
Yeah. I understand that if I back down it'll only continue to feed the power she believes she has in the females I bring in and out. The REAL reason behind this is definitely with the personality. My ex was crazy outgoing and my mom loved that from day one. This girl was crazy sick and sounded like shit. Could barely get a word off or conversate. Here's a pic of her for reference
http://i59.tinypic.com/zu1768.jpg
I just don't see what's so bad about her.. My mom's a fcking btch for disrespecting the girl like that. The nerve to be that cruel
GIF REACTION
09-30-2015, 07:27 PM
draz the skinny homie taco swag hustler pretty boy snap chat snap back pouter youtube prankster oh yeah baby BABY
Nick Young
09-30-2015, 07:28 PM
I will state this the final time then will peace out. Your mom is jelly and also insecure about her getting old and your mom is mentally unwell. This new girl you're dating is happy and positive and in the prime of her youth and hot. No parent who is happy with themselves will try to guilt their kid in to feeling miserable when he is happy and in love with a nice new girl
Why can't you see through her obvious manipulation tactics? Stop letting her play you like a puppet.
WOMEN HAVE NO SENSE OF LOGIC. THEY OPERATE ON EMOTIONS. Even though your mom doesn't want to phuck you, and it makes zero logical sense, YOUR MOM IS JEALOUS OF THIS YOUNG HOT GIRL THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY.
Her solution is to drag her own son down and try to make him think that this new hot young girlfriend of his sucks.
Don't be a submissive bitch. You are a grown ass man. Don't let your mom dictate where you put your dick!
The best way to combat your mom's bullshit is to completely ignore it and not let her see that it makes you feel bad. She will stop these bullshit tactics if she sees they don't work.
GIF REACTION
09-30-2015, 07:29 PM
wow nick tell me about your stories of bullshit with women bro!
I will state this the final time then will peace out. Your mom is jelly and also insecure about her getting old and mentally unwell. This new girl you're dating is happy and positive and in the prime of her youth and hot.
WOMEN HAVE NO SENSE OF LOGIC. THEY OPERATE ON EMOTIONS. Even though your mom doesn't want to phuck you, and it makes zero logical sense, YOUR MOM IS JEALOUS OF THIS YOUNG HOT GIRL THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY.
Her solution is to drag her own son down and try to make him think that this new hot young girlfriend of his sucks.
Don't be a submissive bitch. You are a grown ass man. Don't let your mom dictate where you put your dick!
The best way to combat your mom's bullshit is to completely ignore it and not let her see that it makes you feel bad. She will stop these bullshit tactics if she sees they don't work.
Sounds like the harsh truth. I accept your criticism. And I appreciate it too.. Because sad enough, she's bringing me down with whatever she feels she has to empower me and overrule what makes me happy. I'm going to stick to my guns and bring this girl around more. She needs to have a dose of her medicine and understand her two cents, are literally two cents to me.
Btw the girl isn't ugly right? She's fairly cute in MY EYES. My mom says she doesn't know what I SEE in her. She even went as low as telling me I should go back with two former girls I was fcking around with that I'd be better off..
Derka
09-30-2015, 07:32 PM
Total cutie pie. Look at those dimples.
nathanjizzle
09-30-2015, 07:33 PM
move out of your moms house.
Nick Young
09-30-2015, 07:34 PM
wow nick tell me about your stories of bullshit with women bro!
Let's just say I dated two Borderline Personality Disorder bitches in a row-and then realized WTF is wrong with me that I keep going after these psychos? I didn't know what BPD was but then I read about it and everything clicked, and I began to recognize the symptoms a mile away. 3 years ago I did loads of meditating and yoga and reading and shit and came to peace with myself, I also analyzed the red flags I saw in my old girlfriends and how I should have not put up with so much shit from women and just ditch them when they act like *****.
After that, I started laying down the law with girls and staying away from even slight red flags and also stopped tolerating any bullshit from them and calling them out and not giving them second chances when they act like ***** for no reason. I have gained the ability to sniff out crazy and narcissism from a mile away, and I avoid it like the plague. This has lead to drastic improvement in my life and relationships with the ladiez.
move out of your moms house.
Dude. Even to that extent, I'd have to bring a girl home for them to meet regardless. My dad's a cool fcking guy. He doesn't give a fck who I'm with. He never said shit. My mom however feels the need to have a say in everything.
I understand she wants the best for her son like every mother but dam.. You guys should see how fcked up she is. My first ex loved me enough to lay on train tracks and I left her because my mom thought I could of done better. (Also took her virginity) thank GOD that girl found someone who appreciates and loves her more than anything in the world because I'd feel like shit if she got any less than that.
GIF REACTION
09-30-2015, 07:39 PM
But nick! Isn't everybody narcissistic at least some of the time to an extent?
Let's just say I dated two Borderline Personality Disorder bitches in a row-and then realized WTF is wrong with me that I keep going after these psychos? I didn't know what BPD was but then I read about it and everything clicked, and I began to recognize the symptoms a mile away. 3 years ago I did loads of meditating and yoga and reading and shit and came to peace with myself, I also analyzed the red flags I saw in my old girlfriends and how I should have not put up with so much shit from women and just ditch them when they act like *****.
After that, I started laying down the law with girls and staying away from even slight red flags and also stopped tolerating any bullshit from them and calling them out and not giving them second chances when they act like ***** for no reason. I have gained the ability to sniff out crazy and narcissism from a mile away, and I avoid it like the plague. This has lead to drastic improvement in my life and relationships with the ladiez.
I'm on the same boat. I can tell if a girls crazy instantly. I don't give second chances and I'm strict on everything. If I see something I don't like I make it blatant. I also leave without looking back.
THATS why I'm here. Because this girl is fcking NORMAL. She isn't obsessing over me. The small flirty and I miss you after extreme making out and shit she doesn't over do it like other girls do. She isn't pheening for me (Yet) but I like that she's normal. I NEED normal. I can't deal with obsessive. Just as I said that this girl just messaged me who's deeply obsessed.
OH SHIT. Would also like to mention this girl, after hanging out with her the first time I tossed her aside for another girl. To which she knew about. And she just messaged me first saying that I could of told her but she expected that because it normally happens to her. One week later I left the girl to continue onto her because I realized how absolutely normal she was.
nathanjizzle
09-30-2015, 08:02 PM
Dude. Even to that extent, I'd have to bring a girl home for them to meet regardless. My dad's a cool fcking guy. He doesn't give a fck who I'm with. He never said shit. My mom however feels the need to have a say in everything.
I understand she wants the best for her son like every mother but dam.. You guys should see how fcked up she is. My first ex loved me enough to lay on train tracks and I left her because my mom thought I could of done better. (Also took her virginity) thank GOD that girl found someone who appreciates and loves her more than anything in the world because I'd feel like shit if she got any less than that.
your moms opinion wont matter when you move out and live on your own. She needs to learn how to accept the girl that you will choose to be with. otherwise, you would just be enabling her poor attitude. thats all i have to say, peace.
GIF REACTION
09-30-2015, 08:04 PM
Nathan what's good my bro!
your moms opinion wont matter when you move out and live on your own. She needs to learn how to accept the girl that you will choose to be with. otherwise, you would just be enabling her poor attitude. thats all i have to say, peace.
Got ya. I'll have a serious talk with her. Thanks bros. I'm trying not to make it awkward with this girl. I just feel differently about her and I shouldn't. I'm going to get high and process this tomorrow.
Nick Young
09-30-2015, 08:12 PM
But nick! Isn't everybody narcissistic at least some of the time to an extent?
No, but the current generation is currently being raised to be.
http://i58.tinypic.com/rcila8.png
Yah fck that. My cousin just told me my mom's the one holding onto my ex not me. She needs to realize she's gone. This girls literally going places. I refuse to choose a girl who's prettier or highly attractive without a brain or motives in life.
imdaman99
09-30-2015, 08:30 PM
You think it's because she's Desi? Are you dominican or PR? I think you said your dad is chill, but I could see a mother having problems with you being with an Indian girl. I am going by what I think, it doesn't have to be the case.
Brown women are smart, as an 18 year old she should be a virgin especially since they are conservative at that age. She is 18, she will fall head over heels in in love with you, it's coming best believe it.
She is already ready to be a nurse's assistant? That's pretty cool, but she is going to school too right? I don't think all the negative things that NickYoung is saying about your mom, but maybe she has issues with you being with someone who will be smarter than her. I don't really know. Best of luck though, she's cute :cheers:
NBAplayoffs2001
09-30-2015, 08:35 PM
You think it's because she's Desi? Are you dominican or PR? I think you said your dad is chill, but I could see a mother having problems with you being with an Indian girl. I am going by what I think, it doesn't have to be the case.
Brown women are smart, as an 18 year old she should be a virgin especially since they are conservative at that age. She is 18, she will fall head over heels in in love with you, it's coming best believe it.
She is already ready to be a nurse's assistant? That's pretty cool, but she is going to school too right? I don't think all the negative things that NickYoung is saying about your mom, but maybe she has issues with you being with someone who will be smarter than her. I don't really know. Best of luck though, she's cute :cheers:
Brown girls vary. I've met a share of wild ones (in the Queens/ west LI area) but for the most part, they are conservative. Most parents don't let their brown kids, sons or daughters, date until they're out of college or already on a good career path. Not all brown parents are like that but some are.
You think it's because she's Desi? Are you dominican or PR? I think you said your dad is chill, but I could see a mother having problems with you being with an Indian girl. I am going by what I think, it doesn't have to be the case.
Brown women are smart, as an 18 year old she should be a virgin especially since they are conservative at that age. She is 18, she will fall head over heels in in love with you, it's coming best believe it.
She is already ready to be a nurse's assistant? That's pretty cool, but she is going to school too right? I don't think all the negative things that NickYoung is saying about your mom, but maybe she has issues with you being with someone who will be smarter than her. I don't really know. Best of luck though, she's cute :cheers:
Thanks. We're from the same ethnic background. She was born here. Her parents are from Guyana like my family. She's a Medical assistant/phlebotomist/ECG technician
Basically in HS she had the opportunity to take the test if they scored great and she was qualified, therefore she took it and passed. She can draw blood and all that bs. She's also majoring in premed and wants to be a neurosurgeon..
My mom's just hanging on to the past. She's literally getting involved in the search for the perfect girl simply by denying girls left and right. I don't think she's over my ex. She claims to be. She claims to dislike her but her hearts still with her and how close she was. I just think it's all in HER head. My ex and her were practically best of friends. And this, is why she's the way she is. Insane.
Euroleague
09-30-2015, 09:10 PM
Wait a second, she's 18 and she's a virgin? Is that a typo, or did I read that wrong?
Euroleague
09-30-2015, 09:15 PM
Let's just say I dated two Borderline Personality Disorder bitches in a row-and then realized WTF is wrong with me that I keep going after these psychos? I didn't know what BPD was but then I read about it and everything clicked, and I began to recognize the symptoms a mile away. 3 years ago I did loads of meditating and yoga and reading and shit and came to peace with myself, I also analyzed the red flags I saw in my old girlfriends and how I should have not put up with so much shit from women and just ditch them when they act like *****.
After that, I started laying down the law with girls and staying away from even slight red flags and also stopped tolerating any bullshit from them and calling them out and not giving them second chances when they act like ***** for no reason. I have gained the ability to sniff out crazy and narcissism from a mile away, and I avoid it like the plague. This has lead to drastic improvement in my life and relationships with the ladiez.
Classic narcissistic personality disorder.
dkmwise
09-30-2015, 11:25 PM
No idea why your mother cares and certainly no idea why you care that your mother cares.
You're just starting to date this chick, why should your mother have any opinion at all, this makes no sense to me. I can see if you told your mom you were asking her to marry you and she saw that the chick treated you poorly or something, maybe voice your opinion there, but this is crazy.
And why do you care what your mother thinks about who you are dating? That is not normal behavior. Not trying to be rude or anything, just trying to make you realize, that is not normal, on either end. You are 23 and just casually dating, what your mother thinks about the girl should be the least of your concerns.
BlakFrankWhite
10-01-2015, 06:55 AM
In 2011...I got rejected by my gf's parents...her father was really blunt...I was about to smack to shit outta his mouth..but my gf begged me to leave.
And being the dig bick alpha lord...I told my friend (who's brother is a big time leader in the Crips gang) to scare them...so 5 of his bro's associates gather outside his house and fire 50 shots into the air :lol
I was 16 at the time and a maniac...now, fapping and smoking weed have helped become a good man of society.
Someday, I'll write about how much I used those Crips thugs in streetfights...most helpful nikkas on the planet..
TheMan
10-01-2015, 07:22 AM
My dad once told me that all women are annoying af, so get the prettiest one that you can so at least it'll be worth it. You'll be miserable sooner or later, that's just the way it is, young'un.
That's my best advice I can give...if your mom don't like your choice, well she's just going to have to deal with it.
ALBballer
10-01-2015, 09:21 AM
You're 23 years old. Be a man and do what you want.
The girl was sick, could barely get a word out and conversation with my mom. My mom smelled her fear and it was the girls first time meeting a boyfriends parent. She got shook. So she didn't get a fair chance. Which is why I'll bring her around still. The girl is honestly quiet in person even to me but over text she isn't and she isn't a phone person either. So it's a lose lose situation for her.
I just wanted to share this experience and see what you guys felt, if you've had any similar experiences and if you were ever in a similar circumstance yourself with a girlfriends parent.
I can easily leave this girl, after the heartache because she's feeling me. But the main issue here is knowing my moms getting her input in a little too much and she's very straight foward with it
Dbrog
10-01-2015, 10:40 AM
Btw the girl isn't ugly right? She's fairly cute in MY EYES. My mom says she doesn't know what I SEE in her. She even went as low as telling me I should go back with two former girls I was fcking around with that I'd be better off..
Those lips tho man...rockin. Anyway, your comment strikes me as odd for the same reason as this mom BS. You said in your original post "I actually really like this girl," and yet you are finding all these reasons to not be with her. You need to understand that you really like her for a reason and it's a good reason. That shit is special man and no one else has the right to tell you how to be happy in your life. At the end of the day, your happiness is the only thing that matters. If you are happy, you can be the son, boyfriend, and worker that you want to be. It brings everyone else up and if it doesn't, then that's on them. You are not responsible for their happiness...
cheers :cheers:
Good shit. Good responses. I'll leave this thread open to future scenarios. I'll make my decision based on the relationship itself with the girl and leave what my mother has to say aside. I'll continue to see her and invite her over. At most I'll tell her in a pleasurable way that a serious relationship isn't for me if I had to break it off due to my own specific reasons rather than my mother's.
Good shit boys. Sometimes we need to actually have a real discussion.. Beyond the spam and trolling there is a time we should get together and be real. I haven't been here in about 6 months because I was heavily stressed. I'm just trying to recover.
lil jahlil
10-01-2015, 11:38 AM
Yes, and my parents turned out to be right.
Update: Past few days the girl tried getting me jealous with her best friend. Literally. Just got fed up. She also didn't know how to behave in a relationship. Never called me or talked otp. Once a week seen each other. Just had to end it. She's a crazy girl after the break up. The psycho came out of her. I got a death threat text from I have no clue who. Perhaps her best friend (Girl).
So in the end, mother knew best. I could of ****ed her any time. But I realized taking her virginity meant more to her than it meant to me. I've fcked enough girls to let one go, good girl at the end of the day who deserves to be fcked. Fck. Now I wanna fck her. I'll try to fck her one day again perhaps.
That is all. Thanks.
imdaman99
10-03-2015, 09:51 PM
:wtf: :wtf: :wtf: That was a quick change of heart, man. We here for you though. At least you found out quick how crazy she was.
Tune in for the bump in 2 days how you're at her house spending the night :oldlol:
KB8tHeGrEaT
10-03-2015, 09:55 PM
Update: Past few days the girl tried getting me jealous with her best friend. Literally. Just got fed up. She also didn't know how to behave in a relationship. Never called me or talked otp. Once a week seen each other. Just had to end it. She's a crazy girl after the break up. The psycho came out of her. I got a death threat text from I have no clue who. Perhaps her best friend (Girl).
So in the end, mother knew best. I could of ****ed her any time. But I realized taking her virginity meant more to her than it meant to me. I've fcked enough girls to let one go, good girl at the end of the day who deserves to be fcked. Fck. Now I wanna fck her. I'll try to fck her one day again perhaps.
That is all. Thanks.
:applause: :yaohappy:
LOL nah. She's crazy dude. I'll show you guys the text. It could of been her sending me this too as a "third person"
http://i62.tinypic.com/qn0hp2.jpg
http://i60.tinypic.com/vy0dgj.jpg
And a lot more signs she's crazy.. It was only two weeks being together seriously. Fcking crazy shit
warriorfan
10-03-2015, 09:58 PM
should of hit it :no:
Well I still can but I'll risk being gunned down, gutted and what not. So.. At this point do I really want too :/
Kinda hurt me though.. The ONE girl I thought was completely normal turned out to be ridiculously abnormal. My fcking GOD do I pick them. Every Pisces girl I know I turn psycho. Shes all over social media just acting like everything's great. Lol. Wtf. I sucked her tits and had intense make out humping sessions. I'm sure I can still hit it after it cools down.
Her friends were jealous asf though... She didn't understand that.
The saddest part is.. That could of been her sending me this.. Maybe she has a split personality. HOLY **** she could of actually murdered me like that show whats it called where the wives kill their husbands?
This btch was in my house!! Now I'm scared :(
stalkerforlife
10-03-2015, 10:26 PM
Move out of your mom's house.
Immediately.
JEFFERSON MONEY
10-03-2015, 10:42 PM
If girls like that put .5% of the effort in building civilization as they do in spitting venom out of their tongues, they might just be human beings.
Yah it's crazy. If you guys see in some of my posts I bragged about how normal she is. She here acting completely abnormal all over social media.
Man. I thought I seen it all. Now I'm completely afraid of woman. Dude. She was in my house. I offered her food. I invited her in to a place where she should feel accepted and honored. Now to know that could be her sending and saying brutal shit like that.
Just disgusting. What makes me believes it could be her is the ordinary behavior she's trying to portray that she isn't hurt. Maaaann I'm flustered and confused.
She looks psycho too :( I just thought she was innocent, couldn't hurt a fly.
Report that to the cops. That's illegal as hell.
Yeah.. I told them I would. They stopped responding. It was exactly when I told her to just go separate ways I got those messages. No one else has my number considering I give outside girls a texting app.
The gunning down in public.. That really really fcked me up in the head. I mean seriously?
GimmeThat
10-03-2015, 11:17 PM
well, here's 'probably' the truth
either your parents had gone through a divorce so that they still care
or they go through enough divorces/remains married and really don't care
or you know, parents are losing money and not balancing their budget
in that case, rejection just comes easy
How long would it take them to find out? And what do I do? Just go to the station and show them the texts? I don't want my family knowing.. Jesus Christ what the fck did I get myself into.
waseem780
10-03-2015, 11:39 PM
lmao dont snitch, shes just pissed
imdaman99
10-03-2015, 11:47 PM
That's another thing with brown women, they are bipolar as F when it comes to relationships. If they are happy, they are on cloud 9 and in love and will do ANYTHING even drive 100 miles in the middle of the night to see you...but when there are problems, it's WOE IS ME...why can't he love me like I love him, life is so hard and I can't believe I got dealt this shitty hand. They really have a hard time being normal cool, as in not too overly attached or not too upset/depressed.
I don't know if I would report that. She is clearly pissed and venting. I'm thinking you cutting her off cold was rough. What exactly were you expecting out of an 18 year old girl? She made you jealous? They love their games.
That's another thing with brown women, they are bipolar as F when it comes to relationships. If they are happy, they are on cloud 9 and in love and will do ANYTHING even drive 100 miles in the middle of the night to see you...but when there are problems, it's WOE IS ME...why can't he love me like I love him, life is so hard and I can't believe I got dealt this shitty hand. They really have a hard time being normal cool, as in not too overly attached or not too upset/depressed.
I don't know if I would report that. She is clearly pissed and venting. I'm thinking you cutting her off cold was rough. What exactly were you expecting out of an 18 year old girl? She made you jealous? They love their games.
She didn't make me jealous but we were in a group chat and for the past few days the majority of their discussion would be about cute guys in their class and just speak in codes. I didn't say anything and she would insist somethings wrong. I even pointed out her being paranoid suggested she's on a guilty mind. I then told her in a nice way but very informative while at it, that she wasn't doing a good job, etc. And that I found it pretty disrespectful that her discussions didn't have any taste.
I continued on with her not being experienced and while I was at it suggested being experienced had nothing to do with at least calling me. We would go days without talking. And it was weird because girls I date call every few hours and shit or maintain conversations.
It was basic shit. She took it the complete opposite way, saying she didn't deserve all of this. Here's part of her response to which I knew she was lying because her brother joked in her comments "Did he break up with you already" in a picture she posted about in the caption "niggasz ain't shit"
http://i57.tinypic.com/11ru4c2.png
Supposedly her brother saw her and all this bs. She has two brothers. So if one of the brothers didn't see her in that position, then who texted me? This makes me to believe she has a split personality and she's bs'ing about throwing a fit, etc. Which make me to believe she could also be behind that annon text.
Tldr; pointed out her paranoia was built off of a guilty mind because she'd constant speak in codes and try to get me jealous in a group chat with her best friend. I told her it did nothing but suggest to me that shes immature. Then it went down hill but I continued to keep my posture respectfully.
GIF REACTION
10-04-2015, 12:07 AM
In before OP gets shot up by the 5th Street Latin Kings
What if Amrita never existed? What if all of this existed in my head? What if God was one of us?
lilojmayo
10-04-2015, 12:54 AM
this is like classic late 2000's thread. good shyt Draz :rockon:
S/O to my niggggas who be wifing bytches . MAKE SURE GET A PRE-NUP! ( Drake
GIF REACTION
10-04-2015, 12:56 AM
The Legendary Lilojmayo. Sexiest man on ISH.
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Abs more defined than words in the dictionary
lilojmayo
10-04-2015, 04:38 AM
The Legendary Lilojmayo. Sexiest man on ISH.
Nigg got more abs than the guy from the bowflex commercial
I stay lurking :pimp: Once an ISHiot always an ISHiot
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yeah draz, you're gonna have to get in contact with knicks
he's a strong man, he'll protect you
Aren't you in NY too?
then move out. you are a man, do your own thing
Move out of your mom's house.
Immediately.
wow, is this actually happening? you posting something that isn't absolute shit? :applause:
Jameerthefear
10-04-2015, 08:18 PM
Someone f*cking with you? Give me every single nude she has ever sent you. I will expose her to her family, her brothers, her job, and anyone she has ever ****ing met. NO ONE ****ING MESSES WITH DRAZ ON MY WATCH. PERIOD.
Jameerthefear
10-04-2015, 08:21 PM
I will ruin her entire career. She will never **** with you again and will not be able to find who I am to send her gangbangers
That young boy Jamal don't play
Smook A.
10-04-2015, 08:47 PM
:oldlol: This psycho girl is acting like you guys were in a serious relationship for multiple years
Yah. She didn't hit me up all day today and removed me off of all social media.
I mean.. I was cool with being friends even with the death threat that could of been from her.. I didn't have a issue with her as a person.
Great lesson to be learned here. The girl that pretends to be so normal.. Is far from normal.
NBAplayoffs2001
10-04-2015, 09:28 PM
Yah. She didn't hit me up all day today and removed me off of all social media.
I mean.. I was cool with being friends even with the death threat that could of been from her.. I didn't have a issue with her as a person.
Great lesson to be learned here. The girl that pretends to be so normal.. Is far from normal.
Incredibly true. That's why I try to go for those girls who are open to talk and aren't quietly looking and judging you. Talkative girls even if you're a pretty shy guy are a lot easier to work with.
NBAplayoffs2001
10-04-2015, 09:31 PM
I'm not a talkative dude and I'm mostly to myself. I find girls who can carry themselves confidently in public and initiate conversations or speak what's on their mind are the best type of girls to chase after. I remember some girl I used to like back in the day was like this. She had a little beef with me and approached me in person and we talked it out. I appreciated that since I've dealt with girls who have said "everything's OK" when you know for a fact, it isn't.
Incredibly true. That's why I try to go for those girls who are open to talk and aren't quietly looking and judging you. Talkative girls even if you're a pretty shy guy are a lot easier to work with.
What part of NY are you from?
NBAplayoffs2001
10-04-2015, 09:55 PM
What part of NY are you from?
Near Queens border, out in the burbs.
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