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hateraid
11-11-2015, 03:59 PM
Yeah I get it. Why am I asking advice on a public message board, yada, yada, yada.... I just feel the need to vent...

About a month ago after my birthday I went to my cousin's for some drinks. I ended up drinking a bit too much and had to cab home. I forgetfully leave behind my glasses. These are a rare pair of Carrera frames that require a specially cut lens that are larger than a traditional pair. A couple of days later I call my cuz and tell her I'm coming by to grab them. She tells me while she was out her gay roommate's gay friend swipes them off the kitchen counter and borrows them.....:eek:
I'm thinking, that's weird, who borrows prescription glasses? I say that's fine, just get them back. She attempts for a couple of weeks. Next thing I know she gets back to me and says the guy is moving and has packed them away....:mad:
I'm thinking who the hell packs glasses? Especially prescription glasses? Borrowed ones on top of that? So she confirms that he will get them back to me when they unpack and he can get them out of storage. So the month ends and this fellow is moved in. I ask my cuz if she can get them now. Apparently he gets back to her and says he's misplaced them....:rant
So I get this guys number and text him myself. I tell him that I need these glasses because I drive for a living. I also had to get these glasses specially ordered and that the lenses were specially cut. He apologizes for "losing" them and says he has a pair of Hugo Boss's with the same percription....:wtf:
I'm asking how the **** do you think that you can just pass on prescriptions? Stupid hey? I say no, I need those back since I need them for work and if I get in an accident my claim would be void since my licence requires I wear glasses to drive. I would need those pair, or a pair to replace which costs $450. He gets back and says he can't find them but will pay part of it. He feels my cousin should pay part since she didn't take care of them in the first place....:hammerhead:

I don't know what to make of this??? Is this guy pulling a fast one? Does he have them but doesn't want to give them back???
Not trying to stereotype, and I mean this with no prejudice, but why does it always seem gay guys have a different sense of morality? How should I approach this situation?

UK2K
11-11-2015, 04:04 PM
File a police report. Save the texts.

They were stolen, and you know who did it. Not sure why you even waited this long.

hateraid
11-11-2015, 04:07 PM
File a police report. Save the texts.

They were stolen, and you know who did it. Not sure why you even waited this long.

I would rather shake this guy down and scare the shit out of him. Right now I've got him on the hook for $450 or the glasses.

hateraid
11-11-2015, 04:10 PM
Funny thing is the guy is an Instagram whore. He'll slip up soon. But I can't believe this guy is giving me the run around

CeltsGarlic
11-11-2015, 04:11 PM
Tell him that its either $$$, glasses back or cops. Pretty simple and I would do it without feeling bad tbh.. Im pretty sure he will pay as it seems reasonable.

UK2K
11-11-2015, 04:13 PM
I would rather shake this guy down and scare the shit out of him. Right now I've got him on the hook for $450 or the glasses.

He moved, did he not?

Don't waste your time. Just file the report. He will give them back when local PD shows up at his place.

That way, you literally have to do nothing but a bit of paperwork. You have his name, phone number, texts admitting he had it. Probably know where he lives.

Save yourself the trouble.

hateraid
11-11-2015, 04:27 PM
He moved, did he not?

Don't waste your time. Just file the report. He will give them back when local PD shows up at his place.

That way, you literally have to do nothing but a bit of paperwork. You have his name, phone number, texts admitting he had it. Probably know where he lives.

Save yourself the trouble.

I should. I hate giving people the benefit of the doubt. I'm too damn nice...

Nanners
11-11-2015, 04:28 PM
Yeah I would probably just tell him you are tired of waiting and are going to be forced to call the cops if he doesnt drop off the glasses or $500 within 24 hours.

Lebron23
11-11-2015, 04:33 PM
Just get a new pairs of contact lenses. Contacts > Eye glasses.

Levity
11-11-2015, 04:44 PM
"ill pay for part of them, cause its not completely my fault"

that dudes a scum bag. to me, thats admission to guilt that he still has them. he either pays you in full, or you get the cops involved.

UK2K
11-11-2015, 04:45 PM
I should. I hate giving people the benefit of the doubt. I'm too damn nice...

Yeah dude, I had some shitty friends back in my hardcore drug using days. My extensive classes on body language and interrogation techniques made it to where I can see through the bullshit, real quick. From my experience, here is what I thought while I read your story...



A couple of days later I call my cuz and tell her I'm coming by to grab them. She tells me while she was out her gay roommate's gay friend swipes them off the kitchen counter and borrows them.....

She knew he swiped them when he did it. Probably even had a conversation about it. I don't know your cousin, but if she allowed him to take them, which I believe she did, he probably paid her for it (more on that later).



She attempts for a couple of weeks.

No she didn't.



So she confirms that he will get them back to me when they unpack and he can get them out of storage.

Delaying... Hoping you'll forget.



Apparently he gets back to her and says he's misplaced them....

That's a lie.



He gets back and says he can't find them but will pay part of it. He feels my cousin should pay part since she didn't take care of them in the first place....

He's not paying the whole thing, because he already paid your cousin. That's why he made up an excuse that she should pay some.


Not saying I am right, but... I'm probably right. Your shit was stolen by this dude, who paid your cousin probably $100 under the assumption you would forget about them or not remember where you misplaced them. She had no use for them, so she agreed to let him 'swipe' the glasses for a fee. She makes some cash, he gets some nice glasses, win-win for everyone. Until.... you started asking for them. Then the delay, delay, delay act came out. Always delay.

He's got them. He paid for them. He doesn't want to give them back. He surely doesn't want to pay the full value for them because he technically already paid for them. And as I said, I don't know your cousin, but my guess is she's not on the up and up.

File a police report.

Good luck, dude.

Levity
11-11-2015, 04:48 PM
haha damn UK. youve obviously dealt with some shitty people back in the day. i could definitely see you being right. but thinking that his cousin is culprit has to feel like a kick in the nuts

Draz
11-11-2015, 04:49 PM
Isn't there a long ass process to get money back for it? Court and shit?

UK2K
11-11-2015, 05:23 PM
haha damn UK. youve obviously dealt with some shitty people back in the day. i could definitely see you being right. but thinking that his cousin is culprit has to feel like a kick in the nuts

If I had to guess....

(and hateraid, don't hate me if I am wrong, but you can tell me how close I am)

Hateraid and his cousin probably don't hang out all that often. My guess is, maybe once or twice a month. Sometimes you go stretches where it's less. I am assuming she sold them because if she didn't, she'd have A) put them in a safe place when she realized hateraid had accidentally left them and/or B) told you as soon as she knew the dude swiped them. Couple that with the fact that she wasn't too concerned about the fact that someone 'borrowed' your shit (cause if you left your shit at my place, I definitely would be awfully pissed if one of my friends took your shit and ran off with it).

And you are right, nobody packs prescription glasses into storage. I don't even wear glasses, but the thought of that sounds dumb.

The fact that he thinks his cousin should pay for half of it, due to her negligence, is just a dead giveaway.

Bless Mathews
11-11-2015, 05:23 PM
Perfect timing.

Come out the closet sissy boy.

Just keep texting with him. Get to know him some more. Keep being nice and keep lettin him punk you for your frames.

Sissy boy.

hateraid
11-11-2015, 05:32 PM
If I had to guess....

(and hateraid, don't hate me if I am wrong, but you can tell me how close I am)

Hateraid and his cousin probably don't hang out all that often. My guess is, maybe once or twice a month. Sometimes you go stretches where it's less. I am assuming she sold them because if she didn't, she'd have A) put them in a safe place when she realized hateraid had accidentally left them and/or B) told you as soon as she knew the dude swiped them. Couple that with the fact that she wasn't too concerned about the fact that someone 'borrowed' your shit (cause if you left your shit at my place, I definitely would be awfully pissed if one of my friends took your shit and ran off with it).

And you are right, nobody packs prescription glasses into storage. I don't even wear glasses, but the thought of that sounds dumb.

The fact that he thinks his cousin should pay for half of it, due to her negligence, is just a dead giveaway.

She actually screen shot a conversation and they were arguing who's fault it was! He's insisting that they split and she says she ain't paying for shit.
I'm going to tell her that if this doesn't resolve by end of week I'll notify the authorities. I hate being in a snitch like position but I just want to get my shit, or the value back.

hateraid
11-11-2015, 05:34 PM
Perfect timing.

Come out the closet sissy boy.

Just keep texting with him. Get to know him some more. Keep being nice and keep lettin him punk you for your frames.

Sissy boy.

Your pOasting style is so inconsistent.
Tell me, what would a hipster do in this situation? Ask the gay out and split some Pabst or shop for matching black beenies and mustache cream?

UK2K
11-11-2015, 05:38 PM
She actually screen shot a conversation and they were arguing who's fault it was! He's insisting that they split and she says she ain't paying for shit.
I'm going to tell her that if this doesn't resolve by end of week I'll notify the authorities. I hate being in a snitch like position but I just want to get my shit, or the value back.
How the **** do you argue who's fault it was? It's the fault of the dude who swiped the glasses.

If I come to your house and steal your car, and then crash it into a river, would it make any sense for me to blame you for not watching it to ensure nobody stole it?

She knew about it dude, I'm telling you. She knew about it when it happened. She may have been arguing over who's going to pay for it, but she knew.

Bless Mathews
11-11-2015, 05:41 PM
Your pOasting style is so inconsistent.
Tell me, what would a hipster do in this situation? Ask the gay out and split some Pabst or shop for matching black beenies and mustache cream?

Imitation is the ultimate form of flattery

Stop it doe.

Stop bitin.


Just come out the closet big baller.

Total fixed cost, you Losin.

You a big baller right? just go buy another pair.

Or come out the closet and let this gay dude keep bodying you.

Fucc boy

hateraid
11-11-2015, 05:48 PM
Imitation is the ultimate form of flattery

Stop it doe.

Stop bitin.


Just come out the closet big baller.

Total fixed cost, you Losin.

You a big baller right? just go buy another pair.

Or come out the closet and let this gay dude keep bodying you.

Fucc boy


Lol, I love how you got back into character.
But seriously, you didn't answer my question hipster, what would you do? What if your lumberjack shirt was stolen? Would you jump off the Seahawk bandwagon and buy a new Yankees cap?

nathanjizzle
11-11-2015, 05:51 PM
gay people are grimmey like that, trust me. file a police report, save the evidence, and take that person to small claims court if she doesnt want to pay you. then when you are done getting your money back, tell that person to go fucc themselves.

UK2K
11-11-2015, 05:51 PM
Lol, I love how you got back into character.
But seriously, you didn't answer my question hipster, what would you do? What if your lumberjack shirt was stolen? Would you jump off the Seahawk bandwagon and buy a new Yankees cap?

Seriously, just call the police. Give them your information, your cousin's information, and the dude's information. Explain the story.

My guess is, one of the officers there will call the dude and explain everything, and the guy will willingly give them back. Probably won't even be paperwork filed unless, of course, he sold them.

Draz
11-11-2015, 06:22 PM
Gay people are grimey, and he stole. Fck that. That's stealing. He had no right. Fcking ****

hateraid
11-11-2015, 06:58 PM
gay people are grimmey like that, trust me. file a police report, save the evidence, and take that person to small claims court if she doesnt want to pay you. then when you are done getting your money back, tell that person to go fucc themselves.

One of them is paying. The argument escalated to who is paying. I'm just suspect this dude is lying. Everything seems so far fetched to all of a sudden dissappear. This is an obvious fashion piece this guy wanted. I'm getting the cash by end of week. But I'm going to do my diligence in trying to bust this guy. I found out where he works. Might just drop by...I'd feel more vindicated.

Bless Mathews
11-12-2015, 12:12 AM
Lol, I love how you got back into character.
But seriously, you didn't answer my question hipster, what would you do? What if your lumberjack shirt was stolen? Would you jump off the Seahawk bandwagon and buy a new Yankees cap?

The fucc you typin bout?

Keep deliverin pizzas and gettin bodied by gay dudes.

Sissy panzy 5 foot tall fucc boy.

dkmwise
11-12-2015, 12:22 AM
This dude should pay the whole thing, he took them with no permission, case closed. If you lend them to him and he lost them then him paying only half is reasonable, but he just took someone elses property, who the F does he think he is. And as someone else said, I think him willing to pay half already shows he is admitting guilt, I think if he genuinely lost them he wouldn't be offering at all.

24-Inch_Chrome
11-12-2015, 12:23 AM
Go to the police. This dude took something of yours (borrowed is such a bullshit term if he's swiping something that isn't his) and now won't give it back. Not worth the hassle of dealing with, cops will be able to sort it out.

nathanjizzle
11-12-2015, 12:36 AM
This is an obvious fashion piece this guy wanted.
yup, he straight up stole them with moral impunity.

Bless Mathews
11-12-2015, 12:59 AM
Erryone in this thread that typed to go to the police cus a gay dude won't give back some frames have no right ever to comment on alpha/beta talk.

You beta af.

Sissy fucc boys that need to go in the closet with the gay dude that took the frames and watch infomercials.

:facepalm

FUCCIN disgrace.

Beta fucc boys.

Worse than beta op.

Akrazotile
11-12-2015, 01:01 AM
Rug pee-ers did not do this, dude.

red1
11-12-2015, 01:57 AM
Just reading this made me angry. Your cousin is a useless POS. Make that fggt that stole your glasses realize that you aren't playing around and want them back literally this week. Threaten him with the law, with your fists, whatever. Just show him that you're serious and watch his attitude change.

Akrazotile
11-12-2015, 02:09 AM
Seriously, who 'borrows' eye-glasses? From someon they barely know, who isnt even present? Weirdest shit ever.

If he actually asked your cousin and your cousin said sure go ahead, Id be way more pissed at her than the dude. Why would she give a guy permission to go around wearing the glasses you mistakenly left at her place???

Bizarre as fvck.


One thing nobody has mentioned here is small claims court. Even with incriminating texts, the police might not really put much effort into helping you resolve this situation. But with the evidence you have you'd easily ring him out in small claims.

Nick Young
11-12-2015, 04:34 AM
I should. I hate giving people the benefit of the doubt. I'm too damn nice...
don't give this glasses thief the benefit of the doubt. He's shown he's an immoral piece of shit when he stole your glasses in the first place! Send the po on him, other wise he will keep giving you the runaround.


This guy is one of those types who thinks he's smarter than everyone around him. In his mind he can keep giving you bullshit until you forget about it. Don't stop chasing. IMO send the popo, otherwise this guy will drag this shit as long as he can.

Nick Young
11-12-2015, 04:39 AM
Erryone in this thread that typed to go to the police cus a gay dude won't give back some frames have no right ever to comment on alpha/beta talk.

You beta af.

Sissy fucc boys that need to go in the closet with the gay dude that took the frames and watch infomercials.

:facepalm

FUCCIN disgrace.

Beta fucc boys.

Worse than beta op.
Doesn't matter about alpha/beta. If hateraid does anything remotely intimidating towards gay guy-IE show up at his job, gay guy can play the victim and call the cops first. He can say he's scared for his safety and intimidated or some shit. Law will be 100% on his side because the law favors gay guys in this PC day and age.

Just call the Po, otherwise this guy is going to do whatever he can to avoid paying money, including playing victim and making shit up. Tell him you will file this shit in small claims by the end of the week if you don't want to go to the cops. Already he's shown to be a conscienceless klepto. Cops show up at his door, the glasses will probably conveniently turn up.

UK2K
11-12-2015, 09:59 AM
Erryone in this thread that typed to go to the police cus a gay dude won't give back some frames have no right ever to comment on alpha/beta talk.

You beta af.

Sissy fucc boys that need to go in the closet with the gay dude that took the frames and watch infomercials.

:facepalm

FUCCIN disgrace.

Beta fucc boys.

Worse than beta op.

My time is more valuable than to be spending it chasing down some guy who stole my shit.

It's much easier to call the police, and let them deal with it... since that's what they are paid to do and all.

brownmamba00
11-12-2015, 10:28 AM
Sounds like your cousin did you dirty...but seriously you need to grow a set of balls and get your shit back.

500 dollar glasses and you're waiting for months now?:facepalm

Bless Mathews
11-12-2015, 01:45 PM
My time is more valuable than to be spending it chasing down some guy who stole my shit.

It's much easier to call the police, and let them deal with it... since that's what they are paid to do and all.

:facepalm

Dam. Beta af. Straight herbavores on here.

Op claims to be a baller but don't got health insurance and is spending time on some 400$ frames.

Go punk him or just buy some new ones.

hateraid
11-12-2015, 02:22 PM
:facepalm

Dam. Beta af. Straight herbavores on here.

Op claims to be a baller but don't got health insurance and is spending time on some 400$ frames.

Go punk him or just buy some new ones.

So be you. Pretend I'm black, shake this dude up by telling him I'm a 30 year old weed dealer who's got mad pOasting skills then go use the money to hang out at a craft brew bar and laugh at people who order Budwieser?
Great plan hipster.

BTW, I did use my health insurance and got $2000 worth of massage therapy and acupuncture on my injured shoulder. I feel great!
How's irritating other parents on purpose and being proud of it working for you? Sounds alpha as faak!

hateraid
11-12-2015, 02:27 PM
My time is more valuable than to be spending it chasing down some guy who stole my shit.

It's much easier to call the police, and let them deal with it... since that's what they are paid to do and all.

Lol, don't take this guy seriously. I don't even think he has the ability to follow up what he's trying to preach.

Bless Mathews
11-12-2015, 02:42 PM
So be you. Pretend I'm black, shake this dude up by telling him I'm a 30 year old weed dealer who's got mad pOasting skills then go use the money to hang out at a craft brew bar and laugh at people who order Budwieser?
Great plan hipster.

BTW, I did use my health insurance and got $2000 worth of massage therapy and acupuncture on my injured shoulder. I feel great!
How's irritating other parents on purpose and being proud of it working for you? Sounds alpha as faak!


Stop imitating another man.

It's not a good look.

Beta fucc

You 5 foot tall betas got it rough.

I can't comprehend how y'all think. That's why we don't get along.

lil sissy.

24-Inch_Chrome
11-12-2015, 02:47 PM
Bless is way too committed to this gimmick. :lol

Shade8780
11-12-2015, 02:49 PM
Will you ignore this shitty beef with Bless and get back to the point? You want help or not?

Give us his Instagram, phone number, anything you have of him and we'll shake him up. Make sure that shameless fuccboi gives back them glasses.

No one swindles ISH fam and gets away with it.

Bless Mathews
11-12-2015, 04:19 PM
Bless is way too committed to this gimmick. :lol

What gimmick?

Change your screen name to "I call cops" ho.

Show me any poasts where I'm different.

Bless Mathews
11-12-2015, 04:23 PM
Will you ignore this shitty beef with Bless and get back to the point? You want help or not?

Give us his Instagram, phone number, anything you have of him and we'll shake him up. Make sure that shameless fuccboi gives back them glasses.

No one swindles ISH fam and gets away with it.


:facepalm

I'm tellin him to step up and do the same thing you just typed.

Go get your shit. Don't let someone punk you.

Dang.

hateraid
11-13-2015, 02:33 PM
Stop imitating another man.

It's not a good look.

Beta fucc

You 5 foot tall betas got it rough.

I can't comprehend how y'all think. That's why we don't get along.

lil sissy.

Do you know the difference between imitation and mockery? Obviously not. Have you ever shook a gay? Hipsters are usually non aggressive so I don't think advice from you can really help. Maybe I should just wait for the Seahawks bandwagon to settle down so your head is clear. Probably in a couple of weeks.

hateraid
11-13-2015, 02:36 PM
Will you ignore this shitty beef with Bless and get back to the point? You want help or not?

Give us his Instagram, phone number, anything you have of him and we'll shake him up. Make sure that shameless fuccboi gives back them glasses.

No one swindles ISH fam and gets away with it.

Gays in Philly are rough. I need you boys to bring the firepower.

Bless Mathews
11-13-2015, 03:42 PM
Do you know the difference between imitation and mockery? Obviously not. Have you ever shook a gay? Hipsters are usually non aggressive so I don't think advice from you can really help. Maybe I should just wait for the Seahawks bandwagon to settle down so your head is clear. Probably in a couple of weeks.

Hipster??

The fucc ?

Get you some oxy pads for your back, and some shoe insoles so you can be taller than 5'

Ho.

hateraid
11-13-2015, 04:09 PM
Hipster??

The fucc ?

Get you some oxy pads for your back, and some shoe insoles so you can be taller than 5'

Ho.

Hipster (basically you + the Seahawks bandwagon)

http://41.media.tumblr.com/7e0b00c1d3f76f02fc7b7add4c27e065/tumblr_nnj7yxohDC1uqw9t8o1_1280.jpg

It's even funnier because you try and act hood but live in the suburbs of the hipster capital of the world in Northgate, Washington.

My backne is gone. Skin is smooth like butter. But if you'd like proof show us a pic of you Mr. Whitey Whitenington.

Bless Mathews
11-13-2015, 04:51 PM
Hipster (basically you + the Seahawks bandwagon)

http://41.media.tumblr.com/7e0b00c1d3f76f02fc7b7add4c27e065/tumblr_nnj7yxohDC1uqw9t8o1_1280.jpg

It's even funnier because you try and act hood but live in the suburbs of the hipster capital of the world in Northgate, Washington.

My backne is gone. Skin is smooth like butter. But if you'd like proof show us a pic of you Mr. Whitey Whitenington.

Ok skippy.

You still 5'

I'm grew up in the hood.

Mlk and Henderson.

Made some moves and am killin it in maple leaf.

Got a real real good deal on a house 4 years ago.

Stop steppin clown.

You gettin bodied by a gay dude that stole your precious 400$ frames.

Gettin punked.

Guess that's that 5' tall beta mentality.

hateraid
11-13-2015, 05:24 PM
Ok skippy.

You still 5'

I'm grew up in the hood.

Mlk and Henderson.

Made some moves and am killin it in maple leaf.

Got a real real good deal on a house 4 years ago.

Stop steppin clown.

You gettin bodied by a gay dude that stole your precious 400$ frames.

Gettin punked.

Guess that's that 5' tall beta mentality.

Lol, 5 feet? Really. Is that all you're reaching for?
Do you actually believe anyone is buying your story??? That's a bunch of bull and you know it. You're a fricken sideshow on here whitey. Clean up your personal mess before you get at me. If you want any credibility on ISH show your pic and prove you're hood. Otherwise you're just a Seahawks bandwagon ****** hipster.

HenryGarfunkle
11-13-2015, 09:44 PM
My backne is gone.
:oldlol:

hateraid
11-17-2015, 02:00 PM
So to rap this up, I went to this guys work. The guy was stunned when I got there. I talked to him and said that it was a little disappointing that my cousin has friends like this. I told him I wasn't going to do anything to him personally but gave him the ultimatum to either give me the cash value or replace them. Anyways, he admitted to trying to dodge. He ended up offering to choose any pair I wanted. I ended up with a sick pair of Tom Fords that are above the value of my lost pair:
http://d26hhearhq0yio.cloudfront.net/content/misterspex/produkte/grafiken/6514025_a2.jpg
AND on top of that gave me a pair of his Carrera sunglasses for the hassle.
****, I'm glad that's over. Saved my relationship with my cuz and got more than I bargained for.

ArbitraryWater
11-17-2015, 02:13 PM
So to rap this up, I went to this guys work. The guy was stunned when I got there. I talked to him and said that it was a little disappointing that my cousin has friends like this. I told him I wasn't going to do anything to him personally but gave him the ultimatum to either give me the cash value or replace them. Anyways, he admitted to trying to dodge. He ended up offering to choose any pair I wanted. I ended up with a sick pair of Tom Fords that are above the value of my lost pair:
http://d26hhearhq0yio.cloudfront.net/content/misterspex/produkte/grafiken/6514025_a2.jpg
AND on top of that gave me a pair of his Carrera sunglasses for the hassle.
****, I'm glad that's over. Saved my relationship with my cuz and got more than I bargained for.

huh?

Btw, your cuz doesn't seem that alright.. sometimes, even if its fam, you gotta be stricter with them.

Nick Young
11-17-2015, 02:18 PM
Gay guy came through for you in the end.


All of this homo hate was unfounded.

hateraid
11-17-2015, 02:20 PM
huh?

Btw, your cuz doesn't seem that alright.. sometimes, even if its fam, you gotta be stricter with them.
Yeah, gave me a pair of Carrera sunglasses similar to my glasses for the hassle. I gave him the gears about the situation. I actually do believe he lost them now. He wouldnt have given up so much if he still had the actual glasses. I hear you, although I have an affinity for family. I am bad at holding grudges. I'm glad I had this cleared up.

ArbitraryWater
11-17-2015, 02:26 PM
Yeah, gave me a pair of Carrera sunglasses similar to my glasses for the hassle. I gave him the gears about the situation. I actually do believe he lost them now. He wouldnt have given up so much if he still had the actual glasses. I hear you, although I have an affinity for family. I am bad at holding grudges. I'm glad I had this cleared up.

hey, that can be a good thing..

yeah, he came through in the end, and the fact he admitted to dodging is a plus for him.

Weird that he took em in the first place, but he's made up for it.

hateraid
11-17-2015, 02:54 PM
Gay guy came through for you in the end.


All of this homo hate was unfounded.

You're absolutely right. Especially during a time where bigotry is at an all time high with all these Muslim accusations. It's easy to type cast when angry. I too still don't get why he took them in the first place. His excuse still came off shady as he said that he was under the impression they had been there for weeks. Still he redeemed himself. I still wouldn't trust him as a friend though :lol I think he was under the impression I would not pursue this or confront him. If I didn't he may have got away with it and wouldn't have learned his lesson.

UK2K
11-17-2015, 03:09 PM
So to rap this up, I went to this guys work. The guy was stunned when I got there. I talked to him and said that it was a little disappointing that my cousin has friends like this. I told him I wasn't going to do anything to him personally but gave him the ultimatum to either give me the cash value or replace them. Anyways, he admitted to trying to dodge. He ended up offering to choose any pair I wanted. I ended up with a sick pair of Tom Fords that are above the value of my lost pair:
http://d26hhearhq0yio.cloudfront.net/content/misterspex/produkte/grafiken/6514025_a2.jpg
AND on top of that gave me a pair of his Carrera sunglasses for the hassle.
****, I'm glad that's over. Saved my relationship with my cuz and got more than I bargained for.

So I called it or what?

Levity
11-17-2015, 03:36 PM
glad everything got sorted out. but im still racking my brain, asking myself, who the fvck takes prescription glasses. unless he was planning on popping out the lenses, and walking around looking like russel westbrook

Cocaine80s
11-17-2015, 10:24 PM
So the gay dude bought them from your cousin, then bought you a more expensive pair, and then also gave you another pair of glasses?

Dude must be ballin

catch24
11-17-2015, 10:33 PM
What a strange story and ending. :lol

So this guy bought you an even more expensive pair of glasses, and then GAVE you another nice pair just cuz? OP must be Tony Soprano.

Draz
11-17-2015, 10:51 PM
So to rap this up, I went to this guys work. The guy was stunned when I got there. I talked to him and said that it was a little disappointing that my cousin has friends like this. I told him I wasn't going to do anything to him personally but gave him the ultimatum to either give me the cash value or replace them. Anyways, he admitted to trying to dodge. He ended up offering to choose any pair I wanted. I ended up with a sick pair of Tom Fords that are above the value of my lost pair:
http://d26hhearhq0yio.cloudfront.net/content/misterspex/produkte/grafiken/6514025_a2.jpg
AND on top of that gave me a pair of his Carrera sunglasses for the hassle.
****, I'm glad that's over. Saved my relationship with my cuz and got more than I bargained for.
Did he throw in some free anull too? :roll: :roll:

hateraid
11-18-2015, 01:26 PM
So I called it or what?

Well I don't think my cuz was involved. He took it when her roommate was home. My observation was my cuz was trying to protect this fellow and didn't want it to escalate.
I did tell him if I didn't get the value back I would file a police report. I think that's ultimately made him so generous. But yeah you got it in a nutshell

hateraid
11-18-2015, 01:28 PM
glad everything got sorted out. but im still racking my brain, asking myself, who the fvck takes prescription glasses. unless he was planning on popping out the lenses, and walking around looking like russel westbrook
Yeah, that was ahead scratcher. I did ask him face to face but he kept on repeating sorry and that he had the same perscription. Such a stupid reason. He was obviously dodging the answer. He intentionally stole them and didn't have a single out.

hateraid
11-18-2015, 01:34 PM
So the gay dude bought them from your cousin, then bought you a more expensive pair, and then also gave you another pair of glasses?

Dude must be ballin
He didn't buy them from my cuz. He stole them and I think he legitimately lost them. No way he gives up this much value without losing them. Unless committing to his story so he doesn't look like a thief is more important than his money. The value of the frames alone is worth more than the whole set I owned previously. Not to mention the lenses that I still have to get fitted. Plus his sunglasses. Those were more disposible since this dude has a dozen different pairs. But still. He could have just bought the same pair as me and save alot, considering he doesn't have to put in a lense.
He's an interior designer. Don't know how much that makes. His office is a suite in a downtown high rise which I found goggling his name.

hateraid
11-18-2015, 01:37 PM
Did he throw in some free anull too? :roll: :roll:
Lol, I'll just stick with the glasses. Why steal from someone them get free sex? It's a win win for him :lol I get nothing out of it