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LOLCATS
12-16-2015, 07:46 PM
A girl that broke up with me about 2 years before I met my first wife wants to get back with me now. She got my phone number through a mutual friend and she keeps texting me and asking to meet up. I made a promise to move on with my life after she left me, and it was so hard to get over her but I finally got to a point in my life where I could live without her, and now she wants me back.

I know she regrets leaving me. She left me for a scumbag who treated her badly and disrespected her, but she wanted him just because he had more money than me and he was a showoff. And the saddest thing of all is that the only reason scumbags like him started showing her attention is because of me. When I met her she was a shy girl who never went out and never dressed in revealing clothes. I was the first person to love her and show her I cared about her.

I made her who she is, and she knows it too. I gave her the self confidence and starting taking her out to clubs and restaurants, introduced her to all my friends and made her a more social and confident person. She started wanting to go out more and more and dressing more and more to get attention from other guys, and eventually she left me for that guy.

Now he has probably dumped her or cheated on her or something and she wants to message me again and get me to meet up. I know she regrets what she did to me. But I am in a better place right now and I don't want to go back down that road.

Sorry if I am venting a bit, I just want to get this stuff off my chest, its really been on my mind :)

Draz
12-16-2015, 07:47 PM
You need to prove to me you're real. Take a photo or some shit otherwise you're trolling.

LoneyROY7
12-16-2015, 07:50 PM
No harm in meeting up and talking with her.

LOLCATS
12-16-2015, 07:51 PM
You need to prove to me you're real. Take a photo or some shit otherwise you're trolling.

I don't need to prove anything to anybody. My friends on here know exactly who I am and they have me on facebook anyway. They are the only people I care about and have supported me from the beginning.

The rest of you can either give me your two cents or just stop posting in my threads.

LOLCATS
12-16-2015, 07:52 PM
No harm in meeting up and talking with her.

Part of me thinks that but I really don't want to make it look like I am encouraging her. If I meet up I already know what she wants, and I'm not ready. I am still hurting from splitting up with my wife recently.

Draz
12-16-2015, 07:53 PM
Who has this guy on Facebook? And there's a reason why I'm telling you to prove youre genuine. Because anyone can make threads like these, and if everyone did it'll be stupid. It's like life stories make one thread for your anull gaping fantasies with men and I'll discuss it with you.

Marv_Albert
12-16-2015, 07:53 PM
Really depends on how you are as a person bro, I mean if it was me i'm bad for holding grudges so I wouldn't even give this girl the time of day ever again and tell her to go away you messed things up with us forever.

LoneyROY7
12-16-2015, 07:56 PM
Part of me thinks that but I really don't want to make it look like I am encouraging her. If I meet up I already know what she wants, and I'm not ready. I am still hurting from splitting up with my wife recently.

If you're not ready then don't meet up with her. Tell her that you were hurt by the things she did in the past and see what she says.

It's ok to be vulnerable.

LOLCATS
12-16-2015, 07:59 PM
Who has this guy on Facebook? And there's a reason why I'm telling you to prove youre genuine. Because anyone can make threads like these, and if everyone did it'll be stupid. It's like life stories make one thread for your anull gaping fantasies with men and I'll discuss it with you.

Why should I discuss anything with primitive idiots like you who still think that in 2015, almost 2016, that being with a transgender girl is something gay.

DonDadda59
12-16-2015, 08:06 PM
No harm in meeting up and talking with her.

Not true. CATS could end up getting sodomized by his ex 'girlfriend'.

Marv_Albert
12-16-2015, 08:07 PM
Why should I discuss anything with primitive idiots like you who still think that in 2015, almost 2016, that being with a transgender girl is something gay.

If a man likes to be with a chick with a dick? surely it is somewhat gay...

Draz
12-16-2015, 08:08 PM
Why should I discuss anything with primitive idiots like you who still think that in 2015, almost 2016, that being with a transgender girl is something gay.
I don't necessarily find being with a transgender gay. A man can be attracted to what looks like a female but is deceived by what isn't shown underneath if he couldn't notice it already. If he was attracted to what seems to be a female then that's perfectly normal. Unless what becomes pleasuring himself with the ***** of the transgender, that's a discussion on its own.

I accept there are human beings that fall into this category. What I do not accept is the males and females claiming they're meant to be of opposite sex and trapped in the wrong body. That's a mental issue. Just to clear things up.

outbreak
12-16-2015, 10:25 PM
Didn't you just get married to a dude and have your bachelors in thailand so you could bang some other dudes? what does your current partner thinking about you meeting up with someone else? Will this switch you back to ****** if you have an actual girl attracted to you again?

outbreak
12-16-2015, 10:26 PM
I don't necessarily find being with a transgender gay. A man can be attracted to what looks like a female but is deceived by what isn't shown underneath if he couldn't notice it already. If he was attracted to what seems to be a female then that's perfectly normal. Unless what becomes pleasuring himself with the ***** of the transgender, that's a discussion on its own.

I accept there are human beings that fall into this category. What I do not accept is the males and females claiming they're meant to be of opposite sex and trapped in the wrong body. That's a mental issue. Just to clear things up.
Not in every case , but if you actively seek out transgender people over and over again and they are what you are attracted to then surely you must admit you aren't straight.

iamgine
12-16-2015, 11:23 PM
Isn't being attracted to tranny just a fetish? Like how some men are attracted to women's legs, muscular female bodybuilders or bald women.

NumberSix
12-16-2015, 11:26 PM
Yeah, a "girl".

D-Wade316
12-16-2015, 11:26 PM
Is she a trans?

Draz
12-16-2015, 11:32 PM
I asked a question, who has this guy on Facebook? If someone can't prove he's authentic then everything he posts and says is invalid. Not that it truly matters, but I'd rather not stumble upon anything of his.

Pushxx
12-17-2015, 01:53 AM
I don't need to prove anything to anybody. My friends on here know exactly who I am and they have me on facebook anyway. They are the only people I care about and have supported me from the beginning.

The rest of you can either give me your two cents or just stop posting in my threads.


This guy is a master at trolling. He gives the perfect answers...read all of his responses in this thread. Come on guys. Just enjoy it for the entertainment value.

TheMan
12-17-2015, 02:02 AM
Why should I discuss anything with primitive idiots like you who still think that in 2015, almost 2016, that being with a transgender girl is something gay.
The fact that you have to mention trannys in EVERY FVCKING THREAD you make is a dead giveaway that you're a shiit troll. You never discuss anything but fggots dressing up in women's clothes, get a life you fvcking loser, your gimmick sucks ass. You're persistent AF, I'll give you that much.

How Jeff hasn't banned your fggot ass is beyond me.

ISH is literally scrapping the bottom of the barrell, SMH

Draz
12-17-2015, 02:07 AM
Gonna eat ops ass out like a cupcake
That's what you want don't you

warriorfan
12-17-2015, 02:08 AM
The fact that you have to mention trannys in EVERY FVCKING THREAD you make is a dead giveaway that you're a shiit troll. You never discuss anything but fggots dressing up in women's clothes, get a life you fvcking loser, your gimmick sucks ass. You're persistent AF, I'll give you that much.

How Jeff hasn't banned your fggot ass is beyond me.

ISH is literally scrapping the bottom of the barrell, SMH

:oldlol:

NumberSix
12-17-2015, 02:25 AM
The fact that you have to mention trannys in EVERY FVCKING THREAD you make is a dead giveaway that you're a shiit troll. You never discuss anything but fggots dressing up in women's clothes, get a life you fvcking loser, your gimmick sucks ass. You're persistent AF, I'll give you that much.

How Jeff hasn't banned your fggot ass is beyond me.

ISH is literally scrapping the bottom of the barrell, SMH
That's Mexican hate speech. You're a Mexican bigot.


#MostMexicans

niko
12-17-2015, 03:22 PM
Never trust a girl with a *****. Words to live by.

imdaman99
12-17-2015, 03:53 PM
LOLcats... are you a manly man or a feminine dude? All these posts make me think you're the latter.

Marv_Albert
12-17-2015, 03:57 PM
You never answered my question LOLCATS, what's it like to bang a nip/tuck ******? can you fit it all in, is it tight?