Gf dumped my ass

[ISHGoat]

It wasn't working out.

I was a beta and stayed in contact with her for two months and tried to convince her to get back with me. We had sex twice after breaking up but she just sent me a long breakup message afterwards both times.

I gave her shit back yesterday.

ISH tell me what I should to do make this easier for myself and move on as quickly as possible.

[Draz]

Just move on. Fck her. Relationships are bound to end until you find the right girl.

[ISHGoat]

Just move on. Fck her. Relationships are bound to end until you find the right girl.

That's right man. That's the kinda shit I need to hear. She was a bitch anyways.

[~primetime~]

Quickest way to get over a girl is to date other girls...

[ISHGoat]

Quickest way to get over a girl is to date other girls...

Yeah that's the plan. Gotta get back into single mode and be on the hunt with dat Dere THIRST.

[riseagainst]

immediately start talking to other women if you want to get over the pain.

[UK2K]

It wasn't working out.

I was a beta and stayed in contact with her for two months and tried to convince her to get back with me. We had sex twice after breaking up but she just sent me a long breakup message afterwards both times.

I gave her shit back yesterday.

ISH tell me what I should to do make this easier for myself and move on as quickly as possible.

I came home from Afghanistan to find out my gf of 4 years cheated on me. Know what I did?

Moved out. Got a gym membership. Bought books on tape. And became a piece of man beef.

Seriously, if you focus on bettering yourself, you'll be over it in no time.

^^The post above me is the worst advice ever.^^ Don't do that.

[imnew09]

From experience, I avoid having any contact with them. Block their feeds from facebook, snapchats, erase phone number just in case im too drunk and send her a text.

After that, just start talking to other girls, :banana:

[ISHGoat]

Thanks for the replies guys. UK2K sorry to hear that brother, it must have been devastating at the time. I'm gonna continue being active, apply to top US MBA schools, and try to land a high paying contract in the meantime.

^ I have already blocked her on all forms of contact.

[Nick Young]

It wasn't working out.

I was a beta and stayed in contact with her for two months and tried to convince her to get back with me. We had sex twice after breaking up but she just sent me a long breakup message afterwards both times.

I gave her shit back yesterday.

ISH tell me what I should to do make this easier for myself and move on as quickly as possible.
get ripped, bang other girls, she will come crying back for you, and by then you won't care.

Focus on yourself, don't stew in misery.

She gone, move on.

[Nick Young]

I came home from Afghanistan to find out my gf of 4 years cheated on me. Know what I did?

Moved out. Got a gym membership. Bought books on tape. And became a piece of man beef.

Seriously, if you focus on bettering yourself, you'll be over it in no time.

^^The post above me is the worst advice ever.^^ Don't do that.
I read about shit like this all the time. Hos have no loyalty. I bet she was happy to brag for years on social media about being a "military wife" or a "marine's girl" and use your service and status to try to gain sympathy and attention for herself:facepalm

Hos wonder why society doesn't respect them. it's because they do shit like this on the regular.

[UK2K]

I read about shit like this all the time. Hos have no loyalty. I bet she was happy to brag for years on social media about being a "military wife" or a "marine's girl" and use your service and status to try to gain sympathy and attention for herself:facepalm

Hos wonder why society doesn't respect them. it's because they do shit like this on the regular.

Haha most definitely.

I would guess we had a 'cheat rate' of about 85% of the 110 guys I deployed with. That includes a lot of wives.

I thought I would be the one who wasn't going to get cheated on. Used to think 'damn I'm glad I have a good girl back home'.

Bahahahahha got eeeeeeeem! I was wrong.

It's all good, about 3 months later I was ripped AF banging her ex best friend, and then after that, her sister. So I win.

[ShaqTwizzle]

Sorry man.
You sincerely have my sympathies.

As someone said earlier just focus on improving yourself/loving yourself.
You'll find someone new eventually if that is what you desire.
Just remember to value yourself.

:cheers:

[Draz]

Look at me for example. THREE YEARS with my ex gone down the drain. My entire FAMILY loved her. My grandparents even sent MONEY for that girl as a gift. My mother and her were BEST FRIENDS. My little sister worshiped her as a sisterly figure. She was with me EVERY DAY for periods of 1-8+ hours. We did EVERYTHING together. My grandparents blew up a huge photo of us and put it in their house. We broke up and they STILL have it.

Just like that. About 2-3 months later she finally moved on with some UGLY ass guy. Seriously. Don't be me. I tried moving on. I ended up breaking up 2 relationships after her. I just wasn't over her. I am now. 8 months later.

That's my story. I've heard some of my friends took years to move on. I'm glad I didn't take so long. But, 8 months later, I'm still missing her. I miss that bond, that friendship, the love, the fights, the good, the bad. Her family loved me.. her grandmothers loved me. I was there for her when her grandfather died. I was there for her through ups and downs. I accepted her for her flaws.

Now, look at me.. I'm a piece of shit. No matter how much girls I got, how many I could get, I'm thinking about her.

[highwhey]

Haha most definitely.

I would guess we had a 'cheat rate' of about 85% of the 110 guys I deployed with. That includes a lot of wives.

I thought I would be the one who wasn't going to get cheated on. Used to think 'damn I'm glad I have a good girl back home'.

Bahahahahha got eeeeeeeem! I was wrong.

It's all good, about 3 months later I was ripped AF banging her ex best friend, and then after that, her sister. So I win.
Damn. That sucks.

Good on you for bettering yourself through the gym! I've had similar success at the gym after breakups and dealing with binge alcohol drinking. Very little a gym can't fix.

[highwhey]

OP, don't drink. After my last breakup i chose to drink and not only gained a lot of weight but i became a mess. I was a cancer so to speak, most of my friends avoided me because of what I was. Don't ruin yourself. I got in bar fights, drank constantly even on weekdays, was always on the edge and was irritating.

[Draz]

I lost a shit load of weight myself, and I'm already skinny asf. I looked to weed to take me out of my misery.

I'm investing in the gym. Find hobbies. Take your mind off shit.

[highwhey]

Damn, just reading my last comment hurts.


Workout heavily, and eat better. Before you know it, you will be on the upside and will be "trending".

[ISHGoat]

Thanks for the kind words and support guys. I always knew I could count on ISH in times of need. Imma keep believing in myself, being confident, move up in the corporate world, and go to a great school. I should actually be out of her league.

[Draz]

The next girl, eat her ass like a cupcake. And tell her shes a princess

[UK2K]

Damn. That sucks.

Good on you for bettering yourself through the gym! I've had similar success at the gym after breakups and dealing with binge alcohol drinking. Very little a gym can't fix.
I wasn't even a gym rat, but 45 minutes a day for a few weeks, man I was feeling good.

Seriously, OP, best advice, forget girls and enjoy your life. It'll change your outlook.

[ISHGoat]

I wasn't even a gym rat, but 45 minutes a day for a few weeks, man I was feeling good.

Seriously, OP, best advice, forget girls and enjoy your life. It'll change your outlook.

She was my first gf and only love man. I only plowed chicks casually before her. I think I can get back to that life :cheers:

[~primetime~]

how old are you GOAT?

[warriorfan]

some big losers ITT :roll:

[ISHGoat]

how old are you GOAT?

24 mah *****

[~primetime~]

24 mah *****
Man, you shouldn't be getting married at that age...you're very young, you need to get out there and have fun, bachelor around.

Settle down and get married after age 30...use the next 6 years of your life to just have fun.



Today it is beyond easy too with the internet and Tinder and all that shit...I would have fcked all of Dallas if I had those tools at your age.

[oarabbus]

I wasn't even a gym rat, but 45 minutes a day for a few weeks, man I was feeling good.

Seriously, OP, best advice, forget girls and enjoy your life. It'll change your outlook.

What was your routine that 45min/day got you looking and feeling good?

I lost a lot of weight over the past couple years but still far from where I want to be.

[highwhey]

.I would have fcked all of Dallas if I had those tools at your age.
I mean...let's not exaggerate here ether.

[~primetime~]

I mean...let's not exaggerate here ether.
obvious exaggeration...just sayin it is a whole lot easier to hook up these days with the internet.

When I was 24 I had to go to bars/clubs and try to hit on whatever 20 or so available girls were there, it's hard work. With the internet? you can sit at home in your underwear and thumb through hundreds of girls profiles in your area all looking for a date...it's just so much easier.

[imdaman99]

Work out or ball. That's how I got over mine. And obviously everyone says move on by f'ing the next girl but you don't need women to feel better about yourself. If I remember, you said you're a really smart guy. Get money.

[stalkerforlife]

I accepted long ago that I have a small package, i'm ugly, I can't satisfy a woman, and no woman truly wants me.

You may not be at that point, though.

My faith in Jesus Christ saved me.

[poido123]

She must of seen a dead end in your relationship.


Girls these days have to see some kind of upside to stay with you. Girls aren't easy to keep like they used to be.


I have a good one and I'm happy. She's one in a million

[Jameerthefear]

She must of seen a dead end in your relationship.


Girls these days have to see some kind of upside to stay with you. Girls aren't easy to keep like they used to be.


I have a good one and I'm happy. She's one in a million
She's overweight. Next.

[ISHGoat]

She must of seen a dead end in your relationship.


Girls these days have to see some kind of upside to stay with you. Girls aren't easy to keep like they used to be.


I have a good one and I'm happy. She's one in a million

She thought that it wasn't going to work because I didn't want to stay in Canada and she did. I want to go to the states and chase my dreams and she wanted to stay here with her family. Also, she knew that my parents wouldn't accept her since she wasn't from my culture and could not speak my language.

Also, she's one of the brainwashed libtards and we clashed a lot on views towards PC culture, feminsim, etc.

[highwhey]

obvious exaggeration...just sayin it is a whole lot easier to hook up these days with the internet.

When I was 24 I had to go to bars/clubs and try to hit on whatever 20 or so available girls were there, it's hard work. With the internet? you can sit at home in your underwear and thumb through hundreds of girls profiles in your area all looking for a date...it's just so much easier.
You still gotta be a 6'4 white dude tho. You think many chicks will wonna go out with 5'11 mexican highwhey on tinder? Hell naw. At work tho, i slay all types Easily.

[stalkerforlife]

She thought that it wasn't going to work because I didn't want to stay in Canada and she did. I want to go to the states and chase my dreams and she wanted to stay here with her family. Also, she knew that my parents wouldn't accept her since she wasn't from my culture and could not speak my language.

Also, she's one of the brainwashed libtards and we clashed a lot on views towards PC culture, feminsim, etc.

No, you sucked in bed and she wasn't all that attracted to you.

Look yourself in the mirror and life becomes easier to deal with.

[oarabbus]

obvious exaggeration...just sayin it is a whole lot easier to hook up these days with the internet.

When I was 24 I had to go to bars/clubs and try to hit on whatever 20 or so available girls were there, it's hard work. With the internet? you can sit at home in your underwear and thumb through hundreds of girls profiles in your area all looking for a date...it's just so much easier.


You still gotta be a 6'4 white dude tho. You think many chicks will wonna go out with 5'11 mexican highwhey on tinder? Hell naw. At work tho, i slay all types Easily.


this... primetime if you're 6'4" you have it on easy mode, should not be complaining about kids having it easier today (unless they're also white and 6'4")

[ISHGoat]

No, you sucked in bed and she wasn't all that attracted to you.

Look yourself in the mirror and life becomes easier to deal with.

I look at myself in the mirror and it becomes clear that I should aim for better girls than her. I'm a ****ing winner unlike you.

[highwhey]

this... primetime if you're 6'4" you have it on easy mode, should not be complaining about kids having it easier today (unless they're also white and 6'4")
I have a buddy who is 6'4 and white. Guy is the MJ of tinder, at least in phoenix. I'm talking about straight up 9's and 10's.

[UK2K]

What was your routine that 45min/day got you looking and feeling good?

I lost a lot of weight over the past couple years but still far from where I want to be.
I literally did nothing in the gym but lift weights, and I got my cardio from playing ball a few times a week with a group of dudes I knew. 5 on 5 for like two hours three times a week.

Plus, because I was single, I not only could control what I ate, but I was forced to grocery shop for myself. Eating healthy is like smoking, if you want to change, don't buy it. If you don't have it, you can't do it right? So I'd go to the store and pretty much force myself to get healthy shit, but I could also force myself to buy fresh fish and meat. I was forced to cook for myself so I cooked only healthy things.

Got on a regular sleep schedule, and boom I was a new man. Few weeks later I was back to hitting on the bartender with confidence. Gives you that extra swag, that desirable appeal. A pep in your step, if you will.

[UK2K]

I look at myself in the mirror and it becomes clear that I should aim for better girls than her. I'm a ****ing winner unlike you.
That's right.

That's how I look at life always.

Walked into my interview knowing they wanted me, and not the other way around, and 8 months later they're giving me field passes to an NFL game.

You just gotta own that shit. The world is yours my man, and you gotta look out for yourself. If you do what you need go do, and take care of business, the drive for success will become an addiction, and women love success more than anything.

And let me tell you this...

The only thing that can hold you back from achieving your dreams is you. People have gone blind, lost limbs, and gone on to do great things, so whatever excuses you think you may have, it's not good enough. The world is yours if you want it.

[nathanjizzle]

Bitches dont faze me.

[ISHGoat]

That's right.

That's how I look at life always.

Walked into my interview knowing they wanted me, and not the other way around, and 8 months later they're giving me field passes to an NFL game.

You just gotta own that shit. The world is yours my man, and you gotta look out for yourself. If you do what you need go do, and take care of business, the drive for success will become an addiction, and women love success more than anything.

And let me tell you this...

The only thing that can hold you back from achieving your dreams is you. People have gone blind, lost limbs, and gone on to do great things, so whatever excuses you think you may have, it's not good enough. The world is yours if you want it.

:cheers: :cheers:

Very powerful words and words to live by.

[~primetime~]

this... primetime if you're 6'4" you have it on easy mode, should not be complaining about kids having it easier today (unless they're also white and 6'4")
I didn't realize that was the situation.

I knew short guys and bald guys were at a disadvantage, didn't know minorities were.

[highwhey]

I didn't realize that was the situation.

I knew short guys and bald guys were at a disadvantage, didn't know minorities were.
Well the way i see it is, girls are only going to accept the dudes that they could otherwise not get in real life or would have trouble doing so. I sure as heck wouldn't go through all the trouble of hooking up with a girl thats a 5 thru tinder if i can hook up with a similar girl at the bar. Plus, they probably think us minorities will murder them or something....even though white people shootup schools and stuff.

Imagine being middle eastern on tinder? Lmao