Girls in relationships

[blablabla]

So i met this girl about 3 weeks ago at a club, we exchanged numbers, texted etc. you know the deal. So today i'm bored browsing Instagram and decided to search her profile and it was full of pictures of her and her boyfriend and they seem to have been together for quite some time now. She hasn't mentioned anything to me, not that i have asked. Now i don't really wanna lose her as she's the perfect fvck buddy, freaky but doesn't look the part, has that girl next door look, always down, has her own place and she even makes me food. But i can't help but feel bad for the guy, so should i talk to her or just break off contact, should i even break it off in the first place? Anybody got some advice

[Nick Young]

Not your problem bro. You're not the cheater here. She is. She's an adult and is capable of making her own decisions. Also, maybe this dude is just a f*ck friend, or they're in an open relationship or they're on a break or they just broke up, who knows.

Get involved in that drama if you want to. I recommend don't.

[senelcoolidge]

Get in contact with the guy and tell him that his girl is cheating on him. Be honest, you felt bad when you found out and want to help him. Following, you and him can come up with a plot to get revenge.

[oarabbus]

So i met this girl about 3 weeks ago at a club, we exchanged numbers, texted etc. you know the deal. So today i'm bored browsing Instagram and decided to search her profile and it was full of pictures of her and her boyfriend and they seem to have been together for quite some time now. She hasn't mentioned anything to me, not that i have asked. Now i don't really wanna lose her as she's the perfect fvck buddy, freaky but doesn't look the part, has that girl next door look, always down, has her own place and she even makes me food. But i can't help but feel bad for the guy, so should i talk to her or just break off contact, should i even break it off in the first place? Anybody got some advice


Sounds like the other guy is her meal ticket

and you are her D ticket

It's not really your problem considering it's her cheating, poor guy though.

[Levity]

if you consider yourself a good dude, you wouldnt want to get involved in any of that drama

if your d1cks needs outweigh that, then press on, brotha!

ive taken that latter approach in the past. not the most fruitful feeling, but you get what youre looking for.

[navy]

Are you sure they are still together?

[ISHGoat]

OP I was in your situation several years ago. I was plowing this chick for a whole summer and she had a husband. She made it known to me on like the second date too.

If you don't plug those holes, someone else will.

[BasedTom]

You never know, he could be someone like KevinNYCuck that gets off on that shit

[BrainDead]

So i met this girl about 3 weeks ago at a club, we exchanged numbers, texted etc. you know the deal. So today i'm bored browsing Instagram and decided to search her profile and it was full of pictures of her and her boyfriend and they seem to have been together for quite some time now. She hasn't mentioned anything to me, not that i have asked. Now i don't really wanna lose her as she's the perfect fvck buddy, freaky but doesn't look the part, has that girl next door look, always down, has her own place and she even makes me food. But i can't help but feel bad for the guy, so should i talk to her or just break off contact, should i even break it off in the first place? Anybody got some advice
Just out of curiosity, why do you feel bad for the guy? I'm not saying you should or shouldn't, I just may be able to give a better answer if I know why you feel bad.

[Nick Young]

girls gonna girl. peeps need to stop believing they're all innocent little angels. Get girls off pedestals and treat them as human beings.
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[blablabla]

It definitely not her ex, the last photo she posted was on Sunday with all the cheesy romantic hashtags one could think of, it also doesn't seem to be an open relationship otherwise she would have told me wouldn't she ?


She's an adult and is capable of making her own decisions.
That's what i thought too, but should i really be enabling her behavior. That's also why i feel bad, i think we can all agree that what she is doing is "wrong" but that doesn't excuse my role in this because i am still actively destroying a relationship. On the other hand if the guy has a cheater as a girlfriend maybe it is in his best interest that the relationship is destroyed, because if not me there will be another guy in a couple of weeks probably.



I would probably try and be subtle to see if she'd tell me.
That's what i think i'm going to try just to get some clarity, because if the answer is anything other than open relationship i still have a tough decision to make.

[UK2K]

Get in contact with the guy and tell him that his girl is cheating on him. Be honest, you felt bad when you found out and want to help him. Following, you and him can come up with a plot to get revenge.
This.

Then live post it here.

[BasedTom]

It definitely not her ex, the last photo she posted was on Sunday with all the cheesy romantic hashtags one could think of, it also doesn't seem to be an open relationship otherwise she would have told me wouldn't she ?


That's what i thought too, but should i really be enabling her behavior. That's also why i feel bad, i think we can all agree that what she is doing is "wrong" but that doesn't excuse my role in this because i am still actively destroying a relationship. On the other hand if the guy has a cheater as a girlfriend maybe it is in his best interest that the relationship is destroyed, because if not me there will be another guy in a couple of weeks probably.



That's what i think i'm going to try just to get some clarity, because if the answer is anything other than open relationship i still have a tough decision to make.
damn, this is why ppl are paranoid and shit :(

[nathanjizzle]

dont snitch! you should feel bad that you are donkey ****ing another mans girl. and most likely you arent the only dude shes donkey ****ing.

[Akrazotile]

Ok, OP, first thing you need to do is post a picture. Then we can proceed to discuss the appropriate action.

[bigkingsfan]

Only one way to resolve this, three-some.

[Draz]

If you hit it already, you have every right to tell him. It's the logical and moral thing to do. If you didn't hit it already, to do what any guy would do, hit it. She was bound to do it with another man regardless.

In a sense, it's not your position. I've been here before, where girls sent me nudes and I find out they have boyfriends. Ridiculous. In love, everything. I just see so much love in the guy for his girl, and he's clueless. This is very bad, considering she can't undue what she sent me. That's permanent.

However, if he truly loves her and if she had whatever reason she's doing that to him, there's a possibility they can work things out. Do the right thing bro.

[TheReal Kendall]

Op sound like you catching feelings to be honest.

Don't snitch though that's the last thing you should do. If they ain't married(i don't screw married chicks) then keep smashing and say nothing unless you trying to make her your main chick.

Don't think you should make her your main cause you already know she will cheat. So just fvck n enjoy.

If dude find out and step to you then tell him whats up

[AceManIII]

Op sound like you catching feelings to be honest

THIS!

OP is gonna b**** up

[CelticBaller]

***** keep ****ing her until you get tired and then snitch on her ass

win-win right there

[CelticBaller]

Give me your secret, OP. How does one go about getting p*ssy?
be good looking and confident

[Jailblazers7]

I'd ask her about it and if she's cheating I'd stop. It will be a huge pain in the ass if it blows up. Definitely wouldn't tell the guy tho.

[TomBrady]

be good looking and confident
Damn straight.

[ArbitraryWater]

Be a man of honor and tell the guy

[ISHGoat]

Again, how does one become those things?

Be tall, have a good face, have a good body, and have money. Two of these things you can control.

[Derka]

Plenty of other p*ssy in the world. Keep your life as drama free as you possibly can.

[ace23]

I would honestly just turn the other cheek and keep fvcking her
Don't think that's what that saying means :lol

[ISHGoat]

Don't think that's what that saying means :lol

:roll:

[ScalsFan21]

Lmao turn a blind eye.

I'd subtly ask if she's involved with anyone and if she lies straight to your face then maybe you gotta consider getting tfo. Either way it's probably the way to go though.

[Pushxx]

Don't think that's what that saying means :lol

:lol :roll: :roll:

As for the dilemma...don't put it in raw. Other than that you're good. There isn't a clear answer here. Everyone would do something different. Go with your gut.

[imdaman99]

Now that you know, your conscience should eat you alive as long as you have a soul.

I don't know if I'd tell her man, but there are plenty of other fish in the sea. And no telling how he would react, not every dude is rational and realize she's at fault...he could wanna kick your ass :lol

[KyrieTheFuture]

I would never do it because in a relationship (with any girl) it would constantly be in the back of my head making me think she's doing that to me. Karma a bitch

[masonanddixon]

99% of women will just date the first guy who shows them any attention.
Don't date her, though. It won't work out.

[stalkerforlife]

Maybe you and the girl will get what you deserve...and the guy being played will be a psychopath that doesn't take betrayal and immoral behavior lightly.

It'd be so fitting.

[brownmamba00]

Stay away from her man let it be a one time thing because it can get complicated...

Sooner or later one of you 2 will catch feelings and you don't wanna break a marriage apart, bad karma.

[oarabbus]

Don't think that's what that saying means :lol

:roll: :roll: