Should I keep it real and tell a girl I just want rebound?

[ISHGoat]

My ex broke up with me about 2 months ago but we have kept in contact and had breakup sex, so here I am 2 months later and restarting the healing process.

Theres this chick at work that Im pretty sure is interested in me. We went out a couple times but nothing ever happened. Id like to bone her brains out but Im not ready for a relationship or anything.

How do I do this? Do I tell her my situation and just try to obtain a friend for now? Or just try and smash?

[Draz]

Lmao no. Never admit guilt. Never cave in.

[ISHGoat]

Don't do it....

hookin up with girls from work can get very messy, especially if you are just tryin to smash.

talk to her, tell her you just got out of a serious relationship and not lookin for any type of committed relationship right now, who knows maybe she isnt either

So then just keep it real, dont lead her on/play games, and hope for the best right?

[LJJ]

the healing process


:biggums:

First thing you need to do is stop being a ******.

[ISHGoat]

:biggums:

First thing you need to do is stop being a ******.
Thanks man. I know you mean well and youre right homie. I gotta man it up and stop being such a bitch.

[imdaman99]

2 months is long enough man. It's time to move on. Although if this work chick is only rebound, just make sure she's only looking for a good time as well. I know a dude that hooked up with his co-worker and he would complain to me how she is stalker type and obsessed with him.

[ISHGoat]

2 months is long enough man. It's time to move on. Although if this work chick is only rebound, just make sure she's only looking for a good time as well. I know a dude that hooked up with his co-worker and he would complain to me how she is stalker type and obsessed with him.

Thanks my brotha :cheers:

[ISHGoat]

Thats right, if it doesn't work and she wants something serious, oh well just move on.

Now that you are single you cant get stuck on just one broad, you gotta have multiple options, just ask ISH's resident playboy Draz :lol

My bar game and slay game is weak af now. Gotta pick it up I guess.

[FreezingTsmoove]

Who tf tells a girl youre my rebound :lol

Just call her your bestfriend after you bone dummy

[Derka]

Mixing business with pleasure is always bad news. Don't screw the women you work with.

The right thing to do is absolutely be honest and say you're just looking for a shag...but if you do that with a girl at work, every other girl at work will not only know about it but will also judge the shit out of you for it.

Edit: even if she was to come back with "Oh I'm totally cool with just hooking up!"...she's lying. She'll catch feelings at some point and your f*ckfests will become an emotional thing and you'll have to look at it every day at work.

[ISHGoat]

Who tf tells a girl youre my rebound :lol

Just call her your bestfriend after you bone dummy

Yo cus I work with her and I gotta walk by her desk everytime I go ****ing pee. Also I dont wanna lead anyone on and upset girls unneccesarily. Plus shes probably gonna try and make me commit before she lets me smash, so I just plan to be up front with her. Maybe Ill leave out the rebound and break up stuff, but Ill still ask her to just keep it casual. Nomsayin?

[HitandRun Reggie]

Too much thought from Nice Guy Eddie, while Jimmy The Jerk recklessly steps in successfully scores with Betty Blue Eyes because she's surrounded by too many timid over thinkers.

[Levity]

like everyone is saying, why tell her? If she is just a rebound girl to you, she'll get the memo. and then you can deal with nasty and forlorn stares towards you the rest of your working days.

[niko]

Hey before we have sex just make sure you understand that i don't actually like you, i just need to kill some time before i meet a girl i like much much better.

That should work well.

[riseagainst]

the right thing to do is to tell her you love her and continue to see her and then later break her heart.

[ISHGoat]

Hey before we have sex just make sure you understand that i don't actually like you, i just need to kill some time before i meet a girl i like much much better.

That should work well.

:coleman:

When you put it that way...

Maybe I wont tell her shit and just slay and pray

Matter fact, were going to a bar tonight and afterwards Im just gonna straight ask her if she wants to Netflix and chill at my place. IDGAF anymore.