Whats more important to you when dating a girl?

[ISHGoat]

Physical attractiveness

or

All forms of attractiveness that is not physical. This means emotional stability, finances, social class/ family background, intelligence, humor, interests, etc.

And I'm not pitting two girls that lie on extremes. Im not talking about a 10/10 babe that is rock dumb, cant hold convo, etc. I am talking about the more general cases where girls that are physically attractive tend to lack in other areas, and girls that have a lot of their shit going for them tend not to be the biggest stunners. Which would you prefer to date?

[JohnFreeman]

I want a girl with tits big enough to sleep on

[ISHGoat]

I want a girl with tits big enough to sleep on

Haha fair enough. Most of the girls that I see with big tits also are big in other places... no thanks.

[ISHGoat]

Emotional stability + finances + intelligence?

It's a win. Marriage material

Well usually finances and intelligence are correlated. Youd be okay with dating/marrying a 6/10 that makes good money and isnt crazy?

[ISHGoat]

#2 as long as she's not hideous or disproportionate

She wont be hideous or anything but she also isnt the type youd initially be super proud about when showing her pictures off to your friends.

[ISHGoat]

That means she's hideous.

Not really?? Shed be average or maybe slightly above average. Cos ISHers are 6'3, 8% body fat, 6 figure salary, alpha males that can pull super hot bitches, or slightly above average wifey material bitches.

[ISHGoat]

I'm still in my late teens so women that will grow up to be ugly are at their peak stage of attractiveness at my age.

I think by the late teens most people will not change much physically. Maybe some dudes start lifting and get a nice body. Maybe some fat ****s lose a lot of weight and make their face attractive. For the most part, I think people are what they are by 20, in terms of looks.

I think youre right in terms of "women that will grow up to be fat". Lots of girls are still fit by late highschool and early university. Then those girls let themselves go and become whales that the guys look back on and go "WTF"

[CelticBaller]

ass

[Jameerthefear]

ass
T-H-I-S

[highwhey]

T-H-I-S
If ass was wealth, all the girls you like would be in debt

[Jameerthefear]

If ass was wealth, all the girls you like would be in debt
all my hoes got ass wtf

[highwhey]

all my hoes got ass wtf
You finally evolved and started liking real women? :cheers:

[Jameerthefear]

You finally evolved and started liking real women? :cheers:
when have i not? :biggums:

[TripleA]

all my hoes got ass wtf


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[sundizz]

In order of importance:

Tier 1 (when I first meet them)
1. Skin flush, energy, vibrancy
2. Eyes
3. Speaking voice and general tonality (need a fun/uplifting person to be around)
4. In shape + healthy habits

Tier 2 (once I've been with them, to see if it'll go on)
5. Regular intelligence (e.g., we could play board games and it'd be fun)
6. Genetics (height, family history, etc). This ties into tier 1 of course.
7. Ability to move forward in life (e.g., mature, compromise, understand me, handle stress)

Tier 3
8. Financial intelligence (i'll earn scrills neways...as long as she can find a fulfilling career doesn't matter the salary career im good).

[raprap]

All iwant from a girl:

Attractive
A good cook
Submissive

[BasedTom]

ass
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[masonanddixon]

Honestly the best trait a woman can possess is being athletic. Women age and their faces change but they can control their fitness. And it's hot seeing a girl who looks good running. Most women look awkward as hell trying to perform any sort of fitness and it's a turn off.

[iamgine]

Physical attractiveness

or

All forms of attractiveness that is not physical. This means emotional stability, finances, social class/ family background, intelligence, humor, interests, etc.

And I'm not pitting two girls that lie on extremes. Im not talking about a 10/10 babe that is rock dumb, cant hold convo, etc. I am talking about the more general cases where girls that are physically attractive tend to lack in other areas, and girls that have a lot of their shit going for them tend not to be the biggest stunners. Which would you prefer to date?
Preferably an attractive girls with lacks that complements you.

i.e I don't mind girls who can't/have no interest to cook because I eat outside all the time but a lot of men want their girls to cook for them at least some of the time.

[UK2K]

Physical attractiveness

or

All forms of attractiveness that is not physical. This means emotional stability, finances, social class/ family background, intelligence, humor, interests, etc.

And I'm not pitting two girls that lie on extremes. Im not talking about a 10/10 babe that is rock dumb, cant hold convo, etc. I am talking about the more general cases where girls that are physically attractive tend to lack in other areas, and girls that have a lot of their shit going for them tend not to be the biggest stunners. Which would you prefer to date?

Most important thing in my eyes, from having 3 relationships 3+ years over the last 10 years or so...

1) She must be easy to get along with. Im talking best friend material. My girlfriend now cooks, and cleans, and picks up, and watches football, and plays fantasy football with me. We've got tickets to the Pacers/Bucks tonight, she loves to gamble and drink and decorate for holidays. She's the perfect little housewife in a little bundle.

2) She has to be attractive. I say this because, once you are dating for that long, it can become stale. My last girlfriend had the body of a model (not kidding, 6 pack, big titties, perfect ass, about 5'2") and at the time, I took it for granted, but now I know (thanks to snapchat) that physical attractiveness is important. The more attractive your girl is, the less you will wander off. Work out together if you want, its a nice couples activity, but neither of you should ever let yourself go, cause it'll turn south real quick.

3) She has to be independent. My girlfriend now depends on me for everything around the house, but she has her own friends, and does her own thing, and we meet up at the house later. Its important you dont get a clinger, cause you will get tired of her clinging at some point. I know this from experience, it will get old.

What I am saying is, the best girls have great personalities and are basically one of the boys in public, but a loving housewife type at home. That's when you know you've hit the jackpot.

As for what I look for first? Smile. Smile first. Because no matter what happens, her smile will always stay the same. So fall in love with a smile before anything else.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

There was one girl I briefly dated who was very physically attractive but got out of shape (could lose 10-15 pounds or so) but I really liked who she was as a person and I overlooked that. Long history with her, most of it turn sour after we grew apart. We haven't even spoken face to face in about 4 years I think and online or through text in over 2 years. I still have slight feelings for her but due to our history, I know there's 0% chance we rekindle even as friends.

But on the other hand, I once was very attracted physically to a girl who was a friend's former ex. To this day, I wish they never dated because we had this weird tension between us. Kind of like we want to get to know each other but we don't want to hurt my friend, her ex. She has hinted in the past that she wanted to get to know me better but understood why I was hesitant to make a move. I didn't want to risk losing a friend over some girl I only knew very little about. Personality wise, she was quirky and different.

Both of these girls had very strong personalities and were independent thinkers. They weren't followers if that means anything.

I do admit to have wanted to date a girl back in high school only because she was physically attractive. Personality wise, she wasn't at all what I was looking for. She turned me down though but it didn't really hurt because it was only a physical attraction.

[ISHGoat]

There was one girl I briefly dated who was very physically attractive but got out of shape (could lose 10-15 pounds or so) but I really liked who she was as a person and I overlooked that. Long history with her, most of it turn sour after we grew apart. We haven't even spoken face to face in about 4 years I think and online or through text in over 2 years. I still have slight feelings for her but due to our history, I know there's 0% chance we rekindle even as friends.

But on the other hand, I once was very attracted physically to a girl who was a friend's former ex. To this day, I wish they never dated because we had this weird tension between us. Kind of like we want to get to know each other but we don't want to hurt my friend, her ex. She has hinted in the past that she wanted to get to know me better but understood why I was hesitant to make a move. I didn't want to risk losing a friend over some girl I only knew very little about. Personality wise, she was quirky and different.

Both of these girls had very strong personalities and were independent thinkers. They weren't followers if that means anything.

I do admit to have wanted to date a girl back in high school only because she was physically attractive. Personality wise, she wasn't at all what I was looking for. She turned me down though but it didn't really hurt because it was only a physical attraction.

I want my girl to have this. I'm told that I have a very strong personality; is it possible for me to get along with a girl like that? My last relationship started out with a girl like that, but then she became more submissive to me and stopped being strong and independent. Eventually the relationship fell apart because of that and we broke up. Is it possible for me to have a harmonious relationship with a strong-willed woman?

[NBAplayoffs2001]

I want my girl to have this. I'm told that I have a very strong personality; is it possible for me to get along with a girl like that? My last relationship started out with a girl like that, but then she became more submissive to me and stopped being strong and independent. Eventually the relationship fell apart because of that and we broke up. Is it possible for me to have a harmonious relationship with a strong-willed woman?

It's weird because it's one of the main reasons why the first girl I talked about and I didn't get along. She was quite stubborn, even more than me. She was very strong-willed and despite losing some physical attraction, a lot of guys used to find her attractive (she was out of my league but I somehow caught her attention for a brief time).

I think with maturity, you can have a harmonious relationship with a strong willed woman.